Fear is due to the unknown of the future, upon ourself lacking the knowledge, the skills on how to move forward, what to do. It is also triggered by our loss of touch, and connection with the world outside the family, be it going back to work, finding a place to stay all getting back to the past whereas single, and learning to be independent again. With maturity, I believed it is only the know-how of getting back on our feet by ourselves, not the knowledge as I believed most women nowadays are highly educated and often what we need is time to restart our life again and move forward step by step and day by day.