Sexual Intimacy After Betrayal

[@burnettaallen2492]

It's really difficult when a man pursues a woman who didn't really want him to begin with but eventually accepts him and loves him truly only to learn that he was never truly invested in the relationship.

[@michellecook-hill]

Why would any woman eventually except him and love him truly when she didn’t want him to begin with. There’s this thing called intuition and gut… For crying out loud

[@vanessafly2245]

That’s what happened to me !

[@n.howell980]

Just watching this triggers me because it seems to me like common sense yet he doesnt get it 😞

[@jensbornagain]

I am never getting out of the discovery phase. 💔 he will never tell me anything how do you move on in the marriage when he lies and denies.

[@Littleone124]

In my experience, it's not possible to move on if he is still lying to you. You will never trust him and he continues to disrespect you.

[@pandemic4841]

Appreciate the info, just can't get through the video right now... maybe down the road.

[@Somegirl3602]

It's funny how women still ask the question of should they stay or should they go after multiple infidelities.... Majority of Men don't even ask, they leave you. But we as women put up with it even with the risk of STDs/herpes etc. Something that could make you infertile. We put up with it even after men birth outside children.

[@mljrotag6343]

The gender shouldn't matter here.

[@keynat9755]

@@mljrotag6343 but she's right

[@mljrotag6343]

@@keynat9755 I understand but am against double standards. No one should put up with infidelity.

[@keynat9755]

@@mljrotag6343 agreed!

[@deerek5737]

This is the truth because I stayed through it all and this man told me you cheat once I'm gone

[@tiffanymonique82]

This was so very good! Thank you

[@marywhibley1756]

I have done all as a betrayed partner, but since I got to know that he cheated on messenger, he said that they were only friends!!!. FRIENDS!! When I saw them sharing kiss emojis to each other, and the amount of, "love you's to each other",and all the sweet names he was calling her, that he does not say to me as his wife.😭. I have never heard him say, " I love you", once to our son and daughter!!!. Well, when he was caught, hesaid that it was nothing, and they were only friends. He doesn't want to talk about it, and has swept it all under the carpet.

[@1966littleminx]

I have a question... When should sexual intimacy resume after a partner has been caught cheating? I kicked my cheating partner out and after a month we decided to try and work things out but he is saying sexual intimacy shouldn't happen until I can trust him again we have been back together for 3 weeks and there is no intimacy at all

[@rnaz21]

In my opinion, it's not for him to say, it's your choice, not his.

[@franklinekyle1140]

Just wonderful, I have been researching "heal after affair" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my m8 got cool results with it.

[@tedholly6178]

When my ex wife cheated on me and betrayed our marriage before our divorce I couldn’t sleep with her after she disrespected our relationship our marriage and she repeated to cheat after even though she said she wouldn’t and we even tried married counseling and last time she had her new boyfriend took her after our session , she even asked both of us if the other man was the father of her baby would either one of us would take care of her after she chose between us and small miracles she wasn’t pregnant after all !! This is disappointing why not have a women explain why she did cheat and what she did with her new adultery lover ! In my future relationships I always laid down one rule if they cheated on me the door closed behind them do not return I will not accept them back after that betrayal and divorce is the only option! Also I’ve never ever seen a women truly remorseful after they have cheated on there marriage or even truly apologize or take responsibility for the selfish choices when they betray there marriage vows ! How about focussing on on how betrayal affects the faithful spouse after being betrayed by the unfaithful female spouse !

[@mbuckhannon]

I just found out that my wife has cheated on me a month ago, I just found out about it 4 days ago. We need help please.

[@lievepw1459]

At least a man is searching for help, you don't know how was him in their relationship. Did you cheated on her before? You respected her and avoid her to go somewhere else? I'm not defending her because cheating is shit. No excuses!!!! Was she telling you her feelings and you ignored them, how was the communication? How both behaved while going out? Why was she so unhappy? Don't listen to the coward here writing shit, that asshole will always be a cheater and a piece of shit, you're better than this idiot commenting because you're ASKING for help.

[@jaydixson1731]

Great info

[@choukawaii4484]

Im a spiritual person but dont believe in conventional religion. I agree with some n disagree with some. I say that to ask is you guys methods based in religion? I have experienced advice multiple times that didn't help me in the past because it was a lot of advice to pray, n bible reference that didn't match my life style/beliefs. Thanks.

[@keynat9755]

Emotional 4play! 2 snaps!

[@slyfly4829]

my ex betrayed me twice after leaving me for 2 guys in 8 years, in a blink of an eye, both times, she became maliscious and sadistic, treated me like i was the enemy, i couldnt figure it out, but i think the reason why it never made sense is because my discard happened long before i ever even met her. i havent nor can i have sex or be close with any woman, my anxiety sky rockets, i get a rock in my stomach, and my heart starts to ache. i think i will be alone for the rest of my life

[@kingaidu6481]

Wow I am watching this now , of course was not dealing with anything like that but I live in St Kitts small world

[@moneybags999]

The smugness of the boyfriend in this clip really triggered me. It was almost like he had to prevent himself from smiling when he said he did everything. Was this a real discussion or a reenactment?

[@moneybags999]

@@sawnydawn Wow. I'm not sure I can stomach part 2 but I'll try to anyway.

[@sawnydawn]

@@moneybags999Its insane and even harder to stomach, for sure 😣

[@priscillambae7261]

So so touching

[@maykiirwin9894]

I hate these kinds of videos. I'm in actual agony, looking for help and this guys spends more than 5 minutes promoting his practice. KZbin commercials aren't even that long!