Sasha Sloan - Older (Official Video)

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I used to shut my door
while my mother screamed in the kitchen
I’d turn the music up
get high and try not to listen
to every little fight
cause neither one was right
I swore I’d never be like them
but I was just a kid back then
the older I get the more that I see
my parents aren’t heroes they’re just like me
cause loving is hard it don’t always work you just try your best not to get hurt
I used to get mad but now I know sometimes it better to let someone go
I just hadn’t hit me yet the older I get
I used to wonder why
Why they could never be happy
I used to close my eyes
And pray for a whole ‘nother family
Where everything was fine
One that felt like mine
I swore I’d never be like them
But I was just a kid back then
The older I get the more that I see my parents aren’t heroes they’re just like me
And loving is hard it don’t always work you just try your best not to get hurt
I used to be mad but now I know
Sometimes it’s better to let someone go
It just hadn’t hit me yet
The older I get
The older I get the more that I see my parents aren’t heroes they’re just like me
And loving is hard it don’t always work you just try your best not to get hurt
I used to be mad but now I know
Sometimes it’s better to let someone go
It just hadn’t hit me yet
The older I get
#SashaSloan #Older #LoserEP

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

My favorite lyric is *“My parents aren’t heroes, they’re just like me”* because they’re just as confused as you are about how the world works; they just do a better job at hiding it.

[@aprilsliar_4571]

Girl of Many Vloggities 💕

[@rahamrafi4001]

💔💔💔💔💔💔

[@donnalyndecastro3002]

me too i like it too

[@soysauce_4533]

Some do a better job than others.

[@tieshaduhhh1016]

I'm adopted. ... My mom and dad separated and they put me in foster care...

[@therealbatman7204]

"I used to close my eyes and pray for a whole another family. Where everything was fine, one that felt like mine." Soo triggering. 😔

[@sushii2903]

Akshay Yadav i actually cried when i heard that, cause it’s so true😔🥺

[@therealbatman7204]

@@sushii2903 I hope you're feeling okay. You're worth it. Sending you good thoughts and lots of love, keep smiling.

[@sushii2903]

Akshay Yadav aw i’m ok but thank you❤️

[@dezzy3457]

i used to wish the same 😔

[@robloxandminecraft-gamingc3104]

Sushii me, too

[@hadi_177re]

My brother has passed away three days ago due to cancer at the age age 21 . We are children of divorce so you have no idea how much your songs mean to us . Older the acoustic version was the last song he listened to . He told me before he's gone that he can't get the acoustic version out of his head . Older is very special for me and for him . Thank you Sasha for touching his soul . You could understand us better than the people who surround us . Now when I listen to your songs I'm gonna remember not only our dark past . But also I'm gonna remember him . " I swore I'll never be like them But I was just a kid back then " Rip Hadi ❤

[@rosachisi5600]

Stay strong. Your brother will be always by your side ❤ God bless both.

[@cutepets5299]

He is in better place, rest in peace brother ♥️

[@sparklejumpropequeen05]

R.I.P I'm so sorry ❤

[@youryoutube1196]

R.I.P ❤️

[@adwitamishra8655]

Im so sorry 🥺❤❤ You have all my love

[@trufflefries1534]

“I used to wonder why, why they could never be happy. I used to close my eyes and pray for another family”. This is so relatable growing up, I did the same. I’m turning 22 and till this day I still wonder why I wasn’t born into a happier family.

[@animemagpie3893]

🥺😭

[@SanduniWarnakulasooriya]

don't worry once you achieve your dreams you'll be thankful for your family. Not because of what they have done to support us but because their fights make us who we are. The kind strong people who works hard.

[@cherylcarlson3315]

At 29 decided couldn't take one more day of pain, wouldn't raise my kids with that.

[@reirin_light2935]

@@SanduniWarnakulasooriya Their fights ruined me not "built me to be strong" they made me cry and not trust anyone. They are the reason i have anxiety and trust issues. Nothing about them fighting made me "strong"

[@Pinetree1232]

​@@reirin_light2935I'm sorry you feel that way if i could give you a hug i would i can really feel you

[@stephanienader7604]

My grandmother once told me that maturity doesn't come in the form of age or intellect, but accepting truth and finding the best way to handle it.

[@roronoa_kenshin]

Indeed. When a person once became matured, he will then understand how the whole world works and became a soldier in his own battle.

[@occulist6725]

Ur grand mother was great I think so

[@KarthikKewldood94]

Wise!

[@isratjahanina3938]

Amazing and rational words and also practical. TRULY IT'S REALLY NECESSARY TO LIVE IN THIS WORLD:|

[@janettari3529]

Love this lyrics words “Parents are not heroes they are just like me and perfectly said “Maturity doesn’t come with age but with acceptance.”

[@rosiieggos9580]

Not all families are happy. The kids don’t wanna talk about their family problems and in school they are happy because some have friends and they also have their classmates who secretly go through the same thing. Though school is boring, you can’t lie that that’s the place where you are happy with your classmates but some can’t relate.

[@laniluu3828]

rosiieggos this is so true

[@Kharisaxx]

True because I am a child and its what I do

[@michelle-jt7yb]

So truw

[@fatemanazim4428]

True....I accidentally unfriended my only friend who moved to a diff school, by only friend. I mean she is like me. I have other friends.

[@missfaiha9963]

this is so true.

[@natty7224]

I've only discovered this song now. I feel like I find myself perfectly in it. My parents kept arguing, they were going to divorce but eventually my mother left us and moved in with someone else, leaving us only with my dad who is mostly away at work. It's super hard for me, I have to take care of absolutely everything. I cry and I consider them guilty for my suffering, but I don't even know what to believe anymore. I miss my old family and I'm even worse off when I think it's not going to be the same.

[@alexandra-tm9rd]

We all send you love and support 💕 Just discuss with them and tell them how you feel, it's the only way to find a solution... But don't forget that sooner or later the happiness will find you again!!! I promise!!!

[@natty7224]

@@alexandra-tm9rd, thanks! I hope it's the way you say. 💞

[@arunas5609]

Its okay everything will be okay

[@culturedman01]

No matter how does the night is, the sunwill rise again..... so be strong now my friend

[@ur_l0cal_sanr1o_fan]

I feel the same. My parents split up when I was 3. Now that I live with my dad, my mom never answers my phone calls. I hate that I have to live without a emotionally available mother.

[@mehleenfarooq]

I used to close my eyes and pray for a whole another family. This song still gives my goosebumps whenever I hear it.

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

The real reason singers became world wide pop stars and his solo career blow up was because of the freemasonry hand signs he show`d again and again. The 2 popular hand signs M J used often were 666 and devil horns. In most cases the singer shows at least 4 hand signs and these are: 666 devil horns one eye tongue showing aka mocking. The talent may be there, but the hand signs must be there. Thats how a soul becomes a “rich and famous” singer or actor.

[@Kuraiuwu]

She made the video with her best moments and the song with her sad memories 🖤

[@aidanabarbosyn5973]

She did feel insight then We don't know what she felt than she was these years

[@dominicmijele8174]

Luv the small baby cute but emotional memories

[@stillchill5968]

Did Is so cute :(

[@kiyarrablackbear1462]

Oh ok

[@pandaxxgamming2761]

Misfit child which I called a masterpiece

[@rose-if6vq]

She's the voice of the kids that can't talk to anyone about their family problems

[@DCTRZNTE]

True.

[@camilleahaja9060]

Yeah

[@bacilizaescamilla1190]

I am still through that

[@faizan6581]

...hm

[@idek9276]

....

[@Nur-lp9so]

My dad is cheating on my mom, my mom is in depression and they never get along but are still married and everyday is a torture so I relate to this song a little too much

[@moongirl146]

Awful 😔😔😔😔

[@moongirl146]

Hugs ❤️

[@sharonm-a2450]

@enigma amen.

[@sharonm-a2450]

Hang in there love, THIS TOO WILL PASS.

[@cosmincealicu8424]

Hugs

[@mylifestyle483]

2023… and I’m still here. I can’t get enough of this song. Thank you so much for speaking out for me through your voice, Sasha

[@farhanmuftihilmy3331]

Me too, this song always reminds me of my childhood memories, dream, and regret

[@canti5917]

I wish I had videos of myself when I was much smaller...

[@Nopedynopenope72736]

Same

[@lillianmorgan6520]

Same

[@CaspiRose99]

Can’t relate

[@makenziesimmons6319]

Same

[@lilmeowmeow667]

I can count the amount of childhood videos I have on 1 hand

[@chaeyoungie345]

*"And loving is hard. It don't always work. You just try your best not to get hurt. I used to be mad but now I know, sometimes it's better to let someone go".* _These lines hit me hard💔_

[@lillyanna8742]

It is true tho, loving is hard for me because nobody likes me.

[@AQRose-hs8og]

IKR

[@kazutfx]

Park Chae Young same!

[@wisdomgonmei2973]

Me too

[@harmonyhill7420]

It played at the same exact time i saw this comment im not lying

[@arjunknz53]

"The older i get...the more that I see...my parents aren't heros...they are just like me..." This lines hit me very hard...🥺

[@Angel_x_darkshadow]

I found this song just today! When My dad cheated on my mom, I was 12 when I knew that he was doing it. He used yell at mom when he found another girl half his age and to me as well but it wasn't much. They've been fighting since I remember. I hated him, his guts. I remember how I had to cry silently because my parents and sister needed me as the strong person since they couldn't understand each other. It was as if I had a responsibility. Mom cried most of the days, she tried to harm herself too. I thought that it was her silly mentality at that time and stopped her. I showed I care but don't at the same time since they've told me to not care then again , care. I am close to Jesus and my lord. I didn't have a bestie. My belief and prayers were the only relief. Now I am 13 and maybe he still does that, I forgave him. But I wouldn't forget it as a human. But for me, it's better to forgive someone who has hurt you. But never forget it but forgive. For me of course. This song just described half of my daily routine those days other day other than being included in their fights there. For all those like me or have their own story, I have been there and still do and I know how that feels to be alone...... If you are. Be strong and remember you still have yourself! May the graceful God bless you!!!💚💚💚💜💜💚❤️💚 About me, now when I listen to this masterpiece, I understand people, my parents and myself better. I looooove this one for sure!

[@marinamaribelgonzalescalde6110]

No se pero espero que estes bien yo tambien pase por ll mismo

[@heatherhall3820]

Me to

[@thaomyang4133]

Can't understand why lil pump is more famous than this

[@Mal-gy1ic]

Same

[@---th3xl]

vitconthoi h I’m surprised if you can understand anything if you can’t understand why Lil Pump is more famous than this person.

[@yungkami3155]

Nowadays it's all about the beat

[@banyansean]

Lil pump got talent

[@agb8206]

BlueSean this is more talented than his shit.

[@yuckyducky1701]

"I used to shut my door, while my mother screamed in the kitchen. I'd turn the music up, get high and try not to listen." Hit hard :/

[@bratdancemomsfan127]

way too deep

[@VanessaOliveira-jv9yf]

Estrangeiros não tomam banho todos os dias? Como assim? (Ironia)

[@div.isha_]

Actually the whole song, each and every lyric is so true. Like damn, how can it be so relatable?! 🥀

[@skylerrainnnj]

Yup...... I turned to opiates when my parents started hating each other as a teenager. Took MANY years to wake up and realize being numb doesn't make it NOT happen. As humans we have to process and deal w emotions. Not pretend they didn't happen or numb them. As a kid you don't REALIZE how MUCH your parents did for you until getting a lot older. Only then do we appreciate what they sacrificed for US. ❤

[@athenathegoddess1060]

I used to believe that it wasn’t normal to have parents that fight and swear at me and fight right in front of me, but as I grew I realized I wasn’t the only one dealing with that and it doesn’t make it less painful but it helps to know that you aren’t the only one.

[@mowyattlowdon617]

My understanding is it's not supposed to be normal, yet way too many families are like this. Mine used to be, roughly when I was about Sasha's age in most of the videos my parents divorced, and they seem to be a lot happier now with their new partners than they ever were together.

[@Pragyadwivedi169]

That's so true...just to know that other families are also like the once we have....😢

[@riyapednekar5186]

This is truly precious gift to every child who is trying to overcome family problems and trying to be satisfied with what it has.

[@helloyoutube1238]

*my parents aren’t hero’s, there just like me* damn that was deep..

[@mellifluous695]

They're*

[@carbocation100]

They are like you, but... They took on the challenge: they took on the struggle; they provided as best they could for you. Ofc this is providing they had you as their priority. Otherwise, its a tough life.

[@9klss_]

@@mellifluous695 everyone makes faults

[@Traquaa]

I agree-

[@rozzaaa4250]

im your 1k like

[@analuizavasconcelos7573]

this is the reality of many

[@sweetyakter9500]

it's really sad

[@blizzarduwu5510]

@@sweetyakter9500 ya.. i had to live with my cousins for a week while my parents were away and all my aunt and uncle did was yell at each other while my cousins and i locked ourselves in a room.. i was scared and i never went back.

[@shemonetwaroo462]

True!!!

[@karencombs7808]

BlackBeary UwU I have it the same but it’s my parents and sometimes me and my sister and I feel like the only one there to love

[@gordonrowland9825]

So true aye

[@YasminHale]

My parents split up a few months back, got back together and then told my sisters and I they were for sure getting divorced. It’s been hard and this song is just so fucking relatable.

[@ngnzlm]

"My parents aren't heroes.. they are just like me" hits me different. Thank you Sasha

[@audreyraiin128]

Guys just admit it, the whole song hit us hard..

[@autumnrose7904]

Not me

[@autumnrose7904]

@•storm • yep

[@autumnrose7904]

@•storm • what do u mean oof?

[@juliezayas290]

Yeah it did

[@sheylinlopez3125]

it hits me hard

[@fluffystuffie6042]

I hate hearing stories of people explaining they’re happy family stories, with me having to hold back my tears. But I have to be happy for them.

[@akaandre3562]

i get ya

[@erinjordan6458]

The smallest things like “I went skating with my family” makes me happy for them but feel so much more worse because we can’t even do small stuff like that

[@fluffystuffie6042]

Erin Jordan exactly...

[@vanessafernandez2547]

Exactly I always hold back my tears cuz you never know if it’s worth it

[@staying7108]

I get what you mean. I have had these. People talking around me how "perfect" their family is and i am struggling to even say a word to my family.

[@valiantvirix5787]

It's sad to think how happy and energetic we were when we were new to this world. Then, this reality hit us hard, and some of us changed for the worst

[@animemagpie3893]

24*7 I think only about this.

[@sirenthegamer9951]

That’s why they say never take a child’s innocence away. It can ruin their entire life 🥺

[@RAC00NFANGIRL]

@@sirenthegamer9951I had grow up fast sadly… I have some good memories as kid but all terrible.. I jealous thou got live life without neglect or emotional abuse..

[@Cxsserella]

them fighting led me to having suicidal thoughts

[@hazel0911]

Sometimes our parents think all we need is just money, so they work so hard. Little they know, we just need their time, time to talk, time to spend together, time to know each other better. Their time is all we need, their time is our happiness..

[@spartapros2120]

When people tell me “you’re just a kid, you wouldn’t understand.” Now, I know why. But I found out that they knew just as much as me about how the world works.

[@justforyou4150]

I've known you since "This Town".And have fallen in love with your voice since then. You deserve more recognition!!!

[@manusjiedowen-ck12a18]

Sometimes fame isnt everything, like imagine dragons they used to make good music especially on night visions album but they just make basically shit songs rn

[@leilacorporal9967]

@@manusjiedowen-ck12a18 lol i imagined dragons before i finished reading so i had to go back

[@hoaitran5910]

Same here, have admired her voice since first listening to This town

[@nunita141]

Same 😭

[@LauraSarahsMusicFilter]

Wow I didn`t remember I herad her bevor but I love This Town!

[@Sunshine-nu9yz]

Sasha sloan deserves Grammy she is better than those clowns who are winning

[@beckydavidson8018]

Thank you for this song..it was healing to me. I've struggled with forgiving my parents. Now, since I have children of my own I see the things I definitely won't do.. but also how much I can relate to the struggles of be a parent. We are all just doing our best and hopefully the children will grow up knowing that ❤️

[@Allahisadicksuckingmosquito]

Unfortunately... She was born in a family where her parents got divorced when she was just 3..they again married for the second time when she was 10and got divorced once again when she got 17... Actually she is pouring her pain out through this song. 😓😓😓

[@3tinq]

Wow. Both 7 years apart.

[@robotichoneybee]

My parents got divorced when I was 9.

[@Allahisadicksuckingmosquito]

@@robotichoneybee Oo love to you my lovely friend. May almighty bless you with all the happiness and joy in your life. Ameen ❤️

[@Allahisadicksuckingmosquito]

@ツ •• Cait love to you my lovely friend.. I don't know how hard it is.. But may almighty bless you with all the happiness and joy in your life. Ameen ❤️. I don't understand why people can't manage to live together. It damages their children's core forever. 😒

[@robotichoneybee]

@@Allahisadicksuckingmosquito Thank you ^w^

[@kokune5831]

“I swore I’d never be like them, it I was just a kid back then” and I used to close my eyes and wish for another family💧” it hits to hard

[@mkhg6880]

Meme I love truue

[@chippossa7747]

True...

[@mrsud7750]

Yep.. It does.

[@dunkinhehehheheheheh2122]

True

[@yntcd_]

same...

[@keiichi8743]

gosh it makes me cry even though I didn't have any childhood drama I can't imagine how hard this song hits someone with unhappy childhood

[@hypatiaishere]

im 18 and i truly feel this song. the world hits diffrent when u get older when u are a kid its easy to say "yeah when i grow up i will be a perfect person"

[@rileykay4178]

Is anybody going to talk about how she is really pretty when she was little and how her smile is like happiness on a person :)

[@alyssaakisahdatusacar5614]

Awwww!

[@alyssaakisahdatusacar5614]

Thats sweet

[@thedemonunderyourbed3143]

Aweeeee ur so kind to say that about her!

[@jx_lxxn]

Lol

[@dreamsa9478]

现在依然很漂亮❤️

[@kingsoonkit9234]

We tend to forget to acknowledge that our parents are mere humans. They make a lot of errors. They fail to make good examples for you. They teach you the do's and don'ts. They are not perfect nor heroes. But they are the reason you are reading this right now. As im writing this while listening to the song i've shed tears, wetting my pillow. I'm so fucking greatful to be alive. I accept that they are awful at times. But love always comes with a price. I'm grateful that I'm 17 and still breathing. I'm grateful that i didn't kill myself years back. And you should too. Hearts to all people in the comments

[@hopepaschall35]

I really needed to hear that today. Thank you.

[@aaaaryeahh9595]

I m 17 and happy :')

[@craigyap7400]

Why do I relate to this comment than the song. Lol. I'm also 17.

[@rosemary62803]

I am 10 but I sometimes want to kill myself but when I read this I felt something so thank you🙂❤️

[@margiemendina7597]

UHH I DIDNT UNDERSTAND ANYTHING,SORRY OK? I'M JUST 9 YEAR OLD I DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT MANY WORDS CALM DOWN!😭😭😭 Meh

[@Steven_GUARD_Jesus_Chris]

I wish I had lived my childhood like this girl.😢

[@SCHOOL12_56_.]

i don't understand why people don't like such an amazing song.

[@LaMissGloria]

I cry every time I hear this song. It’s so beautiful “The older I get, the more that I see. My parents aren’t hero’s, they’re just like me” This hit me so hard

[@AmanSingh-mc1zv]

Every-time i get into argument with my parents see myself fight with them n then see them fight I sit back hear this song reflect n cry

[@chippossa7747]

Yeah me too...

[@bunbun2122]

Omg I feel so bad cuz she had a good/bad child hood 😞❤

[@kadduhusseinkasule1100]

Yea its sad

[@raylists]

Me i cried too.. and everytime listen i cry thinking about my dad long distance can't go outside..

[@skallin1145]

*_I wish all the people who are going through a bad time, and you feel identified with this song, find the happiness and peace that you need and deserve. really. I hope all your problems are solved soon ._* 🖤✨

[@actuallylollypop7469]

Thank you. I needed that. Also, if your profile picture is Billie (I think it is) then your music taste is almost as good as your heart😂💙

[@skallin1145]

@gacha XL 🖤☁️

[@sxperbia]

Thnx a lot

[@mait.8578]

Thank you

[@person.165]

Thank chu

[@justindinh8976]

This song relates to me, i recently went let someone go and it hurts. My family isnt close, my friends are fake. its all a fake but this song gives me hope for more people like sasha, continue singing, if its the only thing that keeps you happy keep doing it. because if you dont then who knows what will happen. remember to hang on and dont lose faith, if you love something continue it. push on and prevail.

[@kimayAnn_1001]

It bought me to tears every time I listen to this song. 😥

[@lia1ru]

I literally cry every time I hear this song, it just hits so hard

[@cookinwitnev2012]

Frfr Sasha get u in yo feels

[@txmppvp9781]

same

[@pastelbunnie9283]

Same :

[@supriyavazuvazu2006]

Same💞

[@yelenatarasevich4178]

Me too

[@omaimabahou7937]

This actually made me cry because it reminded me so much of my childhood.

[@ozzietv3044]

Awww same

[@dilyaram436]

Omaima Bahou same

[@samiharahman1700]

Been here since runaway

[@iwoosun]

same ...... I was like why am I crying sm.........

[@misttique5467]

Same.l😭

[@Redruxing]

Sasha Sloan is just the perfect example of one of the greatest lyricists of our time.

[@user-ki3ur2xo2o]

I am from Russia, how nice it is to look at such videos, it feels warm and cozy. I am grateful to the author. Thank you.

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

My parents are literally arguing as I'm listening to this wow

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

@gacha XL Aww! Tysm! You too

[@simplysimpy17]

Wish you the best

[@lanieast6160]

Poor thing... I feel bad for you

[@andweew_8551]

Good for you, they haven't broke up yet, not like mine

[@aGamerNamedGarryAlt]

Miranda Dove my dad is in heaven because of my mom💔

[@amyswims846]

mood? Sad. life? Bad. friends? Fake. hotel? Trivago.

[@stoiccutie7615]

mood.

[@redleather9222]

❤❤❤

[@isabellamaria5446]

KKKKKKKKKKKKKJKKK

[@rlaiwi]

@@isabellamaria5446 não é Br não kkk

[@rlaiwi]

@@isabellamaria5446 esse meme é famoso lá na gringa kk

[@divyatamang288]

Coming from a broken family, i have always struggled to express my emotions to anyone. This songs helps me heal everytime i feel like i am hitting rock bottom.

[@nerovilio]

I remember listening to this song years ago not being able to relate to the lyrics. I never thought I would feel sympathy for my parents but now that I’m older and wiser, I get it

[@sam-eg2un]

I can remember a time my parents got into an argument when I was around 7 so my sister picked me up and I slept at her place that night. I got a call from my dad, he was at a hotel. He said everything was fine and that he loves me. I was confused and had no idea what had happened. My parents are still together but I know they aren't happy. It's also rough because they weren't like that before I was born. When my siblings were younger, they still loved each other, they would kiss each other goodmorning and goodbye. Now they don't acknowledge each others presence. Growing up with parents who don't love each other isn't fun, I feel like I will end up just like them. But they love me and I have both of them in my life. I'm lucky they love me as much as they do. I just wish they would love each other too.

[@shardhanaah9783]

sam this is really hard but there will be lots of people loving you and be positive ♥️♥️♥️🙂😘

[@karinelizabeth1505]

That joy feeling you felt that your not the only one 💔✨😭💜🎧

[@aidenlivingwithautismcarde2117]

I love you

[@PC6845]

Cheer up! I have the same problems...

[@laraa1189]

My parents aren't together anymore😟

[@mrrae1121]

....People who are ACTUALLY depressed...They're the ones who don't always just brag about them being sad for example. Some people just say: "OMG MY PARENTS TOOK MY PHONE Now I'm totally depressed" "Ugh I'm grounded I'm so depressed" It just pisses me off how fake they can make depression seem like. Now days if I tell anyone how sad am I they'll just say I'm looking for attention. Haha...If they knew anything about me. Thanks for 2 likes. It may be small but I'm still grateful.

[@madison_cookie2619]

I feel the same way😞

[@mrrae1121]

@@madison_cookie2619 Hope u feel better.

[@madison_cookie2619]

@@mrrae1121 thx u too❤️

[@rebeccasmith1978]

ikr is sad that people cant express their feelings anymore because they are scared of being judged and acused.

[@madison_cookie2619]

@@rebeccasmith1978 yeahh😞

[@shinryujin6128]

life's fun until you pass the age 12

[@reginaferoben9439]

Or past 10.... For some people

[@trinitythomas9379]

Ain't that the truth

[@hanhngocbubam]

I had parents who always fight for life, and teach me hard just like typical Asian ones do. Now I'm older, I realize how great they were thriving this life and raising me and my brother.

[@sammysquirrel855]

I have a bad relationship with my dad and the lyrics “I used to be mad, but now I know, sometimes it’s better to let someone go” hit hard for me

[@evawild6322]

Me too just with my mum

[@urjachawla4539]

I can relate. It's bad bad. I connect with this song so much.

[@sammysquirrel855]

urja chawla I feel ya💕 sending internet hugs

[@mikasht]

Relate much :'(

[@sammysquirrel855]

Judea Mikaella Acas it sucks ik, but you are strong and will get through it. *Virtual Hugs*

[@bron1477]

_“I_ _used_ _to_ _be_ _mad,_ _but_ _now_ _I_ _know._ _Sometimes_ _it_ _better_ _to_ _let_ _someone_ _go.”_ Every part of the lyrics was so life relatable. Those lyrics will really hit us and we couldn't escape it co'z it's true.

[@miraculer7384]

Many people are very happy, and very wealthy too. Some people don’t have that. Some of us have had family problems, friendship problems, relationship problems, heart breaks and more.

[@invadermar8]

That sad😢

[@xx_swaggysofia_xx5572]

Yeah, it hits hard cause my grandpa is in the hospital he’s in a coma he’s coming back home in October I love him! I used to jump on his back and we we would always laugh and play with eachother he’s my best friend I could ever ask for! I’m 9 now and I used to be 7 ... my grandma does a zoom with him cause we can’t see him cause of lock down and when she says his name I get so happy and think he’s home I start crying and saying “no way he’s home” and my mom says “no he’s not home sorry...” an I keep crying ...

[@miraculer7384]

Sofia Isabel Villa you have a good taste of music for someone who’s 9, and I’m so sorry for your grandpa.

[@72bpm]

Anyone mind checking out my music? One minute would mean the world to me :) I make and do everything EVERYTHING completely by myself. I’m 15 year old, and all the music is created originally by me from scratch. You will be very surprised. It takes so much hard work and it’s hard to get noticed even if it’s good quality. You won’t regret it. I do not have a ton of money, and this is all I can do to show my hard work.

[@TajimaHaneen]

My parents never divorce they lived happily till my dad died, my mom cried like there no tomorrow. She fell to depression while battling to raise her 4 young children. But at that time i don't understand why my mom crying in her room but when she come out she look ready to take over the world. The older i get i finally understand her struggle. Thanks mama without you im nothing.

[@esharaaut2054]

My parents separated a long time ago staying in the same home, but they never got divorced cause they wanted me to grow up ‘in a normal family environment’ and understand things about life before they parted. I’m grateful for everything they have done for me, but sometimes I wonder, the home would have been more peaceful if they divorced and lived in peace with themselves.

[@yourmom-ni6ls]

"We're just suicidal people telling other suicidal people that it's not the answer" - Unknown

[@iamworldwidehandsomeyoukno7888]

@Candlle Stardust it is ok angel, it is ok to cry, it is ok to be sad. The thing is that we should not let this sadness capture our life. I know the things I am saying are easy to say but hard to work on in real life. Can we start being happy even 0.0001 percent a day , so that it can lead to 100 percent one day ? You are a Princess , these tears do not look good on you . I LOBE YOU

[@iamworldwidehandsomeyoukno7888]

@Candlle Stardust no please don't thank me I'm happy that I could help you even smile a little . I'm happy if you're happy ♡ You are an ARMY I see 👀 Me too 👀👀

[@iamworldwidehandsomeyoukno7888]

@Candlle Stardust love ya 💜😚

[@jennyshmit6172]

why is that truee

[@qilzey7081]

my life in one sentence

[@ceaeia]

The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets, The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears, And the kindest hearts have felt the most pain

[@adesanyaemmanuel3954]

Hum! Loving is hard😭💞

[@minaalashraf4476]

It’s so true.

[@heavensouvenir]

And I still dont have pretty eyes

[@minaalashraf4476]

@@heavensouvenir Yes you do ÙwÚ

[@heavensouvenir]

@@minaalashraf4476 awe ty :D

[@diariefly]

I used to shut my door while my mother screamed in the kitchen I'd turn the music up, get high and try not to listen To every little fight, 'cause neither one was right I swore I'd never be like them But I was just a kid back then The older I get the more that I see My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me And loving is hard, it don't always work You just try your best not to get hurt I used to be mad but now I know Sometimes it's better to let someone go It just hadn't hit me yet The older I get I used to wonder why, why they could never be happy I used to close my eyes and pray for a whole 'nother family Where everything was fine, one that felt like mine I swore I'd never be like them But I was just a kid back then The older I get the more that I see My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me And loving is hard, it don't always work You just try your best not to get hurt I used to be mad but now I know Sometimes it's better to let someone go It just hadn't hit me yet The older I get The older I get the more that I see My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me And loving is hard, it don't always work You just try your best not to get hurt I used to be mad but now I know Sometimes it's better to let someone go It just hadn't hit me yet The older I get

[@maheswari4796]

Growing up..honestly i was jealous of children who had their father for every events ..loving them hugging them...supporting them... n still i am...wish no one had to go through wht i've to..

[@piyushrtdas3219]

This song conveys that no one is perfect...

[@debug2517]

Wrong

[@mytimedied8231]

yes

[@azharemad5144]

True

[@xxsiaxxyt5666]

Exactly

[@milkadutta]

But it conveys her expressive cuteness tho🥺🥺🥺

[@tasbeehshehata2935]

I don't have any parent's problems but still, every time I hear this song I start crying hard she is just....not only she but everyone deserves a family that loves him and filled with peace.... I really can't believe in this young age she was praying for another family she is really...... I don't know I feel sad for her as if it was me who passed through all of this ......she is really a hero if I was in her place I assume that I won't make it until now.

[@Someone-tf1tk]

I don’t think she is going through this it’s just the music video

[@Godwin00007]

My parents got separated when I was just a kid, I promise myself that I will never get into a relationship that won't last and I don't want children from different woman, I just want my kids from one woman and live my life, because I see hell being raise by another woman called stepmother... 2:40

[@BaritonesNAcoustics]

The *family where parents fight* ignoring their kid and the kid’s mental peace end up fucking their child’s life till the end. Fucked up priorities, afraid of love commitments, reluctant to be in a healthy relationship (because all they have seen is toxicity), cocooning themselves in their own world, etc., are some of the issues that take a lifetime to settle. There is so much that can be resolved just with *RIGHT PARENTING* !!

[@ayamgeprekmozarella3578]

*"BUT I WAS JUST A KID BACK THEN"* :") I FEEL THAT..

[@kaylinzheng2461]

prettyxx daisly I’m still a kid :(

[@rhs2wrld662]

OMG I fell to I am teen now the song is my childhood

[@shurondarasmus3354]

Same :'3

[@poshpa738]

Magdalena Fuentes no that didn’t happen that’s a different person when you’re new you get a new brain not the same brain how do you think people are gonna believe you?

[@poshpa738]

Midnight gacha嘎查 no that doesn’t actually happen it’s just on the internet for kids to believe in it because kids are foolish and they believe in whatever the internet says and btw if you look at his profile he’s not a girl he’s a boy check people out before you believe in it

[@valessa4006]

No tengo palabras para describir lo que esta cancion me transmite

[@jasonosai7176]

This song consistently draws tears from my seventy-four years old heart. The lyrics and delivery are disarming hence the tears. Great song.

[@sandramclaughlin3943]

❤

[@dsog2899]

little girl: what’s on your arm? me: they’re battle scars. little girl: you fought in a war? me: yeah. a long and hard one. little girl: that’s so cool! can i get one? me: no. please do not ever get any. but i’ll tell you what. whenever you see someone else with battle scars, i want you to hug them. okay? can you promise me? little girl: yes. i promise. a few days later we went on a short shopping spree. suddenly the little girl let go of my hand and ran up to another random teenager teen: why are you hugging me? little girl: because.. (*points*) you have battle scars just like my babysitter. the teen looked up at me, and i rolled up my sleeves to show her. with tears in her eyes, she said one thing to me.. teen: my war is far from being finished right now, but i am not done fighting. she bends down at eye level with the little girl teen: thanks for giving me the strength to keep . you are forever my war hero. ⚠️ this is not my story, but i saw it somewhere else and decided to share it too because i want you to do the same to anyone with “battle scars” ⚠️

[@Portlandporkpies]

Damn that hit hard

[@emyyvmz]

This deserve more likes

[@The-Celestial]

@@moskovabyss3638 try being kind to someone. It really helps!

[@diandradphotos6432]

@@The-Celestial thank you

[@ninshimrikaping6639]

@@moskovabyss3638 what's the point?

[@lamiaelmokretar9734]

Peoples in 2017: Person1: i'm depressed Person2: it's gonna be ok ! People in 2020: Person1: i'm depressed Person2: me too

[@user-yb9vv1fg6r]

HAHA IKR

[@ritapttt9341]

Kkkkkkkkk the same☹️

[@muhammadwishly7450]

ikr ;)

[@darceygreenwood6442]

depression is a serious thing. you could atleast have a garden and people to play with

[@sailao5584]

Yup

[@peanut_butterr]

1:43 those eyes haven't changed even a little🥺

[@user-py6ys6ct8g]

2:30 I USE TO BE MAD BUT NOW I KNOW SOMETIMES IT'S BETTER TO LET SOMEONE GO🕊🌧(trust me u gonna get out a dark if u let go the things what's makes u sad)

[@flaws3340]

*That bitter feeling when you know that songs relates to you too much than it should...*

[@simplysimpy17]

True

[@annavilla5564]

If your family is actually going through this, just hope things will get better. :)

[@ghostly.t3a]

My parents HATE each other. They split up a year after we moved to a new state when I was 5. I didn’t understand then but now

[@scarheadella8281]

Yep I feel u.

[@wassuh859]

Right

[@String-mx2cp]

the 280 dislikes are probably aliens with no emotions.

[@neilguha1371]

There isn't any video that has say, 100k likes and 0 dislikes. Some do it on purpose ya know!

[@wisdomgonmei2973]

True

[@Schwaty158]

Excatly i dunno if i have spelled it right lol

[@harmonyhill7420]

392 now...yall peeps heartless!

[@kashishhashim6471]

Aquarius, you mean lol?

[@kookie5106]

Damn...she was such a cute kid ❤️. Almost like an cartoon ✨

[@daniaseditz3491]

I used to be mad, but now I know sometimes it's better to let someone go.. Best lyrics!!!

[@ibrahimbsmmu8449]

This song is so fucking relatable, damn I've turned 13 yesterday, and I'm just stunned at how true songs can be... I hope you keep inspiring us just like this, Sasha.

[@mohdharunrashid4688]

Give some credit to the lyricist

[@y.simp4ya243]

I’m 12 and this is true..I see so many things now that I didn’t see when I was younger

[@rbnsn1237]

So young you guys are,, just a tip for your life.... Alwa trust your instincts, that little voice when it tells you to not do something Trust it And focus on building yourself You'll be so much happy, you'll find love... Always be a good human, always remember it

[@jellyjam751]

I turned 12 yesterday my parents is fighting I'm holding back my tears last night

[@atekoupo]

@@jellyjam751 You still have a lot to learn, teen. The older you will understand that it is impossible to not argue in a family. And also, always remember, it’s never your fault when they argue. Don’t worry.

[@claireyt7318]

*"the older i get the morethan i see"* Yes yes YES.

[@MariaDocarmo-iy8fw]

The

[@vlissii8833]

That

[@WreathStorm]

*"The older I get the more that I see "*

[@oolbgoolb7542]

not true for me because the older i get the worse my eyesight gets :(

[@ktchii99]

@@oolbgoolb7542 LMAO

[@davidlalsangzela2354]

Not exactly a girlfriend boyfriend relationship song. But the chorus dig deep. Sometimes the love of your life aren't the one you live your life with. Sometimes, the best thing you could do to the person you love most is letting them go. Because no matter how hard you try, it won't be enough. And the only way you could make him/her happy is letting him/her meet somebody new. Not because you don't love him/her; but because you couldn't take the regret of keeping her knowing somebody could make him/her happier.

[@taneikawhite7961]

I love how captivating and honest this song is. Yes there is the happy memories but there's also the ones that aren't shown, aren't on video for the world to see, that stays in the back of the cupboard and locked. Not shown but I also love the honestly. The line 'my parents aren't hero's, they're just like me' I love that. I am almost twenty now and I relate to this song and can say even as an adult now, the world is still just as confusing if not more so than when I was a child...but I also see all the traveling and think 'well...at least if I have kids I can do this and I'm glad I left Australia.' (Trying to travel from there...it's expensive.) To everyone that is fighting a battle, you're doing great, don't give up.

[@imathrash]

“And loving is hard , it don’t always work.” “Sometimes it’s better to let someone go.” It hits me hard...

[@user-fd5sd6pi2k]

I’m a Thrash yea…

[@danisaputra5798]

Some kids are just lucky to be born into a wealthy family to capture beautiful moments but others didn’t have anyone to do that Edit: Thank you guys for all the stories, advice and anything. I feel you. I know what I’m saying, because I was born from a non wealthy family, until one time when I was in 6th grade my Dad finally had his business great. We went from a tiny rent house, living together with my Dad’s daughter, live in the warehouse where my Dad work for his Boss, until we have our own House and everything starting to be alright. But one thing I know for sure from poor people (not everyone of them) is their mindset and behavior. They’re not ready and didn’t have a plan for the future, so when something hits hard, they’re broke. That’s what happened in my family, when my Dad was having a great business, he cheated on my Mom. But then he came back, so my Mom who’s already broken hearted decided to divorced. Luckily my Mom’s parents (my grandparents) her family and even my Dad’s family were on my Mother’s side. So when our parents divorced they have us, they love us, and they care about us. Throughout the times, my Mother already forgive my Father but she said that she won’t back to him ever. Me and my 2 other siblings respect that. And now I’m in a college, trying to fix anything and build my own dinasty. Having a good education to form a great family. Trying to get us from this bad time. One thing I know for sure. *Money doesn’t always bring happiness, but with money happiness can be reach easier*

[@last_autumn_leaf]

well it necessarily doesn't have to mean that wealth brings happiness. wealth always don't bring you happiness. the perfection of parents is the important thing...sometimes happiness can be there even if you are not wealthy..if you can eat, go to school, live under a roof and have a nice cooperative parents. Isn't that enough to be happy?

[@danisaputra5798]

Anonymous Playlist I never mentioned that only wealths brings you happiness. I’m just saying that not all moments in our life can be filmed or shot. So when we’re adults, we can’t watch it as a nostalgia. (Sorry for my poor English)

[@last_autumn_leaf]

@@danisaputra5798 true though :) sorry if I misunderstood and it's ok my english also kinda sucks!

[@ellesellers491]

... I was born In a wealthy family... And sometimes is mostly gave me pain.. If ur rich... Sometimes u mostly get hurt, cause u don't know who are ur real friends.. And sometimes, I relate to this, so don't think that rich people get it all,... U might not know the scars and bruises lay under neath

[@ellesellers491]

... And I might not feel all of what she says but I still have a right, to know.... How it feels so please remember nobody has enough wealth or happiness to create ur life.... As a mystery... World

[@davejohnson8338]

Listening to this song as an adult: nostalgic, therapeutic, reaffirming. Listening to this song as a kid: stop being a little bitch, your life’s not that bad.

[@LiEliK]

4 years ago, when this was released I kept singing this song .. I was 9 :( and me and my sister would always sing this when our parents kept fighting while I tried to protect my sister so I locked us in a room. My sister was 7 that time. This hits hard lol. My life was like some k drama.

[@user-vm4qm4ud7e]

This song is so relatable 😔 The “My parents aren’t hero’s, they’re just like me” hit me because my mom blames me for being stupid like my dad but I’m also half of her so she don’t understand me 😕 then “try my best not to get hurt” I became into a more Mature kid now but sometimes I wanna be a kid but so my mom makes me cry and I understand what’s she’s going through because if my Dad just listens then everything.. will be Happy.

[@annaholt3755]

im praying for you

[@fifiyhan4757]

❤️

[@tiredblob9175]

AWWW SWEET ILL PRAY FOR U AND UR MOM also I love u and I’m sorry this is happing I hope u and her get together again and have ur family back my mom makes me cry sometimes and I wonder what she’s going through

[@user-vm4qm4ud7e]

April Alvear thank you 😁 I will pray for u too! ❤️

[@UeslaBilbili]

We on the same paige girl but then we happy again and yea the same thing you said but se is doing it for our good

[@backup3761]

here I am 27th of May year 2020, yet I'm still crying with this song..

[@randomblob8996]

To all those going through dark times, know it will get better, hang on to that little thread of hope, I know it'll be hard. You will make it through this 🧡 it's been so long since I last listened to this it's making me emotional 😭

[@arob3409]

This is why i ALWAYS watch cartoons because i wanna be apart of them where nothing bad happens but im lying to myself 💔😭😠

Do not listen to this when you're away from your family :( I'm crying :(

[@1anx463]

OK thx for the tip 😁😀😅

[@dominiquetavanotrezzasapia8731]

NTH THN sobbing lol

[@jaydelovely7380]

I'm crying so hard. Lol

[@faithhays8328]

Aww I feel that

[@fatimahbb2412]

and when u dont live with your family too huh

[@raquelvarguez5049]

my mom and i had a talk in the car and this song was playing and i explained the lyrics and i started to cry bc when you get older you really do realize that the things that happened in our childhoods thats just how life goes it hurts to know we cant go back but we can move foward . my mom and step-dad always fought and when i was younger i wished that someday he would change but now i realize wishes dont come true but as a kid from a dysfunctional family i can say that lie gets better bc noting lasts forever whether its good or bad everything eventually comes to an end. dont give up because although life is hard your not alone keep pushing and trust me it will be worth it. your life has a meaning and your past and your families mistakes do not define you.♥︎

[@mareligonzalez643]

I was litting to this song about to take my life when somthing tolead me to read a comment i chose youres thank you, you just saved my life

[@raquelvarguez5049]

@@mareligonzalez643 im in tears thank you because although i do not know you i know that everyones life is valuable you have so much ahead of you and although i dont know what your going through i know with my whole heart that you will make it through dont give up keep going you got this 💗

[@khalidaldossary5501]

You just make me cry

[@cristiroscher160]

Stay strong you can do this keep living

[@sheronkhandekar1877]

Thanks..

[@simplygacha7080]

I remember watching my friend get shoved on the floor by her father I stood up to him and he hit me- and then suddenly I felt how it’s feels to my best friend how she gets treated everyday but she keeps fighting and she stays strong I pray for her every day🙏

[@siwidakiwi4825]

I feel like those teenage years aren't hormones or being ungrateful, they're realizing how bad your parents really were. (Except for the occasional parenting) When you grow older, you're forced to believe that it was just hormones.

[@SalanaWolfie]

It hurts to see kids so young and lying to themselves that they're alright, because they think it's normal. I was that kind of kid.

[@pearlsss111]

Same🤧

[@amni1980]

same :/

[@melaniethr505]

I was too

[@Someone-tf1tk]

Same. I joined secondary school, my friends went to other schools, my life flipped, I had no friends. I discovered I’m not the semi extrovert I used to be, now I’m just the lonely girl at the back of the class

[@kindwind7485]

Same

[@ika-cc5vo]

teacher: spell underrated Me: S-A-S-H-A S-L-O-A-N

[@saaramohamed8921]

This is an underrated comment

[@heavensouvenir]

@Bianca nwn Stfu

[@_alyssaxx-3166]

:) i love the postitive comments! I barely see any hate!

[@arob3409]

:my Teacher Spell Underatted :Me A-M-P-H-I-B-I-A! :)

[@nishka9605]

@@ika-cc5vo excuse me you just stole my name 😔

[@antarikshaghosh5872]

Spotify recommend this song to me . I was not at all disappointed instead I was so happy to hear such a beautiful song that is so deep and pure. ❤️❤️

[@badivne2.091]

" when you're happy you enjoy the melody but, when you're broken you understand the lyrics " Who's here for the lyrics ? 💔😭

[@muhammadharidt8851]

Everyone : SENORITA Me : Older - shasaa🥰 Perfect song 🙋‍♂️