SAHM and Reseller ‎@mysteethrifts - Sourcing with Kids, Time Constraints, and Balancing it All

[@HellaBella]

Cannot thank her enough for this interview! I’ve often wondered how having kids is going to affect my reselling as I’ve been doing this 10 years. I picture myself with little ones at the thrift store and it feels overwhelming. It’s amazing she’s made it a teaching opportunity. I can see that her background definitely helps with finding ways to teach her kids about entrepreneurship and finances while also being helpful to her and having a little fun in the process. It gives me hope I can have a family and still run my business! Pushing 30 and it feels like it’s time to start or put the dream on a shelf..

[@cayleyelaine]

You can do this! I will make sure she sees this comment.

[@penniestoriches5743]

This is awesome. I'm a sahm of 3 and homeschool as well! While reselling of course.

[@mysteethrifts]

Why we choose all this crazy, I’ll never know. But I love it! ❤

[@VIAGLO]

Absolutely loved the interview. Nice getting to know more about Mystee. So nice to see a mama doing the damn thing. Also the tag switching, I saw it first hand last week and was so annoyed.

[@cayleyelaine]

It makes me so mad lol. Mostly because it just doesn't make any sense for either side.

[@mysteethrifts]

I’m just happy to show up on your radar viaglo because I watch you regularly 😂

[@mysteethrifts]

Thanks so much for the opportunity to sit and chat reselling. I’m always grateful for all you share in your videos and it was awesome to have this chance. ❤

[@cayleyelaine]

I so appreciate you taking the time to chat with me and offer your perspective 🙏

[@secondhandsuperhero]

Just subscribed! So cool to see another SAHM doing this!!!

[@WrightDreamer]

Mystee thank you so much for sharing... I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. Subscribing to your channel. Looking forward to watching you grow❤❤❤❤

[@mysteethrifts]

@@WrightDreamer thank you for your condolences. I appreciate it. ❤️

[@mjay4700]

25:28 - 25:42 The issue of taking measurements by hand, separately from photos.. I used to do that too for years until I changed to photographing the measurements. When photographing an item I just quickly take a measuring tape and lay it on top of the area, take a few snaps and continue with my photo process. Then when you get to photo editing/uploading your measurements are right there. It has saved a lot of time and streamlines things and you tend not to go back and re-handle items over and over. Been doing this 12+ years and wish I had done that right from the start.

[@mysteethrifts]

Thanks for your insight! I’ve actually considered this. I currently photo all at once then measure, bag, and weigh all at once. I am looking to see how I can rearrange to make your method work for me. Hopefully it goes well 🤞🏻

[@Amandahugginkizz]

Same never had a single issue I have not once wrote measurments in my listing besides photos

[@mysteethrifts]

@@Amandahugginkizz I just need you to know your user name is epic lol

[@cinnamonchivers7204]

I started putting measurements in my photos when Poshmark sided with the customer for a return for a chest measurement on a scrunchie broomstick top. I even said in the listing what the widest measurement could be along with the laying flat measurement, but the customer took their own photo and placed the crinkle fabric wherever they wanted it so Poshmark took their side. If I’d had a photo that would not have happened.

[@mjay4700]

@@cinnamonchivers7204 Yep that's another great thing about the photographed measurements - Less room for debate. It's an absolute must for jeans/pants waists.

[@BriarRose91]

Thank you so much for this video I just became a stay at home as I just had a baby and omg its so hard to balance everything. This was such a great video for me. Deff relatable. Baby currently napping and I have to run and do shipping

[@mysteethrifts]

@@BriarRose91 you’ve got this mama! I love seeing a woman own her abilities!

[@CynthiaChdz]

Hello Cayley, That's how it is in resale, there are many types of people. I'm a mother of 4 and I don't speak English. Making a list for me takes longer than it should, but I'm learning, and I've learned a lot from your content. KZbin allows you to translate the videos. so when my children are asleep I can dedicate myself to studying the brands!! and I like this job, thank you, I hope to soon increase my weekly sales to $500 or more 😊, Thank So Much

[@mysteethrifts]

I didn’t know YT can translate videos. That’s so awesome! I’m glad you found a way that helps you.

[@CynthiaChdz]

@@mysteethrifts Hello Thank You, yes it is possible, where is the video configuration when generating the subtitles, can it be translated in my case to Spanish, the voice is not translated but with the subtitles it is more than helpful 😊

[@crazzylizlol]

Ive had to really get my priorities straight. I wanted to be home with my kids but im also competitive. It’s hard on days where they need me fully to see my goals not get met. But I take a step back remember that they are priority one and let myself take the day off without stressing about it. When I had to call in while they were sick I was always reminded how many sick days I had used or had left. I’m so lucky to only answer to myself now. And I get to do a job I love while spending time with my kids.

[@mysteethrifts]

I absolutely dislike how companies do that! It sounds like you are doing amazing! Not every day is easy but keep up the good work!

[@mckinleylaird]

I'm a homeschool mom also with 3 boys(7,4 & 2) and my business model is very similar to hers. I do go to the bins but I dont stay for very long because my baby gets restless. Really thats any thrift store but I've learned to go fast and only go through the new tags unless its been awhile since I've been there. My 7 year old doesnt source but he takes all my packages into the post office, even the heavy loads . And I pay him for it as well. Its very difficult to be a mom and resell in my opinion. Extremely wearing and time consuming when I'm already stretched thin but I work hard and makes pretty good sales. I'd like to do more but I'm trying to get a better schedule so I can balance my time better. I really appreciate this interview!!

[@mysteethrifts]

I think choosing to first figure out a good balance is much better than going hard. As moms we really have to consider soooo many aspects. Thanks for sharing your story and input. ❤

[@maryclarke9894]

Great to see you both on this interview. You are both wise in the way you run your businesses, and I learned a lot from both of you on this video. Mystee, you do such a great job at the very difficult task of finding balance as a SAHM and home . I am semi-retired and still struggling to find balance but can't imagine juggling all this when my kids were young, (although I think I would have loved the opportunity to find out!). I love those sheets you created. I definitely will try those!

[@mysteethrifts]

Thanks so much for the kind words. It’s very encouraging! The sheets are easy to make and I encourage you to try them!

[@evelynbishop9544]

❤❤❤ The video has a lot of good tips, I plan to watch a second time so much good o site. Will be checking out your channel, Mystee.

[@mysteethrifts]

@@evelynbishop9544 I’m glad you found helpful info ❤️

[@jesseenixon]

my goodwill does this. A worker had me help her lol. she was pulling all the color tags and i already knew they did it because nothing is ever on the color tag sale nothing. My bins is also horrific too many ppl for the lack of stuff. Mom of 4, it's hard because you can think you have a good schedule going and alot of things can get in the way of that schedule. Sometimes work doesn't happen which isn't good then you feel guilty because I didnt do what I needed to for work Or I did work and let the kitchen go or something gets sacrificed.

[@mysteethrifts]

Ohhh yes. When I say yes to one thing I say no to another. My husband and I have discussed the next goal in my resell income being to hire help with cleaning. Thanks for sharing. ❤

[@bunkerbunny5]

OMG!!!! I noticed this too with sale days!!! I find my best things in full price days. I thought I was crazy. I don’t even go during their color tag sale days. INSANE!!!! I never have, but if had to take my little one to the bins I wouldn’t stay very long. But I also try to just get in and out of thrift stores too. I think having my daughter with me and wanting to move faster has been the driving force to wanting to improve my base knowledge. So things are easier to spot. If I find myself going item by item I set a time limit. Sometimes I leave with nothing and that’s ok. If my daughter just isn’t feeling it I definitely listen to how she is feeling. Sometimes I’ll just stop and say, let’s get out here and go to the park.

[@mysteethrifts]

The park always comes in clutch! It’s often our reward after thrifting!

[@09whiteknight]

Im sahm and I absolutely agree with most struggle is find balance between reselling and time for family. Sometimes it’s really hard… It’s my 4th year to be reselling part-time and first year when I hit $100k in sales, what I’m proud of. I can’t imagine other side hustle giving me this opportunity.

[@mysteethrifts]

Wow! That is such an awesome number! I agree, not many side hustles can give such great results.

[@cayleyelaine]

Way to go! 🥳

[@Starbuckqc]

Good work! You have great communication skills and a beautiful voice.

[@gomezniccole]

Your cost of goods is great!

[@gomezniccole]

Both of you!

[@mysteethrifts]

I hope it stays that low!

[@cinnamonchivers7204]

This was great. A lot of us heard you and really related. With teenagers my solution has been the early morning… 4 AM. Before the heading out the door drama begins, when everybody’s trying to find some thing or needs help loading something into the car or can’t find their socks. Early early is my most productive Mom window. The rest of the day is fair game when you have kids. They see you present and have a question or need something. It’s all good and my kids are a blessing but the older I get the more I need that quiet window that best of all, at 4am, is productive and guilt free!

[@mysteethrifts]

Hello fellow 4 am mom club member lol

[@debbiekennedy6030]

Mystee, thanks so much for realizing we don't all know the acronyms. You said you shouldn't talk in code. So considerate! Another KZbinr does this a lot. I just asked yester what something meant. It affects how much we can get from her information. She also talks really fast, and I am taking notes because I haven't started yet, but I can't keep up. Thank you both for how you handled this presentation.

[@mysteethrifts]

I wanted to be sure to address that as I know not everyone knows the terms often thrown around. Always feel free to reach out and ask what something may mean. ❤

[@debbiekennedy6030]

@@mysteethrifts Thanks, will do! This was great info. I do feel called to talk about some things regarding SAHMs and home based businesses. I was one. I am now 65 and paying a severe price. I am trying to figure out how to express what those current moms/wives need to do to protect themselves. I don't want anyone else to end up this way. I have t launch my reselling first.

[@Amandahugginkizz]

I'm a sahm reseller of 6 kids who I homeschool alone lol😊

[@mysteethrifts]

Superwoman!

[@adamframe309]

Kids at the bins: no problem. Unsupervised kids at the bins however....

[@cayleyelaine]

So true lol

[@mysteethrifts]

Yesssss. I see kids skateboarding down the isles with a skateboard that was in a bin and I’m just wondering where the parent is 😂😂

[@timhalcomb4041]

Thank you both for sharing you have a blessed day in the name of Jesus Christ.

[@cayleyelaine]

You as well 🙏

[@bunkerbunny5]

Cayley… talk about your group as much as you can!!!!!! It is important and it’s purpose is to help other people. Share share share!!!!

[@mysteethrifts]

I agree!

[@debbiekennedy6030]

So wear the dress on the trip then sell it!

[@mysteethrifts]

Well it’s new with tags making it worth much more than without tags. I still haven’t made a decision ❤

[@debbiekennedy6030]

@@mysteethrifts Oh, I didn't realize that. I wouldn't do that if it was NWT either. Such a shame you can't get a wear out of it. Another fun one will come along. 😉

[@mysteethrifts]

@@debbiekennedy6030 I listed it instead of keeping. It sold fast for over 100.00

[@deliaalba9413]

Is Maggie Barnes plus size a good brand name to resell

[@mysteethrifts]

I’ve personally sold it as a bread and butter brand with plus size and factor stacking (as Cayley calls it).

[@deliaalba9413]

@@mysteethrifts how much do they resell for, average price and do they move quickly? TIA

[@mysteethrifts]

Anywhere from 15-25 usually. Not the fastest moving.

[@CHRISTINAARECHIGA]

First time ive watched your interviews and while i normally like your videos, this needs a better format it was painfully slow and boring

[@cayleyelaine]

Dang, ok.

[@Thriftylibrarian]

Loved this interview! I'm not exactly a SAHM - I'm the default parent and have a PT job as a public library director, no formal childcare, and I resell. I'm at the point where reselling earns me more than the library job (which isn't that hard because it's a library job lol but still). I often feel like I need to choose 1 thing to be good at and like I could really kill it as a reseller, but it's so hard to make that choice. And YES the mom guilt is so real, especially with a "PT" job AND reselling, which are both never really done. Thanks for making an effort to rep all different kinds of resellers! My favorite part was when she said that sometimes there isn't a right solution. I'm a fixer so that was a thinker for me.

[@mysteethrifts]

I’m glad to hear your reselling business is earning more than your PT income. I think that’s a testament to your ability to build an income on your own. It sounds like you have a promising future as a hard worker and hope to one day hear your story of success (which it sounds like you are already killing it in every avenue) ❤