I was waiting for this topic of narcissism/psychopathy in politics been discussed. We all are living in blindness not knowing the real source of the society problems.
@stamax95015 ай бұрын
Society itself is the source of our problems. What we are seeing is a direct reflection of how society as a whole has come to function. The ethos that became acceptable as long as we could keep the nasty stuff in the shadows. To share the dream being sold. To accept the abuse for a few bucks in the bank. The only thing each of us ever has any control over in our lives is our individual response to what is present. Change comes quickly when society becomes aware. The direction will be determined by the individual creating a collective response. It’s not about fighting what’s present, it is about creating what you want to be present. One person at a time influencing one person at a time. It’s the society deciding it no longer wishes to be controlled by fear and knowing that Love is the only lens that can and will create a positive outcome. We are the change and every day can be another shift in the right direction.
@LuisdeBritoCamacho5 ай бұрын
@@stamax9501, I am more worried about the Subject of Evilness in Western Civilization. When did it starts and how it starts. And where? Who? Nothing to do with Psychopathy; wich is a Mental Disorder (DSM 5). Evilness is far, far beyond Psychopathy!! For instance, Adolf Hitler was someone with the Power of Hypnotising thounsands and thousands of Germans. We can say that he was a Psychopath. But he was not a Psychopath. He was the Evil (nothing to do with any kind of Religion!) in Person. Someone we could call the Antichrist!! And i am being very serious about it. I am not joking. And I know the reason of "The Final Solution". This is a very serious subject. And don't think that I am Menatlly Disturbed, wich I'm not. There are certain knowledges that are very Danger. Greetings.
@stamax950110 ай бұрын
Please discuss collective narcissism in politics & cults and how the malignant targets and manipulates the target/following.
@TammySmith-ms7gf5 ай бұрын
Sam has a video on this, called: Narcissistic, Psychopathic Politicians and Leaders. It explains the dynamics of their cult followers. Their mob mentality, etc.
@cecillekinnear458510 ай бұрын
We can see this process in our politics and social history in South Africa. This is a fantastic, elegant well crafted lecture. I feel it's up with your best Sam.
@stephanieterreblanche947010 ай бұрын
Fellow South African here. Yes, I was thinking exactly the same thing.
@brianadams318910 ай бұрын
"...the inevitable lubricant of the inexorable march forward of the species..." While your humor, the topics, and your unique perspective on myriad subjects are enough to keep my interest in your videos piqued, it's your mastery of language and the enjoyment of utilizing it which really brings me back.
@Kirillbeback10 ай бұрын
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@loveoneanother8814 ай бұрын
Thank you, Sam! 😎🕺🌊💙 The lies, the hate, the racism, the whining, the threats, the regressive freedoms, and the scale of corruption not even thinly veiled is a daily assault we feel deeply, with foreboding repulsion.
@StellarHeron10 ай бұрын
Truth. I don’t understand why this connection isn’t obvious to people. Call out narcissism everywhere it shows up. Give it nowhere to hide.
@Layp10710 ай бұрын
Very, very enlightening. Thank you, dr Vaknin
@Muddysnoww10 күн бұрын
Everything about your aims sharing your wisdom lights my heart and brain on fire in the greatest ways.
@Gypsy.710 ай бұрын
You are truly one of a kind professor ❤
@baethamora10 ай бұрын
Thank you as ever for continually expanding and sharing your body of work. You reaffirm my commitment to living in truth even though it isn’t popular. It has made my inner circle small but satisfying.
@ben34358 ай бұрын
So interesting. Thank you.
@hasenmail10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I've been waiting for this. Already at very young age I felt obsessed with the socio political aspects of the so called "3rd Reich" and only now I understand that it explained to me all that I experienced in everyday life with my narcissistic care givers but couldn't comprehend or describe in my own words: Germany's nazi history almost seemed like an utterly dark fairytale to me ever since I was a child. This obsession only began to vanish that very moment I started to take profound interest in scientific approaches to narcisissm/psychopathy.
@nicolaspinedasalazar3 күн бұрын
Very intresting you're assessment on Peterson
@lbw983010 ай бұрын
Agreed. I still can’t believe you’re not scared though. Those are some very evil people.
@jesss1234510 ай бұрын
They ALL are. No good side.
@stamax950110 ай бұрын
Evil is in the eye of the beholder. Evil never sees itself as evil. It always projects that onto those who are different. The quickest way to changing the current paradigm is to do away with the need to label good/ bad, right/wrong with a shift of consciousness to seeing things simply as they exist. Truth is that which can be expressed without words it just is. Reality is the subjective labeling through the filters and biases of the mind and are unique to each. The need to label divides leading to black and white thinking, a hallmark of narcissism, and ensures a competitive dialog. Viewing things simply for what they are, their benefits, their drawbacks, the desired outcomes allows for creative more effective responses. Viewing things simply for what they are encourages empathy, compassion, cooperation. Those high vibrational aspects of Love. Love the energy that propels and binds the Universe. Change your thinking change your inner world. Change your inner world and be a component of the elevation of humankind.
@arshadmusafer372910 ай бұрын
respect your integrity sir!
@donnahersey981310 ай бұрын
As a citizen of the USA, I want to thank you for speaking out on this cancer that is spreading in my country.
@lilshaggy440410 ай бұрын
Damn right, it’s a shame so many people fell into his trap.
@cn467510 ай бұрын
Why have things gotten so much worse since Trump left office then? More crime, gas prices doubled, inflation, lawfare, two wars, border crisis, overt antiwhite racism, forgoing meritocracy opting instead for mandatory D.E.I. hiring.
@jesss1234510 ай бұрын
I am voting Republican. Biden is the cancer.
@VictheChick9 ай бұрын
@@cn4675 Each President inherits the product of the previous Presidency. Trump inherited (and ultimately squandered) a decent economy from Obama; Biden's done surprisingly well with the economy Trump tanked while in office. But hey...you keep chasing that rainbow, kiddo, you'll catch up someday?
@KirillySpace10 ай бұрын
Thanks Sam. I really appreciate your lectures on politics through the lens of psychology. For mine, the psychology of certain individuals is the elephant in the room in organisations and especially political parties and the greater geopolitical landscape. In that, its socially unacceptable to call a spade a spade and call out ( potential ) leaders and heads of states for being malignant enablers (liberal centrists), narcissists and psychopaths. Or would be/wanna be fascists, let alone fascists. Obvs it's problematic to wontonly bandy about these descriptors as slurs in political areanas, hence why we dont do it. But unfortunately we suffer for this because we cant simply identify these actors for who and what they are 🙄 Sam, do you have any suggestions on how the body politic can call out fascists without such accusations degrading into a slinging match, whereby the word loses all meaning?
@samvaknin10 ай бұрын
No. Euphemisms and freedom don’t go together.
@stamax950110 ай бұрын
Who says it isn’t acceptable? Calling out one’s actions and behaviors is most certainly acceptable. Far more acceptable than lying about your opponent. These people haven’t come to power out of nowhere. The people give them the power that they have. Our politicians, as with all of our relationships, is a reflection of the inner world of the participants. What we see is the result of apathy, a lack of demanding accountability, the mindset that “nothing I do will make a difference. “ In other words, giving away one’s power, the power of the people. Enter the narcissist. Just like all abusers grooming their target, they identify with the plight of the target. They sell the ideas that “no one understands you like I do. I’ll take care of and protect you. They just want to harm you and to destroy me because I’m taking care of you.” They undermine your beliefs in everything that provides a sense of security telling you all that you have believed in were lies. You ask, who are the players? They are all in plain sight. Conspiracy in the light of day. Trump isn’t the underlying problem, he is a symptom of the narcissistic paradigm attempting to reorder the world. Do you know who Leonard Leo is? Good place to start. www.propublica.org/article/we-dont-talk-about-leonard-leo-supreme-court-supermajority Follow the money. Trump was merely a tool employed for his ability to rally a key demographic mobilized through fear. Like with Hitler, they believed he could be contained while their agenda was put forward. The end justifies the means. Change comes from the bottom up either through violent Revolution or a shifting ethos. An ethos shift is the shifting of the social compact from fear to Love. From competition to cooperation. Those are the lasting changes. There will always be challenges to those changes by those who have lost their perceived societal standing, power, and control. A shift in ethos is accomplished one person at a time. It’s achieved through thoughtful dialog with one another where it becomes apparent that we are way more alike in our thinking than not. That all humans have value. Yes all! Without the likes of the narcissists in our politics, we would not be aware of the disease within the body. What is the antidote? Open honest, kind, loving communication. Not needing to be right, but listening to understand all the perspectives. No need to agree or disagree when the goal is to find common ground. No need to agree to disagree either. Understanding that what you think you know or what you have invested in transforming thought into belief, may not be accurate. Finding real solutions requires a full broad range of perspective and thought. In my humble opinion, if you want to change the flow of this tide, address the symptoms of the disease first by being the change you want to see. And second have conscious, connected, dialog with all you come in contact with.
@jurgalt20053 ай бұрын
Please do a video on Kamala Harris incoherent , preschool level speeches and word salads. A lot of psychologists already did analysing videos of her , it would be great to hear your take on this and what kind of followers would like her to be the next president while she was voted one of the most unpopular and incompetent vice president ever .
@argunvural361310 ай бұрын
great
@sarahhall217010 ай бұрын
@Prof.Sam Vaknin have you seen Javier Milei in Argentina? After he was elected, my partner had to watch Hilter's speech as he said to see the parallels.
@samvaknin10 ай бұрын
Yes. Another example of this breed of malignant narcissists. Bolsonaro, as well.
@078theo10 ай бұрын
Proffessor Vaknin No Offense Just curious. From what point do you oppose narcissistic leaders in general(despite being a narcissist yourself(no offense)? From the point that a narcissistic leader causes too much inequalities and chaos in society so even from a no empathy perspective it is bad to have a narc leader and we need a less antagonistic worldwide system? But you personally are not bad economically plus with no empathy you dont care much about capitalist alienation and the more antagonism and loss of human relationships that is been caused due to alienation. But you fear that you will lose freedom of speech if the world would be filled with narc leaders? Just curious from what point of view you oppose capitalism as a narcissist and a person with no empathy(again no offense).
@mozhganrafiee637310 ай бұрын
Thank you Professor❤. How we can be assistive in contact with narcissist?