The Gift of Your Absence! 🎁🚶‍♂️

[@SCGSHOW]

Who have YOU gifted your absence to in your life? 🎁🚶‍♂ Share your story below! ⬇

[@jimphiripes802]

At the first sign of disrespect or drama, walk away without failure.

[@biancaspureimagination]

Amen

[@Alex-iq9gd]

Word

[@FaintAura]

One of my friends claimed she was no drama then proceeded to block me on social media for no reason, no time for that kind of bs lol

[@martikabraidbar394]

👏🏾💗👌🏾

[@CC-pu6qn]

Already there❤

[@kentaroo.7759]

I got rid of several people in my life, never heard from them again. I enjoy the peace and quiet.

[@vickigonya9432]

Exactly❤

[@corinaluanavlad2417]

They must learn my value or earn my absence. It's simple.

[@vickigonya9432]

Ooohhhhhh I like that!!!! May pit it on my back SUV window ❤

[@karishort1891]

Every single word of this is spot on. I ghosted so many people at once, now all their heads are spinning and not mine LOL

[@simar5]

Lol

[@ryanbland8528]

Sounds so toxic, I love it 😂

[@mikyl-fo8rh]

Ghosting is closure 😌 When there's nothing left to say, or when things are better left unsaid - ghost!

[@georginahsubeb923]

😂😂😂

[@truth8027]

We do have options when dealing with inconsistent individuals, thank God ..

[@yahyaelmi8435]

That’s why you have to master the art of detachment

[@iamthestorm1004]

I’ve gone no contact and blocked my left ex for 17 months now She took me for granted and did not value what I had to offer her Fine with me Love the silence ! “Crickets” 😅

[@seriously999]

Same exact thing I’m going thru..it’s only been 3 days now..she hs been treating me worthless and speaking awfully to me like I don’t matter , I’m always the one trying to reach out and begging but u have decided to end it

[@iamthestorm1004]

@@seriously999 Sorry to hear you’re dealing with this Walk away Stay away an ex is an ex for a reason Work on yourself Re connect with family friends long forgotten hobbies You’ll be fine brother Better out there for you !!

[@seriously999]

I now believe there’s hope for joy and happiness..ur comment really inspired me to keep moving on ..damn 17 months is legit ..hope I’ll make it like u did

[@iamthestorm1004]

@@seriously999 you’ll be ok One day at a time Trust the process You’ve got this You are the prize ! Don’t go back and reopened that door Gods got a plan for your life and has the right woman waiting for you behind another door !

[@cabrondemente1]

​@@seriously999 How are you feeling two months later?

[@Heavenlysky89]

I walked away from a dismissive avoidant so it will take time for him to value my absence, if ever, but idc because I'm never returning.

[@SCGSHOW]

Never go back

[@touchme1604]

You're a woman you must be playing games with him so that's his win after all

[@kentaroo.7759]

My gift of absence is a permanent gift. I'm not gonna miss them and vice-versa I'm sure.

[@laylahalgharib3150]

I love you response.

[@HinaKhan-kl3qe]

😂😂😂👍👏👏😔

[@baldbadass]

Very interesting and well explained. I'm red pilled and have been looking into these things for a while but this has made me really understand this concept and why it works and made me realise I'm an empath and this used to happen with me (I had to walk away from everyone on my life cos they were all toxic I was surrounded by trash). I'm working on resetting myself. Thanks man

[@SCGSHOW]

Glad it was helpful!

[@laylahalgharib3150]

Research Human Design. It will assist you with your purpose!

[@Jesusisking235]

For years I had no idea that I was allowed to walk away from unhealthy relationships (especially toxic draining family members). Now I am at a point where 1 ounce of disrespect I move on... no time for toxic people anymore.

[@nestorcolt]

We must reach that Nirvana, hope you all can get there!

[@truth8027]

We do have options when dealing with inconsistent individuals .. Thank God

[@garygriest1293]

best idea I ever heard wish I had these videos years ago great job.

[@legendaryeddyb228]

Great Video. I had a sarcastic woman who pretends to be happy for me which I already knew was a lie after I tried to tell her some good news after experiencing some bad luck & then after this encounter I was completely drained. There was absolutely no reciprocity on her part & definitely a lack of effort on her part & then 2 days later when I see her from the corner of my eye as I was speaking to someone else & then after seeing me as I was talking to this someone else, she had the nerve to turn her body & her torso away from me in giving me her back. Extremely rude & disrespectful. Why would I want to talk to somebody like that. At this point I was done with her as I'm about to get rid of her & without warning in which ended up happening. Then a little over a month later as we were walking & coming from opposite directions, she sees me & tries to get my attention by saying HEY & as we got closer, I created distance by completely walking right past her ignoring her acting as if she doesn't exist & completely walking away.

[@SCGSHOW]

👏🏻👏🏻

[@davzrobaichjukes]

So truthful thank you for this

[@monigiselle2140]

Great video. Thank you. I'LL USE THIS STRATEGY TO TRICK MY BRAIN AND FORGET.

[@akula9713]

A friend borrowed £60, then I found they had been bad mouthing me to my girlfriend, trying to split us up. After confronting them about it. I never saw him or the £60 ever again. Best £60 spent!

[@SCGSHOW]

@@akula9713 Their loss!!

[@bella3096]

This is so helpful. ❤😊

[@stevenkrupka3670]

Healthy , informative video, thanks dude!

[@estebanvalenzuela9899]

This video is awesome is the one thing I've been looking for, it really helped me thank you.!!

[@SCGSHOW]

Glad it helped!

[@owenbutcher1954]

WELL PRESENTED ✊🏻

[@SCGSHOW]

👏🏻

[@SamueITan]

People please know, you didn’t just wake up one day and decided to walk away for nothing. You walked away for a reason. You were not treated how you deserved and you were not respected or valued properly. These are things that piled up over time. So walk away, if they see your value, they will find some way to make amends and if they don’t, their loss and move on, the world is vast and full of other people who’ll know how to treat you right.

[@SCGSHOW]

👏🏻👏🏻

[@gw6496]

On point👌🏾👍🏽👍🏽

[@theveryplumdarcey]

Such a lovely video 📹 😍

[@keith2o9]

You just told the story of my life.

[@SCGSHOW]

🙏🏻💙

[@LAbidjanaiseBlogMode225]

Thank you ❤❤❤

[@SCGSHOW]

👍🏻

[@donaldcummings6439]

Another fabulous common sense video presentation. Thank you!

[@Cimaazimi11]

Thank you 🙏🏽 💛🧡💛

[@SCGSHOW]

You are so welcome

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Freedom 🎉❤🎉🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯

[@therealone8628]

Nice 👍

[@mediniphukan5959]

Amazing 👏

[@SCGSHOW]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@frederickruhl5606]

I walk away from them and I am glad to never talk to them and they don't know what to do about it .I choose to be with those who respect me when they stop respectful to me I am gone with out a single word from me. RUHL2

[@Purpleiciousbabe]

Fact

[@insaneboy1234]

Your videos are fantastic. Btw, your voice sounds like Wheatley from Portal 2 game 😀

[@SCGSHOW]

🤣👏🏻

[@debkayemba3507]

Wow 👌 nice video

[@leratoseretsi5603]

Amazing

[@SCGSHOW]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@therealone8628]

I'm dealing with 8:58

[@jcymngo]

I want them to leave me alone!!!

[@SCGSHOW]

Do so by walking away!

[@EricSmith-gn7nd]

One text and I’m out. If they want u they will let u know. I don’t even ask them out anymore

[@SCGSHOW]

💯

[@catylynch7909]

AKA ... Who needs them???

[@akula9713]

If they want to be with you they will try to be with you. No need for mind games. Lovers are like buses, there will be another one along shortly.

[@SCGSHOW]

Amen 👊🏻

[@MorganWeazy44]

what do u do when a girl gives u signals she wants you to make a move but when you reach out she dont respond

[@hp2546]

That girl would be lying to herself. What she is interested in was playing hard to get. She wanted to test you to see how you respond. She wanted an ego boost so that way when you reach out, she can reject. This situation is where your absence will make her attractive to you because if you don't take her test, she wonders why you did not fall for her trap.

[@MorganWeazy44]

@@hp2546 i havent contacted her in a while but ill probaly run into her eventually we both go to the same college i aint gonna be no asshole or nothing to her im just not gonna give her my full undivided attention

[@SCGSHOW]

You did your bit. Thanks for Watching 👏

[@MorganWeazy44]

@@SCGSHOW no problem love these kinds of vids i have aspbergers so i cant pick up on social cues like the norm

[@Rajab25161]

Just back up and act neutral

[@redditcard9288]

she said she lost feelings for me and offered friendship. I begged and pleaded for 2 weeks and she got irritated and at last i told her we cannot be friends and its better if we stop talking (basically told her that I'm not gonna reach out) and she asked me not to break snap streaks. it's been 3 weeks now and she seems very normal about it, what're my chances? Also i asked her to reach out if she change her mind.

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

Hit the gym focus on ya$$$ never break no contact n move on bro shes nobody but your HIM remember that

[@tymills22]

Break that snap streak. She lost feels but wants the daily attention boost? Nah son

[@hardstyle8184]

Take the risk… don’t break no contact

[@topshotta8856]

Keep it P brother 🚶🏾‍♂️💨

[@rikkaushik467]

You made a mistake by giving her statement of you are available for her she will put her at ease, as she might think you would be keep waiting .

[@bubblegumwrap7813]

Why should you go back...lol

[@Rollacoastertycoon]

To smash

[@SCGSHOW]

Ha! Thanks for Watching 👏

[@Wolfhammered]

Can a break up do this same thing?

[@SCGSHOW]

💯

[@kendalette726]

What if they moved on with someine they actually like more?

[@SCGSHOW]

Good riddance to them

[@iamthestorm1004]

K-11 If your ex moved on with someone else Be thankful God closed the door on that former relationship Take the time to grieve the loss Work on yourself Don’t rush into another relationship Trust the process Trust God !!

[@karishort1891]

Poo on them! Better is on the way to you. Do yourself a favor and move on happily -- even if you have to fake it a while, eventually you will feel so much better ❤️❤️❤️

[@brujatSA]

Would you want a life with a person who wants better? Instead of being with a person you'll feel enough with?

[@francoismarc3]

@@karishort1891 This is the most real advice ever.

[@igordrm]

All theses videos about absence is about reacting to others, and feed your own ego by imagining others confused about your absence. Then, what seems independence is a subconscious clinging to someone else. So wrong. If from someone's point of view you have driven yourself away, it must be because you heard the call to meet yourself and you need to focus.

[@dmfdaz9339]

I didn't. I hung around, hoping she would change she was OK for a couple of weeks, then would show her true colours well, now, she has to deal with no reaction to her constant baiting.

[@SCGSHOW]

👏🏻👍🏻

[@Deeznutz864]

The lengths people go through for attention 😂

[@SCGSHOW]

For real

[@sj-md9mo]

✨💛

[@FaintAura]

What do you do when it's a coworker you want to pull away from?

[@SCGSHOW]

Speak to your boss

[@joleaneshmoleane8358]

Quit your job if your boss won’t handle it. People should always be able to quit their job without fear. If someone has worked somewhere for a year or more, and they can’t quit their job bc they can’t go without pay for at least 2 months, then they’re living beyond their means. Having too many bills to pay makes you a slave to whoever you’re working for.

[@CITYBEACHTV]

It’s absenCe

[@stevemiller8895]

Who are you trying to fool everybody is toxic name one person that you know who isn't toxic to some degree. You should reconsider your bulshit. Besides most empaths are very socially unreliable. Those will be the people that you would deem as toxic

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for watching mate