Shadow Work: this is the final obstacle before the shift happens. (Carl Jung)

[@QuaziJohir]

Have you had experience with your shadow before? Let me know below! Also, here's the 4 video UNLISTED playlist: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m3yVY2yKhaqCldE

[@A.M.U171]

Yes...I've been struggling with procrastination and emotional ups and downs as well as self judgement...I made a choice 1 year ago to wake up at 4am to work on myself,I didn't realise how much progress I've made untill I started watching your videos.Im still broke and in debt however I know this phase of my life is about to end one way or the other.Im gonna make it happen.I am the master of my Fate .. I am the captain of my Soul..peace yo

[@karaanaya]

My Ego, thoughts, and emotions are One WithIn. I don’t have rampant thoughts or emotions barging in. I Rose in Love With All Of Me. Now I See the beauty in All of You as All of We!

[@C-me-calling]

What does the RC stand for in the background of the intro to this video?

[@Lostsoul_111]

What if you have more than one dominant in different aspects of self?

[@sterlinglebaron2215]

"Fill your cup so so full for yourself that it overflows for others" This brought me to tears.

[@c2dchange]

i fell under the same spell believing that i had to help people in order to make money, i believed i had to be in service in order to make money so every idea i had began with “how can i help people?” and of course i’ve gotten bored with every endeavor because my heart wasn’t in it. plus it was selfish anyway to want to serve just for money so i could travel and snowboard and skate whenever and wherever. now i say fuck it and i’m going to get my snowboard instructor license and see where that takes me. i’ve been getting in my own way by trying to do something in order to be able to snowboard all the time instead of just going and doing that

[@spiralout8147]

Right on! Thanks for the inspiration 🤙🏼

[@Daniel_Yap]

@@spiralout8147

[@mzkaptivate]

Thank you for this. I feel the same exact way. I’ve literally been programming and reprogrammed myself into believing this. When I really just want to travel the world and explore.

[@officialpsychicloungetv]

I can relate

[@zachandalethamathis9338]

Dude yes. I'm so afraid that pursuing something I love would ruin my life, so I heap on altruistic options that I loathe to make the meaninglessness of not pursuing happiness seem "noble" or worthwhile. It's cool that you can just be like 'fuck yah I wanna snow board'

[@ellishaindobo1794]

Realizing i was the biggest enemy to myself was mind opening.

[@weliveforever77]

real as fuck :(

[@ssssssskai]

What you truly want? Satisfy that first. Fill up your cup so-sooo much. That it overflows and fills up the cups of others. BOOOM! DAMN! THANK YOU!

[@marjoriebostwick5140]

Bashar says we live out our purpose by doing what brings us joy and pleasure.

[@kennethjohannessen7772]

"Ask yourself what you truly want" Problem is that I have no idea.

[@TheAussieHobo]

Then you don't know you.

[@vektheartist]

*On judging yourself for self judgement* “You’re going to resist the resistance itself.” 😮‍💨🔥🔥🔥

[@cherylclark915]

Ahhhh, ty! I'm here and you have opened my eye 👁 as to "HOW" I can actually connect to my (deeply) hidden shadow that I've been asking my higher-self to help me to figure out. I knew guilt & past traumas were/are a major part of the clearing out process, but in another one of your videos, you mentioned "SHAME" as a big part of my shadow too. When I heard you say that, I broke down in tears, because I haven't even thought of that obstacles and it's a Major part that I've been unaware of in myself that I must dig down into. Thank you. I am humbly grateful for your time & for your work and knowledge. I get it now. 👁 Blessings, Beautiful Soul. ⚘️ 🤍🕊⚔️✨️🌞 🩸✝️♾️

[@sylvaind9086]

🤯 I have to watch this over and over and over! Thank you so much!🙏 There is now a light at the end of my tunnel.

[@abuDA-bt6ei]

Emotional repression first comes from emotional overwhelm and lack of emotional regulation. In our early childhoods we needed caregivers to be with us when we experienced emotional distress, or else we would be overwhelmed by them, disassociate and repress our emotions. Children can’t regulate their emotions on their own. If we don’t get the proper care, we don’t develop this ability and instead distract, repress, and so on as our way of dealing. This is really the core root of the problem. Lack of proper caregiving that leads to the cycle of emotions -> overwhelm -> repression. It should’ve been emotions -> compassionate care from parents -> soothing -> return to homeostasis. This also creates self compassion instead of self judgement. This is simply the natural way mammals are raised, and also the way humans in hunter gathers tribes were raised as well. Such as the !Kung who don’t leave their children alone ever between the ages 0-3. The cause of all of this is our deviation into the unnatural way of civilized life.

[@sinttrollfolk]

Thank you for this video series, it is exactly what I need now. Spending so much time in my head has lead to a Life ruled by 'Analysis Paralysis' in almost everything with an overall doctrine of helping others, being 'selfless.' However I now feel resentful at this mindset and need to change things up. Although I cannot really complain as I have it better than most, but I could be the "Better" or the more "Authentic Me." Again, thank you.

[@Phssng1999]

Greatest teacher ever found ❤ God bless you

[@olgat.155]

Best time of day: morning journaling.

[@Elias.M92]

What you resist persists.

[@QuantumSqueeb]

What you accept relents. What you face becomes grace. What you pickle becomes fickle. 😉

[@AIMAntonia]

You are an excellent teacher, this is life changing stuff beautifully condensed and articulated. 🙏

[@EcomCarl]

Embracing all parts of oneself isn't just healing, it's a strategic advantage in personal and professional growth. 🌑

[@health5kiks725]

you deserve more likes for this video its like a therapy to me as it clearly describes and gives the solution to the situation that i am going through

[@NoellaTumwebaze]

I have learnt to listen to my thoughts, identify fatigue or fear based thoughts and address them as soon as they come up. This is a great video. Thank you so much

[@lanasvetla19]

As many times before, I found the answer to what I needed in your video. I send many good wishes to you and your family from Serbia. Thank you.☀️

[@ASophieGarden]

Thank you for finally putting lettering over your beautiful, original and creative handwriting. I honestly and wholeheartedly appreciate this and am now more able to follow the train of ideas. Greatly appreciate you and your editor. 🙏

[@cirquemedia]

I'd recommend Mastery by Robert Greene as well... Each chapter covers a historic persona in the beginning that details their own personal journeys... Many were driven by their earliest childhood memories (Darwin, Mozart, Proust)... And rejected the path society constantly told them to take. When you have the skill and confidence and understanding to take on the world and incorporate the shadow - it's immensely powerful.

[@danacarter3403]

Ur making these videos just for me, aren't u? Every question my mind is wondering about, u answer every time!❤

[@Strive1974]

Mother Theresa was giving, not because she was trying to "make herself feel good". She was giving because God demands it. Big difference

[@queenwinkle]

Whew, this was a tough one. Thank you again for the reminder!

[@visalserei]

My shadow is the part that I spend most of my life afraid of, it is my potential to manipulate and climb the ladder easily. And how easily it is for me to charm everyone around me with lies, basically I was only aware of it once I almost fallen into the path of darkness thinking it is the real me. I though it is the logical things to do, so from then I withdraw and when I lost my identity as a charismatic person, I went through years of dark night of the soul and now in my mid 20s, I actually found myself and that I actually enjoy a peaceful life. If I didn't question myself, I probably hurt many people and sure I might become a successful and ruthless person that people respect and fear but it is just not who I am. It is what the matrix want me to be, so by facing my shadow, I become more content and peaceful. I also strive to do things purposefully, helping my community and got enough courage to quit my job that full of pretty nasty people just like I was. Edited: Afterwards, I discover a lot of miraculous things like synchronicity. Right now I write it exactly at 3:33 AM.

[@ishratpopal633]

YOU ARE IN YOUR MID 20S...AND ALREADY WENT THROUGH YRS OF DARKNESS???🤔🤔🤔

[@visalserei]

@@ishratpopal633 I work since a young age, I also lost many people in my life due to sickness. And well let just say mom and dad isn't the best since my mom never been in my life, but my father do sometimes and offer me support financially. It is not a great start, but my father has a great job so I don't complain since he is busy. But it teaches me a lot about resilience and I appreciate that life actually humble me. Edited: I also learn the best way to live a life is to surrender to the higher power, go with the flow and do what is best in the present. A priceless wisdom, I appreciate it so much and gratitude that I learn this in such a young age.

[@Alem_Mehari]

Fear begins at conception and birth!

[@Kaa864]

@@ishratpopal633 why is that hard to believe ?

[@JakobPGrau]

Put down the bong.

[@mathswithasma]

Your videos are so powerful, packed with life saving information, and thanks a lot brother for putting out these vital information for us explained in such a, in such a beautiful manner! Lots respect for you. Unique information, uniquely explained. Thanks a lot! 💗💗💗

[@irreverentjules-240]

Thank you for a great video. I have a lot of alter egos, so that I don't identify as I am this or that. I too have a youtube channel that is just for humor and fun. I did not create it for money, rather created it for a bunch of women who work a humdrum warehouse job together. The character is not me, but I thoroughly enjoy playing her. Sometimes people (not the ladies)want to censor her by telling me I should do this or that. I just let it roll off and say she doesn't like being told what to do.

[@siyandatyityiba2458]

Quazi your content is the greatest service to human kind. Thank you

[@TempleToursRedwood]

My persona never changes with different people,yes, l do sometimes suppress my feelings...surrender...l now been accepting..your explanation of reasons very good, unpacking patterns new concept for me. Am now doing what l want after to do after 6yrs of retirement. ..enjoy your session.

[@MirceaKitsune]

Very detailed and wonderfully explained as usual: Thank you for what you're doing to truly help people ❤

[@darrenscriven3963]

Wow! I just came across you and your channel and I am impressed and amazed because this is exactly what I need, and have needed for a long time.

[@user-nt4nm4fb3u]

In this whole existence there's only one thing which is stopping you from you ...and that one thing is you. This is not a quote which I've read or memorized from somewhere, This is what I've found from my personal life experience. I really have no idea if someone quoted this or not in somewhere else yet, but for sure to be honest with you this is my personal realisation.

[@nicksmith-chandler458]

Jung was a giant. He would have definitely changed some of his material with modern knowledge of quantum mechanics and personality/personal reality. In a duality driven universe the other side of your teaching is “be careful of doing what you love for work, you may land up hating it”

[@stefaniasel]

This video is so flowing, so natural, so deep! I am so thankful!

[@yindragondevotionaltantra]

Dream scenario from my heart - I'm a woman. I break up a fight and protect someone from getting hurt, totally subduing the attacker because I've mastered martial arts and the body to the Nth degree. While I'm holding them down, their toxic masculinity dissolves into the complete and utter shame it truly is and they finally feel what they want to feel which is their own weakness, their own vulnerability to death, that someone can put them in their place too. And from that state (where women have been and felt for so long), I make sure they feel loved and seen and heard and eventually we learn about each other from a place of equality. Slowly but surely trust is built and we get the ultimate pleasure of showing them how to be dominating in a pleasurable way that is actually in service to a woman (me) instead, totally and completely surrendering my body to them through the force of sex. They earn the absolute honor and devotional act of a woman drinking their nectar. And something that could be considered so ugly, is turned around, flipped on its head, and totally transformed into that juicy aliveness I long for - life's meaning complete in two bodied form. The dance of opposites surrendered in control to compassion and love and service to the divine. The dance of alchemy and transformation. The uniting of tongues and sweet smelling of flowers, honeysuckle breezes on a hot ice cream day, mango dripping down sticky golden sunshine yellow sucking licking sensuality bodied as the divine experience of humanity with all its pain and devotion and stories and sorrow and joy and wonderful majesty music magic wow From then on, I am healed as He is healed. We spar even though he can't beat me in combat, he does it because it makes me feel safe and vulnerable and loved. And in turn he feels restored to his rightful place in the world when I surrender my body to him utterly to his satisfaction and we rest united in the peaceful bliss of two-bodied awareness. Ongoing the trust and safety builds and we are able to teach others how mend this - ending the war of relationships/marriage/masculine and feminine. Maybe this is possible, maybe not. Know not I. Whatever this story is it was a nice little exercise to keep in mind for myself when I can't sleep - will that mystery ever be solved? Stay tuned. I want to say a begrudging thanks to you Quazi but I won't because I'm too stubborn. So thank you very much for your leadership. Bye for now.

[@shakedlevy4533]

HI QUAZI JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU REALLY HELPED ME IN REALIZING SOME THINGS ABOUT MYSELF THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU DOING

[@tutonflip]

"letting go", I love that book

[@zuhamalik1662]

Hi Quazi, this is absolutely incredible. Thank you so much.

[@danacarter3403]

We all do everything we do, including think the way we think, bc it somehow benefits something within us. Even the negative thinking and patterns give us some type of reward.

[@Yungzhef]

All comes down to fear, the mind wants to keep you alive

[@vsurabhi]

God...this is so good!!

[@nickolesperez8230]

Thank you so much for making everything so clear and simple. I am so grateful to follow the rabbit hole of KZbin to discover your channel. Literally came at the perfect time. Just really grateful you do what you do, thank you!

[@QuaziJohir]

Glad it was helpful!

[@barba9791]

Selfless is the golden rule, do to others as you would for yourself

[@Uncommony]

This is deep. Thank you for sharing. Stay Uncommon!

[@PraneshRaja-hp8ds]

You made me to realize not hide my shadow self

[@izzyjobe9757]

This video came out when I exactly needed it. Just started watching but I am sure it’s gonna just as great as usual ❤

[@arlecelarae]

Same, it’s like free therapy and I’m so grateful.

[@richardramanana5136]

Thank you Quazi.

[@OleHaugen-j3q]

Thank you for explaining in such understandable and relatable way🙏🏼 I want to show this video to everyone I know😊

[@cgg7318]

What we attach to, grows

[@motivated2connect]

Thank you for this, very grateful.

[@Raz_Tayar]

Thank you Quazi! This video was meaningful to me!

[@kpaperchase]

Great Information Thank You!

[@АбдурахимДюсембай]

Thank U man for sharing your wisdom! thats very appreciated!

[@JordanTheHobbiest]

I have a literal list of shadow aspects which i named, identified and give love to every day.

[@christianvaldezsimon6161]

Stanley Ipkis: We all wear masks... metaphorically speakinggggg 🌪

[@noigardner7068]

I'm loving yours podcasts 😊 thank you from Australia 🇦🇺 with Love

[@bayroncaceres-nc9nq]

Thanks. Quazi morning meeting in a community setting for me

[@onehappytortoise]

you remind me always of Vicky Kaushal...thanks for the videos. very helpful

[@Gm__MUA]

Cast a light on your shadow and it won’t frighten you anymore. Get it out into the open. Get it out of its hiding place by casting a light on it.

[@misterrashad666]

yoooo i fell in love with the red book thank you so much for talking about it xoxo

[@Eugene.Berezin]

I love this concept of letting gos

[@rafiechowdhury5963]

Well said brother.

[@mamaulondon]

You're too good❤

[@cgg7318]

Yo love the red book mention! I want to hear more!

[@bigworld2619]

"Society tells you that you need to put a brave face and be someone you are not ,BULL SHIT!" a quote by quazir johir

[@bernhardgriessner9597]

Danke!

[@Shellings]

Nice one Quazi

[@PraneshRaja-hp8ds]

Thank you Thank you🎉🎉

[@yashasvichauhan]

Very well put sir🙏

[@DeusisLove369]

The shadow is the teacher

[@bjs01234]

Ugh self improvement is so overwhelming. What if we have convinced ourselves for YEARS that we want one thing. So much so that we actually almost believe it to be true and have created a persona around it? I feel so blinded by this. On one hand I know for a fact it's the wrong path but on the other restarting also feels impossible. All I want is to achieve the things I have told the world I want. It's funny though because even though I know I want this, I also know that once I achieve what I think I want I will only be left wanting more.

[@Pristineroses]

Great video, very informative! ❤

[@JolieDea]

Im actually currently reading that book!

[@ShantiRajanya]

Great on the shadow work and emotional clearing. But why on earth did you start with the manifestly false statement that there are basically three different types of fatigue: persona, self-judgment and decision-making. This is simplistic and completely misguided nonsense. There are countless causes of fatigue, most of them being physical/biological. Bodies break down, go wrong, get old etc. Heck, my dog has fatigue sometimes, and he's certainly not burdened by a persona, decision-making difficulties etc. This type of thinking is often found in those who believe everything has to have a psychological cause. It simply doesn't - and nor would Buddha have said it does. A good video here sadly let down by the initial premise.

[@HuggaTeeRex]

What he’s saying there are three kinds with in the shadow paradigm. Of course if you run around too much you’ll get tired, but that’s a different matter

[@C-me-calling]

11 mins reminds me of step 4 of the 12 step drug recovery program

[@karaanaya]

8:50 please add to have gratitude. For integration we must understand that the “dark” was always intended to compliment the light. It was suppose to accentuate the light to lift it up. The dark too wants to come home. All is made of the Consciousness of All that Is: All wants to come home! I am KyRa of the High Council, and We Are One. Ⓜ️Ⓜ️🤓🤪

[@beebeats8194]

Quazi here

[@A.M.U171]

Mirror Principle Day 4.. peace yo

[@karaanaya]

If you have successfully united within then the only voice left is your own. One small quiet voice that was hard to hear amongst the many. And your ego and emotions become your friend. I am there in the eye of the storm. I am helping others cross as well. We’ve got this. 😍🤓Ⓜ️🌻Ⓜ️

[@karaanaya]

@QuaziJohir_111 no thank you I’m not stupid. 🤪

[@Dr.Chetan010]

Nice 😊

[@RaZen_Hypnotherapy]

New information I have not heard - tx!

[@TsukiOverKnots]

sometimes when i'm trying to remove a negative thought in my head that doesn't go away, I imagine i extracted my shadow self from my body and kill it. might sound a bit psycho but it works, especially through mmanifesting

[@geniuskatie6813]

One of the best video ❤❤❤❤

[@iteelogy]

Thank you :)

[@1OneLove222]

Being reborn

[@JoyLady-1966]

I’m surprised I’m doing some of this😊

[@0dfilm384]

"Decisions Making"= what I gone eat today, vacation activities. Are you serious? :) Nevertheless thank you for the excellent and clear content and the mission you are doing.

[@yindragondevotionaltantra]

How do access the emotions or listen to the heart when youre completely locked up? How do you find that when youve lost it? How do you know its your heart speaking? Is it a feeling? What does it feel like?

[@mc7playatease]

Thank you, Quazi, for your well-crafted videos. 12:43 How can ONE include women in the language, especially since they are actually more plentiful than men in occupying this planet? Substituting "one" for men -- or "we" -- can do so nicely. mais oui (may we), merci

[@Shaaz-4-u-music]

Wow

[@gearhead1308]

Showing Biden saying they have to make many decisions in a day was dark humor. Love it.

[@MrAshyb87]

I haven't seen you in the feed for weeks or more, I was logged into a different account. Thank God it logged me back in, I just found three videos that I needed, the first one was about the train tracks and focus, I really needed that today. Thank you for the reminder, I was starting to feel very "head in the clouds", not in a good way. Quazi, you're the most underrated bloke on youtube mate, I can't believe it.

[@shyamsundaresan9072]

Hi Quazi! Appreciate the analysis and information provided. Just one question though - how would one differentiate between the mind's chatter and what the heart wants? The voice we hear within is the same right? So how can one dissect that and help move forward effectively?

[@Randinoish]

Quasi dude, no judgement here, but you are somewhat of a psychologist, right? Well, X the beginning, cause if you are, CONGRATJULATIONS AND THABKS, your. videos are helpful!!!!!!!!!

[@yindragondevotionaltantra]

My shadow feels like how hungry I am for sex, for delicious food, for pleasure, for power, for status, for recognition. Its this feeling of being really martially able and not taking shit from anyone. How tired I am of being "nice" instead of angry. This part of me wants gratification in the form of I wanted that and i got it and i dont give a shit! A lot of my goals right now are in the muladhara chakra, sleeping, eating, exercises, taking care of the body. Im not sure how well this translates to things like that. The body can be such an intense experience. How do you find the courage to move the shadow there?

[@TheVinciTown]

damn dude

[@yindragondevotionaltantra]

Is this process safe for people with lots of childhood trauma and abuse? What about for people who have mental health diagnoses?

[@ivyleigh1197]

Im so confused is this about embracing evil?

[@dawnross2514]

It's about acknowledging our potential to do evil not about becoming evil.

[@shawnmulligan5476]

Shadow Work is about re-integrating parts of ourselves we disowned because they only brought negative experiences or feelings. Think a parent who criticizes a contemplative child for not being more social. The child decides to bury their contemplative self and then forms an “adapted” self in order to be loved. The disowning pushes that precious contemplative quality down into the subconscious. It comes out as projections like telling anyone who likes to spend time reflecting “lazy”. Shadow Work is reclaiming the contemplative self. But one first needs to recognize that distasteful belief about “lazy” actually holds the “gold”.

[@SankarJankoti]

🙏🏽

[@shakedlevy4533]

AND I REMEMBER THAT YOU SAID IN ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS THAT YOU HAVE A GOAL TO ACHIEVE 1 MILLION SUBSCRIBERS. I SUGGEST YOU TO HIRE BETTER EDITOR FOR YOUR VIDOES MORE STOCK VIDEOS,SPECIAL EFFECTS,MOTION GNATHIC COULD MAKE MORE ENGAGED BETWEEN YOU AND THE LISNERS ♥