She goes to karaoke in way too tight school uniforms & wants her mom to trust her | K-DOC

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Teenage daughters are a headache. Especially when you are from a different country and don't understand what kids do here these days. Watch Indonesian mother Yani and her daughter understand their differences and confess their feelings!
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All curations and translations done by Eunjae Lee.
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[@anisagigihola]

i think what was stressing the girl more was the CAMERA filming her get scolded. Like i bet she felt embarrassed. i also feel like she started crying when her mom tried to take her phone away just so the cameraman would leave her room, which worked btw.

[@allydimmy6885]

love the sarcasm…cracked me up

[@n2u636]

I would've done the same tbh 🤝

[@aurorannerenee]

Exactly. She might’ve even been a little more open had there not been a camera right there. She would’ve had to have been open to the whole world as well

[@kinawa2845]

I kind of felt that too... She looked like she brushed it off by answering in clipped tone but I had only ever done that when I want the conversation to be over right now and will re-visit the discussion later on.

[@Al3naa]

This is so real

[@notrlysuretbh]

“I don’t believe getting straight A’s in school is the only way to success” I wish all parents had this mindset. A few B’s and a C every once and a while isn’t going to hurt that bad. There are so many ways to succeed in life without having A’s all the time. As long as they don’t get their grades down to a D or an F, to me, it’s fine. They’re kids. Let them have somethings to think about other than grades.

[@k-doc467]

Preach!!! 🙌🏻

[@blache24]

omg, soo true!!! my parents put me through so much emotional stress and pain whenever I got the occasional B even though I tried so hard...and it didn't matter at all in the end, i'm doing perfectly fine now

[@zeenani]

yep. my mom got A*'s in all her subjects all her life since she was a child and in university so she expects me to be just as smart as her :'(

[@lol-yh1wp]

@@zeenani savage mom!

[@lol-yh1wp]

@@zeenani I honestly get the pressure, don't focus on being a straight A+ student focus on learning the subject and as long you are happy that matters I feel like sometimes parents put pressure on a child but I get the fact they want what’s best for you.

[@ITSDANI04]

I’m glad they made up 😭 but she should definitely appreciate her mom most parents aren’t as understanding

[@sunscreencactus1575]

in five days you got 1.1k likes and all you did was say facts, we love to see it

[@ALQQ]

True and her mom is great but she should fix the thing where she just barges into her room and taking the phone, I literally hate when my own mom does that and it makes me lose trust so that might also causes her trust w her mom to weaken

[@truehappiness4U]

Kids and teens their brain aren’t fully developed, they think with their emotion side of the brain and not with their logical thoughtful frontal cortex. Both parent and teen in this video should be respectful towards each other. In most cases, parents knows best because they make decisions with their frontal cortex. They care about their daughter or son safety. Appreciate that your parents care about you. Your parents were teens and kids once, so they have experience. This girl wanting to wear a short skirt, attracts more danger to her wether she wants it or not(especially in Korea). So of course the mother is concerned for her daughter.

[@hhzy5748]

i think her mom couldnt scold her cos they were on tv

[@miss52]

RIGHT

[@TheMyEve]

She’s actually a really nice daughter compared to some of the teenagers you see on “The worlds strictest parents”

[@mandlhy2005]

HAHAHAHA OMG

[@ZenitsuKunn]

@@mandlhy2005 farts

[@audreyomorotionmwan7134]

@@ZenitsuKunn wth

[@lua5462]

@@audreyomorotionmwan7134 I’m pretty sure they misspelt facts?? Lmao

[@Mimi-yo2pp]

you can say that about most teenagers then lol

[@sage9097]

Gonna be honest, i have not seen any other clips of this family but i can say the daughter is extremely respectful and seems like a genuinely nice girl. Like she greets the camera person politely etc. Her response towards her mom isn’t that abnormal? Like at her age, she definitely wants to look good so nails and stuffs like that are something they want to do. I mean, i have definitely been in that phase. I think her mom should try to be understanding because at that age, kids tend to get embarrassed to do stuffs that they used to do before and parents seems to confuse that to being ‘rude’ or ‘disrespectful’. I am saying this because my mom has been more of an amazing friend to me, she grew up with me so things like these are something i have never faced but friends around me have.

[@rubywithcrown3958]

The mother has a youtube channel, his relationship with his mother is fine. She is actually a good girl

[@lunay4723]

Idk why people r complaining about the girl ?! Like I was so much meaner to my mother when I was a teenager like she’s literally a teenager

[@6idle4ever49]

@@lunay4723 ikfrr theres a lot of ppl that *way* more older than her and still disrespectful towards their parents llol

[@bringsnsdback1645]

All in moderation if not she can get astray real quick as it easy at her age also with how unsafe Korea is for women i fullu understand the mom

[@yougsa]

so your gonna let her being a teenager dicate how she treats her mother?! Are fricking kidding me right now? Og my god this generation is so messed up. Her mom is so sweet and patient and your sitting here saying “the mom should be more understanding” she’s being to understanding. Make the girl take responsibility for her action don’t give her a god dang pass just because she’s still a “kid” ughhh

[@adriannamartin5992]

If I acted like her around my mom. I would be slapped into the next dimension lol

[@k-doc467]

same 🥲

[@adriannamartin5992]

@@k-doc467 😭😭😭

[@kshitijdeole6980]

LOL🤣🤣

[@DechenVlogs101]

Am 28 and my dad still scolds me about it !! Lol

[@sunrises5774]

😭😭😭 I behave well...and I get good score...still I'm grounded.... I end up with 0 friends....😭😭😭😭😭

[@Lkrst]

The mom has a youtube channel and the daughter is actually a sweet and helpful kid. I'm not justifying the disrespectful behaviour that Subin (the daugther) did, but people should stop writing comments as if they didn't argue with their mother as a teen. Subin's just going through a phase and surely the mom has her own way of parenting. At the end of day, they will still love and care about each other.

[@glassglow2182]

She was in bad mood during those time perhaps. Bcs she just finished ger exam week and we usually get stressed on exam week right??

[@sarahassis4308]

people forget that the girl is a teenager, has issues with hormones, socialization and school, it is also difficult for her. it doesn't seem like they remember how hard it was when we went through it

[@getintoityuh2412]

@@piikuu97 right, they making it seem like all teenagers act like this

[@sarahassis4308]

@@piikuu97 I also never did that with my parents when I was a teenager and had them. but this "hi" issue seems more like shyness or some other social point, than being a "bad daughter"

[@sarahassis4308]

@@tongchanthapha9264 yannie kim

[@dopaemine]

I think you guys are being a little too harsh. Sure she could’ve been a little nicer to her mom but she’s growing and she’s realizing the error in her ways. She genuinely seems like a sweet girl who cares a lot about her mom, so don’t judge their relationship when you’ve only seen the tip of the iceberg.

[@MJIAG]

She‘s better than I was haha, and what is with coming in the bedroom without knocking or asking for her phone? Give your child some privacy.

[@melancholicpotato4411]

@@MJIAG no such thing as privacy for asian kids.

[@yeriberri3757]

Ik ppl are acting like they’ve never said something impolite to their mom.

[@spicyspicy11111]

Yea gotta understand from both sides. She is just a young teen. One of the most sensitive stages in life. Pretty sure majority of us can say we went though a "rebellious" age haha. Most important is when she grows, she can understand and learn about her mother's teachings!

[@makaylayounger9951]

yeah that's true

[@Sandy-ij4hb]

I feel like we’re able to sympathize with both sides of the story, she’s not a bad daughter and she’s not a bad mom

[@icespiceate]

Hmmm

[@navetluvsnature3296]

Yh but the daughter needs to kinda toughen up and get mature cause she might become something else that could badly influence her sister. I’m both a younger sister to and older sister and older sister to brothers but I can see how much influence we all have on each other and I can say my sister did not positively influence me because she was similar to the older in the video.

[@ginshinimpactplayer3044]

Honestly, for teenagers, she’s quite respectful and nice to her mother than most teens and I know it myself since I am a teen and most of my friends are all the teens so I’m just speaking out of my experience and what I have seen

[@theSpawnofChaoswashere]

I m really jealous of the fact that her mother talks about topics like this with her because the only subject my mom is concerned about is my academics and anything and everything affecting it. It really makes me sad sometimes and i feel like my entire worth is valued from the marks on my reports.

[@fatinjanna]

right.

[@LadyMegatronn]

I get this so much :(

[@chocolatelyrics3379]

i feel ya

[@tatacherry7268]

I relate

[@hsnrb9959]

The mother and father are exploiting their kids by letting them be filmed like this. The older girl seems like she's old enough to understand but the younger girl's privacy should be considered as she is too young to consent to being filmed like this. Celebrities and youtubers showing their young kids online is not good. Respect to those who keep their kids away from the public eye.

[@yuechan13]

“I don’t understand her and she doesn’t understand me either.” I feel like this is the epitome of all problems parents tend to have with their children. There are some things parents do out of love that may be overbearing in their children’s perspective, and so children feel as if they are forced to “obey” or bear with the annoyance that comes with their freedom. Vice versa, a parent would feel as if their child is shutting themselves off and disappearing away from their watchful eyes and they simply worry all the time because it’s about their kid’s safety and life. In the end, both sides feel as if the other is obligated to change for them to feel better, and then they start throwing around words like “why can’t you understand me.” But the problem isn’t that, because I’m sure both the parents and children know EXACTLY what each other want but can’t give in for specific reasons. In the end, you have to communicate and accept the fact that you can’t have EVERYTHING go the way you want it to, whether you’re a parent or child. You have to give in sometimes because that’s just how it is with every relationship, familial or not. I feel like they should try to talk and be on the same page, compromising on some aspects so that both sides can have a certain degree of freedom without worrying or annoying the other.

[@nsyzns]

the way this comment only has likes,, no dislikes or replies

[@Sara-715]

@@nsyzns you can't see the number of dislikes

[@nsyzns]

@@Sara-715 oh rlly ? lmao i clowned myself then, but thanks for telling !

[@Sara-715]

@@nsyzns you're welcome ahahah

[@rahendhawildhan7140]

this is the POINT, i agree cuz i'm in this situation right now

[@gouri8404]

Pls this girl is living her life literally her mom's soo understanding . I'm from an Indian household and my parents are strict af ...I don't even get to spent the money I get from my relatives or whom ever

[@aishwaryaahirrao]

Same

[@gouri8404]

@@aishwaryaahirrao periodt 😭✋

[@ellorapachaua7822]

And we don't have a thing called pocket money they just give us money once in a While how I wish my mother was like her 😶

[@gouri8404]

@@ellorapachaua7822 exactlyyy I can't even buy anything with it 😭

[@snaik9141]

As an Indian I am allowed to go out with my friends but I don't have friends 😭

[@kz0311]

She’s not that bad... just a normal teenager going through puberty and not understanding their parents.. I was like her and I was considered pretty well behaved compared to how kids where I’m from were lol she acts like an angel compared to some of the people I went to school with 😂

[@k-doc467]

Yeah just normal teenager stuff 😂

[@firstnamelastnamefirstname9845]

@@mr.bee5225 you must be such a perFECT child.

[@noiacsinz6279]

@@mork4971 it happens y’all are doing the most it ain’t your kid

[@serenalovescats]

im 16 and its normal tbh, u get back from school all exhausted and sometimes it can result to being disrespectful to family

[@anildakeliana8269]

​@serena1339 I am 15 years old and sometimes come from school very exhausted and sometimes very stressed but l always try to be respectful to all the elders in my house.

[@khushigupta3779]

The mom herself looks like a teenager...so pretty❤️

[@k-doc467]

Very 🥺

[@taeyongsarang]

I think most people who are in this comment section dont know that her mother is an actress and also KZbinr. I think Subin is just tired and was not in mood. I used to be like that too when I was her age. Your words are too harsh guys even comparing to the way yourself did to your own mom. It's different. There are many good perspective Subin shows to people like she always want to make contents whenever her mom told her. Like we don't know whether she is mood or not at that time bcs usually people around her age would spend time with their friends and study. But she still willingly make contents in front of camera. So my advice to these "well behaved kid" netizens in this comment section to mind their own business and left nice comments instead of judging Subin like this or like that.

[@roshnik5137]

Finally a sensible person. Thank you. I am surprised by the hypocrisy in the comments section.

[@sirlimaidre4746]

What her moms name ? I'd like to check her KZbin channel

[@taeyongsarang]

@@roshnik5137 ikr.. that person who wrote "I always greet my parents" like all of the sudden showing off your attitude in this video won't make you suddenly become the best kid.. ckck there is smth called puberty phase where most teens will feel like no one can solve their problem and what they need is not scolding but time and space.

[@taeyongsarang]

@@sirlimaidre4746 her name is Yannie Kim. She played in Yongpal and Hospital Playlist(?) too before. Actually she made good contents on KZbin like sharing abt how to life in Korea as a foreigner. But sometimes I pity Subin bcs she has been exposed so much on camera during her puberty that people easily judge her by few secs like in this clip

[@stanciustefania5828]

I am not judging her but I believe she wasn’t just in “ mood “ she was rude towards her parents.That’s ok ,we all make mistakes and learn from it . Not greeting her parents is such a sad thing to do ,even dogs greet you ..she is going to regret this later , I wish I could hug and kiss my mother when I came home but I cannot.

[@olgak4446]

Woah so many perfect children in the comments lol yes she’s acting up, yes her parents are lenient but why pretend like you’ve never been through puberty and felt down/ misunderstood/lonely? Do you want golden star sticker for that?

[@aerichan3508]

A lot of people say they’re parents don’t understand them want them to be perfect but they’re doing the same with this girl. This only shows a day of her entire life, she was maybe exhausted (since she had exams) you don’t know. Our generation is all about mental health and listening but when it’s not like you’re life "oh she’s rebellious" ? Honestly I would feel sad to see that people judge me from a short moment of my life. Her mom has a KZbin channel and we can clearly see she is an excellent daughter

[@cocoaicci_]

Ikr. Way too many people in the comments acting like they're golden stars 24/7

[@mimieyaka5106]

@@cocoaicci_ fr

[@kajaortmann8566]

literally

[@amoonarmy8473]

@@cocoaicci_ i mean i get mad sometimes but i would say it’s about culture and how you where raised like ex : if children from my culture say no to their parents they would regret it bad not like i even can i was just brought up that way a lot of people are comparing cause they don’t see her behavior as right in their opinion it’s the internet and they can express what they feel towards the video no one is holding them back

[@lunartidee]

The girl doesn't have attitude, she's dealing with a lot of problems teens go through at her age, and she feels like she's getting attacked instead of given privacy or just having conversations, I understand her, and the way the mom almost took her phone, that's way worse, I appreciate the guy with the glasses too, he's actually very understanding

[@tUiDo4]

A lot of people are commenting about how the daughter should be more understanding of the mom, but honestly I see where the daughter is coming from… sometimes you just want your own space, and peace, to figure out what YOU want and with a parents who’s always asking you “what’s wrong”, it makes it harder for you to know what’s wrong. So you just end up getting more angry… I’m not saying the mom intentions come from a wrong place, no, I’m just saying sometimes when your kids ask for that space, give them that space, that’s something my parents failed to give me, so for that reason, I rebelled a lot.

[@yungmun4155]

They honestly seem like a normal family, the daughter is very social that’s good, maybe she’s dating or having a lot going on in her friend group. I think she is a little embarrassed by her scoldings being filmed and broadcasted. Their relationship seems good, this is the awkward phase of teenage hood

[@gayathrivelayutham2323]

I was rebellious towards my mom too. I always told her that I hate her and want to go away from her, now I am living away from my home(abroad for studies) for almost 2 years. I really miss her and her warm hugs. So guys, please be kind to your mom and appreciate everything she does for you. She is the first and the last person to selflessly love you.

[@Anonymous-lh7hg]

Facts mann... I used to be like cold to her Now I’m just like you whenever I go back home try to stay with her as much as I can ....

[@kim.taehyung6446]

yep you never know if it’s the last day you get to see her...

[@key1853]

wth?😭y’all get away with saying you hate your mom? What is your parents doing for you to say that?☠️

[@yesyes628]

@@key1853 IKR IF I SAID THAT TO MY MOM SHED BE LIKE OKAY AND THEN KICK ME OUT LMAO

[@dotdotdotdotdotdotdottod]

me and my mother had opposite relationship. i was always her dogas i bascailly did evwrything for here but never did she once show me the same respect i gave her. my mother was my biggest bullie. but im glad this girl actually has a mother that will treat her with love rather then a theorpy pet

[@SekarElfa]

her mom ask her "do you have a problem? tell me?". my mom would neverr. she never asks me about how I feel, how's my day or my school even my problem. sometimes I feel alone through this cruel world. soobin is so lucky but she didn't realize it

[@gouri8404]

Ohh I relate to you soo much in that way 😭

[@lunae12]

Probably our moms are just too busy working and tired from raising the kids. But I always get jealous of these kind of caring moms too :/

[@firdausifarahramadhania8645]

Ande my mother always think that I don't have any problem in my life while I struggle a lot to solve it alone

[@brandonwijaya4757]

My mom busy with her job, what she can give to me just money, she has no time to listen my story.

[@uwugirl8892]

Aaaah yeah you are same with me

[@outresru7751]

she reminds me of how I was when I was of her age and her mom is exactly how my mom was. she just wanted to know what I was upto, she wanted me to be open to her, that's it. Now we have a very lovely relationship, although she is something curious on what I do I cover it up or tell her lightly with a smile 😂

[@numa_l5957]

right in this age...we all feel rebelious as we are trying to find ourselves and have fun time...bittersweet memories..but seriously a part of growing up

[@k.sb.9153]

She doesn't realize how lucky she is to have such an understanding and kind mother.

[@wh0643]

as a teen, i used to act like this to my dad and mum. i’m in my twenties now and looking back, i realise how rude, selfish and immature i was.. especially with everything they sacrificed and did for me and my siblings. so if you’re a teen right now, acting like that, please don’t. enjoy every moment with them especially while both you and your parents still have the time :)

[@kajaortmann8566]

wow like if it is easy like that, like we would want to fight with our parents, sometimes u just feel so lonely and everything is too much and of course u shouldn't let it out on ur parents but sometimes u just feel so not understood...it is always easy to say that after looking back and not being in the situation, but ofc I will still try not to let my stress out on them and try my best to appreciate my parents as much as possible :)

[@wh0643]

@@kajaortmann8566 yes that was my reason for being so rude to my parents as well, but as i grew up i realised how wrong it was and apologised to them when i was moving out. they said themselves that they understood and that they were once teenagers too, making me feel a lot better. but even if it’s hard, please try and appreciate them. have a lovely day :)

[@kajaortmann8566]

@@wh0643 I will, thank u, u too

[@Blue-lc5np]

@@kajaortmann8566 I’m a teen and there’s no excuse to being disrespectful to your parents, your mom carried you for nine months suffered one of the most painful experiences or had a surgery just for you and when you were born she probably had only two hours of sleep everyday in 3 or 2 years to make sure you were eating and to comfort you when you cried, your dad too, and plus he probably was/is working everyday to get you food, a comfortable house, great future and your excuse is that you’re lonely? Come on

[@kajaortmann8566]

@@Blue-lc5np I know that and you’re right, that’s why I always try to give them my best :)

[@kpoppanda5314]

I think subin is starting to go through puberty and she knows that the way she behaving is wrong but she's in a state where she's not wanting to communicate, but she also needs to understand her mother that she is just worried and wondering if she will get back home okay. Her mother is very understanding but she is also asking to make sure if she is truly okay because all mothers has gone through puberty the same way as their daughters it is just a little different now. I think she is just hitting puberty.

[@ashierahmontas685]

As a teenager I kinda get irritated easily but I try to be not irritated at everything and I don't do what she does atleast I know that I'm not worst with my attitude.She's lucky that her parents doesn't make her cry.I envy her that she gets a lot of attention.

[@Ri-bu8ub]

Same. Like i dont want to be ungrateful or anything but sometimes i get so irritated so i just keep it in my head...and calm down cause my parents have done everything for me...

[@kim.taehyung6446]

@@Ri-bu8ub yep same when my mom gets mad at me i don’t say anything i just listen to whatever she has to say and i just do what she tells me to do, i try to understand her perspective too

[@ashierahmontas685]

@Empress Ming you're the one who actually don't know you think I am much lucky than her no..... I've been through worse than her, I'm saying she's lucky that she can opinionate her opinions not like me commenting here but can't do in real. BTW I'm asian so I know what it feels worse in everything.

[@barrietbubman3657]

@@ashierahmontas685 by saying you’ve gone through much worst then her is invalidating her pain, I want to be clear that just because her pain isn’t your level of “ pain” doesn’t mean it isn’t pain. I also want to make it clear that saying “ I’ve gone through much worst” makes it seem like it’s a competition when it really shouldn’t be. I get it you’re hurting but at the end of the day, her pain is just as valid as yours.

[@barrietbubman3657]

@@ashierahmontas685 just because she can voice her opinion doesn’t mean it is being heard. “ omg she’s so lucky to have such good parents “ I agree her mother seems good but we can’t assume just based off of one video. Plus maybe she is going through things beyond her parents & maybe her mother is unable to understand her pain . You just never know.

[@piscesstar6348]

I used to greet my parents before and after school when I was still in primary school then I went to study abroad for years and I slowly forget that habit because I never do it any more since there's no one for me to greet there. Now I live with my parents again and I never greet them the same way as before. Usually when I came home I just went straight to my room and I will come out when they called me, they also never complain about it. After watching this video I think I should start greeting my parents again, it will be an act of respect for them 😊

[@bluemoonpearl]

We have very similar stories. Sometimes I don't even see them for a whole day and a half

[@aiihairyou1336]

I'm 26 and I still have to do it 😌

[@jas_lyn]

Im sure they will also feel like you acknowledge and appreciate their presence, at least thats why i greet people

[@ninyqin7086]

I mean every kid has experience through this stage while growing up, I feel bad for her to be exposed in millions of people ngl

[@soph8652]

i love how everyone is talking about the daughter and her mother but i’m just wondering how she got her nails done for only $10 💀

[@Kazuhasabs]

Its korea so thyre trabslating the currency

[@catherineb6889]

Prices range a lot in different countries

[@itzbloxburgbunny3919]

@@Kazuhasabs no? in korea 10 dollars is 10 000 won, so they arent "translating" it

[@samiaoishy7862]

In some places it's really cheap In my country I can get it for $3-4

[@SOI-wl2lo]

😂😂😂😂😅 tbh!

[@user-du8qj9ho2c]

y'all she's actually so nice to her mom, I watch all of their youtube video

[@jasmine_best_life2486]

What is their channel

[@joohwangieisunderrated5434]

@@jasmine_best_life2486 yannie kim

[@dotdotdotdotdotdotdottod]

the fact she gets allownce 😭 bruh i never even knew what it was untill all my white friends said they get money from their parents

[@mariamafofanah5764]

half of these comments are like "if i treated my mom this i would've gotten slapped", that is literally abuse, the girl is literally a teenager going through puberty and she's moody and sad, i just think that her mom is doing right by her and giving her space but when it comes to her crying and saying that she doesn't understand her mom and her mom wont understand her thats where the mother needs to step in and try as hard as she can to build that trust and relationship with her child

[@foolcoooym1425]

How is discipline abuse

[@judychaihlung]

I don’t think you have colored parents to understand why we say that also it’s not abuse

[@youknowbts7842]

😂😂😂 "thats literally abuse" lol

[@youknowbts7842]

@@judychaihlung Ikr.😂😂 Mine are Asian

[@safiyakhan8473]

Do yall consider a slap or hit on the side of ur head abuse😂

[@user-lj4bl3ow8l]

if saying "mom i'm home" is too embarrassing,then say "mom whats for dinner?" 🙃🙃

[@misstyameyo]

Exactly! 😂

[@notkaitlyn_]

Literally me everyday

[@honeymelon6177]

My mum would be like "I'm not making dinner, why do you expect me to make dinner?" and it would escalate very quickly from there.

[@El-ip1fj]

@@honeymelon6177 omg same

[@user-oo2zm9vw9o]

@@honeymelon6177 same

[@ayenfronda1]

She's very lucky that she has a mom like her. I wish my parents can be more understanding too. I hope they can understand me

[@bren5619]

i dont think any of them are being rude or disrespectful, her mom is soo understanding and her daughter is pretty nice towards her, i think they just need to work out their relationship and trust a little bit more

[@tama3442]

My mom would’ve turned wwe so quick cameras or not. My mom would’ve became John cena😂😂. She’s needs to be more strict cuz sis playing her fr 😂😂

[@roshnik5137]

Bragging about an abusive mom is not good

[@tama3442]

@Roshni k my mom never beat me as a kid because i ran fast 😌💅🏾

[@annieenri4373]

@@roshnik5137 being a stubborn kid isn't good either

[@PradyutGhosh1997]

@@roshnik5137 hitting to discipline your self-destructive child isn't abuse ...

[@RebeccaReinholdt]

@@annieenri4373 eh who cares

[@bhavs398]

I love how understanding and gentle her mother is... a lot of kids naturally develop a more rebellious and carefree attitude, unless they are getting it into something illegal or life-threatening to themselves or others, it is important to treat them like just any other kid, that creates a sense of guilt and change that comes from within, you cant do that with yelling or even worse, beating a child. At that point, even if the kid's rebellion or mean attitude was not originally directed at the parents, human psychology is such that theyll automatically think "thats it, i have no reason to feel bad about how i treat my parents, theyve deserved it all along"... and then the parents become part of the problem without realising it

[@coldgrandpa]

I would say rather than becoming part of the problem, abuse, verbal or physical, would most likely be the direct source of the problem.

[@aurasenja1928]

i am sometimes like her too but my mom will smack me 😂 her mom is so patience and trying to understand her so much 🥺

[@georgedeli850]

I cried seeing this I didn’t expect the daughter to be so thoughtful and loving towards her mum beautiful ending

[@maryangelgracebernaldez4402]

I was born in 01. I experience the same situations but she’s lucky bcos her mum doesn’t nag at her when’s she’s acting like this. Her mom talks to her in a calm manner and a calm voice even tho her mum is mad. I actually envy her that’s why she’s lucky to have a mum like her and she should be appreciative towards her mum. Not all mum have this calm manner and patience w dealing “teenaging”

[@HOME-fj2bo]

Calling your mom when you're home melts their heart. Imagine being the first person to remember after a tiring day. She have to learn how to adjust too, they are born from different generation. Atleast she try to understand her mom too. She have to spend more time with her mother to have that strong bond and healthy relationship because it feels good.

[@desynikita771]

I never say "mom im home" but "mom what menu today" lol

[@akshayak2955]

When I'm back from 7 hrs of school I was like: "Maaaaaaaaa I'M HunGryyyyy I want food" and go on telling what and all happened in school"Ma You know what happened in school??".. And My Mom's response: "Hmmm..." "Is it so" "then" etc etc. My poor mom had to listen to my "unimportant stuff in life" for 10 min straight.

[@sapesape6637]

@@akshayak2955 instead of poor mom ,i think it will be lucky mom for having daughter like you🙂

[@bhavs398]

Same... i was always like "mamaaa give me foooood!!!" i recently graduated and she said she was just glad i was tired from the studying and playing, it meant everything was fine 😄

[@lunae12]

@@akshayak2955 That’s what I did to avoid awkwardness haha

[@honeybee6646]

@@akshayak2955 Omg sameeee HHAHAHAH. My mom also rant at me with her problems.

[@beetledune9264]

When your parents scold you bcoz your cloth is too short n tight,is not they want to control or not trust the kids,is because they dont trust the people around the them.

[@slayrina4075]

She’s so lucky to have a mom like that she better be grateful I wish my mom was this understanding

[@vernalbug]

Watching this reminds me of me and my parents when I was a teenager. I can totally relate to Subin. I still remember this, but one time my mom looked through my backpack and saw these notes I passed with my friend and it was mostly about cute boys in our classes. And my mom flipped out. Saying I wasn't paying attention in school and that class time was for learning not talking to my friends, etc. I felt hurt because I was doing my homework and getting good grades. I knew that school was more important so for my mom to not trust me hurt a lot. For Subin to say I wish you had more faith in me is a huge deal for her.

[@rahendhawildhan7140]

exactly :( i just want to trust in me

[@numa_l5957]

Its a part of growing up actually.Teenage is the period we are trying to find ourselves and just have funtime...

[@Blink_Monstiez_KPOP]

Why are they all so harsh to her she must felt embarrassed in front of the camera and doesn’t know how to react.She is also so sweet 😢

[@mifrappey]

how r they harsh at all

[@Rikapaprika]

She seems like a genuinely sweet girl. She just had a little misunderstanding with her mom, it's normal. I expected to see an extra rebellious, bratty kid, but it's not the case here.

[@cheydesu241]

her mom is so genuine and kind.. she acts like a mom and a friend... i wish i had a relationship with my mother like this.

[@cloudywinxx2379]

I want to have this kind of relationship with my mum too. Not always yelling, smacking, fat shaming, comparing, assuming, etc.

[@kpopy8067]

Her parents are soo accepting,they won't ask me if anything wrong they'll just smack me❤😭

[@user-ky6ee2lj7i]

She'll regret the way she treat her Mom someday when she become a mother too. Sweety just a reminder to you, "small things matters the most" :)

[@lhoenatic029]

Her future children or one of her children will do the same things that she did to her Mom

[@sarahassis4308]

she is a teenager, it is normal to act that way. if she has children in the future, when they are in that phase they will do the same thing.

[@getintoityuh2412]

@@sarahassis4308 don't normalize all teenagers acting that way, some are more mature and don't do stuff like that and some are like her.

[@user-jl4dl2bb4e]

jimins.chubby.cheeks besides not greeting her mum everything else she does it normal for teenagers. Wanting to get nails done, going out with friends after finals till about later and wanting to dress well and look pretty. She’s behaving normally and she does have an attitude towards her mum but you know in Korea everyday after school they have academy to late and spend most their time studying it’s understanding she’s tired that her mum is nagging her even when her finals are finished to why she’s going out with friends to karaoke once. She doenst get much time to relax and spend time doing things she likes and she has $30 for two weeks to pay for things like something to eat after school so she won’t be hungry during academy so once in a while she pays to do her nails because it’s something she likes and as a reward is not being immature.

[@sarahassis4308]

@@getintoityuh2412 I will normalize it, because its not being bad! "more mature teenagers" are usually those who suppress their own feelings and will need a good psychologist later (I say that because I was one), or have to play the role of the parents themselves. they are usually girls, because we are always socialized to be "responsible" and "mature". she is a good girl and daughter, her mother has a KZbin channel and we can see how she helps and is good with her mother. judging a person, especially a teenager, for having a bad week after an exam, is stupid.

[@monkeke9595]

I always greet my parents with a hug when they come home.

[@starssu9031]

Shes a good kid and her mum is the sweetest. I wish them all the best.

[@lallacooper2607]

Awww this was actually so heartwarming.....she loves her mom and knows how much her mom does for her, it's just that she finds it hard to express her gratitude. I'm sure they'll work it out and cherish their amazing bond !

[@MymyDao]

Her mom is beautiful inside and out. She tries to be understanding even tho her daughter is disrespectful at times

[@carlosnunez7355]

I never acted or talked to my mom in that way when I was a teenager and now I'm 26 so I feel the need to give teens just a few tips: 1- Your parents ain't your enemies, trust them. 2- They know a lot more than you. Yes, when you're 14,15,16 you believe that the world it's yours... But nope. You're still a kid. Again, trust and obey your parents. 3- Life flies away fast, have a conversation with your parents, hug them, kiss them, hang with them. As soon as you grow you will cherish those moments. Last one. 4- Don't rush things, there's a moment for everything, enjoy the moment 🤓

[@oh.s]

That’s a damn lie. You most definitely were disrespectful and rude to your parents as a teen. This girl wasn’t even all that bad, it’s pretty normal. Plus you probably would be a bit on edge if you had cameras filming you

[@gajebangetplis12]

They are a warm and happy family guys, and she actually respects her mom

[@elms4405]

Hello, by any chance do yk the fam channel name

[@ladyblanche2695]

Everytime I tell my parents I love them I always feel light in the chest is a very short yet emotional word. I always make sure I let them know and feel how much they mean to me. Life won't be the same without them.

[@najooachoo6856]

I don't have a child yet and too young for that but when she gave her mom a present and saved her allowance for that, I got teary-eyed. I can understand the teen as I went through the same phase too when my mom is being too much and we can't understand each other at all. Big kudos to her mom for being understanding and trying to fit in her daughter's lifestyle. I wish the teen would be more appreciative of her mother now.

[@EL-kb3ux]

this mom is a very understanding mom, tbh. i am a teenager myself, and have had quarrels and fights with my mother, but even from my own perspectives, the daughter is quite disrespectful.

[@kroissann8750]

sis, wdym disrespectful? you dont know what going thru her head, shes probably tired and needs some space rn:)

[@EL-kb3ux]

@@kroissann8750 no excuse in treating another human being like that though. thats simply disrespectful.

[@EL-kb3ux]

@@kroissann8750 also, stop calling random strangers 'sis'. im not your 'sis'. you dont even know my gender. "SiS wDyM diSrESpEctFuL?"

[@kroissann8750]

@@EL-kb3ux bottling up emotions can be really hard especially for teens, and she probably lashed out due to stress. Besides, shes a great person in general and treats her mom well:)

[@kroissann8750]

@@EL-kb3ux k

[@lalalalaaAa123]

At that age, it’s hard to be honest about your feelings for your parents! Developmentally, it just feels strange and embarrassing. I’m glad she was able to make a video in private and say her honest feelings!

[@eclairdolvaci3494]

I hope kids understand why parents are strict. Kids act like they know shit but don't know how to take responsibility when they're in trouble. So much respect for this woman.

[@user-lj7mg7sp1g]

i don't think kids act like they know everything i think they feel misunderstood mostly

[@eclairdolvaci3494]

@@user-lj7mg7sp1g They feel misunderstood why they don't want to listen or respect their parents or even do a single chore ? A lot of teenagers haven't even thought of building a life rather enjoy it like they're parents have their backs.

[@briellem.7879]

I disagree with you. I have an abusive mother and her husband is abusive. Ever since I was little, they have done horrible things to me. As I grew up, not only were they still abusive but strict to the point where I had no life and isolated in my room every single day till its time for bed. It affected me badly and made my depression and suicidal thoughts worse. School was my only outlet. Her mother is nowhere near strict, she just tries to discipline her in a healthy way and I would want her mother over my own.

[@jz1217]

I wonder if their relationship got better.. my advice to you young lady is -> treasure the moments you have with your mother. You're so lucky to have such a loving and caring mother.

[@SOI-wl2lo]

Her mum is SO so lovely to her! 🥹🩷

[@nandini8814]

3:04 this is untrue. Yes, our phones are important to us but they're not everything. We just hate our parents violating our privacy and looking into our phones.

[@juliacasy8209]

for some, it's totally true! 😭it's as if their life depends on those phones, sometimes due to their poor relationships with their families

[@nandini8814]

@@juliacasy8209 yeah

[@Naomi-yc4fp]

I agree with you, phone is personal privacy to almost everyone, anyone wouldn’t be happy if their partner or parents ask to check their phone, it’s almost a bit disrespectful?

[@nandini8814]

@@Naomi-yc4fp my parents dont even ask smh

[@fuc4555]

idk but i think every parent should normalize giving personal space to teens especially when they have gotten to puberty already, they're already at the stage where they start to be mature and thought independently but i know that parents just want to be in touch and get to know them more :]

[@joysz.1]

3:04 "Taking away a teenager's phone is taking away their everything" Not my dad selling my phone after I didn't do enough math in one day💀

[@mimimimoine22]

she is so lucky how her mom tries to understand her and not be harsh around her. i have really strict parents that even if i have done everything they want me to do, it will never be enough for them. i have taken so many summer lessons, worked hard at school and became a constant honor student and always obeyed every rule of theirs. even if some rules are too much like "you can't go out with your friends, even if it's for a school project." "i need to confiscate your phone." "we need to constantly turn off the wifi." "if you go out you should always have a guardian with you." i always try my best to understand them, but it just gets so hard and im losing my patience. they constantly give me rules and punishments because for them i am "dumb and not worth anything." i am now on my last year of highschool and i have barely made memories within my teenage years and still fighting constant depression and suicidal thoughts and i cant even talk about that topic with them without being beaten up first. you dont know how much i wished i had a parent like her mom, she is so lucky to have her and each other.

[@tommy-yem406]

She is actually a nice and thoughtful girl

[@loyalafto7guyswhodontknowm640]

i really wish i have a mom like her, she's so calm, understanding and even went shopping and buying what she wants

[@spatchcockedturkey4597]

i feel like she got raised the right way, because even tho she’s acting bossy to her family but she’s really respectful to other people which means she is comfortable to be honest with her family but still knows how to behave around other ppl

[@alysatan1]

It's would be great if she greets her parents whenever she saw them like go out, or coming back from outside.. I greet my parents whenever I saw them. It's a manner...

[@huangxuxi9721]

I'm sorry but if I did this and acted this way to my mom, I wasn't going to be able to be let in the house, my mother wouldnt even wait till, I'm in the house, she will kill me where I am on spot she will beat into heaven if she had too, and she won't even move the cameras she will be so quick I won't even see it😭😂😂😂

[@ezrakaith3502]

Same

[@alittleatinyatiny1821]

Yo, I peed reading this comment

[@alittleatinyatiny1821]

Idk why this is so funny because I can realate

[@samira2397]

SOO FUNNY😭😭

[@jazm3938]

Yes! 😂😂 i will probably be seeing stars with with the force of her slaps...

[@lavendertiles]

both her and her mom are so sweet… i don’t see a problem. she’s a growing teen she’s gonna act out but she’s way to nice compared to the ppl around me

[@mariedcalfred8982]

Well she's a teenager, we all passed through that times where we were kind of immature and selfish, but I we grow up we realize how much our parents did for us and your attitude toward become more mature and understanding.

[@chilbongers]

her mom is so much more understanding than most parents these days, coming from another korean kid that’s around her age. i say hello to my parents when returning from hanging out with my friends and make sure not to come home too late (unless it cannot be helped). this generation is different from the previous ones, but the level of respect towards parents shouldn’t be any different.

[@cuttostah]

I can understand the girls pov as well though. We go through so much in our teenage years and we need a lot of space. But I understand her mums pov, she's such a sweetheart and doesn't want her kid to face the dangers of this harsh world😭❤

[@unknownmotherkoose8868]

I don't understand the comments? Her tone is fine.

[@mifrappey]

girl be for real

[@Reenaxox]

But her mom is so kind and understanding she also doesn’t scream at her !! The daughter should come see my mom

[@liagamer4265]

[I watched this a while ago but Im just now commenting] Tbh she isnt even that bad, her and her mom seem to have a sweet relationship beyond some misunderstandings and bumps in the road here and there. Wish them the best. ❤

[@sunrises5774]

She is lucky....she got good mom...😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢

[@iknowthedpiscutecuzitsjung2020]

Her mother is sooooooo much calm , if my mother was there. She would have beaten me to death.... I am stunt😂😂

[@roshnik5137]

A person who beats a child to death over small things is not a mother

[@iknowthedpiscutecuzitsjung2020]

@@roshnik5137 it's just a joke okay I was just trying to express it and ya some people couldn't even understand a joke😂😂

[@nataliaa8660]

me too for sure

[@nikogalih9260]

Well it's on camera you don't know what happened off camera 😂

[@iknowthedpiscutecuzitsjung2020]

@@nikogalih9260 maybe😂😂

[@jincyknight1373]

She seems like such a nice and sweet girl as when she said "my mom doesn't understand me and I don't understand her either" she's just not blaming her mother like a lot of kids do, she's understanding and they have such a good relationship. I would love to have that!

[@haerinspolaroid]

Shes really lucky to have a mom like that.If i acted like her around my mom i probably wouldnt be here right now.

[@nicolesoriaedullantes9227]

You should be greatful that you have such a loving mother it's a blessing from god😊

[@oh.s]

Nope! It’s not a blessing from “God”. Some people just have decent parents, and some people have abusive or generally shitty parents. Do you think the millions of children in orphanages around the world, and people who grew up in orphanages but were never adopted don’t deserve a “blessing”?

[@caveman1736]

6:58 I'm shocked that she didn't take pictures first before eating it HAHAHAHAHA

[@mijjjjj1815]

Same same, I was kinda expecting it from her.

[@vanessanhs]

yhh i was expecting but it didn't happen lol

[@thatasiangirl0_039]

Oh her comes the stereotypes.

[@vanessanhs]

?

[@HarunaMaurer]

she may have done it but they didn't show it

[@user-jp8no7ng7k]

??? shes acting like a normal person? i dont see the problem here

[@xyzabc-nu3vd]

Exactly-

[@gellichan09]

I'm older now so I understand where both of their frustrations are coming from and their attitude and reactions are normal esp for a teenager. I just hope the daughter won't go out too late with those clothes or at least tell her family where she's going. because she's still young and impressionable which means she's very easy to prey on by predators... No matter how mature you think you are at that age, once you've grown older, you will look back and think you weren't so mature after all.

[@ixelstanford8977]

I think she's a good mother. She's making a way to understand her daugther and a simple "I'm home" is enough for her. Her daugther is not a showy type.

[@jackietrujillo7987]

when they're standing next to each other they look like sisters

[@twentytwentyeight]

I hope my baby grows into a loving respectful teen like Subin, her mom is truly doing her right and loving her the way she needs most. She understands her daughter more than she thinks 😭😭

[@nuttynurdle9314]

Jesus her parents are so nice, I would love if my parents treated me like that but I think I might end up a bit full of myself.

[@artsyhyd]

When she’s older she’s gonna realize how lucky she is to have a mother like hers, not all children are fortunate like her.

[@maiwind1819]

What we are seeing a healthy relationship between mom and daughter. This warmed my heart indeed

[@AmAn-zc3ki]

Mom-daughter relationship sometime is hard. They know they love each other but they are too embarrased to talk about it. When they have problems they tend to keep it by themselves bcs they don't want to worry the other. Talking about it once a while is nice to keep the bond stronger. I love how Subin thinks about her mom bcs she's mature enough to go through her puberty when most of daughters would resent their mom and live their youth. Mom here also has a big heart to understand her daughter. I hope they have a happy and healthy life

[@spammail7382]

This is exactly what I tell my parents all the time. I just need them to leave me alone most of the time and let me be, let me make mistakes on my own, and just trust me that I will approach you when I need to.

[@eunbyeolsshi9029]

When the mother kept asking what's her problem, i got mad at her too. Mother clearly doesn't take suggestions

[@Blueberry-kv6vh]

She is lucky to have such understanding mother

[@georgedeli850]

I watched it again tears in my eyes love this mother and daughter

[@sherrychen3061]

Her mom is too nice lol my mom would never allow me to go out dresses like that😂