Scared About Labour, Moving Back, and the New Year | Our Fertility Journey Episode 15

[@mandababoolal887]

It felt like it was just yesterday when you announced your pregnancy and now you're almost due! Im so excited 😭☺ thank you for sharing your journey with us

[@Taylor_R]

Yes it’s crazy how fast the time has gone by. I can’t believe I’ll be pushing him out soon!

[@sebam.s7514]

Ikrr 🥺🥺🥺 can't wait for us to meet the baby boy!!

[@Ferhernando]

Same i'm like omg it went by so fast!

[@margesimpsond]

cant believe it’s happened!

[@zeenatperween7396]

Please help me

[@vauxite]

The best advice I ever received from a midwife: "The best birth plan you can have is that you and baby are both as safe and healthy as possible." She had seen too many moms feel like a failure because they had epidurals or c-sections. I was so grateful for it because my labor and birth went completely off the rails!

[@itrickyalove]

100% I haven't had children yet and although when I do I'd prefer a vaginal birth, I just want my future babies here safely. There's no easier option, it's all hard. Same with breastfeeding vs bottle feeding. Fed is best.

[@leradoms]

My clinic called it birth preferences instead of a plan.

[@VerushcaW89]

💯

[@thandura]

100% agreed! Having such a mindset also helps while giving birth (and life/motherhood in general) + a lot of breathing 😂

[@panna833]

My mother a midwife, I am really proud of her because she works with such a care and she has the same motto :)

[@HAppytobeHer]

My sister had her first baby who’s head was 99% and she was near 10lbs! Don’t be afraid!!! So close to meeting our little tiger babe 😇

[@allyssametcalf671]

After being told I was infertile from a young age I also got pregnant this year and I’m due in July watching you always lifts my spirits and has given me such a positive mindset!! I love watching our separate journeys. My baby was a definite surprise but more than wanted 🥺❤️❤️

[@irenedavo3768]

Fantastic

[@haleighvest5353]

My baby was a little over 9lb and i got to the hospital to late to have any epidural or pain management but everything went fine. It only took about an hour from the time i got to the hospital for him to be out and in my arms😍. YOU GOT THIS!

[@rosecat5638]

It was so sweet that Tom was thinking about the lack of time you’ll have and trying to reorganize your guys’ routine.

[@EyeGlassTrainofMind]

Tom is just, absolutely fantastic. I appreciate a person who can utilize time to find bottlenecks in a daily routine that hasn't happened yet. Congrats to you both, Taylor! You've got this!

[@XSemperIdem5]

He's an organized planner; love it.

[@lisa_bendall]

Your smaller flower arrangement in your kitchen this year looks almost exactly like a decoration we have for Easter in Sweden! It's called Påskris and is basically new blossoming branches that we hang colourful feathers and miniature egg and chick decorations on. Hoping that the fresh flowers in your home brings you all the luck, happiness and prosperity they symbolise!

[@dancingpigmonkey]

I thought of that too! I brought some fresh leftover branches inside a couple years ago after cutting down a small birch, to make påskris. I put it it water, and after a while the leaves came out and it was so pretty! Normally I only use dry branches, wish I had more birches I could nip a few branches from! 😄

[@deboramobers]

Yeah we do the exact same in the Netherlands too ☺️ Noticed it too!

[@lamar9331]

My girl, you had so many disappointing moments of not getting pregnant. And look at you now!!!! I am so excited for you and Tom. Your going to be great parents. Certainly normal to be worried about delivery, but you know it'll go the way it's supposed too, and you'll do fine. Congratulations to you both.

[@Start.a.curvolution]

I really like that you're honest about your feelings. Some friends of mine who are pregnant at the moment have the same feelings about labour

[@saana7581]

I'm a midwife from Finland and i wanted to come and give you some words of encouragement :D As you said yourself, mother's body and baby's body adapt amazingly well in child birth even with a big baby. Of course the important thing is that mother's and baby's size match (and with a bigger baby especially we hope that they rotate the right way and are positioned right, which helps a lot). For example Asian women have very narrow hips, which means that usually they are not able to deliver bigger babies(4kg or more) vaginally. But you have very good chances to do so. I would consider well when it comes to induction, because statistically it increases the risk of complications and for example needing a c-section a lot. Of course your doctor is the one who makes the decisions by what they feel like is the safest. I just don't want you to feel like you want to be induced early because of the fear of a big baby. Good luck with the rest of the pregnancy and delivery when it's time!

[@Hiirikettu]

Induced labor can also be more painful.

[@yummysourcandyz]

I agree completely with what she just said. Inductions lead to a cascade of interventions. Let your body do what it was made to do naturally if possible.

[@mareenbartels7383]

Agree. My son was always in the 95 percentile, especially the head. And he did indeed have a huge head. I had a vaginal birth and was induced because I was going 2 weeks above due date. Please consider really well to get induced so early. Just because the baby is big doesn't mean it's further developed. I would have wished not to be induced, my son had trouble breathing and just wasn't ready yet.

[@jadekuha8120]

I too have heard only alarming things about induced births from my friends who had to opt to induced birth, like that it is super painful and long, one of my friend was induced and it took like 3days of suffering and then some hours of pushing the baby out and she still had to go to c-section because babys heart rate dropped dramatically. Just plain brutal experience which I don't wish to anyone... Have to add, kiitos sinulle työstäsi, synnytyssali on intensiivinen paikka työskennellä. Huomasin tämän molemmilla synnytyskerroillani, ja vaikka kätilöt ja lääkärit kaikki olivat selkeästi uupuneita, sain turvallista ja hyvää kohtelua aina kaikesta huolimatta. Kiitos teille hyvästä työstänne. ♥️

[@Sarahla91]

I was so nervous for labour too. As crazy as it sounds, your body just takes over and you know what to do! I didn’t have a birth plan, I just wanted baby and myself safe. ❤️ You’re going to do amazing and you’re so close to meeting your baby now!

[@mariahcarlotta5684]

Exactly all of this!! The thought of labor was terrified me but once you start the process your body and mind switch gears to the point all you think about is baby in your arms! You got this momma!

[@lester2162]

honestly my body just tried to survive because I thought I'm going to die 💀

[@monicaglovely3066]

@@lester2162 🤣 this was me as well lol with number two I got to the hospital demanding an epidural LOL

[@TheBluePudding]

If you read this Taylor, please know I wish you and your baby nothing but the best. Thank you for sharing your journey with us

[@argo12]

Seeing Tom being so involved (figuring out the breast pump contraption) and then using his beloved camping lantern for late-nursing sessions just put my "aww!" into overdrive. He's going to be such a great dad. I can only imagine how excited he is for a little boy to fill those mini running shoes he bought so long ago! Wishing you all the best, everything's going to be great!

[@rainesonne1320]

My daughter was conceived through IVF too! She was a big baby......10lbs, 22 inches long! I was in labor for 5 hrs and I had her naturally with no pain medication! It does hurt and it is kind of scary! But it’s only scary because you’ve never gone through it before! I think the unknown is the hardest part! You need to push efficiently and stay calm! You can do it and I’ve had worse pain!Its bearable and you forget about all that once you have your baby in your arms! You can do it......stay focused, put your chin into your chest when you push and you got this! Good Luck!!!🍀

[@lindakremser91]

My baby measured in the upper 90th percentile all through my pregnancy as well but slowed down at the end. There was much talk about inducing labor, but I refused and in the end he came one day before the due date and was "only" in the 75 percentile. Ultrasounds are seldom accurate and more like as close a guess as doctors can make. Listen to your gut and go with what feels right and safe for you.

[@c-hwilliams156]

It's so strange to me that they're giving such precise measurements, I dunno if it's because you're in HK or if its because technology has advanced since I had my baby (in the UK) 4 years ago, but I was told the whole time that she looked "big" and she totally wasn't. She was 7lb2oz at birth and we had to get tiny baby clothes for her! And I know I'm not the only one who has been told they're gonna have a big baby and then haven't, so hope this helps!

[@crissyc9831]

That's exactly what I was thinking... I had my son in 2020 and they basically told me they won't know the size until he's out... 🤷‍♀️ I specifically asked for his size, and the doctor and nurses said there was no way they could know. They also didn't give many ultrasound scans at all because they were concerned about the impacts to the baby so that might have played a part in it... Sounds like HK must have better technology... I did have an anatomy ultrasound at around 20 weeks I think, and they checked his measurements. They also measured my belly every appointment. I only had one ultrasound my entire pregnancy.

[@herminexd]

hey there, mother of a 17month old here and i am from Romania, i had these measurements as well during the entire pregnancy so i would say it's just technology but also how much attention your doctor is giving you. There are more and less involved doctors and that may be more important than the technology used :)

[@digiartly]

Didn't they do Anomaly scan and growth scan? I thought it was standard procedure.

[@c-hwilliams156]

@@digiartly I had a growth scan but can't remember being told specifics of her size/weight.. but they definitely predicted she'd be bigger than she was, and there was never a thought to induce me sooner because of it 🤷

[@crissyc9831]

@@c-hwilliams156 same here, I had a growth check during the anatomy scan which I want to say was around 20 weeks I think... I had my stomach measured every appointment though.

[@bellaloves2815]

Love when it’s a Taylor upload day, always bring a smile to my face and brightens up the mood of the day. Thank you for always being so honest and open about this journey, for as hard and emotional as it is, it is very worth it. And makes it easier to have these talks in a frank and truthful manner that helps all women no matter their journey with motherhood or just being a woman in general. Can’t wait for your son to come and for you and Tom to experience parenthood with him (besides puppy parenthood of course!) Love from Canada!

[@potatopatooti]

For any mothers that ever felt/feel shamed about not being able to breast feed (and any of those guilty of shaming!!) - my mum bottle fed both me and my brother for one very very good reason: Dad! Dad was not only able to take on half the feeding work (it was easier for him to get up at night), but he was also able to really bond with both his kids in those first few months with the cuddles and nurturing. For a grizzly old Scotsman, from a culture that doesn't express emotions that easily, it was really perspective changing for him and broke the generation cycle of "cold" fathers in his family. A lot of my friends who are Dads now have admitted they felt a bit disconnected from their babies, and weren't really able to bond until they were transitioning off milk. I think that's really sad... FED IS BEST. And letting Dad (or other mum!) bottle lets both parents bond right from the start 🥰

[@blieveinangels08]

Not a mom but I love this! Thank you for sharing 😊

[@kleonstar]

"You have a lot of strange things" Tom is simply the best.

[@sarahdenyer5423]

When you announced your pregnancy, I was heavily pregnant myself. Now I watched today’s video with my own little bubs babbling away in a high chair. What a year! 🥰 good luck with everything!

[@Germanwithniki]

This is so crazy and makes me so emotional, have been following you for over 6 years now, seeing how much you grown in these years and the fact that you now about to bring a baby boy to this world soon is amazing 😍 thanks for always being so open and real, the best influencer, have beeb thinking this always. Just how you talked about your cervix and it being tmi, thats what be love, you real and we can relate to you ❤️

[@Theerevert]

Every time I watch your vlogs I can’t help but think how cool it’s going to be for your children to grow up and actually see footage of their parents together “back in the day” their everyday life etc a lot of us 90s and earlier babies have stories or cool polaroids or 3 pixel videos and have to romanticize our parents lives before us but your children get to actually SEE it. 😭

[@_kuroppi]

It's so moving, it really feels like yesterday that you announced your pregnancy and now you're almost ready to meet your baby boy 🥺♥️♥️ I love your little feeding station cart, I'm sure it will be so so useful! Thank you for sharing your pregnancy with us Taylor, you will be the best parents ♥️♥️

[@hoemily919]

It’s amazing to see how you have done so many things during your pregnancy. Continuing your work, renovating the house and being active…I am now 34 weeks, so watching you getting closer to the due date really fills me with anticipation. It is not an easy journey to reach this point because I have two angels in heaven before this precious one stays with me. Wish you all the best and can’t wait to see your precious little one. P.s. Loved your feeding nursing cart.

[@jemma_mae_]

Ahh I was wondering when you were going to upload next! I love that you're so open about your feelings and thank you for sharing your journey with us!

[@naimaibanez9842]

I was 4,75 kg and my mom didn’t even need epidural (the birth was so fast that it wasn’t really an option). The human body is amazing

[@liliyurch2511]

That happened to my mom with me! No time for drugs 😂

[@overlyblynn]

Same, only I am the mom in this case. It was a tough, but also wonderful experience!

[@elliek5374]

Hope your labour goes as easy as mine went!! For me it was not as bad as I thought it would be! Can't wait to hear how it went for you and to see the little one!! ❤

[@Taylor_R]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@a24e]

I had a miscarriage in November, our babies were gonna be born a few weeks apart I think. I hope through all the hard parts of the labour you are able to stop and feel gratitude for this privilege of being able to being your baby into this world 💗 Its gonna suck but its gonna be awesome!

[@bubblesnblossom5233]

Yesss Tom with all that knowledge! The nose thing sounds so gross, but was more effective (I found) than using the aspirator and less worry about delicate noses too!

[@Taylor_R]

😧😧

[@natiszzz]

It's so interesting how you guys prepare yourselves and your home, makes me wonder how it'll be for me when the time comes. I'm really curious about how Rosie will react when she finally meets the baby. Love you guys♥

[@Chelsyclb]

Breastfeeding and pumping advice! As a mom who struggled both of my children and breastfeeding them! Make sure you have a lactation consultant. Just to make sure latch is good and everything is right and your baby is getting enough milk. Just pump as much as you can...literally take it to the hospital with you and pump when your baby is asleep at the hospital. Also Moringa powder is reccomended by my lactation consultant to boost milk supply. It's the only one that's been tested and have actual results. Apparently those milk teas can actually lower supply in some women and no one wants that headache. It's a healthy thing I bet you could even be taking it now but I would talk to your doctor before taking it before birth but I think it would be amazing to get it in your system days or a week before. I wish I pumped in the hospital but all the other advice I've done and it does work.

[@HolliePeters]

I gave birth to my second back in July last year and my partner gave me a big baby too, 98th percentile!she was 9.8lbs and ended up having to have a Caesarian she was stuck and would fit thought. But my first birth I had a pool and she came out naturally at 8.4lbs. Just remember that each birth is completely different and your little bundle of joy will be in your arms soon ❤️🥰

[@charliefox8450]

My baby was almost 7 pounds & 19 1/2 inches. Doug & I are both 5’5”. I also had to be induced as I’d had mild flu prior to labor so I was exhausted already. But it was fine. You’re doing all the right things…being active, eating healthy. My baby is now 34!

[@estherbjerga523]

Taylor, the pregnancy glow is for REAL. You look beautiful.

[@hanny9662]

I always feel excited as soo as I see one of these posted! I can’t wait to see your baby, and I also really appreciate how in all your videos you take the time to educate us about all the hong kong culture and little details, it’s so interesting. Thank you taylor for bringing us along and I hope this year and beyond is amazing ❤️

[@haley8924]

I was thinking about you yesterday Taylor and realized how close you are to delivery. Pretty soon will be the beginning of the rest of your life! I cant think of 2 people more perfect to be parents! Love to you and yours doll💗 P.S. Your B roll footage is always so beautiful!

[@feyonar]

I like how she is good with organizing and she is very informative too, I get stressed out just thinking about having kids, so I am glad she is making these videos. It’s good for new moms who needs bit of help with organizing ideas and preparing. 💗

[@TwoQueensTrueCrime]

Although I have finished having babies now your fertility and subsequent pregnancy journey have been so amazing to watch. And your mobile baby station is genius, I wish I had thought of that all those years ago! Ps. My son was also in the top percentile and weighed 10lb. It started as a water birth (like my daughter) but I had to get out and crouch on a little stool as he got a bit stuck 😬 apart from that it went smoothly. Listening to your midwife/doctor and being prepared to change your plans I think are the most important things with the bigger babies! More to cuddle ♥️

[@gayatoro2332]

Taylor, watching this video filled me with such an undescribable mixed feeling of excitement, anxiety, gratitude, sadness, but above all PRIDE. I can't explain why I'm such a mess...but I am very, very proud of you and also Tom! As a long time viewer, acknowledging all the heart-breaking moments (fertility and non-fertility related) you had to fight through...I just.... And how many new skills you have acquired ..cooking and your business ..😭...Taylor, you are a true inspiration and I genuinely wish you, Tom and your Tiger baby a truly wonderful, miraculous, blissful and healthy year!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@juliejones5651]

I had 2 babies in the 10 pound range. I pray that you can avoid induction. My first baby was induced at 38 weeks because she was large. That decision created complications for me and for her, although I feel certain that it was more convenient for the doctor...

[@aliza3463]

I’m from Beijing, and it’s so amazing to know that the rituals are so different between south and north even though the essence of the culture are shared. Actually you inspired me to take spring festival more seriously next year by reminding me of the beauty in Chinese culture. Thanks Taytay!

[@marikotrue3488]

I love that the combination of preparing for New Year's, the baby and the apartment is going so well. Everything is so fresh and new. Both of my babies were quite big, so use that infant clothing quickly! Love to you and your family in the Year of The Tiger. The vlogs have been great, and probably quite tiring to produce and edit even with an assistant, so Thank You!

[@alchobod]

I'm so excited for you to be a mom. Mom life is stressful but Aldo a blessing all in one. So happy for you

[@Rannikku]

Anyone else so excited to see Taylor as a mum holding her first baby? Omg

[@mpdaugherty8549]

You're glowing, Congratulations . You both will love being parents so much. Smiling and gushing over him.

[@its_emiko]

Can’t wait to meet this baby tiger! 🐯 hope you’re resting up well and not stressing too much! 💗

[@ashantiw]

You look absolutely amazing ! Don’t worry about labor to much. Your primal mom instinct is definitely going to kick in. I was really nervous too but my husband and the midwife helped me get trough it. Don’t know if anyone gave you this tip already but don’t be quiet around your baby. Keep doing everything you normally do. That makes it so much easier if you want to go outside. I even vacuumed near my son !

[@JaMiEsHoRtY21]

Thank you for sharing your experience with us! It’s crazy to think ive been watching you forever and I’m actually pregnant as well. It was comforting watching you and reading the comments. But hope you have a healthy labor and i am scared sh*tless as well haha.

[@Cat-uz9yj]

I showed your video to my mom who had soo much fertility problems in having me and she was crying of joy for you. Love from Canada

[@Kcelloo]

Thank you for this update, I was really wondering how it's going! Good luck with everything, it's going to go well!

[@pollypocket2282]

I was a 9.9 ounce baby and my sister was large too! My mother was able to do it with no epidural and said after the baby is out you are so overjoyed you don’t think about any pain. I also watched my sister push out a baby, but not with the contractions… the doctor and nurse were dumbfounded, but it was amazing to see… You’ll be so in the moment and excited that baby is here!!! So very happy for you both, you’ll be amazing parents, just don’t worry about comparing yourself to others… you know what is best for your body and your family! 😘

[@sheikahchic]

This year was a “lighter” New Year for me, and my family. I cut off a ton of my hair(weight was causing migraines to be more frequent), and my stylist(who is Chinese) was super excited for me to make a new start with the new year. It’s Tiger, so that’s my dad’s year, so I always ask my temple to say an extra prayer for him(he passed 25 years ago). My dim sum place gave me free turnip cake, bless them! As to baby size and all that, I reached out to my chosen family siblings, for any advice for you, on that, and I’ll PM that to you on Insta(probably already did 😂). But I know you’ve got this, Taylor. ^.^ Making sure my temple and shrine are keeping you and baby in our prayers! 💗

[@joyceveerman4503]

Praying for your pregnancy! You are glowing! Love from the USA!! So enjoy your videos!

[@madelinetodd3409]

Taylor literally just feels like Spring Time to me. I don't know how to elaborate on that but I love it

[@kayleighlang]

I’ve been checking daily for a new video !!! If baby is here already congratulations!! If not I can’t wait !!!

[@willsoe1]

It was so lovely to see your face and “bump” again. I’m so happy that everything is fine with you. I can’t wait for you to post pictures of your son when he's born 😊

[@anisaali5858]

I've been watching your videos for years! I've always loved your optimistic approach to life and the way you're specific about the things you like. So when you started your pregnancy journey, I thought that I'd be disinterested in your content but it's been the opposite. I literally cried (both happy and sad tears) so much during this pregnancy journey of yours. You're going to be the best mom ever and I'm glad that we'll get glimpses of that! P.S I learnt so much about pregnancy and I absolutely loved the idea and arrangement of the feeding/changing cart. More content like this would be a dream!

[@shawnnaleclair2467]

So excited for you!! My husband and I have our consultation appointment tomorrow for IVF! 😍

[@Mrs.J87]

Hi Taylor, Canada misses you 🤗 I've been following you for a long time now and I'm so happy for you and your family. I have 2 children and while birthing can be scary, just remember that for the short time it will happen, the instant joy wipes it all away once baby arrives. You are an amazing person, Hong Kong is definitely lucky to have you. Peace, Love, Joy, Happiness, and Prosperity to you and your growing family. 🇨🇦🇭🇰

[@katew4099]

So excited for you & Tom, and your families! Thanks for sharing your story, and happy new year! :)

[@maryannedelaney]

I am thrilled that you are pregnant! I haven’t seen your videos for a very long time. You look super healthy. Everything will be good. God bless you mama and papa.

[@ttabbyy]

✨✨✨✨✨✨✨I had a 9 and a 10 pound baby. For me the relief came when they allowed me to start pushing. If you’ve been stretching and doing all the other good stuff, you should be fine. Our bodies are pretty amazing. ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@burtnicky1467]

I found relief in the pushing too!

[@lamparium7620]

You are such a ray of sunshine Taylor, watching your videos is a pleasure and I wish you and your husband all the happiness in the world 🌸🎉

[@stephc6235]

Last I went in at 29 weeks 5 days, I was told my baby was measuring at 70th percentile and started to panic.... but I mean thanks for making me feel kind of better about it! Haha my fundal height also measured at 32... so I think our babies are absorbing everything were eating because you and I both just look all belly 🙈 thanks for sharing this journey with us Taylor!

[@dwan_herself]

My middle kid was 10 plus. Labor was fine. His head was a little asynclitic which slowed labor a tad, but my midwife was amazing and a few changes in laboring position and things went quickly and well. Good labor support is so key. You got this!!

[@transientpanda]

Their baby is going to be so cute! Can't wait to see him.

[@alaynalynn5228]

Sending you all the positive vibes for labor & delivery!! You’re going to be amazing! My daughter just turned 1 on Sunday and omg I would go relive the day she was born over and over again it was magical!

[@n00dlie]

For the breast pads, 100% yes for the reusable ones! But the disposable ones are really helpful for until your milk regulates. I leaked through the reusable ones often until my milk regulated.

[@erly186]

Taylor, I remember watching cooking fail videos with you and Sharla, and I just feel so proud! Everything you make these days looks amazing. Sending positive energy from Montana for you and baby!

[@khuslenzayats5272]

Knowing how much Tom likes his coffee ritual it's so sweet to see him switching to Nespresso for the baby

[@michaelstephaniemarrero1097]

It looks like you are very prepated and know you are strong and capable for anything even when you feel like you are not. Also be open to anything that could happen to ensure the healthiest delivery of your child! I had to have an emergency c-section and I was very sad about it. In retrospect it took some of my joy away from that moment having a negative mindset about it. You got this Taylor!

[@amyhamilton92]

My first was 10lbs and my third was 11.2lbs, both vaginal. You've got this!!! They tried to get me to do a cesarean with my first but I said I wanted to at least try and I'm glad I did.

[@clarkosteo]

So excited for you! I’m sure you’ve already thought of it, but make sure to anchor all your shelves to the walls so baby won’t pull them over on himself once he starts pulling himself up. Lots of blessings to you and yours. You and your husband will be such wonderful parents!

[@Piimik]

My baby was estimated much bigger as well(since the 20 week scan), even at 38 weeks they said he measures to be around 3900g. I was induced at 38+4 and he was born just a few weeks ago, at 38+5 3500g and 51cm. He was a completely average caucasian baby. I got an epidural at around 4cm and then it progressed to 10cm super quick compared how it got to 4cm...pushing was so easy for me once he was all the way down. He is my first baby and I pushed him out in 5 minutes...I did not even feel like I was using full force because I did not really know how hard I was allowed to push. The epidural worked so well after I reached 10 cm(pain relief wise) I only felt pressure and I could walk, feel my bladder etc. I was really surprised by this experience. The toughest part for me was the contractions and getting to 10cm, but my husband supported me through that pain and I feel like I could definitely do this again. PS! I am not athletic by any means, if anything I am chubby and indoorsy hahaha.

[@shae-mareeheath3834]

I love how passionate you are about your husband’s culture, it’s so beautiful to see in your videos 🥰🥰🥰

[@Ana_Lev]

Thank you for teaching us about chinese traditions. It's really interesting and I love learning new things xx

[@shellyburbridge2069]

My middle son was 10.1 lbs. I have three children and he was my easiest labor. You got this! 💙

[@justaydontstray2002]

My brother was 4 kg when he was born. I have 4 siblings, I was the lightest (and oldest) and I was 2.3 kg. All of as were born at our due time, no health complications and vaginal delivery. I do must admit that both my aunt and my mom say that pregnancy was extremely good and easy for them, to a point that after following so many pregnant people online I'm like how on earth?? So I feel kinda guilty cuz I'm not planning to get pregnant, and the odds would be extremely easy for me but still haha.

[@sasiefox5027]

I pushed out three babies over 7lbs. It will be ok. Your body will know. You're doing amazing

[@hamamaha6854]

I love that you know (and explain!) the history and meaning of all these traditions!! Really shows your genuine interest and respect for the culture and it's super interesting for me to learn about :)

[@lilpotat_]

I literally justttt found you on instagram via a reel a few hours ago.... And then headed over to your youtube instantly. Guess what, i binge watched your videos from pregnancy journey episode 1 all the way up to this latest one. I've watched plenty of vloggers share their pregnancy journey but it was always the common information they'd share.. i couldn't find any that had very detailed information about the procedures (be it regular pregnancy, or ivf, or others even)... But I'm so glad to have come across your channel, thanks to instagram! I just knew the word "ivf" but i never really knew what it's like or how it's done. I had zero information about it other than the name itself. Thank you so much for making these videos for us. You not only shared your journey and emotions, but you also shared every bit of information possible, from symptoms to food to pregnancy items to all the vaccinations & tests taken and even the scientific explanations of whatever the doctors or nurses told you about, like the terms and stuff, or what happens and why or how. Everything was super informative and detailed, and that was so helpful considering the fact that I'm not that educated to be able to understand such terms easily. Your videos literally made my day. Educated me too! got to learn soooooo much. And most importantly, thank you for staying strong and not giving up 💞 this is so precious! Congratulations on becoming parents! 😘🥳 You are so inspiring and strong. Never forget that. I may have just found you, but I'm gonna stay with you hereon 💜 ps: I'm bts Army 🤭 i guess we have one thing in common (kpop?) Hehehehe sending you all my love, hugs and support 😘💜

[@sorabraen6729]

I heard women with PCOS are more likely to have a larger baby! Thank you so much for sharing your journey and I'm so excited to see the cute little sumo baby hihi xx

[@captianTeTRA]

My mother-in-law pushed out 4 babies. My spouse was the 3rd born, over-due, and the biggest at 13.5lbs (I was 9.5, so I know our babies are gonna be huge like yours!). She, unfortunately, couldn't give birth naturally because the cord got wrapped around his neck and the decision was made that a c-section was the best option. She did all of this while being unable to speak English since she moved to the US from China. All her other babies were natural, but my spouse was just a big big boy! My mother-in-law said that it was a relief that a c-section was performed, and she was just happy her son was out and healthy. Seeing women like you gives me courage for my pregnancies! I love watching your honest journey. You are going to be the best mom. I wish you the best, but remember you can do it because you're stronger than you think you are!

[@jacwatson8689]

Don’t be too stressed about percentiles! I was told my baby was in the 98th percentile, and measured 42 weeks at 37! But then bub was born and weighed a very normal 2.6kgs! :)

[@Yakumoki]

Same, my baby was 98% and head 99% so I was freaking out how I'm gonna push this giant baby out but he was born 3.4kg and his head was smalllll lol like 30%. Honestly I had an awful birth so will spare the details but it had absolutely nothing to do with size but with his position.

[@FixyASMR]

just go with the flow :) it hurts a fuckton but mostly the endpart. I actually like pushing because the baby was almost there and pushing took the pain away. I did it twice, would do it again :)And if you want you can always get epidural, but I didnt. keep moving helped me most. Also my babies head measured OFF THE CHARTS! But then he came out he had a normal sized head. His head stopped growing around a certain time near the end of pregnancy and then it wasnt ginormous anymore lol. I was very worried also

[@anjalimishra456]

Lots of love Taylor I can totaly relate to your journy as my pregnancy is from ivf as well. After one failed cycle. This is my fourth month. All the best for your delivery.

[@Taylor_R]

Good luck! I hope your miracle baby finds their way to you soon! ❤️

[@anjalimishra456]

@@Taylor_R Thanks a ton. I need wishes badly.

[@honeyfairy4506]

I had an 11lbs. It was easier than the others. I felt like he pushed himself out. Don't be scared darlin. However, very natural for first time. The nerves never get old, even with more kids. You look stunning. Your gonna be a great mom. Ily ❤️

[@no-lh8be]

crazy how tom found this beautiful girl on facebook and now hes starting a family with her. how lucky he must feel.

[@Bentears]

Wow, not long now! Sending positivity and prayers for a safe, smooth delivery for your little tiger cub! Many blessings to you and Tom! 🐅👨‍👩‍👦👶🧧

[@SammieSpeaks]

my mom had my brother all natural, no epidural and he was 11lbs... and my mom was 19 years old.

[@hisloveiseternal1]

Wow! The human body is amazing

[@alliiejustiine]

When you're in the moment you will just be excited to see your baby nothing else will matter ❤️

[@poisonapple6138]

So close now! I've been keeping an eye on your social media just in case. Fetal weights at the end of gestation aren't always exact, so he may end up being smaller than the estimate. You've got this!! It's bittersweet to be at the end of this road but I'm even more excited to see you become a mother. Also, pineapples. Pineapples are good for making things happen fast but not too fast. It helps with the cervix apparently.

[@lisatayne]

I love seeing more Tom! He's such an amazing husband and partner!

[@itsjustmyopinionbut1671]

Three c-sections here… first one came at 38 weeks and my water broke so there was no turning back but despite being given pitocin, my labor wouldn’t progress so a c-section was the only option. Second and third were both induced at 39 weeks!! Also, all 3 of my kids have huge heads (so does my husband and dad) lol ALL 3 are in 96-98%

[@aiya359]

I hope you’re doing ok. The last weeks are the hardest and the closer you get the more challenging it gets mentally too. Trust that your baby and your body instinctively know what they’re doing. And even if you struggle during birth you’re in good hands and your medical team has got you. It’s going to be ok and in less then a month you’ll be holding your baby and admiring his cute little face❤️

[@yureituesday]

Gravity is your friend 🙈I’ve had 3 10lb babies stay walking and upright as long as you can, gravity helps.

[@juliediamond6017]

Yes! And walk through labor even if you're tired walk till it's time to push, push upright holding that bar

[@queenokorafor4112]

I am so happy for you Taylor. Been trying for 6 years, with 3 failed IVFs and 1 IUI.. However, on supplements now, whilst getting ready for another ICSI cycle. I'm hopeful, it'll work this time. Thanks alot for sharing your pregnancy struggles and experiences. Really informative. God bless you 🙏

[@b10aa]

Tips on the breastfeeding from a breastfeeding mom: you can breastfeed! There's only a few percent (about 2 i think) that physically cannot. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise because people will blame things on breastfeeding that are just not true (your milk is not enough for the baby, the baby is not sleeping long enough, you are tired etc etc). If you do have some trouble get a lactation consultant! They know sooooo mucht. La lache leage also has really good info (multiple languages). In my experience and what I've read: the harder part with breastfeeding is mostly the first two months. After that its soooo easy and way easier than formula in my opinion. It's normal for the first time to be a bit difficult beacause you and baby both need to learn.

[@erin5109]

I love and am fascinated by Japanese culture, and thanks to you I am now learning about Chinese culture! There’s so much history there and every tradition/ symbolic item has a beautiful, thoughtful back story. Thank you for taking the time to explain and share with us 🥰