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COVERT ABUSE
Passive-aggressive (obstructive)
Hidden (occult): fakes empathy, rescuer-savior-healer, helpfulness, altruism, compassion
Manipulative
Nonverbal
Punitive avoidance and withdrawal (to play on abandonment anxiety)
Creates secret coalitions against you, smear campaigns (hiding behind others)
Controlling
COERCIVE CONTROL
Another much misused term, like gaslighting or narcissist
Victims intimidated into altering routines, modifying behaviors
Social isolation
Life constriction
Invasive monitoring and supervision
Deprivation of needs, including basic needs
Control and micromanagement of choices, decisions, behaviors, and actions
Denial of access to communication, money, friends, family, help, succor
Terrorizing, degradation, humiliation
Multiple modalities of abuse: verbal, physical, financial, sexual
Conditioning (compliance rewarded) leads to automatism and impaired reality testing
Premeditated
Not outcome of mental illness
Some victims misperceive coercive control as love, interest, attention, insecurity.
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