She Exposes How Most Women Sabotage Relationships With Good Men

She Exposes How Most Women Sabotage Relationships With Good Men
In this video, J.R. Wisdom will be commenting on a video where Kittie Rose talks about how women ruin relationships by gaslighting, being insecure, needy, and trying to lead the relationship. Many modern women do things that eventually turn off men. This is why many modern women are single. They tend to lack communication skills and are very uncooperative. Men will explain to women what the issue is but women will become dismissive and take no responsibility for their actions. The lack of accountability is what turns men off.
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[@cameobelafonte4975]

You have women that misconstrued insincerity with disrespect or things that shouldn’t be tolerated in a relationship. Like baby imma check up on you and I need to know some shit when I ask Questions. If you can’t do that then you gotta go

[@MayorOfBodybuildingTV]

Just ordered your book.

[@phillyrealestate]

All your content is about tearing down black women

[@HumptyMcFly]

She won me at “many of y’all women are not what you think you are. Some of y’all are not great people to be in relationship with.” Everything after that was icing. 😂

[@marydoll2552]

What about a man that can't go out without getting numbers can't go to work without trying to get with other women

[@lyingasshoes9455]

But they can’t get mad.. just look How the act behind close doors that shit not worth loving

[@jeremiahborders2959]

But everything she said wasn't anything groundbreaking. Why would your be in a relationship if you're not over your ex? Why would you depend on other to confirm yourself self confidence? This is stuff that both everyone should already know.

[@theinfinitehealers6008]

💯

[@Frugal637]

Same for the men

[@charlesdci7120]

Deep down men don't necessarily need emotional support. What we need are proper outlets for our emotions.

[@kathurtado13]

Boom!

[@cianamartin3932]

Could you explain what you mean by the last part in regards to a relationship with a woman?

[@adamnyachieko6233]

Like sports and stuff

[@adamnyachieko6233]

@@cianamartin3932 sports fosho

[@charlesdci7120]

@Ciana Martin As long as most men have something like a hobby or goals to direct our energy toward, we don't need to be told everything will be alright. I'm not saying it isn't nice to have but IMO we aren't looking for it.

[@davidthomas4065]

“Give the man time to miss you.” A word! Told my ex this once. 🤦‍♂️

[@davidthomas4065]

Sis was preaching! Dude, too... not realizing you have something you’re not used to... that self-sabotage is something. But when she said “stop interpreting things and jumping to conclusions”... PHEW! Overanalyzing!

[@DreMurrz]

Absence makes da heart grow fonder

[@Michellemybell739]

@@DreMurrz Yes but NOT too much absence. Tf?!

[@primallionheart5318]

Same

[@jasondavis2995]

This. My bf thinks this is emotional torture.....

[@71suezqz]

I taught my daughter to pay attention to her dad's ways and to wait to speak to him. She recently told me, now that she's grown, that she didn't understand why I always said that. She thought it meant he was too moody or had an easy temper. I never saw it this way. She learned to be tuned in to other people. We have always had a very peaceful house.

[@Ohiobaby1.77]

She’s speaking facts 💯 Slow to Speak…quick to listen, compromise, communicate, and trust. Ladies take accountability for your actions.

[@cutenerd1177]

I love how sane and rational she sounds. She’s giving specific examples of how to fix problems and taking into consideration the needs of both parties.

[@victormuhammad2678]

They all “ sound “ that way when it is benefitting them.

[@OmaAlkebulan-grace]

Exactly 💯

[@alexforce9]

If a woman says all of her exes were bad men - dump her. Coz it means only one of two things - that's her type, or - she never admits her mistakes and always plays the victim. She will dump you for another bad man in the future, or you will be the bad man in her her story she tells the next guy.

[@jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376]

It's always been that way my friend.

[@tspencer661]

What’s the only thing all of her bad relationships have in common? Her. She’s definitely a woman to avoid. She hasn’t worked on healing herself. It’s not a man’s job to fix her. She has to fix herself.

[@yungjavion]

bingo

[@jordan23702]

Facts!!

[@tokyo_ghoul640]

Imma keep that in mind

[@marcuslong9761]

This is facts. If your woman must get her way all of the time, and needs to trick you into complying, that is the definition of needy and insecure.

[@3kingzsneakerheadtalk635]

I dealt with this. I'm glad I moved on from that nightmare

[@teribrown9612]

An manipulation

[@blacksongbird100]

Truth! She's DEFINITELY NOT the right person.

[@thaddeusgreen-kg7ww]

Just stopped dealing with a weirdo

[@vmac38]

Study the person you are with and learn how to love that person the way they need to be loved, as long as it doesn't compromise who you are in a negative way.

[@johnsnow9210]

Love languages like shiiid. Dont love to swt an example of how you want to be loved. Bring effort pay attention & dont force it.

[@ravenpn4275]

I know this is a year old but this is the best comment.

[@georgefranklin2430]

I recently broke up with this girl and she said, I'm gonna miss her. I said, miss what? Straight silence lol

[@ThePrayingDon]

Dam thought I’ll never see the day another woman holds woman accountable this lady gives me hope

[@carleebhoward1]

I was working on me when I met my husband and I’m still a work in progress!! This marriage is a job it’s my favorite work to do and I love it

[@MrCj_Common]

Accountability...humans kryptonite. No one's perfect....but some people have a Master's degree in pointing out everyone else's faults but never their own.

[@boxingsm.v.p8714]

If we can simply just build on the truth,and be honest and transparent, deliberate and intentional with love,it would be so refreshing.

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

Stop pushing him to do things and criticizing him for not doing it the way you wanted it....then you should have done it your damn self! Keep doing that and eventually he will not do it anything because he's always being criticized...and then you'll be complaining to anyone and everyone that he doesn't do anything to help you. Wtf? Just what the hell were you trying to accomplish? If you can't appreciate him, let him go! Let him go. This lady is dropping truth bombs!

[@jaymay180]

Facts be thru that

[@kennethyoung4892]

Relationships need space

[@bezmoney]

Alot of these woman are damaged goods. They come in the relationship with unresolved trauma and be set in they ways.

[@Iambrfkartel]

And expect to receive somebody perfect when they flawed they damn self

[@bezmoney]

@@Iambrfkartel Correct 💯

[@DivaDivine88]

Yea they get those issues from somewhere.. and if she had a good upbringing, it was most likely the douchbags that came into her energy...being a good person gets you taken advantage of a lot.. and men are ALWAYS seeking an advantage

[@SheritaLee-er4sp]

I remember one of my uncles telling one of his sons., A damaged woman is like a used car, you are getting all the problems of the last owner. When you get a brand new one, free of problems you have no worries cause it has not been driven, and you are the only driver.

[@bezmoney]

@@SheritaLee-er4sp I like this 💪🏼

[@ruedawson9958]

I had couple of women like that.. one always wanted to argue, the other was the same but with a worse attitude, one who had trust issues, and the other that expected for me to do everything and she does nothing. My love life 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@mgene8093]

and then you're the asshole in the end according to her lol

[@ruedawson9958]

@@mgene8093 man 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣🤣 can't win at all

[@marquishoward3529]

I had the same issue, so I definitely feel u on that. Toxic mentally & emotionally draining women like that makes me glad that being single ain’t really a bad thing

[@theresarandolphe8238]

Finally someone giving constructive criticism and helpful advise to help women without degrading them. There’s no ‘Bitch you need to’ or ‘Bit you this’, y’all bits out here’. Woman and men have issues to work through. Her points on women are valid and should be corrected . Spoke well on those to get her point across and just saying I appreciate the delivery 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💫

[@LifeMission1]

I love the way she talk and think ❤ Keeping it real every man need a real WOMAN & LADY LIKE THIS 😍😍😍😍

[@ronaldleary213]

Take it from a OG as far as I am concerned, this young lady as u younger, people would say, she is spitting facts. If you are blessed to be a decent human

[@ronaldleary213]

Being, listen to what is being said by both parties involved. It is intellectual and right on information that covers and go's both ways in life. JR your show is on the money because any body and everybody can relate to what has been said in one form or fashion. Well done, be blessed everyone 😊

[@abdurrabb215]

Real talk…what’s her @

[@MyKokujin]

finally a woman who understands men. men want to be needed. nuff said.

[@ladyk7317]

She understands you all so much yet she's nobodies Wife 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MyKokujin]

@@ladyk7317 can't argue that. 😄

[@VexedGenX]

Needed for what? Do you expect women to be childlike? As an adult you shouldn’t NEED another adult. You should want to be wanted. That’s just my opinion.

[@eveoftoronto]

​@@ladyk7317she actually is a wife... are you?

[@nameunavailable8995]

@@eveoftorontolol when a person offended , they never offer a rebuttal with substance, they always try to low blow it but that always exposes that they are bothered and fuming with hatred lol

[@willardtheband]

Women set up a relationship’s incentive structure and get surprised and angry when a man does what she incentivized him to do. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

[@angelobarnette]

I see a lot of my friends experience this. I think it's so crazy and immature and I don't understand how they live like that it's very toxic and disrespectful. Women go thru it also. Ppl need to grow up and respect each other's time space and energy

[@marquishoward3529]

I love this woman & how she thinks. We need to protect her at all costs

[@Toyota4Life]

She told no lies All the issues she said is true and none of these issues women will admit to. It’s crazy out here

[@kennethyoung4892]

Most women are insecure even the pretty ones

[@deewavy7182]

Most men are insecure and need women to validate their manhood.

[@ericbrown275]

Facts

[@taleekjones6545]

That part

[@dollhouseq1530]

Most men are as well. It's where the domineering comes from and gaslighting. For women insecurity manifests as thinking she doesn't look good enough. The insecurity of questioning is usually triggered by a man's behaviour toward her. If a man says he will come over, or take her out, or call but consistently doesnt follow through that breeds insecurities. If he ignores his phone for hours on end and is not at work this leads to insecurities. And before men get in a tizzy ask yourself if your significant other acted the same you would have insecurities and ask questions aa well. It all boils down to respect and being a person of your word

[@1tarikross161]

@@dollhouseq1530 you’re making really broad generalizations. Ive met women who were intellectually insecure. A woman just isnt her looks you know

[@juanrivera2841]

SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE LADY NO OBSCENITY, STRAIGHT TO THE POINT. VIRGIN ISLANDS PEACE ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@TheCloveart]

8:01 is a major key out hear in the Bay Area. So many women think they have you figured out in 2-3 dates. And they be killing their own relationships and their own blessings off of nothing. It’s crazy that people will make long term decisions based on short term feelings. Assumptions don’t equal facts. They never did.

[@safelol4727]

We are solution driven

[@randosmallfoot2132]

They do it because they are flat out stupid.

[@solomonkush5687]

Damn this is true

[@emilgabl9069]

From Oakland and this is very true!

[@kirkbrown2147]

The thumbs up was for the last statement. I'm guilty of it myself

[@froztout]

"Submit" Means to simply fall back and let someone else lead while you assist the leader. (Jordan and Pippen).

[@Nytellem]

11:31 Communication for women is only being heard and not listening…This is so important. I remember having this woman that told me I needed to communicate better, when I opened up to her she invalidated everything I said, used it against me in many arguments down the line and Did not listen to me at all because whatever I said had a counter argument. Eventually I learned and moved on.

[@antimike11]

Same with mine, we used to work together. Every time I mentioned how a co-worker would try to carry me or sabotage something I'm doing. She would tell me I assumed too much. Like she's on their side and I'm wrong for feeling the way I feel.

[@tylaj19]

I pushed mine away. So she is speaking facts! Lesson learned

[@wandab172]

I appreciate her thoughts and damn near everything she speaks on requires therapy of both the man & woman to truly have a healthy relationship. 80% of the population need to heal from childhood trauma that they unconsciously recycle to others. A lack of knowledge about what trauma really is holds everyone back from more fruitful relationships. 85% of the population are not self aware beyond the surface level. Most don’t know how to properly access, process, and manage their emotions nor have the self control they think they do. Thoughts control emotions which control actions & behaviors. The action/behaviors you choose are because of you, not anyone else. The triggers you have are a signal that you need to heal in that area. The lack of self accountability is at an all time high. Many relationship issues would be non-existent if everyone spent time healing & getting the tools to practice processing their emotions beyond the surface level. Doing so allows one to have more compassion, forgiveness and grace for one another. Be the change you want to see by working on your internal state more than outward appearance & material things.

[@Th3Broth3r]

I've been seeing many women post demonic images talking about being comfortable with their demons. Compromise isn't slavery it's about being accountable

[@lameart2041]

Me bringing out my notes and pen 📝 imma list it down. I lost a great man a month ago. I’ll keep this in mind

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

At least you learned your lesson and I pray you find a good man. I hope I find myself a good woman soon

[@anneagena8236]

Me too girl

[@QueMari]

Hey, accountability is the first step for ALL of us. We have to work on our own issues, so we can have healthier relationships in the future.

[@antimike11]

I loved my ex-girlfriend, she's the 1st girl I can say I did her right. I'm in a hard spot right now in my life. She breaks up with me a week before my birthday. And couldn't even wish me a happy birthday. We have been through so much and she ends it like love was nothing.

[@joey9111]

I wish we could send this out to every American women this needs to be heard.

[@fatmike5879]

Yo Wis I left the girl I was with back in CT due to THAT fact. These type of women need to pay attention to their man and stop telling men we don't know how to communicate when most of us men communicate better than them. #nowthatileftimwinning💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@BjtheLawyer_]

most of the time we are communicating they just not listening or we not communicating the way they think we should so they don't listen.

[@meganlangdale8699]

I literally deactivated my facebook 5 days ago to focus on my goals and passions in life and building my own dreamhouse sometime instead of dating :) and I feel much happier & accomplished being single so i'm purposely avoiding people from asking me out because i'm not interested in relationships anymore :) just doing my own thing & loving it

[@jerlishacummings7808]

Amen!

[@janinerichardson2038]

Amen 🙏

[@mentlinc]

You need a decent MAN lady that house won't visit you in the hopsital

[@aaronware8880]

Sounds like my mom and sister big time!!! They complain about everything!!! But they won't adjust and just sit there on their phones everyday and all day

[@Brevski]

Knowing there is women like this out there still keeps me sane

[@kippreggelogan9570]

Money over women(mob)!

[@jasondavis2995]

Agreed

[@nicosialifestyled505]

We are ouchea. The fact that we seem like endangered species is really sad. I hope it gets better for us all real soon 🫶🏽

[@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer]

@@nicosialifestyled505😂😂😂 “WE” mhmmm

[@nicosialifestyled505]

@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer all my friends solid 🤷🏽‍♀️ sorry you haven’t run into any of us 😂. Seriously though, I do hope you run into someone solid on your journey 🫶🏽

[@NIIJIKIWENH]

Once they realize it, it’s to late.

[@merovingian688]

What’s promoted in the media are bad apples. Until there’s a change the dysfunctional relationship is the standard the norm.

[@Omnitrix8]

PROTECT THAT WOMAN AT ALL COSTS!

[@TChalla007]

Facts another treasure.

[@justinp2000]

It’s honestly sad how rare women like her are

[@DetoxMyLifeWithTNichol]

This is all common sense. Maturity, fairness, sacrifice, humility, emotional intelligence, supportive, understanding, empathy, honesty, and mutual respect is basically what she is talking about. But if any of those things aren’t included, then of course the relationship won’t be healthy. Being the best person in a relationship is about self-awareness. Plain and simple, which most people tend to lack, men or women.

[@nelsonian7077]

She speaks THE TRUTH!!!

[@tonia8561]

She spitting Facts!

[@g.b.8836]

I think some women tend to let themselves "go" after having a child and then use the process as an excuse. Any sensible man would know that she won't get her body back the way it was prior to being pregnant but all we want is you to try and be consistent.

[@Toyota4Life]

Same issue with my girl. All I ask for her to go to the gym and be consistent not asking for her to change completely how she looks. She got this pregnant looking belly and it’s completely killing my sexual attraction to her.

[@loveyhernandez5203]

@@Toyota4Life I think it depends on how recent the pregnancy was if it was like bearly a month it’s not going to instantly go back unless the person has great genetics sometimes people are skinny but have extra skin and they need tummy tuck to remove it

[@monaealiyah]

@@Toyota4Life you triggering me king, because postpartum is real, she could be feeling completely disconnected from her body, are you someone that’s active in the gym? There’s a lot to be done to help a situation like this, are you doing any workouts around home, implementing healthy eating habits-- humans are creatures of repitition, maybe if you show her what you want she can return the effort towards you. When I want my man to get back in the gym I don’t even tell him, I just pull out my mat and get to it. Within a week he’s in there.

[@mikeconell4311]

Bro Im in the same situation Im losing weight looking like a whole different person from last year and it’s like my girl lowkey jealous because I’m evolving. She still use our 6 year old as an excuse for her health.

[@Toyota4Life]

@@loveyhernandez5203 I think your confused my girl was never pregnant

[@thegreattreon0177]

Absolutely on point. All of it

[@cck523]

She simply did NOT MISS 🎯

[@jlu7354]

The most powerful women in the world knows when to lead, and know when to submit(serve). @12:30

[@MsLotusBlooms]

All leaders know that

[@antimike11]

Big facts

[@ericmiller310]

Yo, bro. It's been a while. Good video. I was once in a relationship where I was compared to someone in her past. She seemed to be one- sided in the relationship. She worried needlessly about other women, yet at times I caught her flirting with other men. After telling her of what she was doing, I broke up with her. All the trivialities became issues, and we argued. So glad to be free! The last woman I had relations with was worried that I was having sex with other women in the middle of lovemaking. I broke up with her and made her my friend. She asked me why I didn't show her affection like I did when we were a couple. I friend-zoned her. You don't get g f. priviledge anymore. Gents, you know you're a good man, don't tolerate b.s. , and run m. Nuff said m!

[@eddiesalgado9581]

She is on point giving facts. Very rare you see that. 💪🏼💪🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@trappestarrgaming3422]

Man where tf are these nurturing women at... I've always figured it was me but then I realized once I left my dumass town that it was the way the women in that town were being raised its crazy how different ppl are from town to town

[@nicosialifestyled505]

I think it has a lot to do with how women and men are being raised. If you had a loving mother raise you, you are more likely to transfer that into your relationships. Mothers are a child’s first shot at unconditional love. If you had that growing up, you’re more likely to be nurturing and understanding in your adult life. If you did not have that growing up, you don’t fully know what it looks like, how it feels or that it’s OK to extend that to others.

[@tamekaosabutey-aguedje411]

One of the best shows on your channel!!!!

[@montyberry2725]

Damnnn she speaking facts

[@lgndrybredot4755]

She was on point . I need to hear this 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️❤️🙏🏾👑 thank you👑

[@jasonmalin287]

She killed it shout out to this queen👸👏🙌😍✨👌

[@H1GHD3FF]

She wants you to be everything she's not. So if her list is long most likely she has nothing to offer

[@lcam9241]

Something to think about. Can't say I agree, but it's a thought.

[@StrongBlackLove]

Ladies this Lady Knows basic Math and it’s just that simple! Salute Sister’s 💪🏾✊🏾❤️

[@babyluvjr]

JR speaking real....Ole girl is speaking facts

[@caliefgoode6379]

Facts like she said if you want a healthy relationship you have take constructive criticism to become a better person.

[@chaelmavik]

This video is great, both from JR and Kittie. It gives a bit of hope that there are some women out there like this, and not the bad stereotype we're basically used to

[@sossecurity7811]

Good video, bro. I was once in a relationship with a woman and during lovemaking, she asked the question of me being with someone else. After reassuring her the 1st time, I got up and left her. I friend-zoned her. I had to tell her she wasn't the one. Gents, pay attention to yourself before you get with anyone. Everyone need to talk to be heard; to listen to be understood. Her video hit home, because us guys need some guidance/insight on matters of the heart. Furthermore, when being told things about yourself to learn not to be so defensive. We're humans and we have subconscious behaviors that can sabotage whatever we're doing, and may need professional help, whether we believe it or not. Self-denial is a killer, because you've developed a mindset where you think you have no issues. You can't see everything you do as wrong. This is why we as people need to know what they are in ourselves and in others to be functional in life. We need to be able to relate as people and as of the opposite sex. Nuff said!

[@tspencer661]

I am 100% a Love Languages person. I’ve read at least four of Gary Chapman’s Love Languages books. If someone’s love language is acts of service, you’ll bake them cookies. You’ll give them a back rub. You’ll pick up their dry cleaning. You’ll still give them words of affirmation, give them gifts, show them physical affection, and spend time with them. You’ll just focus on acts of service the most because that’s how they like to be shown love. I recently saw a video where someone said that women’s love languages are always gifts. My love languages are quality time and physical touch. Gifts are fine, but I enjoy sitting on the couch and cuddling. That means more to me than any gift would. That woman had good, solid advice.

[@Cjcuddles]

Amen! And that goes both ways, for men and women.

[@SheritaLee-er4sp]

If a man is not rightous not religious but rightous and not sumbitted to the most high god, then I'm not submitting to someone who is submitted to satan.

[@FC-xc3zy]

Lots of nonsense you stated. I will do you a favour and school you. . A righteous man don't have to be religious man. A religious man sometimes ain't righteous

[@SheritaLee-er4sp]

I know what I said, I meant to said a rightous man not religious. You not schooling me on nothing and I haven't started anything but I'm going to ended it.

[@FC-xc3zy]

@@SheritaLee-er4sp dwl...

[@eastsidepb8139]

Why would you be with him in the first place? Stop with the idiocy.

[@SheritaLee-er4sp]

When you ask a stupid question , you get a smart answer. The only idiocy is you leaving that comment. Thank you and contue to have a miserable life that you are probably already living!

[@Redd_504]

She unloaded the whole clip!

[@yusufismail3418]

He’s got the point at the end it does need to be approached with love it’s COMPASSION! It’s the frequency from which we were created in compassion.

[@erickgross984]

Keep Bringing a Fresh Word on Relationships- AMEN

[@EricMiller-o5r]

One of the things that caught my ear was the comparison. It has happened to me on more than 1 occasion. More than a decade I had a girlfriend who was talking with her co-workers about Valentine's Day. When she was done with them, I wanted to surprise her with what I had. She came at me like a horse on a racetrack. To this day I don't do Valentine's Day. If you don't know how I feel about you every day, then 1 day out of the week doesn't mean anything. I don't need that day to do anything special for you if I'm doing it on a daily! Furthermore, if you're treated well, why are you nitpicking on that day? If she was patient I would consider some extras , like it was her birthday. Women cut the crap! If you know you have a man who treats you good, cut him some slack. He has expectations from you as well, and do you meet every one of them? Food for thought.

[@victoriadream]

yesssss i feel her on the nagging. since getting in my relationship, i had to learn to pick & choose my battles

[@mentlinc]

Why do yall do that?

[@Amariecox]

I agree to a certain extent and the reason being is that majority of the women she is speaking on are mainly women who didn’t grow up with a real father in the house or in her life. Also what type of household they were raised in does need to be taken into consideration. Start asking childhood questions during the dating phase so we can reveal and heal!!! God bless 🥰

[@gilliankingston8259]

Simply behave like honourable gentlemen and don't give women a reason to be insecure because if you reverse the positions you, yourself wouldn't appreciate being given reasons to be insecure by the women you are dating - being aware of their feelings, thoughtful and respectful is a good place to start but it also needs to be reciprocated.🌹

[@brookesmith3476]

She has some very good points.

[@larcbi]

I agree with her but that topic swings both ways. I’ve dated men that have given off that energy. If we would start to recognize the hurt in people in the beginning stages of these relationships then we can avoid all of this shit. A person who acts this way is coming from a place of past hurt and you can’t build ANYTHING on that. There are individuals out here who are whole, healed and ready to give and be loved. Look for that, because truth be told you flock towards that which you identify with...that which you are.

[@jwat3217]

This not about men lmao I stopped reading after But you agree keep it pushing. 🤐

[@larcbi]

@@jwat3217 Didn’t have to be about men for me to throw ‘em off in there.

[@jwat3217]

@@larcbi i know you’re a woman so accountability means nothing you look for excuses 🥲 shame

[@willstrick9185]

@@larcbi difference is we are held accountable.

[@yvngentrepreneur4290]

@@willstrick9185 And this isn’t to denounce what the top comment said. Realistically men and women are both capable of practicing these behaviors but, the reality is men are held accountable and today a lot of women aren’t; which leads to ongoing bad habits, dysfunctional practices in relationships, and delusion resulting in a lack of understanding for their male counterparts.

[@jenniferoset243]

This is all 100% true! I think something that i realized is that you have to ask yourself if you trust this man to lead you. If you are skeptical, hesitant or the answer is a flat NO, then you will never make it work. You wont allow yourself to be lead by someone who you dont trust can lead you. If you say YES, you do trust that he can lead you, you better follow ALL of the things she just said and you must make necessary changes to get/keep the man you trust to lead you!

[@samuelrhymes5097]

I have never heard of this lady, but she is very accurate. I appreciate the sober mindedness she displayed. What relationships lack is balance, transparency, fairness, in tuned with present moment reality, etc. But she certainly opened a door for one to gain access to it if one wants it. The guy did a good job as well, bringing attention to key points. Well done, folks.

[@coffeethepresacanario3169]

SHE'S ON POINT I LIKE HER👍🏿👏🏿👏🏿👑👑👑👍🏿

[@1000alb2]

Good video brotha✊🏽

[@Yecadecali]

oof 😂 when she said "some people really be going through stuff" it hit a current nerve lol i'm normally pretty chill but when a man get distant or says they're going through something, i get a lil nervous 😭 "you okay?"

[@jimmycosey1675]

That’s ok to ask and be concern! But the nagging is what we hate ..

[@DrowningAreYou]

If I was single, I’d ask if she’s single. My goodness, she was SPITTING. 😂

[@ytchi1]

She so on point with everything she saying

[@christinerodriguez3976]

I like this lady, she speaks the truth. ❤

[@Gspringz]

This is the woman of my dreams. Her husband is so lucky!

[@victormuhammad2678]

She’s single

[@themalawiandiner180]

She's married, she said it herself​.@@victormuhammad2678

[@j.j.8466]

Yes Kitty Rose is amazing!!! She is an amazing therapist.

[@xelefonte]

It’s sad that so many women won’t believe these truths unless they hear it from a woman. If it was a man saying the exact same thing as this girl, they’d call him misogynistic and controlling. But it’s a woman and suddenly they believe she’s just being rational and fair.

[@PeonyMacarons]

Sometimes it's the attitude in the delivery that's the problem no matter who is speaking. Sometimes it's the immaturity of the listener be they male or female.

[@bee-u6905]

WTF I use to tell ppl all the time U CAN'T LOVE SOMEONE HOW U WANT TO ! U GOT TO LOVE SOMEONE HOW THEY WANT TO BE LOVE ❤

[@jacquelinenavarro1128]

I tell my man this all the time. He can look because he has eyes, just be respectful with it.

[@kslikk34]

I can hear all the "I'm not going to settle. I deserve it all" 🤣

[@walkingbyfaith6169]

I agree with everything in this video except the looking at other women… when you are with your spouse looking elsewhere is the highest disrespect. Now if you are out with your friends or by yourself and you look then fine but with your spouse then no. This is just my boundary, if a woman likes her man looking at other women then cool but I do not.

[@cutenerd1177]

Cool brake down on your part. It’s interesting to hear the male perspective on things like this

[@victormuhammad1393]

Heard her before. Been with her man for years but she still hasn’t married him

[@menarentlogical]

You mean he still hasn’t married her 😂

[@stanmoney8470]

Y'all speaking facts!!!

[@beachdreamin-ch4fi]

Yes, Sister! I applaud your insight. Absolutely correct in every way.

[@jarmainegrant217]

Respect sis...Blessing...

[@khonchusakwerius7237]

Did you say women look for validation sometimes!!?? ALL WOMEN look for validation!!

[@unique5996]

I wish people stop dragging sexes the issue lies in both people. I know men who literally won't look at another woman, and if so, their woman would never see it to feel disrespected. Folks need to look at people as a whole stop dragging one over the other when both can exibit toxicity. Thank you Sir for highlighting deeper understanding.

[@alonzoneloms5651]

If a woman is on a date. She has no business seeking validation from many Men! While she is on a date. period

[@DreMurrz]

Absence makes da heart grow fonder... Let dat sank in... Yuh I said "SANK"

[@JonathanBradell]

I can decipher any thing that seems trivial or out of order I'm a master problem solver .