Sex and Anxiety: Tips for Overcoming Performance Anxiety

[@DAClub-uf3br]

I am under the impression that i think to much when i am attempting to be intimate. My experience is that my partner feels responsible when i am unable to preform thinking they are not desirable.

[@anthonywatts7696]

Same here

[@Ryu-v8r]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

[@TruthTriumphs777]

The worst feeling is when our partner thinks it's their fault. That cuts deep

[@joshua2615]

Yes it's the worst

[@ProtoIndoEuropean88]

@@Ryu-v8r you're everywhere, shut your trap

[@zane8p978]

I never had any problems with my partner of 6 years. After separating, I noticed how deeply overwhelming my performance anxiety became. It's hard to know if others will validate you sexually even remotely close to how your long-term partner did. Thank you for the insight, going forward being more honest and open with sexual partners will become a priority over simply "chatting sexy"

[@RyuShinto]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform, and fear of failure. If you have been sexually traumatized, it is even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being, at any time, can do. Even sexually traumatized people can do it, if they are by nature, loving people. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. What is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and one can love oneself and others physically.

[@dreamer27-h8k]

In all my 32 years, it never occurred to me to pause or use a safe word. I kinda expect to be frozen and get done. Thank you😢

[@ProtoIndoEuropean88]

You call it performance anxiety, I call it sexual depression. You simply lose the joy of doing it, or the joy of starting. Nobody is realizing this and this is why there is no cure for this yet. Best thing you can do is to do things that make you feel good, sunlight, drink water, good night sleep and exercise will improve your joy, and then will improve your sexual joy for better erections.

[@jimmyjohhn15]

Whip it out, "anxiety POPS UP" , come as you are, "HANDY dandy". I love all the puns in this video!

[@RyuShinto]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform, and fear of failure. If you have been sexually traumatized, it is even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being, at any time, can do. Even sexually traumatized people can do it, if they are by nature, loving people. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. What is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and one can love oneself and others physically.

[@RyuShinto]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform, and fear of failure. If you have been sexually traumatized, it is even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being, at any time, can do. Even sexually traumatized people can do it, if they are by nature, loving people. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. What is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and one can love oneself and others physically.

[@rainnon578]

Beautifully said. There is a huge difference. 👏👏

[@RyuShinto]

@@rainnon578 Thank you :)

[@callamhw]

Problem I've had for the last 18 months, so thank you for this information and perspective 😌

[@durece100]

Why not wear a three-hole ski mask(silk type) to reduce social anxiety disorder? This isn't for robbery, it used for lower social anxiety disorder, sexual pleasure, or just having sex with your partner.

[@RyuShinto]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform, and fear of failure. If you have been sexually traumatized, it is even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being, at any time, can do. Even sexually traumatized people can do it, if they are by nature, loving people. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. What is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and one can love oneself and others physically.

[@faithfaithiyke9688]

This is my greatest challenge now, am about losing my partner

[@Mrwisterks]

Well thinking that probably wont make it better

[@faithfaithiyke9688]

How can i come out of Sexual performance anxiety, am about losing my relationship

[@FrankRaucci]

Ed meds and Xanax

[@Zayday1993]

Are there any videos on sexual arousal causing anxiety like feelings instead of mostly pleasurable feelings but not from a characteristic view but an actual physical point of view like something going on in the nervous system

[@Ryu-v8r]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

[@twilightgarrison3671]

It’s just inhibitions it’s why I like to get buzzed before anything.

[@Ryu-v8r]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

[@juaquinsoria4339]

Like drunk or high?

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