Shadi ky masail : A session with young ladies

Dr Javed Iqbal addressing the topic of issues related to Marital life with young ladies.
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[@Naaz611]

Mashallah bhot bhot beneficial video hy.... bhot kuch sikha inshallah in future will follow inshallah

[@gangXterSaad]

As a guy, I never thought I would say this, but please aisi aik video larko k lye banaye🙏🏻. These strategies are amazing. If girls actually listen to the advice of Dr sahab, you will be in benefit. He speaks from the mind and logic of a man.. he is literally helping you to boost your rank in sasural. I would like with similar strategies for guys. JazakAllah Khair

[@Sara-pi5ed]

I think he has one for guys too. No doubt he is gem. I am learning a lot from him thankfully before marriage So I hope I can implement when the time comes

[@adeebaanjum6974]

​@@Sara-pi5edان شاء اللہ اللہ کرے اپکو یاد رہے بڑوں کی عزت خدمت زندگی اور آخرت میں خوشیاں. لاتی ہے اللہ. آپکی . مدد فرماۓ آسانیاں دے

[@habiblifestyle5132]

Shukran respected Doctor...kaash aap 12 Saal pehle mil Gaye hote to aaje Ghar mein sab rishte Sahi hote❤

[@adamadam-r8d]

Meri 4 daughters and a son hein ji mashallah....Sabkay sab grown ups,Married and living with their spouses......Sabhi mauj kar rahay hein ji,Koi ameer hei aur koi bohat ameer but life is like living in a Paradise.Ham donon mian beewi apnay ghar mein rehtay hein,Mein 75 saal ka hoon ji aur meri second wife mujh say 40 saal choti,WE love our independent life and enjoying every day of our life Alhamdolillah.

[@desilivingcanada3668]

Ma sha Allah, sada khush rahain. Allah aap ko aur aapki family ko apnay hifz o amaan mein rakhain. Ameen

[@adamadam-r8d]

@@desilivingcanada3668 Jaza ka mullah wa ahsanal jaza.

[@smiles4you142]

Ur first wife kahan gai?

[@nlnl19f]

Thank you Sir. Every country and every family needs wise and caring Head of the family like yourself.

[@muhammadtahir2391]

Very good tips. Please try these. Expectons should't be very heigh to dissappont you. If you could not achieve results. Don't leave good practicises and positivity

[@muhammadsiddique3975]

Excellent Sir. May God bless you and your family.

[@shahinahabib8683]

Excellent way of teaching the youth with reality base realities.

[@mohammadjahangir6911]

Assalamualaikum I'm from Nagpur Maharashtra India. Jazakallah khair We need more workshops just like this.

[@syedsamihaider4759]

As salamun alaykum wbrt. I am Syed Sami Haider Zaidi. from Gulbarga Karnataka, India. You are absolutely right, I 100℅ agree with you. Thank you, Jazakallh, keep it up.. Let Almighty bless you the the top best in your personal & professional field, & let God bless your manly shoulder the strength, courage to affix an indelible flag of Iqbal's class your field aameen.

[@kaneezfatima7557]

Zeberdast.....jazakAllah dr. Sahib...this training is much needed dor family peace...

[@desilivingcanada3668]

Ma sha Allah kitna acha explain kia hai aap ney. Bohat achi baatein bataaein hain aap ney. Kitna acha ho k sab maan baap apnay bachon ko Shadi se pehlay aisay samjhaaein.

[@Harpreet_kaur01]

So good…. So helpful…. Listening your talk is so valuable and feels like a big brother is talking with us and guiding us. Thanks a ton brother… You can never imagine ! how many lives you are improving by your efforts !

[@habiblifestyle5132]

Aapne kitna achche se explain kiya...❤

[@muhammadnawaz4205]

Very useful practical tips for youth esp.the girls

[@uzmasadiq]

A very wise guidance everyone needs. But unfortunately nobody tells these sort of positive thoughts

[@nilofaradil8056]

Masha'Allah , Subhanallah, jazakallah Sir mery pas to apky level ky Alfaaz hi nhi mai kia bolon sir,bahut hi laa jawab session hai.most knowledgeable most effectively.

[@niluferwajeeh4352]

Doctor sahib ,may God bless you for this very useful guidance.

[@aqibarain1014]

Thank u sir for this great and thoughtful session.

[@shakilaiqbal869]

U are adding duas for you with to much sincere gratitude sir World wil b remember you ever

[@mohammadrizwanrahmati5727]

Allah walo wala kaam dr saheb Masha Allah Allah aapko salamat rakhe Khush rahe aap

[@SaadHabib-u3k]

JazakAllah for such an amazing and thought provoking session❤

[@kindianakhan1037]

Assalam o Alikum Bahut hi shandar explaine kia hay aap ne. Dil khush hu gaya. Allah aap ko jazz-e-khair atta karen Ameen 🤲.

[@aqsajameel7059]

Sir apka Booht Booht Shukria❤Allah Pak Always Bless You❤❤❤

[@panjaten]

I also learnt from this lecture.shukria sir g

[@nadeemabbasi5340]

اسلام علیکم---بہت بہت شکریہ محترم ڈاکٹر صاحب

[@devendersingh9084]

Thank you 🙏 🎉 for sharing valuable views and essentials for healthy relationships

[@nilofaradil8056]

Every word of your touched my heart 🫀❤

[@realasim]

Great lessons 👏👏👏👏

[@salimaziz3131]

dr javaid iqbal, may u always blessed..

[@habiblifestyle5132]

Allah aap ki sehat ko ba salamat Baki rakhe aamin..

[@zoyb2458]

Makes sense ! Can’t wait for the next session

[@umberkhan323]

Jazakllah.. what you said is absolutely right

[@anfalshoaib3542]

Ma sha ALLAH very informative sir👍

[@javairiyahnaveed2705]

An amazing video! please make a likewise video for boys

[@tbrk6280]

Excellent information sr 👍🏻❤

[@MuhammadUsman-gc2nb]

JazakALLAH Khair

[@rashidhussain8143]

Excellent lecture

[@vinodsharma464]

Be kind to those who are unkind because they need it most.

[@sabihanaseer8538]

Thank you sir

[@zarinamunir5062]

Bilkul sahi kaha ap ne

[@musictime5233]

ربي يحفظك ويسعدك ويوفقك يارب العالمين في الدنيا والآخرة يارب العالمين

[@rashedailyas8581]

Jazak Allah

[@FarhaKhan-qj9ng]

May Allah bless you Sir

[@asadsaleem192]

Sir plz continue karen thanks

[@Quran-With-Misbah]

Jazakallah for great information

[@amnakhanlohani8189]

Very weldon ❤

[@zarinamunir5062]

Zabardast MashaAllah thanks

[@SehrishMuskan-lx1iw]

Zabardast🤩

[@ZarishKhan-y8r]

Mashallah sir jazzakAllah

[@kainatmemon6862]

Thanks

[@adamadam-r8d]

Dekho bhaiyya,Sunnat e Nubwi pbuh. par amal karogay tou mauj karo gay.Hazrat Ali aur Bibi Fatima Bint e Mohammad pbuh. shadi duniya ki behtareen shadi thi aur hamaray ghar mein shadiyan usi taraz pay hoti hein...Kabhi 2 takay kharach nai kartay ham loag shadion pay........

[@mfarooq2027]

Very nice

[@riffatasad9849]

Mashallah mashallah ,great job ❤

[@sanaullahsahak1587]

Fabulous ❤ sir

[@user-lr7fw1yl5o]

Very true

[@ShazmakhanKhan-l8v]

Rim q Chunim

[@ixa.m9915]

I dunt agree with him considering ur inlaws as ur own mother, brother or sister. ..never consider them as ur own parents! That's the wrst advice, always treat them as ur inlaws..dunt speak so frankly with them as u do with ur own parents nd siblings..never expect the same unconditional, pure love 4m them as u expect 4m ur own parents..always maintain a distance 4m ur inlaws nd b on red alert with every lil move of urs..b mindful that ur inlaws r judging every single move of urs..hr baat naap tol kr rahey or better yet zip ur mouth unfrnt of them mstly..trust me I hv learned the hard way..ur inlaws can never b like ur own parents so dunt expect them to b.

[@Zuzuakazuzu]

If we don’t do that we can’t survive that Also they are our parents

[@ridakhan1749]

I agree with you, they never teach the concept of "Boundaries" in adult human relationships, and somehow justify it as the beauty of eastern culture in which one or more people are just getting abused in the name of traditions.

[@tabishfahad2151]

1:46

[@pinkfairy6047]

Agree 💯

[@nightingaleplus353]

It’s the same with our parents though. I think it’s important to consider that not all parents are unconditional in terms of their love. You might have great parents but I know many parents who are not. If your mother behaved just like your mother in law won’t you also set boundaries? It’s not about your parents or your spouses parents. It’s about the person. If they are judging you, it’s not because they’re in laws. Parents judge their children too. Some parents are kinder than others and we generally like to think good things about them. So yes, think of them as family but note their personality. For example, I know mothers who will spread secrets of their daughters to Khalas. But they’re mostly not labeled toxic. But if a mother in law does the same, she gets labeled toxic more easily. But the actual action to be taken is the same for both. Truth is even our parents have flaws and maybe when we have another daughter come in our homes she is able to see what we do not.

[@Afia6098]

There is no concept of joint family system in Islam. Joint family system is a Hindustani concept where there is no concept of mahrem and namahrem. A man who is planning to get married should be able to afford his apt for his wife and children. They can live closeby to inlaws but separate place is must for the new woman. Also, if man is strong and has strong muslim values he understands the boundaries for everyone. It is very important for woman also to get higher education and be financially independent.

[@faizarashid5282]

Bhtttt alah 👌👌👌

[@Binte_hawa19]

Very nice your advices Dr sahib. Kaash ye sub Maein b bta skein apni betion ko shadi s pehly. Tou un k ghr buss jaein.

[@SabaJaved-q2s]

👍👍👍👍

[@irtiqafarhan7012]

Very well explained Sir

[@abdulqadar9580]

Make a complete course on parenting.

[@bakhatawarliaqat2383]

Sir plz elaborate krn k father in law, sister in law, brother in law, mother in law ki life mae value kesy add krni hai?

[@syedraza477]

From Kashmir

[@muhamamd784]

And afte rmarriage couple must seperate from parents Or brother what ever u do the only soution to these problems is to have seperate space sas and nanad have nothing to do with newly wed couple

[@lubnasayyeda]

10:35 10:37 so beautiful insight of marriages😅 but bhai Saheb yeah sub Wohi Karain gay Jo in ka dil chahey ga😂😂😂😂😂

[@musfirahkhalid9085]

ڈاکٹر صاحب پلیز برزخ کے متعلق آپ کے کونٹیٹ کا انتظار ہے

[@Zuzuakazuzu]

Kia faida sab ko malum k filthy content hai

[@desilivingcanada3668]

Stop giving that filth an unnecessary attention.

[@uzmanaeem2171]

G bilkul humein is per stand Lena chaye..

[@musfirahkhalid9085]

@@Zuzuakazuzu ہر ایک کی زبان کی تاثیر ایک جیسی نہیں ہوتی ،

[@MaryamIrfan-]

W salam sir

[@rimshamalik2180]

Aap bhot ideal situations ki baat kr rhy hen, wo bat kijye Jo common he or Jo aj kal ho raha he society me, mardon ko educate kren k apni biwi ki izzat kren or pehly don USKI izzat ka khyal rkhen ghar me BHI or ghar se bahar bhi. Inlaws ko ye bat maloom ho k hmara beta is bat ko na pasand krta he k uski biwi ko disrespect kia jae, shohar apni biwi k huqooq ka muhaifiz sbse pehly ho, phir hi ek orat ek kamyab muashra tashkeel de skegi, JB usy apny shohar ki support Hogi

[@malihajawad129]

Sir u did not tell VALUE kaise add kerni hai inlaws ki life mein,?

[@shubonss7856]

❤

[@bakhatawarliaqat2383]

Sir hmry mashry mae agr 8 bhen bhai hn, tu ak bahu ly kr aty hn tu kahty hn wo a to z akeli kam kr k bed p dy, sbk kpry dhoay, sara ghr akeli saf kry, baty b suny sbki, sir shohr tu en logo ko khush krty krty kahn door reh jata hai, usko b hota k larai na ho meri maa behn larai na krn ap unko khush rkho.

[@MRana0009]

Dr sahb jb gussa ata tone wone phir kuch samjh ni ata kis pe amal krna kis pe nhi

[@rajushaikh9639]

Sir apne jitni bhi bat is vidio me bola h.mere sath sb kuch ho chuka h .same to same.ab mere ghr walo se ek dm rishta nata finish ho chuka h .mai kya kr skti hu jo ki mera rishta firse bn jae

[@Fatima-q3k3i]

Assalamu alykum. Doctor uncle ap se personally kese contact kr sakte hai???koi disease k bare me puchna h.please reply zaroor kryenga

[@saeedahmadkhan1459]

Sir Assalamualaikum I am from India Aap ki her baat se mujhe ittefaq hai ❤ But Dr saheb ye aur isse bhi achhe achhe nasihaton per ladkiyon amal karti hai tab bhi natija 😢 wohi bura hi nikalta hai Mujhe lagta hai hum ayse kiyon nahi soch pate Ke woh khatoon is ghar me ab akeli hai Woh apne tamam khoni aur haqiqi rishton ko chod kar ayi hai Aur woh Jahan jis ghar me aye hai unke tamam pyare abhi yahin per hai maojud hai Kya is ghar walon ki zumadari nahi banti ke wohi apna dil bada kare Mujhe lagta hai me apni baat aap tak pahoncha Paya hun Aap aysa bhi ek video banaye please Aap ke dil me bhut sari muhabbate allah aap ko salamat rakhe

[@saadhassan4425]

Sir plz step mother k hvaly Sy bhi Kuch btayn..

[@Downbo435]

Yes sir plz...i have step mother

[@TimzShine]

ساس بھی کبھی بہو تھی ڈرامہ یاد آگیا ۔ معذرت کے ساتھ عرض ہے یہ اسلامی لحاظ سے شادی کے رشتے کو سمجھانا چاہیے تھا ۔ سب کو خوش رکھنے والے کی اجکل کوئی قدر نہیں ۔۔ صرف فور گرانٹڈ لیا جاتا ہے ایسے معصوم لوگوں کو ۔ البتہ دولتمند گھر کی تگڑا پیسا کمانے والی بہو کے ساتھ خود بخود ہے سب کے دل اور مزاج مل جاتے ہیں ۔

[@shaikh962]

sab mar khab jayege, jite ji na khud kush rehte hai na dusro ko khush rakhte hai 😢

[@rajputreports3962]

Your logic is accurate but some times in-laws are very cruel and negative only women can understand foolish husbands always there’s family side and wife’s and children are vulnerable please understand the women feelings who have left family for new relatives hope you understand

[@ridakhan1749]

Your opinion and feelings are justified.

[@anumahmed1422]

Absolutely. A girl has left her family and where she lands if that's a war zone for her all the time. She cannot add value to anyone's life then

[@Easyscienceforall]

اسلام علیکم محترم ڈاکٹر صاحب شادیوں میں سادگی پر بات کریں

[@MuhammadAdnan-dd9xh]

How to decide the girls for us I am very confused b/c one of her rejects me and others are the same political reasons not accept , sir guide me what I do that I am completely confused

[@HibbaYousaf-t4x]

I have many problem,plz apse bat krni h to kesy kren

[@musfirahkhalid9085]

سر .... افسوس آج سے 30 سال پہلے یہ باتیں سمجھانے والا کوئی نہیں تھا ...😢😢 بہر حال اپنی بیٹیوں کی شادی کے بعد کی زندگی امید ہے ضرور یہی سمجھانے کی حد ممکن کوشش ہوگی .. جو ہوگیا سو ہوگیا

[@Saimakhan-qj3tj]

Aoa sir Me apse bat krna chahti hun mjee kafi problems a rhi hen solution chahti hun please

[@shakir.upwork1]

achaaaaaaaaaaa

[@FerozeKk]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@ShakilMahz]

Sir jazakallah plz

[@huzaifastriker762]

8:06 bro casually does the anatomy of saas sahiba 😅

[@Zuzuakazuzu]

Sir 10 saal hogye ab kesay value add karein

[@ridakhan1749]

Add value in your own life my friend, it is possible that the in-laws are simply abusive and toxic. You don't add value in their lives. You don't even ask them for anything. You just simply avoid them and stay away from the, and don't take their opinions seriously.

[@backuprasberry7544]

AOA MERAY HUSBAND NE BETAY KO SHURU SE JUST MARA DANTA KUCH GUIDE NAHIN KIA PYAR NAHIN KIA HAMESHA SUOPPRESS KIA TO STUDIES MN BHI ACHA PERFORM NAHIN KR SAKA FSC KE BAAD ENGINEERING UNIV GYA BUT NAHIN CHALA AB HR BAAT KA KASOOR

[@cookwithnoor9257]

Jo apny saggy maa baap sy hi ajiz AA jaen,un k leyey kya Hona chyay

[@adamadam-r8d]

Bhai jaan...Kisqadar aasaan hei keh Islamic Shariyah kay mushwara kay mutabiq shadi kay foran baad doolha aur dulhan ki apni jageh hou,Bay shak Rented jhonpari ?

[@MiniKitchenWorld12k4]

Love marriage achi huti hai ya arrange marriage?

[@rabiamariamsamra2513]

Mai shaadi nahin karo gi,jawan larkay bohat caring wife FAIZA KI TARAH

[@shetoNK-vc8wv]

Husband agar aisa ho k har bat maa Behan KO bata du dr tak dekhne k liye tu ya Sahi hai ap husband KO bhi Tu samjhaya ya bat insan bane

[@shaistafaisalfaisal261]

Saas sahiba tb tk bahu ka nhi soch skti jb tk k priorities apni betiyon par se na hata ke ....aur rahi baat husband se acche talluq Bane k to jb tak husband bivi k talluq acche nhi tb tk sasurwale bahu ko accha accha bolte hai,sb taraha ki sympathy dete hain.... husband wife ko thoda respect aur pyaar dena start kr de to yahi in laws apni bahu,bhabi k sabse bade dushman bann jate hain....wo apni responsibilities jitni chahe nibha le...duniya m gaate phirte hain k hmari bahu to bekaar h...kuch nhi karti , kamre m he pdi rehti ha...aish kaat Rahi h ...blaaa blaa blaaa...... Husband ki nazron m sasural Wale he h jo kbhi bivi ko chadhne he nhi dete.... Uski peeth piche dukhde rote hain,jhoote buhtaan lagate hain .....aur husband unki fuzul baton m akar apne rishte kharab kr leta h wife se..... Apki bate sunne m acchi lg rahi h sir...but on ground in m bss utni he reality h jitna k sasural Wale samjhna chhate hain.....kitne cases hain jin m bahu ko itna mental harrass kya gya h k pagal ho gae....sasural m to kbhi kisi ko iss stage tk phunchte huwe nhi dekha...... Ye sare masle tb tk chalte rahe ge jb tk k shadi k baad husband wife ko khudd ka independently apna ghar basane na dya jaay.....aj k waqt sasural Wale extra interfere krte h dono ki life m jis se unki married life tabha ho rahi h...Allah hum sb ko shi gahlat m farq karne ki tameez padia kre ...ameen

[@memoonahassan4963]

Male psyche total change about wife after marriage if they frank before marriage. When happen clash with hubby and inlaws plz keep scret and don't announce

[@asif661000]

Lol

[@bilalsadiq6280]

Chacha g Kiya kitabi baatein ker rahe hooo AP .....

[@fromaroundtheworld4190]

Yh khandani batein hein her kisi ko shmj Nhi Ati. Sari bat yh hy ap jahan ja rhy usy b apna ghr shmjein

[@bilalsadiq6280]

@@fromaroundtheworld4190 Bhai mere ap doctor sahib KO nahe jantey I think