10 THINGS I'M NO LONGER BUYING - Spent $27,000 on one thing !!! You won't believe a couple of them!

I'm 78.... it's a process !! I'm slowly giving up some things I've been doing and buying for many many years.
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[@angelabrown766]

I absolutely agree with you. I look around at the “stuff” that’s in my house and it sickens me at how much I’ve spent over the years on dresses, makeup and shoes. I could start my own makeup counter with all the makeup I have. If I don’t buy any more makeup for three years I’ll never use it all. My closet has dresses with tags on them. I can’t tell you how much money I have spent over the years and how much guilt and disgust I have for what I have wasted. You said everything that I have thought about. If I die today. My daughter doesn’t want those clothes and all that makeup and potions. What could I have done more for my children with all the money I have wasted. A change in myself needs to happen. Thank you for speaking out and voicing exactly how I feel.

[@kimhenry1069]

This is Exactly me, and as I have always heard, the Millennial Generation, is not made Like our Generation, And in the past year, I have learned , it is just STUFF, thank you for posting what I have been thinking,

[@carolobrien1617]

Angela your honesty inspires me!

[@maddyf6942]

Thank you for your Honesty! I never did that. Thanks God 🙏🏻

[@dianamcgarry3742]

Amen! Same with me.

[@reginamay2767]

oh mercy! you have to much and never use it just think who can use your things that you are not using. laying around dry rotting.

[@dianeparks9475]

Patti, you probably won't see this since it's a year old, but here goes anyway! Crafts...oh my. When we built this house, we didn't need the double garage since we had a full basement. Hubs asked me if I wanted the 24 x 24 space for my sewing /craft room...well, yeeeah, I do! I am a quilter, had a quilt shop and brought all the bolts of fabric that were left, home. Oh my, what a job. I also have a longer quilt machine, and all the threads, along with ribbon...lots of ribbon and buttons, scrapbook supplies, Cameo vinyl machine and supplies, paint, canvases, beads, seasonal "stuff" for mailbox decs, and on and on. It didn't take long for my huge room was no longer huge! I collect bunnies, and it made it so easy for family, etc to buy gifts. Lladro bunnies, Herend , waterford, dept 56, etc. Love redware plates, depression glass, any glassware. I HAD TO STOP! We have my Grandmother's things, my Mom and husband's Mom's. It is almost obscene the amount of things that my 3 boys and Dil's, grandchildren will not want. My wedding silver, Crystal, China, that people don't even use anymore. Whatever am I going to do??? Love you so much and love your videos!❤So wise! We are same age. 80 in a couple of months.

[@deonuacid]

Hi, I was the same way. I used to buy lots of stuff, my neighbor made a comment once of how many shopping bags I always carried home. At the time I was also going through a kind of depression and I believe loneliness was part of the shopping therapy. I used to feel so happy and excited about buying stuff I just didn’t use or care for. Most of the stuff I gave away. 12 years ago I stopped the insanity, I live a comfortable but minimalist life and I feel happier.

[@williams850]

Hello Bougainville how are you doing today ?

[@patriciaredick9849]

Thank you as always for the nice long chat. You are very much appreciated.

[@bonniebrown1112]

Amen , Im 78 and i have been feeling this way for a while, and I look for things i can get rid of everyday, I love Peace and Calm in my life now , Thanks

[@williams850]

Hello Bonnie how are you doing today and i hope everything is fine with you?

[@joannie0708]

me too I am 70

[@beverlygannon4141]

And me nearly 70

[@SandraRodriguez-cd7wx]

Congratulations Patti, I know you can do it. I am almost 67 years and feel exactly like you. I believe the pandemic has changed my behavior about shopping. The rush to keep buying it is gone and I had replace it by the peace of getting closer to God.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@terryray9635]

Thank you for the prayer for the people of Ukraine. My heart is so heavy and knowing others think like I do, helps. Sorry about Brent. The fact that your daughter knew him and told you and you told us, makes him seem so close to all of us. Prayers to him and his family and friends.

[@sharon7522]

🙏🙏🙏💙💛

[@blazejzdena1753]

Lybie Sýrie Afghánistán Irák Srbsko you killer from USA

[@JillKirchner]

I do pray often.

[@tinkerbell9757]

@@blazejzdena1753 🤪

[@denisemughrabi8171]

@@blazejzdena1753 “May God forgive you!!” Please do not blame the American people for what they can’t control. Just like you can’t control what the leaders of your country do!! It’s rude & hateful, & doesn’t help the situation! It doesn’t give a good impression of the people you seek to help!! This mindset is not going to change people’s attitudes, so please stop!! That is not what you’re supposed to say or do!!

[@karenkerry5892]

I am 67. When my mother was in her late 70’s she began getting rid of her “stuff” which is all it is. We can’t take it with us. I have gotten rid of a lot of my stuff too. I try to buy only what I need. There are so many others who need much more than I do. I donate the money to charities instead of buying that pair of shoes,etc. God Bless Patti 🙏🏻 A clean house is a blessed house. 💜🌸💕🥰

[@Kiki-wi7px]

Yes . . . Clean as In Not Dirty, is a Given. The Other Side of that is Not Hoarding "Thing's" that We Aren't Using, Having Too Much Of, just Buying to Buy, Filling Our Home's, Closet's, Drawer's, and Garage's With STUFF !!! A GOOD RULE OF THUMB . . . DO YOU NEED IT OR JUST WANT IT ? 🤔

[@jenniferyates8100]

l Like Trainers and boots, Loafers.

[@judee.baland6526]

Absolutely agree! At 75 I’m wanting much less! I want to walk on the beach, skip rocks across a lake silver white hair shining. And just BE!

[@dvinelove07]

I'm 47 and want to do that too!!!

[@corinnemacpartland5168]

I'm 61 and I want the same thing... florida a beach a pool in a 55 and older park. No more work pressure. Wake up go for a swim before it's too hot in the sun, a lunch then a nap. Make new friends

[@JillKirchner]

I'm just waiting to croak. The country is not a good place to live anymore. I don't care about my old self anymore. Gray hair, wrinkled neck, don't want a husband, don't care about shopping, washing my face, taking a bath, washing my hair. I can just stay in the bed all day and wait for the death angel. Don't shop anymore, don't have a dog anymore, dont clean the house, gave most of my furniture away. My car is 20 years old and has very few miles on it. I dont' go anywhere anymore. Rarely go to the doctor, have thrown everything away, clothes, shoes, furniture, makeup and junk. Empty house. Don't have the desire to paint. Yes, I know how you feel. Old and almost dead. I don't talk to anybody if I can help it. I don't answer the phone or go to the door. I check the mail when it gets dark outside.

[@cherylc4468]

@@JillKirchner Barbara, Im much like that but I can tell you every time I let people in my life ...I get ripped off...hurt in some way...dont like people...like to stay alone. The one thing that seperates me from you is I'd never give up the dogs. Its deep depression though Barbara. I wont take those drugs for it anymore. Im not bothering anyone staying to myself....I am ready to exit this planet as well. The evil on it is overwhelming to me now. We all need at least one person though.

[@dvinelove07]

@@JillKirchner 😢((Huggs))

[@jeanransome1759]

I thought it was only me. Covid has definitely changed my spending habits and outlook on a lot of things. Nine out of the 10 things you listed apply completely to me. The only thing I can't give up is the hair salon, health issues. I was feeling a little sad because I don't have any home decor projects. You're right, I really like my house the way it is! What an ah ha moment. Thank you, you've made my day!

[@katestenger3587]

You are telling my life story regarding skin care. I worked in Pittsburgh, across from Joseoh Horne Co, every lunch time I would go to the Estee Alauder counter and buy the Renutrive line which was the most expensive, and I was 21 years old! I'm now 82 and continue to buy. I am drawn to it but get tired of trying new, improved stuff. Nothing makes a difference! I have good skin, at 82 it can't get better. I could go on and on, but you know exactly what I mean. I have too many clothes, makeup, etc. I need to give more for the spread of the gospel of Jesus and what He has done for us.

[@carolynsanner8253]

Agree, Kate, with using our plenty to help spread the gospel, along with disaster relief.✝️

[@carewiebe]

Patti, we are twins. Every single thing you said was 100% true for me. The struggle is real my friend. We have each other's backs💞. I am so tearfully sorry your daughter has lost a friend in such a tragic way. No wonder we are vowing no more "stuff" in this fragile life.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@melissahill4559]

I've been simplifying every area of my life for the past few years, I'm loving the peace it brings🧘‍♀️💐💕

[@lindadavies3295]

This is probably my favorite video of yours, so far. Thank you for being real. I am so tired of seeing beauty products being pushed and promoted. With everything going on in the world right now and all we've been through in the past 2 years, makeup videos are at the bottom of my list. Just wanted you to know I appreciate your honesty.

[@susanr1188]

Patti, I absolutely loved this video. I turn 70 this year and I am right there with you. I don't want to leave my kids with a bunch of stuff to get rid of. I quit having my nails done because it was so time consuming not to mention the cost. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. You are so beautiful inside and out.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 Susan, how are you doing?

[@paulapool5721]

Yes, indeed, I understand the feeling of having enough (and really MORE than enough)“stuff” to last me the rest of my days!! I’m 75, and because of the pandemic I have given up many of the same things you have! So it’s like you were speaking my mind as you talked today. I’m new to your videos, and have enjoyed watching several of them tonight, for the first time. Really enjoy and identify with your content, and feel excited to meet you and have a brand new, lovely friend❣️ Thanks for sharing, and see you again real soon!! God bless.

[@charlottetyus6810]

Patti, thank you so much for this video.. At 72, I have been thinking about these very things… To be honest, it saddens me that I am in the winter of life ( sure don’t feel that way on the inside), but we have to accept things we cannot change and age is one thing we cannot change. I, too, want to rid myself of all of the extras in my closets and cabinets of things I never use.. (And my kids will not want them either. ) So I am clearing out and simplifying, and it feels good to give away to others things I no longer use or want…Time to Stop spending just to spend… Time to use up products instead of always buying more.. Time to do more things for myself rather than pay someone else for their service. Doing for others, being kind & thoughtful, are much more meaningful and satisfying ways to spend ones life…Thank you, Patti, for your calm, kind, and wise approach to life….❤️

[@patriciahadfield6508]

Patti, so sad to hear about your daughter's friend. Let's hope it will all end soon, God willing. Totally agree with everything you've said, I've been exactly the same for years, but now I'm just in the process of decluttering my home, skincare and all. I will be 70 this year and want to enjoy and embrace my life in my retirement. No more buying for me of the things I don't really need. Great post Patti.

[@elaineshropshire5549]

Pattie I’m really ashamed of myself I have too much of everything you mentioned all but the glass frogs boxes of skin care not opened , but still look and put my finger on the buy button. I am 78 just like you and I’m drowning in things I don’t need . Thank you so much for this video it’s proves I’m not the only one with too much ! 🥰😍

[@JillKirchner]

It's easier than you think to just call someone up and tell them to take it all to charity.

[@tizb5178]

Simply your life. Start becoming emotionally detached to things you don't need or like. Use/wear what you love & what works for you. You can still have beautiful things just get rid of the unnecessary. It took me YEARS to rectify impulsive buying & now I'm more intentional when I buy.

[@tizb5178]

@@JillKirchner You're right. It would be way easier.

[@deeb66]

Dearest Patti, I so appreciate everything you mentioned in this video! I love hearing Amazing Grace, it move me so much in my heart always! So sorry for the loss of your daughter’s friend. This world is so sad these days. Nails!!! I’m 73 and I have been struggling everyday recently with going back to the nail salon after being away since June last year. I have been missing the beautiful acrylic, gels, dip powder nails. I never got into the kiss nails or any substitute like that but you are so so right and I have LOVED not spending the exorbitant amount of money getting them done. I appreciate hearing you talk about this, it has given me more inner strength and motivation to stay away! The rest of your list is real stuff and important for us spenders to connect with.. I wish for you the strength and commitment to stick to your “no buy” policy!! Thank you so much for the inspiration! You look gorgeous!! ♥️

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@dianaromig732]

I’m almost 70 and I am too so tired of buying “stuff”. And it’s not the money. When the pandemic started, I realized that the most important thing was Jesus and personal relationships. Those can’t be bought. Peace of mind and joy are priceless!!!

[@beverlygannon4141]

❤love. 🙏😊

[@cindywharton5558]

I used to wear makeup 6 days out of 7. All that changed last November when I was diagnosed with cancer completely out of the blue. My priorities have changed. I look after my skin, using inexpensive items. I no longer surf the web looking for things to buy. As I'm unable to work atm I don't need to keep buying clothes and makeup, I'll use what I already have and I've always got plenty of toiletries which are bought for Christmas and birthdays. I get enjoyment out of getting outdoors and seeing the wildlife. Yes, my priorities have certainly changed.

[@JillKirchner]

I don't celebrate or decorate for Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving, Halloween, birthdays, or anything. I try not to see anyone during that time. I once loved those holidays when I was young, but after getting old, I don't even know when they come around anymore. I'm not Scrooge because I am thankful for what those days stand for. They just don't bring the joy they once did.

[@Kiki-wi7px]

@@JillKirchner I Feel the Same Way. Then if There is NO Family or Friend's Around, What's the Point. Gotta' Store It, then Put It ALL Away. No Thank You.

[@candacefife6763]

Amen and I’ve been saying this for about a couple years now. I get angry every time I watch a video with people pushing products. Especially with the mess this world is in. Thank you for saying this. I thought it was just my age 65 but I’m tired of “the things”.

[@lillyolson6011]

You were so right about Crafters, I am a crocheter and knitter. I have been trying not to buy any more yarn but yarn sales are hard to pass up. When I was 60 and retired, I stopped having my hair dyed. Never did have my nails done much. Love your videos.

[@janeramsden2315]

Patti, what can I say that hasn't already been said? It's worth saying though that I love your emotional honesty & that you speak just as though you were talking to each of us personally over a cup of coffee. I've only seen a handful of your other videos, but some priceless advice here. These are my thoughts: Yes, age (or life's mileage/journey) does make most of us turn away from possessions to a simpler life. Keeping it simple or quite basic frees you in many ways - a lot being the physical toll of an unnecessary cycle of buy, take care of, get rid of, then repeat to replace & well, repeat! My body doesn't need the expenditure any more than my pocket. I have never been to a nail or lash salon & realised years ago that basic products like Simple, Oil of Olay (SPF 15), Vaseline body lotions, Nivea etc do as good if not a better job than hyper-priced products. (Still over-stocked though!) An easy consistent skincare routine with a sunscreen and you've cracked it! (Though I am gradually swapping to vegan where possible. Decluttering with a conscience.) I have spent a lifetime over-shopping on cosmetics, books, clothes, shoes, ornaments. I am now decluttering & boy, is it a hard job both physically & in terms of decision to part, but nothing is surer than if I carry on, I will get there in the end. It is somewhat complicated by the need to shed smaller & buy bigger clothes due to lockdown weight gain, but I am what I am. I am not keeping 'for when I get slim again' clothes, nor buying for a lifestyle I don't live, like clothes for occasions I rarely if ever go to. Some letting go is easy. Higher heels in all colours & styles went years ago with an arthritic foot! Now it's flat & what fits. Simples! And I'm not buying things that promise to make me a better person. We are sold things, esp women, through a fostered lack of self-worth when we are already okay people, even if not perfect. No-one is. I can't physically cope with caring for my purchases anymore. So, no matter the original cost, if I don't need/want it, I will find a new home for it & freely give it away. I can't cope with the effort of selling & would rather donate to friends or charity. The whole point is to make life (ethically) easier from 70 onwards. But here I would say, if someone cutting your hair is easier, go to the (sensibly-priced) salon. Having short fine hair, I need someone else's expertise to cut it, but I don 't need the nails & I can do a pedicure or face mask at home. Ornaments & books are being slimmed down. I can't do with the storage & dusting. Jewellery I've collected, only to wear little of it regularly. Note to self: Buy no more earrings! (I'll try not!) I've found a useful rule of thumb is, if you have to bring something into the house, make sure something goes out. If you take sthg to the charity shop, don't come out with a bag(s) bigger than you came in with & preferably none. Small is beautiful & less is more. But, if you're not saving money for any specific reason, it is always worthwhile spending to make life easier - a man to cut the hedge, a nice meal out to save on the effort of cooking. The one buys you time for something nicer & the other is something nicer! Thanks, Patti, & all the commentators for your thoughtful ideas.

[@PamTipton-rq3ze]

I'm 74 years old and enjoying my life more than ever. I have been frugal and wise about spending my whole life. Now, if I find something I love l buy it. I have two precious Maltipoos that l purchased during the pandemic. I have a small home which l decorate w thrift store finds, consignment stores and estates sales. I'm not getting rid of anything that l still enjoy, my kids can deal w it when I'm gone but I'm going to enjoy everything that makes me happy. I spend money on my hair and nails and good food. I do donate items l no longer use or enjoy. After my husband passed away l married my childhood sweetheart. I hadn't seen him in 54 years! My life is full. I just wanted you to know something about the women that follow you.

[@odemonet]

Patti, I will be 71 soon and feel exactly the same way as you do! I finally just retired on December 31st and I am loving life for the first time in about 15 Years. I worked in the financial industry at a large Wall Street firm! I knew I could never afford the hair salon and and nail salons so I learned how to do it all myself! I watched videos for gel nails then dip powder, and for a small investment I have been able to do them myself for probably the last 20 years! I have alway cut, colored and styled my own hair! I am lucky that my now white hair looks almost like platinum and I get compliments all of the time. My point here is that if you want them bad enough you can do it yourself if you can’t afford to get them done! I am an artist, potter, acrylic and watercolor so I believe that all helps. I love watching you and I think you do a phenomenal job at taking care of your hair, skin and nails! And you always look very classy! My weakness was always skin care and really the truth is those products help but good genes are the key! I wasted so much time and money on that. Now I agree with the other comments dove, ponds oil of Olay work just fine! They have made it so complicated with all of the different “best” for this or that that I feel any moisturizer and sunscreen is all we need! Thank you for what you do! You are beautiful inside and out! One more thing, I am so sorry to hear that the reporter killed in Ukraine was a friend of your daughter. This war is breaking my heart and I pray daily for it to end and for all of those wonder innocent people over there. Thank you for this post and I am sorry my comments were so long! ❤️

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 pat, how are you doing?

[@nbks6w8]

Pat…I turned 70 in August….also work for a large financial firm (ML)….I can’t wait to retire and get out of this place. I agree with all you said. I’m going gray cold Turkey and so far love it. I don’t know if the people are different or if I just no longer have any patience…but they are driving me crazy. A sign it s time to retire. You have encouraged me!!!

[@odemonet]

@@nbks6w8 it was ML for me to I started the in the 80’s then hopped around to a few other places then back to ML in 2012. I was really pretty bad! I couldn’t wait to leave! Good luck to you!

[@odemonet]

@@franklinstephen3268 doing well thank you!

[@franklinstephen3268]

@@odemonet its nice meeting with you here pat. Where are you texting from?

[@artport7]

Girl, you remind me so much of my sister.... she is just like you except for the heavy accent... You are just adorable and at 78, you look amazing... heck, you look awesome for 68... looks like that elixer really paid off!! Well, back to my sister... she lives in Orlando and lived in several big mansions when she was married but her marriage was a bad one... She finally mustered up the courage and left.... and needless to say, her lifestyle had to change... but she is in her 70s now too and realizes that the shopping addiction was to fill the emptiness in her marriage and is now ready to let go of so many of the beautiful things she has collected over the years and she is literally killing herself going through everything and finding a new home for the stuff... She has really done an amazing job of downsizing and I am so proud of her... There comes a time when we're just tired of shopping and we realize that we have everything we need.... Good for you, Patti.... I love listening to you...

[@SandraK5424]

I do want to say that I have had my nails done off and on over the last 50 years. My manicurist was a perfectionist and I enjoyed many compliments on her work.When I was in my 40’s I too calculated what I was spending on my nails. I shared that astounding figure with my husband. His comment, “It gives you pleasure, you enjoy them and they make you feel good, don’t you think you’re worth it?” I decided. Yes I was. 😌

[@nancydunks9095]

I'm 82. I look a bit like you, with glasses, so your colors and taste runs with mine. My dad died when I was 13, and i learned to do my own hair. I have not been in a beauty salon in thirty years or more (and that was under duress from my daughter who was getting married.) I've never had a manicure or even seen the inside of a nail salon. I do not feel I've missed a thing. I'm a thrift store junkie, and I've found Hermes scarves and more at thrifts and I think my apartment and clothing reflect good, if not great, taste. My rabbi's wife told me one day, "You are the most stylish woman I know.." I lived on that remark for months! Life can be so much fun and money is secondary to just about everything else. Do keep on with your podcast. We need straightforward people in our lives.

[@lesliemariephillips6693]

I vote a big Yes to your Friday foundation videos! …Or any other topic you choose👍because I am always so excited when I get a notification saying you have posted something new!! I think a weekly video from you sounds fabulous no matter what the content is!! I’d love to see one as you go on your daily walks ( of course not showing your exact location for safety reasons) to see that beautiful Florida weather and gorgeous palm trees. I love your shopping videos - even if you don’t buy anything😉 and I’d especially love to see a few “what you eat in a day as a vegetarian” and even some cooking videos showing some of your favorite cakes! Thank you so much for always brightening my day- you’re such a ray of sunshine!🌞💕

[@margaretschaefer9786]

Just found your channel as I enjoy "things I no longer buy" type of videos. Please don't feel guilty about spending money on nails. And no I am not a nail salon owner, in fact, don't paint my nails at all. But the money you spent went to support mostly women and their families. So of all guilty pleasures, that money helped people and gave you pleasure plus provided a little beauty to the world.

[@williams850]

Hello Margaret how are you doing today?Every single thing you said was 100% true for me. The struggle is real my friend..what do you think about this video?

[@GabbyGirl73]

Nothing used to make me happier when I was young than going shopping! Now at 70 I rarely darken the door of a store! I have absolutely NO interest in shopping at all anymore and I'm currently in the process of purging everything I can out of my home so I can buy a new one and move. I think it's age that has made this difference for me. I'm just SO tired of "stuff" everywhere and when I move want a very minimalistic look in my new home! I have one grown child who will throw everything I own that she doesn't want in the trash when I'm dead, so I figured I might as well purge it myself and donate anything good that someone else might be able to use. I wish I had all the money I spent on make-up, designer clothes, shoes, nails, you name it now in my retirement! And I do have to say, I think QVC and HSN are detrimental to a lot of folks and I used to order a lot from QVC, but no more! Never shop there now!

[@carewiebe]

Absolutely agree. I would rather enjoy a walk through the shops and buy nothing. Maybe a little tart to have with my tea.

[@lexseec6124]

Boy I agree with you on most of it. I filled my closets with JUNK I thought would impress people maybe?? Where we differ is I will leave all this crap for my daughter to trash!!!

[@GabbyGirl73]

@@carewiebe Exactly! Isn't it amazing how time and age change us?

[@GabbyGirl73]

@@lexseec6124 LOL! I'm sure whatever I end up keeping my daughter will end up trashing!

[@glendaclark6238]

Qvc and HSN have been my down fall for years. Wish I had the money now that I spent. But I have stopped too!!

[@ecarterb]

I got acrylic nails back in the late 70s when I was a flight attendant. Opening those cans really did a number on my natural nails. I stopped having my nails done when I moved to Pensacola in 1995. I too am a makeup/skincare junkie and am weaning myself off of all those expensive products. I did purchase the Skinn oil and microdermabrasion treatment after watching one of your videos and love both. Shoes....well...I have put myself on restriction with those as well. Can't wait to see your hair video. My hairdresser has been talking about retiring since Covid and I'm tired of paying $200 a month to have the roots colored and get it trimmed. My hair is very similar in color as yours but a bit shorter. I'd LOVE to be able to do my own! Love your videos and hope to run into you one day at TJMax. :)

[@sphb7222]

Patti, I live in NW Arkansas and heard about Brent Renaud getting killed in Ukraine,such a senseless and sad thing. I am 75 and feel the same as you about tired of buying and getting rid and not buying useless things just because "I want it". Blessings to you and yours.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋dear, how are you doing?

[@susankeffer8551]

I had acrylic nails and gel nails for quite sometime. I stopped getting them done in March 2020 when the pandemic began. It took about a month to grow my natural nails which are permanently damaged from the drilling. I prefer a French manicure and am able to do it myself. You are right about the cost over time and shaping. I don't miss the nail salon at all.

[@barb5404]

Love, thoughts and prayers for Brent Renaud and his friends and family! I am taking all of the things that I no longer need…to a charity nearby that is collecting for the people of Ukraine! Please pray for the Ukraine!💜🙏🏻💜

[@brens7094]

Please pray for America 🇺🇸🙏🏻🇺🇸

[@barb5404]

I agree! Please pray for America and actually our planet! We need it so much right now!💜

[@bunnykeedy8983]

Patti, I love this video!! You are so sweet and honest!! Thank you for your honesty!!! ❤

[@donnaspafford5999]

Patti love your channel. I'm 74 years young and I too have stopped doing and buying a lot of things. I've cleaned out a lot of my possessions (I have 2 of everything lol). I'm a widow and I don't want my children to have to clean out a bunch of stuff! Lean and mean is my new goal and I'm almost there. Keep those great video coming.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋dear, how are you doing?

[@barbaraspurlock8877]

Pattie, love your message about the things u won’t buy or get anymore, and I’m the lady that has daughters in Little Rock, I’ve written u several times, u remind me of myself so much in many ways!! U r so right about things as we get older , the way we think about things and life in general, Ty for reminding us about little things that don’t matter except family and kindness and respect for others even when they r disrespectful, u hv a Blessed week and look forward to your next video ❤️

[@Karen19820]

Amazing you touched upon everything I’m going through and I just turned 61 last month. About your nail expense, remember that the people you spent money with needed that money as their income. I remind myself of that often. You helped them live with your contribution for services, and it was a social influence for good also. So please don’t feel guilty. I am giving things away. now. I will never regain my ability to do the craft things I once enjoyed as it supplied a genuine need for our kids, their friends, charity, church and the community. There are people that still do those activities for their mental health, or community needs, or income. Donate those supplies. And the place I donate things has a store like Goodwill’s, but they have disabled young people working in the stores under adult supervision. And the prices are about 90% less (yes, that cheap). The joy on people’s faces when they can afford things so inexpensively is just a blessing in itself. It takes practice learning how to give away things. Especially things you like, but it’s okay to bless someone else with your items. Pray over them and ask God to get them into the right hands. It gets easier as you practice doing it. Blessings to you for your inspiring videos. ❤️⭐️🙏

[@dinkbaletti6376]

Older furniture is usually better wood anyway! Love the chalk renovation!!!

[@shelly410]

Hi Patti. In my case, I went a little crazy buying wigs. I lost my hair in 2018 during chemotherapy, and have continued to buy all the new cute styles even though I have plenty of wigs and my hair has grown back (but is very thin on top, so I continue to wear my wigs). I am feeling saturated now, so no more buying wigs! I also have an enormous book collection...at least 3000 books! Yes, a new car's worth of books! I do still purchase a few each year, mainly from the authors I collect, but I am trying to utilize the library for any other books I want to read. I also used to collect jewelry, but I have so much now, that I really do not need to add any more pieces to my collection. I do want to start going through all the other stuff that has just accumulated over the past 50 years and cull out the best items and let the rest go. I've been watching decluttering videos from several different ladies and will try their methods to see which one will work for me. My parents lived through the Great Depression and instilled in me that everything is precious, so it is difficult for me to let go of anything. But I will give it a try. Thanks for your video. Hugs to you! Shelly

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@carolynsanner8253]

Ah, yes, 📚❣️ I keep the cost down by purchasing from thrift stores & used book stores, then donate them back or get a credit, as the case may be. However, I mostly read for entertainment & escape & don't mind turning over books. Sounds like you may have a good quality collection, though.😊

[@angelawhitlock5770]

At 73 I stopped covering my gray. After 35 years it is time to see what God has given me. No more touch ups. I too gave up pedicures and manicures during the pandemic and have been doing my own. I also started grooming my 3 dogs in between grooms. It saves a lot of money. I take them only twice a year now and I do them once a month.The vet trims their nails. I cut my husbands hair too. (kind of bald). We move pretty often and we have been purging furniture too. Kids don't want anything we have. No more buying dishes either.

[@ooolalakatchuli9873]

Thank you Patti for awesome message.. I just turned 79, and have been spending the past six months cleaning out my closets, attic, garage and basement. It was difficult getting rid of some stuff, my children didn't want anything. I still get my nails done, but are not bying any new clothes or shoes. I can relate to your feelings about how we look at life and things differently after co..d. Sending you Love and blessings, my dear from Palm Springs 😘💞🙏

[@brendabergeron3459]

AMEN SISTA!!! I’m going through the exact thing. Love your honesty ❤️🌹

[@janetstraw191]

Patti, I am right behind you, going on 76 (gulp) and I have lived abroad and collected and collected - everything! Now back in the USA, in a much smaller house - I am faced with the problem of unburdening myself of all my ‘stuff’. It’s a problem because I have possessions too valuable to just give away! So now I feel like I am spend the rest of my life as a slave to all my abundance! Selling online, with all the time and hassle of that, trying to unburden myself of al my excesses. It has come back to bite me in my a#}€! It was fun - but now it overwhelms me. 😵‍💫

[@SIMARSONG]

Patti, I am in complete agreement on your list. I would add shampoos and conditioners. I have so many different brands, but was still trying to find my "holy grail." I've vowed to use up all of it before I buy another. Also: jewelry, both inexpensive (unless I lose another one of my hoops, or because it's on clearance,) and expensive, fine jewelry. I have sons, and their wives have plenty, or different taste. When my time comes, very few pieces would be "cherished" anyway.

[@patwagner9308]

I have a "thing" for shampoo & conditioner, too ! Deep conditioner, anything that promises strength, shine, no frizz...gotta try it. I have so many & use a different one each time I shower. Takes forever to use up any of them...so, I get bored w/ what I've got & next thing I know, the shamoo/ conditioner aisle is beckoning me!! I simply love trying all sorts of brands. A long time ago , I was content w/ just a bottle of each ( shampoo & conditioner). But now! There is a vast selection!! 🤗

[@alycegt]

🙋‍♀️🙄. Could not agree more especially shampoo, conditioners and necklaces (of course when their on sale) Glad to hear I’m not the only one😜

[@pattidj4384]

I have a lot of expensive jewelry as well. Just about everything I own I know my kids will donate or toss. My daughter already said she's just going to sell it anyway lol. So be it, I won't be here anyway.

[@janiceestes9518]

@@alycegt I only buy one bottle of shampoo/conditioner at one given time as I need it. I hate clutter in my home. There are many stores around me if I need some in a flash.

[@carolynsanner8253]

Aack, yes! I forgot about all my costume jewelry!!🙄

[@joanbojorquez8409]

I cut bangs for the first time. I am looking forward to your haircut video because I want to cut my own hair. Last time it was cut I had layers done and, like you, my hair and nails grow so fast. While watching your video, I paused it and painted my nails. You really inspire me to start a little makeup every day and keep some polish on. Thank you so very much! 💕

[@annmeeks9273]

I would love a foundation Friday! You have inspired me to make my list of no more!

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 Ann, how are you doing?

[@robinshutze4375]

This is one of the best and most honest videos I’ve ever seen on KZbin. I’m grateful to you for posting this. I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who has started to feel this way. Love your channel.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 Robin, how are you doing?

[@bernadettehooper4318]

I've avoided eBay and Amazon for a month. Amazing how those "must have" small purchases add up. Plan to keep it down to minimal purchases on both in the future. If I need a retail "fix", I go to to the Dollar Tree. There, I load up on holiday decor, cards and bagged candy. I donate most of it to a local assisted living home where I volunteered before Covid. (They call me "the supplier"). I think I spend about $25 a trip and I don't go every month.

[@debbiemeyer7666]

I’ve been buying all my seasonal decor and cards since recently discovering how nice our dollar store is! And I’m no longer getting Amazon boxes daily! But, I’m addicted to buying Lug bags and matching accessories for every bag. I need to stop as I’ve been selling most still with tags on thru Poshmark. I don’t want to leave so much for my sons to have to deal with after we’re gone. My mom downsized after my dad died and she made it very easy for my brother and I to go thru things before the estate sale we commissioned. Mom even labeled the bottom of special family heirlooms with names to give to so we didn’t have to make those decisions either! 😇😇

[@shirleydrake1602]

Good plan!

[@hildacollier2638]

That is such a good thing to do and thanks for the idea. I plan on doing that now.

[@mariasamalot-hernandez3138]

I'm going to be 56 next month and I have been feeling the exact same way. Makeup, packing accessories, so many unnecessary purchases. I stop dong my nails about six months ago. My jaw dropped when you mentioned the Kiss press on nails. They are what weaned me off the acrylics.. This week I have notice more than ever how conscious I am on any new purchases. I now first now check if a can utilize what I currently have. I get so happy that I can save some money, instead of a wasting money on a new unnecessary purchase. There are things that still bring me joy, but I have been dropping certain items more and more. I lost my Mother14 years ago and you make me miss her even more. She always had the same kind of common sense and such practical views. Your videos seem to always pop up when I need them the most. Always on a the exact subject that I currently need to hear about, at that time in my life. I thank god for the day you entered my world. I thank you and appreciate you for who you are and how you interpret your world. Always perfectly said!!!! And always perfect timing!! Sometimes you are pulling thoughts right out of my head. Keep preaching. Many of us count on it. :)

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 Maria, how are you doing?

[@BR-kk9qu]

Miss Patti, this was a wonderful video. Thank you for the prayer. Thank you for the information on the friend. I’m in my 50’s and definitely want less “stuff!” I have been manicuring my own nails since Covid. I am in the process of freshening up our house. Seriously, there is no point for me to spend tons of money on trending decor that I might get tired of in a few years! I have a few inexpensive pieces of furniture that I plan to chalk paint. Hair! I gave up expensive haircuts. My hair is medium length with layers. I found a great little hair salon that charges a lot less for a good cut. I’m so proud of this discovery. Skincare! Wearing masks, caused some skin issues for me. I simplified my products to my aunt’s old faithfuls: Pond’s, Dove, and Oil of Olay lotion. I am definitely at a place in life where a crave a peaceful, serene, uncomplicated, and simple lifestyle. ~ Belinda🌺🌺🌺

[@judithkiser8905]

I use the same old faithfuls as you! I think I will start cutting my own hair too..I did during the pandemic

[@BR-kk9qu]

@@judithkiser8905 I cut my own hair when I was pregnant 20 something years ago… both times! I’m thinking as long as I can thin it out… I think I could cut it now! I’m glad you use the old faithfuls, too!

[@krisb3939]

Americans had no problem buying bunch of made in China junk .. LOL

[@JulyKnight-os6vq]

I am 61 and have succumbed to most of the items you discussed. Thank you, I needed this honesty. I need to make changes and you have been inspiring. I’m grateful to have found you.

[@valentina-pg4bj]

I even stopped watching QVC & HSN because I was addicted!!!

[@lesleywalker2845]

Absolutely I’ve recently reached this position in life and cannot stand ‘things’ creating clutter so am constantly throwing out…..I’m 71 and just found out I have a terminal illness, do not know how long I have to go yet, but cannot stand the thought of someone coming in having to spend time throwing out my ‘stuff’, loved listening to you..

[@odemonet]

Prayers for you! So sorry you are ill! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@marycaruso3846]

That is my greatest fear to be told it’s terminal. You poor soul! I am praying for you. I was with my mother who I loved with all my heart and soul when the doctors told her she had 3 months. I felt gutted. I was more upset that the doctor told her. My heart goes out to you Lesley and my thoughts and prayers are with you.♥️🇨🇦🌹

[@jenniferseelen1899]

Lesley, I pray that you know Jesus so that you are feeling no fear. I am praying for you. May God grant you peace and may he surround you with people who love you. I am so sorry.

[@michellepike7125]

Thank you for voicing what many of us are feeling! About to turn 60 this year and am so tired of buying " stuff ". Much of what I have purchased this year has been so unnecessary. Believe much of the behaviour has been down to sadness, boredom, and anxiety during these turbulent times. Patti, I agree with everything you have said! I think of citizens in the Ukraine fleeing their homeland with nothing but the clothes on their backs. For me, I want to focus my time and attention on the people in my life, and experiences, not on collecting stuff. Thank you for keeping it real!

[@colleenheither9532]

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[@ritarita5293]

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[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 Michelle, how are you doing?

[@peggyclark4284]

I gave up my shoes (heels ) about 5yrs. ago. J ust killed me;I also cut and colored my own hair. I gave up cooking when my husband passed 26 yrs ago. Never liked to cook anyway. but he loved my cooking. I was alone so what the heck! I enjoy listening and watching you.You seem to be so authenic.

[@annettev2648]

Patti, I’m 57 and I am at the point I question the need for everything I buy. It feels like a bad habit, adding more junk to the pile. Everyday is ground hogs day…get up and look for things to buy. It feels like these things are encroaching on me and I’m planning a big spring cleanout with the hopes I do not replenish the items I’ve let go. I think we are all hoarders to an extent. We seek for things outside ourselves to bring happiness when for me the most peace comes from going within, praying asking for guidance, doing nothing( no thing). I think that makes us feel scared and uncomfortable, and we block out that quiet contemplation by doing things all the time.

[@dianeberlin5969]

I'm 58 and feel the same way. Sometimes I get a little endorphin rush when I buy something new but in the long run it makes me feel worse. I have more stuff to pick up, store and clean and I have more than enough of everything. Also, clothing styles don't look as good on me as they used to so I don't get that thrill of wearing something new like I used to. Then theres the guilt of buying stuff I really don't need when I should be saving.

[@annettev2648]

You’re right and the guilt of spending all that money makes it hard to throw or give stuff away. I could wear something different everyday for months. I’ve been doing much better. It takes a long time to press buy, I’m almost overcome with heat when I buy something that’s not a necessity. About two years ago I really wanted to stop buying things. I said God stop me the next time I go to buy something. The next day Vera Bradley was having a sale. I immediately tried to buy a few things and my iPad wouldn’t let the order go through. I hopped on my husbands computer and it wouldn’t go through on there either. I thought that was pretty funny. The remedy is don’t get on these sites to look.

[@franklinstephen3268]

@@dianeberlin5969 Hello 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@7spiritualcompass706]

I'm a crafter and two years ago I purged on my dollhouse miniature items including mini cutting machines, tools, etc. I still have 2.5 bins of miniatures with projects I haven't been able to start and those are all in storage. To replace the empty void, I started messing with moulds and epoxy resins! I should've stopped there. I don't want to tell you the expense in that area, but the bulk of what I really have, are my books. I have a diversified collection and when I sometimes look them up, I see how the price keeps going up on my Dollhouse and rare books, and this is even after purging them two years ago. I use to have over 35 medium sized boxes of books that are now narrowed to about 20. Too much!! Overwhelming! Thank-you for this video. I enjoyed it.

[@dreamerish1]

Hi rxstr! I'm a 57 year old subscriber that has been watching you for about a month or so. My mom watches and recommended. There are certainly different times in life for different things and instead of doing things out of habit, it's great when we can ask ourselves what do we want really? What do we want to prioritize right now? What serves me still and what doesn't? For 17 years we were dinks - double income no kids. We were married without children yet and I worked and worked and would buy makeup and skincare at Macys and Nordstrom-Estee Lauder, Clinique and Mac. Now our sons are in college and we're realtors together and still work and work! Ha! I've changed though and grab my makeup and skincare at Target or Walgreens. But, I prioritize my hair and go to a salon for cut and color. When my boys were young though, I bought a box of Feria hair color and colored it myself and received compliments on the color a lot. About 10 years ago I did get into gel nails and salon lashes - these two things lasted about a year for me. I loved the results but did not love the appointments and spending the money. What I find fun now, is all the different Essie nail colors and sometimes I'll use 3 or 4 coordinating colors and paint nails in a color pattern. I can do neutral or colorful. Thank you for doing what you do!!!!

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 Christine, how are you doing?

[@pinkypooky5779]

I think it’s an awareness of what’s really important in life , we are realizing that times are changing and more difficult and we don’t need to be in debt buying things to make us happy , I’m 64 and I agree there are things we really don’t need. I’m making the change too it’s not just you . With everything going on in the world people are having to leave everything but the clothes on their back. God is giving us the intuition to focus on things that are important, this will bring strength and great character for the journey we are about to face .

[@lindabradley1054]

I've had the same experience - getting into the car and shaping my nails. Recently I let the owner of the salon my granddaughter likes polish my nails but not file them. I wanted just a sheer (extremely pale pink) ONE COAT of the color. She refused to give me a sheer coat. Guess she did not like me saying not to file them. I am very near 76 and agree with you. I buy very little and keep getting rid of things. I feel so much better with my life.

[@lynne0410]

I bought the CND shellac 2 years ago and I use it all the time.

[@sharonsteelman6330]

I know exactly what you are talking about. I'm 76 and I use to love to shop for clothes. Not anymore. I don't even like to shop for anything anymore. I guess it's my age. I watch some of the young you tubers and they build things, redo furniture and it looks so good, but I don't have the energy or want to do it. I don't need anything really that I don't have plenty of already. So glad to hear you talk of those things.

[@bettypecoraro8104]

Again, I must say, I’m always amazed that people think they should tell you what to do with your personal possessions. (like...get rid of your couch)...seriously?....When I see what is happening in Ukraine, it puts in to perspective what is really important.

[@patriciakoutelakis4142]

Hi Patty, I absolutely LOVED this video…girlfriend we are on the same wave length…and I think it has to do with our age and the pandemic. This horrible pandemic has forced us to take a good look at what’s really important and it is NOT things. Every time I go to buy something I ask myself do I really need it and who will want it when I’m gone…Our children and grandchildren lead different lives ….they don’t want our stuff! My weakness is jewelry…oh boy I love my jewelry. I hope I have the strength to resist buying anymore!!!!!! Best to you always.

[@SIMARSONG]

I have so much, but since retiring, very little is worn. Oh pieces here and there for church services or to an occasional luncheon, but so much just sets there. I use the same, favorites most of the time.

[@patriciakoutelakis4142]

@@SIMARSONG Me too!

[@RockeraMJJ]

I feel the same, I'm 38 :)

[@ruthannemackinnon588]

I really appreciate this video and the part that touched me the most was when you were talking about the art supplies how when you die your kids won't want those things. Brought me right back to the day I watched my husband and his sister throw away so many things their mother had after she died. This moment is burned in my memory and now I frequently ponder all I have while thinking "will my kids just throw this away when I'm gone?" If its something just taking up space I get rid of it myself. Brings perspective.

[@felisaimelendez1211]

I'm giving up my acrylic nails too. To expensive especially after the pandemic. My shoes, I'm a shoe lover and been 77 yrs old, I cannot wear high heels and I have too many of those. I don't have a place to keep them, my closet is so tiny, and cramped for more. Yes, my aging is making me give up so many things, but you have to do what you have to do. Your so right. Have nice time with your coming cruise. Take care

[@catheyashburn433]

Oh Patti I needed this reminder! My spending has to stop. Lipsticks are my weakness, it's ridiculous my stash but I also spend too much on "stuff" I do not need🙄. Thank you for another wonderful video❤️

[@dresser6135]

Sometimes when I'm in a store & on the verge of buying something & stop & ask myself, okay...once the little "high" of buying it is over will I really even want & use it.

[@Belevaqua]

Cathey, My friend and I went to Sephora.We were so in the moment, that we each bought a $25.00 lipstick.💄💄When I got home, I was so sick to my stomach, as it wasn’t near as smooth and pretty as the ones I had bought at the DOLLAR TREE!!…… Needless to say , I took it back. Never again!💋

[@catheyashburn433]

Julie Romo my problem is, I'm always looking for that perfect tone-shade and I keep buying to try to fine it!!🙃

[@Belevaqua]

@@catheyashburn433 Me too! I used to have fun blending a few colors together. I want a creamy red /fuschia color.I want to be more cheerful in my appearance. 🥰

[@virginiaconway374]

I kind of think that shopping fills our emptiness for friendships. As we age it is difficult to forge new friendships.

[@livefromtexas9371]

A couple of years ago, I started giving a lot of my things away. My friend told me she was getting worried about me. I guess she thought I was going to die. I just got sick of all this stuff.

[@Clever1976]

There's a process called A Swedish Death cleaning that people do in Sweden to get rid of their stuff. Like 90% of it.

[@YaYa-jy1yv]

I have realized that I have more than enough clothes! Believe me, I am grateful that I do and am not complaining, so I buy very few articles of clothing. I usually purchase everything at a wonderful consignment shop and have come up with a workable solution for myself. If I find something there, I will consign something from what I already have. If I buy a purse ( my weakness ), the next time I go in I bring a purse to consign. Same with just about everything. Jewelry is another weakness, so the same thing holds. Frequently on Mondays I will go through my stuff and when the shop opens on Tuesday, many times I have a bunch of items to consign. Then, a couple of times a year or so, I collect the money I earned from my consignments. Most of it goes right back into the store, but I love my system.

[@patriciabarnes6044]

Patti, great video! I am 78 and feel the same way. We downsized 5 years ago and over the last 5 years I have freed myself of stuff. If I buy something I have to get rid of something. It is hard to give up the nails. I cut my husbands hair. The pandemic helped shed a new light on life. Life really changed for me in 2016 as I watched our country go downhill. Knowing that our Lord is in control and focusing on Him helps with peace and calmness. Thank you for the prayer and wisdom. Love you girl!

[@judee.baland6526]

It took four auctioneers two days to get rid of all my parents collections. That’s why I don’t collect. I’d rather buy experiences than things. The trips the friends made the memories. I don’t remember what I or they were wearing but the fun, faces, the scenes the pure joy! Worth it

[@rachelledix-peek8348]

One of the most wonderful and down to earth videos on KZbin. Listening to you just warmed my heart and made me think seriously about excess. I too, have too much, want more and now I have to say 'Enough is all I need. I have enough. No more' Thank you so much for being candid and truthful. You are indeed a most gracious and beautiful woman 🌸🌸

[@hardwood7955]

I'm 72 and cut my own hair, colour my own blonde hair, and buy most clothes from second hand. I, too, want to downsize my life and my home. Selling stuff that isn't being used on kijiji here in Ottawa. Feels marvelous. Plus I donate lots to Salvation Army. It's our age. I rarely wear my expensive jewelry and will leave it all to my kids. A great video, Patti.

[@jeanniesmith3705]

I am 58 and have probably 20 foundations just at my own house. And more at my dad's house. I have to know what you are wearing lol. And I need the video on the desk you chalk painted. You are a beautiful lady. I love Skinn brand face scrub. I wear outlast lip color too and believe you are the reason I bought Plum Berry. My mom passed away last June and was a shopaholic. I have so much stuff it is overwhelming. I don't need anything lol i have to stop buying clothes. . I could save for a cruise. I have never been on one.

[@rebeccafrancis8227]

I agree about the skin care products but I saw a lady on instagram who suggested Cetaphil moisturizing cream for your body. It is around $16 for a very large tub at Walmart. I thought I might as well give it a try. The first time I used it I thought it was awfully thick and almost looked like lard but Oh MY GOODNESS, it is wonderful at taking care of dry skin and works for days. So since covid I decided to try it on my face. I am 72 and needed moisturizer for the first time. It is also great for your face. I had been using expensive skin care products that did not do the same as Cetaphil. I even told my dermatologist about it. My BFF also loves it. Just try it I promise you won’t be disappointed. I enjoy your channel….

[@carolynsanner8253]

Thank you for this recommendation!😊

[@Audacitie]

I needed to hear this as an affirmation of what I already knew. But I needed to have this reinforced! So easy to say this, so difficult to do.

[@susanbaumgard2473]

I always joked with my sister that my closet is living a full lifestyle I do not live!! I now buy to my actual lifestyle, not one I only imagined! I no longer get my nails done. New furniture is on the horizon, I have waited 20 years for this. I am 65 and realize that when something new comes in something has to go. I have a short pixie cut so my hair has to be cut every 5 weeks or so. I have tried to go to a regular haircut place for 2 years now but have recently gone back to the salon. At this time, for me it is still worth it. All the things you have mentioned I also question. Still sorting it all out.! My heart hurts for all the people of Ukraine.

[@carolyndeutsch8726]

Oh Patty, I freaked out when I watched this video! Nearly everything you mentioned giving up has been running thru my mind so much lately. I honestly think it's our age and the realization that we're surrounded by all this stuff that doesn't mean squat to anyone but us. I too have tried to give things to our daughters and there's very little interest in any of my so called treasures. I've also estimated the money I've wasted over the years and now think of all the good that could have been done with that money and become ill. Nearly everything you mentioned could easily be on my top 10 as well. I have dresses, shoes, and lots of accessories I'll never wear. Some still have tags on them. I always dressed up for work but never go anywhere now that requires dressing up. Such a waste and yet what can I do with these things... others don't dress up anymore either. I know all my craft supplies, counted cross stitch materials, DMC flosses, patterns, frames, etc will all be tossed in a dumpster. I have started looking around the house and little by little am gradually trying to pack up some of my collections to give to a local resale store that donates money from sales to many missions. If only the younger generations could think the way we do. I used to get excited buying things for vacations, decor for the house, etc when there really was no need... what we already had was in excellent condition. In the last month each time I was tempted to buy anything, clothes, make up, crafting supplies, whatever, I ask myself, do I want it or do I need it? If the answer is "want" instead of "need" then I refuse to buy and believe me, it's sometimes very hard!

[@theresatumidajski5219]

Love the idea of Foundation Fridays!

[@patriciacrane987]

Patti, I had to think about your video. I imagine through the years we all have spent what we could on our appearance. But I think we all have tried to be the best we could be. Because of that, you and I are the people we are today. I am not sure we should regret past efforts to be attractive. Yes, at 74, my priorities have changed. I just bought a foot bath so I can do my own pedicure. I no longer want to “have to” go to the salon. So with age and life we are always adapting. The pandemic accelerated this process I think. I love your videos!

[@julieslone422]

Dont give up being kind and sweet Patti. We love ya

[@Georgia-oi6ie]

My take on skin care. Sunscreen makes a difference, not smoking, lot's f water and stress relief. A hard life shows on the face faster then anything. A good moisturizer, a good exfoliation, Sunscreen is all you need. Genetics plays a big role. There's no magic in a bottle. It's really a eternal process. Eat well,drink water,avoid environmental pollution especially smoking. Balance stress. That's really the only thing that works.

[@debehmann8791]

And I would add, plenty of sleep! Or sleep whenever you can!

[@nancycook7802]

Wholeheartedly agree with your comments.

[@vintageprue8728]

Totally agree, sunscreen is key, and I am lucky enough to have good genes. I’m big on exfoliation, love a good face scrub, it removes old skin cells and allows your moisturiser to sink in and be more effective. Great advice, Georgia!

[@susiepatterson5383]

I hope you see this, You are my inspiration, I’m 65 and I’ve learned so much from you. You have taught me so much and I truly listen to every word you say and I’ve learned so much and I just want to thank you❤️

[@deboraharthur4753]

Patti, 🌿🍰☕️ I just love and admire you so much!! Your advice is always priceless, and well received! At age 49, I have slowly minimized more and more in all areas. This has created more room for a higher quality of life! In the past, I looked forward to Weekly mornings started with Starbucks followed by random shopping till late evening. Since the pandemic, a lot has changed, I much prefer a large collection of heartfelt memories! 💗 I still enjoy Starbucks, but now it feels like a treat, rather than a habit!

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋dear, how are you doing?

[@janetshaw3554]

patti it’s like we’re in the mind set right now! I just purged a pile of stuff purses shoes makeup dishes and I haven’t stopped I’m fed up with so much stuff! I think we have all changed from this pandemic I don’t want stuff anymore! Not as much I’m only keeping my favorite and things I truly use I have no husband or kids to clean up after I’m gone it’s just me my cat and this house..I’m realizing it’s too much to look after I don’t have the energy anymore! I would rather spend my time with my friends and what little family I have left, I realized the last time I went shopping there wasn’t a thing I wanted in that store I already have so much of it it felt wasteful to buy anything thanks for your vids! I do enjoy them so much! Maybe I’ll go now and put on some kiss nails hehe! I do love them!❤️❤️🌹

[@PeachesSkinCare]

Your beginning was everything. So much more important than any discussion on Beauty or money. So many are leaving their “ Stuff” behind and what’s most important is lifting others up and spreading kindness and a hand to those who need it. Prayers for Ukraine and anyone in the world struggling because of injustice or war or fear 🧡 💙 Thank you Patty 🍑🙌🏻🧡Lisa Beautiful Patty🍑🙌🏻🧡Lisa

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

Yes. I'm 71 now and three years ago we downsized substantially - from a 2,800 sq ft. home to a 1,200 sq. ft condo. It is so freeing!

[@dorothycard2599]

OMG! I loved this video. Every item hit home with me except one. I’ve never had my nails done professionally. When you said fake flowers, I almost fell off my chair. I could start a fake flower store. Craft supplies, same thing. Makeup, yep, just got the Elf items you suggested. 🙄. I have tons of makeup, won’t use it up if I live to be 150. Stopped coloring my hair on 12-4-19. I’d add swim suites to the list and I don’t have a pool or go swimming. Haven’t been to the beach in years but I get one or two every year just in case. I’m 73. Love you Pattie.

[@julieaustin4684]

Swimsuits … yes please … I adore swimming costumes as we say here in Australia ☺️🙏🏼🇦🇺🐨🍷🍿

[@janiceestes9518]

I am a swimmer. I have 3 swimsuits at one given time. I love shopping but cut back and instead I swim at a YMCA for 4 days a week. I am in the pool for at least one hour on my days spent there. My health is number one. Hate clutter. I already decluttered my home. Best thing that I ever did. It's me time.

[@gayleclark3369]

I am in Australia Patti, and will be 79 on 21 May this year. Maybe this revelation about simplifying our lives now is coming from the 'gaining of wisdom'. Love your videos, and love your 'purity'. This time in our lives is fabulous....you look fabulous / are fabulous! Gayle xxx

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋dear, how are you doing?

[@chrismctague5015]

I feel exactly the same. The pandemic has changed me plus now the war in Ukraine. I am ashamed how much money I have wasted, too many things. Decluttering made me face the waste. I have given up shopping for Lent. I have to find better ways to spend my time. Thank you for the prayer for Ukraine.

[@christyhoehn8244]

I’m 75 too! I recently started watching A KZbinr who had a “ no buy” year….. I agree with this “ less stuff” way of life….. I’m only a week in, but it is so freeing!!!!! So now I’ll add this channel! Yea!!

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋dear, how are you doing?

[@suew6011]

I am so glad you talked about this! I will soon be 66 and especially since the pandemic hit, I have given up some things and I am happy I did. My nails are #1 as well. I’ve been getting them done for over 35 years and it was my number 1 thing I did for myself. I missed having gorgeous nails dearly the first year in particular. And on occasion I still “pine” for the good old days but I will slap on some polish and because I give myself regular manicures, my nails are in good shape. I never go to craft shows anymore. I spend lots of time de-cluttering and selling or giving away. I do not need one more “thing” to have to dust or clean. Things that were once so important to me just aren’t anymore. It’s good to know that others feel this way as we age. Skin care is minimal now. You’re exactly right - one moisturizer is pretty much the same as another. And most of all, unless you use retinol or sunscreen it’s not going to change your skin. Thanks, Patti. I am so sad for Jens friend. I am sad for all the needless and horrible things happening to people. Sue

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hi 👋 Sue, how are you doing?

[@vickicontreras3302]

Patti, I love the way you just bare your soul and tell all about your likes and dislikes. You have made me really look at myself and make some changes. Thank you for being you and being so open about yourself. After each video, and many times during it, you really make me think about whatever topic you are discussing. I feel like we are friends and I really like you a lot. Thanks for each chat. Love you.😘💋

[@debismith2802]

LOVED this.....and yes, I really think it's a age thing....I'll be 67 in another couple months and for the past several years I've stopped attending craft shows, and or buying cute things to decorate with. I have gone through so many tubs of stuff and either sold or given away stuff....cutting down and getting things cleared out. Just keep the same ole things that mean something to me that I always use to decorate with. Slowing down on makeup, it's like just how much can I actually use??? Have gone through and gotten rid of beauty items I don't reach for anymore. So....the buy has hit me too....and yup don't want my kids to have to sort it all after I'm gone either. There isn't much they want....and if they do I give it when they ask rather than later. Thanks Patti for sharing and looking forward to the next videos.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@laurahills6109]

Downsizing to 1/3 of our square footage in 2019 helped me to see that I do not need a lot of space and a lot of stuff to live a beautiful life. We traded our large suburban home for a beautiful carefree urban high rise with a breathtaking view of the city and harbor. I loved my home and my treasures but now, I can't imagine going back to it.

[@hjahansouz]

I just turned 64 and feel the same way. I have stopped going to a nail place a long time ago. I do my own nails. Once in a while I get a pedicure. I buy clothes and shoes if I need them. Shopping no longer makes me happy or excited. You are absolutely right about the pandemic affecting us; especially those of us who used a love one to this virus.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@brendathompson2503]

Oh Pattie, Thanks for the good chat, smiles & laughs this morning. Lord knows I have so many of the same pulls or addictions you have that I’ve given up or I’m still trying hard to kick since the pandemic. Take care & a great week😘