Motswako 16 - Episode 49: Female Masturbation

Masturbation can be taboo to many of us. It goes without saying that not many people, friends, or couples find it easy to converse about it. But does masturbation have reasons to be taboo and what exactly are the pros and cons of it? These questions seldom get discussed as a consequence of the nature of the conversation. Mapaseka connects with three women, Zamo, Vuyisanani and Mirriam and they ask why it is so difficult to speak about masturbation, and they also look at why some women prefer it to sexual intercourse.
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[@shiluva_ml3235]

Comments section is empty coz women are afraid to speak up...

[@lizmasati3288]

This kind of talks is what we women needs, a lot aren't happy in their relationships and is because we don't tell our partners the way we want to be touched and so on. We should be open about this and nothing to be ashamed of. Keep educating women. Love the talk.

[@tebogoawande6348]

It's many who suffer mustabation but die silent it even affect the real affair one have with a man cause when you ask your partner to intimate with you in a certain way they often take it as if you slept with another man who taught you that but actually it's not true people climax in different ways and sex is a two way street we have to listen to one another so both parties will be certified instead of pin pointing

[@sesothomusichub2503]

I like how Mapaseka speaks sotho!! 👍🏽👍🏽

[@simonarepack2785]

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[@busiechaman7172]

i'm grateful for this topic tank you motswako

[@TumeloBaloyi]

one minute i am watching cat videos and the next i am here

[@terrytesh9907]

😂😂😂😃

[@MegzLife]

Glad there's caption..here from america. Northern California to be exact. Good info

[@mankwetsebe5954]

Did learn a lot ... thanks Motswako

[@babymama6359]

We need more topics like these to educate the people because alot of people learn about sex from porn which is very inaccurate.

[@leboramaphiri4759]

Wow kethabila topic ena, I wish I had more people around me I can discuss with

[@lutha1720]

Ladies you need to show this to your man, If it wasn't fob my girl to get me watch this I would not know what she need and how she need, the ball is in your court ladies.

[@oratilweoratilwe8564]

I love this Pumezile woman but above all the topic I feel gore its a good choice cause we get to learn and understand as women gore there is nothing wrong with get to yourself....its funny how I get judged gore I love talking about sex when am with my friend's or people am closed to

[@lulekaguntu2680]

Yhe sana I thought xa ndizinika ndodwa ndenza into ewrongo Kanti yeyona iryt wow thanks guys ndifunde lukhulu

[@kumkaniphilemagqabi1682]

Philani ladies

[@bongi-beegumbi5474]

great topic👌👌

[@alphastunnerman9627]

nice topic

[@sharonnesane1916]

😀😀nice topic

[@creativendinda]

From Kenya got my love

[@HerDangLife]

Such a juicy gossip but no viewers? Uhmm

[@deethomas6699]

lol!very interesting indeed...and that other lady Phumzile motsumi is my neighbour...

[@joymotloung6758]

lol how do u even look at her,after this :/

[@deethomas6699]

+JOY MOTLOUNG...lol!its normal girlfriend,because of Im one of those kindah woman who understand a lot when it comes to these kind of things... I also own a couple of toys...and handcuffs,

[@happymokoena9443]

+Destiny Thomas Niceeeeeee :-).. We need peoople like you

[@annatshabalala2741]

Oh my God carrot inside I'm laughing like hell right now yah neh

[@awesomequeen3206]

does it not go against God??especially if not married?

[@mskivababy]

+dineo smiles Ive heard it does. churches are really against it

[@zamasicwebu]

+dineo smiles no!

[@AizenIPlannedIt]

lies

[@ciaras.2621]

awesome queen I wanna let you know that hypocrisy is against God. lots of single people, priest, and regular people masturbate it's a natural way of discovering our sexuality. better to masturbate than engaged in a dangerous activities or contract STDS or touch children like most priest scandals...this things are against god.. but self pleasure is self doing

[@khumbulanisojila4365]

Did God write any book and say it's against him,if you can show me any book where God wrote that I'll believe

[@nothandophiri2561]

lol, "how you get to Polokwane"

[@vusumuzi_mathumo]

the carrot will send you to polokwane hahahahahahahahahahahah

[@loxiemahase9841]

Maybe even all the way to New York😂😂😂

[@letlhogonololechaba5358]

Mom phumzile hlee yoh lol

[@gypseguera5132]

Traditional African Culture has Wisdom Teachings for every facet of life. Africans who are abandoning the Wisdom Teachings of their Culture to be more like Western Culture. Abandoning the Wisdom of your Ancestors is very,very dumb. First off Western Culture is an infant compared to African Culture. The reason why you were not giving Education concerning this by your Elders is because you were not prepared to know. And when it was time to know you were being taught from a Euro Christian Prospective. Europeans were ashamed of their bodies. Being naked in public or showing body parts such as breast was condemned. Why? Simply because everything to them was SEX,CONTROL AND AGGRESSION. Our African Ancestors invented the Family and through living and experimenting discovered what was safe and wholesome for the Community and what was a detriment. Most people in the World who are trying to simulate into Western Cultural concepts and practices are traveling backwards. The foundation and structure of modern Western Culture is what is known as, 'Cultural Marxism.' Look it up and study Cultural Marxism and you will understand where many of your opinions and half truths come from. To give you a clear example of what I am getting at look at my People. When my Ancestors was kidnapped and bought to America when had The Wisdom Teachings of our Ancestors. Now look at us. We speak as I see these Ladies doing. Sounding like Infantile Europeans. Discussing the Pro and Cons of Female Masturbation in a Public Forum as if its a coin to flip,to discover whats best. You think its normal because you see Western People doing it. Not once did any of these Ladies refer to their Traditions or Culture is this discussion. As if our Ancestors Wisdom Teachings don't cover this Topic.

[@queenjazzheart]

what did the ancestors say plz?

[@tarbucksadventures714]

AmaXhosa anamanyala😅😅😅

[@ofentsekelebogile741]

It'se tsela ya polokwane

[@boitumelomonare8647]

#saltbae

[@tshimangadzomavhungu3563]

Aredzi polokwane

[@murendeni4782]

Tshimangadzo Mavhungu 😂😂😂😂

[@vusikelly6697]

Ngathi akatshatanga nje la malady athetha ngeli hlobo ngomlalo yo hay am nt judging though

[@tshidisovinolia9832]

hehehe ey ds mommies are on point lol

[@maitemadia2427]

Pololwane 🙄🤷‍♂️

[@mikesmate6672]

climax

[@BARCODEMOTIONPICTURESFILMPROD]

😂6:21

[@mokgadiphiona466]

polokwane kikikik

[@desertink6007]

No way I catch my girl doing this thing I'm leaving her my pens is not enough for her.

[@chaylee2327]

😂

[@ribammakgomo8300]

So you rather find her with another man. ?Than her touching herself? and I don't see anything wrong with that. Cuz it's safer than finding her cheating on you which will be more risky for both ur health cuz you won't even be sure that she is using protection . So I think finding her exciting herself on her own it's the good thing and you should be grateful cuz she is not thinking of coopulating with other guys.. but doing it with you

[@pulengmafisa8626]

Not you again

[@thabangkekana5191]

Desert ink stop being selfish, it’s not only about your satisfaction or your dig.its her body, let her explore her body..unless if you’re the one who created her