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Oh honeyโฆ Iโm 23 and last year I went through a HORRIBLE breakup. Weโd been together since I was 13-14, before we even had words for what we were. Nobody who hasnโt been in a long-time relationship can understand how the transition from โusโ to โmeโ can literally feel like dying. I wish you all the healing in the world. You are going to survive this โก
@rozingka_slice_of_life ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
Thank you for watching my vlog with tons of tears. I canโt imagine how much you were hurting and shocked when 10-11 years relationship came to an end. Hope you feel better now ... ๐ For a long time, we always shared our biggest life moments together and I strongly believed our relationship is too special to break up. Im so sad this thing happened in the end ... Im still trying my best to accept the fact that he give up โourโ future and decide to move on to "his ownโ future (This is such a pain just like what you said) But I know this pain we endure now will be the โgood old daysโ for sure in somedays so lets survive together ๐ฅ๐ฅThank you for sweet comment ๐
@Haydon2020 ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
Hey, do you feel better now?
@ChildofEden9610 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
perfectly said, 8 years down the drain and it felt like i was dying. And every now and again itll slip into my head and hurts but honestly it was for the better.
@thelegacyofgaming292810 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
You never forget your first ๐ฉ
@VikVaughnMISC9 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
Women get over breakups extremely fast. You have moral support from friends and you don't have to work at all at getting new relationships. Men end themselves over breakups.
Itโs crazy how this video popped up on my feed when I needed it the most. Going through a break up now, we were together 8 years, 22-30 years old and I feel lost like you said but Iโm back in school achieving my goals and dreams and finally re-discovering my purpose in life :) hope you are doing well! If you see this comment please let me know how you are doing
@mewmew113210 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
what as her ex name>?
@thelegacyofgaming292810 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
Wow, that's a lot of time that you could've spent finding the right person. I hope all ends well
@me.978010 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
This might be personal, but how did you know what you wanted to go to school for? I want to make a change in my life and actually have a career, but I'm so confused about what to choose to study..
@waifujenn10 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
@@me.9780 I figured it out by traveling & exploring new hobbies. I wrote down what I love to do & tried to find a career path that incorporates those things I love. Hope that helps!
@perc-ai9 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
u are dum for not staying with him lol you gave him ur best years
It took me 3 months to move away from crying every single day and feeling like death. 3 whole months. The first month was awful and then you feel numb. Then you will slowly start feeling like yourself. Hang out with friends and do things you once loved to do when youโre by yourself. Self care. Looking back now I donโt think I couldโve made a happier and better decision for myself. You will get through it โค
I was sad because I'm already single for 3 years and just can't find a serious guy that would genuinely fall in love with me. I clicked this video for no specific reason and while it made me remember all my breakups and the tears that I lost, it (ironically) also made me happy. The second you stop crying, go outside and show us that amazing fresh and sunny view I just felt so relieved, peaceful and free!!! Yes sometimes we lose people and sometimes we can't even find them for a long time, but being single, free and wondering about "who's going to be the next, who is the one?" is so exciting!!!!! We are in our journey and the journey itself is as much amazing as the final goal.
It will pass! This does not last forever. Although, it's been 11 months now, I hope that it has improved significantly. Even if you still find it painful at times, just know that each time it does hurt, the time of normalcy you feel in between those moments, will get longer and longer... and soon you will feel the pain no longer :)
Here, you are the brave girl. So you are a student at 30 . You are rearranging and planning your future. I know it hurts to go through all the processes and accept the reality of life. Nothing is easy .. age, friends, situation or anything not going to be the same but remember you got yourself now. You are stronger already by sharing to us your life and making us strong with it. We are here and sending loads of love and hugs. Anytime you get us your friends here.
@rozingka_slice_of_life ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
Thank you dear Im so happy and grateful for your message and thank you for being sweet friend ๐๐ฅน๐ Hope you have happy Christmas and happy new year โค๏ธ
@pjm7271 ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
@@rozingka_slice_of_life love yourself. New year new resolutions, new you. Let's live a better life. You live your dreams now.
I am a guy but so difficult seeing you cried like that, make me wanna cry along. Things will be hard but I believe you have the strength to pull through. Keep doing things that make you feel nice and calm..that is all I know after broking up with my gf few months back.
thank you, so much for this video โค my ex ended 3.5 years. itโs been one month since then and i needed this video. it was very comforting ๐
@cloudslady340010 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
Youโre courageous for crying the first days itโs so important to vent all those emotions outโฆpain has a way of convincing us it will last but thatโs a lieโฆit will pass and soon after you wonโt remember how painful it feltโฆtime is magic..thank you for sharing๐ค๐ค
Hey! I know itโs been 11 months, and I donโt usually leave comments on KZbin, but I just want to check up on you and see how youโre doing! Breakup sucks but I believe time will heal! P/s: Itโs kinda crazy how you managed to maintain your long distant relationship for such a long time. I think itโs time to get a guy close by so he can treat you like a queen every day!
@rozingka_slice_of_life10 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
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@soonsuicidal10 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
โ@@rozingka_slice_of_lifehope youre doing well now. Experiencing this as we are almost 9years but he decided that we arent growing together. Sad is an understatement as there are times that I cant cry anymore but my chest is already throbbing with pain. I dont what future holds for all of us that were left alone, but one thing is for sure. Time heal all wounds. Good luck to all of us and may we continue to reach our goals even without that person..
@goldenhourss ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
havenโt had relationships that lasted that long but i empathize with you.. you are strong and your feelings are valid๐ค๐ค๐ฅบ๐ฅบ
my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me last week. we were also long distance, and he broke up with me all of a sudden. all of the promises, future planning, and just having them in your life comes to a sudden end and that's what makes it so hard to process and get through. i was crying throughout this video, because i understand what you are going through. now we chose ourselves, and give ourselves the love we deserve. thank you for sharing such vulnerable moments so that the heartbroken can relate and know that they are not alone. stay strong and sending you lots of love and healing ๐
I'm so so sorry. I broke up with my ex of 5 1/2 years back in July, and knew him since I was 14. Seeing you so heartbroken in the beginning made me cry along with you. I promise you it will get better over time, and I know that pain and loneliness is so difficult, but I promise you, you will heal, grow, and flourish. After my breakup, i learned so much on my worth and self love. I realised he held me back because of our constant arguing. I recently got accepted into a medical assistant program, cut my hair very short, and work out. It gets better. We may not know each other at all, but I'm sending you such a big hug and the best of luck for your studies! โก much love.
I know it's painful ...it like take forever to go away. It ok to cry... let it all out. Put all your memories behind. So way you can look forward bright future. If you ever feel down ... fight it and stay strong and think more positive. Praying for you to have wonderful life .
this is why i prefer to stay single, nothing lasts forever. even the people who are head over heels for each other end up breaking apart.
@aliaayahya239 ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
I met my ex-bf on 2008 when I was 19. We become official on 2009. We studied abroad in the same Uni.I always with him throughout my undergrad journey. He supported me mentally & emotionally. Then I graduated on Aug 2014. Instead of went back to my hometown I waited for him until his graduation on Jan 2015. Then we both coming home for good. 2015 the start of our long distance relationship after 6years together. We lived in different states. Everything was ok at 1st. But after both of us start working. Getting busy. We grew apart. 2017 I heard he getting married just few months after I said lets take a break. 1week before he got married I remember we talk for 8hours. That was the last time I talk to him. On Jan 2018 he married another women. 9years of knowing him. Currently Iโm 33. Unmarried. Single. Never had relationship after him.
@RayMak10 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
Usually the 7th year is a curse
@AriEllePhilia10 ะฐะน ะฑาฑััะฝ
thank you for making this video and sharing your vulnerability with us. I was in a similar situation this summer. Blindsided by breakup....also doing long distance, also 5.5 years together and im 1 year younger than you. Trying to finish up my studying that will take 2 years or so. We're giving it one more chance but now I know I can be ok just looking at your progress and strong will. You're an amazing person!
Although this video was suddenly recommended on my feedโฆ Iโm leaving few words of consolation with the hope that you will find some solace in them. My mom used to say if you put a coin close to your eyes it will seem so big that youโll notice only that coin but if you put a distance further away from your eyes, you will realise how small the coin actually was. Right now, the end of precious memories of your life youโve spent with that person for so many years will make you so weak that you feel like everything has crumbled down but as time passes, your wound will slowly but surely heal and the same memories will later look like a small part of your big journey that will shape you, make you stronger and better in the future. I send you my warm hug in this cold weather and wish you a good healing ๐ ํ๋ด์ธ์~ ํ์ดํ !~~
@rozingka_slice_of_life ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
Pooh Ja Thank you for listening my story and heartwarming comment (Even in Korean๐) Mom is always correct ๐๐ป I believe my coin will be gradually changed to small enough to put in my old and precious wallet I no longer use haha โจ ์ ๋ง ๊ณ ๋ง์์!!!!
@hazelnutlatteyum ะัะป ะฑาฑััะฝ
@@rozingka_slice_of_life ์๋์์~ I am glad to know that you are doing well. I wish you all the best~ Hope you have a Merry Christmas and a very happy new year!๐๐
I canโt imagine something like this happening to me. When I ended my relationship I was shattered and it wasnโt even 6 years long. Wishing you recoveryโค