Hmmm, I am leaning from you day in day out. When I was thrown out of my matrimonial home without a job with two kids who are now under graduates, I turned the lemon into lemonade by picking up my pieces together ,not minding that I am a graduate, there is no business of buying and selling I didn't do with small capital at the beginning before God elevated me, but today by the grace of God I am a house owner in the city of Abuja and another in my home town. See what hard work and blessings of God can do. Neze mama I pray our women and ladies will listen to you.
@Mira-p1v9c26 күн бұрын
Our father was holding grudges of what our mother (his ex wife)did to him,is love towards us was very less. but i thank God for our stepmother she was the one forcing our own father to show us love,care , protection and attention she did everything possible for the harmony and unity of the family till it worked May God bless her with a child of her own even in her late 40s we'll help her raise that child She fought for us when our biology mother couldn't . despite our rudeness and stubbornness she loved us and wished us well God please bless her womb
@theoptimist48915 күн бұрын
Amen Amen Amen
@brightezekiel417429 күн бұрын
I'm learning not just how to be a better husband but also a good dad to my kids. Kudo madam Neze.
@mari-carmenbaca6225Ай бұрын
Speaking from experience , the best that can happen to a baby girl is to have a father who's love and trust you
@PrettyUche-d4xАй бұрын
Neze you are changing lives and transforming minds. I do not know if tou realise how many thousands of people are happy, hopeful and changed because of you. May God bless you tremendously
@evelynpasanje29 күн бұрын
Amen! I totally agree with you!
@divinerevealations29 күн бұрын
Me threeeee 🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
@JulieLwezaura-z3t6 күн бұрын
Well said.
@oluwaseyiighereje574329 күн бұрын
My late father was so amazing. I knew him for just 9 years plus because he died before I turned 10. He was a disciplinarian, but he showed me love. He taught me to be fearless, to always stand for the truth and tell the truth at all times. One time, he flogged me because I did something wrong ( I was stubborn). He cried afterward and promised he would never flogg me again. He kept his word. My father never joked with any of his daughters. He treated us well.May his soul continue to rest.
@EmmanuelCflo29 күн бұрын
May his soul truly rest in peace. Thanks for sharing
@oluwaseyiighereje574329 күн бұрын
@EmmanuelCflo Amen and thank you.
@Nadia323-n2z28 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Thinkingwomanglobal27 күн бұрын
Same here my dad passed when I was 9 but I don't think I have exhausted the love he poured into me.
@marierose916329 күн бұрын
My mum was my dad and she did a fantastic job. I ain’t one to brag but I turned out fantastic. So mum keep resting in Paradise.
@Harold_20017 күн бұрын
God loves her ❤️ 💕
@providenceartdesign24 күн бұрын
I have not really heard women ever speak foundly of the men in their life. That is exceptional. I wish more women had such report
@youngmoms25426 күн бұрын
You and your father's relationship is a description of the relationship I had with my dad. Those were the best 15years of my life. 9 years later, my heart still bleeds💔😭 I crave his love, his attention and his care, never felt the same love again😢 Forever my hero🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
@tomiwa1a21 күн бұрын
Auntie Nezeville I had to switch my browsers so I can drop a comment. God bless you for being a teacher I have been looking for. Someone that can take pop culture issues and use it to teach important lessons. I must confess I find pop culture interesting not for the gossip but for a case study into humanity. However, most of these gossip bloggers just go around spreading tea about people without sharing what we can learn and apply to our lives. You have done this brilliantly. God bless you greatly ma!
@sarahmuzaki4656Ай бұрын
Wonderfully put my dear👏🏾👏🏾🌹🌹. As for me, I have never experienced love of either a man or a woman. The only memory I have about my father is when he beat me into pulp because at age six, I couldn’t prepare peanut paste!!! My first born brother beat me so badly at age 12 because I had refused to cook for him. This is not to forget my mother who abandoned me to my grandie at two months!! My grandie loved me so much but she was too old and died too early in my life!!! The father, mother, brother, sister I have known in my life is God who has protected me from all trials of the world!!!!!!!
@lucyokanume5760Ай бұрын
Sending you hugs sis 🤗❤️.
@brendanwosa8963Ай бұрын
Hugs dear
@NezevilleАй бұрын
I am so sorry for your experience❤️
@freeborneguaomon625529 күн бұрын
Its well dearie. Sending love...
@oluwaseyiighereje574329 күн бұрын
Sending you so many hugs.
@Jennys-life-202429 күн бұрын
I didn't get the love of a father while growing up ,no his not dead his very much alive but he was not in my life all through my childhood ,now that am an adult it's really affecting me I pray to marry a man who will love my future kids and treat them like a queen , I will never want my kids to go through what I went through while growing up NEVER!!!
@Nezeville29 күн бұрын
Amen darling You will
@etusjuliet51333 күн бұрын
Dear Barr. Neze❤❤you nailed it! I am my Father's Daughter and I understand the Father Figure in the lives of children both boys and girls❤❤ Thank You for this teaching. I wish I can share this your teaching in other platforms.
@hourgla-ss29 күн бұрын
❤ I love this video the most And I learned from it I wasn't privileged to have a good dad, but I must choose the best one for my children
@modupe9627 күн бұрын
I thank God for how far i have come. My father made me have low self-esteem ,yes he tried his best as a father,but he kept complaining about how fat i am and how i love to eat. He never said i was beautiful, i don't blame him though because he doesn't know better. But i thank God today i left my shell and i am very confident now and i teach my children to be. Thank you barrister Neze
@mathosky129 күн бұрын
A real man is that one who love and cherish his family and respect other women
@HTWJАй бұрын
Naze you are truly a voice of reasoning. Keep the fire burning.
@fannyseisay768Ай бұрын
Neze, you're full of wisdom, we're learning a lot frome your videos, you're such a beautiful and confident lady, thank to your parents, especially you father, may God bless them.🇸🇱
@MojiFalilatJimohАй бұрын
I love the pictures of you and your children 🎉❤
@anaisidoro0729 күн бұрын
Neze, you are healing a lot of women, myself included. Keep changing the narrative, we are listening and we are hopeful. You look absolutely radiant btw. Thank you for sharing❤
@bettyboop201Ай бұрын
I’m truly a daddy’s girl and he made sure that any man that comes into my life have some big shoes to fill and he has always been my biggest cheerleader my brothers made sure I was safe and treated me well
@hiddengirl587229 күн бұрын
As a kid until now, my father will always call me princess. While among friends or other people, I will ask him to call my actual name instead of saying "princes" (I was shy 😂). But he will never stop. He will always praise me and give me gifts that he could afford and always let me express myself. Today I see the effect of what he did on me. I can't accept any type of treatment from any body. I tell my friends I am a princess and I know my worth.
@gloriahenry-nt6dr29 күн бұрын
A good father is always a blessing to have neze nnem.
@prettysahataratv2000Ай бұрын
That phone you’re holding will ring for good news lJN 🤲🙏🥰
@philezea153629 күн бұрын
I receive this word in Jesus name amen aaaaammmmeeeennn
@prettysahataratv200029 күн бұрын
@ Amen 🙏 my dear
@LovethOkafor-fp9te29 күн бұрын
Amen
@BlessingOjienon28 күн бұрын
AMEEEEEEEN
@sassyk408123 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@nkengsandy865829 күн бұрын
I still miss my dad till date 😢😢😢, as the only daughter among 6 boys, the way that man loved me❤😊. I can never go astray and watching our mama barrister Neze preaching same thing as my father, I know I am still on the right track. Love all the way mi barrister Neze❤
@ChideraCynthiaRN29 күн бұрын
My father died when I was 2+ years old, my mother stepped in and made sure we did not lack that father’s love. I never downgraded myself, never had low self esteem, always knew what I wanted in a man. And I’m currently happily married to a God sent, a man who is doing everything my father would have done. Some people had no father in their lives which was not of their own doing, but still turned out very well in life. Some had their fathers in their lives and still chose the wayward way. I believe our parents will do their part, but it is a personal decision to choose how we will live our lives. Nice video once again Neze❤
@zillahwanogho663129 күн бұрын
❤❤❤Excellent story God bless your intelligent mother.
@MarieOlabanji29 күн бұрын
As an adult, you just made me shed tears... This was my dad. May God rest his soul!
@osunsanyakolawoleolusegun2558Ай бұрын
neze you spoke sincerely and truthfully.
@funmilolaadetifa39829 күн бұрын
The way you described your daddy reminds me of my husband! He is so protective of his daughters! God bless your daddy! Some ladies nowadays are simply lay about, lazy and irresponsible and that is why they easily fall into the hands of some arrogant and money miss road men. Thanks my beautiful Barrister.
@msk7458Ай бұрын
Awww, Neze..... you made me miss my dad! im so glad you had so much love. you are amazing
@digitalemefa29 күн бұрын
It's all about "Attraction", "Positive vibes", "Strong roots", "Better legacy" built by parents, especially dads... Most of the time, it is proven that abusers are already abused in childhood, or are born to abusers or have lived in that. The prettiest girl in the world can only give what she has (You can only give what you have, positive or negative.) Thanks Neze
@yetolaoluwasina528229 күн бұрын
I love listening to you ma. You are an embodiment of wisdom and grace. Love you ma.
@ibierebriggs372328 күн бұрын
I cried watching this video, my 30 years on earth has been a roller coaster of majorly the decisions and character of my parents, hmmmmm I pray I do better for my kids when I have them🙏🏻
@AbimbolaAremu-u9k29 күн бұрын
Neze you are Correct 💯. I am a testimony of having the best man as a FATHER. Rest in peace Fantastic Dad🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤
@elohoeghagha467128 күн бұрын
I also am enjoying my father's love. My father is an exceptionally good man a very caring father.l love my father
@Nezeville28 күн бұрын
God bless Daddy
@elohoeghagha467128 күн бұрын
@Nezeville Amen
@AdewusiAdewumi29 күн бұрын
Neze you are a source a great and wonderful woman. I always admire your ideology. You are blessed.
@giftmoses9639Ай бұрын
What a love of father for her daughter? A love of hope, contentment, voice of d voiceless boldness, fearless, etc. What an amazing father? God bless him wherever he is. Neze u are really a beacon of love, grace. & hope for others.
@abbienat803227 күн бұрын
My father was amazing dad-a rock that, me and my siblings are standing on today! He’s late now but his legacy continues
@ladylorp273829 күн бұрын
It would ALWAYS be Fashionable to be RESOURCEFUL and I take pride in my skills and crafts and my degree. Lord thank you for making it all possible 🙏🏾
@iya287129 күн бұрын
Neze, you are so loved and blessed by God. Unfortunately some of us lost our dad young and keep looking for our father’s love one way or another . I was unfortunate to love a selfish man who stifled me. Thank God I escaped, I know my worth and would not settle for anything less than a real man.
@zainabibrahim29329 күн бұрын
The end of this video summarizes everything for me. Once again #Neze you have nailed it.
@divinerevealations29 күн бұрын
My dad was a naval personnel. A commander outside but a sweet, soft, gentle and kind father. He made me WHO I AM today. My mum tried but my whole personality came from my dad. He went as far as vetting my suitors 😅😅😅. The same was also with my parish priest who was a father to me till I got married. Omo I enjoyed my growing up. Not all men are the same. Men are great if you choose the right ones. I was the first child but till he died he still called me baby
@TranquilPulseX29 күн бұрын
I grew up with boys, too, as the only girl, and my father was the real Gee! He was my mentor and still is my hero, so I understand exactly what you are talking about. Every girl needs a loving father!
@LIGHTGIVER-daughterofzion26 күн бұрын
My father showed us love to the extent of being in sick be and still provide for his children, may his soul rest in peace 🙏🏼
@millicentchinelo607728 күн бұрын
Well done Neze, this is a master piece, please take your flower 🌼 🌸 🌻 🎉🎉🎉
@giftmoses9639Ай бұрын
Neze, u are so loving, lovely & loveable. More God continue to bless u, ur husband children & ur entire family. So many souls have been blessed & educated, through ur educative & informative updates. We love u sweet Neze. Job weldone.
@lucyokanume5760Ай бұрын
Barr. Neze you nailed it as usual. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. God bless you! ❤
@JaneOgbonna29 күн бұрын
Nezeeeeeee is an intelligent woman, and that is it, period!!!!!!
@maureenenumah4907Ай бұрын
You are indeed a blessing to us. All your videos are full of wisdom, lessons to be learned. I love you dearly ma. Thanks for all you represent.
@livewithPrecy12 күн бұрын
Nezeville, you just said it all. Keep doing what you know best to do.
@RealJulianaInspiration2 сағат бұрын
Excellent inspiring story for the younger ones. I agreed, Fathers played a very essential role in whom their daughters turned out. I remembered how my father treated my mother so lovely and caring that at my earliest age, it formed my standard of the kind of man I would love to marry. My father had a very powerful influence on who I am today.
@toyindairo963029 күн бұрын
You are just so amazing in the approach, technique, and delivery of the prevailing topic (as have always been); you are simply a Genius that you are. I can't resist the temptation of watching your videos upon notifications, even in the face of enormous time constraints; I believe that the touch of humor in every episode is the reason for this; honestly speaking, you are a kind and lovable personality, and very sound upstairs, and I believe it even more after listening to your experience growing up as a child. Everything you talked about regarding the characteristics of both genders (Man, and Woman) is true, from my personal experience as well, only with a slight difference in background and family arrangement/composition. You are really doing great in your Calling (I believe), keep the flame burning, and I pray that God bless you and your family, in Jesus' name. Compliments of the Season to you, and to every Fan of Barrister Neze! And this is Nezeville 😎😂😂
@EmmanuelCflo29 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@helenalfred84028 күн бұрын
Beautiful Neze..this is the best ever🎉🎉🎉🎉please, take your flowers.
@AkinyemiFamilyChronicles28 күн бұрын
The love I have for you will never die. You are too much ❤. Give small skills Neze, even if it’s to tell my children stories
@oyinkuleomemu-ni7kd29 күн бұрын
I pray every woman enjoys love like we did…🙏🙏🙏 Amen 🙏
@Kossi-t7hАй бұрын
I really love you!!!
@TabotDahlia-gi8kbАй бұрын
Wow!! Lovely word of truth ❤
@AriellaMajara29 күн бұрын
Naye Neze you will kill me oooo...I really enjoy you. Kudos to all the fathers on this platform who are loving on their kids and wives like mine did 🎉
@Jesuslove.1Ай бұрын
I’am having hot chicken pepper soup while watching. Is 5:30 pm here and the weather is so cold so enjoy ur wine while I enjoy my pepper soup. ❤
@tierraokonkwo6671Ай бұрын
Once he is a good father, he should be allowed to be a father. But if he is sent by the devil. Otilo😂, protect the child.
@ebueemma961728 күн бұрын
Thank you
@lilypearls-emefd3755Ай бұрын
This is your devine calling ,the law is a lead way to it,
@pierranjulefac291429 күн бұрын
Thanks so much 🙏 Neze for these tips. Keep them coming up.
@oluwapelumihelen4916Ай бұрын
Thanks for this Update Ma,i have been trying to get a whole comprehensive gist about the whole story,well done Ma,ur consistency is commendable🙌🙌👍❤❤❤💕💕
@ragafela29 күн бұрын
I almost shed tears watching this I mean tears of joy and happiness for you dear. Because is not everyone that is or was raised like that. So congratulations ❤🎉
@munaclarisse856229 күн бұрын
Nezze I saw all these qualities you mentioned today in you as I watch your videos, I always say ' she's so bold and confident, very intelligent and exposed and you are fun to be with
@sifoneshiet5966Ай бұрын
Beautiful Neze❤❤ Someone should bless me this season please 🙏🙏🙏
@celestinaekeh777227 күн бұрын
Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤ hope they will listen
@eshietdorcas40045 күн бұрын
IT WILL FOREVER BE IN FASHION TO BE PRODUCTIVE. There will always be dignity in being resourceful. Thank you ma ❤
@themortgagechics_chronicles_ca29 күн бұрын
The girl is very brave ..what would make a young girl see this type of CREATURE.. and not run! ....She's brave
@taiyeokh135929 күн бұрын
Nice one, highly inspirational I agree with you.
@NN-nl2sj29 күн бұрын
Neze who can resist your personality. Even as a woman I am in love with your personality and I covet that.
@barryoghagbon391729 күн бұрын
This video is epic. You are a truly rare breed. Your wisdom words are radically profound. Women like you are getting rarer and fewer. God help men!❤
@jumokebakare8161Ай бұрын
You said it all.. Well-done Neze
@gertrudeonukwugha620929 күн бұрын
Had the same with my dad being the only girl among five boys. I still miss my dad who died when I was in my third year in the university.
@annefalola9278Ай бұрын
I know what it means to be a dad’s girl, I am one❤
@heartfelt_connections10728 күн бұрын
Neze your thoughts are top notch and practical this is lovely
@audrinaUkaobasi29 күн бұрын
Always educational as well as entertaining. Love it, sister. ❤❤❤ Daalu Happy holiday season
@Gbatima469129 күн бұрын
Thank u Neze for this beautiful n wonderful story of urs with ur dad , boys n ur lovely husband, may God continue to bless ur family with exceeding joy n happiness u deserve. Merry Christmas to you n ur entire family.
@arueigheisrael215129 күн бұрын
5.11am,Bar Neze,may Almighty God continue to be with you, truthful advice
@kalewis828029 күн бұрын
A man can be a bad husband or (partner) and a GOOD FATHER!! 🎯 Two seemingly oppositional things can be true.
@MercyMvula-n9j29 күн бұрын
I always thank God for a kind of father He gave me and my siblings
@ugboodum675928 күн бұрын
NezeNwa! This seems the BEST of your presentations this year, 2024! I have very similar childhood experiences from a military father and I still know no other love like that! I always tell my male friends and associates to be their daughters FIRST LOVE.....and such girls are firmly rooted and ready for the crazy world. Yes, I completely identify with your narratives on this subject, NezeNwa. Compliments of the season and love from the UK. Bless. 💖
@BubbasJuice2145Ай бұрын
Men are the cream of the crop ! men are kings Black men are strong they’re beautiful they’re intelligent smart I can go on all day loving they got it all men are the epitome of life respect each one you see
@mphatsolipipa716729 күн бұрын
Indeed men are cream but you don't have to single out black men only it sounds tribalistic and racist
@mabesemtakow115429 күн бұрын
I love you Neze..you are on point
@user2024-o4z29 күн бұрын
My dad was not affectionate nor showed warmth, but his presence in the house made me feel secured and NO man can ever make me feel insecured ….of course, it helps too that I am a Christ follower. To God be the Glory.🙏
@inihansin29 күн бұрын
Neze your smile, joy and positivity never changed 😊😊❤
@patriciaozule878329 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. That is why I like your channel. I learn a lot.
@christyimade254728 күн бұрын
Neze you are well spoken
@anthoniaagawereh723929 күн бұрын
You gave Sophia a very good advice.
@joyyyjoyyy717129 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Neze... God bless you for this video
@SackeytheChiropractor28 күн бұрын
This is what I needed. I love my daughter.
@iyabobello6041Ай бұрын
No one tells it better than you Neze
@mavisroberts1038Ай бұрын
Nice story of you sweetheart
@inihansin29 күн бұрын
Neze your message is LOUD AND CLEAR
@toluosoba9848Ай бұрын
Thank you🎉
@MaryChika-fr8xn29 күн бұрын
Always learning from you, my dear Barrister.
@nnekairoegbu2360Ай бұрын
Portable is a confirm Agboro I swear. Dami needs to go and learn a skill or a trade to support herself. How long is she going to be jumping from one man to another?
@tosinowoeye973329 күн бұрын
So the king left his wives without source of income or inheritance b4 he died Nawaooo why married plenty wives then
@nnekairoegbu236029 күн бұрын
@tosinowoeye9733 That's what polygamy does . How many wives is he going to leave inheritance for? He has children older than her from his first wives.
@osayomoteiyore449529 күн бұрын
You look beautiful madam and your skin is shining your make-up is on point 😂😂😂
@aysherkabby5937Ай бұрын
Cheers 🥂 Neze 🥰🥰
@rithasallya310529 күн бұрын
Neze...you are my intenent sister... Always on point (bila kupindisha in 🇹🇿) Thank you don't stop
@comfortarekong34629 күн бұрын
Well said Neze. Thanks alot.
@patriciaokoghenu915728 күн бұрын
Good talk Neze. I'm drinking tea. I'm at work . My bill is on you. Merry Christmas in advance.