When you're happy, you like the song, When you're sad, you understand the lyrics
@myyhero48734 жыл бұрын
Haha right 😖.... I understand like 123
@icechan52664 жыл бұрын
Huh?
@michellesexton49634 жыл бұрын
Pp
@queenn19944 жыл бұрын
Forreal😕
@jjh97yearsago174 жыл бұрын
No joke
@shay364 жыл бұрын
I wanna share my story for anyone who is hurting right now listening to this song. A few years ago I had a man who I was in love with more than I ever thought I could love anyone. I thought we were perfect for each other and when things fell apart I was completely broken..I wanted to die rather than be alone without him. But after some time passed I realized just how bad and toxic that our relationship really was. And now I have a really, truly perfect relationship with a man who loves me and only me. Just because you haven't already found your perfect partner doesn't mean they're not out there somewhere. Never lose hope and never give up. Being at rock bottom means it can only get better. Stay strong, lovelies ❤️
@abby583 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your message :) this meant a lot
@ryleahill9263 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@boogneckne80683 жыл бұрын
❤
@shiningblue9613 жыл бұрын
Thank you >w
@janan11053 жыл бұрын
Stay strong 💪 thank you so much 💓 💖
@drippy_hehe99523 жыл бұрын
Hurting someone's feelings is as easy as throwing a rock in the ocean but do you know how deep it goes?🦋💔
@savageking93133 жыл бұрын
This is facts
@divyachauhan3613 жыл бұрын
This is so deep💜
@queenminaj11193 жыл бұрын
*Whos cutting Onions in here* 😭🥺
@sunigaming17883 жыл бұрын
😭😭😫😫I crying I have a broken heart
@bryanbrott44103 жыл бұрын
All the way to the floor of the ocean. I know what its like.
@thesaver44813 жыл бұрын
Good for her. She went through a lot of bullshit with her exes but she came out of it and realized her own self worth in the process. She's definitely an inspiration to us all.
@icespiceate6 ай бұрын
Hmmm
@Jackjackgolf423 жыл бұрын
“You never realize how much you love something until you lose it”. Remember that.
@Jackjackgolf423 жыл бұрын
@Shaz_Smile YT wdym you got me 15 likes?
@Jackjackgolf423 жыл бұрын
@Shaz_Smile YT how did you get me the likes?
@Jackjackgolf423 жыл бұрын
@Shaz_Smile YT ok
@party123272 жыл бұрын
I like my crush. He don't like me back Idc I know i can't get anyone
@Purvisvarietyoflife Жыл бұрын
You can still love and lose it and that's perfectly ok. Not everything you love needs to be recovered especially if it's toxic and you're losing a part of who you are because of it. Sometimes the best way to love is to know when to let go and find peace with it. Love should never come at the price of losing who you are
@charleysobye965 жыл бұрын
I’m proud that I let you go but at the same time I’m still craving your affection😭💔
@jolacey56834 жыл бұрын
I'm proud that I let you go but at the same time I'm still craving you affection😂💔
@blueorchid76904 жыл бұрын
I feel you but I wished he'd give me his attention like I gave him mine
@graciegreen23484 жыл бұрын
I was listening to a Reese’s add while reading this
@midnightandso-on11174 жыл бұрын
Currently struggling with the same! Keep your head up, the cravings will subside
@dalilahflores194 жыл бұрын
Omg i so feel this 😞
@ifniallnoticesmeiwouldfini26694 жыл бұрын
I AM VERY RELATED TO THIS SONG "In 2 months you replaced us".
@myapapaya35254 жыл бұрын
Same 😖
@kamrynraper43053 жыл бұрын
I love this song
@explisitt3 жыл бұрын
oof he replaced me the day we broke up-
@madisongilliam95013 жыл бұрын
@@explisitt Damn I’m sorry
@explisitt3 жыл бұрын
@@rem5041 oh girl you deserve so much better :(
@charity_loves_creepypastay78325 жыл бұрын
I thought that this song would make me sad and miss my ex or something like that, but actually it's helping getting over him, and now I believe I'm very close to the point of getting over him 😌
@kimengland22314 жыл бұрын
👍
@wavy_savage23444 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@rhealynestropia43733 жыл бұрын
So true♥️
@Mymediteraneankitchen9 ай бұрын
You will never get over him because you’re still talking & thinking about him ❤
@rosee87854 жыл бұрын
Listening to this knowing my worth, walking away from something that I knew that it wasn’t for me. The fact that I can listen to this without crying but actually filled with happiness is amazing ❤️ guysss it takes time but you will get through this!
@alishacollins18663 жыл бұрын
It's so hard... wen will the hard part be over
@symv03 Жыл бұрын
To whoever reading my comment. Please stay strong. Control your emotions or it will control you.
@felipee1245 ай бұрын
That's true
@kaylen84594 жыл бұрын
The fact that he was never mine, hurts me
@willow.mp13514 жыл бұрын
Same
@daisysgone4 жыл бұрын
You’ll find someone who’ll look and recognize you and give you all his love and affection. Don’t give up. You’ll find love. Maybe not now maybe not soon but it’s gonna happen. You have my support. ❤️
@kaylen84594 жыл бұрын
@@daisysgone ❤️❤️❤️
@kaylasbiggestfan85483 жыл бұрын
Same here :( You Will find true love someday ❤️❤️❤️
@gisselle773 жыл бұрын
This comment attacked me
@meganangus43844 жыл бұрын
this song hits on a completely different level💔🥺
@jolacey56834 жыл бұрын
this song hits on a completly different level 💔
@palashroyr4 жыл бұрын
@@jolacey5683 u copied her
@kamillebailey85964 жыл бұрын
Right 💔🥺
@brianaalaniz48234 жыл бұрын
Ikr! 😣..
@Bravi-BS4 жыл бұрын
G
@amandabucci68803 жыл бұрын
Thanks for creating this song Selena. This is exactly how I feel.
@BritneyVianna4 жыл бұрын
I dedicated this song to my past self. A self sabotaging alcoholic who couldn't get out of her own way and lost everything. I had to finally hate the person alcohol turned me into to get sober and find out what a beautiful soul I actually am. I thank God i found my way out of a very dark place so many people get trapped in and die.
@millielender15353 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you I can’t even express my happiness for you.
@dizzaster6983 жыл бұрын
Im with you been sober for a while and I’m never turning back
@moanapooh97263 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you. People like you I look up too as a 15 year old🥰
@Papoatheius2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is powerful I never thought of dedicating this song to myself💕
@kalhiviarjohnson75062 жыл бұрын
HALELUYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!
@davidnash65855 жыл бұрын
My girl left me without a word I would like to know why so I can move on
@kimengland22314 жыл бұрын
Right ...to atleast have closure
@wavy_savage23444 жыл бұрын
U should let go
@kylesherburn94224 жыл бұрын
You should try your best to move on either try to find someone else or speak to her but hope you sort stuff out bro stay strong chin up bro
@hvnnixxr4 жыл бұрын
Even if you do not know why, just know, she had a loss, not you. You're more important than she ever will be.
@bravo18864 жыл бұрын
Yo my gf cheated on me after 2 years of me doing everything I can to not only help her but defend her. She cheated on me idk how many times, lied 24/7, and would hurt me for no reason then after all that tried to have me jumped 2 and kicked out of my place. Trust me knowing why hurts more even tho she never really told me why.
@kami.nguyen4 жыл бұрын
I hope the person reading this has a good day everyday. I’m proud of you for making it to 2021. No one notices your pain last year, you’ve hid it like a champ. You have a brand new start during 2021. You’ll grow out of your depression and show depression who’s boss. I’m so very proud of you for coming this far. You’ve overcame your depression, anxiety, etc. I hope you know how important you are to everyone. No one would know you in these comments, but I see you, I see your pain, you’re loved, you’re cared for. You matter. Have a good day. ❤️
@luigiovermario3253 жыл бұрын
💖
@rubelsnalsangma70083 жыл бұрын
Tnq buddy
@SabitaRaiRai-s9o10 ай бұрын
😢😢
@izzy-qc7se4 жыл бұрын
Leaving someone you thought was the one only to see they damaged you more than bring u up is the worst feeling
@gagamonster1049 Жыл бұрын
Yep just went through this
@soulstealer64115 жыл бұрын
This song makes me remember the one person I loved and I moved and we never seen each other for years
@shayleephillips88024 жыл бұрын
Did you guys meet back up or did you never see them again.
@sterlingthomas35787 ай бұрын
Anybody here in 2024
@kajinsoul85433 ай бұрын
1 up 👆
@b3th7423 ай бұрын
❤
@HauwauAddau2 ай бұрын
I'm late, but here I am❤
@ivonnefigueroa43642 ай бұрын
Here///
@LansingchonKasarАй бұрын
Here❤
@uyen-thyngo15983 жыл бұрын
I feel way happier as a single, building my empire and enjoying my own presence. Sometimes being alone can help you grow in its own ways
@lindsaybrown18614 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I put myself first and realized i was more than what you treated me. I hope you find true happiness , I’m proud of myself for finally letting you go. 🤍
@manalsiddiqui68523 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@GanKh-g2jАй бұрын
We are proud of you sister ❤
@ZaiAnthony165 жыл бұрын
IM really in my feelings rn im so tired of coming to other people defense but then they dont do the same for me Im not loved and its fine but Ill love myself i used to be suicidal but now ima be strong for myself
@roses67994 жыл бұрын
Dragonball Super Be strong! 😃😃😃
@sophiethomas50504 жыл бұрын
thancs.
@sophiethomas50504 жыл бұрын
slow the Name 😂😉😉 😂😁😉😂😂😂😁😁😁😂😉😁😂😉😁 u a
@sophiethomas50504 жыл бұрын
Ejvubnzbnd
@sophiethomas50504 жыл бұрын
K songs of
@mercygrace22863 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite song, not only for the beat of the song but because of the lyrics! I live the lyrics!
@marilynrangel4034 жыл бұрын
My husband of 3 years we were together in total 7 years 4 days before our sons 3rd birthday he told me he cheated and got the girl pregnant he then told me he filed for divorce and then after a week of me leaving to go back to live with my parents and my 2 children he moves in with the girl he cheated on me with 😔 this all happened last month and I still hate the fact that I don’t hate him
@sophiemuder4 жыл бұрын
Marilyn Rangel I am so sorry! IF I MEET HIM IMMA SHOW HIM MY FISTS AND HE WONT BE ABLE TO TALKK IN THE NEXT CENTURY!!! 😌😡
@marilynrangel4034 жыл бұрын
*SophieGamez* thank you so much I’ve been so hurt cause I have no idea why I still love him but it just hurts everyday
@nykolereynolds13694 жыл бұрын
He will never know how much he hurt you until someone does that to someone he loves like his daughter or himself then he'll regret what he did to you
@marilynrangel4034 жыл бұрын
@@nykolereynolds1369 that’s true
@JasonDobb4 жыл бұрын
I feel you. My wife of 11years back in 2018 left me and our daughter at the time she was 7 she was living with another guy wich I thought was my friend. Then she got pregnant came back in 2019 lost the baby left again for 2 months then came back I was working on forgiveness. Then in March 2020 she left again had a baby kept it from me until last month she tried to add the kid on our insurance policy well that came to me in the mail so I found out she finally came clean said she had still been sleeping with him and me she don't know who's kid it is so she says. She says she wants to stay married with me but she is still not home... I'm hurting but being strong for our 9 year old now sorry for the rant I have never really got this out until now.
@dreamyyjollyyy64095 жыл бұрын
"in two months you replaced us, like it was easy"😕sis you're definitely talking to Justin Bieber
@dreamyyjollyyy64095 жыл бұрын
@@SidneyyCaseyy she never said she was talking about him either 😕
@brittanybarrett65754 жыл бұрын
Dreamyy Jollyyy it’s not our business 🤷🏼♀️
@misty37994 жыл бұрын
Ya
@leafyleaves15864 жыл бұрын
Brittany Barrett of course it is his business he’s her brother.
@tlebron84264 жыл бұрын
It’s like Victoria not telling us her secret...
@Jessica-et2lv4 жыл бұрын
One of the saddest love story is loving someone so much that we start loosing ourselves. Choosing to stay and choosing oneself is both valid but whatever we chose, why it is both painful? Why is love so painful?
@malakelhbabi36053 жыл бұрын
Love is only painful with the wrong person
@RabelaniRamulondi7 ай бұрын
the saddest part is when you don't hate them, after all they have done to you
@sapphlacson80164 жыл бұрын
Here's to all the people who have just accepted that they are not in a relationship that's good for them and are trying to gather the strength to leave.
@marissasrecovery204 жыл бұрын
this song helped me get through hard times by helping me realte to let go of the people who just hurt me
@daydreamerimaginer51424 жыл бұрын
This songs never fails to make me *emo*
@ysabellepelenio38424 жыл бұрын
this song just reminds me how great it is to be single
@gagamonster1049 Жыл бұрын
Yes relationships can suck a lot
@celesteburgos66855 жыл бұрын
Best song ever we love you Selena
@legalfictionnaturalfact39694 жыл бұрын
HER best song ever. Which she didn't write.
@baddie7894 жыл бұрын
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 I thought she co- wrote it?
@selener94523 жыл бұрын
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Julia Michael and Selena Gomez both write this song and both are relatable to this song
@selener94523 жыл бұрын
@@baddie789 yeah she writes it
@legalfictionnaturalfact39693 жыл бұрын
@@selener9452 nah, they sit and talk to songwriters and say they wrote it when really it was a loose "collab".
@galinaatanasova1779 Жыл бұрын
Listening to this while breaking off the deepest yet toxic friendship i have had hurts like hell. I just hope I heal and get over this girl someday and the memories stop haunting me
@natalie.bruch.3 жыл бұрын
This feels like a Valentine’s Day song 💗
@athenkosiklaas8 ай бұрын
This song has a way of reminding you of someone you've lost. Even when you hear their voice you are filled with?? Time heals all wounds even the ones inflicted by you. Finally found you.welcome back young man.Dont lose yourself again.
@loganelfreecs99804 жыл бұрын
I know this is probably a song about a romantic relationship gone wrong. But I can relate this to my family situation. I came out and our relationship was ruined after that, I went into that situation blindly, thinking they'd accept me as I am, but sadly I was wrong. I have stifled myself and who I am to better appease my mother, putting her and her feelings first even though she didn't return the favor. I set fire to my last reserves of energy just to help keep my brother warm, even when there were days when I just wanted to curl up on the floor and cry. My step-father wouldn't support me fully, clinging to his own words because my chorus wasn't his. These people were supposed to give me the world, a place to stay safe and sound. I knew they weren't being kind or healthy, but I ignored the signs of emotional abuse because I didn't want to think about the fact that my family hated me, that they felt I deserved to be emotionally abused. They know how hard I work to do everything, but they mount even more pressure on either by having me attend to their needs or placing higher expectations on me than I could cope without sacrificing myself. It's taken 4 years to come to terms with the fact that they have been hurting me and even right now, as I write this comment, it's a difficult reality to adjust to, to finally rip off my broken rose glasses. But I don't deserve to be treated the way they treated me. I deserve to put myself first and to nurture my forest and to sing to my own songs. I deserve to lose them, so I can find myself and someday, I will work up the... courage? Anger? Spite? To hate them and in the process learn to love myself, as I am. I am a beautiful, unique and precious person and there are people out there who love me. They just don't share my blood. For now, I'll just loop this song and remind myself that I am worthy of love. Edit: It's been two years since I wrote this comment. Now I live in my dream city, studying things I have adored my whole life and attending an LGBT+ group where I am safe. It took two years of saving and a month of being homeless to get here. But I did it. I got away. I said goodbye to us and hello to me. I'm healing.
@joanneieremia09884 жыл бұрын
i felt the same way and i've been in ur shoes before..what i do usually is lock myself in my room and play a meaningful song to blast all those abusive, pressuring words out...but now i feel like my family understands me more and i'm reaching their expectations slowly but nearly. i hope u do well and don't ever feel like life is worthless, your a meaningful person by ur comment so don't let urself down
@loganelfreecs99804 жыл бұрын
@@joanneieremia0988 Thank you. I wasn't expecting anyone to notice or reply. It was just a bit of venting, so it's good to know my story mattered to someone. Thank you.
@angelicdevil64894 жыл бұрын
My god. This is the definition on sacrifice. And in the end, that was strength. It all was strength, but in the end, you realized it. People care. Only people who deserve nothing of you judge you for who you are and what you feel. If I could do one thing right now, something in realistic measure, it would be to hug you. We care. So care about yourself. And remember... *Love yourself. You are worth it.*
@loganelfreecs99804 жыл бұрын
@@angelicdevil6489 That... That hit hard. I needed to hear that. Thank you
@angelicdevil64894 жыл бұрын
@@loganelfreecs9980 No problem. *YOU* *DO* *YOU* Because... *YOU* *ARE* *WORTH IT ALL* Stay strong. We have your back. Stay focused on being yourself and not letting others pressure you. Love yourself. Because we all love you too.
@maggiemccauslin10843 жыл бұрын
This came out RIGHT after me and my ex broke up and listened to it endlessly now I could care less about what happens and my heart is ready for someone new ❤
@bryanbrott44103 жыл бұрын
Really?
@pierrettebell1052 жыл бұрын
How long did it take to heal ??
@maggiemccauslin10842 жыл бұрын
@@pierrettebell105 it took time... but I'm ready for someone new... someone better
@jeea183 жыл бұрын
I feel happy now listening to this song. I'm proud to say I've moved on and loving myself even more.
@graciebroadbent23873 жыл бұрын
I did it.... I let him go and it hurt so bad ... but I did it guys 😭 and now I'm better - I love myself so much- and for anyone who needs to hear it - you DON'T NEED them- you need yourself 💞
@shaarmagazine2 жыл бұрын
Never mind you can do it
@bahtijeveliu21255 жыл бұрын
It's beautiful
@Lanestik11 ай бұрын
This song came out after I had broken up with my toxic ex and moved across the states to get away from him. He started dating a girl right after we broke up, he was abusive, and everything wrong with a man you can think of but I was in love with the version I created in my head. This song helped me accept it all. The very next month I met my soul mate and now we are married with a beautiful baby boy. Things get better. At the time I didnt want to live and now Im so happy and have a life worth living.
@oscarazul768211 ай бұрын
Thank you you're story is a inspiration I'm going through a breakup but it feels right stay blessed ❤
@EEEC20232 ай бұрын
🤥 liar
@ginalynsalubod62742 жыл бұрын
Letting go of the person you love the most, it's never been easy 💔💔💔 But you need to keep going in life even without that person in your life.
@Norhan.Khanova3 жыл бұрын
When you're healing you'll be proud of yourself while you're listening this song. But when you're still suffering of breakingup you'll immediately cry! I'm glad and proud of myself ❤️ be proud too ❤️
@anonymousduh14244 жыл бұрын
"In two months you replaced us Like it was easy Made me think i deserved it..." This hits hard💔
@maribel-andree19983 жыл бұрын
"The bravest thing to ever do is to let someone go who wouldn't care losing you" My grandfather, rest in peace
@arianagrandesbiggestfan9774 жыл бұрын
This song made me cry :(
@clouds40144 жыл бұрын
Damn all these comments are mad depressed
@gabriellaglorie4 жыл бұрын
XD FOR REAL
@seaturtlesrcute4 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@danzi27694 жыл бұрын
Preach
@Puppetmaster1234 жыл бұрын
Ya
@Adrian-h14 жыл бұрын
Don't swear some of us are little.
@lizgrayckowski22662 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband in February 14 yrs together this song get me every time I lost him to alcohol. Everyone has a different understanding about music. For me this is his song
@xxinaayaxx19692 жыл бұрын
Who’s cutting onions in here🥺🥺😭😭
@sheilyquero5013 жыл бұрын
"in two months you replaces us, like it was easy" felt that so hard
@carla-iz7ph4 жыл бұрын
Essa música é super importante porque fala exatamente sobre amar alguém mais que si mesma, você dar tudo pela pessoa e não receber nada em troca, é você se esforçar tanto pra "suprir" a falta de reciprocidade que sequer percebe que tá amando sozinja. Isso vai te desgastando até você estar emocionalmente fraca, quebrada. E você consegue sentir a dor, a decepção, e a sensação de alívio. E o sorrisinho que ela dá no final é tão libertador, como se estivesse se livrando do peso que é se doar tanto pra alguém e só ser machucada.
@bryanbrott44103 жыл бұрын
What does that mean?😕😕😕
@avagarcia18 Жыл бұрын
@@bryanbrott4410 fr like i don't understand
@bryanbrott4410 Жыл бұрын
@@avagarcia18 what is F.R. suppose to mean?
@avagarcia18 Жыл бұрын
@@bryanbrott4410 it means for real
@jaybirdstudios48994 жыл бұрын
It's sad but as something who went through a breakup I love the line "I needed to lose you to love me"
@fendygong40775 жыл бұрын
I even heard this in the radio
@robertgoodman93814 жыл бұрын
Itz Vampire Dream Sans :3 oh yeah me toooooooooooo ooooooo
@candewls.88234 жыл бұрын
Same
@angielina74994 жыл бұрын
SAME
@ednaramirez87614 жыл бұрын
Nope
@thisperson64814 жыл бұрын
Like in the 1980s 🤣🤣
@zara47914 жыл бұрын
I needed to loose him to love me first, I knew how painful it was to ever think you would hurt me the way you did but it only brought me closer to myself and who I am must really care about and it was me. I didn’t love myself, I didn’t know what it was to put yourself first before anyone but now I do and that’s why it hurts, it hurts because I spent what feels like forever going around the situation that I forgot I existed too and that I also needed attention from me. I decide to loose you a million times then ever loosing myself. I love me. I live for me.🤍
@manalsiddiqui68523 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's important to do things for your own self.❤️
@lorimasterson35064 жыл бұрын
A month ago my boyfriend broke up with me after more than a year of being together. Tomorrow is supposed to be our 2 year but I'm just feeling lonely all the time. Edit: so thank you guys for all of your support and I want to update yall and tell you that I got over him awhile ago and now I'm dating my bestfriend.
@sanjaybahadur47744 жыл бұрын
U deserve better dear!!🦋🦋
@brandonfoster44694 жыл бұрын
Thank you all
@brandonfoster44694 жыл бұрын
Case my BFF got cheated on
@brandonfoster44694 жыл бұрын
Now I'm gonna beat his ass
@thisperson64814 жыл бұрын
Aw that sad i hope you feel better :(😭😭😭
@l.a.gwinin38333 жыл бұрын
She grew up a level on this song good job only ppl can really understand this song is whn you reach this point with someone slowly falling out of it.
@charlescarter20737 ай бұрын
Strong song right here. Its just crazy how people can do u.
@ebonypegasus98647 ай бұрын
this song is so brilliant,. a work of genius. and the lyrics were spot on.
@germanrodriguez40913 жыл бұрын
This song helped me get through a breakup from a toxic relationship.
@agofurewatson79968 ай бұрын
Feels good to know... 💪
@CUtiiemeh3 жыл бұрын
When I first heard this song back when she first released it, I didn’t really enjoy listening it to but after my breakup I stumbled across this song again. This time I actually listened to the lyrics and damn...it does hit harder when you’re actually experiencing the pain. My ex did got into another relationship shortly after we broke up (2 months to be exact). I was so hurt because we were together for almost 4 years. I honestly thought he was my soulmate. I was in so much pain but 8 months later, I think the breakup was actually a blessing in disguise. I did needed to lose him to love me. I happier but that does not me that I don’t think about him anymore. I still do, here and there but I know I deserve better. I didn’t get any closure from him but I am moving on with my life just as I should. Time does healed most pain, but some you just kind of learn to live with it. Some pain will never be healed....but THAT IS OK!
@animegirl94963 жыл бұрын
Facts
@randomgirl674 жыл бұрын
This song just makes me question my living and make me upset and I've never been in an relationship
@skylatruskey32223 жыл бұрын
“you promised the world and i fell for it” damn felt that on a personal level LOL
@RealKpondem963 жыл бұрын
Was in fake friendship for good 6 yrs which started in 2012 and ended in 2018. I was really down with thoughts and heartbreaking but this song motivates me and fixed me back stronger again. Thanks to #SelenaGomez cause this song was like for me #LoseYouToFineMe
@yuitachibana61454 жыл бұрын
I thought this about my ex. I thought I was loving myself finally in my new relationship, for two whole years. And when I realized I didn’t know what I thought I knew, it all came crashing down and I was empty again. I was worried about my ex I had tried to forget about, and texted him anyway. We have things now that we disagree on and it feels like there are too many dealbreakers for anything to ever work but I think we’re both realizing we’re falling in love again, and it’s the most confusing thing on the planet. I don’t know what to do and going slow and steady and seeing if it goes somewhere feels like a promise waiting to be made and broken. I don’t think I need to lose him to love myself. I think I need to learn to love myself regardless of whatever boy I like thinks of me or wants me to be to him.
@taegichika182 жыл бұрын
I want to meet someone who makes me feel the way music does.
@pierrettebell1052 жыл бұрын
Me2
@Mysteryhorse27412 жыл бұрын
Me2
@sophiawheelihan76714 жыл бұрын
I had a best friend and she loved me and I loved her but when I ended our friendship I realized how much I hated myself when I was in that friendship it's crazy. But I'll love her forever for everything she has done for me
@e.r3300Ай бұрын
Almost 2025 and I’m still here❤️ what about you?
@tearealdavis22123 жыл бұрын
I’m over my ex and then I hear this song . It’s like God was confirming the way I felt. Love this song
@silviabenavidez178 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful song. Live Queen Salena so talented
@besitos.4adrii4 жыл бұрын
I love listening to this song but it makes me sad of all the memories I had🥺💔
@gloriaglorystar94744 жыл бұрын
A Beauty of a Voice Lovely Such Courage and ❤️ ..... Happy Love Day🌹
@paigemurnighan36273 жыл бұрын
This song describes the relationship I had with my narcissistic ex...man he broke my soul and now im broken trying to find myself again and im left to pick up all the broken pieces of me he left behind 😞
@Newname-m1o7 ай бұрын
This song can be about so many things, its so many emotions trapped in one. When I'm happy, I sing to this song. When I'm mad this song is calming. When I'm sad, I know what the lyrics mean. It can be about your bf or gf. But Friends can break your heart too.
@savstellner9754 жыл бұрын
🎶 I needed to hate you to love me , I needed to lose you to love me🎶 Those lyrics tho 💔😥
@lilisecretworld3 жыл бұрын
I listened to these while sleeping, my heart melted. ❤️
@breannaweber74434 жыл бұрын
Y’all do you remember when Hobi sung this. My heart!!!!🥺💜
@laurenswalve850 Жыл бұрын
Grieving over the person you THOUGHT you knew, definitely hard to do but once you fully let them go and what they did, it’s so freeing
@stephanieroberts75222 жыл бұрын
This song hits so close to my soul. I was with a man for 10 years, married for 6, and have a 2 year old daughter. He cheated on me with an ex gf from 13 years ago who's also married with 3 kids, and chose her and her kids over me and his daughter. Her and her kids now live in the same house that I brought our daughter home in. In all the sadness this did to my heart and soul, I learned to love myself again. I may be taking all the hits for my daughter to be raised in a positive world regardless of the situation her father put us in, but I'm so much happier as a woman and mother! It still hurts so f**ing much to see the man I built a life with since I was 20 moving on with an ex and her kids in my house so easily, but it's me and my girl! And my girl is going to see how happy and strong her momma is! Selena Gomez, this is my anthem! 💕
@Theunknown-sn2ic Жыл бұрын
My song right now! That feeling of been empty, when you actually loose yourself for long for someone when in fact the only person who needs loving is yourself.
@anniejoice31333 жыл бұрын
Proud to be a Selenator ❤️😘🥺
@gihannacoq84973 жыл бұрын
THIS SONG BRINGS BACK OLD MEMORIES 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@jenniferhernandez79074 жыл бұрын
Love this song😌❤️
@chrisjanes70404 жыл бұрын
2:39 hits different
@bryanbrott44103 жыл бұрын
I love it also.
@andilempofu60796 ай бұрын
She really did put her emotions in the song 😢😢 am sure Justin really did cry after hearing it
@mysterypotatocat2 жыл бұрын
3:18 those last 3 piano notes sound way too sad. 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔
@it_makes_me_think_of_tie-dye2 жыл бұрын
Anyone who is struggling right now in these hard times, please keep your head up, you might have hit rock bottom, but, there is one way to get out, don't focus on the past anymore, look up to the future, it gets better, stay safe y'all
@awesomekidlol39534 жыл бұрын
The song for some reason reminds me of my grandma passed away at the age of 77
@awesomekidlol39534 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@Mira_knowswhat Жыл бұрын
The fact that when you this song helps you when your sad and she’s talking about how she let go of someone she love to love her self
@foxxymiko4 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of a Relationship (I wasn't dating) I had. It was an online relationship and me and her were really get freinds but one day I messed up and she hated me and called me a clown. Got me really depressed that summer. Def gon do this song as a glmv
@foxxymiko4 жыл бұрын
@Juan Coleman ye ^^
@roseelariyu50122 жыл бұрын
I want to tell everyone whos hurting....I know ur hurting rn...feeling like u will never be able to go on but u will....the pain will go...go within, allow it to flow...remember that their inability to love is not ur fault and has nothing to do with ur worth to recieve it. U are worthy of love...u are worth the time, money, and love....and tho it hurts, it only shows ur ability to love deeply which is a beautiful thing...go within, do the healing work...forgive them for their actions from their pain...forgive urself...u did the best u knew how.... let time heal....u will rise stronger, better and badder then ever before. I promise u I know bc i did. I love u and Im proud of u, keep going! Keep loving and dont let them or anyone else stop u. Much love!!
@annamaria22634 жыл бұрын
I understand this so much, my ex never showed he loved me until i blocked him on everything and hated him because he ruined my fucking life.. and now my friend got me to unblock him and now he keeps asking for me back but im in a relationship and i am very happy and this boy that i am dating now loves me and shows it every day. My ex never did that.. he left me on read and ignored me when i needed him, and he replaced me a day after we broke up.. it took me a year to move on.. i never thought i would love again but then my boyfriend came along and saved me.
@masteredgamer26214 жыл бұрын
When I am sad I sing this . Really inspirational
@MusicalMarzy4 жыл бұрын
Ah,finally I'm in the phase of loving myself and saying to me: you know girl,he never deserved you,I love you and you don't need him or anyone else.So yeah people,it was my hardest love ever,but here I am telling you you can make it!You will lose him to find you
@ampere51723 жыл бұрын
Yeah you are right!! I feel you girl 😊😊
@Donii_WiinzАй бұрын
I will listen to this song on repeat until I can say goodbye for good to the person how is NO good. Such a beautiful and inspiring song.
@oreniosepovici144 жыл бұрын
Low key my fav song
@coffeeu11232 жыл бұрын
SELENITA IS REALLY A QUEEN 👸 She deserves to love and to be loved❣️
@fabianf-l12694 жыл бұрын
This song makes me wanna cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@NJ-ycmtsu10 күн бұрын
Perspective. Hate is not love. Hating someone in order to love yourself is sad. Ultimately one makes one's choices. Easier to blame others than look at one's bad choices. Gifted voice & chooses to use it to spread the message of hate & self worship.
@yuichi3013 жыл бұрын
When we are young we cry as loud as we can and hope to get peoples attention, but for some reason we now cry as quiet as we can and hide in our rooms hoping no one will see us like this, very big difference 💔
@forbiddenangel289 ай бұрын
Here again after another break up. Time to love yourself and live❤
@valsfilms92004 жыл бұрын
I love Selena Gomez!!
@puffywolf23229 ай бұрын
thanks for giving me the chance to start loving myself ..it's been long overdue. with a smile..we letgo. with a smile.. we close our chapter. :) Thanks