Self-Love: the magic pill to everything! - Christine Arylo

[@yamnehroncero4238]

Here is a poem I wrote the day I realized what self-love meant : In a feeling of self-love, A mesmerizing white dove Comes down from above To make my heart release Its feathers of inner peace Within my kingdom's walls, As the pain of past falls And the joy of the future calls. Her wings give me grace And her flight brightens my face. I've never know what it means to love myself until two days ago where I finally understood it. Self-love is absolutely from my perspective the most important, valuable and crucial gift you can give to yourself to be fulfilled, healthy and happy. I've felt ever since early childhood a profound emptiness in my heart. For as long as I can remember, I've had a deep rooted belief that I was unloved which created that emptiness, loneliness and void. The pain, confusion, sadness, madness, mistakes, hardships, errors, shame and humiliations I've felt and done in my life can directly be attributed to my lack of self-love. And now, as I write this, now finally knowing what it means to love oneself... I just feel compassion. I'm smiling at my old self with kindness. How could I have know to do any otherwise ? I just didn't know what loving myself meant or felt like. I am so grateful that I can FINALLY love myself.

[@tarjasovay]

Wow, this is amazing to have such insight! Thanks for sharing it. I decided to dive into the Path of Self Love that Christine founded this year and am really looking forward to deepening my inner journey around loving myself and healing those toxic and painful areas that lack worth. May peace be with you always!

[@AnOceanState]

over-staying is a failure; not being honest about the relationship is a failure; letting someone disrespect you in your inner circle is a failure. I totally agree.

[@gerardng6633]

i thought i had selflove but when i fall in love with a woman i did love her more than me and when she left me i was desperate then a friend of mine just gave me this book of Cristine and i hv started to lovemyself really now i feel very happy and i enjoy life thank u very much christine for teaching us how to love oneself now i can say loudly that i love my self

[@nickyhamid]

One aspect of Self Love is when you can see someone else's joy and feel it as your own.

[@503gracee]

Simply being assertive and knowing our own worth, who we really are and... loving it!

[@LaRosaDeLosVientos]

I think self-esteem come from self-love, appreciation in oneself is celebrating who you are feeling proud of being You and that's all Love, great sharings here, awesome interview, Gold incredible wisdom here,

[@khoney32]

Kristina Honeycutt here, dictating this. I think You're my Doppelganger. I'm on that same path of self-love and self-discovery. Thank you for being you. I'm going to have to find out more about what you are doing. I feel like I'm looking at a mix of myself and my sister Jennifer. Love the dares, the theories, the uplifting and encouragement of Self and Others. Much love!

[@SusanSteinway]

society teaches us that certain things are supposed to happen at certain ages and if they don't we feel there must be something wrong with us. Love that you dated yourself!

[@adamallen5386]

Thank you Lilou Mace and Christine Arylo. Awesome video that is changing the world in a more loving way. Be love everyone and let's bring about heaven on Earth with all of humanity now. We are all one, bless you both. Love from Adam. ;-)

[@linda8274]

I have been with a narcissist for 3 years, just recently got thrown out...again. Anyway I understood what you were saying, so I guess he didn't destroy all of me. Thank you for doing the work it takes to show others the way.

[@kazuemai3795]

He has not taken anything away from you. You are your own fountain of love, creativity, strength and inspiration. Go and find your spirit, Linda. This is the right time.

[@SuperDrumsforever]

Self love is #1. You cannot give away to others what you do not have. All love is self love and all hate is self hate. We love ourselves not in an arrogant way but through grace. When you judge another your body literally emits toxic chemicals and these chemicals stay in your body all day long. Likewise loving thoughts emit powerful hormones thatboost yourimmune system. This is scientific fact if we are willing to investigate.

[@SR-mv2mf]

Random note- I love that painting in the background

[@mnikcevi]

This is EXACTLY what I needed today! Thank you so much! Christine you are such a blessing. Thank you for posting! Much love!

[@alinewestfall3909]

You are amazing Christine...helping so many women out there. I give you a lot of credit for helping others through your experiences. I plan to read your books and will tune in later to share my thoughts. All the best to you!! :)

[@jessicaskyy1116]

This was awesome actually. Thankyou Christine for this💯💙

[@apoorvasrivastava8304]

we can transform relationships by giving them love, then moving away from the draining relationship fr a bit, so letting go is a part of the process. Some times people try hard to let go!

[@nar6ika]

thank you for this video, right on time! I was looking for this kind of interview! Merci lilou

[@Suwutae]

i could definitely relate to this

[@RenaeSauter]

Wow... I love this :) So true!!!! If we did just what she said...What a world it would be!!!

[@yamnehroncero4238]

February 13 the day of self-love ? Wow, what a coincidence :p The next day, the sunday of st-valentin's day, I watched the video Healing the Father Wound and that was the last piece of information I needed to really understand self-love.

[@bbrose66]

excellente vidéo, merci Lilou, tu es un amour ! ce thème m'a beaucoup parlé et encouragée à persévérer dans cette voie : in love with me !!!

[@victorgomes7585]

Thanks ladies:-). Great stuff.

[@loriannlouise]

Great interview ,loved this !!! tks for sharing xo

[@sweetloveelmo]

~ Respect, Love & Light.

[@Persidaify]

I absolutely LOVED & enjoyed this interview :-)

[@rxgub]

Such a great interview!

[@priscillaisham]

Thanks for this! I needed it :)

[@THEMAYQUEEN1]

Brilliant video ♥

[@TheGranti7a]

Inner circle symbol is a good metaphor.

[@stellailyayev8861]

Great interview

[@michelletulumello661]

what do you do if you have children with someone you are in a relationship with where he's good for the kids, but not you? if your kids don't want you to leave but he is not fulfilling you. If staying would be bad for you and leaving is bad for the kids?

[@kazuemai3795]

That person cannot be truly good for your kids if he is not loving you. Please go to a wonderful therapist and make light inside yourself. You will absolutely make the right choice if you put in the work necessary to find out the truth about your relationship with yourself and that person. Kids cannot benefit from a good relationship with the other parent if you as a mother feel bad. It is impossible.

[@michelletulumello661]

thank you, that's great advice and what I am working on now

[@kazuemai3795]

Good luck! www.elephantjournal.com/2015/09/an-empowering-mantra-for-any-tough-moment/

[@carolinevanstaveren7966]

There's nothing as bad for children as a mother that's not happy! I've seen both sides: my mother who stayed, for the kids, in a marriage without any love and my own relationship whitch I ended because I didn't love the father of my children anymore. I think, I just gave a very good example for my daugthers to love and respect yourself.

[@michelletulumello661]

Thanks guys. This has given me a lot of insight. To him our children are not the product of a loving Union between two people. I see now that he got into the relationship to have children and once that goal was accomplished saw no more need for me. it's a tragedy but the best way I can probably avert its negative effect is to get the hell out. He's not cruel or abusive just completely uncaring and businesslike, and totally without empathy. So I guess if you could say that is cruel then he is cruel. We haven't had anything to do with each other except for co-parenting for 4 years. He says he doesn't care if I date someone, but the man I love is too decent to come to the house and be with me because he doesn't want to get into the middle of it.

[@Mihir_Dwi]

very nice talk, thanks

[@ThriveWithLouise]

beautiful story thanks for sharing :)

[@maxinethomas8853]

great subject

[@musicbykg]

wow! beautiful!

[@YtubeUserr]

@Persidaify Don't you think if people know what to expect, it would be faster for them to find the gates and cross them? We all could use some little help from people who have already gone further ahead in the path. I feel i've personally gone past gate 2 in the last few months (i so identify with what Christine says... the toxic relationship with a 'sociopath' / 'narcissist' included) but i don't see any gate 3 in sight yet!

[@vscorpionxiii]

this girl is amazing and inspiring :]

[@chapisara01]

@ideas2words I respect your opinion, however I believe you missed the complete point of this video. Hope you watch it again and maybe you'll get it. Thank you LIliou. I've always loved myself uncoditionally, which has at times been hard for others to understand, but this video has helped me to find a way of telling some of my friends how much they should love themselves. xoxo

[@cmelanso3371]

by goly I think shes got it!

[@PancakeBooty04]

WHAT ARE GATES 3-5!! TELL ME PLEASE! :P

[@YtubeUserr]

Lilou, you forgot to ask what's behind gates 3 and 4!! A rare mistake as an interviewer.

[@lemostjoyousrenegade]

INDEED, Nicky! XOXOX!!!

[@shaktiveda7041]

Be careful Christine, your statement to be the "Rockfeller of love" might be incorrect...I know what you meant to say, though, to my opinion, you should call things the way the really are...the name Rockfeller and love do not go together in the same sentence.

[@ideas2words]

Three therapists. A six-figure job. An MBA. A big house. Oh you POOR baby. I want to hear from someone with REAL problems to overcome. C'mon. And then you had the nerve to put down everyone who has to work to survive as opposed to pitch their latest book. "I could be marketing cheese someplace." You are in no position to tell anyone how to live.

[@bwhsamick]

@URABombShell What you ask for is what you get :)

[@mikenel1986]

Times I just want to watch it go washer Yoni with soap and water that is the highest form of fling to me anyway it's very energizing

[@cymonebreathe]

This lady is a little too over-powering. I loved the message, nonetheless.

[@Persidaify]

@YtubeUserr I don't see that as a mistake... you have to find out for yourself I guess ;-)

[@geezloueeze]

It is hard for me to listen to her message because it is so out there and hyper. It kind of kills her credibility for me.

[@Suwai0303]

That's one way of looking at it ;)

[@geezloueeze]

Ha, ha. What way do you look at it? I haven't watched this vid in awhile.

[@iishuffle28]

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[@cmelanso3371]

just remember no one is perfect. self love is a journey .we cannot reach perfection. we shouldn't expect ourselves to be perfect nor should we expect others to be. you are reading too much into her body language/vocal tone. I do the same thing sometimes when watching people on the tele, ;but I think her message is very good and pure.

[@zimjun7]

Maybe she wasn't supposed to ask due to time on the show and to persuade the viewers to find out more about Christine's epiphanies, if you will......