the truth about living alone

Hello & Welcome Back to my Channel!
heeeey so these are the thoughts and feelings I've been having of late, how about you, how are you guys doing
my younger brother has alerted me to the fact that I actually do not live alone, I happen to live with two others, Sebastien the cactus, and Forrest the monkey, the avid vlog watcher will know
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[@OpheliaVert]

ALSO IM SO HAPPY YOU FEEL LIKE I ALWAYS GET IT. I TRY TO. YOU CAN ALWAYS TALK TO ME, NO MATTER WHAT TIME OF DAY/NIGHT (the caps made it too intense)

[@sarcastic_fish]

CAPS LOCKS DON'T MAKE IT TOO INTENSE DW, AND YOU DO YOU RLLY DO

[@SuperStrangSshadow]

I'm 34, living alone and doesn't have any friends. It can get sad and bored and at the same time I like being alone cause I'm not exactly a people person. Some wouldn't take it so well but if you are used to be alone and don't mind it, it will turn fine.

[@sarcastic_fish]

yeah I get you, it's such a thing that you can only figure out on an individual basis

[@machatte3522]

SuperStrange Shadow agree with you

[@gaarcemail]

Get creative, splurge on it. A few areas to consider, home theme and design, exercise, cooking, arts and craft.

[@SheCitrine]

@@gaarcemail always works

[@Sophie.L.H]

I loved living away from home when I was at uni but you do get homesick every now and then

[@sarcastic_fish]

feeling homesick is actually such a fair point

[@emilyhill3595]

I felt the exact same way you did in first year. Monitoring your feelings and being self-aware is so important. I just found your channel! Love how you love films and you are so articulate!

[@johanneshampe7088]

I just had a appartment for two months in Munich. Before I always lived with my parents. It's such a great thing having an own place, but I had like one week when I was bored and started feeling lonely... just like every human being would :D Now im back at my parents place and searching for someone to share an apartment. PS: You are talking a lot, but I'm getting better in listening (: thank you!

[@JulEnglefaris]

I wish I would have lived alone. I went from a bad home life to living with a guy. And I LOVE being alone. I end up doing absolutely ALL the housework plus a job. I'm constantly cleaning and taking care of someone and it does suck.

[@saskiapotts]

Know this vid was posted a while ago, but genuinely this is the most relatable video I’ve seen. I have lived on my own for my last year at uni in London also, and it has been miserable. I can’t agree more with everything you’ve said! You’re not alone! xxx

[@aurorajohansen6449]

Goddamn, this video speaks to me!! Thanks! Nobody talks about this sort of stuff. ❤️

[@LisaCaseyComedy]

Humans are a social species. It is totally normal to not feel capable of living alone. Some people can but it is not a requirement. If you isolate any social animal they will decline mentally & physically ! I’m living alone now too and the only time I feel excited is when I consider moving back into my grandmothers house!! Loneliness is a killer !

[@marthaviktoria9362]

You just expressed exactly what I feel like. Especially the difference between alone and lonely. It's so relatable. Really enjoyed this video!

[@puneetpal6539]

You are inspiration to many who are doing soul searching and waiting for right person rather be with anyone just coz they are lonely ! Kudos :) :*

[@OpheliaVert]

aw friend! it was so lovely to see you all, well, you after yesterday. great video. Love you pal

[@sarcastic_fish]

luv u too friend

[@baref1959]

being alone and being lonely are two way different things. take care and dont stress about it. your eyes are very expressive. this vid shows you still hurt but are happy at times also. find the dark and make it light. but dont sacrifice yourself.

[@kmonc93]

I'm a live in nanny, and to a certain degree I live on my own. My room is within the house but once my day ends at 6.30 I'm in my room on my own. I found it really hard at first but the longer I've lived "alone" I've learnt to really like it, I think I'd feel different if my living accomodation was seperate from the family home. It's been nice to learn how to take care of things myself, like changing light bulbs and actually cleaning my bathroom, I've also had to learn how to check my tyre pressure these were all thing my dad did for me until I left home.

[@gettin-ziggy-with-it]

I totally get this, and it may be seasonal depression. at the same time I get those same feelings and spats of depression. I hope it gets better hun ❤️❤️❤️

[@makaihardgrow8237]

I like this video I live alone too and I suffer from anxiety and just the fact of me being by myself as a human being messes with my mind and there's more to go along with it but you know

[@hannahbrown572]

I feel like uni completely takes over your life with studies and it’s really hard to socialise if you want to do well. Living alone is hard, you’ve really got to make the best of enjoying being alone, go on an adventure, learn new things, changing your mind set is hard but it makes things a little better :)

[@akalillyt]

AH. I don't think I realized how much I related to this until you said it.

[@Naticonjo]

I understand you so much!

[@lerzooslercoos6974]

I wanna spend time on my own being alone but not all the time

[@LuizHenrique730]

This was posted on my 16th birthday. Nice video!

[@sarcastic_fish]

happy birthday for last week!

[@hurstshiftin9873]

I agree with the living alone its great at times. But i find actually doing life is pointless without a great partner. I find it pointless. Love ya.

[@DanThePhilosopher]

I lived and live with Dad, He doesn't clean, but, cooks, does Yard work, but, other then Him, I been cleaning alone, living alone, it's sucks, like even though I have Pet's, no girl friends. But, I am looking, trying. I just wish there were another woman or man that lived here, and, cleaned up, watched the House, sit outside. My Mom separated with my Dad, and My 2 Sister are moved out, they would never clean the House, and I mean never, just shower makeup loud music and Guys/friends, oh and my mom is an off and on Alcoholic, likes big blacks guys, but, can't act like a Mom to Her only Son. On top of that my health has gone bad, been bad, as in getting flares of Ulcerative Colitis/Arthritis.

[@rbrowne2998]

You are not alone in living alone. We are all on our own. Love many Trust few Always paddle your own canoe

[@machatte3522]

You are so wonderful and beautiful...it is good to monitor your feelings i agree with you...and living along is more productive for self development...i love your articulation and pronounciations..😀

[@luisheredia8243]

I agree with you it's better to be alone

[@bakabaka2061]

Yeah , I live alone too. However I'm out in the country and right by the water. Deer come on my lawn to feed. Just all sorts of wildlife to entertain your self.

[@mahendrahardyal4480]

For me liveing good and bad is like you have no one to depent on but yourself sometimes your are happy and sometime it get so depress espically on holiday

[@juliancorporan3897]

I'm living with my mom and grandmother only until February, when I move alone to NYC and probably gonna pass true the living alone thing that you were passing at that time. But right now I'm passing true the hole friends thing that you are explaining, I have a group of close friends of 5 people and every time I make an effort to see them and invite them to my house or someplace else they or say no or say yes and never come, what always make me feel more alone and needy. I only get to see them when they are the ones that make the plans and that's almost never. Wht do you think about my story, did you get to fix your friendship or do you think I should just forget about them and get new friends?

[@gaarcemail]

The first thing that comes to mind, when I started watching this video, is, how can a very beautiful young lady ever find them self alone, but I guess it's when at home, living alone. If you want to be happier, you are going to have to compromise, but only to a certain extant, just be a bit more tolerant, at least for a little longer than freaking out immediately, lol.

[@anna-qe6mj]

If you don't mind me asking, how come your family have a place in London and a family home? I am super jealous! Or is the London flat yours?

[@sarcastic_fish]

anna my parents use the flat for work! and they had room for me so I set up shop haha

[@trixietang9982]

I have been out of my parents house for 5 years but always lived with boyfriends. I want to try living alone

[@franciscomullers]

THAT ACCENT

[@sasukeuchihasbuttplug1041]

NEVER STOP MAKING VIDEOS OMG

[@sarcastic_fish]

YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH COMMENTS LIKE THIS MAKE MY DAY LIKE OMG THANK YOUUUUUUUU

[@TheWomblemaster]

i know other folk who went to boarding school, who are ocd....

[@tonyamore6877]

I think you should SWEAR more Emma. Someone told me not to Swear, but I can't fucking help it !

[@magikarp2285]

You are too young, you'll get used to live alone. Socialise with people in your situation. Be busy

[@paulclayton1086]

Your so sweet Emma and beautiful xx

[@mariaraya7074]

yay self care!! love love love this video and bringing honest awareness to mental health ps: hope sebastien and forrest are doing well:) pps: pink. coordinating. skills.

[@sarcastic_fish]

aw thank you i'm seriously so glad you appreciate that xx ps: sebastien is growing v well (even if a bit wonky) and forrest is always v cuddly pps: idk man IT JUST HAPPENS LIKE IT'S NOT EVEN SUPPOSED TO

[@Courtney-Jai]

I never lived at uni don't think I would of liked it I live my gf in a flat that's nice you have company all though I get told of every day for being messy must be a guy thing, London's nice though plenty to do there

[@koa803]

I wish i am ur freind sis so we will talk about how to deal with loneliness i can understand that we LOVE being Alone bUUuuu...t ufeel u want company buut...u enjoy ur loneliness and own space and u hate distruction buut u want it somtimes . Solution :live with a freind or in a little nighbourhood and make freind

[@anesti3699]

#Relatable

[@ashleyng7466]

Perhaps plants?

[@TheWomblemaster]

come join our communein somerset.......full of messy gits :P

[@jakocskajanos]

I feel lonely.

[@GinaJMlbrn]

You need Jesus sweetheart.

[@babyotter233]

What does that have to do with getting lonely? I'm a Christian and even I get lonely sometimes?? That has nothing to do with it. Move on.

[@babyotter233]

Also she has a cross necklace on and I doubt a non-better would just wear a cross for accessory

[@babyotter233]

Yes, because telling someone they need Jesus is not the same thing as being a light in someone's life. Sayong someone "needs Jesus" is full of judgement, contempt, and distaste. It is not constructive, it is not helpful, and it is not a positive comment to make. Instead you support someone on their journey and remind them of God's love for them.

[@babyotter233]

Actually yes I have!

[@babyotter233]

Besides my primary point here was that Gina told her she needed jesus just because the youtuber said she got lonely when she was living alone. That happens. People get lonely. It doesn't mean they aren't a christian or that they don't have God or that they don't believe in Jesus Christ. It just means they got lonely.