Sex Before Marriage? Should You or Shouldn't You?

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THE BEAT by Allen Parr

THE BEAT by Allen Parr

Күн бұрын

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@mschurchgurl
@mschurchgurl 6 жыл бұрын
“You can choose your sin(s) but you cannot choose your consequence(s)”...enough said right there!!! Preach!!!
@piesho
@piesho 4 жыл бұрын
In other words: You can choose your religion but you cannot choose your consequences.
@joessj5
@joessj5 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@verocimil
@verocimil Жыл бұрын
I opened the video to continue watching, and exactly this frase came in. So powerfull!
@dopeblacktherapist
@dopeblacktherapist 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I just left someone that demanded sex before marrying me. Someone out there will be strong enough to wait. I needed this encouragement.
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Kristen Scott stay strong sister. I can assure you that there are men out there who not only have the desire but the self-control to wait. I am one of them and I have some friends who also are committed.
@dopeblacktherapist
@dopeblacktherapist 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so, so much.
@RapnuzeI
@RapnuzeI 7 жыл бұрын
You’re free to have your own belief, but you’re an idiot. If you think someone wont cheat behind your back when you’re married, you’re even dumber than you seem
@wahyuiswanto
@wahyuiswanto 7 жыл бұрын
she is very religious person... marriage is license to have sex
@avacadocap9591
@avacadocap9591 6 жыл бұрын
Cringey AF!
@Je_Dion
@Je_Dion 5 жыл бұрын
“We get to choose our sin, but we don’t get to choose our consequences”. Powerful statement, Sir. Thank you!! 🙏🏾🍃
@zek62482
@zek62482 6 жыл бұрын
I had premarital sex, and you're totally right about how it can make sex an idol in one's mind, which can ruin relationships that follow. Wish I had really known this stuff BEFORE I made my mistakes.Thanks Allen for this BEAT.
@shotarolee5021
@shotarolee5021 3 жыл бұрын
im an 18 year old male. Man, the desire for sex is pretty high but I wish to live a life that fears God and hates sin. Pray for me please
@GG2025-k4s
@GG2025-k4s 11 ай бұрын
Son, sexual desire is the greatest temptation of the flesh, but you will be successful because in Jesus Christ, everything is possible. Exercise, dance (even when no one is watching) , read, enjoy every minute and every creature including animals, plants, everything you eyes can see (that belongs to God) because everything is a creation and it is an extension of our Creator, you will learn to see the world thru his eyes by reading his word every day (the whole Bible, not just the NT), dedicate your life to understand the mind of your Creator, and then, you will find that person made just for you, God will be with you in your marriage and every step of your way, and your life will be always blessed by His presence. I've been married 32 years, and I know what I'm talking about.
@shotarolee5021
@shotarolee5021 11 ай бұрын
@@GG2025-k4s thanks. I needed that today
@skrinikarx2.045
@skrinikarx2.045 4 ай бұрын
​@georgeal3784 thank you. I really needed to hear this🙏
@ajunteburns6894
@ajunteburns6894 5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting till marriage. It gets hard some times (pun intended) but I need that match of a woman whos willing to wait and build with me.
@TheDisciplinedMama
@TheDisciplinedMama 5 жыл бұрын
Ajunte Burns 😂😂😂
@CarlosPerez-qg4xz
@CarlosPerez-qg4xz 4 жыл бұрын
The hard part if finding a woman who can wait until marriage. I live in Miami where the "easy" culture is prominent. That's not to say I haven't had sex before I have and it has been amazing, I used to be a playboy sleeping around with different women, but I gave that up along with many other bad habits.
@mathewsk437
@mathewsk437 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mikkim1595
@mikkim1595 4 жыл бұрын
@SPREADING TRUTH And when the world keeps suffering, you're the same person who's gonna ask " If God is powerful why would he allow this to happen?". It okay to be mad. But when you see the countless fatherless kids out there and the broken hearted women and men and men who were "slained" because of sex, maybe you'll question yourself again. That's just a few of the consequences. Animals don't even live like we do.
@mathewsk437
@mathewsk437 4 жыл бұрын
@@mikkim1595 💯💯💯
@joelvasquez2568
@joelvasquez2568 6 жыл бұрын
I love it when denzel washington hits us hard with the word of God!!!
@deefox35
@deefox35 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making that plain for me I knew he looked like somebody but I could not figure it out. 😅😅😅
@tenacious-e3o
@tenacious-e3o 5 жыл бұрын
Joel Vasquez 💀
@kandacegarmon7048
@kandacegarmon7048 5 жыл бұрын
OMG I just died 😂🤣🤣💀🤣🤣💀🤣🤣💀
@monaestewart4591
@monaestewart4591 5 жыл бұрын
..." 😂! ".....
@MJ-dz8dp
@MJ-dz8dp 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@pusongmanhid
@pusongmanhid 6 жыл бұрын
"You can choose what kind of sin but you can't choose the consequences" that's strong!
@FeleciaHorton-uy6yz
@FeleciaHorton-uy6yz Жыл бұрын
Amen
@brittania8969
@brittania8969 8 жыл бұрын
This is why sacred sex is has turned into something casual. It makes people unappreciative in relationships
@Tiffany-px2fp
@Tiffany-px2fp 4 жыл бұрын
Yep !!
@thediamondaffect878
@thediamondaffect878 3 жыл бұрын
Just wait until marriage. God will give us the strength ! 💪🏿💕
@real8342
@real8342 Жыл бұрын
Maybe you the strength
@dougroberts299
@dougroberts299 6 жыл бұрын
Amen. I agree with you and I know what the Bible says about it. What gets me if you tell people that sex outside of marriage is wrong they think you are an old - fashioned weirdo, a goody two shoe but it’s not just the younger generation that thinks that, a lot of older people, even some Seniors, feel that way. If you’re a believer in Christ you know it’s wrong.
@earlhayag7353
@earlhayag7353 7 жыл бұрын
I thank God for forgiving us even when we do sexual sins
@terrystarr4793
@terrystarr4793 5 жыл бұрын
I have been tempted by fornication, I am in my mid 30's and have a pretty lonely life, and have struggled with pornography. I see the damage porn can cause plus the pressures of life, mixed with the loneliness of my circumstances. I have been fighting well and holding on to Jesus Christ to my best, but I know my weaknesses and that the fight won't quit even when I want to. God bless you Allen Parr and for all the others in a similar situation, keep the faith, hold to the truth, and know who wins the war in the end.
@mercytreeministries5973
@mercytreeministries5973 5 жыл бұрын
Stay strong brother !!! Beating temptation has more glory than falling into it. God knows you and I are not perfect but he wants us to fight for righteousness! You are in my prayers .
@Ministry_of_Reconciliation
@Ministry_of_Reconciliation 4 жыл бұрын
Exchange your weaknesses onto Christ, for he took the sins of the world for you to go to him and in Exchange he will give you the strength in mind and spirit.
@Fatelvis2
@Fatelvis2 4 жыл бұрын
hold strong brother man try and find a peer group that do stuff you might enjoy
@lmanyathi7659
@lmanyathi7659 3 жыл бұрын
@Terry Starr. I also used to struggle with porn, but all that changed when I started to read and learn the word of God and wanted to follow the path of Jesus. As Christians it's our responsibility to follow Jesus everyday and that means to deny ourselves and take up his cross. Now I'm not saying that you don't learn the bible or follow christ, all I'm saying is we should keep ourselves busy with the things of God's kingdom and through doing that daily, we will have a change of heart and mindset. Also don't forget that it's Satan's mission that we continue to live a life of sin as he is always looking for people to devour, and accuse of not being faithful to God. So it's our best interest to be strong in God and his word so we can escape Satan's schemes and follow the path of Jesus.
@lmanyathi7659
@lmanyathi7659 3 жыл бұрын
@Terry Star. Have an honest and sincere prayer and speak to God about your struggle then ask him for guidance and to deliver you from your problem. Another thing is whenever you feel like watching porn, try and find something else you can do which you enjoy but is also not sinful, and find other activities to take the place of porn. Also if ever you fall back, don't feel guilty or shameful, God always respects a repentant heart and he doesn't want us not to approach his throne. After all he is a gracious and merciful God. Where there is a will, there is a way.
@italianstallion69420
@italianstallion69420 4 жыл бұрын
As a guy, the best thing to think about is how it can affect the girl your tempted to boink. She may feel loved during sex, but when you leave and you're giving your buddies high fives for popping your cherry, she may feel like she has been abandoned and thrown to the curb. Everyone is a person with feelings, and hurting them is not something you should want to happen. Also, this is how people are, so don't think I'm trying to sound cool. This is literally how many people think.
@TanyaKatherine
@TanyaKatherine 4 жыл бұрын
Very true and so well said! You are very aware of how girls feel and that is so rare. Its also good for girls to think about how being sexually immoral and having sex before marriage will make their future Christian husbands feel too. It will make them feel like they are always being compared to the past people, and make the bond less sacred and less special. So to hold that until marriage is so important. I wish I knew all this sooner.
@carlosreira413
@carlosreira413 3 жыл бұрын
Um, your handle makes your comment suspicious. Are you talking about your own experience?
@italianstallion69420
@italianstallion69420 3 жыл бұрын
@@carlosreira413 no I had a different name when I left that comment, but I still feel the same way.
@carlosreira413
@carlosreira413 3 жыл бұрын
@@italianstallion69420 I LOLed a bit that you answered me, so thanks. I was just messing with you. So, I would just point out that in the Genesis narrative, the woman was deceived and the man was disobedient. There's something in that message about our gender weaknesses.
@denissavgir2881
@denissavgir2881 2 жыл бұрын
Why would you mislead a girl into thinking you love her just because you have sex? It's important to manage expectations and set boundaries. To think that sex means love is just ridiculous. They're 2 separate things.
@patrisio3
@patrisio3 6 жыл бұрын
Soul ties are strong. I dealt with it and still dealing with it from time to time. When you are still thinking of sex partners that you haven't seen in 10 years or heavily thinking of a past sex partner that you had absolutely no attraction to other than just getting sex, you have soul ties. There are people who still think of old sex partners while they are having sex with their spouses!!! That's cold-blooded. It's the same reason why a woman won't let go of an abusive no good man....soul tie. Even though the devil keeps trying to get me to think of sex, it amazes me that when I allow Christ into my life I have become turned off and grossed out by premarital sex. It's like if I see a good looking woman with very little clothing, the old me would have tried to see if I could get with her to eventually have sex down the road. The new me says "Euuww!" and wants no part of her.
@chelseaibe3718
@chelseaibe3718 6 жыл бұрын
Your are blessed ❤🙏
@Carolina-gs6em
@Carolina-gs6em 6 жыл бұрын
very true on all of these points, i've been struggling with sexual sin but ive been doing so much better, just have to stay on the right path!
@pauljaikaran9790
@pauljaikaran9790 5 жыл бұрын
Finally! a Christan who is bold enough to preach on controversial topics.
@bonnieali5325
@bonnieali5325 8 жыл бұрын
Amen. Straight , true and hard hitting .
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 8 жыл бұрын
Bonnie Ali thank you Bonnie!
@raph1227
@raph1227 6 жыл бұрын
Half of these are related to God so it can't change my mind :(
@truthandpurposenexustapn8408
@truthandpurposenexustapn8408 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebeatagp i have a question if if me and fiancee is engaged and we had sex 3days before marriage? and yes everything you said is true and biblical and i believe
@rickosborne3641
@rickosborne3641 6 жыл бұрын
This Guy is one of the best, logical arguments, happy demeanour and most important the message from God that he loves and forgives you! Not a jealous hateful God who will throw you into a fiery pit of hell but one who will rescue you, guide and help you! I am not a Cristian but I get exactly where this guy is coming from! More More More PLEASE! x
@adedoyin3336
@adedoyin3336 6 жыл бұрын
Man he is one of the best .. i came across his channel and i'm stuck on it ....
@sol.p2206
@sol.p2206 5 жыл бұрын
I can relate with #5. I'm in a situation right now that the person I'm dating is not who I see my future with. I've mentioned on a number of occasions that since we're not married I don't want to continue having sex. And he says that's it only natural for anyone who's in a relationship to have sex because it shows affection for one another. I know in my heart that it's wrong so every time after I feel guilty and ashamed. It makes me feel like I've separated myself from God and that I'm a hypocrite. So I feel myself pull back from my relationship with God. I pray that I get out of this situation and find the one God intended for me to be with.
@s.t.e.l2140
@s.t.e.l2140 3 жыл бұрын
How is going so far . I’m struggling with the same thing
@flora5817
@flora5817 2 жыл бұрын
How is it going, I’m struggling with the same thing too
@sol.p2206
@sol.p2206 2 жыл бұрын
@@flora5817 I was surprised to see that it’s been 3 yrs since that comment. Well, I continued in the relationship knowing it was wrong and I continued with the sin. I begged God to somehow take this person from me because I couldn’t do it in my own strength. I prayed for Him to take anything that didn’t come from Him and was against His will for my life from me. But the years went and nothing changed. I slowly started distancing myself from God because of my guilt. Just 3 weeks ago the man I was in sin with told me he didn’t wish to continue a relationship with me anymore. He slowly distanced himself from me and then completely blocked all communication with me. I was so confused and my feelings over the years had grown intensely for this person. One evening a woman calls my phone asking why I had been persistently calling her husband of 23 yrs. I was in utter shock!!! The entire time he had been married to someone else and I had no idea. Not one ounce of suspicion NOTHING!! I’m still in disbelief. But after weeks of crying out to God asking why and how this could happen. I heard him say (not audibly) “ You knowingly continued this sin and for years I gave YOU the opportunity to end it but you didn’t and now this is the consequence. Betrayal,Heartache, anxiety, loneliness.” For 2-3 weeks it felt like I was going through withdrawals from this man. I yearned for him like never before. I believe it was a soul tie. Today I wish I had done it sooner, I chose to be disobedient and willingly go against God and now I’m suffering the consequences. But God is faithful and merciful. Ultimately my prayer was answered in a way I would’ve never imagined but it has been answered. Even in my own demise God has been comforting me and now I feel his peace over my mind and heart. Hope this helps anyone.
@lucidvex1277
@lucidvex1277 5 жыл бұрын
Im 13 and wanted to find out bout’ this, THANKS!
@bobman-li2xd
@bobman-li2xd 5 жыл бұрын
Lucid Vex same
@bigzrobinson587
@bigzrobinson587 5 жыл бұрын
Lucid Vex same
@kawaiisenshi2401
@kawaiisenshi2401 4 жыл бұрын
Trust God little sib, learnt this one the hard way. Not worth it in the long run God bless! P.s. whats in the world aint got jack on a life obedient to Jesus if the bible :) His ways really do protect you ❤
@zariahlafleurpowell7028
@zariahlafleurpowell7028 4 жыл бұрын
Dont give in Gods word does not conterdict its self... i was tricked the man i went with read something with me and said that it was ok for us to sex before marriage biggest mistake of my life make sure you get Gods word straight because saten will try to twist it
@queendee8207
@queendee8207 5 жыл бұрын
I was not aware of this either😰 Oh how shamefull.😟 no wonder ive never been married😭 Oh Lord Please know that i am sorry😭🙏🙇😭 i have no exuse for what i have done, Oh Father Forgive me for my foolish desires and feelings of lonliness😭😖😩😥😞😔
@wickededogirl
@wickededogirl 4 жыл бұрын
Awww I like how everyone in the comments is so supportive and positive unlike the people on his new video on this same topic❤️❤️❤️❤️
@fwMMVII
@fwMMVII 4 жыл бұрын
I know, right!
@winniekim5046
@winniekim5046 7 жыл бұрын
great... really terrific. God gave you a great talent in delivering persuasive words ....... indeed! and i think God's using you greatly because of your devotion and obedience to Him; I'm saying this because it surprised me that you were single for 40 years. God bless you and your family.
@hummelc
@hummelc 5 жыл бұрын
Well Said Allen. I wish someone would have told me these things in my teenage years. Our society makes sex so typical instead of the special act between two people as God designed it to be.
@Doctor-Stoppage
@Doctor-Stoppage 6 жыл бұрын
I fully believe all in this video. Soul ties makes a lot of sense.😨
@ChristinaAlau
@ChristinaAlau 4 жыл бұрын
God has forgiven me for sexual immorality. But like you said; can't avoid the consequences🥺 I was 24 when I surrendered to God, but I managed to form 5 soulties before that and I love them all very much. There's not room for not even one more man in my heart I think. Now I have been single for 3 years. Turned 30 this year and have decided to devote the rest of my life to Jesus, 🤍 I will always regret having sex, the worst part is I NEVER even enjoyed it or desired it... I think being married and have sex is a whole other experience though. So if anyone is reading this: DON'T HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE! God's commands is for your own protection. Bless you🤍
@aaronzziwa2625
@aaronzziwa2625 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@kevinarmes9804
@kevinarmes9804 4 жыл бұрын
"...God always responds to a heart of repentance..." Nice.
@AsweetAroma-b2l
@AsweetAroma-b2l 5 жыл бұрын
Been celibate for 5 yrs and i am waiting for marriage. And God made so that 8 don't remember any of my sexual experiences. I really don't remember i' so glad all glory be to God!!!
@jonathanyeong324
@jonathanyeong324 2 жыл бұрын
Hate it or love it - this is truth and it benefits us believers. Thank you for this video sir 🙏
@TanyaKatherine
@TanyaKatherine 4 жыл бұрын
It is also so sad that so many young men in their teens are rushing to lose their virginity when it is something so sacred to men too and men's souls/ soul-ties. I feel so much sadness right now and regret.
@wickededogirl
@wickededogirl 4 жыл бұрын
Awww I like how everyone in the comments is so supportive and positive ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@MollyHuffle
@MollyHuffle 3 жыл бұрын
The generation I’m apart of in my family have all had premarital sex. I on the other hand want to wait until marriage.
@adedoyin3336
@adedoyin3336 6 жыл бұрын
Hmm hence one should pray about these soul ties before getting married so as to closed all demonic doors ....
@sharonrivera8488
@sharonrivera8488 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message I just got out of this kind of horrible relationship. It nearly destroyed me. I asked God to remove the person from my life and God did. Praise God.
@femia9928
@femia9928 5 жыл бұрын
I believe the issue is an unhealthy preoccupation with sex and being unable to separate sexuality and identity. Culturally most people in this generation specifically in the west are inundated with sexual images and stuff quite early on in life and the pressure builds up over the years in ones mind. Then when it is time to date, it is as if the dating experience is not complete unless sex is part of it. My advice to Christian singles who want to please God is just know no man or woman can completely fulfill all your deepest needs, have fun pursuing your dreams, career, hobbies and enjoy your relationship with God. Fellowship with other believers if possible and stop thinking you are missing out because you practice abstinence. When God blesses you with a mate, you can have sex as many times as you want. No big deal :) however if you fall in the area of sex before marriage, pick you self up, remember God loves you and move on. Period! At the end of it all true fulfillment regardless of if you abstained or not comes from renewing your mind and being full of God’s love and peace by being full of God’s word. Blessings!!!!
@basradove8787
@basradove8787 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!💜
@AshtasticAcrobat
@AshtasticAcrobat 9 ай бұрын
Amen! ❤
@calebleung9
@calebleung9 6 жыл бұрын
I struggle with fantasizing lewd women and masturbation. Pray for me guys :(
@mibict
@mibict Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@rdabdao3535
@rdabdao3535 4 жыл бұрын
Praise God for your preaching of the gospel in relation to a very relevant issue. Glory to God!
@elmajack9043
@elmajack9043 5 жыл бұрын
the shame was so deep .n the convictions were so strong..i could not even pray .its not worth it.
@LifeIsGood49
@LifeIsGood49 Жыл бұрын
Sex before marriage isn't to deprive or rob you of sex, but to protect you and help you avoid disrespect. Coz the disrespect often follows you in a form of a person choosing to walk away like you didn't matter or a person feeling entitled to your body and your life(however that may look like-often times brutal), without haven't married you from the first place.
@sabrinapisa5324
@sabrinapisa5324 7 жыл бұрын
I did before :-( but no more
@mbalimthembu8305
@mbalimthembu8305 6 жыл бұрын
Sabrina Pisa I'd give you 1000 likes if I could 😊
@Christian_Girl120
@Christian_Girl120 6 жыл бұрын
I did too. I'm working hard to save it for the person I marry someday if I do get married.
@mar-lisakemp6292
@mar-lisakemp6292 6 жыл бұрын
Sabrina Pisa Bless you. I wish I never had sex and I pray for forgiveness for all my sexual sins.
@ym6548
@ym6548 5 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!! I’ve learned my lesson as well 😥😌🤦🏽‍♀️
@viewsopt1014
@viewsopt1014 5 жыл бұрын
I never did it
@PaulLaryea
@PaulLaryea 8 жыл бұрын
Allen your online presence is just inspiring. insightful videos, neat and content rich website etc. God bless you for using your gifts and talent to the glory of God and also being a light on the web. I have soo much to learn from you
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Paul. So glad we are connected now and I'm glad you are enjoying the videos. God bless you brother!
@michaelolagbaye
@michaelolagbaye 4 жыл бұрын
I love this guy!! He breaks it down so easy
@katehu7194
@katehu7194 3 жыл бұрын
I really meant to save but I caved to the pressure; I got curious. I have never felt so cheap when he threw me away. But, I learned my lesson. Thank you for this video :)
@SB-qe3tb
@SB-qe3tb 8 ай бұрын
So many great points. Some I hadn’t really considered. Fantastic, on the ball videos Allen!
@ZachLaneofficial
@ZachLaneofficial Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir. Ive got so much guilt and pain from my past of sin. Im happy these videos gives me a plan and hope to be more connected with God. Thank you sir and God bless
@tonikennedy9812
@tonikennedy9812 3 жыл бұрын
It’s difficult to inform older people that premarital sex is sinful because usually preachers preach on this and gear it to the young. I know many old or older “Christians” who are dating and having sex, or living with a lover, and when I try to send videos and sermons, they are about young people who have never been married or haven’t had experience in this area. Yes, I give them scripture, of course, but some who are in need of explanation and are not willing to believe the Bible and are not saved yet need a stone in their shoe. I know the Lord is the only one that can open their eyes, but it our job to witness
@kaybee2798
@kaybee2798 6 жыл бұрын
✨✨✨✨ *my body is earned* ✨✨✨
@andrewbritz4413
@andrewbritz4413 9 жыл бұрын
Amazing. I've just found your channel- thank you so much for these videos!
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 9 жыл бұрын
+Andrew B Thank you so much for the kind words. I'm so glad that you found the channel. I hope you enjoy some of the other videos as well. I also hope you'll take a moment to check out my website where you'll find blogs and a FREE eBook to download as well. The address is www.allenparr.com. Reach out if you have any questions about anything! God bless,
@TheSubwaysurfer
@TheSubwaysurfer 4 жыл бұрын
when I was single and made decision to be celibate God gave me the grace to hold out but I was labeled a homosexual by my peers.
@TanyaKatherine
@TanyaKatherine 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this was extremely helpful. Every young person needs to hear this...if only I knew this when I was 14, things would make so much sense. I wish I knew this years ago because it makes sense and is all true. Even just having sexual feelings before marriage. There was this girl I had a crush on in my all girls Anglican middle school growing up. I was obsessed with her and had so many of my first fantasies about her, I even wrote part of a novel of fantasies of being with her... and even now when I am with the man I want to marry I think back to that rush of excitement of liking that girl and comparing it to how I feel now and how much I will miss those memories and fantasies when I marry since I literally LIVED for those fantasies back then...sexual fantasies were all I had to keep me wanting to wake up another day and go to school. If I did not have sex in my mind or those exciting thoughts I just did not want to live at all back then. I was very interested in girls at a young age since I was at an all girls school from age 4-16. I loved looking at women's bodies and then I got into a relationship with a much older girl at age 15...and it was abusive and sexual and way too mature for me at that age. I see how small things like fantasies can lead to a destructive abusive relationship. Thank God I found greater attraction to males though in the end..I never thought I'd ever get married or have kids...I really do think that was God calling me at a young age to come to him and leave sexual immorality behind.
@AM-qv9yf
@AM-qv9yf 5 жыл бұрын
*The Battle for Purity Starts in Your Mind* “Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life” (Proverbs 4:23 NCV). Every temptation starts in the mind. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life” (NCV). The battle for sexual purity is won or lost in your mind. Any time you see people really messing up their lives, you can bet their problems didn’t start with their actions, because their actions began with their thoughts. They lingered on dumb thoughts before making dumb decisions. The Bible says this very clearly - and science backs it up: The way you think determines how you feel. Feelings motivate actions. To change your life, you don’t just work on a bad habit, the action. Instead, you work on what caused it - the thoughts that caused the feelings that caused the action. God says your thoughts control your life. This explains how affairs happen. First, you begin by accepting sinful thoughts into your mind. “What would it be like to have sex with that person? Is it so wrong?” You start having doubts, and you start fantasizing in your mind. You begin to think it’s harmless or it’s not. Your thoughts produce feelings. And feelings inevitably lead to actions. You then move into emotional, non-physical involvement. That’s when you start flirting. You start making gestures and comments, subtly or not-so-subtly saying, “I’m available.” Next comes the physical involvement. And finally, you rationalize your actions: “Everybody is doing it. It’s no big deal. We’re both adults.” Your sinful actions started when you accepted sinful thoughts into your mind. The Bible tells us in 2 Timothy 2:22 how to manage our thoughts before they ever head down this path: “Turn your back on the turbulent desires of youth and give your positive attention to goodness, faith, love and peace” (Phillips). The Bible tells us to turn away from lustful thoughts and turn instead toward something positive. That two-step process is how you break a temptation before it ever gets started. You’re thinking wrong long before you’re acting wrong. You stop the cycle by turning your back on those sinful thoughts and turning toward goodness, integrity, love, and peace. You’re not an innocent by stander to sexual sin. You have a choice. chat.whatsapp.com/LGnvRN3Iayu7dcp7ZOk2Hs
@yme3345
@yme3345 5 жыл бұрын
I love the paper part.
@johndubov6280
@johndubov6280 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! List of quotes in the end very useful
@boicejr8380
@boicejr8380 3 жыл бұрын
Wow this was such a good message with very good quotes, analogies quick to the point, and Biblical. I remember listening to a message from Chip Ingram and he used the two paper glue analogy. When I heard you use it it blew my mind. I love your videoes you have an amazing gift in teaching keep up the good work.
@SouthSideLadyWright
@SouthSideLadyWright 5 жыл бұрын
so very true... especially about creating ungodly soul ties. Thank You. Amen.
@emmaroggi4329
@emmaroggi4329 5 жыл бұрын
I also always feels same anytime i commit sexual sins.thank God for delivering me from it.
@MrEKEN7
@MrEKEN7 3 жыл бұрын
I find it strange that these days we need to give good reasons why we should obey God. When I was growing up in the 80s and 90s it was enough to say “this is God’s way- walk in it”... no explanation needed. Why? Because God was God. Period.
@BrandonMicheals
@BrandonMicheals 4 жыл бұрын
My fiancé who I waited for for seven years broke up after two years and I pray for her every single day I believe that God broke us up because we were having on marriage sex and God wanted me to get closer to him as my dad and I were seeing the rapture approaching I decided to get closer to God and actually pick up my Bible and start reading it she was I believe acting like she believed for the sake of my dad and I I asked God why I couldn’t get her out of my Head after six months and I believe I just got my answer.
@nathanielelijahlepe6406
@nathanielelijahlepe6406 4 жыл бұрын
Damn brother thank you for this amazing video !!!! I’m definitely subscribing !!!
@computernetworking3888
@computernetworking3888 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being real!
@barooosi
@barooosi 3 жыл бұрын
A good name takes a lifetime to build and only a second to loose 👌
@CBCH3575
@CBCH3575 3 жыл бұрын
That is ALL on Point‼️ You have said it all‼️✝️✝️✝️
@yes2542
@yes2542 7 жыл бұрын
Can u make a video about respecting parents and what it means?
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
I'll certainly consider! Thanks so much!
@erinbaker6537
@erinbaker6537 2 жыл бұрын
I am interested in how we can break those unhealthy soul ties
@j1nnienchrist
@j1nnienchrist Жыл бұрын
Prayer and fasting
@mphoaidoo1508
@mphoaidoo1508 4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS POWERFUL
@moniquem8581
@moniquem8581 4 жыл бұрын
Who is this guy...He explained this perfectly !!!
@biancam2460
@biancam2460 4 жыл бұрын
Please pray for me, I keep falling back into premarital sex and I really want to stop, I feel shameful most of the time.
@LovePatience32
@LovePatience32 4 жыл бұрын
Try focusing on learning and loving yourself, passions, hobbies, financial goals and realize your worth to be waited on by a special someone. Take time to get inner healing as well through relationship with Jesus.
@biancam2460
@biancam2460 4 жыл бұрын
@@LovePatience32 thank you so much for the advice🙏🏽I will create hobbies and prayer harder. It's not easy but it's worth it
@hetiabel6134
@hetiabel6134 4 жыл бұрын
Try to read the word of God more or watch more preachings daily that how i overcome all sexual immorality and am 1 year celibate ..
@Thewheelsonthebus-1611
@Thewheelsonthebus-1611 7 жыл бұрын
Nice video. I like when u show biblical scriptures to show what ur talking about
@BritAlaina89
@BritAlaina89 5 жыл бұрын
Great message!!
@joeyacmilan
@joeyacmilan 5 жыл бұрын
Keep up the great work bro
@DB73834
@DB73834 4 жыл бұрын
All good points.
@tink8391
@tink8391 3 жыл бұрын
I was not married, having a relationship to the same man for a long time we disided to to get married I asked God to forgive me and I do feel God gave me a chance, we had kids too and was very sick with my last child but God saved me I really know it was wrong, not being together with him, but in the way I was I needed to be married also so my children see that it is important too I knew I needed to start listening to God and follow his commandments
@0326hkim
@0326hkim 8 жыл бұрын
Finally soemthing very practical and with reason on premarital sex
@raph1227
@raph1227 6 жыл бұрын
What do you mean?
@JehovahnieSaintRose
@JehovahnieSaintRose 4 жыл бұрын
The paper analogy!!!! WOW
@trueabby1162
@trueabby1162 6 жыл бұрын
wow this was a very interesting topic ... made me analize things better.. thanks for the upload...
@Ben-br1bu
@Ben-br1bu 6 жыл бұрын
I always understood it that having sex with your partner IS marriage. Everything else is just a ceremony. If not why does paul say: "What? know you not that he who is joined to a harlot is one body? for two, says he, shall be one flesh." (1 Corinthians 6:16) "one flesh" which is the reason for why they should not be divorced according to Jesus: "Therefore they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder." (Matthew 19:6) Additionally look at the "marriage" of Isaac: "And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death." (Genesis 24:67) No ceremony whatsoever...
@hannahg159
@hannahg159 6 жыл бұрын
That's a very good point and one that I've rarely heard a pastor talk about. Thanks for posting.
@pookahchu
@pookahchu 6 жыл бұрын
But Jesus said to the woman at the well, "You are right when you say you have no husband. You've had 5 husbands, and you're not even married to the guy you are living with now." Don't think that having sex with someone makes you married and makes you excused. There is clear doctrine and spiritual reasons for coming together under a covenant.
@hannahg159
@hannahg159 6 жыл бұрын
@@pookahchu You're right in saying that. I think the original point here was just that sex is like the binding action of marriage so, we shouldn't think it's natural to do in a casual way with no binding commitment.
@checkthemikecrophone9050
@checkthemikecrophone9050 5 жыл бұрын
If you are talking about being married then yes sex is ok but if your talking about sex outside of marriage then the act of sex would not make you married. If that were the case how can fornication and adultery be two different sexual immoral acts? Because fornication is sex as unmarried and adultery is sex outside of married spouse.
@bigboss7681
@bigboss7681 6 жыл бұрын
You are glorious man, good words you have spoken
@ItsRobert3815
@ItsRobert3815 3 жыл бұрын
I like how you put the scriptures at the end of the video; it was useful and I looked at each one in my bible, thank you.
@Star-Mac10
@Star-Mac10 8 жыл бұрын
Just say no, people.
@camduoc
@camduoc 7 жыл бұрын
You can say no and mean it, but the other person can be persistent and makes you change your mind
@ashleycrystal9719
@ashleycrystal9719 6 жыл бұрын
Cam Nguyen when they're trying to tempt you or 'seduce you' then you should run away because the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. Even paul said flee fornication. He didn't say walk away he said flee lmao.
@raph1227
@raph1227 6 жыл бұрын
Star Mac well, what if you don't believe in God and don't think it's a sin?
@Trulipy
@Trulipy 6 жыл бұрын
Eaglesight117 Our Elohim is real, and premarital sex is a sin. I will link you a video in my next reply. Please watch all of the informational part of the video. Thank you.
@Trulipy
@Trulipy 6 жыл бұрын
Eaglesight117 kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZW3ZJ6BpbiHgMU Just to let you know, this person hardly ever uses words like they do in this video. You can look at other videos on their channel and see for yourself, if you would like. Also, I say nothing of this to offend or condemn you, but to try to bring you to Christ. Peace be with you.
@jamesrobinson2017
@jamesrobinson2017 5 жыл бұрын
Preach brother, preach
@karonussery4090
@karonussery4090 5 жыл бұрын
I love you to pieces because you are right on Biblically. But, no where in Scripture are we to forgive ourselves. We are to forgive other’s but not commanded to forgive ourselves instead we are to be thankful for God’s forgiveness. The idea of forgiving oneself is mans way.
@vitaliiukraine4662
@vitaliiukraine4662 8 жыл бұрын
good teaching! Thanks brother !
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vitaly.
@davidegiaquinto9213
@davidegiaquinto9213 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Brother. ❤️
@richardokpor4922
@richardokpor4922 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds really nice... Strong logic and powerful presentation. Still Allen, I wish that you really dealt with the subject from scriptural POV without of course excluding all the other moral/logical arguments. For me, you still did not answer the question of whether there is an express scriptural instruction, whether in the Old or New Testament, that says PREMARITAL SEX IS A SIN.
@Trist10TheChristian
@Trist10TheChristian 7 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel. REALLY good work here! Very helpful!
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tris10! I hope you enjoy the content on this channel.
@roxic1212
@roxic1212 6 жыл бұрын
This was really good
@briankay2566
@briankay2566 6 жыл бұрын
Continue in this work
@HernandezJosaphat_
@HernandezJosaphat_ 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing!!!!
@Mike.Cebert
@Mike.Cebert 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a 37 year old male and still haven't had intercourse. The first and last thought of every single day is "I still haven't had sex." I'm Christian so from an early age decided it's best to wait for the right person but I never thought I'd still be waiting at this age. I've had some relationships, been on countless dates and had some sexual experience but just not gone all the way. I feel I have missed out on one of the greatest joys in life - true love and sex. It may not be too late but I haven't even come close to being in a relationship for years now. Maybe marriage is not in God's plan for me because a suitable partner seems impossible to find. Yet at the same time I have such a strong desire for one.
@andreavitale4181
@andreavitale4181 3 жыл бұрын
It's completely ironic that im quoting Denzel Washington right now,(bc of how much this man resembles him) 😂, but he stasted once, and I truly believe, "True desire in the Heart For Anything Good is God's PROOF to you, sent beforehand, to Indicate, IT'S YOURS ALREADY." - Joyce Meyer, and many other Faith and The Word knowledgeable people have stated the same... Keep the faith - it WILL happen!! 😊
@ericpratt984
@ericpratt984 3 жыл бұрын
Why do your videos have more dislikes than likes?
@Mike.Cebert
@Mike.Cebert 3 жыл бұрын
@@ericpratt984 My videos?
@ericpratt984
@ericpratt984 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mike.Cebert Yeah
@Mike.Cebert
@Mike.Cebert 3 жыл бұрын
@@ericpratt984 rubbish videos
@bryannajames1555
@bryannajames1555 3 жыл бұрын
I struggle hard with the 3rd, 5thand 8th one every day and every minute.
@kaymiller9186
@kaymiller9186 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question.. In the days of the Bible.. I read that 2 people didn't get married from a Preacher. They just kinda said they were husband & wife.. then consummated the marriage. I'm sure prayers or something of the sort took place before God.. I'm not sure. So my question is.. 2 people that have committed their life to each other but still haven't technically got married (although they feel married & call each other husband & wife) & have been together for 8 years.. how are they not considered married?(like in the old days when a preacher didn't marry them?) I'm not talking about legal marrige.. I'm talking about marriage in the eyes of God. Some people think, God wants you to get married in front of a Preacher.. but I recently had someone tell me that they didn't even do that back in the Bible days. So my question again is Does God see them married? & if not.. why? Because although the world may change, the Bible never does. Or does the Bible say how a person should get married?
@Kayla-tn7zx
@Kayla-tn7zx 5 ай бұрын
I would also like to know. I'm I the same boat, with children. I am recently starting my journey with Jesus, but now I'm afraid because I feel like I am sinning every day. I can't just keep asking g for forgiveness every day and continue living with my common law husband of 6 years. We are engaged to be married for next summer, but I'm still scared now, and I don't know what to do. He isn't willing to move the date sooner.
@senyogasugbo5566
@senyogasugbo5566 4 жыл бұрын
It's all about responsibility. GOD loves everyone and we must learn to be responsible. Sex in marriage can even be sour. Marriage is not a guarantee of compatibility. Learn to love and be real friends before going further. The Bible is really proverbial.
@UniversalSkys
@UniversalSkys 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Allen I feel better
@nickstuart200
@nickstuart200 3 жыл бұрын
As Noah Webster said: " 'Sex before marriage??' Not in my book "
@kaiolani133
@kaiolani133 3 жыл бұрын
We waited an it has saved us
@whitneymcclain1668
@whitneymcclain1668 3 жыл бұрын
Can you please share the verse where it says Sex outside of marriage is a sin?
@motivation4926
@motivation4926 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome man...thank u
@candyluna2929
@candyluna2929 4 жыл бұрын
The first point hit hard
Where is Sex Before Marriage CLEARLY a sin in the Bible?
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