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[@VstylezV]

ABSOLUTELY EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE!!!!!!! Probably forever!!! You have to be strong enough to play with him then bounce!!!

[@biancam2327]

Right

[@coldblooded568]

Cam is that guy that women both love and hate. When youre together, he's respectful, kind, calm, safe and generous. HOWEVER, youll hate him because after all that (and a night of sex) he wil become busy and detached, leaving you wondering what the heck happened to the guy who was opening doors for me?

[@outsidethebox8406]

💯I know that type all too well

[@Justlikethat555]

I see a lot of ladies are ignoring the reds flags here. That's exactly why women end up heartbroken in the end. Look beyond the looks and charm. Sheesh!

[@Rhenadhis]

Some are even talking about how they are sapiosexual and this stimulated them🤣🤣🤣🤣 Here ✋🏾 is a sapiosexual who listened with both her head and her heart and the comment I left was ruuuuun ladies, run.

[@Mya_water]

@@Rhenadhislisten!! 😂😂😂

[@Rhenadhis]

@Mya_water gurl I don't know how we can hear very different things from the same person yet here we are🤣🤣🤣

[@outsidethebox8406]

I said the exact same thing!!! Women need to pray for better discernment if they couldn't see this guy's million red flags.

[@MsSwankie10]

He is a time waster. Men like that will know your intentions, know that they don't have that openness to offer you nor do they intend to ever consider you seriously, and just use you up. I don't care about his roundabout excuses, in real life men like that will say whatever hoping you'll drop them because they're to cowardice to cut it off and stop wasting your time.

[@JustMe-ug3mk]

Well, if someone tells you he can't offer you what you want and you hold on, whose fault is that? At what point should women take accountability?

[@sufi8903]

​@@JustMe-ug3mk perpetual victims..

[@ToOpen6seven]

@@JustMe-ug3mk Exactly!!

[@ldyrck]

​@@JustMe-ug3mkthey still not getting it...smh

[@HighVibe001]

@@JustMe-ug3mk exactly! someone doesn't waste your time without you allowing that to happen!

[@VstylezV]

He pretty much has a take it or leave it attitude! He actually doesn’t want a relationship period! Had no business on the show!

[@Alyssa-ux8ke]

I think he's extremely intelligent and what he said makes all the sense in the world. AND ALSO he shouldn't have done the show if he didn't have the time. I know this show was not paying him like that.

[@cloudnine2952]

He spent hardly any money on himself . Personal hygiene and non on Zadia. A few burned pancakes in some old skillets don't count. I can't listen or watch him . Reminds me of the IT. I'm out.

[@Mya_water]

@@cloudnine2952the IT? 😂😂😂

[@datingdiaries1681]

Cam is a typical player lol we see you Playa Cam we get it lol

[@MsKamih]

Wow interview was longer than Cams entire time on the show.. 🤣 Thank you KoJo

[@VeeC_U]

I feel Cam heart will expand when he considers a woman an asset, not a liability. Someone who understands his drive and willing to get in there and help while having fun. In return, she will reap the benefits. Balance is everything.

[@gogogadget3413]

We often hope this because we want to see a silver lining but it's just not true. People show up as they are anywhere they go. Cam talks about his ex that he saw as an asset and they were aligned in finances, in goals, in temperament and he still was closed off to her. There is no magical woman that will make a man change. And thinking this way puts the onus on women to be perfect instead of men to be equal partners.

[@jaejae444]

​@@gogogadget3413👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾☝🏾

[@Quoteablemoments]

Cam is focused and sees the vision with his career, but has no vision with relationship. He has no accountability with relationships

[@Freeyourself01]

Ladies you have to pick a struggle! Do you want a man that's focus on his path to success in order to provide for family, or just relationship entirely. 😏

[@lynnmoses5509]

​@@Freeyourself01seriously he being able to provide financially doesn't make him the ideal partner. Just means he can compensate for everything else he lacks with money.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

He totally glossed over your point about therapy. He definitely needs to learn about balance. He mentioned about getting money, but never about giving back. I wish him all the best, but he definitely needs to learn balance.

[@sufi8903]

He will he has time unlike us women and our biological clock...

[@elizabethbanks8484]

He did say he needed to learn balance

[@zeezee990]

Cam is attractive and seems like an all around good guy.. but he’s the reason I avoid dating guys under 40.. I think he enjoys being a Bachelor

[@shirleenfaku5156]

An all round good guy huh? 😂😂

[@RaeDee1111]

Over 40 ain't better. He seems to have an avoidant attachment style. There's a lot of 40+ Cams out there. And they got there by acting like this in their 30s.

[@RonaldInSainety]

I would agree. He’s in a great position to know himself that honestly.

[@soniapowell9799]

Money is Cam top priority!! Taking him away from the money God is a problem for him. Cam doesn't want to make room for nobody else at this point in his life. He will be an awesome person to be with once he gets comfortable with his financial situation. I think Cam has a fear of being broke or not having enough.

[@iloveme567]

He let us know who he is: a strategist. This says it all. He has the ability to see you, figure you out and respond and react accordingly.

[@sba_southafrica]

Well done Kojo - you were able to present to your audience the Best of Cam! You gents would do well inspiring young men: 1. Is money security or freedom? - Cam nailed the response ✅ Robert Kiyosaki inspired - Financial Wellness 2. What makes a man be of value to his family and community? Kojo's Masterclass ✅✅ Fantastic conversation!

[@oliviaroseQGTM]

He still has that bad Tyler Perry movie wig hair. Uggg something about those dreads.

[@KS-hi8vi]

EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE is who Cam is. When a man can’t tell you why his relationships didn’t work you can be assured HE IS THE PROBLEM. Kojo OWN should hire you to talk to these men cause you would know straight away who’s ready and who isn’t. Cam wasted his time and Zadia’s. He got the woman he said he wanted and that didn’t work. Ok he doesn’t know that he’s not supposed to tell the audience that OWN has a Dr. that will write you a fake letter to get off work. The fact that he’s just talking non stop and not recognizing what shouldn’t be shared is shocking. He talks a lot about money. He will ALWAYS be chasing $$$ or his tail. He’s exhausting and I’m not sure he’s trustworthy.

[@sharb888]

So very well said Cam is a Time Wasta I understand people saying that Zadia should have known but he was also disingenuous…smiling every time Zadia said she would keep him around, I wouldn’t trust him either that’s what an avoidant will do to you

[@Domeysweetheart]

Personally, I don’t think Cam wants to be in a relationship I truly feel in my heart that he’s in love with money, and that’s his only priority

[@Rhenadhis]

@Domeysweetheart this right here, this comment is the reason why I am baffled by the people who only bash Zadia but have all love for this man. His only love is money, we heard on the show and we've heard it here so the question is why does he front like he wants love in a human and goes on a show to "find" love and then behaves the way he did and breaks someone's heart?! SMH

[@Mya_water]

@@Domeysweethearthe has made his work and money is worth and identity and it’s truly sad

[@Domeysweetheart]

@@Mya_water agreed! he isn’t ready For a relationship he will never see the value

[@BeautyNBrains86]

I think he's smart, but he lacks emotional intelligence and is emotionally unavailable. I would get exhausted listening to him constantly talking about his job. He's here for a good time. Some of his responses to questions were bizarre or a deflection. That one question about asking ppl about their past & he talked about his mom dealing with that. What?

[@luminouscali]

Yea Im not fooled by him either. Now we never have to hear about his career again! Thats all he cares about.

[@Kris_is_a_Ten]

Lol he’s a Capricorn 😬♑️

[@BeautyNBrains86]

@krisisaten4403 I've never dated a Capricorn or know details about them lol. I'm learning now

[@Kris_is_a_Ten]

@@BeautyNBrains86 lol I am one and I haven’t dated a male Cap… in my experience they can be a lot to deal with… cons can be moody, controlling, very money, power, and career driven, stubborn and a-holes in general… pros: often attractive, intelligent, can be generous, disciplined and driven. lol who am I kidding that’s all of us 😆♑️💜

[@BeautyNBrains86]

@@Kris_is_a_Ten 😂😂

[@Love11904]

That evil smirk at the end of the reunion says everything I need to know..

[@ebbyf294]

I pray no one ever takes one moment in your life and judges your entire character with it. Have a good one

[@yobiwolrd07]

Exactly

[@Love11904]

@@ebbyf294I’m not judging his entire character..

[@cloteamack428]

I caught that too. I did not like it, and to me, it confirmed the fact that he led her on (he did not leave when he should have) to improve his business.

[@mechelle230]

@cloteamack428 when did he lead her on cause on several occasions he told her that he didnt have time and she kept keeping him around….

[@sweetjanejonez]

Seen one phony, seen em all. Like I said, I hope you made him cut you a check to be here because he's just trying to promote himself and his businesses. 👋🏾

[@jacks4009]

Tbh I'm a Capricorn and he giving F boy energy. Caps are direct when we say something we stand on business, him saying he was too busy then showing up is not cap behaviour

[@Anti-democratChick]

When he didn't want to talk about his past was a "red flag!" That man is the problem. Single for more reasons than one.

[@YoooitsB]

In general, I don’t always agree with everything Kojo says(though I agree with the majority), but he is a reminder of what it looks like when you walk passionately in your gift. He doesn’t just ask questions he digs so deep. I would imagine everyone he interviews has to go inward after it’s over. They have to leave with so much valuable information about themselves because hell, I learn about myself through these interviews. I feel like this is the only place I ever really comment. Kojo is gifted, it’s in him, not on him!

[@blackqueen67]

Yesss Kojo is very good with the interviews. I really like the interview with Tabari how He found out about his life and his character and didn't just jump in about the show!! He's really good

[@droosyg252]

Absolutely gifted!

[@islandbunny29]

The fact Cam chose to land in the US says a lot about his personality. He’s not a risk tracker, and prefers to remain focused on the known where he’s most comfortable. This also shows in how responded to the show.

[@missbettyboop2509]

Why did Can sign up for the show?? Im confused

[@zoeb3639]

I agree . He seems nice but ….. the show is called , Ready to Love ! He said, he was “super single “. That does not sound like a man that is ready to settle down . I don’t like the way he treated Zadia but she was ignoring all the screaming red flags 🚩. He is accountable for coming on A show called Ready to Love talking about he does not have time …. I’m sure he knew he was busy ( code for I don’t want you)before he came on the show . Zadia is accountable for ignoring the Red flags .

[@missbettyboop2509]

​@zoeb3639 he eventually answered..I think the biggest issue is that, this is really a TV production and they seek out people or "stars" who wld make for good TV not necessarily people who.wld be "ready to love"

[@sufi8903]

​@@zoeb3639there were no red flags with Cam, he was pretty clear where he stood we just didn't like it.. Most men on these shows pretend until the cameras stop rolling.. He stayed because she needed him on the show for the ending..like he said they could've attempted off camera..

[@goldiejomanifest8447]

To promote photography business

[@zoeb3639]

@@missbettyboop2509 I agree.

[@christine2952]

He doesn’t have time for emotional connections but can have physical connections. BS … And he is full of himself!!!!

[@biancam2327]

Right..he got time for this 3 hour interview talking about nothing

[@amby3805]

He seems like a nice and intelligent guy that just hasn’t met the right person

[@Quoteablemoments]

Kudos to LBB on the psychoanalysis of Cam- you did great!!!! I’ve encountered a few emotionally unavailable individuals and Cam is textbook. I agree with you 💯. Thank you for pouring into the brother and helping him understand his value does not come from success

[@dskye2634]

Please everyone help the Brother out and 'like the video... he puts out good content.... please show your appreciation (I don't know him personally)

[@naturalgirldiy]

Cam was never ready. He shouldn't have been on the show. Like so many people who come on these shows He probably thought of it as a marketing opportunity. I think He liked Zadia but wasnt looking for a relationship.

[@datingdiaries1681]

He treats relationships like a business transaction. He will likely only be drawn to an aloof woman who doesnt really care about him. Thats who this type always falls in love with.

[@Sdotwillyums]

This was a great conversation. There was a part of me that was wanting it to be longer. As a therapist, I’m not gonna say that Cam isn’t dismissive avoidant, however I think it’s important to ask questions related to every attachment before landing on one that’s most familiar. This helps reduce confirmation bias and allows for more robust conversation regarding all relational experiences. People show up differently in all relationships and sometimes we can focus on one relationship where the person was dismissive/ anxious/ secure and end up diagnosing too quickly.

[@Kris_is_a_Ten]

As a fellow therapist, I agree- although I think it’s fair to say that Cam does present patterns of behavior consistent with that attachment style. It is true that’s there’s overlap within insecure attachment styles and it can be skewed to some degree by relational dynamics

[@Rhenadhis]

💯

[@sifonmedua6310]

Oh my gosh! It was so frustrating watching the conservation around money and emotions. Cam wasn’t even listening to what Kojo was saying…he wanna talk about assets and investments. Lawd have mercy. I feel like Cam thinks that there can always be a “better” woman out there and that is why he never commits. The same way he is chasing financial status is the same way he is thinking about women. He will never be satisfied. He is always going to strive for more financially and strive to find the next best thing when it comes to a woman. Good luck to him.

[@newtendai]

Really intelligent man. For a sapiosexual like me this was a treat. All the best Cam!

[@Anti-democratChick]

Does that mean a person can be attracted to anyone that's "intelligent?" And doesn't consider gender?

[@Kris_is_a_Ten]

@@Anti-democratChick yes

[@Kris_is_a_Ten]

@@Anti-democratChick not to be conflated with sexual orientation it’s just that sapiosexuals are attracted to knowledge and intellect in an individual/potential mate

[@WilliamsPinch]

So cringey when women say this lol. And it turns men off

[@regina7494]

Cam is such a nice guy but he is nice to everyone. Some women would misread his kindness as him being interested in them.

[@loveyours4685]

That’s what I’m seeing

[@WilliamsPinch]

You’re blind if all you see is a nice guy 😏

[@farrahstuckey4591]

Arrogant

[@epiphanyarina366]

He’s so fugazi 😂

[@marquettadavis2990]

Great interview! Cam is in a relationship already and is deeply in love. He is in love with being a boss and acquiring passive income. His self worth is enmeshed with his financial worth.

[@thealchemist333]

Overall I think he may be a good guy with good intentions. I don't think he's as innocent as he plays, the way he treated Zadia at the reunion and I most def think he likes to promote his business whenever and wherever I think somewhere he equates how much love he'll receive and his personal value with his financial status. He seems to have a pattern of self sabotage in his most memorable relationships as far as being with a woman who is just as accomplished as himself. The creator/rapper and the tennis player. He was unsure of his value in the relationship since they seemed more successful at the time and assumed they would diverge, so he threw in the towel and let them know he wouldn't hold them back and for them to do their thing. So he bows out easily Neither woman knew they were so significant, because he didn't really show it or fight for the relationship as it crumbled. He was confused as to the emotional reassurance they needed, just like this interview. Anything emotional has a financial equivalent. He needs to get out of his head and into his heart Maybe him being an only child still has him in that space of not knowing how to share and enmesh his life and his partner's. He sees them as two bamboo growing together but individually. Anyone who tries to push a little further will be seen as a threat to what he has going on. His mother and father sound great as far as teaching their son to secure a future for himself financially. I believe that may have been so much a priority, that he doesn't understand becoming one emotionally with another. I don't think people have to paint Zadia as a loser or a bad person, because these two didn't work out. He's very complicated and doesn't see his repeated patterns or shortcomings, whereas Zadia now knows she needs to trust her intuition and keep it moving regarding unavailable men It's a learning lesson for both of them. I think it will take Cam losing someone he really loves and getting his heart broken, before he changes

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Great comment. He definitely needs someone who is like minded and probably an only child.

[@RaeDee1111]

So accurate! I hope he sees this comment and decides to get help if he truly wants a relationship.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

Nailed it.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

​​@@condesabeatriz9303 Only children are in the 1% of the world. Most ppl have at least 1 sibling. We're not all like this at all. I wouldnt date an only as 1. His parents split too and sounds like be never got emotional support. There are only children whose parents are still married (like me) & were taught empathy, emotional intelligence and given emotional support. He intellectualizes everything and compartmentalizes his emotions. He doesn't try to understand the depth of his emotions like he does business and money. A lot of these men out here. I wish him the best.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

​@condesabeatriz9303 Once he deals with his emotions, he might be okay. He doesn't need an only child. Only children, we're rare anyway b/c the general population of the world has at least 1 sibling. Sounds like he didn't get the emotional support or learn emotional intelligence from both parents. Remember his parents split when he was young. It definitely shaped him. There are those of us only kids whose parents were married and got the love and emotional support and mastered empathy. I feel like someone broke his heart or he was taught his value solely is based on accomplishments and financial status. I wish him the best. He intellectualizes everything and compartmentalizes his emotions.

[@outsidethebox8406]

Yes definitely seems the parents pushed finances but forgot to teach him that affairs of the heart are just as important.

[@newtendai]

Congratulations Kojo! This was a great tennis match!!

[@LittleBlackBook91]

U deeped it and I love it

[@iloveme567]

😂😂😂

[@triciaalbert5539]

Yes. Zaria threw the picture. It happened so fast, the host and Matchmaker were talking and the camera moved in on Zamia and she kicked the picture across the floor.

[@baileyjohn5010]

Lmfaooo wtf

[@heyshaki6137]

Excellent job this conversation was so enjoyable to watch

[@cloteamack428]

Cam is intelligent, and because he is smart he knows how to manipulate his words. He knows what the audience needs to hear to deem him a "good guy." I don't demonize him. There are definitely parts of this process we were not privy to, however, there were more than enough opportunities to leave and prove himself to be a man of integrity. He keeps saying in the interview that he is about his business, and he's straightforward. While he did communicate that to Zadia, HE STAYED, and to me that conveys his true heart. Watch what he DID not only what he SAYS now.....

[@blackqueen67]

Great comments, the Men didn't have the opportunity to self eliminate. Cam said he asked Production about leaving and they said no because Zadia would be left without a Keeper. I believe if Zadia tried to get to know some of the other Guys things may have been different

[@June2U]

True! She was focused him only. I felt that the high school principle would have been more to her liking if she gave him a chance. I believe by him being a principal at a school it would’ve been easier for him to relocate

[@Jazzymea]

Kojo are you needed on these shows to really hold people accountable and to really get them to see themselves. I am only halfway through and I am loving every second of this interview! Keep the KZbin streets talking!!

[@IsceesMommy]

Cam went on this show to get exposure, and to continue his spiral of distractions so he can avoid himself and his emotional unavailability. No disrespect but I can sense that Cam is a liar. This is painful to watch for real. He contradicts himself several times throughout this interview, its making me want to rewatch and take notes. Wow 😳🤯

[@Mya_water]

I’m hiding in the comments to get through this so I can make a fair judgement but I don’t think I can get through it. He is vapid in my opinion

[@IsceesMommy]

@@Mya_water I could NOT get through the video before commenting! I tried so hard, hence why there’s several comments from me. 😂😂😂

[@Mya_water]

@@IsceesMommy 🤣🤣🤣 We tried!

[@IsceesMommy]

@@Mya_water we did!! Lol

[@WilliamsPinch]

Finally someone with decent vision in these comments 😂

[@advoc84life39]

I think a lot of the men on shows like this are simply chasing a platform to open up their dating options. Very few of these men have any real intentions of finding a partner for long term purposes.

[@IsceesMommy]

Also, the amount of times Kojo has asked us to behave ourselves in these comments, speaks volumes to me about what hes thinking about and throughout the interview (along with the facial expressions) lol.... we keeping it cute though!! 😉

[@shana_mcd]

Seems like he’s afraid of commitment

[@Mya_water]

Also, I don’t think he truly knows himself. He is very surface level

[@elizabethbanks8484]

@QueBrandon_Offical - You are exactly right. A Capricorn will NOT be moved until they are good and damn ready - FACTS

[@IsceesMommy]

He keeps referencing this realness that he believes he exudes and I'm seeing the total opposite. I hope he watches this back in its entirety and analyzes himself and how he answers these questions so long windily.

[@JLive-jt6jc]

New Orleans will be the group to call out fake production and tell people to wrap up production. This interview is more focused. Great interview once again.

[@cm9923]

😂not Cam saying he don’t like wild and crazy hair … the interview was great… he seems like a good guy.. respect to his self reflection and goals

[@awillis5307]

He is very smart, driven, and a hard worker. I can understand his passion

[@charronsmith1795]

Excellent Interview Kojo!!! It’s obvious the men prefer talking to another man about their experience on the show. In the real world Zadia and Cam wouldn’t have developed a relationship (as he mentioned) and the show couldn’t even force it. 😢

[@datingdiaries1681]

He's so right about just live in your purpose and the right person will come. Ladies get a life ..spot on

[@MsSwankie10]

But who said the ladies didn't have a life? There's nothing wrong with being open and proud about wanting lasting love; there isn't a one size fits all formula.

[@vazyvas4712]

Great interview! It does seem like Cam is new to being a boss. He talks like he is trying to sell us on the idea that he’s a boss. We believe you cam. I wish him well 🙏🏾

[@frenchryah221]

If he has to say it…

[@yolandap6521]

U got that right about seminar. And i was thoroughly confused.

[@Rhenadhis]

Smart women ruuuuun.That's it. That's the comment

[@loveyours4685]

💯

[@tonyayoung2678]

He is not ready for any relationship and that’s okay. It is all about him, he has the selfish trait.. He did not handle the finale good, he was not nice. I was ok with him being straightforward with Zadia during the episodes but he was rude on the finale, didn’t he create a friendship with her. I was disappointed with him

[@ebbyf294]

He wasn't nice because they weren't nice to him. They jumped on him after he was nothing but nice to all of them. If u back a dog into a corner, eventually he'll bite u

[@yobiwolrd07]

He needs to be more direct regardless of feeling being hurt!

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@ebbyf294 Are you related to him?

[@kerrymrexcitement5908]

Bro you read people so well great interview...they need to hire you to screen the cast that get picked for the show...real talk '

[@Mya_water]

Ooohh that’s a good idea!!

[@LittleBlackBook91]

bruddah thats love manne honestly

[@Fabulous2Me]

I agree. As he is building he is valuable. I made this mistake thinking "once I accomplish this next goal then i'll be happy" When I should have taken time to appreciated all the wonderful things I already accomplished.

[@CCollins807]

Powerful Insight❤❤❤

[@marnellwiley9931]

I am just shaking my head. Why do these so called men go on dating shows and are not ready for relationship but I blame us as women holding on to false hope of something that is nothing. SHE should have let this man go..😮

[@ellecee8745]

I appreciate a man who can articulate and understand his position in life. So many men feel the need to conform due to outside pressures and expectations. I love that he’s stern in his convictions. Cam should continue to focus on what’s important to him and that’s his career. Once he’s settled and ready he will make room for a life partner. As of now, he’s not ready! He’s still in the discovery phase and has yet to meet his person. SN: Zadia played herself the long way!

[@thealchemist333]

Nah, Zadia isn't missing out on anything. The joke is on the next woman who gets him 😅. He already said he has a trail of failed relationships Most men keep saying they want a woman who is kind, patient and supportive. Cam said Zadia was these things consistently, yet he switched to on her midway and all the men are clowning and demonizing her for not *READING THE SIGNS". Last time I checked, I thought he was grown enough to answer her truthfully, when she asked him several times directly did he want to end the relationship and he said no All this shows is that women don't need to waste their time in the trenches with a man building, if he isn't making time for her, because her efforts will go unappreciated

[@ellecee8745]

@@thealchemist333 I never said she was missing out. You’ll never “miss out” on something or something that’s not meant for you. I merely said she played herself. When a man tells you to date other men, sis .. just focus on you. She should’ve let go much sooner, but she held on hoping he would change his stance. At the end of the day, they weren’t a vibrational match for the long haul. Hopefully, they both grow from this experience, find their person and live happily ever after.

[@thealchemist333]

@@ellecee8745Let's not pretend he wasn't giving mixed signals. He led her to believe he wanted the relationship, but that he was freeing her to date other men IF she couldn't play the supportive role he needed at this time when he needs to prioritize his business That is different from, I'm not interested in you, move on . So he played her, by saying he didn't want to end the relationship when she kept asking directly. It is easy for a woman to deduce, that if a man is trying to build a business and he is asking her to sit back and be supportive, she may do so. That is exactly, what he presented as an option to her So now, women should just ignore men who say that and move on. This is a good example of women needing to just follow their intuition and not follow the man's lead He should not have been on that show. Not only is he not ready to be in a relationship, but he has a pattern of repeating this same BS with other women. As he said initially, he's a serial dater or something to that effect and he truly does a bait and switch And yes, it's obvious him and Zadia weren't a match, but he needs to be held accountable as well. He's not the great catch that people are painting him out to be

[@_CPerk]

Should out to Xavier University! My wife’s whole family went there…I should have known since he’s a pharmacist, they have a great pharmacy school.

[@BrandNubian548]

I hear Rihanna playing in the back ground WORK WORK WORK we're exhausted 😩

[@jacks4009]

He the only one making money lol

[@christine2952]

He just needs to grow up! When he finds that woman he wants, he will want to call them and let them come over whenever. Right now he’s on player mode. That’s all !

[@jessic9327]

Great interview!!!

[@LovelyJada216]

Kojo, you don’t miss! Another great interview. One thing about Cam for me is, of course, he’s an attractive man and an intelligent man (which is even better lol). I wonder how emotionally available he is though. He doesn’t present as someone who taps into his emotional space much. To be fair though, we only know the edited parts of him we saw on the show and now this interview, which of course is a representation of his public image. In any event, I hope all good things for him and that even beyond the success of his businesses, his life is fulfilled.

[@myles4stylewithmimi134]

Cam is not very good in articulating his feelings. He is uncomfortable with expressing his emotions. He is still dealing with his breakup.

[@sufi8903]

I think he just processes his feelings differently...open relationships, etc...he's careful not to offend the audience I think... If he was fully himself most women would've bashed him...

[@beentheredonethat6797]

The break up of his parents.

[@intreegme]

Cam is intelligent with a huge blindspot which you pointed out Kojo. He said he wants to build up his value so that he can be valuable (even to women) but what he doesn’t realize is relationships aren’t all about bringing $$/ financial freedom to the table. He won’t bring any emotional value to any future relationship if he hasn’t spent this time accessing his feelings/emotions because he’s too hellbent focusing on financial security. Women need emotional security too.

[@Quoteablemoments]

Cam is smart and he’s a cutie pie I can see letting your mind bamboozle you. It’s ok Zadia: game, RESET, then Match. You’ll be better for it now that this experience is under your belt

[@Mya_water]

Are you gen x by any chance?

[@Quoteablemoments]

@@Mya_water yes😂😊

[@angeserushyana-bettis4975]

Alright Cam! I like the transparency brother and the handsome does not hurt. 🔥🔥🔥

[@kamys6133]

I like Cam, but this was sad to me. He's never gonna be all in with a relationship until his finances are at a certain level. And I feel for whom ever that women is. Because if he's hit financially during the relationship, its like the "love" will go out the window!!

[@audreyamponsah4268]

I really enjoyed this interview and I liked Cam, he was real and authentic. Some gems dropped & he took on feedback well. Nice back & forth between you two! Great stuff keep it up🎉

[@anorahsmadison4682]

You never disappoint with your interviews.

[@hbbolton8924]

I pray he learns how to balance his busy life before entertaining another relationship or even worst children. Stay single and chase your dreams. You sir are unavailable!

[@datingdiaries1681]

He wasn't into Zadia and her wigs and makeup . He's really going to fall for an Erykah Badu earthy chick with natural hair. I gurantee you Zadia was never his " type " and if you find his exes you will likely find they are natural sisters.

[@zoeb3639]

I love your interview. It was interesting and funny.

[@mzslone162]

Not him and Zadia met 5 years ago 😅

[@jacks4009]

They met when girl??????

[@missbettyboop2509]

Yes..pls time stamp where this tea starts..😂😂😂

[@blueskiesclearwater]

​@@missbettyboop25091:42:50

[@mzslone162]

@@jacks4009 5 year ago , he was a photographer for her sorority. The time stamp is 1:42:52

[@jacks4009]

@@mzslone162 😂😂😂😂😂

[@duediligence7557]

How did he have time to do this interview? 😅...😊

[@kamandenjoki1069]

He has all the subtle red flags of a psychopath

[@biancam2327]

Right..the majority of men comments are women stating he a good guy. Just cause he speaks well and has a nice smile does not mean anything..dude plays too many games and is not it.

[@pearlinelowe3279]

I understand it from Cam perspective now, & I respect him from telling us about the producers & how they try to make it seem.🤔🤗👀

[@angelaharrison569]

Great interview! Enjoyed watching the openness and the brotherhood! Keep it up Kojo!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@fashionwithoutlabels]

1:27:21 Cam verbal communication says “i didn’t come on here for a therapy session” lmbo 😂😂

[@aishaa927]

Him saying ethnic women speaks volumes 😅.

[@ItsJustAThot]

He’s definitely a part of LLC Twitter and those people don’t know how to rest and enjoy life. That rant that went over his head about freedom vs security… Zadia dodged a bullet in my opinion

[@Mya_water]

LLC Twitter so accurate 😂😂😂

[@journeytoabetteru]

When people show you who they are and in this case SHOW & TELL you……. BELIEVE THEM‼️ I think SELF is most important to him in this season, it supersedes ANYTHING else. That’s great if you are NOT trying to be on a relationship but he came on the show he shouldn’t have done so in my opinion. Like one of the ladies said, they came open to the process and the men was just playing.

[@jennilei3900]

I’m not mad at Cam at all. I appreciate an intelligent man with substance and Not into the superficial aspects of a woman. And he’s upfront , honest , and humble enough to accept guidance and responsibility for his actions. I don’t see anything wrong with him personally. I enjoyed all 3 hours of this interview. Thanks Kojo.

[@Browneyes511]

Love your work Kojo! Cam seems nice..Great interview

[@liv_love_laugh4615]

Now that I know he's a ♑️, his behavior on the show makes sense. Once to much demands is placed on us, we gonna back up every time. It physically and mentally drained us and we mentally shutdown even if we show up in the physical. We plan everything ajead and once one thing (no matter how small) is out of order, we gotta re-plan to get things back in line. We don't present well but we have the best of intentions for ourselves and the people we allow in our space. Zadia is definitely not his person especially if she a ♊️ or a Cancer.♋️

[@tamianicoledoingme3007]

Why sign up for the show then.🤔

[@awillis5307]

Amazing break down of how he thinks, andthe connection self value and financials by the host

[@starmocha9027]

OMG It’s been awhile… the host has a new smile??!!!! I like it.

[@ahleebobba]

1,368 “you knows”

[@lauryjerry1566]

The good thing about Cam..He spoke his mind..Brilliant Guy !! I love Honest guys ..It was Zadia to grasp what the message was!!! DECODE THE MESSAGE 😂

[@datingdiaries1681]

Is he a Capricorn ? Hes giving strong Cap energy from the obsession with business to overthinking ..withdrawing and self sabotaging. I dont think Zadia gave him the " feels " like his ex who was a social content creator. He liked her as a temporary seat filler but she was never " the one ." Not a knock to her but thats why Kojo asked " does she give you the tingly feelings " his answe has always been NO.

[@jacks4009]

I'm a capricorn and we are very tunnel vision and cut throat.

[@kellireed5943]

Yes, he is definitely a Capricorn!

[@KarinHaysbert]

Exhibit A for why Queens don’t pursue men. 🤷🏽‍♀️The moment you have to chase and push…run in the other direction Sis.

[@lynnmoses5509]

Cam is too self-absorbed to build a life with anyone. It's all about his achievement, his businesses and that's it. He isnt gonna be loving on anyone anytime soon. He seems to think the greatest accomplishment in life is to work and make money the rest is optional and not that necessary.

[@datingdiaries1681]

His love and praise for his Mom and her sacrifice is top tier ❤. When he is ready to settle down I think he will make a good partner. Right now he is doing him. Can't be mad at that.

[@tiffanyadams2956]

We LITERALLY can. The man went on a show and intentionally tap danced on a girl ‘s heart to promote his dusty business! Son, c’mon. Lol. Too much.

[@shawna7227]

That filter/lighting yikes 😬

[@peaceminded5512]

He seems like a nice guy and what he’s saying is logical. However, the smile he cracked as he left the stage still isn’t clear. That looked bad.

[@sherilwray5559]

Kojo how come you didn't see when Zadia threw down the picture and it scrambled.

[@datingdiaries1681]

Sounds like he really wanted Verneisha .woot there it is loool