Sam M. Answers Burning Questions and Reveals If He Has Any Regrets During ‘Men Tell All’

[@Jerrypaks]

Did he really have to mention that Jenn was not his first choice as the Bachelorette? Using her to wipe the slate of his narcissistic personality clean. He really is something.

[@py528]

Sorry but that was funny! 😂😂

[@janetk7246]

That's not what he said....he said when they signed up for the show everyone assumed it would be Maria or Daisy. We ALL did. Then when they (&Rachel)declined, Jenn was next in line. He then went on to say that he felt he was there for a reason, and believed in the process. So while Jenn is not his typical type, upon getting to know her he liked her(She's legit) and eventually started falling in love with her. Personally, I found his honesty refreshing. After what they put Jenn thru at the end of the AtFR, there is a very good chance that he is telling the truth about getting the rotten edit too imo

[@BreezyW100]

It’s all a farce. If he really regretted his actions, he wouldn’t have his family attacking her online.

[@kathrynorozco5416]

Yes, I was looking for a rational person’s comment. 👏

[@MAlliyaha]

You can’t always control the actions of your family

[@hysee1738]

what did they say about her??

[@skbluee]

Maybe he regrets, realises his mistakes now. Why not give grace to people? He's not some horrible dude. Lacking in emotional intelligence and not used to speaking from the heart. He seems like he wants to grow.

[@411faithhopelove]

@@hysee1738his dad said that they edited the show to make Sam look bad just so they wouldn’t reveal that Jen was an idiot. I think it’s really something when the father has to throw blows at an innocent girl. She didn’t deserve that.

[@firstofall21]

Am the only one who found him just basic?

[@CreativeGaze_]

He’s very basic

[@firstofall21]

@@CreativeGaze_ ikr lol

[@r0ck_fr3sh]

Dude kept trying to re-assure us that he's a good man..... truthfully x 100

[@rayc9899]

Check those eyes, so empty, nothing emotional there whatsoever....empty shell.

[@marydss-no9yq]

Good for him! why he should care what you think about him? 😂😂😂 Get over yourself, and then you say he is the selfish one

[@rayc9899]

@@marydss-no9yq He's the selfish one, get educate in human behaviors, indeed, you're so naiiiive.

[@r0ck_fr3sh]

@@marydss-no9yq LOL who said he was selfish in the thread? You're the only one using that word. Of course he cares what people think that's why he tried to defend himself so we can think otherwise of him. Not working for now. You must be a friend, relative, or his one of his hoochies.

[@jenniferhansen3622]

Goodness gracious! People take this show way to seriously. I've been watching since the very first season of the Bachelor, and I've watched every season, but I don't get why people are arguing here? It's just a TV show. 😅

[@Dozenhurdle]

I cackled at 7:20 when the couple were just shaking their heads at what Sam was saying. LOL

[@Lamar-n6t]

The couple is the previous bachelorette Charity and her husband Dotun. 😂😂

[@eddiewashington9035]

They're not married yet, still engaged.

[@Dozenhurdle]

@@Lamar-n6t neat!! I didn’t know this

[@py528]

I was laughing when jen acted like his mother 😂😂 that was funny as hell.

[@michaelshinners6847]

Doton looks like he's watching a car crash!

[@Booya2024]

lol, Jeremy yawning for us all. It’s all a front, and he’s not having a min of it😂

[@xmochilove]

Sam M couldn't explain or defend his love, excuse me I mean "feelings" for Jenn because he didn't have any to begin with LOL 💀 Just own up and say there was no chemistry. The man already said he was expecting Daisy/Maria to be the Bachelorette and that Jenn was NOT his type. Literally the lights are on but no one's home

[@JasonFoo1653]

He said thought not excepting, wished or wanted the Bachelorette was Daisy or Maria that’s different and not as bad compared to that. You don’t need to twisted his words more worse than what it already was

[@aladdout9454]

so Maria will be on bachelor in paradise?

[@NinaNarratesUntoldStories]

Why did Hakeem have to go so early? He's such a gem, his facial expression narration, holding the bro accountable. Bring him back! Forget Sam the Scam.

[@jessicanaan3284]

Hakeem freaks people out with those eyes. You just knew he would go early on

[@duilama-7872]

@@NinaNarratesUntoldStories how woukd you like looking at those eyes 24/7? And when you wake up, they are looking you back?

[@blahblahblah-uw4uf]

Because he’s unattractive

[@devonlovemusic]

Jenn wanted him to have certain answers ready and he isn't that articulate probably in general. You get the guy you get and can't change him.

[@pradachik]

She was so obsessed she couldn’t see that he was giving her nothing

[@suzzylouloudougherty5237]

My husband loved me very very much but he couldn't express it verbally some people are just like that it'll take time to show your true love

[@NH-tb2sm]

I'm sure your husband can say one thing he loves about you.

[@ArtingMyWay]

LMAO this man loves no one but himself

[@paigec5017]

Truthfully

[@TheFoldMusic]

“Right there” a close second

[@louisatee3324]

The guys this season are more respectful and less toxic WOW, other season they would have destroyed Sam

[@jant3528]

Like his humble approach to answering these questions. But I think he’s trying to repair his image for consideration in paradise

[@marydss-no9yq]

Repair his image for paradise? 😂 Well I don't see anything bad about that. Who would like to go to hell? Would you?😂

[@babs623]

Cute but no substance

[@tatab5515]

the cuteness disappeared because there is no substance

[@DevilDave77]

Say what you want about Sam but he always kept the main thing the main thing

[@chonklife1809]

😂

[@lisareyes3194]

Lmaoooo

[@ap774]

Haha, so true. He thinks the main thing is him not Jen lol 😂

[@1313sp]

the main thing is himself

[@bartkarnowski4458]

Is the main thing his future convictions and parole violation? The yes he's definitely about the main thing?

[@sharonteakell1949]

He decided they would jump off the tower without asking her and shes upset because she's afraid of heights yet she scheduled a sky divind date with Marcus????

[@JasonFoo1653]

That moment I was like how was Jenn afraid of Heights since she was Skydiving higher off the ground more than the building jumped so I don’t blame Sam into assuming she was born with adrenaline

[@maureenflovers7952]

My husband never said he loved me openly but we have been married for 47 years .

[@silverlining228]

My father was like that, never said I love you to my mom or any of us kids. We were his world, he showed his love, but I did alway miss the words, as did my mom, although she wouldn't admit it. He had a very hard life and just never developed that emotional vulnerability. He passed away unexpectedly a few years ago and I made a conscious effort to do better than him in that aspect with the people I love.

[@2736492821]

yours...truthfully x 100 LOL

[@bd3723]

Everything that comes out of his mouth is so hallow. He's such a scary individual to like sociopathic level. Definitely something beyond narcissism

[@py528]

Calm down😂😂

[@duilama-7872]

@@bd3723 how is he hollow?

[@ap774]

Sam M needs to learn how to speak from the heart, not his brain. Love is real when you feel it, not think it.

[@jihanekhalife7378]

Well said, he doesnt seem a bad guy but he thought too much when he was speaking to Jenn in order to keep going till the end. His behavior ended up questioning his authenticity in love.

[@JasonFoo1653]

He followed his head instead of his heart I think that’s what his biggest regret was

[@duilama-7872]

i don't think the other guys Jenn picked are any more authentic or real. Jenn was too self centered for herself needing other people to ‘see' her. How did the other guys see her? all just fluffy words, but Jenn likes some words more than the others.

[@Jessica-yd3ld]

He doesn’t have a brain to speak from 😂

[@karenshatswell2347]

The problem is that he doesn't have a brain.

[@lyndilopez5]

If you have to keep saying TRUTHFULLY, your word means nothing. Then you have to end every endearing comment with it. And if you don't, it means nothing. That's not a man in love. Ugh!

[@SP-ej4kd]

It's just a phrase. Get over yourself.

[@emilyc5625]

Looks like Jaun Pablo - was that his name ? 😂😂😂

[@dabu8701]

6:52 that the Damn truth, anyone acting like they weren’t interested in daisy or Maria and are liars. None of them pulled out because they get to be on tv obviously Hell even bachelor nation was obsessed with them both hence the huge rise in social medial followers. While her season has been good A lot people weren’t all in on Jenn as bachelorette

[@annablee1027]

Hello Dabu - that’s exactly what I just posted that when Sam M called them all liars notice how they didn’t protest?! Only Jeremy said something!

[@duilama-7872]

@@dabu8701 well Jenn is not on the same level wuth eitger Maria or Daisy, especially on mature emotional and beauty level.

[@dabu8701]

@@annablee1027 exactly!!!

[@s_fashionlover]

@@duilama-7872 maybe not maturity but Jenn has a MUCH prettier face than both Maria and Daisy. I like Maria but take away the fashion & body…that’s not a gorgeous face. Daisy is cute but plain.

[@ChrisBraddy]

All I heard was truthfully and truthfully I meant truthfully and thankfully it truthfully in that moment

[@JasonFoo1653]

Well what else do you wished he said then?

[@ChrisBraddy]

@@JasonFoo1653 he should have said the truth that he is a moron

[@Rbbajdjdbbx]

There’s something off about Sam. It seems he’s narcissistic with emotional issue

[@SaraBlu]

Truthfully.

[@morganr9190]

I think him admitting this is the first time he ever had to explain why he loved someone was kind of nice lol

[@ronniepeterson6911]

We return to The Men Tell All and when we left off, Jonathon finished his interview on the night he went home and what he got this was sure to bring this story home for him. Now to Sam N. on the day in Hawaii when answer burning question were there. Who had the story? Well much of the rest of this is dominated unsurprisingly by the drama between Sam M. and well a lot of people. Devin was his primary adversary and since he's not there to be involved in the conversation, Jeremy tries to come to his defense when they're discussing whether Devin she pulled Jenn aside at ta cocktail party despite already having a rose....Naturally Sam M. told Jenn he loved her on the radio group date and he defends saying that. He says it's how he truly felt thought he admits there was probably a better time/day/way to express that..... The person who goes the hardest on Sam M. is Jenn. She says that after the first few weeks of filming everything started to unravel between them as she began to see more red flags. She says he only talked about himself and centered his feelings in almost every conversation and the radio date made her realize that he really didn't know anything about her.....She also called him out for his and his family's comments on social media where "instead of taking accountability," they've been blaming the editing and the producers for how Sam is portrayed..."The man that I saw on TV was exactly the man that I sat across from the entire " she says. Oof....Sam doesn't have much of a response, but says that he takes her feedback k and he's hoping to move better on and be better....Jenn also confronts Thomas N. for feeding into the drama with Sam M. To balance it out, she also with Jon Sam N., saying she has nothing but love and respect for them even though they ultimately didn't end up being her person...

[@margirl9469]

U know I really think he is misunderstood as well. he's just a guy that doesnt say the right things all the time. Kinda like a socially awkward and maybe inappropriate person that doesnt realize it. But tries to come off as confident and cool. Saying everything he is thinking. Even about that dull eyes. I could see him being honest about that. Maybe he doesn't know that dull eyes is offensive. I personally know people like this.

[@jessicanaan3284]

Yes

[@calvinhouston5015]

👍👍👍

[@duilama-7872]

@@margirl9469 people are a bit sour grapes as well, bashing an attrative guy that they can never have. make them feel better about themselves

[@abigailsunn1464]

Me exactly lol. There have been times where I've word vomited or came off as rude to other people without meaning to. Having a bunch of dudes competing for the same girl and having millions watching your every move prob doesn't help either (prob shouldn't have been on a show like this tho but makes sense)

[@jamieeec]

truthfully~

[@ThatGmoney]

The eyes “I need to prove I didn’t do anything wrong!” That is the disorder narcissist, I do see humility and glad Warner is really showing that because to truly be on top is this awful personality disorder plus trait is see if there is awareness! Not easy, very far from where Sam can be but also r/NPD Reddit does show Sam can make a great recovery and continue to do so! Much better, WAY BETTER than Luke Puke!

[@kathrynorozco5416]

I never liked him like since the beginning I knew he was red flag.

[@kristinamyrteza4729]

I’m so happy they set him straight if he’s like this on camera imagine what happens when cameras aren’t there rolling I think even his ex said he’s a horrible person warned us

[@chideraannugwu8570]

He should take accountability for his actions .

[@MrConartistdesign]

am I the only one seeing that he LOOKS just like JUAN PABLO ?? please like this.. im NOT CRAZY

[@JasonFoo1653]

He may look like Juan Pablo but he’s not really acting like him

[@margaretmiao1631]

Her eyes are dull 💀 Puhleaseee

[@Jessica-yd3ld]

Nothing is more dull than Sam’s brain and intelligence level lol.

[@skbluee]

Seems like y'all are purposely not trying to understand what he's getting at. He meant in that day she brought a dull energy and her eyes expressed it..and he sensed it, he sensed that she was going to send him home. it's not that hard to understand even though he didn't explain it well. So you guys purposely misinterpreting what he's meaning is rather unfair

[@duilama-7872]

@@skbluee Exactly, you can tell it all by tge way she walked even before she knicked on his door. She was not going to see if she got the whole situiation wrong and to give any effort to save their relationship, she was going up there to have a diva moment.

[@skbluee]

@@duilama-7872 to be fair people were giving Jenn too much crap for keeping Sam M around for that long. Then she puts him on the spot and then y'all call her a diva. I think Jenn was right. But also Sam M needs grace. He's not such a bad guy. He definitely needs to learn and work on his behaviour.

[@jenniferhansen3622]

I understand what he meant by dull eyes. He just doesn't have a way with words, so I think that is definitely a hinderance for him. I think he meant that her eyes used to light up when she'd see him; light up with happiness. But then he realized her eyes were no longer lighting up with happiness for him.

[@Lisa-np9bw]

That was so painful to watch😢

[@Princessmandy73]

Everyone is being a bit judgmental. N one actually knows him. He doesn’t seem like a bad person

[@munoabdi2922]

Where is the mistake I don’t see it

[@Misspermiscuousgirll]

Yeah I don’t see a mistake either but I think He’s not a good lover doesn’t have the words or actions etc

[@JasonFoo1653]

At least he truly regretted what he did and took accountability

[@kathrynorozco5416]

If you heard Jenn and the others, you’d know that he didn’t take accountability for his actions

[@JasonFoo1653]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@kathrynorozco5416I know you don’t like Sam M but what more do you want from him or his family to be on good terms with you at least?

[@Jessica-yd3ld]

Did he?? When and where?

[@JasonFoo1653]

⁠@@Jessica-yd3ldHe tried to explain himself and agreed with what the other guys got on him

[@annablee1027]

Hello yes agreed - he didn’t have to come on the show but he did. Didn’t like the way Jenn blasted him, even though mostly true - she seems to be full of herself.

[@abigailsunn1464]

Ok weirdly enough, I kind of get where he's coming from. Some people are able to articulate words and emotions better, while others (myself included) are just unable to really fully express how they feel and why. However, it takes certain types of people to mesh well with the latter in regards to serious relationships, and most people just aren't meant to be with those types of people since that can cause further strain and frustration in the long run. Assuming that he's being genuine about the reasons why he came off the way he did, he definitely needs to work on being able to express and actually understand why he feels the way he does with things of this nature better. It's possible, but only to an extent and if he or anyone else with a similar personality wants to.

[@kimmie6924]

He looks like Juan Pablo from Bachelor both handsome guys but A holes lol

[@GenX_in_the_wild]

She pressured him constantly to tell her what he could not tell her, that is a red flag too.

[@duilama-7872]

@@GenX_in_the_wild she pressured him to confess his live in the radio show, I don't blame him fir a tongue tie moment because tge cat (she) got his tongue, even when they were not kissing.

[@AnjeleeMahilom]

Well then why he keep saying i love you but then he cant tell her why? Any woman would question that

[@duilama-7872]

@@AnjeleeMahilom neither can the other men.

[@Djrob515]

TRUTHFULLY

[@LightLove-m6t]

I believe Sam had as good of intentions as anyone else that was on this show ;and maybe he couldn’t put it into words and that just didn’t work for Jenn but it is very possible it will be, he , will be great when he meets a woman that is happy with his “love language”. He needs someone very kinesthetic, humble and isn’t needing so much attention from everyone. (Jenn is very visual etc ) I hope they all find their right match and true love.

[@JasonFoo1653]

I felt he was just misunderstood and that’s exactly what I saw since Night 1

[@conniebrown8480]

Just because he can't express his feelings in words doesn't mean he is not a loving man that can be able to give a woman a lot of joy and love. I like him more than anyone and he deserves better.

[@JasonFoo1653]

He just went to his head and not his heart that was his biggest regret

[@annablee1027]

Hello Ms Connie - me too. I still liked Sam & I agree w/him. Heck, I wanted it to be Daisy or Maria too for the next Bachelorette LOL! Notice when Sam said you’re all liars if u didn’t think it was gonna be Daisy or Maria NOT a lot of protesting?!

[@py528]

Yea he's not a bad guy.

[@Cuaxiong1215]

If he loved her he would've try to make it work. He was just there for the fame. 😂😂

[@RosileneMartins23]

"Her eyes were dull"... lol

[@JasonFoo1653]

He means the energy Jenn used to give him wasn't there anymore that's why he said Dull

[@Debra-111]

Brian is right…and Hakeem.. now he is getting all the pressure from the guys 😅 bye Sam

[@Cwgrlup]

Sam is full of crap. 😂

[@JasonFoo1653]

I can’t get into his Instagram anymore if that’s make you feel better but I know it’s not for me

[@idalinahenriques3353]

My husband is the same My 1st husband My 2nd husband It's scary

[@jenniferhansen3622]

That's a lot of husbands. 😮

[@daverotes2115]

His last point was this all shows how little she knows about me LOL as if that entire scene didn't prove the opposite. He did not know her and just said uhh I am here for a reason I trust the process. BUT THAT IS YOU WHY ME lolol

[@kellyethan2239]

I think his not a bad guy,his jst who he is not good with words.

[@JasonFoo1653]

I think he just followed his head instead of his heart that’s how his authenticity was really questionable

[@maryvicente3692]

Funny she’s falling for everyone!

[@annablee1027]

@@maryvicente3692 hello exactly I don’t care 🤷‍♀️ too much for her & I didn’t like that told all 3 three guys she loved them includ’g poor Jonathan

[@Logan9mm]

I dont think hes a bad guy. Hes just full of himself and needs to do some growing. That's all. Hes still relatively young.

[@JasonFoo1653]

He just followed his head instead of his heart that’s why we question his authenticity

[@Logan9mm]

@@JasonFoo1653 I think he used to pulling girls easy but when it comes to serious women he's clueless. But I think dude will grow and figure it out. He's still young.

[@ulemumpaso7175]

Can we stop with the main thing

[@tiffanimorris7127]

The Bachelorette ratings are way down. They kept losing viewers each week. Jenn's vocal fry 0:22 0:35 could be a reason people changed the channel

[@Crystalbomb321]

There is nothing of substance with him at all, nor is he attractive.

[@calvinhouston5015]

Umm... He's clearly attractive... Check your eyes...

[@Booya2024]

He was cute but his personality ruins it 😂

[@Artur-Itas]

MILK 🥛 DOES A JENN GOOD!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Theniteowl_]

This dude is a joke lol 😂

[@oliviareyna7902]

I love Sam! He was just misunderstood.

[@JasonFoo1653]

I knew what he said was misunderstood since night 1

[@jessicanaan3284]

Agree. He should be glad he didn't end up with this damaged girl

[@hysee1738]

he had a gf before he left for the show

[@JasonFoo1653]

@@hysee1738 I don't think they were dating or official at the moment

[@oliviareyna7902]

@@hysee1738 Omg really?? How do you know?

[@violetsun2343]

I don’t believe a word he says but he is very poised lol

[@donnatumlinson]

Sam M keep the main thing the main thing. You wasn't treated fair from the men and so bullied from Jenn . Im so happy you didn't in up with her. Jenn is insecure in herself

[@katyducharme1346]

Sam M could be the lovechild of Josh Murray and Clayton...no?

[@Jessica-yd3ld]

What Sam needs to do is read some books, get some education, so he can become actually intelligent a bit.

[@michellechaychay]

Everyone deserves a second chance. We would all want grace after our worst moments. He does seem sorry & he shouldn’t be castigated forever

[@JasonFoo1653]

I know I don’t want to continue attacking him on the negativity even if he caused it first it’s not going to solve his problems regardless

[@jonesbbqfootmassage2430]

If u think he seems srry you need to reevaluate how you read ppl 😂

[@marydss-no9yq]

Oh wow you speak like you have the control of his life. Get over yourself people.

[@michellechaychay]

@@marydss-no9yq that made no sense - there’s no correlation

[@marydss-no9yq]

@@michellechaychay no correlation? No sense? Does your " he does seem sorry, he shouldn't be castigated forever " makes sense? Who are you or anyone here to castigate him even a little or a lot? Please 🙏 open your eyes, your mind or heart. Why not call out the lady who threw herself to Sam M at first glance and since she couldn't handle herself around him went on blaming him for being physical. Then goes in a fantasy suite with someone who says is not in love with her?Baaad example on this show. Please Sam M is an angel sweetheart in front of such evilness

[@michaelshinners6847]

6:26 is ALL you need to know about this whole clip! LOL!😅

[@jenniferhansen3622]

Her eyes didn't light up with him anymore. She didn't have feelings anymore for him, and rightly so.

[@ruxy7089]

Not very bright

[@seven92023]

The criticism towards Sam is more than fair. But let's also call out Jenn for pretty much saying the same things in terms of how her top guys make her feel. She told Marcus she is in love with him but he told her he isn't there. Yet she had a fantasy suits with him. Probably wont end up with him and will chase after Devin, who told her he loves her and most likely will leave just he's crying for validation. Let's call out Marcus and him soft pathetic crybabies. And let's call out Jenn for her BS.

[@skbluee]

I think she was more annoyed by how his friends and family spoke badly of her on SM.

[@marydss-no9yq]

She threw herself to Sam M at first sight and then blamed him for being physical. That's 🤢

[@suzzylouloudougherty5237]

❤

[@JennaSakura]

Wow. She’s like grilling him when he’s a man with simple words.

[@monicat9952]

Action speaks louder than words For Sam . Sam a good guy she doesn't deserve him. These guys are jealous of him too.

[@rayc9899]

You're so delusional, very good match with him.

[@devinmacrae4183]

Yes, they were jealous and enjoyed the lecture he got from JTran waay too much

[@thoulaphetmany9037]

Sam M is so handsome. You will find better girl Sam M.

[@Clough-Daddy]

Toxic

[@py528]

Sam is HOT. Hottest guy there. He dodged a bullet with this chick. He will find his wife. She's not it, not even close😂

[@devinmacrae4183]

and lets not forget she had him laid out on the couch the first night, she had him in her sights, very classy girl😗

[@aspirebooking6409]

Why does he have to be grilled by all the other guys?

[@marydss-no9yq]

Have him accountable ?!😂, why not her? She is not like the Pope, is she?

[@jessicanaan3284]

Sam did nothing wrong, really. Jenn is just a bit holier than thou & decided to school Sam on the right way to behave. Sam, we love you, you dodged a bullet👍

[@jennysmith8136]

He literally could not articulate any feelings. He needs to learn how to communicate.

[@marydss-no9yq]

@@jessicanaan3284 right..she schooled everyone to go in suite with someone who says is not in love with you 😂? Sam M you were saved from the Lord.

[@jessicanaan3284]

@@jennysmith8136 does that give her the right to rip into him on national tv?

[@marydss-no9yq]

@@jennysmith8136 how about you read a bit of Plato?

[@jessicanaan3284]

@@marydss-no9yq You're going to bring up Plato in a tacky place like this, hmm, ok. Yes, I read bits & pieces of Plato, freshman year of college. No thanks.

[@lydiaiturria7244]

Jenn is mean lady as spoil

[@elizehauptfleisch7542]

You see you all this guy is not bad at all.

[@JasonFoo1653]

I knew this was the moment Sam M truly regrets what he did took accountability for it

[@gracerucker6623]

Truthfully

[@anthonyblandon8446]

Truthfully