WE WERE MARRIED FOR ONLY FOUR MONTHS, I ALMOST GOT USED FOR RITUALS.

[@temitopeolufeyisan2344]

Im 42 years single and i was on the verge of just giving up on waiting on God for marital settlement. Infact i was considering going into relationship with any man that comes around bcos the trauma of been riduculed as a single lady at my age is just too much for me to handle But watching this interview opened my eyes to the mistake i was about making. This is God telling me to wait for His time May i not marry wrong in Jesus name

[@adenikeadedoyin8680]

Amen! Your own well crafted husband from God is coming Please don't go into any kind of marriage ma

[@josephineanane4706]

No dear the moment you get in the right man will come so if you wouldn’t mind wait. May God be with you because is not easy🥰

[@aruosdorcas1565]

Amen ooo. Plz endure still, it's not at all easy but u can do it with God s help

[@Toritseju-Falere]

@@temitopeolufeyisan2344 Amen

[@daklench1989]

Ameen

[@MagaComfort]

This woman is so wise and with a lot of experiences, No teenage girl would sit down in a room with this woman and come out unchanged. We are anticipating your books ma'am

[@michellangless-dm1dw]

As in ehn,❤❤ I'll be the second person to get her book ❤❤

[@neveragetv]

You can say it again.

[@CAta.zina6]

@@michellangless-dm1dw Yes, I must get that book.

[@izzylabor2606]

This woman is so pure and innocent. I can still see her youthful beauty especially when she smiles. God will Make you smile again. Just look after yourself. Go to spa, get facials and massages. See a therapist. Enjoy life. You are God’s daughter and His glory will always be upon you

[@asuam7810]

I tell you! She is so simple minded….my goodness! Thank God for His mercies upon her.

[@asuam7810]

I love how she lites up each time she speaks about her dad ☺️.

[@chinaasaokwu5186]

She's so p it re at hearr

[@ruthsesay27]

And she's so calm 🥺🙏 thank you for this 🙏❤️ May God continue to heal you.

[@nwammie]

Amen

[@Bintu-c7k]

All through her narration, she never referred to him as her husband. She kept saying "this man" I like how she put him in his place even in her narration

[@OluOluomo]

Because words are powerful

[@neveragetv]

I noticed

[@PARLEMOIDIEU]

I know how it feels. I ALSO REFERED TO MY EX AS this man

[@ChristIsReal121]

This man is even much. I know someone that refers to her ex husband as “that thing” 🫣🤭. The Shege she received from the man and his family was WILLLLDDDDD. Christ saved her and her children 🙏

[@pedromesh2503]

How can a lady be soo intelligent, so real, soo Phenomenonal, so WISE, Naive, gullible, strong survivor, soo innocent, so God Loving, and positively ambitiously Driven? How can One woman be Everything!!!??? May God deliver everyone who's going through a toxic relationship be it marriage or whatever!!! I think Every young lady needs to see this!!!

[@justinauzoamaka7903]

Am so so inspired.Ur a bundle of testimonies. This is d power of God at work.The evidence of Gods hand at work in a man.Thank you pastor Femi for this stories

[@KojoTech3741]

😂😂😂. The young ladies will watch and still not learn right. Trust me. It takes wisdom and humility to marry right, as a woman. It is worse for we men. Men need an arm and a leg to marry right. A woman has to be descent, respect herself and others, be feminine etc. The simple things that made our grandparents marriage work are the same things that makes marriage work today. The modern woman wants everything her way, she understands things her own way and so the situationships we see today. It is heartbreaking seeing our women go through this.

[@EdnaJelimo-rb3vt]

@@pedromesh2503 because she is God's own daughter....

[@uchechiariolu4759]

A powerful Amen and Amen

[@brendaok4245]

Well said, well written.

[@DanielDanvielson-qs9hh]

My name is Orinya Daniel; first born of my parents. I'm 16 yrs of age with 4 siblings (girls!). Listening to this story, I'm left with no choice than to pray for them every day. Pray oh! Pray! Things happen, but nothing like this will happen to any of my sisters as far as I am alive in Christ Jesus.

[@MobileBraiderInAbuja]

Amwn🙏

[@DamDam_v]

And it will not happen. God bless you!

[@chinonyeremkwekowe7308]

Amen

[@HelenBesong]

Amen, darling you and your sisters will marry right. Don't be scared there are still good marriages out there🎉

[@adeniyitoyin9467]

Amen

[@rashidasamed8094]

People who grew up in loving, minimally toxic families often struggle to grasp the extent of cruelty and wickedness that can exist in the world. She is a kind and compassionate woman, and I hope she is rewarded abundantly for everything she has endured. May she find complete healing and experience true, unconditional love.

[@akodidi3699]

True

[@oluwatobiayomide389]

Spot On! To the pure all things are pure. But then, wicked and unreasonable people exist.

[@halftimepromiseswithneibert]

Amen!

[@deedee7916]

Absolutely true 👍

[@lomuthijere1579]

True but also toxic childhood environments create tolerant adults. They are conditioned to accept the kind of love they already know.

[@nwohangoziblessing1597]

The woman that came as the brother's wife was an Angel sent by God in her face. God is a Spirit and His Ways are mysterious. May God deliver all singles from evil men, the wolves in sheep vlothings

[@neveragetv]

Amen to that...

[@OkiaanieIfeakachukwublessing]

Amen

[@queenojangakorth]

Amen. I thank God for this testimony God is too faithful to fail his children. More Grace strong woman and I pray for fresh fire and Anoiting upon you to continue to speak the word of God Amen. I learnt a lot by this great testimony ma'am and thank you for sharing your story with a lot of us ❤ God's timing is the best no two ways about God's promise and covenant. God bless you sir for granting this powerful testimony to the world . More Grace sir .

[@beckybenson4567]

Amen 🙏

[@evangelinchinwe5085]

Amen

[@totallytamar4806]

I watched this in tears... i felt like i was relieving everything that had happened to me. I knelt down and kept glorifying God for my life. This was my life. This was my story and even worse. But God spared my life. There are some things you hear, its hard to comprehend it or believe that humans can be this wicked coz u will be thinking it only happens in Nollywood movies. I hope that someday i will have the courage to tell my story like this so that people can learn lessons and that Gods name will be glorified. I am a breathing, living , walking testimony of God's mercies and grace. Thank you Jesus for saving me🙏

[@kiyonsieunice4133]

My dear if u hear my own hmmmm u go confuse fuse . How I take dey alive sef only God knows. Jesus na You I know .

[@elizabethsabo8211]

When she was talking I also felt the same . Such evil people always come with physical abuse and some kind of addiction. My ex he was physical with me very demanding and an alcoholic.

[@havilahmosheri4184]

​@@kiyonsieunice4133keep praying dear 🙏 God see 2ru one day

[@NkechiPaul-q8l]

What I cannot comprehend is how wicked the heart can be,and is always the good and the innocent women that end up with the bad husband,I still can't place it ,

[@Rose-dg9or]

Gosh is he still alive

[@queenesekhalu2727]

As Apostle Joshua Selman says, “I pray for you not to marry an unbeliever, a foolish man and our enemy in Jesus name! Amen

[@successarasomwan8355]

Amen oooo

[@stephanieBen4115]

Amen

[@mofeoluwafaleke6652]

Amen for my children

[@debbyjk2983]

Pray to marry a true believer,this lady's story he met the man as a Christian.so be vigilant in prayers and pray for vision

[@robertablankson7402]

My dear even the “believers are causing more harm than good. If I tell you my story, it will shock you.

[@AmiraKole-k9p]

I stopped believing in Christ 4yrs ago but with this testimony of her I now believe they is a God

[@ChiadikaThomas]

Hallelujah Jesus loves you

[@EliAvornyo]

Praise the name of the living God.

[@onyinyeozoegwu3115]

God is good, all the time

[@jasmineeddy3499]

@@AmiraKole-k9p life nay happen, but let your anchor remian chriat alone.

[@Hephzibah444]

Glory!! HALLELUYAH! Welcome back home dear brother/sister

[@esteegoldbeauty4504]

I had a similar experience dealing with an occultic man. He told me that i would see. I saw hell. I was having a snakebite in the dreams and gun shots. Suffocation at night while sleeping. But God came through for me. I prayed and prayed. I claimed God's promises upon my life. There is power in the name and blood of Jesus Christ.

[@graceidagu1942]

God have Mercy

[@QBCASTU_MEDIA]

This story is the definition of "Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou art with me". JESUS!!! 😢🙆‍♀️

[@neveragetv]

Glory

[@estheregeh4692]

Like seriously

[@AnaChukwu]

Honestly

[@Maranata-89]

I went trough kind of the same thing I was with my ex who paid my dowry at age 18years. We met when i was almost 15yrs I remember One day we were sleeping on the bed. I had à dream where they were telling me: look hè wants to kill you I work up and He was looking at me. It was 3 am in the morning. Also He will tell me often that: oh this prophet so and so said your wife is a person with a lot Of luck. Its after we seperate that i started to understand that He used to use me to get things in Life. I started to see him for who He was in dreams I was 26 yrs when we seperated. I left with my two kids.i grew up on church but my pastor even encouraged me to marry him. But leaving my ex i found a church were the teached me to seek the Holy Spirit and the power of the cross of Jesus Christ and how to claim it on your Life and every situation. Since then i finished school, paid all my debts, i serve in my church, a fellowshio meeting is held every thursday in my house 35years nurse and debt free To Jesus Christ be all the praise

[@bimbolaoluyede7543]

Halleluyah

[@gloriavordzorgbe4444]

I will also be debt free, in Jesus name, Amen

[@chibuikeezebuenyi]

Hallelujah!! Thank God for your story!

[@extraordinaire-c5p]

Sometimes you feel your story is soo painful and unique until you hear someone else say theirs this is exactly my story. I left with two kids too, same story.

[@salmabush]

Thank God for your life

[@FavourIsituah]

I will marry right. I will marry well. I will marry once.

[@AyaVarolineAyuk]

Pastor Femi sef tire. This story is heartbreaking....

[@e.takotey382]

I Will not marry trouble, I will not marry double

[@rachelnghifewa5908]

Amen

[@johnolamilekan8019]

Amen

[@mercyishioma8731]

Amen me too 🙏🙏🙏

[@begonianicholas8197]

"Every woman should have her own money". Thats a 'life saver' advise.

[@chineduelodimuo1587]

😂😂😂😂

[@geee2236]

I don’t trust this woman. These over religious people should have been a revealed sister. A woman without a man

[@RicaNeil]

True

[@Thatconstructiongirl]

He took her money

[@elliesimon3655]

“Whatever God cannot do for me should remain undone “ 😩❤️

[@Dell-f4m]

Amen my prayers everyday

[@franchescaasamoah3046]

Amen o

[@timothyadegbite5901]

Quoting Bishop David Oyedepo. Great 👍 quote.

[@TalesbyAmara]

Amen.

[@tfkentertainment133]

Yy it​@@Dell-f4m

[@halftimepromiseswithneibert]

This story is thought-provoking. She was wise to act like nothing was wrong when she was packing her belongings and on the day that she moved! He did not suspect anything! "The devil thought he had me, but Jesus came and grabbed me." Amen! Praise the Lord!

[@Rachel-w1c]

Most women died having announced that they're leaving bad marriages. Discretion will save you.

[@komboreraivirukayi6634]

oh yes .when h thought h knew it all

[@neveragetv]

Glooooory

[@chideragmarizu]

We don't know what God does for us until we hear stories like this.

[@jenifertitus3312]

So right, I'm so grateful to God!

[@bukkyomoh2224]

So true

[@Emah-bc6bu]

​@@jenifertitus3312that's true That's when we get to know how great God really is

[@paulimoh6374]

@@chideragmarizu I was so shocked with this story.

[@miriamowusu-ansah72]

I Aa

[@OlusesiOlabimpe]

The man was sent from the pit of hell to destabilize her being a child of the light. Thank God, she came out alive 🙏🙏🙏

[@Trini2dbone868]

he was sent to rob her of life. the enemy wanted her dead.

[@deboraheluma1424]

She's a survivor

[@hairbyNg]

We will marry once and marry right , we won't marry a fool, Amen, God will protect both the married and singles,

[@OnyinyechiAchodor]

Amen

[@nancygrace9577]

Amen

[@IzzyCoach]

The fool part 😂😂

[@Balae23]

Amen 🙏

[@luciachidimma4360]

Amennn

[@LydiaDashin]

To all the singles, may we marry right in Jesus name. This is scary.

[@KINGJOSIAH88]

Amen

[@bibi_ola]

Amen

[@michaelaudioh4659]

Amen

[@sadeodumuyiwa9832]

Sure,God still leads

[@biancapeter-vd2hg]

Amen

[@justinaokohe7558]

I learnt from her story to be prayerful and sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit.

[@LeonieKosisochukwuOkeke-ru5hx]

When you get in touch with the holy spirit, you will love to pray more

[@edithcaroleayimboh8474]

Exactly

[@neveragetv]

Glory

[@joyceedem8387]

I can totally relate. This woman was as naive and innocent as I used to be. Thank God I didn't fall a victim. May God restore your wasted years madam

[@blessingsimon576]

I love this woman so much😭😭😭. My soul blesses her. I'm speaking in tongues while watching this. She's a mother to her generation!!!!! You will fufil purpose ma!!! You will find love again. God will give you a man after his own heart. I love you ma!!! Kai!!! And She's so beautiful!!! Her soul is pure❤

[@DannyAddyAlpha]

So true...Her restoration will be massive!!

[@Berurot]

Amen

[@maanso4210]

In agreement! It is so in Jesus name.

[@maanso4210]

In agreement! It is so in Jesus name.

[@neveragetv]

Am lost for words

[@fisayomeee]

It is the fact that she still passionately loves Jesus 🥹 Jesus is real and able to save 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@abasifrekearchibong8475]

I had JESUS written on my forehead…in GOLD!!! Thank you JESUS for your name.

[@quotesscript1038]

I have pls not had

[@Timenowistoact]

Amen! When I was attacked in my dream, the lady said she has been trying to attack me but I have a ring of fire 🔥 around me that prevented her from attacking me. If only we can see how we are protected with our spiritual eyes, we will be amazed. All glory to God 🙏

[@ellaorji2022]

The name of the Lord is a STRONG tower🙌🙌🥳

[@bimbolaoluyede7543]

Halleluyah

[@allenmirabel5445]

Thank you Jesus

[@ameenasparkles]

First time viewer and I subscribed immediately. Awesome story with great counsel on financial independence. This should be emphasized by all religious leaders. Thank you Ma’am for sharing

[@PaulineOjonimi]

You can be stronger than most pastors, yes of course know God for yourself is a wicked world

[@PaulineOjonimi]

This woman has been wounded! And she's so nice I wish she meet a good man on time but God will still fix it for her

[@jaziny_insight]

Lessons: 1. Don't be a naive christian 2. Don't be unequally yoked, weigh every spirit whether they be of God 3. Have family and spiritual support 4. Avoid predating spiritual alliances/affiliation/entanglement 5.Appropriate God for yourself, every solution is available through knowledge, knowledge is enhanced by the holy Holy spirit is gotten through sonship and fellowship. 6. Emotional intelligence is a must. It involves mapping to know how far you can go with red lights even in the face of seeming solution/provision. 7. It is never too late to retrace every step. Whenever we wake up is our morning.

[@raymondelle]

Amen to that

[@AmaraLoveth]

@@raymondelle You are an intelligent listener. great lessons outlined here, well done

[@NolithaNkobole]

beautiful.

[@yinkaakintayo4330]

Amen..

[@Jesuslovesgrandma]

Could not wrap my head around the fact that a person she repeatedly said that she disliked would go and pay her dowry. Was it hypnotism or something else ?

[@Foxy7154Xx]

The truth is deliverance isn’t by pastor… you have to wake up and decide by yourself that enough is enough

[@okochaoma89]

I love you. This is it. This is wisdom from GOD. This comment.

[@okwaoshen7607]

You're right

[@lauremabe4563]

That's true

[@nansakjonathanbinsing6180]

She didn't just meet a true man of God.

[@Amakanwam]

Gbam

[@MariamSalisu-b7t]

A Muslim but stock here Thank you for this eye opening stories SIR

[@abajiabubakarhauwa7260]

Same here

[@rasheedahsalami4249]

Come to Jesus, he has shown you so many green lights. Accepting Jesus is the greatest thing I have ever experienced. He is the Light to lead you out. Do it for yourself. You will be persecuted. I was, too, but I knew the truth I needed.

[@rasheedahsalami4249]

There's only one name that is permitted to safe, no other one expects Jesus. I chose to run to him for safety or to say he drew me closer. I saw a green light and went for it😊

[@gloryben2496]

If this is not a sign for you to know the truth I don't know what else

[@themoralcode365]

That's good for you. There are Many Muslims who listen to this pastor's message because truth can come from anybody irrespective of their religion. This lady didn't say she is not okay being Muslim. To practice any religion you have to be convinced about it. As a Muslim I have experienced clear messages from God as loud as this woman shared in the video, experienced miracles from asking God directly for guidance and sometimes the answers would come instantly. I also do not practice because that's what I knew at birth, I practice because this is the way I am convinced to worship God. Peace. ​@@rasheedahsalami4249

[@SheilaKirebeda]

I have never watched a show like this before ❤thanks so much lady for speaking out am from Uganda and passing, but this has changed me😢i know one day with God's grace, i will be free. May the Almighty bless you and the host too

[@zakarielizabeth9510]

The price we end up paying for associating with wrong people is far too steep for us to not be strict about who we let into our lives.

[@lorettaegharevba6793]

That's so true my dear

[@Cherrywealth]

God will genuinely bless you for this thing you’ve said ❤️🤲

[@ekpekpanfejiro2351]

I totally agree

[@zakarielizabeth9510]

@@Cherrywealth Amen🙏

[@matildajames2707]

Asin enhhhhh I am still paying the prize for wrong association 😢

[@Ritzeelicious]

I wish my aunt survived,she passed earlier this year in May. I had never wanted to see someone win so bad in my life. She passed some days after her 50th. Her burial was the first ever experience that made me shed painful, uncontrollable tears. Ah! God of vengeance,arise and judge that man,just the same way he made her suffer for absolutely nothing,his lot and pain shall be awarded to him a hundred times fold. My aunt's heart was something more than gold,sweet, innocent,yes naive,kind to a fault, like she'd be so kind that you'd be mad at her at times,till i finally understood that some people truly are angels here on earth. It pained me deeply when she passed. I couldn't stop questioning Abba,all they said was God wanted her to rest. Dear Doctor Chika,you won, i am so grateful to God for keeping you,you survived,go out there,live life to the fullest,i pray God protects you and blesses you with the love,joy and happiness you deserve. Amen.

[@olorunnisholaolaide5561]

So sorry to hear about your Aunty.Sending you light

[@ellatainment2458]

I pray that man never knows peace. May your aunt continue to rest in Jesus name

[@Ritzeelicious]

@@ellatainment2458 Amen.

[@stitchesspeaks]

My own opinion ooo leave the man oo walk out and preserve your life ooo ehhhhh….

[@omotolaniogunremi594]

Bless, do not curse I'm sorry for the pain that man caused your family 🙏

[@DamilolaModupe-cl7dc]

The only reason she was able to get along with God and still this loving and kind is because she was raised with love and had a wonderful support system. ❤

[@kateosmond1090]

Could not agree more

[@Hardy-uu9ve]

You are spot on dear

[@neveragetv]

Glory

[@incognito_tab43]

I really pray and hope this woman does write a book detailing her experience. I’m a 17 year old girl and her story is more valuable than you can imagine. Most of the things she said are things my own mother experienced. When I was younger my father would carry my mom and even me and my brother to one evil alter or the other. I was too young to understand the gravity of the situation. Now that I’m older I thank God my mom held on to God if not my life would have been ruined. So many things have happened, even things I still don’t know about, but God spared our lives. I’m glad my father abandoned us oh because only God knows what could have happened if he stayed. He is now a born again Christian, and truth be told, I am glad God delivered him from the clutches of the enemy. God will bless this woman and restore all the years the locust and canker worms have eaten, and thank you a million times Apostle Femi Lazarus for this platform.

[@isabellaazebeokhai1507]

Proud of you for your maturity at so young an age. May God Whom you have chosen to trust protect you and grant your heart desires ❤

[@incognito_tab43]

Amen!!🙏🏽💗

[@thefamilyhubbyinasim]

My ah ah has finished while watching this interview...😲😩 To the unmarried, you will marry right. To the married, your marriage is blessed. We pray for the grace for contentment and may God help us to have a discerning heart.

[@udemeusoro4839]

Amen

[@deborahayomide3421]

Amen

[@nyengeteraimauto5981]

Amen

[@simoneadejo5176]

Amen and Amen oooo

[@kikelomo866]

Amen

[@Fayfaytv]

I've never engaged in any story as I did this one, I always see reels or stories on Facebook or TikTok of interviews and just wow them but never really watched on KZbin, this is the first time I'm watching from start to end. Ma, this is inspiring and encouraging. Everything in this story is screaming "Be careful", being a Christian alone cannot help you navigate life in general, because people are crafty and wicked. I've built faith, and wisdom by watching this story. God bless you ma, keep you and thank you pst. Femi, I love what you do and how you try to relate to us in a way that screams Godliness with everyday living. God bless you ❤

[@OlaniyanEunice-d2e]

Same here I've never followed a story up to KZbin whatever that was put on TikTok is enough for me

[@doi4life]

This story is similar to my story. My parents had told me their prophet said he was my husband. After I had been abused and left that marriage, I still listened again to a pastor who led me into the second abusive engagement. It was at that point I sort help because I was not going to endure abuse twice with kids never mind how I entered the relationship, I realised that I had to take my life in my own hands with God only - no interference. I stopped listening to prophets through my parents. I stopped believing pastors even though not all were wrong but I could not discern at the time. Long story short, I got help and got my life back on track. Today, I help domestic abuse survivors who are now single moms or widows to live a more meaningful life.

[@doi4life]

Yes, he said I prayed too much also. He said he could only eat fresh food. He said I should use my shares & investments to pay my son’s childminder. He ripped my bags, necklaces, bangles. He hits me so angrily. You would wonder where his strength came from.

[@doi4life]

So similar. He would bring his friends to the house to come and eat every week. He made sure I did not have my own money to spend. I could not do my hair or change my clothes.

[@doi4life]

Yes, imagine going through what she’s describing happened in 4 months for 3.5 years. My mental health deteriorated at some point. It was so bad. I hope other women can learn from these stories. It’s not a good place to be

[@promiseikonne7613]

😢😢😢

[@blossomdeejohn7699]

Thank God for mercies

[@estherebehireme9729]

This woman is KIND, and has a big gig heart. God bless you once again ma. God bless you ma.

[@11Dreams]

Her advice that women should have their own money is powerful. Being financially dependent on another human being puts you at their mercy.

[@joydonas-k23]

Have money and healthy self esteem to no way to say no.

[@paulineeboma5377]

Imagine if she had nothing. She'd have been forced to stay and endure until death. God gave mercy upon us.

[@chizobadera668]

Just listening to her talk you tell that this lady was naive and has a pure heart ♥️

[@ayoolatemilade5937]

Most importantly have Ur own money

[@samchs222]

She had money but fell for a bad guy

[@vivianogbonnaya1160]

I can relate to her story. My elder Sister went through something similar, her ex husband married her to use her for sacrifice. Till today she’s fighting physical and spiritual battles but the Lord has being her refuge.

[@viviananyaso4319]

I can relate. Stil fighting but I am victorious in Christ it's just a matter of time.

[@Gracie232]

@@viviananyaso4319, oh dear. Am so sorry to hear this. We thank Jesus for the victory. He who the Son sets free is free indeed.

[@rachealkapembwa2791]

If you she is Nigeria, she can go to Scoan

[@cii_lessons9061]

@@vivianogbonnaya1160 LET HER SACRIFICE HER MATERIAL THINGS TO GOD....

[@cii_lessons9061]

@vivianogbonnaya1160 let her learn 10 hours prayer and SPIRITUAL WARFARE FROM APOSTLE AROME OSAYI

[@ifeomamba5417]

Kids raised in shielded homes are not street smart : they live life believing and trusting without reservation. People regularly take advantage of their openness and naivety May she find complete healing, her scars are her victory marks

[@CoachAchii]

I can relate to this

[@pjarii1696]

That’s true, but how can you know a wolf when you meet one.

[@cii_lessons9061]

So PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE LOVING

[@Hisfireishere]

Talk to me. I was shielded. I learnt too much the hard way. I was kind hearted, trusting and believe easily. Today, today, I am so tough and discern all things. Thank God for the Holy Spirit.

[@innocentbisibukola754]

​@@cii_lessons9061Parents should be loving but allow their children understand the other side of life. Life doesn't end in the four corners of your room, home or circles. The world is global and full of so many kinds of crazy dynamics. You prepare your children for the world ahead of them and not the other way round

[@TaiwoChristiana-iq5kl]

Thank God I came across this .. this video has been on my KZbin for weeks now!!! Im glad i finally clicked on it God bless you sir and ma

[@agtimmy]

Thank God we have Christian podcast now Glory Glory To Jesus

[@Styledbyelegant]

Praise God

[@seunadesina3293]

There are ones before this.

[@osokachinyererosemary4333]

And this would be the only christian podcast I'll listen 👂😢

[@christopher-cs7gs]

And people are fighting it o!

[@neveragetv]

Glory...

[@PeculiaJusty]

The Holy Spirit is detailed 😢 God's love for us is 🔥

[@madlitsokanyika2879]

Very detailed ❤. I love Him

[@Temidayoogunsi]

This story is so touching thanks for sharing this for ours to learn may God bless you

[@ChufasWorld]

Dear God, We the single are pleading for ur spirit of discernment ... May we marry right🙏

[@johannaadeleke9085]

I'm 41 years old and single, seeing all this videos on marriages has been an eye opener for me. I always pray for a God centered man, I'm not even in a haste. Let God's will be done.

[@kemiajayi8454]

God will grant u a good husband like a father.

[@adaezeikechukwu2817]

Meeting the wrong person can spoil your life,May God help us single ladies to make the right decision

[@GoodieBillions]

Exactly... Meeting the wrong person can make one's life go a very different route, entirely different from even God's Plan for them

[@emjay_0077]

If you need an example of a person who's lived what you've said, look at me here! Thank God for God and second chance at life. PRAY! ALWAYS PRAY!! as a single person. Before you engage with anyone.

[@Nja4real]

Dr. Chika. You have a pure soul - reason your trials are this intense!! You are a survivor!!

[@ayomideadewunmi6586]

It happened to me too, I was almost used by the "Christian Brother, who prior to then, had been my friend from age 7, because our Mother's were friends, we literally grew up together. He took me to a "Church" somewhere in Oyo Town, where my glory was to have been transferred to him but the Holy Spirit squealed on him and God delivered me. Like the lady here, the battle lasted for 8 years, he called me in my sleep and I went into coma for 5 days with no vital signs of life at theUCH. Word of knowledge and word of wisdom brought me back to live.

[@oyojames3669]

😢😢 thank God for you. It's well.

[@Faith.AmandaTv]

Haaaaaa! Thank God for your life🙏

[@KhadijahOmotayoIBRAHIM]

Mewa she le laye

[@EloEkuruemu]

Glory to God

[@adediwuraolamide8856]

Jesus😮

[@daphnienoel]

Thank you for sharing your story beautiful woG, thank you pastor @Femilazarus, for bringing those real life story so others can learn and find strength and get closer to God. I learn so much.

[@uchenwatu9289]

All single ladies, don't sleep on this advice; "every woman should have their own money" Please let that sink deep. May God help all of us

[@ChiomaOkoro-t4h]

But according to her story, she had her own money before she married, so I don’t get. We women should not be desperate for marriage, and we should pray for spirit of discernment.

[@nuellaaaa]

@@ChiomaOkoro-t4hshe could easily leave because she had her own money. Like what she said, you can sometimes buy protection with money

[@ChibuzoImmac]

This was not about money

[@ayandasimelane3505]

​@@ChibuzoImmacbit without the ability to Self liberate she would be dead. So money is part.

[@patriciatare8128]

How long did you listen to this video before typing this nonesense. I am pretty sure you don't have the money and assets she had at that time. So shut it and listen.

[@chinwefavourunachukwu7303]

Such a beautiful woman. I detest pastors who push certain men to women in the name of God’s will. Imagine 4months of traumatic marriage and 10 years of consequences.

[@estheruko-abasi1889]

Siiissssssss hmmm Been thinking the same thing 4 months for 10 years

[@juliannesharpe3066]

Sometimes, it is a lifetime of consequences! Thank GOD For Healing And Deliverance!

[@murnafattihakyok6018]

This story is sad, but the saddest part, was when they posted her picture.... Omoooohhh.... She was truly beautiful. Can't believe its the same person

[@tildadada8117]

Exactly!! I didn't initially understand but omoo that picture said a lot

[@Nanyeniglory]

Indeed she is😊

[@phumlalolo]

"If u did not hear God by yourself don't do anything", so uplifting

[@gracenet.3756]

She was hypnotized with dark power. She entered that marriage unknowingly. She was not locked in a bottle but was hypnotized thats why she can ask herself every time "how did I get here"

[@Hearts_to_Eternity]

Yea seems like she was under some sorr of spell or shock😢 God heal her heart❤

[@pearlkwamla6165]

You are very right

[@Toritseju-Falere]

This is, very correct. Thank you for saying it because I strongly believe that's how she got there

[@christianaddictsinrecovery]

Exactly she was hypnotised

[@thevanessaajiduah]

Hmmm

[@NwamakaAginah]

Dear women, get something in your hand. Marriage is not do I die. I left with my children & just clothes 4 years ago. I’m here, not been easy but I have peace of mind. Don’t stay in an abusive relationship or marriage because of what people will or how you’d start your life afresh. Leave first, God will sort the rest.

[@MalcanniPlus]

Pastor Femi's 'The same bro?' is taking me out😭

[@ImaEyo]

Too real😂

[@godsbabygirl7962]

😂

[@chelseant1015]

😂😂😂😭😭😭

[@abimbolafayanju5597]

Hmmm. Life oh life! There is nothing like being in Christ. I quite agree with her advice. Every woman should work, trade or have a career! Thanks for coming out. Pastor Femi, thanks a lot for this piece sir. Quite touchy but inspiring. More anoiting, sir! Hopefully I will share my story at an appropriate time. God is faitful

[@whitneysylvester9980]

See eehhh I am Glad you’re alive to share this story!!! This won’t be forgotten in a hurry!!!

[@ntamclancy205]

I kept shouting through out this story, truly life is really spiritual oh, we thank God for saving you and for this wonderful story I really learnt a lot

[@momojohnson175]

This woman has a very clean spirit and an innocent heart. Even at her age. 😂😂😂😊😊

[@komboreraivirukayi6634]

So true

[@the_snasa]

Right!!!!

[@biancacooper5774]

I dont know her personally but am so connected to her,shes so humble,omg..Powerful woman of God..I pray God sends her the man she truly deserves

[@MiriamUkum]

Wow😢 This made me cry, she has had a tough life but her faith saw her through. She is an amazing and strong woman, may the lord restore her, may her joy overflow abundantly so much that those years of sorrow will be distant memory. Thank you for sharing, I love you and Jesus loves you dearly ❤

[@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj]

Yes me too namesake

[@esirionome2981]

Amen 🙏 🙏

[@njabiconica8870]

Waaoo! I listened to the message with full attention. I've learned alot ma from your life. I pray God brings you the right man in Jesus ' name 🙏. I'm single and trusting God to be hard-working, make my own money and be a blessing to nations. Greetings from Cameroon 🇨🇲 🇨🇲

[@marthangafor6414]

Sometimes growing up in a loving home can shield people from life's tough realities. I hope she maintains her softness as she heals. Thank God for protecting and loving her.

[@igohoghenekaro869]

So true

[@StellaIzuegbu]

Femi , your question is interrupting me 😅... Hmmmm Being single is really a privilege... God abeg deliver us 😢 from evil life time partners Amen 🙏🙏

[@Toritseju-Falere]

For the first time. The Instagram reel wont be enough. I came and downloaded this one and im glad i did. Father i have waited. I won't end up in a wicked marriage or with a wicked person. I won't meet someone that would ruin me in Jesus name 🙏 Amennnnn

[@OluwaseunMargret-Shittu]

AMEN

[@Toritseju-Falere]

@@OluwaseunMargret-Shittu thank you

[@EstherRosemaryWilson]

Amen.

[@oluyemisimajebi2971]

Amen in Jesus name

[@priscaelebe2932]

The mistake most women make is being free spirited around people who are not good or sincerely nice/ kind. We always feel the next person is as nice and good as we are. Guard your heart...

[@temitopeadeodu6412]

This is me!

[@ezinneiwunwa7272]

Me 😢

[@justqueenlaney]

This is so me.. I really need to learn😢

[@komboreraivirukayi6634]

God forbid.ppl w good hearts always meet such

[@tierraokonkwo6671]

There is no mistake in being a good person, just do not be stupid. Have intuition and set boundaries. And keep those boundaries no matter what

[@nabasazenobianyagang2763]

Don’t ever wish to be someone else,you never know their battles. I have never been so attentive to a podcast like this

[@olatugazainabu]

Such an amazing testimony. I had to subscribe to this channel because of this story. Thank God for your relationship and strong will towards God.

[@iemekae]

This is mind-blowing......just so much to chew at once. 1. When you hit issues or crises, that's when you will know that hearing God by yourself is more than any pastor praying for me. 2. No matter what, verify verify verify verify verify before you get involved with anyone. Observe and notice every single thing. 3. Pray always like your life depends on it 4. Don't think the same heart you have is what everyone else has. 5. Be street smart even when when you have a beautiful relationship with God. 6. God, first over everything 7. Pray all forms of prayers...... don't assume your spiritual level. Challenges expose your depths and my Pastor my Pastor no go help at that level

[@tashatashalpha3447]

May Our children both males and females never fail in the wrong hands of people in the name of marriage in Jesus Mighty name 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Balae23]

Amen

[@ntamclancy205]

Amen

[@Educatorkemi1]

Amen

[@LeonieKosisochukwuOkeke-ru5hx]

Amen

[@ossaigloria7773]

Amen

[@milankestar1036]

Who came here from TikTok 😅 what a great testimony of the power of our Yahweh ❤

[@salomesheyapo5727]

I'm here 🙆‍♀️❤️🤣

[@winandasworld]

This was like a movie. She fought spiritually and physically, and the Holy Spirit fought for her. I wish every single woman would watch this so that they don't feel pressured to get into marriage. Many people might have experienced something similar but are still stuck but I pray they receive the wisdom from God to get out. Thank God she had no child for the man. Never care about what the world will say about you but care about how you're living your Christian life and adding values and winning souls for Christ.

[@OthneliaHinson]

The Art of giving saves this women kind heart ,free spirit

[@healthyinspirations-n7h]

Absolutely true! Alms giving speaks. The prayer of those we help speak for us and our children till eternity.

[@afolabioluwayemisi-cd6gl]

This is one of the most touching session I have heard on marriage... Lesson learnt; Do not trust anyone more than you trust God. Ask the Holy spirit to reveal the true identity of people to you. When he does, dont ignore.

[@mmesomailechukwu6907]

As a single young woman, this is a call for prayer and spirit of discernment 😢🙏

[@sholaaiyetan2968]

What are you talking about? She said she's tongue-speaking, prayerful, a strong SU background. You better open your eyes we'll if you're preparing to go into marriage. What kind of discernment are you talking about here? She saw all the red flags, but refused to take the necessary and right decisions. Physical, emotional abuse and was not married to him. What else do you need to know that this was not right?

[@quinneakighir8541]

Dr. Chika, I am really sorry you went through all this pains but I thank God so much for your life. I am highly motivated by your stories and the advice you gave is a topnotch for me, every woman should be financially stable and independent. Pst. Femi you are indeed a man of God with wisdom, thank you for directing the youths. I wish I can tell my stories too someday so that young girls will learn. God bless you sir.

[@bolabalo]

This woman has such a pure heart. It’s unfortunate that people like her suffer a lot in this world. May God heal her completely 💔

[@DannyAddyAlpha]

I totally agree with you... May her restoration be massive!

[@s0fire_]

People are so wicked. God please give me the spirit of discernment in Jesus’ name, Amen.

[@angelicalotsu8575]

Hummmmm

[@daramolahassan4307]

And the spirit to act accordingly. Amen 🙏

[@s0fire_]

@@daramolahassan4307 Amen

[@Balae23]

Amen 🙏

[@yourbloginspiration8787]

He said to tell you that's it's in you already.

[@ijeomaamandamuoneke3839]

Don’t be emotionally attached to people, it gives room for Nonsense. I felt it 😢🫂❤️

[@abahesther3994]

Even your spouse?

[@thevoiceofmercy]

This is from the place of hurt. If you can’t be emotionally attached to people, you’re walking around with hurt

[@sarahuzodinma4870]

That's all you learnt??

[@Timi1111]

She wasn't emotionally attached to him. She said she wasn't even fond of him. Please listen again and get the actual lessons.

[@candyanek5814]

Tell you, I learned this one the hard way..... Never again, everyone at arms length with love and kindness.

[@ijeomaifeanyi7931]

This is a captivating story! I stayed awake to complete watching this for the second time. Thank you Pastor Lazarus for this platform. Your guest won my heart through her resilience. Lessons learned!

[@oluwaseunabiodun-asanre5368]

"Every woman should get her own money". This struck me, I say this over and over again. Don't sit down and wait for a man to fix your life. You are too precious to be damaged by any one. Remember all the dreams you have while growing up, you can make it happen. Thanks Pastor.

[@Hearts_to_Eternity]

She had her own money. Its understanding your worth and that no kne deserves to be abused.

[@suppaprosolutions6639]

She had her own money big time, she owns hectares of land at Mabushi, curtesy of her father but she sold all due to the challenges she faced after she ran out of Marriage. Marrying Right is much much better than having ur own money, if u have ur own money and marry wrong, ur money would exhaust but if u marry right, having ur money is additional and not the main thing. She is an Igbo woman and Igbo husbands traditionally should be providers for their families even if these days some Igbo men have become something else.

[@tellingthetestimony9012]

The way Apostle reacts,,responds,,and ask his questions kee😅....this is one of the best testimonies. Much love from zimbabwe

[@rachealhorlah6437]

Smiles! I'm not sure if you noticed the rate at which he overused the WOW with his experience 😂😂😂 But I love the fact that he carries his guess along with respect.

[@anikegrace9447]

All i could just say watching almost halfway through the Video till now is "Thank you Jesus"...... This is a deep situation, and it really reveals how merciful and intentional our God can be over a soul THANK YOU LORD!!!

[@sylviaemalu6071]

Thanks for sharing this life story i feel encouraged by this ladies sharing.i encourage her to find me healing and complete deliverence.do facials,spa,massage, and enjoy her life.let her put her past behind her in be happy.i see that she has agreat calling in her life and that God is going to use her for hes service otherwise such things always happens in life .she can still open new pages in her life and marry,start afamily and be happy.thanks for sharing this and being strong and prayerful. GOD BLESS HER

[@gbolahanmichael952]

Lord, let this woman find love again and be happy.

[@DamilolaModupe-cl7dc]

Amen.

[@Adunbirsan]

Amen

[@blessingchidinmaezegolo1882]

Amen n amen

[@emmanuellanwanze5084]

Amen

[@KelechiOliver]

Amen Amen Amen

[@celestineoduori9354]

This story is like mine😢😢😢. I thought I went through a lot but this is just on another level. I thank God who opened my eyes, helped me to cancel dowry payments immediately after my Bachelors. Now I'm 31, just started my PhD and myself and my daughter escaped being sacrificed. I sincerely feel it, I went through this, fighting for my life and that of my daughter. ooh Lord😭😭😭. Thank you for your mercies. I will forever live to worship you🙏🙏🙏

[@MercyAluMusic]

Indeed. I escaped with three kids. These things are very real.

[@tosine.olarinre]

Listening to this, I am tending to think that same man might have been the one that orchestrated the robbery of her house that necessitated her moving in with him

[@sandrasspace8205]

I think so too

[@Blessingossai-kq7qd]

I thought so too 😮

[@awuorochuodho6394]

You spoke my mind in that regard..because why?

[@kikelomo866]

I knew that from the onset

[@pettiolugbile879]

He was in a rush to have her in his trap.

[@faithdadagbon6360]

One important thing l picked from this testimony is the fact that she kept up in prayers, she prayed to live, depending on God, the Holy spirit all through. God grant me grace to keep up a prayer life.

[@EstherEOkoye]

Hmmm this is a story that touches the core of the heart. Dear Lady feeling inferior and depressed in your waiting season, please i beg you, wait to receive your isaac. Don't be pressurised like mother sarah at a point, who got tired of waiting and had Ishmael. When you wait on God, He will not only settle you in His perfect will, but He will so prepare you and refine you to become a fruitful vine by the sides of your future home. I am speaking from experience please. Waiting on God to marry his will is such a huge blessing because you will learn a lot about life, and God will perfect you so well that when your isaac comes, you will laugh aloud Just like mother sarah. Dont wait in distress But wait in Christ. Wait in His presence and at the end, you will never miss your inheritance. May the God of restoration, restore the stolen years of our interviewee 🙏

[@omotolaniogunremi594]

Amen

[@ezeemiliamoreofudear5763]

You spoke to me ma🙇🙌

[@veroniquerjones1899]

Amen

[@OrefiIrene]

Amen

[@EstherEOkoye]

@@ezeemiliamoreofudear5763 you are welcome

[@Mrs_VOW]

I had similar experience but i didn’t get to d point of marriage. We did formal introduction and he unleashed d dragon in him after d introduction. We were set to marry 3 months after. Everything she said happened to me bcos I let him come to my house. He literally moved in with me and that was how I saw everything i needed to see. I tried breaking up after 4 months but the battle was tough. I succeeded after the 6th to 7th month. It was very traumatic. For over a year I kept asking myself same question “how did I get here”? But I thank God I healed and God blessed me with a good man after his heart

[@ogwuchemercy6761]

Thank God for your life

[@ijeomasimon5027]

Glory be to God.

[@christinecarley4134]

Grory be to God bcz it takes only one man without a good intentions to make your life miserable

[@ZainabBimbim]

Thank God for your life

[@Promise-gf5oz]

I am 34yrs and still single, sometimes i wet my bed in tears praying and asking God to show me mercy maritally, i am a responsible and God fearing lady. I see most ladies i know who were wayward getting married and having kids but y cant i get married but Most times I give God praise because i have learnt a whole lot which i may not have known if i had married ealier. Watching this 🤦. This is a whole lot to digest once, a lot to learn from this woman's experience. I pray this message spreads to many homes 🙏

[@MwaleWaGitau]

You have no idea how much God loves you and has protected you. Please do not act into desperation. Learn to discern God's voice and guidance for yourself. Don't listen to people. Opinion is cheap.

[@henayola]

Next year will not pass u buy God is preparing u for a forever partner a man for u alone I speak marital favour in ur life in Jesus Name Amen ❤❤ stay bless my friend

[@JulianWilliams-v2k]

@@henayolaAmen

[@valenciakoenaite9576]

U are evil​@@nancyannjames5987

[@ElsaUnscripted]

Our thought is alike. But i have realised God's timing is the best.

[@strivingmindcc5766]

Wow!!! To God be the glory!!!! I could not switch off the phone, waited till the end of this remarkable Daughter of the most High!!! My faith has been strengthened, I learned a lot and from this atory, I know Isaiah 54:17 is real!!!!❤❤❤

[@BelieversinspiredChannel]

May we not come in contact with husband disguised in form of devil. God will continue to strengthen her,ijn. Thank you Pst. Femi

[@pendop8073]

😅the way she laughs sacarstically shows that it was really bad! Indeed the things God can deliver us from even without us knowing!Praise His Name

[@oluwadamilolaesan8301]

I totally relate with her story, having left a traumatic marriage after 3 years. There's no hell as grievous as a bad marriage. He threatened me and said in 3 years, I would see what my life will become. But thanks be to God, and people who stood by me. It's being 4 years and I'm still standing.

[@ujunwai4365]

I couldn't stop listening May God perfect your healing Dr Chika