The 7 Stages How Men Fall In Love | How To HOT WIRE Attraction With Men

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

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[@shirleytagala2946]

I did lots of advice from relationships advicer but nothings happen. I can say there’s no secret. Just be your self. If a man likes you he will accept you for who you are. Girls, focus on yourself and focus on your career. The right one will come in a right time.

[@dtrishacc]

Agreed 💯

[@amorevanrensburg8907]

i totally agree💕

[@christinemaddy6164]

True!

[@sarah-janeross864]

Yup

[@kariminjagi5054]

Agree to this..am so tired

[@lainedoss2734]

Just lean back is correct. I've been dating this man for eight months and he is calm, sincere, honest, caring, sexy, sweet, and helpful. Other relationships were like zero to 60 and this is a slow burn and it's wonderful. Turns our drama is not fun. What is fun? Having a man who looks you in the eyes, makes dinner, fixes your lamp, loves old James Bond movies, helps you get dressed after you dislocate your arm -- and is amazingly passionate.

[@klangkarussell4599]

Wonderful. 😄 It's those small, thoughtful actions that matter.

[@kelseycrystal]

Omg I love this

[@gioovannabp]

Happy for you! 😍

[@margaritam.9118]

Aww that’s amazing ☺️ lucky girl! Original James Bond movies are the best 😌

[@jessmulligan3586]

I love this. For some reason your comment made me feel so calm. I recently met a great guy and we’re totally into each other right now so I needed to hear: ‘just relax.’ Congrats and many blessings to you 💕

[@elanacarter1787]

“When in doubt, lean back” love that! So true. Sometimes you just have to play it cool.

[@christinecarver1665]

So hard!

[@lucasdaniel688]

Where are you from

[@lucasdaniel688]

@@christinecarver1665 where are you from

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Elina darling dropping it like is HOT. You have been hanging around relationship professors. "Lean back" my mind on my money and my money on my mind.PUN wickedest tune. Every respectable guys out there want the best for their lady friend even if there is no relationship among them, simple. Playing it COOL being on the safe side and protecting the interest of the lady.

[@SamElle]

Your tip about not dropping things to put a guy in your schedule is sooo important! This is a mistake I CONSTANTLY make but I need to realize they’re lucky to spend time with me and it should not just be me adjusting my schedule

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

100% Sam 🙌🏼

[@christinecarver1665]

It's so hard! I do this when I like a guy!

[@lucasdaniel688]

Where are you from ?

[@SamElle]

Lucas Daniel nyc!! Hbu??

[@lucasdaniel688]

@@SamElle Boca Raton

[@dbedazzling1]

Women you're too loyal. Don't ever focus on one guy unless he told you its exclusive. Don't assume bc 99.9 times hes roaching you. There are other women you hv no idea about.

[@TinaMuse-n3b]

Of course, as usual!

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Yup. Make sure you want his ass too lol

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Cheats are always getting it on...when they plan your life alone without you.

[@cornelia7526]

i feel so ready now once this lockdown ends haha

[@samanthaelias4126]

😄

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Good! That's the spirit! 👊🏼

[@saracara9151]

Cornelia K PERIODTTTT

[@rap.4937]

Lol

[@janelleortiz9046]

This is incredible. I had no idea this existed.

[@smogfry2005]

You know what guys like more than this? Honest communication so they arent constantly guessing, playing games, and wondering if they are wasting their time.

[@LeonMRr]

Thank you, you're right

[@austinbiswell1784]

I nearly spat out my food out laughing! I thought this entire comment section was confused and misled but here we have the diamond in the rough. Spot on.

[@laundrybasket2689]

Women want this too. It goes both ways. Sadly, we have too many men who prefer to play games and break hearts than real men who actually prefer honesty. Being honest only gets you hurt, ladies. Don’t pay attention to these altruistic statements made here that only work in a man’s favor. If a man knows you’re honest and you care, you WILL get your heart ripped out eventually. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

[@genericname7020]

@@laundrybasket2689 "I'm going to play this woman and break her heart" said no man ever. Guys just lose interests. Maybe because you aren't interesting or a fun person to be around with? Stop assuming that every guy has some evil intention. Look within yourself.

[@isaiahjr9259]

As a guy this is true. Females need to learn how to be straight up. But no they prefer to do the opposite. Nowadays

[@lauramorgan27]

The 7 stages of men wasting your time lmao

[@christinecarver1665]

LoL!!!

[@Sabrina96]

Yup

[@lunarose828]

Hahahaha

[@stefaniemcgivern4519]

Yup

[@rtphotos4691]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LeilaNoelliste]

I got to phase 4/5 with a guy that I was falling madly in love with. I panicked and asked him 'where is this going' and he pulled back completely. I was so disappointed and heartbroken. I started pulling back myself and he came back (!!!!) We're back around phase 4 again and this time I am letting him chase... completely. It feels so counter intuitive because I am a go getter in life but learning that men/relationships operate under a different set of rules.

[@tammyhall1783]

You can never ask the right person the wrong questions.

[@thereseanderson2512]

Maybe the reason why guys do that is because he also doesn't know and doesn't want to admit he doesn't know it either! He might be falling for u quicker than he realizes. Backing off can be his way of figuring out how much he likes u!

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Typical stories of men that tells you the truth and your reaction doubts his intentions for really loving you. Take your time to let him know that you really miss him and that there is no substitute for sharing you bed without him, ask your friends and they will smile ans tell you to take it easy or bunk him for fun and make his head swell. Adult Cartoon story. I respect your honesty madam leila. I feel i heard it in Sir Eric Clapton song.

[@amuzzing67]

Main point: boys only want love if it's torture; Don't say I didn't say I didn't warn ya.

[@May52525]

T. Swift has sang more truth than people give her credit for.

[@benthagreatest]

Yes boys maybe. I just wish women knew that their is real men out here that don't play these types of games!!

[@deislandgirl1]

I agree! Men want what’s hard to have and you must never let them know that they have you

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Yes!

[@CasperV1982]

Thanks Miss Swift ;)

[@TheSMPhoto]

SINGLE MOMS: having kids IS SUBSTANCE.... seriously, thank you for this shoutout and validation.

[@lucasdaniel688]

Where are you from

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Of course it is babe! 🥰

[@theamazingchampyt]

most men are turned off by the fact that I have kids, but that’s okay, because my kids are my world :)

[@eaiza8285]

I'm not catching feels. I'm not catching feels. I'm not catching feels. I'm not catching feels.

[@Rocanala]

Men have all these stages and we’re supposed to “hang out” hoping to make it through without stating our needs?!? BS

[@tzukhi]

Yea total bs

[@keepcreationprocess]

Yeehhh, it takes for ages, all those time, all those money, you wasted your body because you have to have sex with them, they dont even love you, but they use you as a product, all those wasted life, and the final answer is no. It is like a lottery.

[@iwantthechisme1338]

@@keepcreationprocess you dont have to have sex with a guy like that if you arent committed to each other because they'll most likely leave

[@Ericatrue2.0]

You are putting your needs in, set boundaries and let him know where your at. Just dont do it all at once or too much. You can read if hes stringing you along. He'll give you his time and show he cares if not. If you have to have sex or he leaves, let him!

[@230mps]

I find it hilarious that you think that’s the way we operate. Meanwhile that’s exactly what it’s like for us as men all the time we’re never allowed to be up front and to be honest about how we feel. On top of that whenever we make this argument you guys always want to picture a guy already planning the wedding on the first date.

[@101Sarahsaurus]

When did men get so complicated 😅

[@benthagreatest]

Men are not this Complicated!

[@smallwienersteve5892]

men really aren't this complicated

[@leighannawright1506]

When social media came into play. Why commit when you can have a different hoe every night of the week?

[@icysnow57cold64]

How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.

[@icysnow57cold64]

Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.

[@BoraKimBUZZ]

Why do I feel so tired listening to this...

[@pintarmas2024]

Because you get the impression you are going to need a degree on this before you can even start thinking about being with someone? In my case I was not bothered with the whole thing because i was not looking for anybody and by now we have made a big mess and go and figure which stage or what to do next...

[@EmVeeBeen]

Just change the playback speed to 1.25 or 1.50

[@101Sarahsaurus]

Completely agree.. I didn’t know I had so much to learn

[@benthagreatest]

@@101Sarahsaurus Men are not that Complicated! I think hes talking about dating little boys. Real men don't play games.

[@000RachElla000]

Because obviously getting a guy is hard work and it's awfully tiring ;)

[@jennifersantamaria4442]

Hotwire tip save yourself a headache and stock up on batteries

[@themaggattack]

🤣🤣💯💯

[@gabrielleclose1157]

Best advice EVER 😂😂

[@brownsugarcj7798]

Ryan Patrick I need you to do a video stating: "why you are wife material and he still does not choose you"

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

If he doesn't see what you bring to the table now, he never will. He's just not your guy is all 😬

[@alessandravittorio3153]

What if he does NOT want a wife? And: is there just one type of wife (/relationship)?

[@truerosie]

@@alessandravittorio3153 If he doesn't want a wife, and you want to be one, let him go. Believe the man, he doesn't want a wife. So end it, if that doesn't meet your needs.

[@opjade]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick thank you for these words. I think i just need to read it out and hit my head to wake up. This guy i m seeing... For bout 9 mths now... The other day, lon story short, we were in sum tensed phase, arguments ensued, n "clingy" was the reason he gave , and if we shd "figure out again if we wanna continue this." .... ") I donno whether to cry or laugh.

[@KatieJCruz]

He’s just not for you. You’re not wife material in his eyes, and that’s OK. Find the one who sees your value.

[@Juztkiki]

When in doubt, lean back. I love that! Thank you😊

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Pretty pretty pay back time, enjoy the comeback

[@kristinej.4182]

Great explanation. So true about letting the man take his time to come to a commitment. Can never rush him or try to manipulate the situation. He has to reach that decision on his own for the relationship to succeed.

[@amberbarwick3689]

I love all these videos. My relationship has been going so well. Him and I knew each other for quite some time before dating. I was living the single mom life with and kept going back to my ex. He would get upset everytime but never told me, our mutual friends told me. But watching these videos and actually trying to learn from my mistakes has really help. Thank you!

[@h.j2141]

What happens when a guy behaves like he’s interested, but he won’t ask the girl any personal or normal questions, and he just keeps talking about himself? Run. Run as fast as your legs can take you Girl!!!!! Could you do a video on that? How to not get sucked into a one sided relationship; the three Key eye opening signs that it won’t go well because he’s selfish.. from the very beginning.

[@anakulic4143]

UGH, sounds like a guy I recently met

[@Sabrina96]

Yes, just went through this. My intuition is 100% accurate yet I pushed it aside when I felt some things were not right because I had feelings for him and went with that because I really wanted to enjoy the moments but it ended up when he just used me. I thought to try and I could handle it yet it still hurt. He didn't care a thing about me and was awful to me. I know he is an awful person but I still love him...hoping it will go away soon. It's exhausting! Really, how difficult it is to meet someone compatible, real, genuine...Jeez!

[@laundrybasket2689]

Aries men.

[@unkn0wnr0ckstar]

"Remember he's a visitor in your world, not the other way around." OMG...

[@JanineRCalvert]

If a person must do so much waiting and delaying time , you might as well be single. My guy my family on the second date and couldnt wait to go back and see me more often because he could see my personality was genuine because of the household I came from.

[@laundrybasket2689]

That’s awesome! You are very lucky and blessed. This is extremely rare.

[@JanineRCalvert]

@@laundrybasket2689 oh no. A few months later he ghosted me , came back a few months later... took me out on date and ghosted me agai .later I found out he was dating someone for 6 months. He was seeing me while they were on a break and then cheated on her with me when I thought he came back reconcile

[@最高共産主義]

People who act uninterested make me less interested, yes I like to work to get a girl but if she tells me she’s not looking for anything then I’m not gonna be pushy.

[@mc95]

Video suggestion: what’s the thought process of men regarding long distance relationships

[@bellad.1274]

Nope! Don't have any type of sex with a man until A, he requests a monogamous relationship. B. He's spent at least 40 days showing up & proving he's a reliable romantic boyfriend. C until he's in love with you. This is the man who will definitely want to marry you and see you as the prize. Women need to keep their legs closed and create DESIRE in a man. This creates a lasting Bond and respect. He needs to go home and play with himself thinking about you.. just like in the old days. This is what truly creates a love-bond & being his dream girl. I've had a lot of guys ask to marry me without any sex. It works.

[@ida4587]

You should make a KZbin channel to give more tips. When you mean no sex, does that include nothing at all? (no oral for example)

[@Ginger32]

Is it okay to go get your sexual needs taken care of by another man in the meantime while you wait for the boyfriend/husband material for the 40 day or more period of time?

[@Ginger32]

@Ryan Patrick.......

[@bellad.1274]

@@ida4587 none!!! He needs to be excited the whole time. Just sweet hugs and kisses. Gentle flirtation & he will go home and pleasure himself-- thinking about YOU (instead of porn). Sex & love is mental and its the easiest way to get into his head. Even the top courtesans were aware that creating desire is just as important as beauty.

[@bellad.1274]

@@Ginger32 I would say that men can sense the presence of another man. Plus women have a hard time categorizing their emotions. Is it impossible? - no. Its possible, but much, much more unlikely. Anyways, if its done right.. the investment of time is worth it --to land a husband that you really love!

[@katedauphinee7536]

Thanks again, Ryan. Always good to be reminded about the virtue of patience. (And sometimes even that doesn't work...).

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Hey Kate! Yup - If this time is teaching us anything, it's definitely patience 😄

[@lucasdaniel688]

Where are you from

[@casy6203]

How can we give an air of busy, preoccupied life when we're in quarantine and we are just at home all day? What am I pretending to do?

[@jansenrivera643]

Casy this is a very valid question 😅

[@michelleroberts-21]

There are plenty of things that you could be doing- you could be working on yourself mentally, physically, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually etc., for example learning a new skill or language, reading a new book or meal prepping and exercising. You could also be working on renovating your home- making new curtains/cushions, DIY decorations and furniture for example. Being in quarantine doesn’t mean that we should just sit down and stare into space or on our devices.

[@deanna10464]

Your hobbies, Shaw University has a free 4 week course you can take .. just be sure to cancel before the 4th week ... learn something new .. taking a online class to better yourself is not only keeping you busy .. but it could help you out later on.

[@patriciaearley4177]

@@deanna10464 very cool I will check these courses out.Thanks for sharing

[@truerosie]

You could be in touch with friends and relatives all day on skype, just as busy socially as when not in quarantine.

[@dasherlittle5821]

If someone is really interested, you don't need any tips...just be yourself...

[@dbnd2240]

💯

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Keeping it simple TIPS... Forget about more fishes in the sea.

[@chantalbest5122]

And this is why I cant deal with dating. 7 reasons for me to stay single.

[@VegasLady81]

Clear sign number one that he's falling or has fallen for you: He eventually tells you (genuinely): "I love everything about you" and shows it. A man who isn't feelin' ya will not make an effort for you at all. No good morning or goodnight texts, no "How was your day?" texts, and might I add that if a man is in love with you, talk is cheap, because he's going to show it in his actions.

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Are you feeling well at all?

[@glogloe1797]

Another utuber suggested you always make text interesting not your basic “How was your day”. Set yourself apart.

[@TnuhhhhASMR]

Ahhh having beauty to attract the guy. Didn’t work for me. Met my boyfriend on an anonymous app, became friends and he turned me down at first. Now he loves me, I guess it be like that sometimes. Says he feel in love with my personality and my looks “grew on him” welp

[@tyleredwards5902]

I like this response. Somehow, chemistry kicks in, hope your looks grew on him :-)

[@luckyduckydaisyflower2344]

I'm not sure about him saying this...hope things are well with you

[@sunnydaze80]

This is probably the MOST useful video I've seen on dating here on the interwebs.

[@KatieJCruz]

I disagree about not being able to play it cool online. 🤣 I Met a guy through a dating site, and he told me I am gorgeous, and I replied with, “you’re pretty easy on the eyes yourself.” He’s actually hot AF, but I didn’t want to seem too eager. lol 🤣🤣 it’s been going on 6 years now. 🤷🏻‍♀️ And this is pretty misogynistic view: the notion that a woman can “make a man leave.” If he leaves, no matter what the reason is, it just means that he’s not for you. If he’s for you, no matter what you do “wrong” won’t matter. Just like no matter what he does “wrong,” if you’re meant to be with him, you will not be bothered by his actions.

[@reginamunoz6595]

Can you please elaborate on "love bombing". I'm in a new relationship (less than a month) and he has already spoken about wanting to marry Me, have more children, and has already says he loves me. It scares me, that this doesn't scare me! He's very affectionate and not afraid to share his feelings and emotions. I've never experienced a guy this "open" or affectionate and I love it. What does this all mean?

[@viennala2528]

Hes playing

[@logikgirl12]

That's a red flag smh I've had that experience. A man who is serious will take his time and figure you out before he gives you a commitment

[@deanli5793]

Read up about narcissistic personality disorder it sounds awfully like love bombing. Good luck!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Marriage, children AND love in the first month? This guy has no clue what he wants. Honestly, I'd be careful. Did he just get out of a relationship? Because it sounds like he's rebounding, potentially. 😬

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Something is *definitely* up, for sure 👍🏼

[@uditaparab5422]

I feel so jeolous of my sister because she didn't do any chase and still got proposed her for marriage .Also bout the old times where people never thought so much still their relationship lasted for years

[@misspriss2482]

Don't be fooled by the old times. A lot of those couples lasted because of the stigma of divorce and the woman's inability to take care of herself.

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Settle down and stop being used for sexual gravitation by cool guys you admire for husband trophies, they might think you enjoy the sex and that was enough satisfaction to get you to pension age. Your sister is your loved one and you should be extremely happy for her happiness.

[@emiliajambor3569]

I should've leaned back more and I will lean back more from now on. I never knew it was so important.

[@beehappy1740]

We've been best friends for 5 years. Never more. We are also long distance friends. He is flying here next week to meet me. I can't wait... no matter if it moves to more or not.

[@jomay4871]

Recently discovered this channel, I'm totally binge-ing on Ryan...such great energy...love it...

[@VixeyTeh]

Thank you for actually getting to the points and explaining stuff, not just teasing and stringing along for some pay for link. Subscribing for sure.

[@miteruppi]

im already on the seventh stage, for almost a year now 😂😂 should i keep waiting, coach?

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Ryan is the true guy with only ladies channel responding to his verses on relationships. Bigup Ryan

[@carolinefranco7865]

When a man truly loves you, he will love the demons out of you. 😂

[@lucasdaniel688]

🤔

[@JaviereInniss]

I'm a guy and I can 100% say this is true

[@thereseanderson2512]

Oh, i believe it!! It can be pretty scary how much a guy can love!

[@laundrybasket2689]

That will come to a halt eventually though. You’ve been warned.

[@laundrybasket2689]

@@JaviereInniss Are you still “loving the demons” out of your girl? Or did you dump her yet?

[@ariaevans3676]

I'm picturing guys watching these and being like "OH NO HE'S EXPOSING US"

[@lindaakesson8403]

that's cute... however, we don't really mind 😏

[@maddiwoods4029]

This video broke my heart. My boyfriend and I of over a year now have been having issues lately bc he doesn't put in any effort whatsoever anymore and it makes me question if I should stay or not even though I love him. I just know I deserve better but I don't have the strength to leave. Life sucks lol

[@xxladybug94]

Communicate how you feel to him! If he does nothing to change this walk away. 1 year is way too soon to be getting bored or not putting in any effort. If he is making you feel bad more than he uplifts you walk away from him

[@alexasigouin3592]

Suggestion of video: he’s really not my type physically, but we get along so great. Is that relationship possible?

[@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314]

Of course. I would give anything for true love. Obviously you want to be somewhat attracted. But if the love is there then that's all that matters. Life is to short to pass up real people who care.

[@MeepitQueen27]

If he doesn’t turn you on, you’re trading the chemistry. Depends on if your primary love language is physical touch also

[@truerosie]

Do you fancy him? he may not be your type physically but that doesn't mean he won't turn you on. Having a 'type' is a limitation, sexual attraction can occur with any type. BUT if there's no physical attraction, he's not love affair or relationship / marriage material. The sexual element is what distinguishes these relationships from any others. Love is NOT all that matters, that's a major fantasy myth.

[@xw6475]

I am so done with guys right now. One of the guy i like him more while the guy i just met 3 days ago he is chase after me. Sending messages through the whole day, i am really losing my interest. I have no idea what is wrong with the guys nowdays. i am just so done with guys

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Breaks are a blessing. It might help change the whole landscape of the guys you meet if you take a month or two off 👍🏼

[@xw6475]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Hey Ryan, thank you so much for your reply! I actually met this guy today, we had some deep conversation along with pizza, 🍺! Your video is gem, I am so appreciative your effort! Looking forward for more vidoes, please stay safe you and your family 👏

[@aminamemic2141]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Khm, I shall ask here for your opinion on something 😊 I had hit off with one guy - our chemistry in texting and in person was great, but I could tell that he didn't have too much interest in who I am, just a question here and there about what I like and my plans. In one texting session in a heat of a moment, he suggested that we have sex, which I refused. He'd been polite at first since then and tried not to be pushy, but became sarcastic and bitchy most of the time later. I was playful whole the time. We don't have contact anymore, on his demand. Was there any actual interest in me?

[@Ginger32]

I had a guy who used to call and text every 30 minutes. He was so needy I couldn't take it. Had to block his number and we weren't even dating!!!!!!!!!!!

[@PriscillaNamalwa]

Well some women have stages too! I understand what you’re saying buuut you kinda make it seem like men are so delicate and so vulnerable so ‘needy’ women have to be careful not to scare the little prince away with her feelings.. you are a human being and feeling come with that and yes women tend to be more emotional but if he runs when he sees these you dodged a fool✌🏼..hmm no woman is going to sit around waiting for some confused guy and all his stages to ‘know’ if he’s ready to commit/in love. That’s how some women wait up to years on some guy to finally make up his mind or become exclusive! Smh. If a man really wants to commit he’ll make it crystal clear from the start. Men are hunters. He won’t leave the door open for the next man to steal you away!! Fx does a hungry man ‘wait to know if he’s ready to eat’ when there is food in front of him? No! And not to compare women to food but if he really wants you then he knows Immediately!

[@KatieJCruz]

💯♥️🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@Ericatrue2.0]

Its just a basic guide. You can tell him your feelings just don't come off needy. If you love yourself and have a full life of your own you wont be. So it's easy

[@TheActionTourist]

Really wanting you in the beginning as a man just equals to really wanna bang and getting physical. For a guy to really know if he wants her to stick in his life and want her as a girlfriend he has to actually get to know her better and see if she's cool, a good fit to him etc. they can't know if they'd want to commit immediately no matter how much you'd like that to be the case, that's only pretty much the case with sex but a commitment is something else entirely and takes more than just good sex generally for 'high quality men' with standards. And the guys that do instantly know that they'd like to commit even though they barely know you aren't going to be attractive to you, they'd be too easy to get.

[@sky-od8cq]

You are totally right. It is as simple as that.

[@corrines4270]

This was v helpful, I need to watch this a couple more times!!!

[@lucasdaniel688]

Hey

[@theteachingromance]

Aaaah, this was the most helpful video ever. Thank you soooo much. Although, how do these stages look like at times like right now where we can only text but not meet?

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

They end up drawing out a bit longer than usual, but the framework is all still there. He'll be filling in the gaps and making more assumptions (something you can't really control) while he's away from you and can't meet you in person. 🙂

[@theteachingromance]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thank you so much. I guess I just have to be patient, then.

[@lucasdaniel688]

Hey

[@charlesonikosi4099]

You what Tracy? No SIR that was too early, let the meadow clear the air stream.

[@trauma2happiness]

Good video. Liked and subscribed.

[@MuzieklaanRecords]

I can confirm that most of it is true, however, being needy is a no go. Pulling back as said in stage 3 is driving me crazy as I’m typing this. But now I know for sure that I want her. The imagination stage is ongoing through the entire process, it’s not a step. And last tip, the substance tip is really important, nobody want a boring woman right? But that goes the other way around as well. The situation I’m currently in is a dance, pull and push, uncertainty on both sides, but the excitement and the rollercoaster of emotions.. I still don’t know if she likes me and I don’t think she knows I like her. It’s fun and scary at the same time lol.

[@ashleybellerose7104]

Hm id say I am in stage 5. He already ran away to collect his thoughts. Made me sad. Then he came back. Been going great so far

[@nessasoria88]

After seeing this I can see where I went wrong with a few guys 😂

[@bambiiii4858]

How will you turn around the situation if he already knew that you really like him and you as a girl wanted to know if he likes you as well. What’s the best thing to do to find it out without asking him yet?

[@summertime718]

I love you for this vid. At this stage I was ready to start playing games cuz he's in the "silent" stage.. n I was a lil confused but u made it make sense. Hope this goes all the way..

[@ChanChan-tv1wp]

This was the cure for getting rid of the crush I had😂 🙌

[@Lebogang_Mathe]

Thank you so much this will help me since I'm searching for love new subbie from South Africa

[@nickirkland5737]

Great content Ryan. Hope you and Britney stay safe and healthy ☺

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Nic! You guys too! 🙌🏼

[@meme-qo6jz]

I saw your Friendzone video. I dated a guy 3 dates and I guess the learning stage was happening . I told him I liked him.... so I guess I shouldn't have told him that. We never had a 4th date and he said he was unsure of a connection then he wanted to be friends and go from there. I actually felt a strong connection with him and I felt that he did too. It definitely felt mutual. I accepted his friendship and said I would like that. Now he can't stop texting me. What should I do now?

[@malvikagupta2814]

Ryan you are too good !! It's all so real and authentic content shared by you ❣️❣️

[@brownsugarcj7798]

Ryan Patrick a great video. Thank you. I would like to know why do men say you are a good woman and find that you are really nice but don't choose you but want to keep you in their lives by being friends.

[@rachelmarie6235]

Same experience!! My man dumped me last week. I know I'm wife material and he knows it to😔 but I still got dumped.

[@sunnycieli]

He has options and doesn't want to burn bridges with you.

[@brownsugarcj7798]

@Rachel Marie it is so confusing to me.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

The 'ol *backup plan* in full effect. If you'd fully value a friendship with him and would benefit from it in some way, go for it; without having any expectation of more. Otherwise, don't just befriend him hoping that something converts later. It's the complete wrong mentality to have with him. 🙂

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Exactly! No need to be burning bridges 👌🏽

[@elizabethdobos6259]

Ryan: Your introduction portion of your videos is too long. Get to the point. I disagree that a man needs to be "guided along" to a commitment. If he is interested and ready he will commit. Besides, having to guide a man along is work and a man who is work is a turn-off.

[@lucasdaniel688]

Hey

[@mandanamomennejad5047]

I love ur videos so much I like them before even watching them cuz I know u won't let me down! tnx Ryan

[@lucasdaniel688]

Hey

[@DrJenTattoo]

Awesome video Ryan. Great tips.. I'm looking forward to next Monday's video. Have an awesome day

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Jen! Have a great week! 🙂

[@DrJenTattoo]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick You are very Welcome Ryan. Stay safe 🙂💙

[@christeljaneb3854]

I'm a new subscriber your video is different that makes us see man's points of view. Love that 😘

[@Tina-ir4kz]

Thanks Ryan, this is insightful content. How do we go about it if we simply make the common mistakes you have shared and the guy did indeed "walk away" in stage 5? To set some context, everything went really well and the connection was really great we went through stage 1-5 in about 5 weeks' time. He made it clear verbally, on several occasions, that this has positive prospects. But like what you said, in stage 5, he became more aloof and I got a little impatient and might have made it clear that I'm head over heels and wanted this to be serious. He then told me he can't do anything long term and would like to keep it casual. Is there a way to turn things around or should I just take his words and move on?

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Take time to plead with your heart when you feel that way. Life is not stage show, your approach and method in acting would prove your real intentions whether it stems from fear or love with a trick to pulling his heart strings...don't do it with a player is ready to devour your emotions and leave you wanting in pain of sweat when you have been tricked to fall for in love for games. Modern cities are plaque with so much career minded professionals with less time to find companion that is worthy. Real guys are taken in no time. Women in general, would say that your point is unheard off. Caring guys would turn the table round to please you, in the context of life experiences and style. Your point is really beautiful, but don't try it with guys without a heart or ruthless in a plot with mistake that will make you emotionally damaged with fierce controlling tactics, where your love is unappreciated. I grewup with my mum alone, so i understand your fears...similar to Mr Putin relentless behaviour towards lack of upbringing by his mother and motherly love presence.

[@mspoppyh]

Absolutely loved it!💯

[@jenniezhang4383]

You're amazing Ryan. How long do these stages take?

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

I'd say they guy typically will make it through all 7 before the 3-month mark of dating him. BUT, if he barrels through them in a week, take that as a red flag! 😬

[@jenniezhang4383]

Ryan Patrick the best thing ever in my quarantine is that I got a new guy to know, and I got Ryan's reply more than once! Hahaha!

[@theastrokyd2114]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick I would definitely say 6 months during COVID era, everything is moving slower.... including progression of regular daily life! Anyway love your channel dear xox

[@ns04402]

Him showing off got us in a car crash and i loved every second of it 😂😂😂😂

[@charlesonikosi4099]

Wow please mend your broken bones JOKING RIGHT. LOL

[@jeanninekirk9626]

Great advice, thanks Ryan! The hot tips are really helpful and the reminder to slow your roll and have patience is always good advice. 🙌🙌🥰

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Sure, Jeannine! Good to see you! Yup - slow your roll every time 😁

[@lucasdaniel688]

Where are you from

[@chrissynight6688]

Yeah, keep those tips coming!!! Loving it

[@lucasdaniel688]

Hey

[@garypurchase2939]

Hey I'm a new subscriber 😉

[@themaggattack]

This advice is SO SOLID! 💯

[@ressastrongman8108]

I feel ready to my bf.. Yes.. After lock down.. I'm excited to see him again.. I miss my love.. So much..

[@ressastrongman8108]

It's a date..

[@terricornett5706]

Thanks Ryan this has been so insightful.

[@mai2xmaimalantok628]

Amazing tips hopefully my long distance relationship is working I always watch your video thanks

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Awesome! Thanks for watching Jumaica! 😄

[@mai2xmaimalantok628]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick your alwys welcome sir watching here in hongkong

[@ElizabethArriens]

How many times did you say oops because of the facts in the video? Me: Three times. I'm glad that my bf stayed.

[@JL-vn7bc]

Ugh. All of this crap is so stupid. Like don't smother him early on, but if he's genuinely interested, and you click with him it should just naturally work out.

[@louisaklimentos7583]

Yes, my husband fell in love with controlling me and definitely not true love

[@jaehyunsqueso3450]

Lmao

[@marizelaisabel9875]

Love your videos! Thank you so much for all this info 💕

[@katewarren7242]

Another very informative view on what Men wish & want, I often used to say I wish I knew then what I know know. Thank you. Kate

[@charlesonikosi4099]

You know now to lookafter yourself and don't blame it on relationships, men fall for caring women not showoffs, you could be so lucky take a caring course online to boost your life skill or work for a charity temporary to understand human interactions based on trust and integrity.

[@niumairatu2493]

I certainly like the video..thank u

[@nofybn7794]

Guys need to get over their issue of wanting what they can't have! False, guys would rather be single. NOT TOO MUCH LONGER, SOME GUYS STRING WOMEN ALONG FOR 5-6 YEARS.

[@daisytoday4785]

nofy bn it’s the women’s fault for letting them string you along If he’s not interested move on to the next one there are plenty of other options

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

If a guy was being honest, he never wants to be alone. 👍🏼

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Mounds of options indeed 👌🏽

[@h.j2141]

nofy bn it’s Human Nature to crave what we cannot have..that will never change. It’s up to us as individuals, to see where that invisible line is that shouldn’t be crossed...it’s called Morals.

[@theastrokyd2114]

Sounds like you waited around about 5 years too long for your answers. Give things six-12 months and you have all your answers, all your signs, and often far sooner, within the 3 months. Ryan is accurate on his timelines, it's guy science. Lol

[@amoradessy2861]

these videos are honestly just interesting to me 😭men got us beat when it comes to being complicated

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

Thanks Ryan. Your video is amazing. I will make no mistake.

[@nicolalblushi9830]

Men you nailed it...yo so helpful...great job Ryan

[@lexidelTV]

yay new video👌👌👌hi ryan

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Yup yup! 🤗

[@deheyyo332]

Why did i just find this? I already messed my potential few days ago T.T

[@ln_elen]

So there is this guy who I know for 3 months. We were so connected and had a great chemistry. He really liked me but lately he pulls back himself and we don’t text each other that often(we are far away from each other”. My question is if I should talk to him about the current situation or just let it stay like that?

[@kelceyfirth]

Hi Ryan, I want a guy to like me back, I've liked him for like a year now. I am friends with him and he said maybe a month or 2 ago that he likes me but because of his toxic exes he doesn't feel ready for a relationship. I'm lost for what to do. Help!

[@leapoldo-nuevofolk9731]

Hi Ryan! Great video! Keep it up! You`re doing a great job. This "guy-friend of mine"`s gonna have to work his glasses and beard off. Or else, he goes!" Thanks so much. xxx

[@HaileysHealth]

Extremely helpful video! I love how well-organized it was. Thank you for this! :D

[@lucasdaniel688]

Hey

[@genericname7020]

@@lucasdaniel688 Hi

[@debralondon2402]

You make me laugh with the way you do your presentation of info. Entertaining too. Fun.

[@JonathanDavidJuan]

Hello dear

[@JonathanDavidJuan]

How are you doing today

[@JonathanDavidJuan]

Good evening

[@elementsofbeing8203]

What if the guy falls first and ends the chase

[@cococha]

Am so excited about my life qnd future and i can't wait for this lockdown to be over. great video

[@Nassey26]

I made the mistake of being too interested after the first date and scared him away. How can I fix it and get out of that stage?

[@ileana2901]

Leave him be for a while and wait for him to come back

[@Okbrandiie]

Ugh I love your videos

[@czarsun4509]

thank you ryan... so helpful... thank you...