I was a police for 35 years. Filming a fight was not the crime, but concealing a crime after the fact put them as accessory to the crime. When they lied and said it was alcohol and they knew it was not, that is where they went wrong.
@rosewallace85412 жыл бұрын
Definitely! Accessory
@mwiggins00142 жыл бұрын
J N, what about the one who claimed he wasn't there but went along with the lie?
@mimisalazar31332 жыл бұрын
Were you a police officer in Mexico? Because if not, those same rules may not apply
@shesagoodgurl2 жыл бұрын
Imma be honest they went wrong by not breaking it up and when they saw her condition and did nothing they went wrong. They were already accessories for recording her death period
@QueenMLA282 жыл бұрын
I don't find it odd at all about Shanquella's mom not crying in interviews. She's poised on her mission to justice for her baby. She'll grieve in the courtroom when the guilty verdict drops!
@DajaLatte2 жыл бұрын
Amen sis!
@Ms.Mewitdabullshit2 жыл бұрын
Glad we have a psychic over here 🙄
@bricbrac282 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@shamiekaford79742 жыл бұрын
I lost my grandbaby In April of last year I did not cry til Xmas Eve the day we usually spend Xmas together PLEASE don’t judge grieve me I lost my mother 4/12/80 my lil brother 4/2/97 I lost my grandbaby 4/12/21 just pray for her mom
@hunay7742 жыл бұрын
TRUST ME JUSTICE IS MORE IMPORTANT IN THIS CASE.... if she gives in to the grief. She may lose her fight for justice and we all know how easy that could be.
@a1chukwu2 жыл бұрын
In regards to her mother, one has to understand shock, adrenaline, and delayed grief. When my father passed away, I didn’t grieve until three weeks after he was buried and I grieved for two years straight.
@ms.keedajohnson2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss 🙏
@TheeMissB2 жыл бұрын
currently for me....
@MrsBlack89982 жыл бұрын
Exactly, it doesn't seem real at first. It took a long time for me to accept that I wouldn't see or talk to my parents anymore in this life - my brain knew it but the rest of me had had to catch up.
@rounz12 жыл бұрын
Same thing. When my Grandmother died, I didn't breakdown until a few weeks later when i was cleaning out her room and found her cane under the bed.
@Hervinbalfour2 жыл бұрын
I grieved over the loss of my mom for almost three years. The closest person to me just taken away like that. Grieving is a difficult process and there is no time limit on the time or process.
@rosehh12 жыл бұрын
My sister lost her son, I never saw her cry. Years later she told me that was the hardest time in her life. She thought she was going to lose her mind. She said losing your child, no matter their age is the most painful thing a parent goes through.
@raymondtittle29182 жыл бұрын
Losing a child is the worst possible thing that could ever happen to a person. Some parents commit suicide, some abuse liquor or drugs, but it's almost impossible to survive that loss.
@JayvaElev Жыл бұрын
@@raymondtittle2918 damn, tht's scary to even think about.
@mztee97662 жыл бұрын
Funky, I love you but you CANNOT judge how a person grieves! This woman has suffered an unimaginable loss and I can only imagine the pain, anguish, and hurt running through her and the father.
@thetotalpackage20052 жыл бұрын
He doesn't have any children, hasn't reared a family so that's his limited view...doesn't make him right but I understand.
@shesagoodgurl2 жыл бұрын
@@thetotalpackage2005 that’s still no excuse there are plenty of people without children who have more empathy. Remember they are also somebody’s child
@tammymarie17792 жыл бұрын
My thing is.. if I see that my friend isn’t fighting back and it’s obvious she doesn’t want to fight, why wouldn’t I break it up instead of just watching and recording? It’s unreasonable to watch someone who is essentially defenseless get beat like that.
@dariusd20032 жыл бұрын
I've seen too many fights to realize ppl don't act like that. It's like a bystander effect.
@nikajay98932 жыл бұрын
He need to watch the video
@stacyr47682 жыл бұрын
The guy that taped it indirectly helped the case because he provided proof.
@lenebrantley2212 жыл бұрын
They were all sitting around waiting for the attacker to come in. Their cameras were ready. A planned attack.
@bashamnatazah74482 жыл бұрын
Even if my friend is fighting back... the minute she start losing or getting beat. I’m breaking it up. PeriodT
@ccthompson23822 жыл бұрын
It’s no longer about the fact they were watching the fight. They all lied. That’s where they lost me. They new she didn’t die because she was drinking. They covered it up. They ALL SHOULD BE LOCKED UP PERIOD!!!!
@rasheedamccallum26612 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! And I’m disappointed in anyone who says otherwise.
@Blueprintforauthors2 жыл бұрын
Exactly going along with the lie makes them guilty!
@NeecyNicole042 жыл бұрын
Yeah at that point they helped cover up a murder
@aokilee66842 жыл бұрын
Exactly that’s assesory after the fact they civered it up
@lenebrantley2212 жыл бұрын
Locked up and throwi away the key. Disgusting demons.
@tehrag.11382 жыл бұрын
Not only did they not help, but all six participated in the cover up, so all involved need to be held accountable to some degree.
@214InnocentGirl202 жыл бұрын
Facts !
@lashondarochell75842 жыл бұрын
Exactly I don't see what Q don't understand about that they are all complicit
@nayakiabates88142 жыл бұрын
This is so sad but how many times have we saw video after video like these of young people fighting? The only big and important difference is this young lady is dead. We definitely need to find out more about this case. Was there more to her death than this one fight??
@questionresearch87212 жыл бұрын
All of them are accomplices.
@BBefore-mn1jz2 жыл бұрын
when do we start holding people accountable for not helping like the deaths of police brutality …. it goes both ways it goes both ways
@mixedandmindful74732 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% that the sentiment of “choosing your friends carefully” is insulting to this poor young woman. We’ve all had friends in our early 20s we may have thought were solid, & the more we became successful, the switch up was real. People grow apart & others become resentful of you moving higher. Fortunately, majority of us didn’t experience someone taking it as far as MURDER, due to our issues. Prayers to her family & I hope this situation receives justice.
@DisTewMuch2 жыл бұрын
You need to leave her mom alone. This poor woman is in shock. My sister lost her son about 15 years ago and I cried more than her at the time. She was devastated to her core and she still grieves today! Bless all the parents who have lost children. 🙏🏾
@zesleyh2 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a mother, I think her mother hasn’t cried because she’s full of ANGER…(I would be) my child has been killed by her “so-called friend” so right now, she can’t Grieve. Her mother has to get justice for her.
@alisayoung2 жыл бұрын
She's probably in a numb-type of shock
@jroyal44802 жыл бұрын
I agree. Once everyone is held accountable, she will finally let it out
@submissiveproviderstboth94852 жыл бұрын
"Crying doesn't change what happened" - Wednesday Adams
@dariusd20032 жыл бұрын
@@submissiveproviderstboth9485 It's so weird seeing ppl want humans to express emotions a certain way. Not everyone grieves the same. Not all pain comes with tears.
@willowwillow17482 жыл бұрын
My sole mission before anything else including grieving would be to ensure that full justice is had for my baby.
@Aquariangirl1262 жыл бұрын
To me Shaquilla’s mother’s emotions is a combination of shock, anger, and disbelief. The fact that Shaquilla best friend who was close to the family told this woman a bald face lie about how her daughter died is insane. She probably screams behind closed doors. I pray justice is served for Shaquilla so her mother mourn in peace. Shaquilla father is going through it, that was his only child.
@questionresearch87212 жыл бұрын
I agree. People will do it. I am in shock that they were still able to leave Mexico.
@brownb45872 жыл бұрын
I agree!!! when you. look at how she died and the lies the family were told.....that would stop anyone in their tracks from grieving. when someone dies, you're already in disbelief because death in itself is hard for all of us to grasp. so you add in the bullshit these murders told the family, I would go from grieving to a 'handling spree.' bcuz honey ain't no way!!!
@drewyork3842 жыл бұрын
I agree with what you said. That lady is in shock. If you’ve ever experienced shock before it’s almost like an out of body experience. Like your mind & body aren’t connected. I cannot imagine the amount of grief she & her family are in.
@leahcasell14872 жыл бұрын
He was covering for these killers
@AshleyMillerTV2 жыл бұрын
It not be a crime to watch someone get beat up, but it is a crime to mess with the crime scene and it’s also call guilty by association
@MurphB2 жыл бұрын
An accessory is someone who aided or contributed to the commission or concealment of a crime so WATCHING someone get murdered can make them all accessories to the commission of the crime.....EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM IN THAT ROOM SHOULD GO TO JAIL....
@LilithTheAquarian3692 жыл бұрын
@@MurphB she said BEAT UP. Not Murdered. We KNOW Quella was. She’s saying like seeing 2 girls fight at school! There’s dozens of witnesses and they don’t go to jail. I’ve seen TONS of fights.
@tdomonique5042 жыл бұрын
@@LilithTheAquarian369 it wasn’t a fight… Shanquella didn’t fight back at all… so it was just a full blown assault… which is a crime.
@submissiveproviderstboth94852 жыл бұрын
It was an attack and you all sound like you would watch someone being BEAT TO DEATH! Blackistan 🤡 shit!
@LilithTheAquarian3692 жыл бұрын
@@tdomonique504 I literally said she was MURDERED! Are you well?
@Islandgirl_182 жыл бұрын
How does a person just stand there and record or watch without trying to break up the fight while a person picks up a large item to hit your friend over the head? The level of violence in the fight was crazy.
@jessisrael5352 жыл бұрын
And she's naked!!!! Sooo true! And you supposed to be a friend? You are a demon.
@gratefulblessed44472 жыл бұрын
True
@uniq-skeewise52242 жыл бұрын
My heart has been so broken since I first heard this story weeks ago. 😢I had my suspicions about a coworker the last 3 years but after this dear child died so brutally I immediately cut this coworker off and I’m not looking back! I don’t want any new friends and I will travel alone or with my husband…my God help me through this because I’m so messed up from this young lady that I have never met! 😞😢
@IdLikeToGoThere2 жыл бұрын
If you know of a crime and choose not to say anything makes you legally liable the issue is it has to be proven
@EssSimplyDone2 жыл бұрын
This part
@chellbell78992 жыл бұрын
obstructing justice right?
@NeecyNicole042 жыл бұрын
@@chellbell7899 I think it could be accessory after the fact
@dariusd20032 жыл бұрын
@@NeecyNicole04 if they have evidence. Often times it's too circumstantial to bring charges. They'd want witness testimony. I had my cousin gunned down in a packed shoe store and people acted like they didn't know who the assailant was... (popular gang banger).
@sand2162 жыл бұрын
An accessory
@anAquarius552 жыл бұрын
The last statement abt her mother’s reaction is something I personally experienced. When my daughter’s father was murdered his mother didn’t cry for 2 months. One day she got the strength to organize his room and broke down for days. So yes people grieve differently.
@ChanteMcCormick2 жыл бұрын
I really wish he hadn't said anything about the mother. I was with him 100% until that.
@vtigga36252 жыл бұрын
@@ChanteMcCormick Same here. I was actually going to leave a comment saying that I agreed with everything he said 100% but after that end part I just couldn't do it because I don't agree with that last part.
@TheVoiceOfReazun2 жыл бұрын
It took me 2-3 years to cry behind my cousin, and well over 6 months to cry HEAVILY behind my grandmother. Grief has its own process for all of us for sure, time has nothing to do with it, and in this case the mother is focused primarily on justice , the mourning , though I’m sure it’s taking place now, but the weight and release will begin to happen when her daughter has been done justice. My heart goes out to anyone grieving for any reason, it’s not an easy process and no book can teach you what your personal process will look like. My heart goes out to this mother and her entire family.🙏🏽
@vtigga36252 жыл бұрын
@@TheVoiceOfReazun I can relate. Although I did cry when I first heard of my cousin's murder years ago it took 3 months for the reality of his death to hit me. And I recently lost my sister earlier this year and although I've cried many times I still don't feel like the reality of her death has hit me yet. Grief is definitely a process and everyone processes it differently and it's not always within your control. Sometimes it just comes out of nowhere unexpectedly.
@TheVoiceOfReazun2 жыл бұрын
@@vtigga3625 exactly! My condolences to you. Those who really know the pain of loss truly understand.
@miss_yoshii2 жыл бұрын
I live in NC. What is being said is this, the guy who recorded it was her “best friend” and the reason she went on the trip. HE was friends with the others, they went to school together, but Shanquella was not actively friends with them. Nazeer Wiggins LIED, he was on FT with Wenter Donovan while Daejahanae fought her. There is a full tape which shows Wenter Donovan AND the other girl flight Shanquella AFTER the first girl. Wenter slammed her on her neck. They lied to her mama, but when they sent that video to a friend in NC, she didn’t think it was funny and sent it to Shanquella’s sister and that’s how it got out. I say lock ALL of them up, because they all had a hand in what happened to her. Then they tried to cover it up by sitting in her mama living room and lying to that lady face. I think her mom is in a state of shock that this is even happening because she had talked to her daughter hours prior. LOCK 👏🏽 ALL👏🏽 THEY 👏🏽 ASSES 👏🏽 UP 👏🏽
@trelover15482 жыл бұрын
Period
@cherylstewart86112 жыл бұрын
WOW!
@miss_yoshii2 жыл бұрын
It’s even rumors that somebody stole $20,000 out of Shanquella bank account smh.
@Shawn-732 жыл бұрын
@@miss_yoshii yeah I heard that too. I heard that they bought there tickets to get back. If that was the case it would seem to me that they knew they was going to do that. Because who would do a one way ticket. I might be wrong but I thought I heard that
@LyddieR2 жыл бұрын
Damn
@kimberlypatterson40122 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your commentary. You brought it straight with no embellishments. Other bloggers need to be ashamed of themselves adding what they heard instead of reporting on just the facts. Keep doing what you’re doing.
@DWest-gn4sl2 жыл бұрын
I have avoided really looking into the story because it’s just sad. But when I saw you did a video I clicked immediately. I Love your ability to think and speak from known facts (even when limited), and not just emotions. Sad situation and I hope justice is served.
@batistehenri2 жыл бұрын
The purpose of recording the fight was to humiliate her on social media for whatever cost they believed she owed them, but in the process, they killed her.
@TraceTrace252 жыл бұрын
I never saw my mom cry after the initial cry from finding out my brother was killed by a friend. It happens. People compartmentalize things to get through the day.
@NurseMidwifeBAE2 жыл бұрын
same, NEVER saw my mom cry when my brother was killed. Funky doesn't know if she lost it at the funeral but is doing everything to contain herself during the interview in order to seek justice. In her quiet times we dont know how much she cries out.
@AfrikaJump2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your losses. What a painful world.
@jaiwooden10662 жыл бұрын
@@AfrikaJump that was so sweet
@sheresasanders85672 жыл бұрын
Same reaction when my brother died.
@marquitashiver61412 жыл бұрын
That part! So sorry about you all's loss 🙏🏽
@shaeb.96272 жыл бұрын
This story is so horrific. The fact that those she trusted betrayed her & took her life. My heart hurts. Rest in peace Queen. ❤
@pettylevelexpert984 Жыл бұрын
I noticed that the mother wasn’t crying as well. But then I thought about Mamie Till. She only ever shed tears “publicly” at the train station when Emmett’s body arrived. But she never cried again publicly. She was determined to not give those people the satisfaction of seeing her break down!
@tonyaclaiborne7272 жыл бұрын
Mom doesn’t need to publicly lose her ish to show how devastated she is. She’s about the business of bringing the killer to justice.
@Rogueviewer12 жыл бұрын
Shanquella’s momma is on the same stuff Ahmaud’s mom was - justice for baby first, emotional breakdown second!
@entrepriseenfondcommun20242 жыл бұрын
This is why i love Q so much. He doesn’t make videos just for clickbaits. He takes the time to analyse the situation before inserting himself in it👏👏👏
@kelleemyers1202 жыл бұрын
That's what makes him different than these other bloggers. He takes his time and doesn't move off emotion and doesn't go with the flow of the trending opinions. He's also very articulate.
@alan.jb_2 жыл бұрын
Yes I always love this about him. He’s very logical and can speak on things from multiple viewpoints
@shaeb.96272 жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@imarimoneyqueen85372 жыл бұрын
YES LOVE HIS PROCESS OF THE WAY HE EXPLAIN THINGS
@princesslioness43132 жыл бұрын
Yes he does
@ariesluv2 жыл бұрын
Grief is different for everyone. You don't know what she's going through when she's alone.
@NurseMidwifeBAE2 жыл бұрын
exactly
@rosewallace85412 жыл бұрын
Very true
@HeyThereFromDC2 жыл бұрын
It CAN be illegal if you know something and don’t say anything. Depending on the circumstances, you can be charged with criminal conspiracy. The same way if you hire a hit on someone, you can be charged, even if you didn’t pull the trigger, and even if you change your mind and try to call it off. The fact that the friends lied about her death seems like circumstantial evidence of a conspiracy. I completely agree with your perspective on this generation growing up on reality TV and lacking conflict resolution skills.
@MsLH2082 жыл бұрын
ABOUT TIMEu covered it!
@SisterLocsNthusiast2 жыл бұрын
No funky- You’re missing a lot of details regarding this young lady’s demise. No it’s not necessarily a crime to watch someone get beat up but in this case they ALL deserve to go to jail. There’s reason to believe there was a conspiracy to harm her which makes them accessories & after harming her she was still alive, there was a medical professional on the scene and the group denied her adequate medical attention because they lied and said she was drunk! Not only that, they moved that girls body to cover up what happened after denying her medical attention.
@nikajay98932 жыл бұрын
Exactly he doesn’t have the facts
@jaylalovelace2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. He really don’t care to report this topic. Everybody just talking about it.
@prtdiva2 жыл бұрын
He said that. He said it’s not a crime to watch a fight but it is a crime to cover it up and they might get subpoenaed for that. You’re both saying the same thing. You just added in additional details but the point is the same.
@DajaLatte2 жыл бұрын
I concur.
@SisterLocsNthusiast2 жыл бұрын
@@prtdiva no he didn’t. He did not mention how she was in fact still alive after being harmed & how they denied her proper medical attention which is key 🔑 funky expressed his point of view from the perspective that the girl was unalived during the attack which is incorrect. She was alive and could’ve possibly been alive still if she received proper medical attention
@Exitstageleft-y5q2 жыл бұрын
People process grief differently, private tears. Her child was supposed to be having a good time, living her best life, as a mom I can only imagine the gut wrenching pain she's experiencing. Father comfort her and all who love Shanquella. ❤️
@idontusee2 жыл бұрын
I agree. Me personally, I'd be angry until justice was served aaaaaand then I'd break down. I've seen a lot of people process grief the same way.
@lenebrantley2212 жыл бұрын
@@idontusee Until justice is served, her mother can't grieve. She is still trying to process and get through this. Heartbreaking.
@whitleywhitley22802 жыл бұрын
exactly, all the hysterical tears already done her mom has to be strong & clear when dealing with what she dealing with now, not all sobbing everytime a news camera is in her face...I hate people keep saying " why she aint crying".....its already over a month later & life still goes on after any death....its so sick how these 6 did this young lady
@idontusee2 жыл бұрын
@@lenebrantley221 That's what I said. I'd be angry UNTIL justice was served and THEN I'd break down.
@mrsmatthews59432 жыл бұрын
We just said that: the late greats Dr. Betty Shabazz & Jackie O weren't known to cry in interviews, either. Grieving is a very *private* matter, for many!
@RealHousewivesOU2 жыл бұрын
Her mom has been showing up the same way so many black women do on the daily having had traumatic experiences & still warrioring on as we have been generationally taught in the face of trial. Her mother is “strong black womaning” to get as swift as possible justice for her daughter and the way she’s handling her grief is not questionable to us, we are all too familiar with the way she is expressing herself. Surely she has/is mourning the heinous death of her daughter & does not have to shed a tear on camera to prove it.
@latoyajohnson8695 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree there’s no rule that says that the mom has to cry on camera to prove that she’s grieving for the loss of her daughter bc I can assure you she is grieving
@huntergreene7417 Жыл бұрын
I don't find it odd that the mother isn't crying, hollering, or falling out while in interviews because her objective is to get justice for her daughter. Emmett Till's mother was the same way. She was on a mission to get justice for her son! I totally get it!
@MercuryBubble2 жыл бұрын
My grandfather just passed away. I loved him tremendously. I am still in complete shock. I haven't cried in the 48 hours. So I understand the mother. She is in disbelief.
@nancythomas51312 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@lakiabarr142 жыл бұрын
Love you Funky Dineva! In regards to your observation of her mother, I can tell you as a mother who has lost 2 children that you don't always show your emotions. I didn't cry when speaking to people about my children either. I cried at home or times when I was alone. For me, I cried and went through so many emotions and thoughts privately, that I was emotionally turned off in public. It may seem very strange to those who haven't experienced the loss of a child, but this is not unusual at all. Just wanted to share from a mother's perspective.
@HerbalQueen2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss…I too lost my only child and it’s pisses me off how people dictate how you grieve…that is why we are all different…I understand why her mother is not sobbing on TV…she’s trying to get down to the bottom of what happened to her child…peace to you sis🙏🏿
@lakiabarr142 жыл бұрын
@@HerbalQueen I agree 100%. Sorry for your loss. Blessings to you ❤
@mllange302 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. 🙏🏽
@nitab77062 жыл бұрын
Sorry for you loss. 😔 I'm disappointed in Dineva response you can't tell someone how to grieve.
@oneblessedchic26182 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Nayahpooh0122 жыл бұрын
I think Funky Dineva would have had a slightly different opinion if he saw the video. Shanquella was ambushed out of her sleep, UNCLOTHED, and was not fighting back. Once a person is on the ground and not participating it is no longer a fight but rather an attack and people witnessing are aiding and abetting at that point.
@arianallen28062 жыл бұрын
Exactly! He really should’ve watched the video if he was going to make a video about it.
@dlynette67702 жыл бұрын
I agree. I think his commentary would be a little different.
@rosewallace85412 жыл бұрын
Egging it on
@two2tango2222 жыл бұрын
That person who is sketchy was Khalil. He was the common thread between them all. He should’ve intervened and protected her, she wasn’t fighting back. He was her best friend. The rest were acquaintances from college, so she chose HIM as a best friend and he didn’t give a damn what happened to her. She trusted HIM.
@clydejones19342 жыл бұрын
I know it devastating! He was her biggest ENEMY actually!
@montreljanae2 жыл бұрын
Khalil is giving very much mastermind of the entire ordeal. Since the first time i saw a pic of him he looks like he can't be trusted.
@td43572 жыл бұрын
I love your clear concise and mature reporting! Thank you
@tiffanesanchez51262 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, you dissected this situation to the T! Your vernacular and the way you structure the breakdown of ANY situation is truly unmatched & I have yet to disagree with your sentiments & logic. Love You Always
@LifeUnfilteredWithTahira2 жыл бұрын
Her daughter has been dean for over a month, her mom may be all cried out. Something no mom should ever have to go through.
@dipmeingloss2 жыл бұрын
🥺💯
@tiffanyblack69112 жыл бұрын
Mine is living but I can't see her for Christmas and didn't see her for Thanksgiving and I cry everyday. MY DAUGHTER IS THE ABSOLUTE LOVE OF MY LIFE!!! I got Cancer recently diagnosed... No money and in so much pain. If my baby died... My heart would be so broken I would cry and be unable to speak. PERIOD😢
@tiffanyblack69112 жыл бұрын
@@getreadynow647 I feel that too. But, I know I would be incapable of conversation if I lost mine due to the loss, sleepless nights and all you named. I feel where Dineva and you are coming from. However, We Black and tears would be my only comfort and cleansing for a while. On the other hand, lack of tears suggests that the mother may know that her daughter was a "Mafuka" and may have been a party to causing a fight. I wish this lady's life was not taken but as much as I Love and miss my own daughter... I know that if she gets in a fight and lives to tell the tale... She AND the other girl should both be locked up as co-partys to the said fight. So, what I'm saying is if this woman was alive she played a part and BOTH should be locked up. However, that is not the case in this situation and Sis should be locked up. I agree with each and everything Dineva said. I don't think the girl intended to kill Shanquella. But, still has to be punished. I hate the punishment has to come from a Mexican jail as well but so be it.🤷🏽And, as Dineva said most of us have watched a fight and done NOTHING. That is not a crime... Yet. It's sad my Deepest Sincerest sympathy for her family. But, a mother knows her child... As I know mine. My daughter might just make someone want to smack her with her mouth. And, even still knowing that... I would cry each and everyday all-day if I ever lost her in finality.😢
@deneicehowell2 жыл бұрын
We may not wanna talk about it, but we need to! Thank you for covering this!
@msmekab.46252 жыл бұрын
All you can say is she hasn't shed a tear ON CAMERA! She expressed she was overcome with grief upon learning of the truth. Let's not overlook she is angry. And has a mission to seek justice. And if you know anything about grief it strikes worse at night, when you're seeking sleep and its just you, your thoughts and regret. IDK I just think going after her mom like that was not ok. Those interviews are a few moments out of what will continue to be a very long ordeal for the rest of her life.
@skittles74822 жыл бұрын
Tell it @msmekab your speaking facts this mom is goin through it. I can't imagine the pain and stress her mom and farther is going through . He can't speculate if she hasn't cried, screamin, passed out or anything. This mom is strong and a warrior we have to keep her and her family in prayer #justiceforshanquella
@chinello1002 жыл бұрын
Exactly 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@pf2432 жыл бұрын
where did he "go after the mom"? the man CLEARLY made a disclaimer stating it was an observation and not a judgement. And that he's simply trying to understand a behaviour that is not what we normally expect to see.
@chinello1002 жыл бұрын
@@pf243 True, but it still frustrated me that he made the OBSERVATION. I love Funky, but I didn’t want to hear that because it felt like a judgement even being mentioned and considering the circumstances. I immediately felt defensive right or wrong😑. This situation is more connected to my heart than my brain. I also think Funky didn’t want to watch the video which I understand, but that video has made me feel compassion for Shanquella’s mother because I KNOW she has cried seeing her baby get beat like that! She’s trying to get justice right now and the STRENGTH she is showing is extraordinary ❤️
@msmekab.46252 жыл бұрын
@@pf243 I made my point as to why I felt it was inappropriate. Especially coming from people who don't have children or experienced her situation and have no idea the horror this could be for her or any parent. And then have to pull it together to be on camera for people who want to sensationalize and profit from HER story.
@Emotional30002 жыл бұрын
Hell, that's what Thelma, JJ & Michael said about Florida when she didn't initially cry about James on Good Times, but she was trying to be strong for everyone and cope and get through the grief until she couldn't take it anymore and dropped the dish and said DAMN DAMN DAMN!!!! Then she cried as we all know, I'd say the same for Shanquella's Mom. We don't know what she's doing behind closed doors only those know that has has lived her pain regarding a child. As far as Everyone else regardless of in the room or getting there late, Needs to do some TIME! They all lied and came up with a lie to tell the family so they all played a part. Overall at this time, Prayers 🙏🏿 Up for the Family and #JusticeForQuella
@RuthBBrown2 жыл бұрын
Yes...I always say DAMN DAMN DAMN
@CitizenVids2 жыл бұрын
"JAY-yuhh"....now I can't stop saying "jail" like that!!🤣😂 Love your commentary, Q.!
@marsharosefort63662 жыл бұрын
It's illegal for not aiding her, if he knew what took place. Aid includes calling authorities and not telling the truth if they didn't tell authorities what really happen, to render proper aid
@thatgirl_nay70492 жыл бұрын
Right but I think we have to look into Mexican laws too because it happened there.
@marsharosefort63662 жыл бұрын
@ThatGirl_Nay according to the report, ALL the friends kept telling the doctor not to bring her to the hospital. So if they helped put clothes on her and lay her up.... bay-beeeeeee they are all responsible. From what I read Mexico up the charge if what the Mexican Dr says is true
@courtnyb79142 жыл бұрын
I lost my mom to homicide back in 2020, and me being the oldest and 9 months pregnant everything fell on me to do. During that time(and now) I've been in a state of shock, and confusion. Trying to process his reasoning(my mom was killed by her husband) in killing her. I said that to say that her mother could be very well in a state of shock, and trying to process every piece of this whole ordeal. With her not showing the outward emotions doesn't make me look at her in confusion. I truly understand her. I pray that justice is served. 💜
@abdoutouzani10712 жыл бұрын
Also consider she’s been a media whirlwind that hasn’t let up since it happens. When things with this case settle and quiet, it really hits.
@galliano1002 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss Courtny! ❤️
@QueXopa792 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢 praying for you
@nox72822 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, and condolences for your lovely mother. May she RIH.
@falishas74262 жыл бұрын
💕
@Daydreaming3052 жыл бұрын
I say this respectfully: The mother was lied to by her daughter’s “friends” and possibly grieved for what she thought happened. After learning the truth, I don’t think I would be able to grieve for my child properly until I knew how she died and that the people responsible were held accountable. I can only imagine the tears she shed from the fake stories she was told. Her daughter was vulnerable by these group of people….Think about being vulnerable and consoled by the people who watched your daughter die. I wouldn’t shed another tear until I was able to get justice for my child.
@alisonassanah-carroll19572 жыл бұрын
Concealing the crime is where the legality sets in. Failing to provide medical attention after knowingly plotting to do bodily harm, issue! Coming home and conjuring up the lie- issue! This situation makes me digusted and angry all the way around. When the autopsy report was released, I was done! It's a damn shame!
@girl80cali242 жыл бұрын
I like your perspective. Thank you. My prayers are with her family.
@maryjanesbaby93922 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe Daejhanae Jackson will be the only one arrested but I’m glad she was caught.
@caribbeangyal28842 жыл бұрын
Same Wenter and the boy too whatever the name was I forgot but alla dem!!! I bet Daejhanae will be singing like a canary within 42 hours of Mexican jail
@cj88032 жыл бұрын
@@caribbeangyal2884 Oh of course. She's not taking all the heat alone.
@k.g.66822 жыл бұрын
Definitely glad she was arrested last night.
@my4jacksons2922 жыл бұрын
Allegedly, Daejhanae was not the only person fighting Shanquella. The other young lady named Winter (maybe the wrong spelling) was the last to assault her, allegedly by body slamming her to the floor. That was supposedly why she had the neck and back injury.
@lizamimi2 жыл бұрын
She is going to sing like a canary….they are going to jail!
@ladya33022 жыл бұрын
I think her mother is more mad and in shock than anything. She thought one thing and was probably hugging and crying her daughter's "friends" then all of a sudden she finds out her daughter died an ENITRELY different way, and the "friends" lied. I'd be cried out and want everyone to pay.
@indiamatthews43772 жыл бұрын
They didn't try to get her help or anything.They all need to go to jail
@patricehollywood60142 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Every last one of them. They all need to rot in jail.
@Shameekk2 жыл бұрын
All of them need to be in jail. They all played apart in her death and trying to cover it up. They’re all guilty in my opinion!
@mickeyavant57092 жыл бұрын
Mom got more ANGER than saddness right now...she ain't got time 2 cry UNTILshe getz answers...in the words of the G.O.A.T 2Pac she mite be "dyin inside but outside shez lookn fearless"
@vonbrown40052 жыл бұрын
This has been the best take on this situation that I have seen yet...makes so much sense
@patricehollywood60142 жыл бұрын
I can't. This bothers me so much. They recorded her being killed. They did absolutely nothing. Further they condoned it. Acting in "concert" is a crime. I hope they make an example out of all of them. 50 to life.... Now bye Nessa.
@sherrimassey91782 жыл бұрын
Funky the stages of grief are as follows Shock, denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance and hope. The mother is in the process and will continue to be for some time.
@NurseMidwifeBAE2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. In mexico recording a crime is illegal!
@NurseMidwifeBAE2 жыл бұрын
@@sherrimassey9178 exactly
@HmmIzThatRite2 жыл бұрын
Shanquella had 3 successful businesses. Children's hair braiding, clothing boutique and a hair/ bundles business. Way to go young lady 👏🏾 🙌🏾
@clydejones19342 жыл бұрын
So commendable. Especially, being so young!!
@justicepower12552 жыл бұрын
And those 6 devils couldn't take it.
@clydejones19342 жыл бұрын
@@justicepower1255 Big Facts
@magnoliaesq10272 жыл бұрын
Delayed grief. When you lose a child, it’s as if if you let yourself cry a little, you feel like you might break and won’t ever stop crying. Mom is on a mission right now.
@NurseMidwifeBAE2 жыл бұрын
facts!
@nox72822 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct! You can tell Shanquella’s mom is in this mode. She’s in the justice-getting mode, staying strong to take care of business for her daughter.
@ingaleverett73772 жыл бұрын
Who says someone has to cry in front us to make us believe she’s hurt! Let’s not create something that ain’t there, let her mother get justice and allow her emotions to catch up with her later.
@shonab362 жыл бұрын
Thank you Q. I always appreciate your insight.
@shadee152 жыл бұрын
Let's not even get into mom. She is in fight mode right now. Not everyone is emotional in public. I'm sure after the news of the death, there were tears and screams, and after that autopsy, there were fighting words. My dad died in front of my sis. I'm still crying 2 yrs later and she shed her tears that one day. I'm sure she loved him just as much as I did, but we built different.
@irefusepodcast2 жыл бұрын
i think at this point we can change the part in the narrative from 'she went to mexico with some friends' to 'she went to mexico with associates' because no friend ambushes you and no friend would allow it to happen.
@Meca19862 жыл бұрын
Shid not even associates, more like some foes
@lenebrantley2212 жыл бұрын
They were acquaintances because they were not her friends.
@crazyhomebodygirl2 жыл бұрын
I would use colleagues
@irefusepodcast2 жыл бұрын
@@crazyhomebodygirl you better than me. from what i surmise, alot of the people on the trip it was one-sided. i heard shanquella footed the bill for the entire trip. but you aiint heard that from me.
@4TopNotchEmpress2 жыл бұрын
I think she died shortly after the fight because if you get attacked, the first thing you're going to do is contact your loved ones. I just find it odd that she never called her mom or other family and let them know what happened. So, I feel like she probably lost consciousness right after she was attacked.
@shamelcutkelvin88072 жыл бұрын
I think u spot on with this. Ain’t no way she wouldn’t call to let someone know
@charmainecrumby71862 жыл бұрын
Correct... I feel the same
@whitleywhitley22802 жыл бұрын
no, calling a "loved" one is NOT the first thing people would do after an attack....everybody does not have loved ones and the first person most people would call is the police......but otherwise I agree that yes she was incapacitated
@whitleywhitley22802 жыл бұрын
@@shamelcutkelvin8807 well really who could she call to help her, not her mom or dad back in the usa...too far away....this young lady obviously thought she was among friends so she definitely felt safe going on a trip with these (murderers) "friends", so I bet she would think someone in that room would help her
@twinspirittalker2 жыл бұрын
Her neck was broken she couldn't move less lone call someone. The break she suffered from directly affects the brain signaling process and according to the autopsy report she died 15 mins after her injury.
@Moonewitch2 жыл бұрын
"Accessory after the fact," for the guy who wasn't there. He can be charged with that.
@leeleethelibra9812 жыл бұрын
Reason why I stay to myself..I’ve never cared to be around a bunch of people anyways RIP Quella! ❤️
@entrepriseenfondcommun20242 жыл бұрын
Exactly hum…😤
@queenkeesh86602 жыл бұрын
Same I only cared for 1 or 2 friend
@lynettejacquet13242 жыл бұрын
The fact that someone in that room put clothes on her and moved her body to another room and then left went on their little way they knew they done killed this girl. All 6 of them need to go to jail
@rosewallace85412 жыл бұрын
With the Quickness!!
@smithprg12 жыл бұрын
It was not a fight Funky. That was an attack. Someone should have intervened. Also, they were all part of the coverup. They all need to go to jail including the guy who arrived the next day. He was part of the coverup.
@aisha6912 жыл бұрын
Yupp because if I found out my bestfriend died on holiday, I’d jump on the plane back home and sing to Shanquella’s mother and the police. This case should’ve been open and shut from last week smh.
@auntieshugah93302 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, the law (RICO) -states that you can be arrested and charged with a murder. Even if you did not do it. If you knew, if you were involved. If you were involved, you can be charged.
@michilove65542 жыл бұрын
Every time I see Shanquella's mom in an interview, I feel that she is angry. Like, absolutely livid, n this is y she's not shedding tears n choking up. When my ex best friend died a couple of years ago, I never cried. She's also my cousin but till this day, I haven't shown any emotion. It's not bc I didn't love her to death, bc I did. Nor was I angry with her anymore at the time of her passing, I'm just still in a state of shock bc she was a couple of years younger than me n didn't have any of the health issues I deal with daily. I know that the time will come when I will cry, but it hasn't happened yet. As u said, lots of ppl grieve differently.
@two2tango2222 жыл бұрын
That was a vicious, vile, hateful attack. It was the level of passion I seen that was heartbreaking. I’m like why does she have this level of anger toward another person you just went on vacation with?
@BlackQueenInYou2 жыл бұрын
She beat her like she hated her.
@nofilter25032 жыл бұрын
From some of the stories that I have seen, it was said that Shaquella had caught Khalil and Malik engaging in activities(sexual) on a trip prior to the Mexico trip, and that she recorded it. Those girls were friends of Malik and Malik was the one recording, khalil was in another room Malik was recording because he wanted her humiliated because she caught them supposedly. That's according to other platforms I have come across but regardless of whatever the reason was, she definitely did not deserve that!!
@zuria072 жыл бұрын
Exactly. This wasn’t a fair fight and still no one intervened or sought care for their “friend”.
@two2tango2222 жыл бұрын
@@nofilter2503 hmmm so Khalil could’ve been being vindictive if that’s true. Soon a lot of small details will come to the surface and fill in a lot of the blanks here.
@nofilter25032 жыл бұрын
@@two2tango222 Exactly if that narrative is true, it explains the hatered but still does not condone the violence and also she had no clue that Khalil was no longer her friend this was a plot seemingly
@soulstarmusiclover12542 жыл бұрын
Funky you keep using the word fight but it wasn’t a fight it was an attack because Shanquilla never lifted a hand to fight back.
@rebekahpowers15952 жыл бұрын
Right, no fight because Shanquella didn’t fight back.
@roejae23242 жыл бұрын
Everyone should be CHARGED! It'll be up to the investigation & jury to decide if they're GUILTY.. PERIOD! And they should be charged because no one said anything. And they made up a lie, refused to allow the paramedics to take her to the hospital AND left her damn body there! The charges should be determined by their role in this horrific & tragic event!
@rhondasmh18792 жыл бұрын
@ Tudy T. There isn't a jury in the Mexican judicial system. It'll be up to the judge solely.
@roejae23242 жыл бұрын
@@rhondasmh1879 Welp.. If you're on their grounds, their rules. It is what it is and must be handled accordingly!
@shamelcutkelvin88072 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!
@rhondasmh18792 жыл бұрын
@@roejae2324 they finna make an example of them folks! Nobody deserves to be done the way they did Shanquella. I hope justice is swift.
@swhite36332 жыл бұрын
In the State of New York, if you witness a crime, you can be charge with not reporting
@Chosen_FirstLady2 жыл бұрын
Her Mother is in shock more than likely. And sometimes anger/grief, especially in a case like this will cause to go into complete shock.
@jroyal44802 жыл бұрын
She wants justice for her daughter so she wants to show strength in front of the camera. Yes traditionally, we use to seeing uncontrollably crying, but I believe once everyone is held accountable, she will finally let it out
@rayseyeoman75402 жыл бұрын
Her mom my have cried since she died from October/early November. I think she may just be angry and want justice.
@carysteele612 жыл бұрын
THEY ALL need to be charged and extradited !
@dipmeingloss2 жыл бұрын
💯
@trevongordon952 жыл бұрын
Right
@blakely19762 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@questionresearch87212 жыл бұрын
When convicted, I doubt they will survive.
@sabrinarobinson54332 жыл бұрын
And nothing less
@shegamez82372 жыл бұрын
Maybe her mother is holding in her tears until she gets the justice her daughter deserves… when I lost my mother I didn’t cry for a full year because I was afraid if I allowed myself to cry, I would fall into bed and never get up again. I needed therapy to help me through my grief.
@alisayoung2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. May God bless your mother's soul
@HR-re6mr2 жыл бұрын
Ppl who have not experienced intense grief will not understand how ppl deal with just surviving after a huge loss.
@NurseMidwifeBAE2 жыл бұрын
agreed. and sorry for your loss
@smitchell87882 жыл бұрын
Q is absolutely wrong for commenting on the mother. Her mother is angry. No time for years only justice.
@msmadison2 жыл бұрын
An accessory is someone who aided or contributed to the commission or concealment of a crime. So yeahhh all of them need to go to jail. There was no alcohol present in Shanquella's system and they got together and came up with this alcohol poisoning excuse.
@Ladysmith8242 жыл бұрын
Mom is on a mission and when you let your emotions overwhelm you, you will let things go by the wayside that lady has a long fight ahead
@jasiebabee2 жыл бұрын
I believe if you know something and they find out that you know something, you can be arrested for obstruction of justice. Knowingly lying is illegal if they can prove it.
@Rogueviewer12 жыл бұрын
Shanquella probably gifted birthday boy a villa to fill with people of his choosing. He chose hood rats with underlying animosity towards shanquella and they lost it! She shined too bright, so they sniffed out her life. You see this cattiness and barbaric bullying everywhere (teams, school cliques, bachelorette parties, reunions, baby showers, housewives outings). That’s why everyone relates to this story.
@petrinegordon2 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about Housewives in regards to this situation too. Especially in the current season of Real Housewives of Potomac where Mia tries to assault Wendy because Mia was in Wendy's business about Peter Thomas and because she doesn't know how to use her words she tried to attack her. The fact that only one person right after the incident even called Mia's behavior out reminds me of this situation. The Cabo 6 probably thought "oh we're going to teach Shanquella lesson and it's justified what we're doing". The same way some of the women on Potomac tried to justify Mia's behavior the only difference is Mia didn't get to put her hands on Wendy because of security. But no one knows how far Mia could have taken it had it not been for security. The Shanquella case is one of the reasons I think this is my last season watching any of the Housewives shows because the mean girl behavior and ganging up on 1 or 2 girls can lead to dangerous situations and it's getting tired to see women my mom's age behave like this.
@FavoredandFlourishing2 жыл бұрын
Death is sometimes so shocking you can’t cry! When I lost my dad I was too shocked and angry to cry
@truth-digger2 жыл бұрын
Her mother seems like an older lady. Reminds me of my grandmother. That lady is rock hard. When my uncle died I cried like a baby. I never seen her shed a tear. & that was her youngest child who’d passed before his time. So, yes some people process grief differently. She seems more angry @ the audacity of the friends who took her daughter’s life right now. But I believe the grief will eventually set in.
@endorasmom64602 жыл бұрын
It is illegal to stand by and watch someone get beaten, especially when it ends in the beaten person’s death. You’re considered an Accessory to the fact. That’s US law though.
@chipmunkred15192 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily, witnessing someone being assaulted is not a crime. You could simply say that you feared for your physical safety so you couldn’t intervene. Or that the person who committed the assault threatened your safety as well. We would all be in jail if witnessing a fight/ assault was a crime. The crime that they did commit was covering up a murder, Lying to law Enforcement, and giving false statements.
@brandiknight65922 жыл бұрын
I agree but I’m not a lawyer and it’s to many people who got their law degree from University of Google. Let’s just see who this play out within Mexico and see what their law is. Remember this is not 🇺🇸
@DeniseRene4072 жыл бұрын
@@brandiknight6592Exactly. All these comments speaking on what is and isn’t legal are irrelevant unless they are educated on the laws in the location where the incident took place.
@patricehollywood60142 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I disagree. If a person knows and participated in setting a person up, it does warrant him going to JAIL. Every last one of them needs to rot in a Mexican jail.
@kathyrodriguez8202 жыл бұрын
They do but I'm sure they won't all be charged.
@qbackus2 жыл бұрын
Love you Q.. Praying for Justice for this young lady
@sheenakenyon2 жыл бұрын
I think we are missing a vital part of this whole thing. When the nurse was called what did they tell the nurse, because if she the nurse was called out for one thing that is what she/he will treat the patient for. So at that stage even though the other 5 didn’t participate in the fight, they all went along with what to tell the nurse, so that is probably where they became accomplices. Because I’m thinking had one of them said different to the nurse may she she would have been looking for something more serious. This for me is where it went left for all of them.
@ladybuginc.41892 жыл бұрын
Accessory before the fact, definitely is a charge.. If those black bastards plotted, to jump in this girl, and ultimately killed her, they need to go to jail!!
@pettiestofbettys2 жыл бұрын
I do also want to say that trayvon Martin's mother talks about how to this day she still has not cried because she feels like she needs to stay strong for her family. That's just a black woman thing that we are slowly trying to break out of
@plaineblaine27572 жыл бұрын
When my brother died, my mother did not cry…until the last patch of dirt covered his casket . She literally did not believe that her child was gone until he was fully buried. She had a mental breakdown afterward. It breaks my heart every time I think about it. 💔
@soulfulpeacesounds2 жыл бұрын
❤💛❤💚Love and light to you and your family
@af80712 жыл бұрын
That'll do it!
@shamiekamuldrew2 жыл бұрын
OMFNG I'M literally BAWLING 😭 right NOW reading THIS...I HAVE 3 CHILDREN AND was JUST BEGGING GOD 2 NEVER LET ME FEEL THAT TYPE OF LOSS PLZZZZ 😭... JUST PRAYED 4 UR MOM
@Promentalist2 жыл бұрын
Damn it breaks mine just reading it. I send nothing but peace and comfort to you and your family.
@YoungVYoung50002 жыл бұрын
My God. I’m sure for your mom it felt like a nightmare. I can’t imagine her grief sending ❤️
@azteca66952 жыл бұрын
If they go to jail in Mexico. There going to be in shock on the conditions it is. And the inmates run the jail.
@nawlnottoday36772 жыл бұрын
Inmates run the jail here
@TierraSanea872 жыл бұрын
I'm a person who very rarely cries, even when someone passes. Not right away anyway. It usually takes me a little while, sometimes weeks. I've always been that way. So I think her mother may still be in shock or disbelief that this even happened. I pray for the entire family and my heart goes out to them.🙏💙💙
@Stephanie-rp5zg2 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way
@wilmajones37942 жыл бұрын
I' m praying for their families too because that is sad I feel the same way you feel 💙🙏🏿🙏🏿🕊️
@buttercup96492 жыл бұрын
And sometimes, when you become successful, you have to change your circle. I hate to think this way, but so much in life has taught me that jealousy can lead to harm. Bless this beautiful soul, her family, and loved ones.
@kev20202 жыл бұрын
I haven't had "fighting" friends since middle school. I feel so bad for that young lady especially knowing that none of them got her to a hospital. I hope they all get torn up in the MX court system.
@trishk10542 жыл бұрын
I’m sure her mom has shade plenty tears & sleepless nights! I applaud her for coping & pushing through on camera when speaking of her daughter, that alone takes strength .
@whitleywhitley22802 жыл бұрын
no one cries 24/7, so we do not have access to see what pain this mom is in everyday, of course we gotta know that she definitely has already screamed that initial hysterical scream from the time they called her from mexico saying shanquella had died, its a month later now & life does still have to go on after a death, maintaining her composure when these cameras are in her face & trying to speak clearly so we can hear all the important things she has to say is more important than being a basket case sobbing crying ....RIP Shanquella
@DeeShell5042 жыл бұрын
Perfectly stated!
@Promentalist2 жыл бұрын
That’s another thing… this is not as new to her as it is to us. Exactly
@sherilynwilliams45012 жыл бұрын
Thank you for having the dreaded conversation.
@Stacey241012 жыл бұрын
The last half of your post resonated with me. As a high school teacher, my common refrain among the young ladies, who are the most common combatants, is that you are not on reality TV.
@LoverofLife8632 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest story. I hope everyone who flew back and tried to “Go on with their lives” see her face every where until they tell the truth. I haven’t seen her mother bawl in interviews, but I have seen her fighting tears and choking up.
@wowzerssmith50272 жыл бұрын
Spot-on commentary as always. I know that you don't like to speak on everything that happens, but I hope you know your voice and perspective is valuable and much appreciated in a sea of people talking out there side of their necks. Thank you for this.