S2 EP 20 | MOMMY DIARIES BY PASI | BONTLE MODISELLE | DEPRESSION | WORK-LIFE BALANCE | GUILT

[@melraphadu8689]

Bontle and Pasi would make good friends, there’s good energy between them

[@melraphadu8689]

Bontle is well articulated, could listen to her talk over and over again 😊

[@Bipsswilly.m]

They have similar personalities ❤❤❤

[@SAMESEIMA]

She speaks so well , I'd listen to her all day ❤❤❤❤

[@itszanisWorld]

As a 22 year old who will be graduating next year, still on the path of building a life for myself, I find so much wisdom listening to women share their stories. I be feel so empowered to show up for myself and my loved ones, to take things a day at a time and know that the best gift you can ever receive, is to know and love God. These two moms are doing a great job and they have such smart and beautiful kids. May the Lord bless every woman that gets to watch this video 🤍✨🙏🏿

[@leannelilly6611]

Baby Africa really just had me thinking of Faith Nketsis daughter, I think we should have her on here ❤️❤️

[@masivuyemayekiso1955]

Seconded

[@letushilaalina]

@@masivuyemayekiso1955 Another secondment!!!

[@MmabathoMatlou]

They look so much alike🥰😂it's like it's faith Nketsi's daughter at 5years Old

[@nolusizodlalisa5573]

Definitely!!!!

[@zanelemlenga4510]

As a single unemployed mom this encouraged me to be strong, it’s December kids are expecting school clothes and I don’t know where to start. I know I’m trying my best as a mom but it feels too much sometimes. Thank you for this ❤️

[@gloriamushi2563]

You are stronger and the best mom...you are doing a great job

[@Yandisa_Tshepi1]

Princess Afrika is such a character , her facial expression are sending me.😂😂

[@futurep247ontop]

She is so amazing, her energy and positivity is unmatched. I wish her the best in everything she does. Priddy ugly got a real one

[@bulelwamboyi2206]

Love the way your guest talks about the challenges faced by ordinary moms. We should maybe have a colouring book for the child guest to keep her entertained during the interview as half an hour is too long to sit still.

[@TheBakoena_Princess]

I concur

[@Palisakey-cf8fm]

Absolutely!

[@thembakazisindelo3358]

@@bulelwamboyi2206 absolutely when they start being bored cuz kids can't sit for more than 20minute in one place.

[@Pasi_Koetle]

Hi Bulelwa I honestly didn’t know Afrika was coming also On the Mommy Diaries, we celebrate the ups and downs of parenting, and sometimes that means embracing real moments like this. Afrika felt clingy that day and just wanted to be close to her mom. I wasn’t prepared with anything to keep her busy, but as a mom myself, I completely understood. Parenting isn’t always predictable, and that’s part of what makes it beautiful. Next time I will keep books on set just incase . Thank you

[@NeoNeoza]

Baby Africa is so pretty

[@nomsazwane3505]

As for flying high like an eagle🤣🤣.. But what i do take from this inteview is that There is nothing a prayer cant fix as a single mom of 2 beautiful children i tend to question God a lot but what amazes me is that im still here and i still praise him everyday. God is faithful and i know one day i will have all my heart desires

[@CharletNashidengo]

Bontle such a beauty!! Its her calmness for me. Loved what she said: " I lead with Love, if you are saying/ doing something that doesnt come from a place of love, I wont take it, Its not my portion". I resonate with this. Loved this conversation.

[@MrsShibise]

O rata batho Bontle and it's evident. Also, I loved how real this episode was...Afrika being so fidgety and mommy having to tell her to sit still. I loved that coz there's no perfect parenting. You're doing great ladies, well done. And I love how you acknowledge God in your lives, it will never go unnoticed ❤❤❤❤

[@tshelimonoane5693]

I can't get over how well spoken and emotionally intelligent Bontle is. She's amazing

[@itszanisWorld]

She really is so blessed man❤️

[@thembakazisindelo3358]

Yo you guys are so matured hle😘ppl's pleaser but my 21year daughter helped a lot and raised me🙏🏿by telling me mama you are enough girl❤️never ever stretch yourself for no one except God I am so greatful to be her mom.

[@qaqambapapiyana8010]

Watching this at my office as i brought my beautiful daughter to work and looking at her also hits....WOW, i am a whole mother🥺. What a blessing

[@nkulisamotaung]

I love how honest bontle is and how she articulate herself. The genuine energy between them 💯🔥🫶🏽

[@boikhutso_baboledi]

This episode got me so emotional. I think what I took from here besides the fact that these women are incredibly human beings, the segment that Bontle brought here is for everything about motherhood. Advocacy of some sort, like how as a parent with no support you’d sometimes be forced to “bring your child to work” or even cancel because you do not know what to do with your lil one. Being single or lack of support. I don’t have kids but I’m for parenthood 100%. And she still brought her Afrika even if she could’ve left her with one of her support system. And the lil fidgety person just acted the way kids are and I’m here for it. Big ups to all parents 😘🙏🏽

[@thandohlophe1150]

Mapaseka is such a beautiful soul❤, Scandal has been giving us the wrong version of her😊, and i love Bontle❤

[@nyamekancapayi]

Please invite Lootlove with her twins ❤❤❤

[@khethiwengubo8035]

I was going through my moms documents and I saw her payslip of than and I was so shocked how did she managed with raising twins all alone... My mom was a superhero - I get you when you said that

[@correttamakola6389]

i love you both. I am a mom of one and the kind truth is there is no such as a balance. Parenting is like finances, they will never be enough. Do you best and know that you are doing your best

[@PumzileElizabethmkhwanaz-fq3il]

On my I enjoyed this one ,@ Pasi I live with my 8 year old daughter, like it's just the two of us in the house , no nanny nothing . I have a full-time job luckily I don't go to the office everyday i work shifts . There's a time when I have to be in the office by 06:00 am till 2 pm . Lapho I have to leave home by 04:45 , leave her all prepared for the transport to fetch her at 6 am. She has her own key and I got my own. But we're find balanced now and we're doing so well together so you'll also find your balance God will make a way. As mommies we are faced with a lot but even in all that when you bring God closer and make HIM the center of your life , He guides you through and through ❤❤❤

[@mrstk2672]

Its not easy❤❤❤

[@tanepe1553]

Wow I'm so inspired by this programme ❤Yes I don't have a child, not a mom and not married but I'm learning a lot 😢🎉.. Thank you Mma P for this programme ❤😮. Love you so much Mrs Bontle 😊😊

[@Yandisa_Tshepi1]

Afrika is such a cutie.💓

[@mangcobo_blackrose]

One thing about Bontle is that she will bring her authenticity to the interview, I have cried and laughed throughout this episode. Thank you so much Queens. Stay blessed and may the Lord continue to use you, we are honoured 🌻❤️

[@Chidzy.M]

She actually looks a lot like her daughter... soooo much! Arg such a beauty😭❤️

[@tisingandu539]

Bontle and Pasi, you doing good mummies. I can super relate to this podcast. Just what I needed. The only pressure we will allow is from our children only. " The only pressure I will allow is pressure from her"I felt that.

[@princessrasethuntsa5576]

Bontle is such a great mom hleeee❤I'm obsessed

[@thobivalred2027]

Her baby is beautiful 😍😍😍😍😍

[@Boipelo_3]

Afrika 😂😂❤ she is such a character ! The way she is restless, i wish to hug her 😢 ❤

[@kelebogilemooketsi4241]

Oooh that pat on Bontle's shoulder from Afrika🥺🥺🥺😍😍😍😍, so beautiful... Amazing conversation with Bontle's journey on motherhood so relatable. Thd flying high like an eagle 🦅 😂😂😂😂😂... Great chemistry. Thank you both for being authentic and the amazing chat❤❤

[@SuzanMorota]

1 thing I have notice about Bontle in all her episode / postcast she been invited to the heavy part for me is when she speaks about her dad, I am not saying am related to that buh all of life I have never experience the love of a father I can imagine how hard it is for her to speak about it , buh trust me when i say you are strong Bontle and your father is always with you.♥ Thank you Ausi Pasi that was a great episode with her , we love love you guys . #insipred

[@goodnessmitileni1120]

Yoh ladies, even when you're not in the lime light, I work 12 days and off every second weekend, my son Is 15 I would like to go out and have fun with him but it's hard because in those 2 days I want to sit and not do anything, I live at work so that alone also is not great, he's recently said he wants a younger sister but I'm thinking where and how because the conditions do not align with that, being a parent is hard and there's definitely no balance, I'm just glad he has my parents that he lives with but it's hard guys and we are doing all we can to make their life comfortable a nd easy, I always say thanks to God because he kind of understands now and mostly because he's dad Is not around so he always says " i know you gotta work for me, so I'm cool". Prayer is the only way we are keeping sane and in fighting spirit

[@hazelmakgamatha9317]

Sending you hugs sis ❤

[@nonkululekomachika8911]

Mommy you are doing a great job ❤

[@Nompumelelo_Malata]

The father part broke my heart 😭❤️

[@PalesaMakhanya-i2z]

Baby Africa is so cute ❤

[@Hope_Maphosa]

I dont have the best relationship with my mom. I 100% respect and love her. I've grown to understand that although we don't quite understand each other, I look forward to the day we understand each other and develop a friendship.

[@florence.masilo]

I get you, but on my end, I have lost all hope

[@LeratoMoratuoa]

​@@florence.masilo mine passed on when I was 15 without telling me what made her so hard and bitter towards me. She loved me yes but hurt me more. I'm left with Questions with no answers. We still live.

[@Hope_Maphosa]

@florence.masilo honestly, after having a conversation with her I've come to terms that I'll never see that day come. The feeling is mutual

[@MamosaPossa]

Well done Mapaseka… this by far the most exciting episode for me. You two are fun together. You must collaborate in a movie 😉😉

[@MazetMazet-e7x]

Thoroughly enjoyed this episode ❤Love the energy from both of you 🤩🌟 Let Jesus Lead 😍

[@preciousmncayi7446]

Loved the affirmation! I’m so grateful I found this podcast because it’s truly incredible. As a new mom, it’s such a relief to realize that what I’m experiencing-both as a mom and as a woman-isn’t unique to me. We’re all doing our best, and that’s enough.❤

[@Pasi_Koetle]

You are doing amazing, mama!💖

[@zodumoxhavulani7289]

This podcast is the best sana I love it here and Mommy's drop some wisdom every now and then

[@LesediMoretsele-o9x]

I love how she's complimenting her mother ❤❤

[@thelmamamvura9774]

Bontle tears up everytime she talks about her Dad

[@tshegochaane601]

As a single unemployed mother it's so difficult im even in tears😢 but ladies this encourages me I loved this😊😊❤❤

[@Pasi_Koetle]

Love and light mama.

[@tshegochaane601]

@Pasi_Koetle ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@VeronicaZebra]

They are all so beautiful ❤

[@lorraineconfidence4796]

I enjoyed watching this😊..can we have mommy from msanzi greatest family

[@lethabolee9298]

That would be great❤

[@nalediramontja]

Love it hantse ba tsentsa setswana nyana 😂❤ !

[@bernicemaune2138]

Love the empowerment and realistic points shared in your vlogs Pasi 🧡

[@Moipone-u5t]

Maan this is beautiful ❤. Me as a first time mommy it's been really hard for me cuz I was all alone no support system kore it's been really hard, I felt like keba depressed, I get angry very easily joo it's been hard but I thank God for strength sa mphileng so.. My son is 8 months

[@Nthatisi_neo]

🥺🥺🥺shooh...this episode hit home,im so grateful that i came across this podcast ❤

[@SAMESEIMA]

Bontle you are so smart , you speak so well and you've got a beautiful daughter and family...May God continue to bless you abundantly 💗💗💗💗 Pasi looking stunning as always

[@nonduduzodlamini1499]

Can't get over baby's beauty...soo so beautiful ❤️❤️

[@rirhandzuchauke9737]

Oh wow Bonhle I just love your gentle aura.Really enjoyed this

[@XoliswaDlomo-gi1dl]

Bontle is so beautiful omg!❤️

[@nolusizodlalisa5573]

What a gorgeous baby girl! Oh!!!!!

[@tsehlanenonoki1721]

As a mom battling with quite a lot of things.... I enjoyed watching the episode❤

[@MoabiSefoka-q8s]

Pasi Is Funny Tlhee😹😹🙌🏽 “& Ke Rata Gore O Ema Right Infront Of Camera..Ore Selina”😹😹

[@joeydlaminivlogs]

I also hesitate when people ask “how are you” because we can give an automatic response without really thinking about it

[@DineoNdebele]

Beautiful ladies Pasi and Bontle ❤love you ladies

[@nyamekancapayi]

Guys, I'm such an emotional human, I always cry when someone cries 😢😢

[@carolnenethosago1400]

Me too 🥹🫂

[@nyamekancapayi]

@carolnenethosago1400 ❤❤🫂

[@LesegoRalekgokgo]

I've been waiting for this one❤❤thank you pasie❤❤

[@kuhlegwiji1492]

This baby😮 so cute , she’s so pretty

[@dineojess]

Found myself so emotional 🥺 I love sis Bontle Bathong!

[@Maitemogelo738]

Love you Pasi your show motivate me a lot❤❤

[@AlandeBabi]

Listen, mna am sitting nhe and watching uBaby girl Bontle...and actually feeling some ease because my daughter (Nodoli/Alande) is like her. Babes cant sit shame, ubusy, observant like she wants to touch, move explorer... looking at you angel doing all that actually made me realize ba LOL thats her that is how she learns and grows.... thank you for this 🙂

[@LwaziGwegwana]

All I see is beauty on this episode😍

[@theresaaphane3248]

😂😂Lol poor Afrika she's Iike "how did I end up here can somebody rescue me" give the child something to keep her busy assomblief

[@AlandeBabi]

Some off us needed to see this.... Also what does keep her busy mean ?

[@thatotlhowe]

​@@AlandeBabiSo that she can be destructed from listening to adults conversations. 😊😊

[@tshengimoyo-c6n]

Beautiful soul Bonthle humble heart ❤

[@molebogengoratile7643]

Both of my favourite women in the same room❤

[@_Neoentle_]

Ohhh Lord🥺❤️🙌🏽 i didn’t know I needed this podcast 🙌🏽 thank you so much ladies ❤😊😇🙏🏽

[@fatimabongidhludhlu10]

❤❤❤How I love Bontle and her daughter so beautiful. What a lovely episode❤❤❤.

[@LuyandaMaseko-c8d]

What a beautiful episode 🥺two powerful moms 😭 this was amazing

[@mmabathozulu3697]

May you please bring Mrs Gege Sono we call her MaBishop,that woman ke super hero,a mother,grand mother,overseer,bishops wife, a sister,sister inlaw,mother inlaw and still a great woman in everything🙏I believe the world needs to just get a glimpse of that woman's strength,wisdom ei the is a lot hle

[@OtlotlengNgakatau]

Yes please❤😊

[@lettatshikundu-ux3sc]

Auw bontle is amazing bathong ❤❤❤ Pasi, mapaseka bona you are a star my darling, I love you so much ❤❤❤❤

[@munwanati_arina]

Love you Pasie and your guests always learning ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Esethu.Ndlazulwana]

Pasi are "Flying high like an eagle" 🦅😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TshegofatsoMbatha-ab1d3]

Tjo bathong Pasi, thank you so much for mommy dairies ❤

[@sindisiwembali104]

Oh Bontle sisi may u find healing and comfort in the hands of God Sthandwa sam, its how u break and try to be strong every time u speak about ur dad. May God see u through and heal the deepest scars u have❤❤❤

[@EunicePhungula]

I'm a 23 year old mother of two, working in corporate, furthering my studies and also maintaining a relationship while being a bread winner at home... This episode has touched me so much , thank you for this Pasi and Bontle ❤

[@Pasi_Koetle]

Thank you for watching mama! You're doing good.

[@ika.maseng]

Loved you Bontle, you were so gr8... So open and honest, soreal, so authentic, and being vulnerable with us. You are such a beautiful soul, God bless you& be with you always!.. Pasie, you never disappoint, we love you!

[@nomasontokhumalo7332]

Such great and exquisite ladies oh how I love you both❤ Naze Naba nomoya omuhle and that little Prince is so cute❤❤

[@SteveMutelesi]

I think it's also important for us as young men to tap in such spaces where women get to speak, we can learn a thing or two

[@zuzilezungu5899]

Give yourself grace and permission to accept help🎉🎉

[@zizipholudidi4727]

I enjoyed the game along😂❤ This was truly a great and thoughtful episode🥺🔥

[@refilwemaimela6259]

Oh man we love you Bontle may you never stop being so humble & funny marn💝😅

[@thatompempe]

Le bantle gore le le three 😍

[@NthabiRorwana]

Beautiful people ❤beautiful episode❤

[@nandiphalee4880]

Waze waba muhle mtfwana Yoo❤️😘

[@retshepilekhabo2719]

Thank you, Ladies, this was amazing! #Heart#Heart#heart

[@KearabetsweMoshodi-us4tw]

Bontle's so so Good at explaining hey 😭😭😭😭😭😭👍🏾

[@tumisangesther5575]

Thank you for this episode with my fav.... Mommies to mommies😊lerato ke leo❤

[@NtlotlengMaketa]

I love love this ❤, please have us Blind Goddess and faith nketsi

[@elizabethmatlala2044]

I really enjoyed this episode 🥰🥰, Please bring Natasha Tashane and Cindy Mhlangu.

[@sebollamanthata5740]

Dnt be too hard on yourselfs, you are doing the best you can.

[@mpoirankhethoa]

It's the" heyy my sister help me" and my sister o tsoa taba😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@letushilaalina]

Africa is so cute🤩

[@kimberlymdlongwa8700]

So much love in one video 😊❤

[@asekiwengxalabangxalaba5542]

I love these beautiful women. Very wise❤😊. Great Energy

[@Pasi_Koetle]

Thank you! 💖

[@boitumelonyati4546]

This is beautiful thank u ladies🙏🏽💕

[@xoliswakali15]

Kingsway (UJ) gang💃... Loving this conversation 🙂

[@esterasheela]

Loving it so much here ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️