Rudest Kids In America | Dr. Phil

[@teenindustry]

To call your kid a mistake is asking for them to be difficult

[@blessedinpark]

The mother said that was not true

[@asciidude]

"She's taking it totally out of context" in what context is it okay to say that you hate your child?

[@akpuppy7]

YES!!! i dont care the reason you should never say you hate your child especially not to them or in front of them

[@sharonwoinarowicz]

The mother allowed it from day one.

[@dwaynesmith9482]

She just said she hates the way she acts. Did you guys not listen

[@RicheeBe]

She claims she only said that but daughter said she does

[@dwaynesmith9482]

@@RicheeBe that’s called hear say unfortunately. Why stuff like this doesn’t hold up in court

[@paulcarey9245]

My daughter at 14 was acting like this. So I sent her to a boarding school. She seen how bad other families are then ours didn’t look so bad. Came home with different attitude

[@BellaIsMyBaby]

If a child is lashing out, it's likely bc they feel something HUGE missing. Stooping to that level, makes me wonder how some of these PARENTS wonder why the child is acting out. It's not to say, ever condone bad behavior, but you don't make any bad situation better by acting in the way the other is. It's our job to try & get to the root of why it's happening & better bond with our youth, while still maintaining a sense of discipline. I understand it's tricky, but you won't maintain respect, ever, by verbal insults or yelling constantly.

[@sugarshamrock]

The second family has a weak, spineless and passive father and his wife is taking on the whole load. He doesn't want to be the bad guy at the cost of his marriage and family peace.

[@aya_and_kitties]

The father is delusional And he spoiled that boy a lot

[@bryank.vaughan4316]

That's a BIG part of the problem....parents have stopped being PARENTS and are trying to be friends with their children.

[@momfromnj911]

💯

[@sharonwoinarowicz]

@@bryank.vaughan4316 I disagree

[@bryank.vaughan4316]

@@sharonwoinarowicz Okay, you disagree.....AND?

[@kaylahenderson8169]

I totally agree. I am not my children’s friend. I am their mother and you do what you’re told when you’re told to do it or there’s consequences children have too much power these days with their disrespect and disobedience.

[@bryank.vaughan4316]

@@kaylahenderson8169 My turn to agree with you Miss Kayla, children DO have too much power. The Millennials are seeing their mistake as they are raising Generation Alpha, because their Generation Z children throw their hands up saying; "Ir's too hard!!!", "I'm SO over it!!!", "I have no Parent/Life Balance!!!". Myself, and the rest of Gen X, are simply sitting back, watching.....It would be hilarious, if it wasn't so TRAGIC.

[@kelsijodryer6348]

What should take 30 minutes takes 3 hours? How about, "thank you for raking for three hours"? Positive reinforcement.

[@freecountry3544]

I bet it didn't take 3 hours.

[@aya_and_kitties]

Poor girl she was just a scapegoat all her life to her family Her sister the golden child And her mother neglecting her And not to mention they are bullying her ffs

[@AnaleiaKate]

My sister is also the golden child... I fortunately found healthy outlets when I was a teenager instead of screaming at everyone all the time, which I wanted to do but I decided not to.

[@nickilee8757]

Mom blames everyone but herself. Mom she’s the problem not the child.

[@moniqueengleman873]

Definitely, Mom is the problem. She created this monster. I would be knocked into next week.

[@musiclifegage7370]

#2 the step mother had zero tears.

[@nancylovett2399]

Did you notice, she said my stepson, and the kid referred to her as just mom. Hmm..

[@lisayerry3694]

Mom’s the Problem

[@arieltaylor6070]

Exactly!!! She didn't raise her daughter and won't acknowledge she created this monster

[@bellamaldonado8114]

Poor daughter

[@julieford148]

I’m so glad my kids are past the adolescent stage and are now well balanced respectful adults. It was a hard slog sometimes but the louder you shout the louder they shout that’s what I’ve found out the hard way lol

[@cmarto]

No because this is so obviously this poor girl crying out for help. Shes not rude, shes hurt yo

[@iamjustsaying4787]

Yes, narcissist become frustrated and angry when they’re not getting their way. She’s learned that she can use her anger as a weapon and she’s gonna wield it ruthlessly

[@dews3340]

Child FREE thankfully 😂🎉😂

[@akpuppy7]

amen to that😭

[@BrooklynNinenine580]

Yay childfree gang

[@amandahammock5142]

They’re so worth it, but yes, being a parent is a massive responsibility.

[@moniqueengleman873]

It doesn't have to be this way. Every teenager is a raging hormonal monster. But in our family of five daughters, we never raised our voices. I was strict, manners, respect and consequences. They are all wonderful adults. But my children are "gentle parenting " and I don't say a single word. Even when one younger son, screams, hits, bites.....I just walk away. Those children NEVER MISBEHAVE with me. I made my intentions clear. I will not tolerate bullshite.

[@cheryl5994]

⁠@@moniqueengleman873 GREAT PARENTING & “SCREAMS, HITS & BITES” IN THE SAME SENTENCE?

[@muze2173]

Well as a mother you created that

[@tammyterrell1641]

This mother is a narcissist! It’s not ok to hate your own child! Despicable! 😡

[@dwaynesmith9482]

She said she hates the way she acts. That’s very reasonable with a spoiled brat like this

[@BellaIsMyBaby]

​​​@@dwaynesmith9482Where is the "spoiled" or "bratty" parts coming from? So u think an adult calling a child names, instead of helping find root causes will ever help? It's our job to teach our kids empathy, not causing more harm we're stooping to a level of low.

[@susantully1533]

This girls future is plane to see. She will never move put of her parents house because she will never be able to keep a job due to her attitude. She will probably be a single mother before she is 21 and the guy will leave and take the kid with him.

[@noambitton2307]

This girl’s gonna be some real big news story at some point unfortunately she’s a narcissist acting that way with her mom her sister teachers, random people, and then trying to play the victim. The second she goes on Dr. Phil by crying out.

[@WickedBoston444]

Brilliant Dr.Phil man had I not slowed myself down im life Id be working with Dr.Phil Producing & writing, Im naturally talented, trained & passionate about what he does having so much of the same ideas as him simultaneously. You enspire me Dr.Phil & you helped save me.

[@saradarv1161]

The second family- the step mom- she sounds pretty wicked and self-centred to me.

[@stephm5877]

Create the monster then blame the monster. Typical narcissistic parenting. The mom is a demon.

[@ChristineBlack-so7og]

Children are not born bad. This is the results of bad parenting. Parents need to remember that you are raising future adults and the bad behavior should not be rewarded. Its not so cute when they're acting like brats at 25.

[@RicheeBe]

This isn’t true so many kids born with behavior issues

[@jackiesable4372]

Family dinner one time per week?? That’s bizarre in itself

[@alexanderralph8341]

I agree, once a month is so much more reasonable. Maybe even once a year.

[@kaylahenderson8169]

Family dinner should be every night. I make it a top priority for my children to have family dinner together.

[@alexanderralph8341]

@@kaylahenderson8169 Family dinners aren't always feasible, especially when your children have their own friends. Like, let's say your children are eating out with their friends, but you're having a barbecue with yours, you'd have to have dinner separately in order for it to work out fairly for both of you. Or what if you can't agree on dinner?

[@natalie9884]

We all know anger is a secondary emotion 👌

[@civildk9077]

Hurt, fear and frustration. I've ALWAYS felt it's my job to 'back up' what the mothers' of my kids tell our children. It's NOT my job to do 'her' parenting, otherwise, SHE has NO authority. I"M THEIR AUTHORITY if they expect ME to do THEIR JOB as parents.

[@mollycoonce2361]

Be a parent not friend she would not talking if she my child you teach people how to treat you my mother never stood for sass talk

[@mollycoonce2361]

She wants respect then learn treat your mother better

[@islandyyt]

Thank God I don’t have kids.

[@kiab7557]

Parents are the problem for raising bad behavior kids. I have two myself and the consistency of disciplinary is a must as kids are selfish, narcissists, and test boundaries everyday.

[@OzDrDjObstruido]

This is what happens when you Stop discipline for Children. We have a whole generation of grown-ups who act like spoiled entitled idiots, who are now brining up their own children who will be more spoiled and entitled and lack any form of idea of Consequence of Action. The Doo-Gooders did this to us all, you reap what you sew.

[@corckyromano4187]

Little girl has a chronic anxiety problem

[@asciidude]

Definitely. There's got to be trauma given the small bit we've heard.

[@moniqueengleman873]

​@asciidude we all have trauma. No excuses. The Mom is the problem, and the daughter is a total brat. Master Manipulation

[@asciidude]

@@moniqueengleman873 There's no excuse for her behavior but I feel that calling a 14 year old girl revolting over an emotionally neglectful mother a brat isn't necessarily the best way to go about teaching respect.

[@suzannebarrow6464]

Children only behave how parents let them behave .

[@RicheeBe]

Well this isn’t true 😂

[@michaelorr2628]

Or how they see their parents behave, then grow up thinking that it’s normal, adult, mature behavior

[@kerryalfaro9437]

Her mother is a narcissist my mother was a narcissist so I know when I know a narcissist when I see one my mother used to berate me put me down my father molested me growing up and when I told her you allowed him to come back around and he hurt me he did things to me she looked at me and said you liked it my mom was sick severely mentally deranged warped and tainted she passed away last year October 2nd of 2023 what's the age of 67 my father was abusive to her she was the oldest daughter of 11 children she was the fourth oldest child but the oldest girl she paid her way through high school she paid her own tuition to go to private school parochial school she worked and worked from the age of like 11:00 until she couldn't do it anymore my mother had a very rough life childhood adulthood marriage everything she was abandoned she was alone and she died alone and I feel like she just built up so much hate animosity and then she just hated everybody hated the world she hated life and she took it out on on everybody her own siblings didn't talk to her end because their nieces and nephews we're really close when I was younger when we moved away from New York to Delaware for everything changed and not for the better 😢

[@Empoweredsane1]

I want to call Mr. Phil about something

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

You can't call him sorry.leave a email

[@rover5788]

His shows have ended some time ago, these are all reruns...now he's into other things.

[@QUEEN_Alpha_Mama86]

I been leaving emails since day I started watching Dr Phil, since 202I, and I ain't have any luck 😢, I think Dr Phil ans many other shows they hand pick who they want to help while other suffer badily, have bruises the size of a soft ball 😢 ony legs and back from my kids I've called many therapists and it has gotten worse😢😢😢😢 I've had law enforcement for help and nothin 😭, I pray things gets better cuz as a mom I feel one day I'm not guna be here cuz of the abuse 😢😢😢😢

[@Empoweredsane1]

@@perfectlyimperfect9129 careful I can be getting targeted

[@virgochild4216]

​@QUEEN_Alpha_Mama86 Abuse 😢from your children

[@ChefBev3030]

Send her to my country she will come brand new

[@isobelmcintosh8661]

Children learn by example, What kind of example have you been………it’s quite obvious not a good one. You have to set rules from the start

[@Gator_boy37]

Anybody know when this was filmed?

[@virgochild4216]

My question also!

[@nancymorris995]

It’s from 2004. I’d love to know how the kids are doing now and if marriages survived with all this stress!

[@Gator_boy37]

@@nancymorris995 oh ok well thank you bro 😎🫶🏼✊🏼🎄🎅🏼

[@glendahowes5905]

Try family dinner every night.

[@SantanaCampbell]

Spankings WORK!

[@gardengal87]

No one ecoects the 14 year old to be perfect. She just needs a to stop being a rude brat.

[@VanessaAndrade-fw6vq]

The second family seems like she wants to get rid of the kid and just have her biological child there 🙄 😮I mean come on sneak treats he's at home let him eat lmao quit being greedy

[@mamaDtheQT]

Adhd and pda

[@QUEEN_Alpha_Mama86]

The sad thing is my state and town if u discipline yr child, everyone in my town will call cps for a year since i been back ive had no joke 7+ calls on me for false reports 😢 id do anything to get help here cuz its ridiculous😢😢 i lock myself in my room all the time cuz im in that muxh fear, brings me back when I was with my abusive ex bf, praying for my small family 🙏🏻

[@weneedjesus9188]

The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law".

[@KirsySlane]

Dominican Republic's

[@chrisrogers5224]

This mom sucks, why you saying you hate your daughter? Even if that’s the case this girl needs help not ridicule.