Bride Regrets Buying Her Puffy Wedding Dress | Say Yes To The Dress

[@haleytruslow7200]

Ladies if your fiance says that you’ve “ruined the wedding” by choosing a certain dress, rest assured, you have not chosen the wrong dress. You have chosen the wrong man.

[@margaretfogarty2204]

I just hope she ensures she has a good divorce lawyer on speed dial because she's going to need one eventually.

[@naturalPaths]

When her fiancé said she’s basically ruining the wedding, I thought she picked the Right dress. How else would she know the wrong pick was the man

[@Kara-kx1lb]

@@naturalPaths AMEN TO THAT!!! Very well said!!!

[@FarmerC.J.]

I, second that truth!

[@pwallace5359]

He sounds really silly. I wouldn’t want a man that was so concerned about the dress.

[@emily.letsendbslintheuk554]

As much as I'm all for the man having a opinion about the wedding and how it looks, he doesn't have a right to tell her she's ruining the wedding cos of the dress she picked, she doesn't need to walk away from him, she needs to run and run fast

[@Kara-kx1lb]

@@emily.letsendbslintheuk554out of all of these say yes to the dress shows I've seen. And a lot of their entourages can be pretty mean. I've NEVER heard ANYONE say. The bride would ruin the wedding, because of the dress she picked out. That is just plain observed

[@Kara-kx1lb]

When she said, her fiance said she's basically ruining the wedding. Because of what dress she picked out.. How dare he. Sure the dress is very important to mostly the bride. What he said, was wrong!!! .and she did look gorgeous in that dress.

[@hollydavis7555]

What he said was inductive of an abusive relationship.

[@scooterbaby1]

huge red flag

[@maureenmiller7669]

Ma'am, your fiance is gay and that is one ugly ass dress.

[@reneehubbard9027]

People be considerate and respectful of people's time & jobs.

[@jkhegarty857]

Some of Pnina Tornai's dressing are absolutely gorgeous!! And some of them are very "costumie".

[@kgrant3184]

SUPER-*EXPENSIVE* "costumie".

[@barnesCh430]

Yes. I don't particularly like the sheer corset stuff she does. It looks more like something for the honeymoon.

[@cathh3301]

“Costumie” is a very polite way of saying tacky and I agree 😂

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I only saw 1-2 dresses of hers that look decent and they are so expensive! I once saw one that was decent but was $20,000!

[@mycb1993]

You

[@jemma-joon]

Lol ruining the wedding because she chose a wedding dress he didn't approve of? Someone is for the bins 👋👋

[@annehersey9895]

EXACTLY what I thought! No honey, you chose the right dress BUT the wrong man! What an ass to tell her she ruined the wedding-It’s HER wedding and dress! Sure would like to see an update and see if they are still married.

[@meowsha]

Absolutely, same. ​@@annehersey9895

[@lieyana7311]

I cant imagine marrying someone who says im ruining the wedding by the dress ive chosen.. run girl run! What are you waiting for!!

[@stubbornsalad]

Am I the only one over the see through dress?

[@HistorianMom]

I think they look tacky.

[@vadeliabelmonte17]

I think it looks like lingerie 😅

[@lydiapicano8806]

Yes, it's so tacky looking.

[@jujube8067]

Dreadful.

[@KathyAnderson-f2d]

Slutwear

[@sherkylady7765]

I don’t think the brides that are “just looking” or obviously taking far too much of the consultants time realize just how rude that is.

[@--_-_-_-74..]

Don't they charge $400 just to make an appointment ? So shop away at that cost

[@williegrant3054]

EXACTLY! Kleinfeld need to put SOMETHING IN PLACE! For Dress Ups. If after the Allotted time APPOINTMENT OVER!

[@sherkylady7765]

@@--_-_-_-74.. I’ve never heard that before.

[@leeceedee88]

They could advertise it differently - like a Dress Up Experience. No obligation to buy, 3 hours max, max 3 dresses max, shared consultant time, premium booking fee to include insurance, and maybe offer some discounts/incentives if they choose to come back and buy something.

[@lindabruns6020]

It’s $400 to book an appointment??? YIKES!

[@debbiebaker6692]

When the fiancé says you are ruining the wedding because of the dress she picked. Time to find another fiancé

[@intherockies]

Ugh, a girl (not calling her a woman because of the way she acted) spent 3 hours looking at herself because she thinks she deserves to be pampered. How tacky and extreme rude of her!! I don't see the other marriage lasting.

[@Adrienne926]

I would call her a woman because she is one. She's a badly behaved woman who still has growing up to do! Calling badly behaved Men or Women boys or girls as a way to not be associated with them isn't the way. Call out adults who have inappropriate behavior in a way that acknowledges their age. Because, if they've gotten to that age and are still behaving ''childlike'' nothing smacks them into reality faster than to call them out as the adult they are supposed to behave as. They immediately tune you out if you labele them as other than what they are i.e. a kid or a child... it's offensive to children who are well behaved. Adults need to be called out as adults. ''How odd, my toddler would act the same way'' or, ''Strange you felt comfortable saying that out loud" etc... Aside from that, yes! Who does she think she is to waste everyone's time like that? She could have made an appointment privately and let them know that she was browsing. It's obvious she only wanted attention.

[@valeriemcleod937]

Who is HE to say you're ruining the wedding, he's not even cute or goodlooking; she is VERY BEAUTIFUL, and HE should feel grateful you're even marrying him .... DUMP the ZERO and go find a HERO!

[@ladyjustice1474]

A lot of Pnina's dresses belong in a adult store, not a bridal salon.

[@9094nancyj]

Agreed! Your wedding isn't a strip show!

[@AFAskygoddess]

A bride wearing a Pnina wedding gown is like a groom waiting at the altar wearing his boxers or speedo swimsuit. They'd all look tacky!

[@PrinceKima_12]

Exactly!

[@kat2743-s7p]

Awful dresses imo

[@leahpope8672]

He sounds like a jerk. That's a sign. A big one. Run away as fast as you can!

[@dietotaku]

amen. if my fiance told me i was ruining the wedding for ANY reason, he would not be my fiance anymore.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@dietotakuI would be mad and ask him why. However, I would not dump him over that as the wedding and dress should not be the most important thing but the marriage.

[@JaisinaGaspar]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj For him though clearly 'the wedding and the dress' seemed more important 😄

[@kellyhubler8464]

The fun bonding experience for a couple of girls was a huge waste of the consultant’s time.

[@mlove.1376]

A bonding experience? Sounds like a lame excuse. Would you like to not make any money so that other people could bond at your job. There is customer service expectations and then there is being entitled and using people.

[@HumanimalChannel]

Thats what they meant they were being sarcastic ​@@mlove.1376

[@cupcake1406]

I think that it is rude and inconsiderate for the customers to waste the consultant time to play "dress up" without any intentions of buying a wedding a wedding dress. Especially since the consultant works off of commission.

[@ShermanCassidy]

As a salesperson yes. Please don’t waste our time.

[@RevLeigh55]

How is that second dress any less fru-fru than the first one? 🤔

[@brianne1547]

i know

[@virginiaboone9503]

Bridal consultants generally work on commission and I think most intelligent people are aware of this fact. Taking up so much of an employee’s time and not intending to make a purchase is very selfish of the bride-to-be.

[@pwallace5359]

It sure is!

[@tinaguy3954]

I agree. Coming just to play dress up is rude!!

[@williegrant3054]

I AGREE! It’s Wrong and the OWNERS NEED to put something in Place

[@emjay5983]

It's a game for them but they take away the time where the consultant could have been helping someone else who really was interested in buying a dress.....Very rude in my humble opinion.

[@g-bgcg]

Kleinfelds should charge for the appointment to weed out fake brides. Then, if the woman buys the dress, that money could be deducted from the purchase of the dress. This would stop all of these ridiculous women from wasting the consultant’s time. Who does this to a person earring commission? Answer: a very self centered and selfish person.

[@marlaholmes6706]

I’ve said this as well. They need to do something to keep these brides in check. So many come to play dress up, leave with nothing and the consultant just had hours wasted!

[@constancerouge4811]

They do charge. $100 that goes against the price of the dress if you buy one. However, if you've never ever tried on wedding dresses, it makes sense to go to several shops, take your time to choose and yes, that means making a few appointments where you know perfectly you won't buy anything. The shops I went to in the UK told me to try on a lot of dresses on a first appointment, pre-select a bunch and come back for a later appointment to decide

[@rosallumetta2864]

SHE APPEARS TOO OLD TO HAVE SOME MAN DISRESPECT HER CHOICE OF WEDDING DRESS…AS SHE IS GOING TO RUIN THE WEDDING…HE JUST RUINED THE WEDDING AND MARRAGE.

[@katiecarpenter6814]

Loved the way she fixed that dress right up. 🎉❤

[@mariamartinusz9699]

That Lazaro ballgown of blush saten... 😊❤

[@deborahasher176]

Pnina's dresses always reminds me of cheap streetwalking clothes.

[@jten6632]

I think it’s ok to try when you’re not ready to buy - as long as you’re open to the possibility of finding your dress, just be upfront! When my daughter got married, she said she didn’t want a traditional dress - I had no problem with that! But I wanted her to try on one or two just in case - we had the added difficulty of living in different countries and only a couple of days to look. We went to a lovely salon, but they couldn’t have been less interested and that spoiled the experience for us which took traditional off the table! We ended up getting something exquisitely custom made in Scotland. Younger daughter is going to go traditional - but no way would we go back to that salon.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

Yes, they’re not arguing that brides shouldn’t try before buying. They just don’t like it when it’s very clear they the bride is just goofing around and trying on dresses for the fun of it with absolute no intention of buying a dress.

[@Jelena2022]

The girl who spent 3 yours looking at herself in the mirror is a serious red flag.

[@ElaineWood-f2t]

Kleinfelds has been on TV for a long time with "Say Yes to the Dress." They have become something of a tourist destination for brides. I went to a few stores before I decided to purchase my wedding dress. Buying a wedding dress is not like popping in the store and grabbing the first thing off the rack that fits. I wasn't sure what I wanted or what was available in my area, so I did a little shopping around. I didn't "play dress up" or stand in front of the mirror gazing at myself for three hours. Who does that?

[@EvaBoka-j6l]

someone should tell Carmen about her make up, or lipstick

[@samiestewart6109]

I know it’s hideous

[@user-of6um3so3m]

Agree

[@dabroncobabe]

How can she possibly think it looks good? Frankly, I wouldn’t want her as my consultant because I would question her taste.

[@bluebonnetbunny4813]

I think it’s because she learned to apply makeup with the dark lipliner, penciled eyebrow look in the 90’s. She hasn’t changed her look since then. She may not know how to use more modern techniques.

[@kathykirby1640]

I hate it when people waste your time it's like they have no respect for you

[@leratosikhosana8261]

"To make you look so great you'll never forget me"🤔🤔🤔

[@AmySpencer-z9e]

It’s not fair to play dress up, taking all of a consultants time. I believe they work on commission-you’re literally robbing them of their livelihood.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

The two brides at the end were horrible. Horrible bride #1 definitely had a dress all picked out and just wanted to play dress up. Horrible bride #2 is going to show up at some random bridal salon six days before her wedding to choose her dress all freaked out and stressed because she didn’t realize she had to pick her dress eight months in advance. Horrible, horrible girls.

[@bevturquoise4651]

He said WHAT!!!!!!!

[@SweetHomeGeorgia]

Be like as a consultant, my next appointment is starting in a few minutes and they are here. 90 minute tops. But that long in the same lazaro dress to make a decision?

[@evelynneufeld7610]

Thanks for posting this ❤

[@julesj5853]

I would regret buying a dress that looks like lingerie too!

[@PrinceKima_12]

I know! She's going on about it being too "pouffy" and all I can think is where is the rest of the top of the dress?! Awful.

[@kwest5171]

Um, aren't they a bridal shop? Aren't brides-to-be supposed to shop? Who says you have to buy a dress today?

[@thehungrygoldfish]

Of course, you can shop. My problem is more when you’re shopping and playing dress up and you’ve already chosen a dress or have a good idea of what dress you’re going to buy. It’s quite easy to spot because they don’t seem to be serious and they’re just playing around. I don’t know how to explain it. It’s the combination of being immature and not giving a damn about anyone else except yourself and both of the brides at the end fit that perfectly:

[@kwest5171]

@@thehungrygoldfish But the one girl that was there to just look with her mom was featured. She's getting married, needs a dress, but just wanted to look that day.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@kwest5171 That wasn’t the bride’s mom. lol That was her friend’s mom. She had absolutely no intention to buy a dress that day. She brought someone else’s mom and not hers lol wtf

[@emily.letsendbslintheuk554]

​@@thehungrygoldfishyet there's hundreds of brides who go into shops 'knowing what they want' yet hate that dress on themselves and end up picking a dress that's nothing like the one they knew they wanted. I had the perfect dress in my mind when I wanted to get married yet I looked so bad in that style dress so no matter how much I wanted that style I knew I would regret it if I did get that style and tbh going wedding dress shopping is all about 'playing dress up' till you find that one dress you love

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@emily.letsendbslintheuk554 No, I mean they have a specific dress already picked out. It does sound that both of these brides were early on in the search but their attitudes and lack of thoughtfulness are still bothering me. The second bride, especially. Other projects that are more important? Wait until It’s two weeks before her wedding and she has no dress and she finds out she has to order her dress eight months in advance, yikes lol

[@fluffymuffi1]

These women are annoying. Visits should require an appt. and if not have a very tight timeline- like half an hour to look around but an appt. to try things on.

[@williegrant3054]

They had an appointment but were NOT SERIOUS about purchasing. And the 2nd young with Sarah chose about 10 Dresses?

[@trueloveingod2691]

Some people have no regard for others. I would never go into a store like that and have sales people pulling heavy dresses for me to try on unless I intended to buy one

[@DS-ky9dl]

Strange episode.

[@briannastultz1468]

I hope she didn’t marry him. To say that her dress was “ruining the wedding” is appalling! Control freak

[@brianne1547]

i just knew what ever dress I picked out my husband would love & he did! Just past our 47th yr anniversary October 1st!

[@shelleynewchuk5141]

Of course they will let them pick another dress... because usually these dresses are 10 thousand dollars and up......especially when you sew 2 different dresses together..the way you want...

[@MsJubjubbird]

She will have paid a 60% deposit for the first one. So all up, once alterations and the customisation comes in, she's probably spending over 20k

[@hetheringtonfamily8798]

This is an absolutely beautiful video to watch ❤.

[@wolfesound]

Pnina: "You will look so great that you will never forget me." It's not about you, Pnina. Her dresses are hideous.

[@samsamsam4790]

What's with the awkward closeup on the interviews

[@graceboyce37]

this is one of the first episodes lol

[@williegrant3054]

NO! THERE IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN DO! Do NOT let ANYONE WASTE THE CONSULTANTS TIME! There NOT getting paid for Dress Ups👀

[@andreabradley5837]

That first dress is a crime scene.

[@fawn1785]

Tacky!

[@Nike2030]

I can’t imagine buying an expensive wedding dress worth thousands of dollars and then changing my mind and buying a second dress. It’s like buying a car and then buying a second one because you don’t like the first! Crazy 🤪

[@mariesmith1616]

It wasn’t a second dress. The store allowed her to change the first dress she ordered.

[@dawncampbell4872]

I ❤the dress that she just had on.

[@jenniferbobic8005]

Personally, I think brides need to get over this made for television idea that their wedding day should be perfect and all about them, regardless of the cost or how stressful it is for others. A wedding is, first and foremost, a time of commitment to someone else before God. It’s not a coronation of the bride!

[@thoughtsideas6929]

I wish they’d define what “playing dress up” is. They’ve used this phrase in diff episodes but don’t understand since there’s always a chance someone planning to buy won’t find what they want but someone dress shopping for first time May find THE DRESS.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

It’s really the attitude of the brides. They don’t seem serious. They’re goofing around. They care more about the experience of finding the dress rather than the dresses themselves. They relish every moment and want to be spoiled and pampered. They treat the consultant like their slaves and not actual human beings.

[@Gothqueen29]

I love this show

[@jennifernordhoff6478]

“Get her feet wet trying on dresses” disrespectful to the consultant

[@sandrak.robbins6305]

I think from the 1st brides comments about what her fiance said... I think that the marriage won't last. Sounds like she should rethink her husband pick more than the dress. The 3 hour lady is just a vain peacock and full of herself. She doesn't care if she is totally wasting the consultant's time. And the one with her 'bonding' friend, is just that, she is busy having a fun time with her friend. People need to take a good look at themselves on the inside, not just in the clothes that they wear.

[@mandyellis876]

Imagine your ‘dearly beloved’ telling you that you were ‘ruining the wedding’ with your choice of dress! Time to change fiancé!!

[@jemma-joon]

This store thinks everyone coming has to buy a dress. Sometimes girls want to see what the fashion is so they can start thinking of what they want. It's not disrespectful, it's pushy to think every bride comes should buy a dress or is "playing dress up". Get over yourselves.

[@sandrak.robbins6305]

I do not agree. They just want to help serious women find the perfect dress. They are fine if the bride is undecided, if it is genuine. I have seen multiple times where the consultant told the bride that maybe they need to sleep on it before making a decision. The ones that come in there with no intention of buying a dress but just want to play dress up are not being honest. If that is what they want to do, then be up front about it from the get go. The consultants will work with any honest customer. It's the dishonest ones that are being rude and disrespectful and full of themselves. The store is just trying to do their job in the best possible way.

[@williegrant3054]

You Clearly DID NOT SEE or HEAR WHAT WAS SAID!

[@camellia8625]

Whether or not you like it, there is such a thing as disingenuous individuals who waste consultants time with no intention to buy.

[@MsJubjubbird]

It is totally fine to shop around and see what is out there. But if you're just coming to stare at yourself in the mirror and prolong the experience of being the centre of attention by never picking a dress, then you're crossing the line

[@annsophie16]

I think the could charge a service fee. If you buy a dress it's counted to your purchase, otherwise it's lost. I do understand, that to be brides want to try on different dresses in different shops, but just going for fun, is different...

[@elizaharr]

As far as I know, Kleinfeld's does charge a service fee of several hundred, redeemable against a sale.

[@annsophie16]

@@elizaharr thsnjs, I didn't know that. In that case it shouldn't be a problem, if a bride is just trying on stuff and doesn't want to buy on the day.

[@mariesmith1616]

I think they weren’t charging the fee when these episodes were filmed.

[@janemacintyre9801]

Do people have to pay for an appointment??

[@karendrives970]

I hate people that waste the cunsultants time knowing darn well they won't make a purchase.

[@ronsiedavie2377]

It looks like my Mum washing dusters.

[@marilenesantos8151]

Vestido mais parece uma fantasia de carnaval

[@humeruslady1730]

I disagree with Pinina saying women don't know what they want all the time. What a stereotype! I know exactly what I would get and know it may take a year to find but I'm willing to put in the time. Every person is different.

[@marysparks3769]

She looked beautiful in the dress- she doubted it because of the fiancé.

[@susanpressley2781]

The first dress is BEAUTIFUL! That other dress looked like torn up toilet paper dress. All shabby and raggedy

[@brianne1547]

give her a parasail send her to New Orleans

[@jeaninekelly4271]

She will tell all her friends how nice they were and generate more business.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

Yeah no lol

[@jeaninekelly4271]

@@thehungrygoldfish how do you know?

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@jeaninekelly4271 If you’re talking about the two ladies at the end, they’re clearly there to play dress up.

[@kellyanni5092]

The entitlement of those selfish women wasting the consultants time and the nerve of them signing off for the world to see on Say Yes To The Dress is …. I DON’T HAVE WORDS

[@pwallace5359]

It’s funny how those dresses already look dated. I think this was filmed about ten years ago.

[@e.s.l.1083]

With some of these, one does wonder - if they are even engaged 💍 (ya know what i mean?)

[@hlondon2408]

I am lost in this scenario. Best wishes. 3:45

[@lauragallardo1593]

Ese vestido parece algo usaría una vedette en el teatro de revista. Los vestidos de pnina son de cabaretera

[@Mspetuniapea]

that is only the beginning... divorce court down the road

[@bootsie1212]

For the 2nd part of the show that shows the girls wasting the consultants time, what an insult. These consultants get paid on commission. You’re messing with their income. Stop acting so entitled.

[@colleenmonfross4283]

How inconsiderate of those women who just want to play dress up and have no real intention to buy a dress at the time of their appointment, that is the livelihood of the consultants and the store. Actually, not women at all, just little girls. We did that when we were six.

[@winterchild5841]

Kleinfeld's owner is a jerk toward his staff: inconsiderate jerk. You shouldn't prefer your customers to the point you sacrifice your staff like pigs - they are human too, you big dummy.

[@darlenehaines257]

A consultant's time is money. Don't go and waste their time.

[@kathy6239]

That dress was beautiful, but that boyfriend should mind is business . It’s the girls dress she should be able to wear what she want’s on her wedding.

[@lindagreebe139]

You cannot force a bride to buy a dress. If you have the right dress, she will decide for herself and buy it. It is the most important dress of her life, and she should take her time. If you don't have the right dress, of course she is going to leave without buying.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

Of course, but that’s not what they’re talking about when they talk about playing dress up. It’s more their attitude and behavior than anything. They’re goofing around. They’re not taking anything seriously. They’re treating the consultants like their personal slaves. They might even have a dress all picked out. Indecision and wanting to take time is fine. Goofing around and acting like a pampered spoiled brat isn’t.

[@valeriemcleod937]

What a LOSER, he should be ecstatic in ANY dress you wear to marry him.

[@marysheffield190]

So many rude people..who in the hell rajsed them?

[@Me-fo1kk]

Id like to see the brides in their dress acfew years later. Me..a suit..like my grandmother.

[@mariesmith1616]

Of course, the fiancé was such a red flag, that the marriage didn’t last long. This episode is from the first season of SYTD back from around 2009.

[@MJHocklyMeriah]

It's really not nice of people "using"consultants in this way....

[@dianegreger2720]

Yeah... not caring much for the entitled little girls wasting someones valuable time. Grow up... it's not all about you.

[@cldjason8a]

Second bride not sure why she would go to kleinfeld to get her feet wet.. I feel that will be where you go to buy it not o just look

[@dianehermann3342]

They don’t make a sale that’s not good for the consultant either playing dress up is fine but taking up all that time doing isn’t right my opinion

[@bootsie1212]

Girl, the problem is not your dress. It’s your future husband. Justify it anyway you want, but a men that is in love doesn’t give a rats ass what the bride is wearing as long as she’s happy. He sounds like he would be controlling and unless you need your life controlled you should reconsider this individual as a potential partner.

[@_K.L]

" we women never know what we want" ? wow. There's too many red flags in this video.

[@bhavsarvacha]

Her future husband should like her love her in all the dresses she wears if he really loves her he will marry her in even her night dress

[@GrandMa-hm5mb]

That dress is a mess. What a mess.

[@gardenplots283]

Bride #1 went from bad to really bad. She and her support people had horrible taste in wedding dresses. However many years it has been since her wedding I hope they are able to laugh at the pictures.

[@TheDoggmom]

All of these dresses are awful. Trust PT for that.

[@callananddahlia]

Whoever says the dress of the first bride is pretty 😑

[@dking1362]

Honestly, I don't think it is wrong to shop without an intention to buy THAT DAY. Choosing a wedding dress is a (hopefully) one-time experience, and the bride should enjoy it. Determining what shape, ,which designers, what features she may or may not like is part of that. Now, taking 3 hours of a consultant's time? No way; of course, that is disrespectful.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

Of course you can shop around but you still need to be respectful and considerate. These two brides weren’t.

[@aqhasassy]

Why are grooms in on the dress?? That’s the bride’s decision. Please leave the men out.

[@tonipope3164]

That second version is hideous.

[@vickiwaatti1076]

Sorry I like the bigger puffy dress. The ball gown type one.

[@AnniCarlsson]

Dump the dushbag keep the dress (well now you not need it) but really? I hope this poor lady didn't mary the abuser. He just started to show his controll he taking on her

[@AnnaPace-t5v]

Most of Pnina's dresses are mostly expensive trash!

[@janicejanostak2545]

My goodness Pinena looked different back then. (And prettier I think)

[@artisticrunway972]

jesus christ, I got married in jeans and a t-shirt. People who focus on things like a wedding dress THIS much are going to be miserable partners, yapping and whining about every little thing. I'm so glad I'm not dumb