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Hitch / New York "date doctor" Alex Hitchens (Will Smith) tries to charm gossip columnist Sara Melas (Eva Mendes) at the same time he is coaching shy Albert (Kevin James) on how to win the love of beautiful heiress Allegra Cole (Amber Valletta). / Meet Hitch (Will Smith), New York City's greatest matchmaker. Love is his job and he'll get you the girl of your dreams in just three easy dates, guaranteed! And that's exactly what happens when Albert Brennaman (TV's Kevin James, "The King of Queens") wins the heart of gorgeous society heiress Allegra Cole (supermodel Amber Valletta). So when tabloid columnist Sara Melas (Eva Mendes, Stuck On You, Once Upon a Time in Mexico) decides to uncover the secret behind the tubby schlub's success, she's shocked to discover that Alex Hitchens, the charming young man she's been seeing, is the legendary date doctor himself. Exposed in a front-page scoop, it's now up to Alex to try to save Albert and Allegra's relationship as well as his own. Which only goes to show that just when you think you've found true love, there's always a HITCH.
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You know that one scene in every proper rom-com when you think to yourself "oh s*#t, they've met their match!" This is definitely it...
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Meet Hitch (Will Smith), New York City's greatest matchmaker. Love is his job and he'll get you the girl of your dreams in just three easy dates, guaranteed! And that's exactly what happens when Albert Brennaman (TV's Kevin James, "The King of Queens") wins the heart of gorgeous society heiress Allegra Cole (supermodel Amber Valletta). So when tabloid columnist Sara Melas (Eva Mendes, Stuck On You, Once Upon a Time in Mexico) decides to uncover the secret behind the tubby schlub's success, she's shocked to discover that Alex Hitchens, the charming young man she's been seeing, is the legendary date doctor himself. Exposed in a front-page scoop, it's now up to Alex to try to save Albert and Allegra's relationship as well as his own. Which only goes to show that just when you think you've found true love, there's always a HITCH.

[@IGamingStation]

The best part about this scene is that Hitch genuinely didn't care about whether or not he scored, which funny enough got Sara interested in wanting to know more about that guy. So weird how when we don't show that neediness and we have that 0 fs mindset, people gravitate towards you.

[@Fbitypeshit]

Well yeah he did wanted her, or he wouldn’t have come to talk to her, he PRETEND that he didn’t care, he just played the game the right way

[@christiansentali579]

Beautifully put, my friend!

[@ryanslade3465]

And the way they both talked in 3rd person. Made the interaction more comfortable & less intimidating lol

[@abdullahimusa4927]

He knew he scored remember the bartender said she is a regular and good tipper. He left his impression to pick up the next time he sees her.

[@goranmilic442]

@@Fbitypeshit This is hardly a game. He honestly said he is a nice guy for her, but there is no way to prove it to her, if she's not willing to give him a chance.

[@Flippityflap]

the leaving part was the most legendary. 10/10 guys would stay and not leave lol

[@McLeod2022]

yeah but he knew her name and where she worked. he masterfully got just enough info to take it next level later and also confused her with his abrupt departure. He left her wanting more. It's like singing or acting... you don't show them all you have right at first... make them anticipate the next OMG moment. That tension is adrenaline and a helluva "drug"

[@Brian-Sky]

I love how you generalize every man like that... cute but i dont think it suits you

[@Flippityflap]

@@McLeod2022 yeah thats what he went for in the movie, still not what most guys would do

[@Flippityflap]

@@Brian-Sky Stop trying to act like ur some female pulling legend

[@Brian-Sky]

@@Flippityflap you call it an act i call it not having the wrong brain do the thinking... that beside the point im not demoting myself to the standard youre going by because A. The women i know are fabulously awesome and B. Think what you want...

[@redrockballa]

the bartender is the real MVP he did the same thing 2 hitch in a brotherly way by seeing that he was really interested in a lady and like a real friend, gave him details that touched her heart

[@markhenderson9801]

And he then got more information from when chip went over

[@kamilyasin967]

That is Will Smith personal trainer in real life.

[@PhilomathWizard]

She’s such an icon and a legend for dismissing Chip so kindly because he was getting on my nerves and I wasn’t even there.

[@oscarsmack141]

Button 1: "Laugh at Chip because of his cringey approach and cocky attitude." Button 2: "Respect Chip because he's at a nightclub hollering at Eva Mendes while I'm sitting at home watching KZbin." Me: *indecisive panic*

[@markhenderson9801]

Button 3 look at hitch rearrange his game because of chip

[@strikeforcealpha9343]

@@markhenderson9801 And yet the balls it took for chip just to approach, had this been in modern society, he'd be booted from the bar. Not all of us can look like Will Smith.

[@markhenderson9801]

@@strikeforcealpha9343 true but you have to admit hitch did re arrange his game

[@Neo-oq3rx]

The walk away left her wanting more. Smooth

[@EasyBreezy41]

Will always be one of my favorite movies and this scene especially, the music, the flirting, the night life vibes…

[@alphaavxryy8879]

I see what you did there

[@EasyBreezy41]

@@alphaavxryy8879 and what is that lol

[@lediolluka1765]

Anyone knows the song that is playing!

[@EasyBreezy41]

@@lediolluka1765 one of my favorite songs of all time: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fZzQp2hpl6ephpI

[@draesynesofficial]

@@EasyBreezy41legend, thank you!

[@vforv9402]

I love that scene so much. Flirting at its absolute best!!!

[@mutant_Gaming_]

The end walk is just 🔥

[@TheKokema]

he heard someone mention GI Jane and started walking towards that person

[@OrganicJew]

@@TheKokema L

[@Joe_Parmesan]

The King Richard Strut

[@tsebomoloi3410]

I love the fact that he was brief and let her decide is she wants to continue or not

[@MrRajsajin]

@3:47 a clear gesture that she was interested in him, but Alex "Hitch" Hitchens just says good bye and walks away.... wow🔥 what a scene!

[@donnasearch1]

People who are open-handed-no expectations and willing to walk away are immediately perceived as high-value. It’s human nature.😊

[@shaunmistery1240]

3:47 was a wrap! He could’ve asked for her social at that moment 😂

[@dakotakidd499]

Cant lie…Will was smooth af on this one

[@FreeBlackConservative6859]

Hell yeah bro! He killed it in Focus too... Will makes you want to be there bro. He always had that even on the fresh prince 🙌🏿

[@sparrow3491]

it's a script.

[@crumblinggcookie]

It's scripted

[@geno816]

Shows how great of an actor he really is.

[@Matt.cheeww]

⁠@@sparrow3491Give this same exact “scripted” scene to Jonah Hill and see if it’s as “smooth” as Will Smith.

[@CrazyMunky84]

Dialogue like this does not exist anywhere in the world ever.

[@roronoalaw7772]

It’s almost like films are exaggerated, alternate realities

[@ozpaavali]

This scene will always just be ICONIC!

[@f23r23]

We have to be eternally thankful to Chip. Without his interference, we would have never witnessed this amazing approach. Anybody ever wondered how Hitch would have started the convo if Chip didn't stop by?

[@MikeRatushniak-d6e]

I like wills way it’s just a natural way to do talk to you but I think will did the right thing ❤

[@caravanlifenz]

I love the dialogue in this scene. In British movies, this type of quick, witty conversation is standard, but I don't often see it in American movies.

[@CrazyMunky84]

Dialogue like this has never occurred anywhere on this planet ever.

[@ilcastilho]

@@CrazyMunky84 It does, but most people are too shallow too keep up with.

[@gregoryjamaalfulton]

This movie honestly helped me grow the confidence I needed I honestly had issues really young talking to women. Now it's as easy as breathing. It's so habitual that I forget sometimes a woman would be flirting with me. It's possible fellas just remember confidence. The rest comes naturally.

[@ChilledP]

Cheers Greg, can already tell you are a hit with the ladies.

[@610Hobbies]

Well, it didn't help me, but I had fun watching it nonetheless.

[@Thisismyusername227]

i cant imagine tht for you lol

[@craigritchie8470]

When I was on the scene back in the day I appreciated these brutally honest take downs like Chip received. While harsh they keep you from spending time on something that is never going to happen. You get to move on instantly.

[@andrewharris2191]

Now that was the Fresh Prince

[@katiemcdonnell9250]

He killed it

[@montecarloss439]

I miss these days. easy going music night club vibe hanging out having a drink relaxing on a friday night in NYC. Was great back then

[@TraPortal007]

What you think happens now?? What’s the difference?

[@paulromsky9527]

@montecarloss439 NYC is a "target ritch environment"... I love that town!

[@leonardosoares9468]

His abruptly departure at the end (after getting the most impt info about her - name/ place of work) was a perfect class on "how to arouse a woman's interest" ...The rest was history !

[@badchadb33]

5 Fathoms from Everything But The Girl is the most perfect song for this scene!

[@NasteeJo]

classic group !

[@610Hobbies]

Seconds later, Chip shows his face again trying to scavenge anything: _"So, umm, I saw your boyfriend leave, do you wanna talk about it and maybe, maybe uh, hug or something?"_

[@marioalll]

what will smith just has made in this scene is a masterpiece...it seems so easy, but it isnt. It requires a so much hell of confidence on yourself at 1000%. But, it is possible to do it, with practice!...that's the hard part jaja

[@mistanderson]

Gotta have the skills to talk and spit. Gotta have swag with it

[@rogeliobarraza1772]

IM HIM

[@jedirayden]

The brilliance of buying her a drink and asking for it to be delivered AFTER he excuses himself and leaves her to her evening is, to me, one of the smoothest moves ever.

[@Losdayeti4]

@@rogeliobarraza1772 YES YOU ARE

[@33Chapter]

Why is it hard to be yourself?

[@julieannsarabia]

That bartender is a hell of a wingman.

[@AluminumHaste]

He could tell that after Chip ruined it, that her defenses were super up and there was no way he could honestly get a relationship going. Walking away was the correct move. Left her wanting more.

[@sxyteesa0890]

I wish someone would approach me more light hearted like this sometimes guys can be overwhelming

[@mwebazegilbert2008]

Just like the forces of demand and supply deterrmine the price in the market, so do women on what gets them in a specific time frame. Generally speaking

[@TraPortal007]

Not anymore. So enjoy

[@linuxsurfer2002]

One of the biggest things I take from this scene is, learn to take no for an answer. No means no - just move on!

[@raymondcortez6373]

Well men and women live different worlds. Men have to compete against each other to win over the prized woman, women don't have to compete at all for their potential mate. They just have to look pretty and boom all the attention goes to that woman. Beta males will simp talk to you like you're a sex object, Alpha Males will talk to you about your life goals with empathy.

[@TheNotoriousKing]

This was perfect acting 🎭 by everyone involved 🔥🔥🔥

[@devantejackson5085]

2025 Can't Believe It's Been 20 Years Since This Classic Scene and Movie 🎥🍿. "Hitch" Is A Certified Cult Classic And Will Smith Is A Certified Legend 🐐. Eva Mendes Was A Baddie 😍🥰😋. Glad I Grew Up To This Era Miss Them Times 😭🤧 20 Years Later Still Dope 🔥🔥

[@JoannHines-g6f]

Love that background music!❤😂❤😂

[@KelvinSmith28]

He had to tell the bar tender keep 'em coming because they never stopped bringing them.

[@ElDrom_Belle]

Kudos to Chip for not becoming nasty

[@ayazmalik5260]

Hahahaha…good one… 'Let the chip(s) fall where they may,' usually figure they will not be hit by a chip….😎💪🏽

[@uriellecolombehoumbapoba5684]

a constructive dialogue which allows us to determine that it will conclude in perseverance while releasing a ghost who could not finish his words

[@_thk]

0:37 i absolutely love how Chip enters the frame out of focus. Hilarious

[@avneetsidhu802]

i used this 3rd person type technique in my first sem and worked flawlessy and it was before i even heard of this movie

[@ashishrajbhatia8874]

Fun fact : it's 2025 and Dating coaches are a reality ..... a profession

[@joewhitehead3]

& I’ll bet they charge a lot

[@JoannHines-g6f]

So glad that ended up TOGETHER even after Sara damned near DESTROYED EVERYTHING!❤

[@paulromsky9527]

Yup, when I was a "Studly Doright" in the 80's, that was a way I would meet women. Play it straight, natural, no lines, no names, no hand shake introduction unless she initiated it. No complements, just a relaxed smile and a little chit chat. Let her control the moment/set the pace to ease her up. Then, say, "Well, I should be going, it was very nice to chat with you!" Get up slowly, a quick wave back to her, and then find someone a bit away but within earshot, and act like you know them as an acquaintance (a wingman helps here) and tell him you had to run but insist you buy them a drink. Have fun, smile, be a bit animated, engage everyone at the bar, make some laugh, don't be the center of attention but let/make someone else be. Let her check you out, don't look in her direction. Seven out of ten times they would join me at the bar. Three out of ten times I would get their real phone number. I never take a woman home on a first date out of respect, but hanging out all night was my goal in the first place, just have fun and not prey on women for sex - that's the more elusive bonus. Once, I did buy a drink for a woman as I left, but I was truly on my way out and never expected to bump into her again.

[@prabeshdahal4957]

Bro that's so cool, you are my perception of cool guy 😆

[@paulromsky9527]

@@prabeshdahal4957 Not anymore, I am 59 and married... so my "player" days are long gone. Not too long ago I was in the grocery store and a young boy in a suit with his father was buying flowers. I asked if he was going to a dance and he said yes. I told him this sage advice: If a girl askes you dance, you DANCE with her, even if she is the most unpopular girl in school. It's hard for a girl to ask a boy for a dance. But the key thing is, when you dance with her, ALL the girls will be watching you... you will be aces and virtually no girl will turn you down for a dance after that. But don't look around when you dance with a girl... the attention is to be all on her. Get a wingman to help you know which girls are checking you out. Now, if a boy wants to dance with you, you are on your own, I don't roll that way. It is the 21st century after all [smile].

[@33Chapter]

@@paulromsky9527 What's the point of all that?

[@paulromsky9527]

@@33Chapter Point of what? I just mentioned my exploits because I identify with the Hitch character. One guy wrote back and thought I was cool, so I told him it was in my younger days. I am married so I am out of the game, but I do give young guys tips from time to time - sort of what Hitch does. As far a starting bar room fights, my friends were of Scottish decent and loved to get in fights - no lie!

[@33Chapter]

@@paulromsky9527 Not the point of what you said but what you did in your 'younger' days?

[@erinavery4577]

He left the bar at the end to slap Chris 😂

[@Its_just_zell]

He had her the moment he walked away

[@mariecampbell3373]

Chip was doing well, until she asked him his name :-(

[@AriEugene]

He was doing well until he walked up to her lmao

[@Nisowyd]

Not even idk wtf he was doing 😂

[@jasontodd6779]

He was doing well, until he used that dump pickup line.

[@pollypockets508]

No he wasn't

[@ofentsemalatse5733]

He lost at saying her drink is an apple Martini

[@TheoSiska]

He got the information he wanted and left

[@joewhitehead3]

He makes it look so easy

[@masialifts8039]

It is lol

[@joewhitehead3]

@@masialifts8039 Not for some people

[@masialifts8039]

@@joewhitehead3 you just can’t care and don’t over think it your the prize and most times she’s isn’t gonna who you are end up with in the end so no point in sweating the outcome

[@joewhitehead3]

@@masialifts8039 Easier said than done. It’s hard for some guys to just be naturally cool like that

[@aliceinchainz]

fr, and this coming from a girl. i think i accidentally weirded the dude out that i thought looked nice in school movies always make it seem like this, gives us a whole dif perception. it’s why i don’t take ‘em serious anymore

[@riku1neo]

For the "Nice Guys" out there... this is your goal. Confidence without needing to be the "Bad Boy" type. If you are confident and witty you can make it! That's how I got my wife!

[@rc1982]

Plus a script that every person in the scene is contractually obligated to follow.

[@riku1neo]

@@rc1982 You’d be surprised how at some of the fun conversations you can have when you have some confidence and wit about you…

[@rc1982]

@@riku1neo , yeah, but not if the other person doesn't want. The other person is --- guest what --- a person too. All the confidence in the word will not get magic powers to control other people's will.

[@riku1neo]

@@rc1982 If you continue to come up with excuses you will be unsuccessful with women and ultimately life. I use to to be nerdy guy and found a mentor that taught me about these things. I struck out sometimes to be sure, but you have to find solutions. Don't let fear guide you.

[@rc1982]

@@riku1neo, hahahaha! Gez... You really have NO IDEA what you are talking about. I am MARRIED since 2014. I am just saying the obvious: confidence is great, but one should NOT take confidence as a super-power that makes other people fulfill all your wishes magically, basead in a SCRIPTED scene from a MOVIE.

[@davefischer2344]

0:48 little over the top there Chip lol 😂

[@austinatomTV]

Look at his eyebrow when he says “CHIP” 🤣🤣. It’s odd

[@ssekatawasauson3121]

Hitch played it right

[@ZephyrBW]

Hitch really knows how to play the game

[@mariecampbell3373]

Will Smith was completely edible in this movie.

[@maneshipocrates]

He knows that! He is no chip. :)

[@0Mynameisearl0]

Pause…

[@KeenApollo]

@@0Mynameisearl0 her name Marie I'm sure a woman made this comment lmao.

[@dylansandoval2902]

Lmao fr niggas just be wanting to Pause anything so bad 🤣

[@McLeod2022]

her laugh at 2:22 makes this... nicely set scene... i don't get why they always cut it off before the full ending where she moves to see him better as her meeting "date" comes along and drinks the martini that he set for her. *edit - and that bartender and bar staff probably got a helluva tip for the front side info and the back side execution right on point.

[@katiemcdonnell9250]

Love these 2 together ♥️

[@sergelouissieben6754]

For me also great music and great acting 🎭

[@donnajojean3217]

I love this movie.

[@shanoriya]

I’ve been hit on by a few chips and it is beyond annoying because they really cannot take no for an answer or read the signs

[@raymondcortez6373]

But was there ever an Alex that you came across

[@olisaanueyiagu6679]

i will neva stop loving will smith

[@strikeforcealpha9343]

Gentlemen, the power of being able to walk away.

[@uriellecolombehoumbapoba5684]

un dialogue constructif qui permet de déterminer qu'il se conclura dans la persévérance tout en libérant un fantôme qui n'a pas pu finir ses mots 

[@nelly5538]

If only there was a real life Hitch to help Will get out of his relationship with Jada, haha

[@Joe_Parmesan]

There should be a sequel to this movie called 'Ditch', with a guy saving people from relationships that start falling apart

[@BourneKnight]

Not to play devils advocate, but these types of issues in the relationships are very common in our society, the only difference is they’re both pretty out there with it.

[@АлександрВойкин-т5ф]

Chip a little confused, but he got the spirit!

[@ayazmalik5260]

That’s the way to do it gentlemen. Listen carefully and learn 😎💪🏽

[@albertgaspar627]

true, because when you don't have the looks to pull it off, you didn't risk anything so you didn't lose anything. he didn't ask her out, so she never rejected him--he self-ejected. (on a side note, it's ironic he blasts men for having an agenda...when he clearly had one. why start a conversation in a crowded bar with someone who clearly wants to be left alone and is checking their watch for a meeting if she's ugly?)

[@mg19cal]

1:05 the way he said "eyes" always rubbed me the wrong way for some reason

[@higinio7735]

The "you look a lot like my next girlfriend" is a not-go. Why will anyone use it?

[@mlo009]

Being that desperate was a turn-off.

[@comfortcontent7766]

I love the walking part which reminds me how will smith waled after he slapped chris rock. 😂

[@McLeod2022]

i didn't connect that, but you are not wrong. i suppose if you walk w swag long enough it is just muscle memory.

[@mangeshkasbekar2947]

The absence of Fear, does not necessarily mean Courage, wooing is an Art, some are natural like Casanova, others may need to learn, what is important is keenness of observation, basically, the body language, which WS did immaculately.....

[@kidbgeneral]

People dont have game in real life like they do in movies 😂😂😂😂

[@richardescobar4215]

Name of song

[@CibieWibie]

five fathoms ebtg

[@nkazimulohlongwane629]

Okay that was perfect

[@markhenderson9801]

That’s why you respect bar tenders they the information you might need

[@papadajnia268]

i love this song i hope one day i go new york

[@officialtmpwavesmedia8753]

NYC hasn’t been the same since covid

[@dexter5275]

What song is this

[@YankeeBlues21]

@@dexter5275 “Five Fathoms” - Everything But The Girl

[@kentarius08]

It requires confidence yes. But also presence. Sit with her even if your nervous be purely present and say what you want to say to her through patience. We're Men. There is nothing to fear. Even if we don't get the girl. We can leave an impression just by conversing and being present.

[@sammylacks4937]

Grey Goose , whew weeee I hear ya. and a shot of Absolute for me.

[@austinatomTV]

He slapped the guy who tried to flirt with her first.

[@xboxmaster6574]

Now that is how you do it i need to learn how to be like hitch

[@renesobrevilla1160]

Me gusta excelente video saludos

[@indrajitpal4171]

What is the initial music name? It's awesome...

[@chrisstetsko5020]

I've tried this very thing before even before this movie came out.....and I.....CRASHED and BURNED. 😵

[@72u40]

"And a beer just wouldn't do it.". Delivery! Sara says "So life's kinda hard all around?". Be honest, Alex! She knew this about his life! And when Chip handed her another glass of apple (citruline fruit) martini, (was it almost empty)? He must have known she was having a really rough and hard week with wirk and all like Alex says, searching for a man, never finding one. Alex says "Not if you pay attention" as he gives the apple martini that Chip gave to her back to the waitress, because this drink is heavy alcohol from her hectic week to relax herself and he feels she doesn't need anymore of this since he is here, seeing if you are paying attention to him doing this. He says she is sending all the right "signals"! What if he is lying to her meaning she really sending all the wrong signals based off of the way he describes her?! In the very beginning of the film he narrates while talking on screen about how when a woman lies to you by the nice comments she makes, shit-testing you, she is either saying "get away from me now" or "try harder, stupid". So he pulls her same lying tricks on her through lying to her with sarcasm to win her over! She says to Chip "this is not code for try harder", where this film shows you what Alex was saying earlier by live example later with Sara! She says to Chip the other side of "try harder, stupid", so with him she means "get away from me now because you are being too nice.". This was what she means to him by way of saying "I'm just not interested (shit-test) but thank you for the 'compliment' of coming over". Coming over to her apartment? Kidding! She says "aw, you can't get 'em to stop?!". She is flattering him about women chasing him. Why doesn't he say "you're funny" rather than "that's funny"? Tailoring this to her? "Keep it simple, stupid", "try harder, stupid", correlation! When Alex says "difficult for a man to speak to a woman who looks like you", he is implying she is so beautiful it intimidating while also expressing flaws in her! "for the 'gentleman' (weak, softy guy who did not take her on the spot) who just left."

[@dmfd_rosieperez9847]

Wish they included the friend with “ooh is that for me?”

[@SS-pl2ws]

Love it 🎉

[@nasrick]

Wow i was a teenager when this came out 2005

[@tiyopaenguin]

I tried this move once. I got chris rocked in the face.

[@Tnt.8294]

The rizz is off the charts

[@meow-ge7xk]

That's a move left her hanging🤔

[@MickeyHeart]

What's the name of the song in the background

[@JoshBlackesh]

Lucky for Chip that he didn't utter Will's wife's name out.

[@indrajitpal8608]

Anyone has link of the background music song???

[@Joe_Parmesan]

Everything but the Girl - Five Fathoms

[@JoannHines-g6f]

Why is it that Chip couldn't get the hint?😂😂😂😂😂

[@louisjasonsimo5074]

Grey Goose Martini from the Gentleman that just left...........

[@B501M]

well-crafted scene

[@ironpolux]

thank you

[@gakuruvictor1276]

like a booouuuusss 😎😎😎😎

[@shanolawebb3851]

Handsome

[@thomasjohnson4449]

Hitch is Kevin Samuels biopic

[@TA-ht4jo]

Not at all...more like Tariq Nasheed aka King Flex Mack Lessons radio playa. Look it up.

[@fisk33333]

Damn, I'm not even as smooth as Chip... :(

[@MikeRatushniak-d6e]

I guess I can flirt but like Will said why would a lady like you be interested in me❤

[@paulromsky9527]

My nick name is Biff, and of course the lady would think "Back to the Future" or "Death of a Salesman", then I would tell how I wore an Izod shirt (with the alligator on it) to work... everyone thought I was a "preppy" and started calling me Biff. It was a great ice breaker.

[@Joe_Parmesan]

I think that was one of the noticeable differences between Chip and Hitch. Chip was a bit passive in how he introduced himself, while Hitch leaned forward and was a bit more prideful and confident - saying his first and last name, when we know his nickname is 'Hitch'

[@paulromsky9527]

@@Joe_Parmesan Sometimes I would sit down next to a lady a bar. Not look at her or say anything for a minute or two. Then staring at the bar I would say: "I think we will have two children, a boy and a girl. We will summer in the Hamptons and winter in Milan." Then turn to her, "Oh! That was rude of me, we haven't been introduced... my name is Paul Romsky. I am fabulously wealthy, I am six feet tall, hell of a dancer... did I mention I am fabulously wealthy?"

[@Joe_Parmesan]

@@paulromsky9527 After dropping that line, what would be the response from the women?

[@paulromsky9527]

@@Joe_ParmesanIt's NOT a pick up line... it's an ICE BREAKER. The old cold opening: "I think we will..." usually gets a nervous laugh at first, but the ice breaks when she realizes I was just being funny. The trick is to not be creepy and to switch your demeanor (to approachable) the instant she responds. It's all about gaining a moment of her interaction to build that moment into another with the hope of starting a decent conversation. About 1 out of 5 women will get up and move away - which is fine because they were not picking up it was a joke and have no sense of humor anyway. 3 out of 5 will have a benign response but don't want to seem to engage any further. But about 1 in 5 will strike up a conversation. Keep it balanced, share experiences and likes equally, don't dominate the conversation, and don't let her do all the talking. Now, if you can get her to laugh and she briefly touches your arm, that is called a "touchback" and it is a less than subtle signal that she may like you. A woman that does not like you would NEVER touch you. NEVER touch her until she gets close (which is usually on a first date after this meeting). Always excuse yourself early in the conversation to give her the idea your meeting was more chance than "enticed". She will know it really wasn't chance, but leaving after a few minutes will make her feel more comfortable and a second "chance" meeting (this time initiated by her) would be more likely. You can't go solo on this, you need a wingman because you need a friend to talk to after you walk away so she can get the upper hand (that you give her) and discretely check you out - of course the whole time you know she is watching you. Use those bar mirrors (not just there for the bartender) and glance (never stare) through them to keep tabs if other guy's are hitting on her and how she reacts to them. If you go stag, that can come off like you are just "zoomin'" the chicks. It's a dance and you have to face a lot of rejection but once in a while you meet someone really nice. Of course you can only use this "trick" once per venue, else it would be just a cheesy pick up line rather than an ice breaker.... women do share notes on their prospects in the powder room [smile]. But you must smile and have a good time... don't over do it, be animated but not obvious. Let her make the decision to come to you. I used to NEVER smile when I was young because I thought tough guys don't smile... I was so wrong. When a woman approached me once and told me, "If you smiled once in a while women would like you." It was a "game" changer.

[@Joe_Parmesan]

@@paulromsky9527 I think I see what you're saying now. So, is it sort of like Hitch in this scene, where he playfully created a hypothetical scenario through dialogue? He had Sara playing along too, without being too forward

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And you can't get them to stop??😅😅😅

[@benjaminparkinson5255]

Ryan gosling is so.lucky Eva dam

[@EldarioS_01]

Song's name?

[@CibieWibie]

five fathoms - ebtg

[@EldarioS_01]

@@CibieWibie thanks❤️

[@vidisharoy3630]

I want to see Will Smith and Eva Mendes together again. They just rocked together 🤟🔥☺️

[@joewhitehead3]

Mendes doesn’t act anymore though