That comment made me cry...every single word is true. We will fight and continue fighting for equality. I live in Canada so here it is very easy but for our neighbors down south and across the world it isn't. Peace and Love Tom will always be with you Shane. Stay strong. xo
@donaldlampert33111 жыл бұрын
Back in 2000, I lost the great love of my life. We had been together for 6 years, then soulmates and the greatest of friends for 12 more years. He went to Costa Rica on vacation, with his then partner, and drowned in the ocean. It took me about three years to be at peace with it. But, I know that he is with me when I need him, and I will never forget. He was the greatest gift of my life! Bless you for telling your story Don
@Trockodile24512 жыл бұрын
Tom's song 'sincerely yours' is truly beautiful.
@willjust835110 жыл бұрын
Dear Tom & Shane, you have impacted my life today in a way you can never imagine. I am so thankful to have come across your story. God bless you Shane and RIP Tom. xoxo
@brebriable12 жыл бұрын
Every storm Runs out of rain. I will be here for you I am so sorry these people were so careless I hope you find someone as good as Tom to make you happy. He was a good person just by all your videos. I am so sorry you had to go through this. May God be with you..
@StevenB-wu3cz9 жыл бұрын
My partner and I are still crying...God Bless you Shane...RIP Tom TAP TAP TAP
@cvilleboy1212 жыл бұрын
Shane I am so sorry for tom. It must of been so hard for you. And I can't explain how much it makes me mad due to the fact that his parents did not accept their own son or you. And what makes me sad is that you weren't there at his funeral. I am so sorry and Shane keep your head up, tom is watching you from above:)
@TheOgilberry11 жыл бұрын
What a shame gorgeous Tom didnt have your strength ! You truly are inspirational! Gorgeous song
@RubyBGDali11 жыл бұрын
I just came across your story and I can't describe the amount of tears that I cried. I have a close friend who lost the love of his life a few months ago due to suicide, hard to try find the words to comfort him. So I don't know what words to say other than your's and Tom's love will never be broken from what I've seen, that's rare and I know I'd be happy if I ever get to experience just an ounce of that feeling. I wish you the best.
@colodude112 жыл бұрын
Fantastic song selection for his memorial service. Tom had a tremendous talent and hearing his own voice in song 3 was very touching and appropriate for the service. Thanks for posting Shane. Wishing you peace and happiness now and in the years to come. Someday you and Tom will be together again.
@amyturner950711 жыл бұрын
Shane, Tom is sending that message out to you. Never forget what you shared, he will always be with you, holding you, loving you, wanting you to be happy. Every now and then he may even visit you ~ in a dream, a sudden movement without explanation, just a feeling you'll know he's there and always will be. Be happy so he will continue to be happy living through you. God Bless you.
@larrytester190411 жыл бұрын
So heart broken for you Shane. I am sincerely sorry for your loss. I appreciate you sharing the story of you and Tom. I met the love of my life 19 years ago and look forward to the day that we can make our relationship official and legally wed. I grew up in the rural southern mountains of N.C. and can relate to the treatment you received in High School. I went to a simple country elementary school K through 8 grades. High School was like a different world suddenly people who I had known and been friends with almost my entire life now made horrible comments to me or about me on a daily basis. I pray that each day you find comfort in knowing that you do not walk alone love lives forever. And you have a friend here in North Carolina. God bless you now and always.
@geraldinepowell88774 жыл бұрын
Just watched your movie and seeing the love that you and Shane shared with each other and all the trials of what you both endured from your family. You and Shane's story is truly inspiring, I am sorry for your life being cut short but I believe that Everyone who watches this whether they are gay or bisexual or lesbian or straight they will see nothing but pure love that it does exist and nobody should look down on how love is shown. May God Bless You and Everyone You Had in Your Life and the Lives You've Touched. 😘❤❤
@sexyjodie123411 жыл бұрын
Tom is a fantastic singer and I know you are going to miss him so much and may he be safe in heaven and let the angels and god look after him now :( im crying my eyes out even though this was put together in 2011 R.I.P Thomas Bridegroom may you be safe in heaven :(
@musiclover-tf6fu10 жыл бұрын
Shane, I watched your Documentary and your love for each other is so obvious!!! It's a 'BEAUTIFUL LOVE' and I shall not forget it for many years' to come!!! Thank you... so much for allowing everyone to share your "Amazing Love Story"
@RichardMcWolff10 жыл бұрын
Finally watched the Bridegroom documentary. I'm such an emotional person I really needed to be in the right place to see this but there is no right time to watch something so powerfully emotional. My heart goes out to you Shane and I hope your doing better and better with each passing day. What an immensely powerful story. Shane you are truly blessed to have such a loving and supportive family, friends and extended family. Loved all the music in this doc and this especially! HUGS
@ryansantiago50467 жыл бұрын
im still crying about what happened to him😭😭😭 even i watch it last month but it keeps haunting me so i always watch it everu night time😭😭.. shane. i feel you now. were always here
@twhitaker199011 жыл бұрын
What a steller documentary! I could go on and on about it. It taught me so many things in such a little amount of time. On a sidenote, I love Toms song "Sincerly Yours." It is such a beautiful written song! You have changed my life Shane, more than you will ever know. My faith is stronger, my confindence is bigger that it has ever been and my love for people has increased more than it ever has. I love you and everything you have done. Hugs and Tap,tap tap!
@tinossaxman11 жыл бұрын
Your movie touched my heart!
@MissBeccaFord11 жыл бұрын
Forgot too say, Tom is such a beautiful singer, the world takes the best of people but Shane, you will always have him in your heart, and he will have you in his, for eternity and beyond you and him will always be there, be strong, you will be with him again soon enough :)
@sydneyfarris344711 жыл бұрын
Those songs we really good! Your story you shared with Matthew Lush was amazing. Miss you Tom!
@cgrdz11 жыл бұрын
Great way to remember someone and a great way to show the world how much you can love someone.
@wongweyfeng10079 жыл бұрын
always listened this song can't stop cried ...
@ales13ales9 жыл бұрын
I have just finished to watch "Bridegroom", and all I can say is THANK YOU. Thank you for being so brave and courageous to share your story with everyone in the world. You have all my support, and I am so sure that what you have done will help a lot of people and can really change something. I live in Italy where gay marriage are not allowed and we are only making baby steps forward to something that you can call equality. I wish that something will actually change soon, and I just want to let you know that you are pushing me to actually DO something in order to accelerate this changing. So, again, thank you! Tom would be more than proud of you, and for sure I am! Much love
@twincess23157 жыл бұрын
"Tomorrow may not come so don't sit and wait Tell the ones you love before it's too late" This line is so true. You never know what will happen to you or someone else you cherish. Do it before it's too late. RIP Tom we all miss you ♡ ♡ ♡
@marcatkinson322411 жыл бұрын
Your story has touched my soul. What a tragic loss and lifelong love cut short.
@ryanbriones2899 жыл бұрын
I consider myself closed to any emotions of love and intimacy of any kind, but these clips of golden treasures have touched a side of me I didn't know existed. And I have to say that I don't have any other ties with Tom other than these videos, but how I wish that he was still alive. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you so much for sharing.
@jhuchings11 жыл бұрын
R.I.P Tom no one will forget you Tom Shane Tom loves you even if he is gone face it Tom has you in heart and you will have him in your heart for ever and you and Tom are married in your own way xx
@MissBeccaFord11 жыл бұрын
Rest In Peace Tom, honestly just horrible how the world takes the best people, your an angel, Shane it'll be hard, just keep going, if Tom was still here to see what you've done for him, the documentary and everything is unbelievably cute, Rest In Peace xoxoxoxo
@julianponce464411 жыл бұрын
I am soo sorry that this happened to you. I wouldnt know what to do if it happened to me. He definately loved you and that was wrong what his family did. stay strong R.I.P Thomas Lee Bridegroom
@dantheman1009198111 жыл бұрын
What a great arrangement Shane. My Fire is truly a beautiful song and as for Sincerely Yours, what can I say it's Tom's voice, beautiful as ever. Thanks as ever for sharing :-)
@4u1004me11 жыл бұрын
Every Storm by Zac Poor is full of meaning, but can't find it on iTunes; downloaded the rock version instead from another singer; My Fire by Allison Gray, can't find it on iTunes; and most importantly, the Sincerely Yours by Tom Bridegroom is not available yet on iTunes. I hope Tom's song will be available soon in the market. "Sincerely Yours" is an inspiration that can challenge us all. .His song will surely provide no boundaries that is capable of melting anybody's heart made of stone....a testament that will linger forever - a credit that can be added to his monument. Just can't over it! Wonderful guy full of talent and full of life....why taken so early!
@4u1004me11 жыл бұрын
sorry, it should read as, "can't get over it"!
@f.r.marshall3rd7611 жыл бұрын
Shane, I have watched your documentary three times and it rips out my heart. I was lucky and found the love of my life when I was 25 and we were together for 4 years, then he fell into the party circuit and drug culture. I could not save him. He's still in touch with my family and still in drug rehab at 47 years of age. Your story touches me because it reminds me so much of us. I am like Tom, singer, song-writer, world traveler,a foreign language teacher and can light up a room when I enter. My partner and I were both attractive as are you two and we loved each other deeply. I pray this film reaches both gay and straights because your story is truly remarkable. My heart was broken twenty years ago and now your film has broken it again. Keeping sharing your message. Peace -- RAY in Rochester, New York.
@marcwhite87986 жыл бұрын
beautiful arrangement and beautiful songs for a beautiful guy. forever in all our hearts RIP Tom.
@1989liamh11 жыл бұрын
Tom what an amazing person and singer your truly an angel xxx all my love x
@ferdinandmcphee369411 жыл бұрын
R.I.P TOM ##3 days I've been repeat all the video.didn't count how times i am watch all the video. Because i miss someone who made my day. ♥ miss him so much.
@kennynguyen060511 жыл бұрын
Every time I listen to these songs it just brakes my heart so much /: Thanks for sharing your story Shane, I seriously can't stop thinking about you guys and what you had to go through. Y'all both had so much love for each other and everybody wish they could have the love that you had for Tom. May he rest in paradise and guide you along the road.
@johkkho715611 жыл бұрын
wen i saw the video i cant stop crying, all people dserve equal ryts.. i been touch by your video
@kathrynhornibrook61166 жыл бұрын
I applaud your courage, Shane. To go through what you went through with Tom and to have it put onto such a public stage, you are an inspiration. I'm glad you found love once more in Rayvon - I'm sure Tom is happy that you can be happy once more. I have friends who are gay and I'm thrilled to hear that they have found someone to love - everyone deserves to be happy with someone they love, not just straight couples. Love doesn't discriminate. You inspire so much, Shane - I wish you and Rayvon all happiness in your lives together.
@betancourt197611 жыл бұрын
It was beautiful...
@marymckee822711 жыл бұрын
Shane I just watched yours and Tom's story on OWN, It breaks my heart that his family would not allow you to go to his funeral. Why can't we all just learn to get a long and love whoever we want. Life is sooo short, God loves all of us. Someday you will be in heaven with Tom, Shane, just hang in there, don't be afraid to love again.
@FarewelI11 жыл бұрын
Happy holidays in advance Tom and Shane.
@babymajjie0512 жыл бұрын
Tom loved you with every breath left in his body. He felt everything he felt because you existed in his world. You were his happy ending. I know living on after someone parts is harder than you ever think you could do, but he is right there with you. His body might rest in some far away place. His family may be full of ignorance and without grace. But his love and his soul are with you. He got to live out his final days making his love story come true. Please find happiness in that. Peace & love
@tweets-r-us474812 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story i could not stop crying i am sending you loads of love. He will always be with u dont forget that xx
@mrAZcardinal11 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is so beautiful... I've been an emotional wreck since I watched Bridegroom. ;/ And that's only 1/2000 of what Shane went through. Ughhh
@romemiguel57710 жыл бұрын
Great singer..tom has amazing talent and sincerly yours is perfect song for you Shane as well as to all gays like me.We love you Tom.
@tracysteele474411 жыл бұрын
I have enjoyed Tom's songs the past few days and shared with all my friends. Is there more posted somewhere? His style is peaceful and soothing to the spirit. Worthy of being shared more. Thank you Shane for sharing your LOVE with all of us.
@derekgold80108 жыл бұрын
god bless you Shane for sharing your bittersweet story. tap tap tap.
@Ep1kf41L12 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for all the pain you have went through Shane. You loved him... he loved you. The love never left. And its still there. It just moved a little, find it Shane. Tom still loves you! And you still love him. I know that nothing/no-one can replace Tom. I'm sorry that this happened. I wish it wouldn't have. But you can handle it. Your strong and that's all Tom wants, he just wants you to push through.
@Sing4Joy7012 жыл бұрын
So sorry This is such a sad story what a gifted young man
@dansaavedra564310 жыл бұрын
my heart breaks for you. & I won't stop till things change. mark my words & remember me
@erossheets351511 жыл бұрын
An angel is now home miss you
@dcdj198811 жыл бұрын
i cry and cry when i saw abt you guys story. Be strong Shane, Tom stay with you forever.
@NeuroPsyche12 жыл бұрын
truely inspiration. Thank you for posting. I'm a gay male in Pa, USA. I've been with my partner for over 20 years, still without recognition of any kind that we are 'together'. Nothing will or can be said of your loss that will ever be enough to comfort you and what you have been through. To all those that have watched this, read these comments, and know in your heart what love is, please take a stand for equality, for all. Right now we can only wish to be so lucky to have someone...
@daphnempire12 жыл бұрын
Tears everywhere.
@carlosrobertocamargos22602 жыл бұрын
*_I Love You_* 💚💛
@bobkazuo11 жыл бұрын
Shane, You seem to be making Tom's memories more alive than his own parents are... Keep up the good work, pal. Greetings from Brazil. (Vc está mantendo a memória de Tom mais viva que os próprios pais dele... Continue assim, amigo.)
@donnyiswanto32659 жыл бұрын
Please Shane don't give up.... Always support you from here
@Shunig12 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss
@jareda45658 жыл бұрын
A story very very sad and incredible. :'(
@TonyaWalter12 жыл бұрын
So beautiful
@TheMersin9 жыл бұрын
Thank you from Switzerland Shane. Tap Tap Tap
@kaylajackson619112 жыл бұрын
close your eyes and you will see him with all the memories he may not be physically their but shane he always has his hand on ur shoulder
@privateperson11066 жыл бұрын
I love you Thomas and you are thought about everyday...Love you too Shane. I am here for you always, just reach out if you ever need a friend to laugh with or cry with. I will forever be touched by your story and I will never be the same again. I am a stronger person and accept and love my self much more
@1989catlover12 жыл бұрын
So sorry for you loss remember he is always with you,
@TheVortex311 жыл бұрын
Aww THOMAS YOU ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PERSON!!! I SEND OUT MY LOVE SHANE!!!
@matiashannu58417 жыл бұрын
I love Toms voice so much. ...
@Raffanroll10 жыл бұрын
Tom Bridegroom's song sincerely yours: "And forever I will be sincerely yours... I needed something to believe in...Without you I don't know where I'd be; lost on this endless road...Now I am strong enough to know where I belong ...And forever I will be sincerely yours...Tell the ones you love before it is too late and don't be afraid to be who you are". Tap. Tap. Tap. RIP Tom Bridegroom.
@Tywerr610 жыл бұрын
best lyrics ever
@Raffanroll10 жыл бұрын
Tyler Foster Yes, i think so too. Thanks.
@Inigomusic12 жыл бұрын
Oh, you made me cry. Suck an inspirational message.
@silentfades5 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry. Like you a friend of mines parents barred him from seeing his lover while in the hospital. He recieved a phone call the night before the funeral inviting him to the chuch service and the burial. He was so happy as he thought there was a sense of mercy from his lovers parents and a sense of comprimise. He attended the funeral mass and the burial. He was invited to the meal after but during that he felt a sense of coldness from his lovers parent so he graciously left and return the home he shared with his lover for 10 years. Wlhen he opened the door a feeling of fear and dreas took him over. He walked in an a sense of shock overtook him. The realization that all of the furniture an antiques were gone. The bed and all of the pictures and items representing thier entire relationship and trips were all gone. He called the police - within minutes they arrived. After awhile the police came and told him to sit down. The empathic cops told him that his lovers parents had had all of there possessions removed. They said if you want anything bring this case to court and be able to show receipts and proof of ownership. This was before all gay marriage and he could do nothing./ They even denied the return of the bed he shared with his lover. I have never seen or heard of such treatment of a person with the exception of characters in history . That was his lovers parents -NAZIs I am so so very sorry for your loss. Hope you are going on with memories of love and self care and respect.
@djveerman858112 жыл бұрын
`What a said story I realy love his voice when he sings Tom Bridegroom - Sincerely Yours i realy love this song i wish I could download it or somthing whis to have this song a shame that sutche nice people have to end like this :'(
@tapion39848 жыл бұрын
Blessings To Shane and Tom Love 🌈🌹👶👬and Support For Love
@franciscoseloto287711 жыл бұрын
LOVE from Brazil
@couger11112 жыл бұрын
its beautiful xx
@NikoJaquez12 жыл бұрын
What a great song! ='[
@johkkho715611 жыл бұрын
r.i.p thom, i give you my support shane for everything youve been thru.:)
@TheWonderWG112 жыл бұрын
These music are so beautiful, where do we get to hear the full one?
@jameswong20616 жыл бұрын
2018 still listening this song very like it
@Ladybluehawaiian4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful soul....
@briannarivera537011 жыл бұрын
All love is the same and I've never thought it wasn't.
@wezwez1912 жыл бұрын
why didn't I hear about this gig! im a Bolton boy! :(
@chasidywestgate897611 жыл бұрын
Made me realize we have to fightfor what we want and sit around hoping it will happen
@erickarobyn13710 жыл бұрын
Is there any way I can purchase his song "Sincerely Yours"? It's simply beautiful and I am so sorry for your loss. He would be so proud of how America is moving towards marriage equality. Hopefully someday, you and I and all other lesbians and gays can have the freedom to marry the ones we love and have the rights as heterosexual couples do. Your story is an inspiration. Thank you. #EqualLoveEqualRights #Equality #LoveisLove
@ThatGuyNamedMattie11 жыл бұрын
All the love to you forever and all time
@felixsabiniano746511 жыл бұрын
thanks shane for sharing your story. you open my eyes and made me believe in equality. i normally don't support this kind of same sex civil union out of fear from my own religion and upbringing. but you made me believe and change my mind. thank you
@JohnHistorian11 жыл бұрын
Thanks for changing your mind about Gays. I am Gay and just don't understand the hatred. I was closeted for a long time and feel I wasted time because of my fear of what others might think. Spread the word.
@davidlawsonhersley78193 жыл бұрын
He was a awsome friend
@ozielstering262811 жыл бұрын
:/ que triste, no puedo dejarse pensar en esto y llorar por la pérdida, ese sentir, tan doloroso, tan fuerte, por el que esta pasando el
@blvguy12 жыл бұрын
I am sorry sorry to hear about your loss.
@newmusicpro473311 жыл бұрын
R.I.P Tom much love
@diewu627310 жыл бұрын
Miss you,Tom!wish you happy in heaven!
@Seichiiify11 жыл бұрын
i love every storm.. i almost cried every time i played it. hmmm i cant search the lyrics of it in google. why?
@cmblackford7011 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@DEWI13211 жыл бұрын
R.I.P tom
@wdavid7896312 жыл бұрын
é tão triste, eu que nem o conheço fiquei tão triste, agora imagina o namorado dele, deve estar arrasado.
@Raffanroll10 жыл бұрын
You know after reading some of the posts here... I would like to say,In regards to those people who have expressed an interest in maybe buying Tom's songs, i.e. 'Sincerely yours,' or others, and maybe you still haven't been able to?.. I think perhaps one reason why you are not yet able to buy his music anywhere, is because may be they have not yet been able to resolve the ownership rights (legal issues/ for example, probate, i understand can take years and years). For instance, who gets Tom's Royalties? You see until all these issues have been dealt with then it is entirely understandable why we are not yet able to buy Tom's music/songs. Hopefully there is someone out there who can shed more light on this matter? Tap,tap, tap.
@guyusa986810 жыл бұрын
everyone, Watch the movie Prayers for Bobby
@wdavid7896312 жыл бұрын
eu sinto muito, sei que é dificil, mas foi por calza de vcs que eu me aceitei afinal amar não é errado vcs tentaram ser feliz sei que onde tom estiver ele deve estar muito orgulhoso de vc.
@brownsuga50411 жыл бұрын
RIP Tom
@01696646911toan12 жыл бұрын
im so sorry about your love story! it was very beautiful and makes me cry so much. :-((((((((((((((((((((((( Gott bless u and Tom is watching over u in the heaven. i dont know how to say about my feeling when i watched your video about Tom and u. i hav already a partnership and im so afraid when my parents doesnt make it through. im very sad about that i lost my boyfriend. i love him so much, more than myself!!! .....i dont know how can i keep him by my side....i feel so lonely....:-((((((
@SuperYankeefan2112 жыл бұрын
Este vídeo é hart quebrar que eu acabo de esperar ele permanece forte!