Finding My Own Power After Giving Marriage My All - NOZIPHO NTSHANGASE

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Engineer Your Life

Engineer Your Life

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Nozipho Ntshangase is on a journey to redefine her identity after facing private and public challenges in what she thought was a purposeful marriage. We delve into the nuances of her season of rebirth as a reality show star on The Mommy Club and a Businesswoman.
ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 133 - NOZIPHO NTSHANGASE
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@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho has shared her life with us & taken us into her corner for many years, even when it became difficult to share when circumstances changed in a manner that depressed her, she remained true to being vulnerable with us. In this episode, we delve into this vulnerability. CLICK “captions” to view subtitles on this episode, trusting that you will SUBSCRIBE and get us to 100K! ❤️
@sivuyisiwemntwana1227
@sivuyisiwemntwana1227 Ай бұрын
You are a good host
@senzelokuhlenkabini6004
@senzelokuhlenkabini6004 2 ай бұрын
I wish we can get to a time/period/era whereby women won't make marriage their ultimate achievement/goal. Yes, get married but have your own life whilst your in that marriage.
@khanyicele3688
@khanyicele3688 2 ай бұрын
@@senzelokuhlenkabini6004 True.
@molebogengmashego2824
@molebogengmashego2824 2 ай бұрын
Yesterday I was chatting with some older ladies in the taxi n this topic yo mshado came up. And Hai shem Now most ladies are singing a different tune. they are no longer pushing the get married narrative ❤. They actually said put yourself first. Be happy first.
@senzelokuhlenkabini6004
@senzelokuhlenkabini6004 2 ай бұрын
@molebogengmashego2824 Exactly. Because my gender, the males, seek to fulfill their individual life goals before, during and after the lobola negotiations. We put ourselves first in EVERYTHING 🙈🤭🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃...🤣
@mnisi_sindile
@mnisi_sindile 2 ай бұрын
But you can't have your own life in a marriage.The Bible says the two shall become one, you have one life together, that's what needs to be brought back and taught that marriage is a 3 way covenant. God designed marriage to work and for a purpose.
@tondaniraluswinga2590
@tondaniraluswinga2590 2 ай бұрын
You can do all that. But a man can still leave you and cheat on you. Women want commitment and truth. Nosipho is educated, she chose to be w stay at home wife to take care of the family, the children. So I don't understand what she did wrong.
@thebaddie391
@thebaddie391 2 ай бұрын
How this man chooses to marry someone else when Nozipho is so wise so wholesome, so kind, so well put together and so beautiful is beyond me shame... it is indeed true that when a person cheats it's because something is lacking inside them, its got nothing to do with the cheated on.
@Nunec
@Nunec 2 ай бұрын
They love the dumb ones that do not challenge their thinking
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 2 ай бұрын
The same man who left another or other women to be with her? The signs where always there sadly. And he is most likely to leave even the one he left Nozipho for.
@thebaddie391
@thebaddie391 2 ай бұрын
@GodsFavourite2024 wait niyithathaphi leyo ? UNozipho never mentioned that there was someone else nje amfica... uthe he had kids before her just like she had a kid before him
@leahlinki5683
@leahlinki5683 2 ай бұрын
Most men don't know what they really want or need in life! 😮😮😮😮😮😮
@buhlempungose552
@buhlempungose552 2 ай бұрын
​@@GodsFavourite2024 Lies. He was never married before. Nozipho is 1st wife, he had baby mommas
@blackrosepages6886
@blackrosepages6886 Ай бұрын
"You have to mourn the life you thought you were gonna live"
@boikgantshomohlala5045
@boikgantshomohlala5045 2 ай бұрын
Lungelo is literally one of the BEST interviewers, he knows just how to ask the right questions!!!! You deserve 100K subbies and more.
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 2 ай бұрын
God bless you for your kindness ❤
@phumlanomdebevana5998
@phumlanomdebevana5998 2 ай бұрын
@@boikgantshomohlala5045 the host is so respectful, mindful and such a good listener
@silindilenxumalo9541
@silindilenxumalo9541 Ай бұрын
He is thee best struu. He knows i story sakhe.
@tebogolesejane6138
@tebogolesejane6138 Ай бұрын
He is definitely the best in the game
@nomfundoprudence9834
@nomfundoprudence9834 12 күн бұрын
True
@LeomProjects
@LeomProjects 2 ай бұрын
A man will always choose himself. You are doing well Nozipho and it gets better wirh time sisi.
@Reabona1
@Reabona1 2 ай бұрын
And this is a lesson that is never taught to us. This is a lesson we are now learning when we grow up ,usually when the man disappoints or humuliates you or does a very crazy thing that shakes you to your core. I hope that this generation of women pass this lesson on and make sure that our daughters, step-daughters, nieces get it!
@loveandlight3486
@loveandlight3486 2 ай бұрын
💯​@@Reabona1
@LeomProjects
@LeomProjects 2 ай бұрын
@Reabona1 yes sisi..."it is better the devil you know", "bekezela/nyamezela mntanam" - we were scammed.
@KP-oq6vb
@KP-oq6vb Ай бұрын
Learned this the hard way. A man will always always put his needs first.
@LeomProjects
@LeomProjects Ай бұрын
@KP-oq6vb been there, done that myself sisi.
@suigeneris5193
@suigeneris5193 2 ай бұрын
Waze wathandeka losisi🥺♥️ Aww! I’m wishing her the very best in life.
@annamariekokak
@annamariekokak Ай бұрын
@suigeneris5193 indeed....she is so poised and a beautiful soul.
@dorcushatlane9525
@dorcushatlane9525 2 ай бұрын
God does not hurt us, but He allow situations to happen to us for a purpose.
@LadyLe-z7o
@LadyLe-z7o 2 ай бұрын
Cheers to that sister 🥂
@mamawegirlz4309
@mamawegirlz4309 2 ай бұрын
True
@mama-12-j
@mama-12-j 2 ай бұрын
Amen
@girliemtshali7229
@girliemtshali7229 Ай бұрын
This comment ✋🙏 Golden
@zandilekhanyile8961
@zandilekhanyile8961 Ай бұрын
So true,,every trial has God's plan in it.
@pulanemotsetsela5413
@pulanemotsetsela5413 2 ай бұрын
Amen nozi, left my marriage at 45 and I'm 65yrs now. God took care of me as I chose "ME".. never found a man I wanted and ooh God ooh God I'm very good and love myself so much. Am a very pretty woman and aged gracefully. Love you and may God walk with you in ur next journey ❤
@lindiwegugushe826
@lindiwegugushe826 2 ай бұрын
@NginguBusi
@NginguBusi Ай бұрын
thanks for this testimony.
@veebooi6782
@veebooi6782 Ай бұрын
Sending u ❤🎉🎉 dear MaPulane❤..
@Mowizzy1
@Mowizzy1 4 күн бұрын
Good for you Sesi. We look up to women like you to know that it is possible. Thank you ❤
@NakediAmanda
@NakediAmanda 2 ай бұрын
she opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness-Psalm 31:26 God is still yet to show off with this woman🙏❤
@alutacontinua2486
@alutacontinua2486 2 ай бұрын
@@NakediAmanda what a kind thing to say ❤️❤️
@lizziesontsele6257
@lizziesontsele6257 Ай бұрын
That secret one month old at the beginning of this relationship tells a story about her husband's character. A prelude for the outcome of this marriage. This guy is the definition " put your self first" he puts himself first no question.
@EdnaMagolela-qj9io
@EdnaMagolela-qj9io Ай бұрын
Most men are selfish about their happiness. They do not compromise for what they think will make them happy! 🤞🏾
@Miz292
@Miz292 8 күн бұрын
At every turn he was dishonest
@zimkitafilani8590
@zimkitafilani8590 2 ай бұрын
The way I love Nozipho, it always excites me to see her face. Whenever I come across her face my heart bakes muffin. You are an amazing woman Nozipho. Hats off! for Lungile, his interviewing style is on another level.
@nqobilesibiya3126
@nqobilesibiya3126 2 ай бұрын
@@zimkitafilani8590 same here
@TabisoPreciousNoniobe-tb2fj
@TabisoPreciousNoniobe-tb2fj 2 ай бұрын
Me to Cc, yooo ndiyamthanda nanku umntu❤❤❤
@LeomProjects
@LeomProjects 2 ай бұрын
Lungelo, your aura reminds me of Steven Bartlett (Diary of a CEO)...even the all black attire. You are doing a great job mfana. Your professionalism is superb and you are able to connect with your guest. Well done mfana.
@vjesus4083
@vjesus4083 2 ай бұрын
Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers 😢God bless her
@khosiethabekhulu3497
@khosiethabekhulu3497 2 ай бұрын
That is a lesson you sometimes find when you are in that situation. I am one of those people who learned it the hard way.
@GuguMlondo
@GuguMlondo 2 ай бұрын
“God takes away the illusion of perfection to remind us that He’s the source!” Mmmhhhh
@melraphadu8689
@melraphadu8689 2 ай бұрын
What stood out for me is that she’s choosing herself, her pursing her studies is so empowering. It will get better in time, God is for all of us 🤍
@BoniswaSomtsewu
@BoniswaSomtsewu 11 күн бұрын
I think i would love to listen to her voice on radio i love everything about her
@ntuthukontshiza
@ntuthukontshiza 2 ай бұрын
I also think that I am not made to be a mom but I love and enjoy being an aunt😍
@TTREATS362
@TTREATS362 2 ай бұрын
@@ntuthukontshiza Same here. Thought there was something wrong with me🥰🥺
@theculinarilyartwithtinyik2415
@theculinarilyartwithtinyik2415 2 ай бұрын
Same my love same
@DKs_Journey1
@DKs_Journey1 2 ай бұрын
And that's okay
@nqobilesibiya3126
@nqobilesibiya3126 2 ай бұрын
You are me shame, 39 with no kids n zero regrets. Lapho I enjoy being an aunt sooo much
@sinikiwembangi1867
@sinikiwembangi1867 2 ай бұрын
Ah I've found my tribe...I have no desire to have kids at all, and I feel nothing bethuna when it comes to maternal nton-nton. I'm the "rich aunt" and that's how I love it. Flowers 💐 for you ladies!
@siphokaziluzipho4197
@siphokaziluzipho4197 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho is gorgeous bethuna. Her love for kids. I wish she should have chosen a career that is children centred. I dnt understand the husband....he was blessed, and he didn't realise it.
@CbosEasyRecipes7
@CbosEasyRecipes7 Ай бұрын
Mfethu! Other people do not realize a blessing in front of them or even when it hits them in their face!
@Ayanda101
@Ayanda101 2 ай бұрын
Educational psychologist a scarce skill, go for it Nozipho❤️ I love it for you.
@mphihlengmagoro2957
@mphihlengmagoro2957 2 ай бұрын
When they say there is more to life, they are referring to her life. Pick yourself up and keep moving towards the next big thing. Seasons come and go.
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 2 ай бұрын
@thandisekhonyana5575
@thandisekhonyana5575 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho has a pure beautiful heart that's so effortlessly how she loves all her kids
@dorcushatlane9525
@dorcushatlane9525 2 ай бұрын
Lungelo is such a good and brilliant interviewer. Yoo..you are sooo good my dear. Keep up the good work.
@royaledenoir5694
@royaledenoir5694 2 ай бұрын
She clearly loved him. It’s so disheartening because she still speaks of him in the present then corrects herself! Healing is a hard and painful process, it has no timeline either. I pray she can find true love, even if it is her living herself ❤
@ayandakhumalo8692
@ayandakhumalo8692 2 ай бұрын
Are they divorced now?
@Mantoa_R91
@Mantoa_R91 2 ай бұрын
Co ask
@mazwideamahle4091
@mazwideamahle4091 2 ай бұрын
​@ayandakhumalo8692 also wondering .
@NosiphoDlamini-wq5gd
@NosiphoDlamini-wq5gd 2 ай бұрын
​@@ayandakhumalo8692she's not going anywhere
@Naomimwanz
@Naomimwanz 2 ай бұрын
Recently went through a divorce, I feel her pain. Mine was so bad. Been through all the stages of grieving. The depression is real. Literally lost ever one. Trying to rebuild is hard. But God is Gracious
@mimimodiba5309
@mimimodiba5309 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho ❤. What I am gathering is that he still supports her. They are not divorced but living separately (no ring). She's doing her own thing, but financially, he still maintains his household. She'd probably never get divorced because to her, this is a "season," and she will "die" in marriage. ❤ Love her. She's still deeply hurt by this "season." Hhaaaiii men 🙌🏼🙃
@queennesia
@queennesia Ай бұрын
Man this woman is another gem made from a different kind of clay. May God bless her beyond her expansions coz she stands for the word of God and abides to it come hell or water. It all shall come to passing. One day she's gonna laugh it off and just say "Yah, neh God." ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@rakgadim.mohlala1324
@rakgadim.mohlala1324 Ай бұрын
I think it’s in his best interest to support his wife and kids cause legally he stands to lose much more if they divorce. He’s probably waiting for that day and hoping it never comes. She will probably make the first move and when she does, his world will collapse and I hope it does…monumentally. Nozi sisi, You mentioned that you helped grow your husband’s company. Use that knowledge and money to build your own and when you’re ready….do with that power and financial independence whatever you want.
@khalokhwinana9983
@khalokhwinana9983 28 күн бұрын
What a refreshing interview. Nozipho has such a kind and authentic aura ❤ Lungelo did an amazing job with this interview, so free flowing and captive 💯
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 27 күн бұрын
Too kind. Thank you!
@sibongilehlatshwayo8507
@sibongilehlatshwayo8507 23 күн бұрын
Can we give Lungelo his flowers 🥺❤️💐
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 23 күн бұрын
You are too kind Mhayise. Thank you so much 🙏🏿
@zee-zm1io
@zee-zm1io 2 ай бұрын
I come from a house with a same mother and father. I don’t talk to my brothers at all. Relationships are built through knowing eachother. Not blood
@Leetso
@Leetso 2 ай бұрын
@@zee-zm1io eish 😫
@PhenduK
@PhenduK 2 ай бұрын
Your story is my story. Sending you lots of hugs ❤
@tswalomarivate4082
@tswalomarivate4082 Ай бұрын
100%
@KP-oq6vb
@KP-oq6vb Ай бұрын
I'm also about to take abreak from my brothers as well. It will hurt my Mom but I have to do it for the sake of my mental health 😔
@MommaBear52
@MommaBear52 Ай бұрын
​@@KP-oq6vbDo it! It's been 3 years for me. It was hard but better than the pain of constant disrespect.
@WelileMzila_
@WelileMzila_ 2 ай бұрын
Lungelo you’re very good at this . Your interviewing skills show a deep interest and respect for your guests story which is reflected by your good questions. Kukhombisa ukuthi you were actually listening to understand , not listening to respond. You also let your guest flow as they want to without interjecting. As a viewer I really appreciate that 🙏🏾 keep it up and I hope your channel continues to grow. To Sis Nozipho, God restores🙌🏾 thank you for sharing and goodluck with your new business venture ! 🙌🏾💞
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 2 ай бұрын
You’re exceptionally kind. Thank you ❤
@asaveladingiswayo220
@asaveladingiswayo220 24 күн бұрын
She deserves her own reality show
@ephphatha7269
@ephphatha7269 2 ай бұрын
She looks amazing, she is glowing. I love her so much, she carries herself with so much poise.
@oramoneoang7109
@oramoneoang7109 Ай бұрын
One thing about Nozipho, she'll maintain grace all the time. What a graceful and beautiful woman🥰🥰🥰
@noziphojakuja9898
@noziphojakuja9898 8 күн бұрын
She has a good heart to be able to take care of 8 children who somevof them are not her own
@Drip3657
@Drip3657 Ай бұрын
9:02 Awww...she met him when he had a 1 year old and a 1 month Old🥺...now it gives a bit of closure,it was a red flag🚩
@dineoselepe7246
@dineoselepe7246 2 ай бұрын
What a wholesome, powerhouse of a woman Nozipho is. So wise and warm hearted
@LadyLe-z7o
@LadyLe-z7o 2 ай бұрын
God pushes us to uncomfortable place for a reason. No growth in comfort zone. I am proud of you sister ❤ the best wisdom comes from the hardest struggle. Never run away from pain
@Colourcafenails
@Colourcafenails 3 күн бұрын
I think she was underestimated….Beautiful and unbreakable this woman❤
@mandisakhumalo6950
@mandisakhumalo6950 10 күн бұрын
I’m just glad that she’s now a born again Christian ❤ Jesus is the way, the truth and the life ❤
@dorcushatlane9525
@dorcushatlane9525 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho my dear, you are so factual, full of wisdom and have a big heart as well. May the Lord grant you the grace to write a book about marriage and blended family. The way you are so informative, this country will learn a lot from you my dear. You are so honest in your story telling. Please drop that book in 2025.❤❤❤❤❤
@thandekakhowa6783
@thandekakhowa6783 2 ай бұрын
Best interview, love how Lungelo did not put any pressure on her... keep it up buti wami
@ruthwrites1251
@ruthwrites1251 13 күн бұрын
Sis Nozi...I have so much respect for you. You are a true definition of Imbhokodo. There's very few women of your calibre. Sending lots of love to your direction and may God see you through in your healing journey❤️❤️
@PhindileGumede-g1y
@PhindileGumede-g1y 24 күн бұрын
What a beautiful episode love Nozipho! Very authentic! And she has saved me just by being REAL!
@mbalicele5937
@mbalicele5937 24 күн бұрын
I am so with her ku not having kids out of wedlock. I have a daughter out of wedlock and kunzima. I highly recommend waiting before birthing
@n_mahlambi
@n_mahlambi 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho is such a wholesome woman!❤
@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035
@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035 2 ай бұрын
She looks rejuvenated she looks good her skin is like milk her face is filler body is tight . Know this is an example when God said" I will put a table and pull u up infront if people who broke you vengeance is mine" so God loves her.
@SimpleFaith-G
@SimpleFaith-G 2 ай бұрын
I was looking for this comment. She looks so well compared to when she was on mommy club.
@magdelinemosiditladi8881
@magdelinemosiditladi8881 Ай бұрын
Ao bagithi I didn't even realize she's the one who featured in the mommy club. She looks so different... you're right SimpleFaith, she looks well indeed ❤️❤️🎉
@dineomalope3602
@dineomalope3602 Ай бұрын
She looks really good ❤
@andiswasingqandu7145
@andiswasingqandu7145 2 ай бұрын
I saw this KZbin channel today. I am not a social media fan. I don't know this lady. But i love her so so so much. She is super amazing ❤️🤩. She is so matured and lovely
@mona-lisagqwede362
@mona-lisagqwede362 2 ай бұрын
I adore this lady. Her spirit is just too much, beautiful inside and out 💕🤞🏿
@Officialdee_the_creator
@Officialdee_the_creator Ай бұрын
This woman she’s so strong after all the things she’s been through but she’s abled to stand out wow I’m so proud in despite the pain she’s endured that build her strength and confidence wow🤍🌸🙌
@busisiweblessed3919
@busisiweblessed3919 11 күн бұрын
shes so beautiful inside and out,love her,unkulunkulu amenze kahle,we love her sooo much
@nonkululekosiphokazingelek5190
@nonkululekosiphokazingelek5190 Ай бұрын
She was definitely kept. Lungelo made no mistake with that statement whether she admits it or not. Her entire life revolved around him and the marriage. Financially and in other ways she was dependent on this man that she saw nothing outside of it. She probably didn't even see the red flags that he about to leave her because she was so kept. Mentally, financially, and physically kept you were babes. Kuyingozi ke lokho because indoda at anytime can say akasakufuni. We women need to love and build ourselves more.
@missj_smash2885
@missj_smash2885 2 ай бұрын
The miscarriages were a lesson or preparation that not everything is permanent and can be taken away at anytime. I also remember my Pastor saying God will give you what you want because you’ve been yearning for it to show you that He is there, then take it away because that thing is not part of His plan❤
@MissN_Naomi
@MissN_Naomi 2 ай бұрын
This!😭
@violetseeiso8025
@violetseeiso8025 Ай бұрын
Hmmmm!
@KeabetsweManyobe
@KeabetsweManyobe 14 күн бұрын
I need to subscribe a million times to your channel. You are the best. 🎉
@khumalolungile973
@khumalolungile973 Ай бұрын
Kanti iYouYube channel yona usisi uthi uthi uyivusa nini siyilambele kangaka singo young single mothers of 3, siphoxiwe nathi imishadweni sibancane. We love you sisi, ukuphila kwakho kuyasiphilisa ❤🫂
@sandisamnyuka7955
@sandisamnyuka7955 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@o_nodada
@o_nodada Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@nelzled8205
@nelzled8205 19 күн бұрын
This is my first time coming across your channel and i must admit that out of all the local interviews ive ever watched in my life, this is by far the best! Lungelo you're brilliant interviewer! Your Uk subscriber 🇬🇧
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 19 күн бұрын
Welcome to the fam, glad you found us!❤️❤️❤️
@gcotyelwangqela8161
@gcotyelwangqela8161 2 ай бұрын
Wow🎉🎉.. she looks beautiful, I can see the glow.. she's happy❤
@LindiweNdebele-d8m
@LindiweNdebele-d8m Ай бұрын
Your husband will regret ever losing such a woman of virtue. I am happy to you coping like this Nozipho
@ttsatsa
@ttsatsa 2 ай бұрын
Such a courageous woman, Love her to bits. Her heart is so pure and authentic, Healing looks beautiful on you mama💓Lungelo is an amazing interviewer, Keep it up big guy.
@mamoketenkalai2833
@mamoketenkalai2833 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Nozipho for building me thank you so much from today i will wipe away my tears the pain is over yes that season have to come and its past now
@VhugalaHaweM
@VhugalaHaweM 2 ай бұрын
There will be fires, but God will be in the fire with us... That's what He promises us♥️
@OfhaniMagabe
@OfhaniMagabe 2 ай бұрын
This life has no formula. I had my kids in wedlock and i am still confused as to what i could have done wrong to still go through divorce
@Naomimwanz
@Naomimwanz 2 ай бұрын
I’m now a baby mama. Something I never wished I could go through. My divorce was so painful
@0780156668
@0780156668 2 ай бұрын
@tsebomahao4229
@tsebomahao4229 2 ай бұрын
@@Naomimwanz you are an ex wife, there is definitely a difference
@ephraimmolokoane9882
@ephraimmolokoane9882 2 ай бұрын
God restores....
@motherofcubs
@motherofcubs Ай бұрын
Thank you for stating the truth, there really is no formula to life. Women tend to think having kids within wedlock is the solution forgetting there is divorce
@mahlokileng4543
@mahlokileng4543 2 ай бұрын
Lungelo you were born for this ❤Beautiful interview . Love Nozipho and her authenticity ❤
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 2 ай бұрын
Favoured. Thank you ❤️
@TracyRamalepe
@TracyRamalepe Ай бұрын
This is also a lesson that in life that you need to put yourself first, fetch your life and don't stop living because you are married, I really hope she finds herself and healing
@dorcushatlane9525
@dorcushatlane9525 2 ай бұрын
Wow, so excited to see you again, looking so beautiful and glowing my dear Nozipho. I love your smile.
@PA_McCroc_Mpanza
@PA_McCroc_Mpanza 2 ай бұрын
Yhuuu... I love Nozipho, shes so calm and love her kids. Wish her all the best❤
@Thatos_Channel
@Thatos_Channel 2 ай бұрын
Those who have ears will listen and hear her.
@penelopembuqe7676
@penelopembuqe7676 2 ай бұрын
Every time I listen to this podcast I get so amazed by the interviewer. Your line of questioning and they way you conduct your interviews man. Wow.. the future looks bright.
@blinkym21
@blinkym21 Ай бұрын
I’m glad you allowed this amazing woman to express herself bilingually as it allowed her story to be told authentically… I hope you extend the same grace to all your future guests... I believe the people who watch this channel can navigate through most of the African languages reasonably well.❤
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow Ай бұрын
Read our pinned comment to understand why 😉. Everything happens a the right time 🤝
@kholekilemotloi
@kholekilemotloi 2 ай бұрын
Lungelo is a brilliant and encouraging host. Nozipho is incredibly smart, sharp and clear. Wishing her all the best.
@sena_sibiya
@sena_sibiya Ай бұрын
Ngathi ngingahlala noLungelo and vent about umgowo wami (off the record) sixoxe nje, he’s such a great interviewer.
@Nomelis
@Nomelis Ай бұрын
Ngeke ugowe njengam 😂😂😂😂😭
@andilemkhize8801
@andilemkhize8801 14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂kodwa ungihlekiselani
@AsandaSigwili
@AsandaSigwili 5 күн бұрын
what a woman thanks for being such an inspiration you've inspired a new confidence in me
@siphokaziluzipho4197
@siphokaziluzipho4197 2 ай бұрын
It's not the new wife Lungelo, it's the dad. Dad should lead. Wives follow the lead.
@nokulunganzimande7004
@nokulunganzimande7004 Ай бұрын
Nozipho has a beautiful heart❤
@ezy78667
@ezy78667 2 ай бұрын
Love uses the craziest of way to help us to get back to ourselves....
@ladyb5843
@ladyb5843 2 ай бұрын
You can say that again.
@andilengubane5178
@andilengubane5178 2 ай бұрын
What a profound statement! Ezy
@i.mbali1
@i.mbali1 Ай бұрын
So profound ❤
@kearam2012
@kearam2012 2 ай бұрын
So interesting to listen to an independent & mature woman.
@MommaBear52
@MommaBear52 Ай бұрын
I realised that healing begins when you own your part and take accountability for that. Because you only have control over your own decisions. This lady is very mature. I wish Nozi all the best.
@mandisangubane5773
@mandisangubane5773 5 күн бұрын
We love you cc❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@PhathekaNgcukana-b2f
@PhathekaNgcukana-b2f Ай бұрын
Lungelo. What I like about this woman is that she is always humble. I like her character.
@TheSeersCorner
@TheSeersCorner Ай бұрын
She is not alone🙌🏾🙏May the Lord strengthen her through it all.
@mbalihadebe6741
@mbalihadebe6741 2 ай бұрын
Such an elegant, classy lady❤ this episode was nothing short of amazing. And Lungelo, Aahh man impeccable interviewing skills 👌🏽
@khanyisilevilakazi6786
@khanyisilevilakazi6786 Ай бұрын
I’m realising as she speaks that it’s so important to have a life outside marriage/ relationships. Majority of failed marriages I’ve listened on podcasts those wife’s had put their happiness. They’re whole lives on husbands rather than God. I don’t know if I make sense but thank you for sharing your story. I’m Glad to hear this at my young age.
@Drip3657
@Drip3657 Ай бұрын
5min into the video,beautiful interview🥺💕. This woman's voice is soothing..beautiful,so refreshing
@viviennentimeng3902
@viviennentimeng3902 Ай бұрын
The problem shame is that Nozipho loved his husband more nd the bible says “man love ur wife’s” as women it’s not our duty to love man, the more u love him the more he loves himself, the more his pride grows that his loveable. In marriage when u love urself more as a women the more ur husband falls inlove with u more cos they question why u love urself so much, is there someone loving u?
@mtshali_lb
@mtshali_lb Ай бұрын
What a woman❤she's got to much grace to give and not to even mention the wisdom(unmatched). May the good Lord continue to heal her beyond her imagination.
@zanelendevu5887
@zanelendevu5887 2 ай бұрын
A book worth reading would be that of Nozipho, there are no coincidences, regrets or mistakes in life all that she went through will work out for good. Romans 8 vs 28....
@MaleboOldjohnTsindi
@MaleboOldjohnTsindi 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho, my husband and I have a child with what they say it’s learning difficulties however I have learned to understand that, it’s a standard way our education system uses. From there I grew a desire to open a school that will be a tailored learning. I love how our children keep directing us to things we never thought we would do and all the best with your post grad.
@ShalomHazel
@ShalomHazel 2 ай бұрын
@@MaleboOldjohnTsindi 😍😍😍😍 These are things that make my heart happy. I believe kids can be their best if they are in an environment where they supported according to their needs 🌻 I pray that desire comes to fruition 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. I am rooting for you ❤️. Go mommy 🌸🌸🌸🌸
@MaleboOldjohnTsindi
@MaleboOldjohnTsindi 2 ай бұрын
@ thank you 🙏
@felicitymasike1144
@felicitymasike1144 27 күн бұрын
Nozipho Nozipho who knew that you so smart 🙏🙌🏻
@zanionde5103
@zanionde5103 2 ай бұрын
This is by far the best episode I’ve watched ,I fell in love with Nozipho she’s so smart and full of wisdom . I learned to much …plus I just love how she speaks she’s got a soft tone
@leratoafrica3331
@leratoafrica3331 2 ай бұрын
Gosh...now this was lovely! She was asked questions and given space to answer! Absolutely wonderful!!!
@langelihlenyuswa5920
@langelihlenyuswa5920 2 ай бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this interview, watched it in one go too which is not common nowadays. Thank you Lungelo and Nozipho
@anelisamatiwane1500
@anelisamatiwane1500 Ай бұрын
Looove Nozipho, her energy and approach to motherhood inspires me, not to mention the calm soft spoken power. To Lungelo 🥂 love what you did with this conversation
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow Ай бұрын
You are exceptionally kind. Thank you ❤
@Silly_tilly809
@Silly_tilly809 2 ай бұрын
Lungelo, you did a stellar job with this interview. Nozipho, I met you when my husband will meet you at Midlands mall he would say where is your other half. Mama lentaba oyinykayo manje uma usufike phezulu, bukela emumva ubonge ngokuthi you became stronger than you thought.
@nomfundosidzamba7005
@nomfundosidzamba7005 2 ай бұрын
I am glad I watched this,seasons pass and it is really important to accept things as they come.God's strength to Nozipho & her fam❤
@babsytyanase8082
@babsytyanase8082 11 күн бұрын
Sis NOZI is such sweetheart truly loved this podcast,such a brave woman..
@EngineerYLShow
@EngineerYLShow 10 күн бұрын
So glad you enjoyed the podcast 🙏🏿
@primrosenatasha9884
@primrosenatasha9884 Ай бұрын
Lungelo is the best interviewer. Nozipho is a just a great phenomenal woman. I love u
@nolwazikhoza2445
@nolwazikhoza2445 12 күн бұрын
I am impressed with Lungelo 😅
@bmshik
@bmshik Ай бұрын
55:35 graceful and commendable. What a lady ❤ wishing Nozi love and light. Lungelo is a skilful and respectful young man.
@christianaffirmations5639
@christianaffirmations5639 Ай бұрын
Nozipho is so full and loving and that's what her ex saw in her and he harvested that for himself. You can tell she's a super empath and suffers from positive self projection which is very dangerous for kind people because you get taken advantage of a lot. She really needs to start seeing people for who they are and realize it's not her place to heal them.
@ratelhoneybadger
@ratelhoneybadger 3 күн бұрын
Ouch! But true.
@lillianntsiu5060
@lillianntsiu5060 2 ай бұрын
This is a beautiful and full of healing conversation. God bless you both. Nozipho Jesus will heal your broken heart ❤
@Lebohang_01
@Lebohang_01 2 ай бұрын
Nozipho is such a wise woman, just listening to her speak about a very difficult season in her life made me realise that whatever it is that I'm going through, I'm definitely going to be fine, I really love the fact the she never departed from God, this was such a profound interview.
@Simply_Lavissh
@Simply_Lavissh 2 ай бұрын
You are absolutely a great Interviewer!! not only do u interview but also speak positive words to your guests....u are truly gifted! so refreshing..and i Love Nozipho so this episode is absolutely a fav🥰🥰🥰🥰
@abongilegeorge
@abongilegeorge 2 ай бұрын
I love the transparency on this episode, big up❤
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