She hung up on me. She thought I was trying to be funny with her situation but I really wasn’t

[@ChillWill12]

Came on like “I’m a wheel one”…. But “don’t tell me to roll backwards”🤣😂🤣😂🤣😵‍💫🤦🏾‍♂️

[@hannahhenry2923]

Why is that offensive though 🤔 🤷🏽‍♀️.

[@ChillWill12]

@@hannahhenry2923 damn man, you about to make me watch the damn vid again for shyts & giggles.

[@ChillWill12]

@@hannahhenry2923 the part was easy to find too.. it came up as ‘most replayed’🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 But yeah.. extra sensitive.

[@LIONSUNRISING]

💀

[@1BeautifullyBlessed]

🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@truthteller6907]

She still very insecure about her situation and therefore very defensive. She needs more time.

[@invisiblerevolution]

Stop da cap 🧢..... she was probably the same way before.

[@truthteller6907]

@@invisiblerevolution what’s cap?

[@invisiblerevolution]

@@truthteller6907 She been had a nasty attitude... doubt if it was just caused by the shooting.

[@BigShrimpin416]

She needs therapy! If a person isn’t working on their issues, they’re wasting time.

[@Jame6999]

Nah, she's just ghetto and good rat

[@tryharder2638]

Just because you’re disabled doesn’t give you the right to be rude she came off very passive aggressive good luck to whoever the guy is because the woman is batshit crazy smh

[@agoodnight1050]

They're all rude and crazy, but yeah this is bad.

[@TBoogie76]

Wasn't anything passive at all, straight aggressive

[@Lifewithlatoya6]

@@agoodnight1050 when you say they’re all rude you mean disabled people?

[@skylaralex7364]

She’s just hood, her environment shaped & toned her. Kendra got aggression too like the mean girl energy or the frenemy energy, like the friend that claps for u with a smirk on her face.

[@luwilliams1059]

@@skylaralex7364 Kendra was very pleasant during this episode, nice try though! She gets no pass to be mean and RUDE.

[@samlewis6615]

Trauma can make you bitter and angry, as someone who experienced severe trauma I'm always aware of that and I try really hard not to be easily offended or have a bad attitude.....if I'm just having a bad day I try my best to keep to myself.

[@Shards216]

I can definitely relate.

[@skinnyminny2629]

It's ok for people to feel their feelings even being angry for a long time, but you'll have to face those feelings eventually if you dont want to become bitter forever.

[@jesterarts734]

True...but ain't nobody got time for that. We all have our demons. They are just that. OURS. Ain't got time for walking on egg shells.

[@Taronda21]

I can imagine being a single mother of 3 having been the victim of a violent crime, and now living with a disability,in the dating world nowadays could give anyone a tough exterior. I pray that she is blessed with a partner that she can lean on and let her guard down.

[@ChrisJobson313]

A social media dating show is the wrong place to go if you’re super sensitive about your situation.

[@bflower1562]

True!.

[@reallow91]

Yeah that's crazy she got super offended when Kendra told her to roll back to do the Kendra cam SMH

[@Tonshmar]

I LITERALLY just said something similar. Some dude talking about “She’s aggressive she has masculine energy” and I said, “She’s angry! She was shot 9 times and ended up in a wheelchair! Her anger is MISDIRECTED.” And it IS. She shouldn’t be on this show. I agree with you 💯!

[@meloran2571]

@@Tonshmar i highly doubt she was much different prior to her situation. Not only she shouldn't be on a dating show, she shouldn't be dating.

[@Tonshmar]

@@meloran2571 Yeah, I agree with that too, but I stand on what I said.

[@promiseland772]

That’s very traumatic. Something is telling me that her boyfriend’s lifestyle is what put her in this situation. Her being shot 9 times in a home invasion seems personal. They was after something. Hoping she getting the healing she needs.

[@francescaaubrey2814]

Absolutely

[@rogers5622]

Yes she definitely hesitated when asked if it was because of him .

[@MalevolentElephant]

No. Her choice to make that specific man her boyfriend is what probably put her in the situation

[@atiashaunbaker3792]

Yeah . they was gunning for him and she was found instead . that was a attempted hit job

[@promiseland772]

Her boyfriend was in the drug game, and she chose to be involved with him in spite of that. There you go Elephant! 😒

[@jordan6073]

Kendra was being VERY patient this episode!

[@luwilliams1059]

The patient of the PRIEST AT THE CONFESSIONAL BOOTH ON A SUNDAY MORNING CHILE!!

[@jaelee6390]

"I got hit like he got hit but he ain't fukin breathing" - 50 cents voice 💯

[@MONICA-il7ow]

K you be bringing on some BULLSHT!! SOMETIMES

[@banginzaza]

That lady has psychological issues.

[@TwanVRr39O]

Roll back backwards for the Kendra cam is wild😂😂😂😂

[@cosmicenergy6285]

😂😂😂😂

[@ItsReallyLynx]

When people mention the stereotype about black women being angry and aggressive, this is exhibit A, B and C.

[@NubianP6]

I think she is still very, very sensitive on the subject on her disability, and she definitely doesn’t want anyone to think that she’s not capable of caring for herself, or being independent. She could probably benefit from talking to a professional about her feelings. Maybe she already has. One would think that’s if she was going to be offended by anything, it would be the question about genital sensitivity, but who am I to tell her what she can and can’t be offended by. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I wish her the best.

[@A-Thomas]

She’s full of s**t

[@TheSolitary1]

Very true

[@gm6034]

I agree. When my friend lost her leg for the first 4 years she was very sensitive. I understood her so I dealt with it but I did tell her she needs to talk to me about it or see a counselor.

[@truebengalsfan]

Black women are raised encouraged and promoted to be strong and independent so care giver would be offensive

[@TrollinOn22s]

She said she doesn't need a care giver but imagine taking care of kids while being disabled. I'm sure there are days when she would love to have help.

[@msbuttercup2073]

Don't explain Kendra. She's got a short fuse and a nasty attitude. Look at the way she snapped at her child. Her energy was just toxic. May God bless her.

[@MrsRease2011]

My thoughts exactly!

[@sheribrown5850]

Thank you!!!! I did not like the way she spoke to her daughter or Kendra it was unnecessary.

[@kaysmith8787]

And may God bless you with some empathy. Multiple ninjas broke into this woman's home robbed her, attempted to murder her, shot her not once, not twice, not 3 or 4 times but 9TIMES and she survived but will possibly never walk again! Then on top of that the man that she was with a considerable amount of time and had 3 children with left her because he didn't want to help her get well. He left her to raise their 3 children alone in a wheelchair!!! She is dealing with massive trauma and lost. She is obviously trying to get back some sense of normalcy and looking for someone to fill the void that he left and help her get through the pain of what happened to her.

[@msbuttercup2073]

@kaysmith8787 God blesses me every day, and he's blessed her too to still be alive to take care of her children. That ninja that left her, did her favor. He's sus anyway. Kendra would've helped her, but she wasn't very nice to her. The way these beta males are nowadays, I hope she does find someone to take care of her. But her reaction on the show wasn't very palatable. I wish her well, and you too.

[@kaysmith8787]

@@msbuttercup2073 Again she's has trauma on top of trauma. She needs time. I'm definitely not going to judge her. Also to tell someone in a wheelchair to "roll back" IS INSENSITIVE. Kendra also gets offended and goes off way too easy when she has much less of a reason to.

[@ariassleepstation]

Caregivers do way more than “wipe butt” they walk with the patient and help them do the exercises that the therapist recommends between therapy visits. The therapist also trains the caregivers on how to apply splints, braces and other devices so they can be applied between visits and when therapy stops working with the patient. Don’t relegate caregivers to “wiping butt” paid and unpaid, they do so much more than that. Salute to the caregivers 💖💖💖

[@lomaxlomax6152]

Yeah, she seemed very judgmental about what caregivers do. Her tone was kind of disrespectful while speaking about that

[@dp7047]

Yes, Caregivers do more than just wipe butt. They help with mobility as well. Sis has still not gotten over her situation, thats all

[@ambersherillbeauty8278]

Exactly

[@caroleeflowers8932]

That's an ignorant statement she made about caregivers.

[@agoodnight1050]

She needs to work on herself. No man deserves that.

[@chefscj3082]

I aint gon lie, I laughed when she said “roll backward” 😂😂😂😂

[@isorozco511]

Fr

[@AndyinMTL]

aint nothing funny about this shit bruh

[@isorozco511]

@@AndyinMTL when you realize this girl was a bitch you stop feeling sorry for her

[@Lando-pw3jc]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MrEOM41]

@@AndyinMTL😅😅 why all she asked was her to see a better view

[@kcorise81]

Some people don't need a spouse. They need a therapist. I hope she gets the help she needs. Bless her heart!

[@Winnie9801]

She said he needed to be a physical therapist 😂

[@Olivia84818]

Nah fr, I felt the disrespect and Kendra holding back the “attitude” she gives certain people. Kendra really REALLY tried not to give it to her!!

[@stelbee7821]

Yup! Kendra was really holding back!

[@josl1345]

Kendra tried so hard lol

[@buffalo.blackk]

Lots of women never give the man that has to deal w/ them any consideration. A man has to take on a job as a nurse and “caregiver”, and part-time father to her son or kids, she’s got an attitude problem / hyper-masculine, she’s sensitive about her situation, and she’s clearly looking for someone to come out of pocket to pay for her experimental $28K stem cell treatment. And a man does that and she’s fully recovered guarantee she’s the type of woman to leave that man that all that money on her. It’s all downside and liabilities. I can’t see 1 single positive or benefit to dealing w/ her. But I see like 10 negatives.

[@invadingminds]

Kendra really really tried not to go off..proud of her lol

[@darkmercury_19]

No saying roll back was very rude to someone ina wheelchair

[@HumptyMcFly]

She wasn’t looking for love. She was looking for help.

[@jamaciag09]

I kinda thought so too.

[@mzhope4492]

That 28k

[@ChillWill12]

@@mzhope4492 yeah, I thought that too.. that 28K

[@mrsmatthews5943]

Hi. ever seen that 6 minute + video Will Smith did "About Love" or some variation of that title? In it he explained how *real Luv* is *Help.*

[@MrsRease2011]

@@mzhope4492 Agreed!

[@Ruthforme]

Kendra you were extremely patient and empathetic. Take no fault, that was not on you. We will pray for her.

[@professionalpookie]

We??

[@jaelee6390]

@@professionalpookie "I got hit like he got hit but he ain't fukin breathing" 💯♿

[@GIRLY4293]

A caregiver doesn’t just wipe ass; secondly they do a lot more and physical therapists helps with exercise. They both are essential in healthcare period.

[@Kirby4life620]

“imma wheel one” “roll backwards” “you could be rolling tomorrow” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@GoatMichaelJackson]

You can roll tomorrow hit different 😂

[@Kirby4life620]

@@GoatMichaelJackson it really did 🤣🤣

[@pbee.njayay444]

@@GoatMichaelJacksonit’s funny cause it’s true !

[@GoatMichaelJackson]

@@pbee.njayay444 Kendra got to much pride and ego

[@GoatMichaelJackson]

@@Kirby4life620 dam nare put a spell on her

[@dmoney1745]

She was aggressive and came with a lot of masculine energy

[@Tonshmar]

🙄 Yet when Latina’s and others do it “It’s SPICY!”!! She is angry. She was shot 9 times and ended up in a wheelchair. It’s obvious, but her anger is misdirected.

[@ladiriche]

#NJenergy...most of us don't mean it🤷🏾‍♀️

[@olufemi42]

@@Tonshmar it’s SPICY 😂😂😂😂😂 That took me out

[@rebekahpowers1595]

@@Tonshmar yep smh

[@Tonshmar]

@@olufemi42 😆

[@ethanm3323]

She’s using the term physical therapist because she doesn’t want to turn men off with caregiver. But the man will effectively have to be a provider, a stepfather and a CAREGIVER. 🙄

[@Jalentheuntold]

You don’t know that. If she said she can take care of herself then she can do that. She might just need help getting out of bed or getting out the car. But she can wipe her own butt, take a shower, she’s clearly already caring for her kids. People just assume that people in a wheelchair can’t take care of themselves when really most can

[@bella-sg5ud]

@Jalen A exactly cuz I got shot with a ak47 and im paralyzed waist down I do ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING ON MY OWN. I own my own home and isn't handicap accessible I own multiple bussinessess, a manager at headquarters for the largest airline, drive and do everything and more anyone else does just sitting

[@nicolesawyer7117]

She’s basically asking for Jesus. And he can’t be fat.

[@belizegal29]

Exactly. Unless she’s dating a Physical Therapist, that’s exactly what he’ll be.

[@beautifulinsanityxxx]

​@@bella-sg5ud God bless you beautiful 💎🤞🏼

[@jaylen5280]

Watching this segment was so uncomfortable. Kendra is walking on eggshells and they still find something to get offended about. This is supposed to be an entertaining show and this caller was anything but entertaining.

[@stelbee7821]

She was more ANGRY than anything!

[@bflower1562]

Yep..They don't want a therapist to tell them the truth..They want a fool..

[@ToBHonest...]

This show is VERY entertaining...even the ones like this. Bless that young ladies heart

[@jaylen5280]

@@bflower1562 The only fool in the room his the man who signs up to be with this weirdo.

[@Kiannamonroeee]

She was on KARAMO!!! Her teen daughter was EXTREMELY rude and somewhat out of control , turns out the daughter was just acting like her mom 😭

[@katarascal3183]

I just seen that 2 wks ago...

[@katarascal3183]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/houpgq19f899gZIsi=bokZ_NlZQqcXWZlP karamo show

[@Rashad_704]

She on there

[@karenleftwich2357]

I remember that episode age your right about were her attitude came from

[@karenleftwich2357]

I saw that show and yes daughter got momma attitude all the way

[@Kimberly.T]

“I’m not looking for a dad for my kids but he could help with my son because they need a man in their life.” Why is it so hard to admit what you are actually looking for a father figure (stepdad) for your kids. Her attitude is 😬🥴

[@badddd]

We are in the "I don't need a man for NOTHING!!!" era 😂

[@Frugal637]

@@badddd Clearly she is looking for one because she’s on the show.

[@catturner1224]

I’m sorry that happened to her but sis got a funky attitude 🤔

[@etuitivemillionaire]

She’s here to promote her documentary.

[@justsan1477]

Better yet, FCKED up attitude! I smell counseling..Bipolar

[@TaraGeorge711]

From the door

[@dillyfrank5562]

Big ahhh facts

[@shatania5601]

🤣🤣Listen Play it again!🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jesterarts734]

If interviewing her was bad, imagine dating her AND helping her for life. At least be pleasant if that’s what he’s signing up for, sheesh.

[@cocolokoflacco]

she might as well try to stay with her baby daddy

[@REALTALKWWHITEFRANK]

😳😬💥💯🔥

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

I agree she seems aggressive, and mean

[@Go-Getter]

The insecurities and masculine energy are on 1000.

[@grumpyazzkatt9969]

Maybe you can tame her.

[@DISH2IMPRESS]

You’re a sick individual. You would probably be the same if you got shot 9 times

[@dandan4132]

She is jersey girl always masculine and angry…

[@sjames1209]

@@dandan4132Not always but yes I will say that growing up in the NJ/NYC area toughens you up and it’s across the board not just black women.

[@dandan4132]

@S James …. Majority of chick in NYC: NJ come off with hard masculine exterior not all but majority.. black Spanish and Italian women.. we can still come across feminine women in some area.. Environment play part too..

[@kaylokickszit17]

She's still healing & hasn't broken through the pain of her experience. Positive vibes for her❤️

[@SA-vq5fz]

A caregiver and a physical therapist is not the same. I have been a caregiver and yes it’s more than ‘wiping butt’ but it is also different from being a physical therapist. We need to acknowledge the difference and be respectful.

[@SnickersBarJamal]

She was DEFINITELY oversensitive

[@KarmaTube5]

Be careful, she might get offended by the word sensitive and definitely >.>

[@elleurfavoritestvegan1550]

I think it's because it's still so new for her. I was a caregiver and alot of my clients were still taking everything day by day. One day they were good and the next day they weren't. I personally liked her

[@loveyu2778]

Its called PTSD..

[@loveyu2778]

I wish Kenda would learn how to really listen...

[@EsiriE]

She has a right to be tbh but I don’t think the rolling comment was offensive but hey, none of us talking are paralysed so I don’t think we should tell her how to feel about that. May God bless her ❤

[@vanessaspeaks]

What’s wrong with “roll backwards”? It would have been offensive if she told her to walk backwards knowing she’s in a wheelchair.

[@Noir_Nouveau]

"Move backwards" would be the best phrase, but honestly that could have been said and she still would have been angry, She has anger management issues.

[@sarchi-xo3029]

Honestly, I'm an able-bodied woman but when Kendra said "roll backwards" I instantly felt a little uncomfortable. Probably because it can be received badly (which it was in this case) but also because the lady appeared extremely sensitive and angry throughout. When you are dealing with disabled people you do have to be very careful about the language you use to not come across as assuming they are completely incapacitated. Not Kendra's fault but I see how it went left

[@CallmeprettyNC]

I agree

[@lovelyrose2989]

She could have just handed her daughter the phone and not "roll backwards" at all.

[@CC-pc6fz]

It's not funny and be careful because life happens to anyone and nobody is exempt

[@tjajjonez]

I been using wheelchairs since I was 10, how tf she get offended cause you said roll? She just gotta own that ish and actually KNOW when people are trying to offend her. In my opinion, shes still not fully adjusted to the change in her lifestyle cause I heard way worse than that when I was in school.

[@alphonsodurden6294]

Andrew Jones sorry you had to go through that in school how old are you now

[@tjajjonez]

@@alphonsodurden6294 28

[@alphonsodurden6294]

@Andrew Jones I bet you a a stronger person now stay bless 🙌 I will like to be your friend I'm black bisexual male I'm a great person to get to know

[@alphonsodurden6294]

@Andrew Jones OK I guess you don't want to get to know me I understand lol

[@laynonna]

​@@alphonsodurden6294 Eww

[@Star-e3n]

Wow her demeanor says everything, child practice humbleness, energy almost darkened my phone

[@niquiidlewood9326]

Not 'put the phone down & ROLL backwards'! 😭 I don't know how I feel about that either 😩🤦🏿‍♀️ lol

[@intensepassion3382]

What people fail to realize is that this isn't a personal facetime with Kendra. It is a worldwide, forever on the internet interview. All the legs open and feeling down there in presence of her child was cringe enough, but Lord. When someone have been shot, I don't think they fully recover emotionally or mentally for a very long time if ever. She does have a beautiful voice.

[@MyNameIsCorey]

Yea she still seems to have raw feelings about what happened to her and if she got that triggered with Kendra I can only imagine the eggshells a dude would have to walk on. I hope she ends up getting the physical care she deserves with stem research...

[@kingtchala6832]

The moment Kendra says "First of all .." that let's you know that the conversation went left lol

[@MrSmith-zd4ej]

I wouldn't even deal or want to even be friends with 98% of the women on Kendra's show 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@jesterarts734]

Facts...but remember...this is ONLY the highlights of the real show...similar to comparing Kevin Samuels clips vs the actually two hour show.

[@jordanalston3506]

She’s definitely bipolar. She goes from giggling to snapping. Smh. Something wrong with shawty. Talk to her at your own risk!

[@truphat2day]

To all my sisters stop having children before your mentally and financially capable. These men are leaving y’all traumatized and trauma bond. Focus on yourself first everything else will fall in place. ❤❤❤❤

[@honeyvoss1477]

Sis still ain’t humbled herself. Kendra, didn’t say anything offensive.

[@promiseland772]

She was just trying to clarify certain terms.

[@dynieshag3498]

She’s a Taurus lol Kendra was very nice compared to your typical taurus (me ) I would’ve said well walk yo ass back then .

[@sunsetontheocean5290]

@@dynieshag3498 Lmbooooo. Girl I'm laughing cus that is something I would have said. I'm a Gemini. That twin will come out real quick if you come at me wrong.

[@DemureDarlings]

She’s defensive due to her trauma, almost losing your life is not a joke! I understand her completely 😢

[@agentpurple2843]

@@sunsetontheocean5290 Don’t bring us Geminis into this.

[@joshuaalexander8327]

She is so defensive.

[@truphat2day]

Life can be hard we have all learned to create defenses❤

[@mrsmatthews5943]

#50Cent has shared over & over again, how after he was sh0T 9xs THAT made him Defensive too. cites "We're All just a Sum Total of our Life Experiences." ~DL Hughley

[@jayc5756]

Just like Kendra be. I was surprised Kendra didn't pop off earlier. Lol

[@SweetEssie]

I wonder if she was in pain and that's why she had the attitude. She snapped at her daughter too and chronic pain can make you angry.

[@mrsmatthews5943]

@@SweetEssie Hi. Your comment is one of the most compassionate 1s I've read herein. Mer Aa.

[@MsE711]

I applaud her for having the courage to come onto the show. Most wouldn’t due to fear of criticism. Most of us haven’t experienced what she has been through and with that, certain words, expressions, etc may trigger her. I don’t think that any of us are in any position to say whether or not someone is too sensitive. I give her the upmost props and pray for her overall healing. ❤🙏🏿

[@POOHYK]

I totally agree with you

[@kwamealievergreen4257]

Calls herself a "wheel one" but "roll backwards" is where she draws the line????

[@That1LogisticDude]

Shoutout to this sister having to re-organize her entire life and persevere through her hardship of now being Paralyzed. Her attitude sucks but that’s the Jersey in her but God bless her 🙏🏾

[@monicasunshine26]

Jersey has a ton of hoodrats

[@anmorgan3129]

🤔🤨😏 @ these Jersey comments.

[@BourgeoisBran3114]

@@anmorgan3129 right lol we all aren’t like this 😢

[@AshleeGenae]

I don’t see how people don’t see how close they are to the camera

[@lakenyakelly3449]

Me either lol

[@MyLove-iy7pi]

Kendra you were extra nice to her, she was impossible 😊

[@darrienmolo66]

I'm in a chair too. That's not offensive. The word "roll" and "push" are everyday words we use in place of the word "walk". If she isn't comfortable with her situation then any reminder that she is not ambulatory can trigger her. Some people you say "good morning" to and their response is "what's so good about it?" You use a general term we use and you arent responsible for her reaction.

[@JSustain]

This story was so real, Kendra. There are definitely different levels of challenges that people face.

[@BigShrimpin416]

She does have a nice voice on her. I’m a fellow NJ native! ❤ damn! She was shot 9 times?! She’s lucky she made it through. My heart goes out to her.

[@dillyfrank5562]

Nice voice?? You mean masculine voice? She sound like a drill rapper

[@BigShrimpin416]

@@dillyfrank5562 when she sang?

[@R0yALtyS]

​@@BigShrimpin416 in the beginning

[@Onserio.]

@@dillyfrank5562 Nahh she does have a beautiful singing voice, her talent was not stolen but the lyrics tell the story.

[@Ajack1710]

Yes she needs a care giver, and a step daddy for her kids. And a family man all of the things she never had before.

[@ToriUptown]

she’s got serious masculine energy but i’m sure it’s a product of her environment. some women have to be tough in order to survive. she needs therapy bc i’m sure her anger is directed at her children often

[@ToriUptown]

@Tired of the Ignorance and Delusions ok but i’m talking about people from America

[@TyroneLangam]

@Tired of the Ignorance and Delusions I never understood that excuse. Women be going through famines and genocides in Africa and still be feminine. Perhaps it’s not men’s fault like they try to claim 😂

[@Reneesaidit]

Agreed. The way she said, "stop doin that" and rolled her eyes extra hard. If that was towards one of the kids I can see it.

[@idontplaygames3k296]

​@@TyroneLangam It's always the MAN'S fault🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️

[@invisiblerevolution]

​@Tired of the Ignorance and Delusions Vietnamese women.... fought *the WHOLE US military,* yet some how, still kept their feminine energy.

[@rlmajor2k9]

You good Kendra, there's no right or wrong when someone is in there feelings.

[@scorpiocara6798]

I like this statement right here 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rlmajor2k9]

@@scorpiocara6798 Facts... Truly, What can you say? My heart goes out to her and All those including myself who are dealing with life. Stay strong and let us All see it through... Salute. BXNY...

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@rlmajor2k9 that's right. What is bxny?

[@rlmajor2k9]

@@scorpiocara6798 Bronx, New York...

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@rlmajor2k9 oh ok, that's what I thought at first. Good day mate

[@ruthiebinns4632]

She came on the show looking for Love and left looking for Love and gonna remain looking for Love until she change that funky attitude Frfr !!!!

[@devonya007]

Shes got a lot of pain, shame, self image, and disappointment to work through. She doesn’t need a date she needs a therapist, and someone to explain to her that she does need a care taker-and that doesn’t mean they are wiping her butt.

[@leftiness1835]

She’s sensitive it seems. You did not do anything wrong Kendra! 🙏🏽❤️

[@etuitivemillionaire]

The worst type of crying wasn't the kind everyone could see--the wailing on street corners, the tearing at clothes. No, the worst kind happened when your soul wept and no matter what you did, there was no way to comfort it. A section withered and became a scar on the part of your soul that survived. For people like me and Echo, our souls contained more scar tissue than life. Katie McGarry, Pushing the Limits (Pushing the Limits, #1)

[@texasweetki]

You need credentials to be a physical therapist so the terminology still isn’t correct

[@Jasminemarie966]

Thank u! A physical therapist requires a license to practice & doctoral degree

[@Ash2beauty]

It is correct, she didn’t say that they did not need credentials she just stated that’s what she was hoping to date because they specialize in strengthening the lower extremities.

[@texasweetki]

@@Ash2beautyMa’am. It’s not correct and I’m not going to go back and forth about it. You can’t just make your own definition to things by what she didn’t say or omission. You cannot argue semantics over a literal career title that requires credentials. She can call her future boyfriend/caretaker whatever she likes but physical therapist (a type of DOCTOR) is not one of them unless they hold that licensure as well. Have a good morning and save the defensive paragraphs for someone else because I will not be replying.

[@Jasminemarie966]

@@Ash2beauty I’m a physical therapist & no she can not call her bf a physical therapist without being licensed..it is actually against the law. That’s like calling her bf a medical doctor because he gave her some medicine 😂

[@brooklynforever1990]

Exactly what I was thinking

[@Kiki-jx6by]

Kendra apologized for everything, was sincere in her apology. That is what’s most important.

[@janelh1736]

You handled this situation in the most empathetic and professional manner. Go Kendra!

[@KH-vv6kr]

She hasn’t healed from her trauma, so anyone can get that attitude. You’re in a wheel chair , why can’t I tell you to roll back ? She was just telling ole girl teacher with the fro and bust out to stop rolling in the computer chair . I think Kendra gets specific in these cases bc imagine if she told home girl walk back a little so we can see your full body. But that doesn’t apply to her , so Kendra is avoiding making it awkward in that way .

[@scorpiocara6798]

That's a caregiver, someone that helps you do things that you can't physically do on your own..... WHATEVER IT IS, THEY HELP YOU WALK TOO AND WITH YOUR PHYSICAL THERAPY EXERCISES THAT YOUR PHYSICAL THERAPIST PRESCRIBES FOR YOU TO DO

[@gabrielle916]

Chloe was the one who don't know the difference! Then get mad when ppl use the terms correctly.

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@gabrielle916 ik, I think this is all sensitive and new to her and she doesn't want to be labeled stereotyped or made to feel weak. Alot of people, especially in the black community, are caregivers and don't even realize it. We realized that when I was working at a job recently with the Senior Population. We just think it's something normal we r doing or we're doing what we got to do but really we are caregivers. It's important to know because it is stressful and there are resources out there for caregivers and the people that we care for

[@dp7047]

Caregivers do more than just wipe butt. They help with mobility as well. Sis has still not gotten over her situation and she's bitter right now, thats all

[@Ash2beauty]

I’m a therapist and former CNA, no disrespect but we are not the same, therapists strictly go to school to specialize in strengthening upper and lower extremities, a caregiver is not anywhere near as skilled and will come get the therapists to help w/ things outside their scope of care. Also caregivers do not do much mobility training at all, especially since restorative aides aren’t really a thing anymore at most facilities.

[@danieltucker632]

Most patient I’ve ever seen Kendra . I’ll say less on this one , wish her the best 🙏🏾

[@CaiJoreds]

ROLL AWAY GIRL🙄🙄. You good Kendra 💜😂

[@Leecegyrl]

Roll backwards😂😂😂😂she got in her feelings real quick! Girl BYE

[@icandi804]

Sis was suppose to laugh that off!!! Come on baby you gotta laugh at your pain cause her saying roll back was hella accurate

[@kaysmith8787]

Let's see you laughing if someone breaks into your home robs you attempts to m*rder you sh**ts you not 1 not 2, not 3, did you say 5 NOPE not even 5 BUT 9 TIMES. You survive and the the father of your 3 children that you've spent a considerable amount of time with and given a lot of your life too, you had 3 children with him but he leaves because he can't handle helping you get well! He not only leaves you at the time you need him the most but he leaves you paralyzed to raise his and your 3 children alone!!!!! She is dealing with trauma on top of trauma! Let's see your arse laughing cl*wn!

[@cassandrarobins786]

I feel bad for her children. 😢

[@dallasactor3601]

She taking all her anger out on them I promise

[@monicabro0404]

Yup

[@candidlycrystal]

She was recently on the Karamo show with her daughter --- all I can say is Oh My Goodness!

[@kayk2899]

⁠@@candidlycrystalI saw the episode and I believe everything her daughter said.

[@BigShrimpin416]

There was no reason for her to be giving Kendra all that attitude. Her attitude switched back and forth in a split second and she got so nasty with her child. I feel for her with what she’s been through but you can’t be nasty with people and expect people to walk on egg shells and always know what the proper terms are to say.

[@mariel.weaver8351]

She needs more time to heal mentally. She's triggered by everything because she's still traumatized. She's not ready to date anyone.....

[@dalatchkeys762]

Lord, she's thugged out!

[@Tosh.Oh77]

Fr I didn't know caregiver and "roll" was offensive either 🤷🏾‍♀️ I still thought Kendra was friendly

[@madant22]

This is when the democrats have their liberal mindset take over smh

[@ZeeTene]

The lady let Kendra know she didn’t like the term roll. Then Kendra got an attitude.

[@A-Thomas]

She was nice but some women have to ride the sisterhood bus.

[@hannahhenry2923]

​@ZeeTene what's wrong with the word roll??

[@DaishaView]

The way she snapped at her daughter 😅

[@MISAO_SAO]

And had no shame or decorum about doing it on live.

[@ZanylahJ]

Very classless and bitter & ghetto . I understand her situation but she’s alive and that’s more than enough to be happy and grateful

[@Mabscott_Key]

I think she was feeling insecure about not knowing how to pronounce “family oriented”

[@Anatheempress]

I’m sorry but that “roll back backwards” comment was too funny 🤣🤣

[@dynieshag3498]

Only because she been getting smart that’s it . But Kendra definitely didn’t mean NO HARM !! I’m a Taurus too and stuff like that slip out with no malicious intentions. That’s just us . Move back would’ve been better but that’s her show . Kendra us Kendra and she was slick still walking on eggshells for her .

[@justlurkin]

@@dynieshag3498 You being born a certain time of the year has nothing to do with how you choose to communicate with people. Take some accountability for your actions.

[@Anatheempress]

@@dynieshag3498 that’s especially why it’s so funny to me because I’m Taurus too and were so deadpan🤣

[@bella-sg5ud]

Your stupid "that's funny" is the EXACT reason why it's so sensitive to ppl in chairs

[@Anatheempress]

@@bella-sg5ud ok…

[@nevahoward2114]

I love love love her spirit. She defintely has a positive vibe. I wish you all the luck, grace and blessings that she can handle.

[@redrose1972tg]

Good luck taking this attitude on fellas

[@Poeticdiva79]

She can really sing! 😍😍😍 I hate that she’s been through that. I think it’s just the attitude because it’s a lot

[@A-Thomas]

Her singing sucked. My cats ran out of the room screaming.

[@Mbaye77]

Anything to excuse bad behaviour.

[@arkitekbeatzify]

Really sing? In comparison to who? Lpl

[@jermaineburgess3767]

🧢

[@MsE711]

@@Mbaye77Have you been shot at 9 times and paralyzed from it?

[@reet3626]

Girl came with gunz blazing from the beginning 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@MrEOM41]

She was being too difficult

[@JonathanESmithOfficial]

It’s interesting because there are men out here that don’t mind providing what she’s asking for, but the way she’s talking makes it seem like she’s not really comfortable in her situation. I know multiple people with disabilities who own it and are proud and it is very attractive! Also, she has a nice voice too!

[@kaysmith8787]

Well when someone is disabled because of tragedy they don't just get use to it. It is an extreme life adjustment and the situation that put her there is extremely, extremely traumatic! I can't believe the mean spirits and lack of empathy in this comment section. Whoever that man she was with he obviously was an integral part of her life, they had 3 children together, it sounds like he left her after she was shot and disabled because he couldn't handle it, that is trauma on top of trauma. She is not comfortable in the position she's in and seems determined to walk again which is normal. It's also normal to really not accept a condition that someone you may have loved, left because they didn't accept it.

[@arenee317]

Kendra, you stated your position very clearly and as eloquently as possible given the circumstances and platform. Peace and Love!💛💛💛

[@konye618]

Why was she so aggressive? Like literally started off like that

[@viewersdiscretionaryaffair5130]

That’s just black women for ya

[@sherlysimone3644]

Home invasion?! To get what?! Her man's dope stash?! Give me a break🙄 That's right, she gonna tell us in her "made for TV" movie...

[@rosario_len]

I found the article. It was a home invasion. Very sad…. Very very sad.

[@tonyabibbs2075]

@@rosario_lenwhat's her name? I would like to read it

[@imani393]

She's giving either a mood or personality disorder

[@desi4u1]

FACTS

[@rosario_len]

Probably still traumatized from what happened. I found her story on the news. Very sad very scary.

[@Nickyd2024]

That girl need emotional therapy too

[@aleixiamills2235]

Her energy is very STANK. I understand she may be frustrated with her reality, but she didn’t need to be so rude. She is coming off real aggressive and masculine. She needs to work on her displaced anger.

[@ChillWill12]

“I don’t need a caregiver, I said help me walk.. a physical therapist.. “ 👀😳😵‍💫😳👀

[@vivathecat7052]

There is a major difference between a caregiver and a physical therapist so she is correct about that.

[@invisiblerevolution]

But you don't spend 24 HOURS a day... with a physical therapist, *SO SHE DOES NEED A CARE PROVIDER,* if I have to help her go to the bathroom at 4am!

[@madant22]

But the average civilian don’t know the difference. Dose it matter. But you can’t expect civilians to know what the medical people know or what you know.

[@EsiriE]

Literally, people just wanna be shady 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@eon001]

Don't you need qualifications to be a physical therapist? Wtf does she want from the average guy?

[@invisiblerevolution]

@@eon001 Damn you right... a physical therapist actually takes schooling!

[@msaneasha1]

Kendra, you handled the interview well and very maturely… Blessings to the lady and her situation! ❤️

[@thedopemom7697]

Yea Kendra you didn’t have to say Roll back. You could of just said move back. Can y’all imagine being in a wheelchair??!!!! She talks aggressively she’s from Jersey that’s how people there talk. I’m from NYC and I talk like that too. But anyway, that’s a tough situation and she should of be spoken to with care and understanding even though y’all can’t imagine what she’s going through. Much love and healing to her.

[@Frugal637]

Not everyone from NJ and N.Y talks like that but a lot do.

[@msmime35]

too many excuses for this girl

[@beninaten1020]

😂😂😂😂bye

[@LIONSUNRISING]

I don't think her choice of words were intentional😢

[@slarvadain188]

Kendra was being very understanding and asking questions. It was not to purposefully offend. Whew chile

[@biblosantral]

I felt how tense KG was because this person is obviously not only ♿️ bound but bipolar too, I felt like I was gasping for air just keeping up with her moods. Good luck to the fella who can handle this craziness, when she smile I felt hopeful for her but her aggression outweighs that smile. On the real you shouldn't be as dependent as you are and have an intimidating attitude too, nah sis pick a struggle.

[@dp7047]

Not bipolar imo.... just hasnt made it through all the stages of grieving yet. She's still very bitter right now

[@biblosantral]

@@dp7047 is that also to say that she doesn't have clear judgements to know that she should take time to herself and not be around ppl who might not know how to address her situation also? Because truth is the world is huge and we can't correct every single person who say something that we don't like and we're not gonna always meet ppl that are sympathetic towards us but I understand your point

[@reggiebarton6912]

Put the phone down and roll back 🤣🤣🤣

[@theveryplumdarcey]

What do you base the diagnosis on?

[@katerab4916]

Agreed, she actually had a beautiful smile - but, that bitterness and anger kept showing up. Likely some self guilt also. Our choices will always catch up with us.

[@invisiblerevolution]

Once she said..... *"I got shot 9 times, in a home invasion."* my HOOD RAT detection, started going bonkers!!!!!🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨

[@brownsugga2584]

lol exactly

[@kimberlyb6522]

😂😂😂

[@tedra6455]

Well said Kendra. Well needed.

[@camillagainey]

PURE IGNORANCE ‼️ I Was Almost Murdered At Work (Bus Driver) And I Was In A Wheelchair For 18 Months. Kendra Said Nothing Insensitive. I Walk With A Rollator And I'm Still Fly AF. Keep Doing Your Thing Kendra ❤ I Might Call In One Day 😂

[@Northphilly-wu4oq]

Man this lady was something else. Kendra was trying to be patient with her

[@nmmboy]

I notice that the more recent guests in wheelchairs have been so hostile and defensive. I could understand they’ve been through a lot, but you’re gonna throw a lot of potential candidates off like that 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@elizabethclarke4981]

Personally, I don't think they need to be dating anyway. They should get their health back together, cause not a lot of people are gonna sign up to date someone who is wheelchair bound no hate but it's true 😬

[@nmmboy]

@@elizabethclarke4981 Yeah I personally think they should focus first on therapy, because they react badly on this show. I’ve seen a couple great guests that were in wheelchairs, so I think it’s how you carry yourself that’s more important.

[@MsE711]

@@elizabethclarke4981mmm, all of the people in wheelchairs are in it for life. What other therapy is needed? Just because someone is in a wheelchair doesn’t mean they shouldn’t find love. That’s mad foul. Some people in wheelchairs are better people than people walking.

[@elizabethclarke4981]

@MsE I didn't say they should not date forever, but maybe try getting themselves together like being able to walk again and possible mental help if they need it before dating because truth is dating someone who is disabled is alot to take on for someone who isn't

[@Reneesaidit]

I'm confused. Was the home invasion because she was living with the guy in the streets or not? She said it wasn't because of him but the way she explained it made it sound like that was the case.

[@MrGhanasbest]

Exactly! I bet it was even if she denial about it.

[@Reneesaidit]

​@@MrGhanasbest I watched again and she clearly said playing house with the wrong man I got shot 9 times... She needs to heal

[@stelbee7821]

Exactly! She claim to have went to a dark place. 🤔 as soon a your bd was mentioned? Yea, it was because of him.....

[@invisiblerevolution]

Come on people..... Keep it a 💯 she was in the DRUG GAME!!!! Ain't nobody gonna break into your house 🏡 and shoot you 9 times, all out the blue!!!!!!

[@MoreVariousMoreBeautiful]

... I think she may have been saying that after she got shot, he flipped the script and started acting differently.

[@RS4LLLMM]

I don’t think she was rude jus very clear! It’s a difference between care giver and physical therapist! And I believe she is sensitive to the wording I respect what she said. We have to give her a little grace yall.

[@illanoiz1]

Kendra you be mad patient with some of these characters

[@judygriffith1358]

You were 💯% correct, also Physical Therapists are trained, PAID professionals.

[@mashenka6189]

Correct. A Psychical therapist has a degrees in Physio therapy… is that what she wants? She was on edge for sure..

[@Ash2beauty]

Absolutely, I’m a therapist and saying we are the same or similar is not true at all.

[@salimasills9687]

Agreed paid a man would have to deal with her past, children and attitude unpaid she needs a caregiver and have a separate relationship to focus on being happy. No one wants to sign up to be an free employee. Why wouldn’t she just date a physical therapist.