My Thoughts On Dating Guys

[@SebastianCastro]

Where are you in this crazy mess called love?

[@yammmyammm6828]

Sebastian Castro started dating again, hoping that this will work out well ❤️

[@bertberting3615]

7 years of staying single was hard for me and requires self control and self diacipline. I am 36. Seb, you are not going to dry up fast coz you are 28. So dont force yourself to create a dating vlog if you aren't comfortable. Just take one step at a time. You have followers too who stayed single for years and they got through with that emotional rollercoaster. So don't rush. You can do a lot more than you think. Things happen at the right time

[@sirlex7902]

Sana matagpuan mo yung guy na hinahanap mo. Walang perfect na relationship.Kapag may ka relasyon ka maraming mararanasang problema. Pero kayong dalawa handa sa lahat ng mga laban at hindi ninyo sinusukuan ang bawat isa tanda iyon ng tunay na pagmamahal. Love is the greatest thing here on Earth...

[@stevenkaramoy4293]

Sebastian Castro I hope you find the right one for the rest of life...no need to rush...just let this flow..right?

[@stevenkaramoy4293]

Sebastian Castro you are the last person i'm gonna ask for dating advice...but, you are the first perso i'm going to ask for date... ☺

[@SebastianCastro]

Hey Bimb, I’m normally all over the comment section an hr after uploading a vlog, but I’m actually at the premiere of Nakalimutan ko ng kalimutan ka rn. Si Fifth Solomon yung direk dito. It’s his first time directing a full feature. So I’m here bc one, I’m all for supporting a friend and two, I love watching Alex, my vlogspiration. And any movie with her should be fun. So I’ll just respond here and there til the movie starts. If you want y’all can check my IG stories for snippets of the premiere.

[@jadewarren674]

I can say, I really like that line where you said.. " I'm looking for someone that I can have a connection and will the father of my kids..." I still believe Seb you'll meet the right person in the most unexpected way. So, no rush...

[@jhesabiaga308]

Hey Seb. You're not alone. A lot of people are actually feeling what you're feeling or going through right now (myself included). I've had enough expectations and yes they just lead me to disappointments, but hey, you always learn a thing or two with those experiences so I say you just continue what you're best at, which is making awesome videos for us, your Bimb, and if someone comes along, don't be in a rush but never close your door. Just go along with it. If it works out, then that's great and if not, move forward. Life goes on. Single or not, you can always count on us, your Bimb. Love you! 😊😘

[@larry3638]

I have been with the same person since 1981... you get use to thing, you don't fuss with the little things and live a comfortable life. I love watching everything you do.

[@itsonlyjulian]

Urgh i know the feeling, its so annoying trying to date and not knowing that to share and when to share the stuff about your life. its all about timing something I can never figure out, moving to quickly too slowly, even to how quickly or not to quickly to respond to messages. thats another thing, i think social media and dating apps make it so much more competative, everyone wants the best and isnt willing to give the person they are with a chance, some thing there will be somebody better just a few swipes away.

[@oncebluemoon]

Seb I'm glad you posted this video, I think in the world of social media people have a tendency to jump into relationships to have something to talk about, and off social media to feel worthwhile as a person. And I don't think you are in either of those categories personally, but I think talking about dating, relationships, what your experience has been for good and for ill might still be worthy to tell (if you feel like you should and want to most importantly). Your desires are maturing as you are and I guess it's partially knowing your audience and knowing yourself. I wouldn't change to meet audience expectations and I wouldn't try to make something happen for your audience or be pressured by them to feel whole. I felt great resonance with the trust concern you have, and it surprised me. While you are in conflict, use that single time for yourself so you are ready when Mr. Right comes along :-)

[@SebastianCastro]

oncebluemoon That put a smile on my face. I guess I’ve put some thought into the kind of channel I want to be and above all I just want to be the guy that keeps it 100, a “this is me” kind of channel. 😊✌️

[@burovcoursenot]

I am 23. Some may argue I am still too young. Yet I totally understand everything. EVERYTHING you just said. And I am at a place where I feel the need to get connected at a deeper level, far deeper than sex and the "rainbows and unicorns" stages of dating. I'm not in for the thrill, because that doesn't make me happy anymore. I'm in for stability and the long-term. Unfortunately, not everyone in my age bracket feels the same need. Even more so, people my age are more inclined to adoring bodies than venerating minds and souls (did I just say "venerating"?) So yeah, that sucks. Not rushing, yes. But I hope to find someone who understands.

[@jerleypimentel3293]

Your not alone in that predicament , just enjoy life and if someone comes then it will , more travel vlogs seb, i will be there next month

[@Jesusmendoza_]

Yesssss. New video from you!!!

[@SebastianCastro]

Lauterio This is me trying a completely new editing style. The “nearly no editing” editing style.

[@Jesusmendoza_]

@@SebastianCastro not bad. But of course anything with you in it is already great.

[@jaymarkrondael2288]

Love watching all your videos ❤️❤️❤️

[@chriszainne98]

Hey there Bimb ❤ 👋, time will come for all of us.. baka na traffic lng sa EDSA... ahaha 😂😂😂 this vlog is so calm.. feels like we're talking one on one .. Spread love... love yah Bimb

[@MrLourie]

Hello Sebastian, nice thoughts. One can not find a man in places where men go for a hook-up. Serious relationships require sincere steps to one's goal. You, yourself, are certainly a prize for any man willing to share his life. You're young, there's time.

[@mdelapena]

It's almost 7am where I am. I'm just waking up and came across your video randomly browsing. Everything that you said struck a chord with me. I literally put my phone down and just listened to what you were saying. I totally feel you on just finding someone to connect with. Sex is just a side benefit (though an important benefit). #OperationConnect ...i just came up with that lol.

[@earlsotoya04]

Hi baby Seb. Nice Vlog Again! Sa Wakas May Bago na Ulit.

[@Mackdaknife6669]

I'm open Sebastian! Come to Chicago :)

[@jomsm.1495]

I just turned 29 and I have the same feels right now.. You feel lost - relationship wise and career wise, maybe... And all you want is to find happiness and not be alone anymore.. At 23 I felt invulnerable and that I have had and experienced everything I wanted, and not settling to anyone thinking I'd do that before i turned 26 because I still can... At 26 I thought I can still have some fun and experience life to the fullest, I know I can still find someone I can settle with once I turned 29... Now that I'm 29, I've regret investing my last 2-3yrs to short fun times instead of investing in a life long possible partner...now it's a struggle because everyone around you wants short fun time and you could barely find someone whom you feel you can settle with for the rest of your life..oh well life goes on 🤷🏻‍♂️ sabi nga nila..ang buhay ay parang isang malaking quiapo, mtatagpuan mo din ang snatcher na nanakaw ng puso mo..lol 😂

[@SebastianCastro]

Joms M. Natawa ako sa movie quote LOL

[@jomsm.1495]

Sebastian Castro hahaha thanks.. Sana bukod sa ngiti..pati puso mo ma-nakaw ko.. Walang bawian..hahaha 😂 wag mo lng ako pa-tokhang please... Love all the way from Malaysia 👋🏻 🇲🇾

[@edchanful]

Its true :|

[@ivanbolo187]

loving this guy

[@jopercalixto4598]

Hi seb, i don't know what to say with this vlog. So, im just gonna say hi. 😅 Cz i have not voted for dating vlog. Haha but, whatever your content is, I'll support. 😀 You were one of my inspirations on coming out of the closest (well atleast to my immediate family, close friends and relatives.)

[@SebastianCastro]

Joper Calixto Awe well coming out is a big step for anyone. Congrats on making it happen, Bimb

[@aironjay2286]

I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago, just 20 days before my 20th birthday, if I can recall. He was my first serious boyfriend. We lasted for 1 and half year. It was hard dealing with it for a few weeks after. It was sad, and as time goes by, I tried flirting with guys again online, but unlike before I met my ex, I really don't know how to engage with people that I like anymore. It just.. it's traumatizing, to the fact that I'm already planning to see someone new that early again. I'm so afraid to get attached with someone. I don't know how to handle it. I don't know how to escape it. I only let time heal it for me instead. Ugh...

[@SebastianCastro]

Airon Jay LeoRuler First break ups are normally the worst. Everything feels its most intense, but what you said makes sense. There are some things only time can heal. This too shall pass.

[@leaharevalo3774]

Go lang habang bata ka pa, as long as masaya ka o nagbibigay ng kaligayahan sa kanila..Everyone deserves to be blissfully happy or to be joyful..buong puso at kaluluwa..Catholic ka right?

[@edchanful]

25 n still trying to dating guys after 3 years ago broke up, the hardest things i have ever learn in relationship, learn sthing in life at the same time and its hard to find someone again. The circle keep happening over n over n over again, dont know why.

[@clawiarguelles12]

I have crazy asthma as well :/ hope you get well soon :)

[@jhozeffaloisk.delacruz8381]

Get well soonest, seb! ❤️

[@luischristopherbertulfo7241]

it will just come..just wait a little longer...just enjoy every bit of ur time and be happy 😊😊😊😊

[@garygary9310]

Thanks for your honesty and don't worry you will find a guy when you least expect it. In USA where I am from it's hard to find a guy for a boyfriend the gays here just want to mess around and move to the next guy. I also hear this from my gay friends. Hope this is not the cases in the Philipines. One last comment air conditioning is the best thing ever invented.....I hate the heat..

[@adrianofsydney]

You’re just holding back because it has been a habit. Just let it be. If love will come it will come. You will open up at the right time like a flower.

[@nigelcresworth5739]

i apreciate d honesty

[@ken306809]

Hey Seb , Just a quick ...Health Note..... your Asthma could be a allergic reaction to something in your house like your laundry detergient , I never had a problem with it before , or it could be cause by a pet or dust from a vacum .

[@SebastianCastro]

ken306809 Hmm noted. I should try a check up soon. The meds have definitely helped tho.

[@danielchavez9062]

Stay happy and wait for your lovelife to come....😊😊😊😊 God blessed!!!

[@nicholaschristian.7864]

I would love to date you, but you may not be on my league 🙁 I wish you the best 😘

[@annethbermil8574]

Please More videos with Jesi 💟😘

[@joy8181987]

I feel you are still missing Ryan.I can feel you love him deeply before and it is not easy for you to forget everything between you and him.

[@ghennel06]

First and foremost, get well soonest... I know how hard it is to have asthma... It's terrible!!! I also have asthma as a kid but it went away growing up, but I have some occassional episodes though... Kaya be well... With regards to dating, you're okay... I mean you just take your time.... It will happen in the right time... Hehehe... ☺☺☺

[@joepelchannel23]

I know you're alone, but it's okay someday you will find someone special for you.❤️ Sebastian. I hope you will become okay

[@lokirafiki1300]

time will come you'll be happy again....

[@fralipilapil8691]

....you dont need to look for love.....love will find you.. youre cute your young your smart...youre still allowed to make mistakes... sabe nga youth justifies a lot of things including mistakes... make it now... it could be rewarding later youknow...

[@geliusmendoza]

Rest your heart and love will come to your life once you're :)

[@geliusmendoza]

Ready*

[@jadelamparero4102]

Love you, Seb. Hehe ☺

[@kendunlap2636]

I have been in a relationship for 25 yrs, my love of my life. it came out of nowhere. A random night I met him.

[@bulletsoundphmusic5196]

Hi Seb!!! 😅😅😅✋✋✋

[@cjedits113]

I want to meet you Kuya Seb..😂😆☺️ I owe you..

[@robertomercado754]

nice video! 🤔

[@crisangelobola7990]

Omggg. I failed again. I’m sorry bimb I’m quite busy 😩

[@SebastianCastro]

Cris Angelo Bola Hehe ok lang Bimb.. 6pm every Tues and Thurs na sya

[@crisangelobola7990]

Sebastian Castro okieee. Noted hahah. Thurs kaso 8:30 pm end of class huhu

[@erwinbautista9401]

I have the same issue, it'll take time to open up and introduce the real you when you're dating.. Dating is complicated.. So many things you like to say but a lot can just ruin your potential connection.. Ending up, not opening up at all until the dating stage just fades.. As usual, nothing happens.. Still single.. tsk tsk

[@arjayretos]

Stay single and flirt eveyone you like.. Gawain ko

[@sky0416]

Hi Seb.. 😊😊😊

[@badal1571]

Love your videos.. Actually I'm in love with you

[@badal1571]

Love u so much umaahh

[@badal1571]

If i get your kiss then it will be the best fellin of my live

[@lokirafiki1300]

time will come S.C.. you'll be happy again....

[@popoydelacruz5350]

"The right person to pop into your life." Dang it, man. Hayst. At 28, i am waiting for the "pop into my life guy", you know someone to talk with, be with. Hahaha 😅😂 Nov. 07, 2018 2:39AM LoLs

[@joshuafrancisco8846]

Amother video before to sleep 😊😊😊

[@SebastianCastro]

Joshua Francisco What part of the world do you live in? Bc it’s only 6pm in Manila.

[@joshuafrancisco8846]

Im also in manila I have work tomorrow 5am need to wake up by 3:30am 😔☺

[@SebastianCastro]

Joshua Francisco Wow ang aga.. parang call time lang sa movie

[@joshuafrancisco8846]

Yes need to complete atleast 7 hours of sleep 😂 anywy enjoy the movie ill promise to watch the movie on thursday support for fifth ❤💕

[@SebastianCastro]

Joshua Francisco Yey for the support. Rest well and gmorning soon.

[@jasfercastor5887]

Hi Seb :)

[@edbertsolano2082]

I totally agree with you! When I was your age.. I ended a 6 year relationship... and now I’m 33 focus is taddaaaaa career hahahaha...

[@edchanful]

Yesss so true, im good at giving advices but me im useless by myself

[@anonymouswriter1043]

uhm? there are also lot of discreet bi there haha... well if you ask me i am too... me and my boyfriend is not out yet... we tell our friends... but deffinitely not the parents... 😥😇

[@Reyden_Hormigas]

😍😍 hi seb haha

[@romytuazon4325]

Hey Bimb!

[@michaelcostodio5760]

listening your LOVE hiSTORY, #good

[@iamfazchan]

kung mga ganyan ka gwapo na bbroken pa, paano pa kami..

[@ogieneabril8976]

Hi Sebastian... i have a question. If you and BJ Pascual are single, will you go out and date with him? hehe im sorry for asking. I just find you both cool.

[@fajarcahyo8667]

Hi ka

[@pagayjr.carlitou.3980]

Hey Bimb 😎😍🙋‍♂️😝

[@inigohiroki]

Yung parang kausap mo lang si Seb sa higaan habang nag dating advice siya. Hehe 🤣

[@harveysmeets6638]

urgghh hi to anyone! (smiling sarcastically)

[@lezziel8234]

Date na lang kayo ni Steven Bansil..ayiiieee 😊

[@pjtejada1871]

Why you so gwapo 😊

[@soethuyanaing1094]

Love u

[@jerleypimentel3293]

Travel more around the world and maybe ull find the one ur looking for

[@jhondylabian7279]

♡

[@benjamindeguzman5571]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@SRJJ-gv9zu]

👍👍👍

[@francisn.osoriojr.5487]

Tau nlang hahhahah

[@humanaean]

#truetruetrue not everything nman is all about sex. Hello old soul here. Not everyone is sex lang nman ang hanap. Atleast now may isa pa ako kakampi. Hahaha.

[@joelmunoz8571]

Would u want to go on a date with me🌹🌹🌹😁

[@vinfernandez9187]

Pa like naman ng comment ko seb, why so gwapo...feeling in love with you.. 🤣🤣

[@luischristopherbertulfo7241]

sebteb tandem..hehehe

[@BOKsOo95]

cute 😍

[@petefernandez3334]

Sebbie ❤❤❤ date me!!!!!!!!! Hahaha

[@kailasingole4963]

aap ke chane wale bohot honge usmese mai bhi ek hoo I love you

[@kurtwassabi8478]

Nice hahaha

[@bobbyvalentine5715]

Date me 😊

[@ejcaparida4966]

Find the guy who hiv negative

[@soethuyanaing1094]

Like plsss

[@GeronimoGarcia-h4m]

Sebastian. Would. U. Date. A. Trans. Real. Women. If. Not. Why.

[@inigohiroki]

Yung parang kausap mo lang si Seb sa higaan habang nag dating advice siya. Hehe 🤣

[@inigohiroki]

Yung parang kausap mo lang si Seb sa higaan habang nag dating advice siya. Hehe 🤣