She looks good! No kids. Ready to relocate. Men were shooting their shots during her interview!

She looks good! The men liked her and were shooting their shots during her interview.

[@jmatthews5685]

The longer you're single, the harder it is for BOTH parties to find someone. You get use to living alone, having your own space, way of life, etc. Plus, you've likely dated so much that you either overlook the core things you need from a partner or nitpick every single thing about them that aren't necessarily deal breakers. Good luck to all out there

[@sweetneverbitter6109]

Yes!!!

[@nlmal4]

Yes🎉🎉🎉

[@Nonstopfilms100]

This is 100% correct

[@Igottimetoday45]

This is so true.

[@UncleSwiss]

Kendra.. i was with the same woman for 29 years before I became a widower.. your show is watched by most for its entertainment value not for dating. And you know this.

[@fredm.2699]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@cyes1156]

Widowers or previously married women (at age 35) may have a chance out here in the dating market.......But never married at 35 as a woman is unbelievably crazy..... Literally all you have to do is be attractive and feminine to get picked.....What's the problem ladies

[@imilly8179]

Guilty...✋🏾 😂. I definitely watch to laugh at these delusional guests.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

@@cyes1156 its not that easy. Its less men than woman especially black men. Not to mention as a man pov 59% of y'all have multiple baby fathers and never married so most men don't want to deal with that. Not to mention being #1 in student loan debt and obesity/overweight. Thats the problems. Are you new to the show? lol. Majority of this show is baby daddies/mommas. From women perspective also black and brown men are more incarcerated. And as a people we are broke on average heck as a nation we are broke so not the best or ideal environment to raise a family.

[@demetriusjames9535]

@Rashaadthegr8 But you're reinforcing his point in a way because not only is she beautiful but also childless!

[@ella.o.8685]

She is amazing and her smile is so pretty

[@vincentmartin1863]

she is the total package ❤

[@因徽-f6q]

Relax. Physical beauty is extremely common. She is 35!!! Hello! If she was the total package she wouldn’t be on Kendra…

[@kmel1313]

She’s amazing based on a 19min video. Men look beyond the physical we’ve been through this so many times and it’s failed us most of the time. #Charactermatters.

[@tiffanymitchell9604]

She is beautiful 🤩 and I hope she finds someone! 🤗

[@halftimehomes]

There’s 11 million people in North Carolina, you can’t blame an entire state for the reason why you’re single…but there are clearly other men interested, looking forward to the update

[@mrmoe110]

The whole “no people where I live are good enough” is weird to me. Because people are people wherever you go. If someone feels no one where they live is good enough they’ll probably think no one anywhere is good enough because they’re probably going to date the same types everywhere they go.

[@chronometa]

Might be a cultural lifestyle thing. I personally would struggle in the Bible belt overall.

[@Matthew7.7]

5 years no relationship? That’s called no dating skills and not understanding what men want

[@cyes1156]

​@@mrmoe110 🎯🎯Spot on the same everywhere you go......And women certainly have a type and are far more pickier than men

[@Flash413]

Imagine the narcissism it takes to claim that all the men in a whole state are the problem but she is perfect

[@deborahhill9922]

I wish you well, Niecey. Auntie is rooting for you ❤️

[@Javine-u6d]

Send her my number hun send her to jamaica

[@TheAtm149]

She’s beautiful and well spoken. Best wishes to her!

[@candorsspot2775]

Acts of service have nothing to do with money. She's talking about gifts.

[@Noir_Nouveau]

It has nothing to do with gifts either. It about serving i.e rubbing feet or back, cleaning her car without her asking, etc.

[@candorsspot2775]

​@@Noir_NouveauYes. I'm saying what she wants are gifts. Acts of service are exactly what you described. Doing things, not buying things.

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

sooo.....she don't know what she talking about....

[@Macbammer]

This was a live discussion, completely misspoke out of nervousness. Those that want to understand will or inquire for clarity. If not that's totally okay too

[@blackslav1497]

​@@Macbammeroh shit bam pulled up 😅

[@pauldareason]

Me and my wife watch this show, both for the comedy and the reinforcement of knowing we have a normal life. So there are more than kendra's 2 options

[@rororidley5829]

My husband and I do too for the same reasons lol.

[@cocolokoflacco]

😆exactly, Kendra always finds a way to show why her and the godfather was at odds

[@demetriusjames9535]

Y'all know that Kendra lights up the gas with the best of them! 😬

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

Same here. I enjoy relationship topics, think the show is comedy, and love seeing Kendra's fashion, and wigs

[@lisaagyemangduah7336]

U r truly blessed

[@rahkeenclark2254]

She is a winner to me i don't care what none of y'all talking about

[@96jwatson]

Idk she ain’t answer the intimacy question. That kinda tells you all you need to know.

[@vincentmartin1863]

she is the total package from head to toe I wish her well

[@Lil08103]

​@@96jwatson answering intimate questions on the internet is weird to me. her not answering told me she didn't answer. that's it.

[@ladellmimms]

😅 Some Pookie currently blowing her back out but the next guy has to do the most and take her on trips, Women are funny

[@因徽-f6q]

@@Lil08103 The correct answer would have been: “It’s been years.” If you are a logical man with experience with women, you would know that a large percentage of women who are promiscuous tend to be very discreet about their sexual past. Hence, not giving an answer with her breast halfway out should be a MAJOR 🚩 for who she really is.

[@melodyc123]

Shes very together. Shes communicating well, seems intentional about her future. Very nice lady. Good luck. 👍🏾

[@nlmal4]

Exactly and that is the danger. Something is not right. She's a PRO in dating and don't forget she is a Nigerian woman right. Be careful.

[@asandiahogan7371]

The danger is she’s very together and communicates well? You’re trolling!

[@jonthomson9262]

Then why is she still single at 35? Quality women are never single at this age.

[@melodyc123]

@@jonthomson9262 that's not true. A man could have wasted her time. Men do that.... often. Or, she may not have dated for a while. In the past, I've gone a year and not dated. I just didn't want to. Many reasons.

[@jonthomson9262]

@@melodyc123 she picked wrong and wasted her own time. How is it that a woman can have so many options to choose from.............and still pick wrong? Lol 😂 😂

[@faithbasedbillionaire]

She seems the perfect fit for me, Kendra. Thank you. I'll definitely reach out.

[@officialejwade]

35, Nigerian and could not find a Nigerian man to marry? Red Flag.

[@HENCHMARV]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Tiredttttttt]

She looks like she’s in her 20’s tbh I thought we were the same age, she’s super gorgeous ❤ good luck sis

[@Macbammer]

Thanks Beautiful

[@ejike1367]

Hi Angel... can we be friends

[@dekev7503]

There are too many bitter dudes in the comments section, like damn dude, get some help. This lady is attractive well spoken and carries herself well. She might be older but that doesn’t warrant all the nasty comments .

[@myronbourne6937]

So why don't you wife her up? 💀

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

@@myronbourne6937why don’t you leave her alone and focus on the rates young black boys are taking themselves out at?

[@cyes1156]

​@@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS You can focus on the epidemic single mother rates among black women 80%.....Highest in the country....I'll focus on the men

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

@@cyes1156yall are literally taking yourselves out due to lonliness😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂! Women win!

[@cyes1156]

@@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS The Pookies you want are taking themselves out...... Meanwhile the top 20% of black men that every race of women wants are winning!!!! End of the day we pick our wives ma'am .... Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment/marriage.....Looks like a win for the men😂

[@bignelle2679]

She was so diplomatic

[@Flash413]

In her dictionary, acts of service = paying for things for her

[@darkiadavis7337]

so what real men pay for things to the right women. grow up

[@Flash413]

@@darkiadavis7337 it’s still not an act of service. Get out of your feelings

[@nlmal4]

Exactly 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@asandiahogan7371]

@@nlmal4you’re all over these comments saying and agreeing to negativity for this woman. Who hurt you?

[@lyricalreignmusic]

​@@Flash413I'm a fellow Virgo and my love language is Acts of Service as well. What some people fail to realize is that Acts of Service encompasses many things and yes many of those things cost money AND *spoiler alert* some Acts of Service can include (or be considered as) gifts!😱

[@Shirleyowens383]

She is a beautiful girl, But sometimes we think too much of ourselves💁🏾

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

I think its a simple case of the men she wants don't want her back and the men that likes her she don't like them back.........🤔

[@LOSTGPS]

Murphys Law

[@IK_4]

What man wouldn't want her though? Yall stay gaslighting in these comments smh

[@myronbourne6937]

​@@IK_4Men who want to start a family, so like millions upon millions

[@IK_4]

@@myronbourne6937 Yeah, like the “millions” of black men who stick around to actually raise their families lol…boy bye 🙄

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

@@IK_4 me.. I don't do fake hair

[@that_guy_dlo]

I ain't gonna lie she is attractive

[@vincentmartin1863]

she a dime she gorgeous

[@quixxx3]

The show is good entertainment, you DO NOT find a husband here...

[@Nobodyisgreat123]

Never say never😂😂😂😂

[@quixxx3]

@Nobodyisgreat123 you are right but in reality we all are fans but let's keep it 💯.... this is like Russian roulette

[@And1one757]

Since when did women care about whats probable... its all about possibilities whether its online or offline... this is still a reflection of what happens in real life in alot of ways

[@freethinkingMILF]

Totally agree

[@jonthomson9262]

Niether will you find a wife here. Not a one.

[@marinofraser7891]

YOU ARE RIGHT KENDRA GREETING FROM THE NETHERLANDS

[@meechee2too754]

Kendra you are so right. I say this often. I have never seen truly happy people trying hard to knock others down. I see it everyday and it’s sad

[@SouthSideGaming013]

She tryna drain your pockets you ain't fooling us

[@melizzamelizza]

What pockets sir?! I know she's making bank on her own.

[@keycrum4218]

She is beautiful, flexible and also seems down to earth. I hope she finds someone special for her.

[@jonthomson9262]

So why is she single and attractive at 35???? 🚩 🚩

[@keycrum4218]

@@jonthomson9262 lots of people are single lol some focus on school and work, some focus on sick family, some are just not prioritizing relationships because men are Regina George now….the list goes on. If your mind can’t find a simple reason as to why someone is single…..idk what to tell yah. Good luck!

[@jonthomson9262]

@@keycrum4218 but these same women who focused on education and career,are mostly ran through. They found tike for random D,but couldn't find time for a husband???? Smart men know better Ma'am.

[@keycrum4218]

@@jonthomson9262 ran through? lol yikes the internet is influencing you huh lol I know working woman that have been celibate for years. Not all people lack discipline. You showcased to me you either surround yourself by woman you don’t respect or you live on the internet. Ran through is not a term I use in my vocabulary lol also doesn’t change the fact that a lot of men are Regina George. Also again, not all people focus on relationships in their 20’s and being married… I know the internet will make you think this but 6 years ago. No one was talking about these things

[@jodezod]

@@jonthomson9262bruh facts!!! Why can’t they understand this? I saw so many women say “well she is an adult and can have sex if she wants” which is true to an extent but his would engaging in that help you find your future husband though?

[@San-dx7rt]

No offense to the Kendra Kousins. But if you’re looking for a high caliber man you’re probably not gonna find him on this platform.

[@jonthomson9262]

And you also do r wait til 35 to look for a high caliber man. What has she been doing for the past 15 years?????

[@cwds92]

@@jonthomson9262getting her life together and having self control

[@melizzamelizza]

​@@jonthomson9262apparently SHE'S been establishing her own life. She's reaching out when she's ready. Ya think women supposed to lock down in their 20s is crazy to me.

[@jonthomson9262]

@@melizzamelizza listen,women are free to make their own decisions in life as they see fit,but women(just like men) are not free from the negative consequences of those decisions. If women choose to delay marriage to go get ran through out here in these streets, don't expect a high quality man to be waiting for you in your 30s and especially not past 35. Smart men who value themselves know what these older women have done with their prime years,and don't want the ran through leftovers of Pookie and Tyrone. Those women will be left in the streets by high quality men. JUST AS WOMEN HAVE A RIGHT TO THEIR STANDARDS, SO DO MEN.

[@jonthomson9262]

@@melizzamelizza men looking for serious relationships and marriage have every right and reason to question a woman's past.

[@graymatters2]

Oh my, I loving her. I currently live in NorCal. Six-figure dude, single, no kids and tall enough for her... in tech marketing...open to living abroad... Taurus. Damn, come on back to Cali.

[@lyricalreignmusic]

Yes fellow Virgo!!👏🏿👏🏿 You represented us very well!!!👏🏿❤😎♍️😂

[@hannaw193]

Didn’t she though. Team Virgo🎉

[@AXDX_]

Fellas stop saying she’s a red flag when the majority of yall come with baggage, baby mamas, multiple kids, anger issues etc

[@demetriusjames9535]

🚩🚩🚩

[@_dollar_sign]

@14:35 😂 that comment struck the most sensitive nerve in Kendra. You know you hit home when they go straight to shaming 😂.

[@_dollar_sign]

Imagine a Rolls-Royce in prestine condition sitting on a showroom floor, and millionaires all take it for a test drive, then return in and decline to purchase. For 17 years, it's just sitting there with no owner. Wouldn't we all think something is wrong with that car? 🤔

[@jonthomson9262]

​@@_dollar_signof course we would. It's common sense

[@janellerudloff5073]

She’s really beautiful ❤

[@sammitchelle307]

Would love to see her most natural state. She clearly is very made up here

[@PrimetimeMusiq]

Her face is plastered with makeup. Let's see what she looks like when that gets wiped off

[@blackdynamite4174]

Excatly!!

[@doubler3552]

She mad beautiful

[@destinydivine8465]

What a cute little smile. 😊

[@itzjdub282]

I disagree with Kendra about picking up and moving thinking your future husband will be

[@toricollins6516]

Bam is very articulate & attractive. If she widened her racial preferences, she’d have better options. Good luck to her.

[@jay4341]

She’s an absolute catch!!!!! Period

[@jayjpeterson4969]

I sure do hope you're a female, Jay, and not no guy saying PERIOD!!😂

[@clearinsight2696]

Unless you know her personally that endorsement might be a bit overstated. But she does appear to be a good catch, but begs the question...why is she still single?

[@jay4341]

@@clearinsight2696 That’s not a fair assessment. The chats make similar conclusions for women on the other end of the spectrum who got nothing going on. It’s not an overstatement to say she’s a catch on the surface. My wife was 33 when we got married. She just knew what she wanted and held out for it. A lot more women are taking that gamble these days

[@clearinsight2696]

@jay4341 I hear you, why do you think the divorce rate is so high? I would suggest that most people fail to make a full assessment of a person and rely on that representative who says all the right things. I married my wife when we were in college. To this day I have no regrets and wouldn't change a thing. I did my due diligence but watching someone on a screen for 15 - 20 minutes probably isn't enough time to make a " definitive " statement nor a commitment 🤔.

[@blackdynamite4174]

I think she is a person of interest, further investigation is needed. EXCATLY!!.hitting the WALL..

[@candacewilliams3285]

Thats good for Bam. Bam is closer to getting the man of her dreams 😀. They were hollering at her last night in the live, now shes a highlight, so he's on the way Bam lol

[@myronbourne6937]

🤣🤣

[@jonthomson9262]

She can definitely get a man..........the question is can she KEEP a man????

[@nmmboy]

Beautiful woman, but the more she spoke the more she makes me think she’s the problem 😂🥴🤦🏾‍♂️ So The men in Cali was no good for you, the ones in NC weren’t good, and you don’t even want the men from your own country? How many locations do you have to visit until you do some self reflection? This goes for either gender, location is not the issue….

[@GwendolynWilliams-e1m]

Stay out of grown folks business.nnmboy

[@nmmboy]

@@GwendolynWilliams-e1mLmao that’s a 16 year old username, relax Gwendolyn. My statement still stands regardless if it triggered you ☺️👌🏽

[@GwendolynWilliams-e1m]

@@nmmboy ok not easily trigger/ peace Love and Coconut Oil. 😏

[@glo9797]

You said it goes for both genders, but I'm really curious if you type comments like this under Passport Bros vids.

[@nmmboy]

@@glo9797 I don’t watch passport bros vids, so there wouldn’t be any comments of mine on there 🤷🏽‍♂️ But I definitely wrote this sentiment more than once on Kendra’s videos.

[@dbombnting]

Nah she not fooling me she is definitely A problem 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@confettiRedPill]

Damn man can we give a good black woman props when a great one comes along? I don’t mind holding black women accountable but we can give good black women their praise.

[@malimal4972]

Single for past 5 years and haven't come across a good man with her face and body like that ? And doesn't really want kids, definite red flags. These type of women are usually very superficial, selfish, and punch way higher than they think they can get . The type of man she wants she's competing with 21 -45 year olds who are prob bringing to the table all she has to bring to the table . A man who can just travel , who is tall and attractive every woman is looking for

[@malimal4972]

@@confettiRedPill35 year old woman who hasn't been in a relationship in 5 years but has been giving it up to men without requiring a relationship you claim as a good woman?? you lost my g

[@sakpase88]

What's wrong with her

[@malimal4972]

@@sakpase88 Obviously she is a little delusional and superficial

[@jasminej26]

Yes @kendra I am a happily married woman and I watch the show for pure entertainment.

[@VicMansaMusa]

Black people know how to mess up their business, going at married people that watch her is stupid business.

[@Maria-jp3kd]

Bam, you are gorgeous! Wishing you all the best! Good luck fellas!

[@rosalynasare5765]

She's gorgeous you deserve a good guy hope you find him or he finds you!!!!

[@jonthomson9262]

So just because she is attractive she automatically deserves a Good Man????

[@Chrgeit2dagame1]

'make her feel comfortable, safe, love God, and treat her well, make 80k, be take care of himself'..her minimum requirements are not much! Her interview was great, and I wish her the best! 🚩🚩the men making these negative comments, because they don't meet her standards 😂.

[@rabrown2799]

😂😂😂

[@Nico-vn8uq]

I just hate the 80k thing. If a man can take care of himself and knows how to manage money it shouldn’t be a price range on love. we date now and probably don’t even know what a person makes because they can lie. I just hate that question all together

[@darkmattersproject2951]

That’s why you are single. You are our help mate. We aren’t your daddy

[@joannapickett6711]

Hello Krenda and kousins. Bam looks great no kids a big plus Krenda you looking fly as always ❤❤love you and kousins. ❤❤😊

[@Therealone88]

The dating scene is hard for everyone, no matter what age group.so nobody can really talk about her being 35+ and single.mostly black men say this🙄

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

Most BM are unmarried, broke, and single themselves but let them tell it their options run over.

[@bassya2490]

I’m 26 dating bm are a no for me they’re all behind in life. Dont wanna be with someone i gotta play catch up with.

[@myronbourne6937]

Old hoes mad 😂

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

@@myronbourne6937BM are broke😂😂😂

[@demetriusjames9535]

​@myronbourne6937 Only ones are these modern women who have been "outside" all throughout their prime and now wanna come looking for a spons, er...husband! 😅

[@LoveAlways1002]

She's pretty and seems sweet/ focused/ stable ❤❤ I am going to call soon and very soon!!! 🤣🙏🏼🙏🏼 I loved her lighting!!!!

[@Rashaadthegr8]

What's your IG?

[@atrufriend2u]

@loveAlways1002 Say My Name, Say My Name! No need to make that call...I'm standing by! lol

[@vincentmartin1863]

yes she is gorgeous dime 😊

[@atrufriend2u]

The real question is... what are we missing?

[@LoveAlways1002]

@@Rashaadthegr8 I don't have IG or Facebook 🥴

[@yahmadoss6860]

She's Beautiful and Definitely presents herself well. I'm not getting why some unqualified Men are Offended that she is 35 and never been Married and it's suppose to be a problem? Bam is Definitely going to get some Hits and a couple of Monkeys don't stop no Show. Let's keep the Energy on High Frequency ❤

[@demetriusjames9535]

There were also women making similar remarks about being surprised she's still unmarried, but go off...

[@jonthomson9262]

A woman at 35 is to be considered leftovers........she was left over for a reason. 🚩 🚩

[@letsbeclear2897]

She’s average looking. I don’t like to comment on women wearing makeup and or not their natural hair. People talking about her being 35 and single and a red flag is a red flag themselves. With the divorce rate as high as it is and all these situationships and long term relationships while not married nobody can talk. It’s married people miserable too

[@myronbourne6937]

Unmarried childless women will NEVER be respected in any society. Move accordingly

[@AmberJailee]

shut up@@myronbourne6937

[@sammitchelle307]

Naw she's not average looking let's be honest. The average bw does not look like her but then again she does have on makeup, wear, eyebrows done etc

[@letsbeclear2897]

@@sammitchelle307 and the as you say average BW but honestly any woman at a favorable size is secretly had weight loss surgery and or cosmetic surgery like the case of Veronica who volunteered her body was all natural even though Kendra never asked and her husband came on her show to debunk that and said he meet her out the country after she just had a tummy tuck. So people really never know what they getting or what unhealthy choices they made to look a certain way. Most people not walking around natural and everybody wants a quick fix. U can fix the outside most times and be toxic on the inside

[@Wormanatti]

I'm with you. I don't grade women with make up on. It's definitely make up on her face.

[@confettiRedPill]

She would be a marketing consultant 😂😂. She is beautiful 😍 😍. I love a North Californian Woman❤. She is definitely going to find a good man. Good luck to her! She has a great personality. Chill, calm , definitely passes the vibe check. She’s a solid 8 or 9. She actually got options. Take notes ladies. This is what men want.

[@stronginthewind]

You love a NC woman...but this one is a Cali one 😂

[@Moe_Lester_fromUptwn]

​@@stronginthewindNigerian*

[@stronginthewind]

@@Moe_Lester_fromUptwn I'm from Cali and have dealt with Cali born ladies with Nigerian roots. Slice it how you want, but she's a Cali chick. She probably was instilled with some Nigerian values but if she never mentioned she was Nigerian it probably wouldn't have been guessed either. She didn't really present any different than any other well mannered western chick.

[@latonyahughes1518]

I like her and she wasn’t trying to show her butt and shake her butt during Kendra cam so she isnt full of herself just taking her time, no kids do your thang girl

[@jonthomson9262]

She showed ALOT of cleavage. 🚩 🚩

[@beauteafulnia6722]

I wish her well ❤

[@blackdynamite4174]

Excatly!!!

[@demarcusjohnson3844]

👸🏽❤️🔥🔥yea that is correct married people do watch your show it is entertaining and makes us happy when people find love 🫶🏽

[@AmberJailee]

Men will say a 35 yo woman isn’t good for marriage but in the same breath tell you that at 21 you should go 50/50 with a washed up 45 yo man making 50k a year to make him happy. The incels have LOST IT.

[@demetriusjames9535]

Nobody says that 😒

[@PrimetimeMusiq]

I don't believe in 50/50 whatsoever, but what I realize is most of you only believe in gender roles when it's the man being traditional, and that's the issue right there. I'm not going 50/50 with no woman and I'm certainly not dating a modern chick either.

[@sakpase88]

So you ain't see men trying to get at her during the show 👀

[@melissasavage5996]

Yeah but I she's talking about the men in the comment section

[@demetriusjames9535]

Majority aren't as concerned about her income requirements as they are why she's single, in the first place!

[@fistandpen2505]

Beautiful woman... just a shame that she doesn't actually like any man anywhere. She's American by nationality but is done with men in the U.S. She is Nigerian by heritage but she won't date anyone back in the continent because of logistics. She won't date anyone outside black men. Literally, the only group she didn't rule out is caribbean but I get the sense she just didn't get the chance to shut that down. Wishing her the best.

[@adjamaica]

It ain't about "logistics"😂it's because she knows she'd have to be submissive to a Nigerian man! She clearly been around the block in her State, which is why she wants to leave🤣

[@VanessaHylton-d8j]

Kendra bye. She single for a reason regardless of what they are saying in the comments

[@freethinkingMILF]

She is single because she wanted to be, how hard is that for men to understand.

[@kevanbane]

@@freethinkingMILFnaw, a pretty woman like that is not single because she "want to be single" that's a lie from the west side of hell

[@freethinkingMILF]

@@kevanbane All women are single because they want to be, Dik ain't hard to get for a woman.

[@destinydivine8465]

​@@kevanbanepretty has nothing to do with it

[@jonthomson9262]

At her age,it's always a reason. 🚩 flag

[@alancer7063]

For the men: Why do some of you get so wrapped up in making decisions based upon the actions of OTHER men, especially men you've never met? There are many logical reasons for a woman to be unmarried with no children at 35. Women outnumber men. How many men do you know who are ready to take on the full responsibility of being a husband, who actually want to be married, monogamous, mature, and financially stable in their 20's and early 30's? You guys love to say "pick better men". Maybe she's doing just that by not entertaining every man who comes at her so she doesn't end up with a man who makes her a single baby mamma only to wind up being someone else you don't want? Women have to have viable partners too. Too many of you are more concerned with being entertained rather than critically thinking and being informed.

[@candorsspot2775]

She's been single for 5 years and refused to answer the last time she had sex. Being logical, that suggests she's out here having sex. So she's not holding out. That's the exact behavior men don't want. If she was in a relationship, that would be a much better look.. Also, you didn't give any reason why she is single at 35. She is under no obligation to date men her own age. Women get married, even some blk women. So why not her? And please ditch the term 'partner'. That's feminist talk, and not suitable for marriage. Oh and one last point. Regardless of her past, a man who wants to get married, wants a family. So her age is a major factor for a man who wants to marry her and finds her to be amazing. She can be everything he ever wanted, but be too old, and he moves on. That's logic, common sense, and not following other men. What's the point of being a provider when there are no kids to provide for?

[@alancer7063]

@candorsspot2775 Contrary to what many of you wrongly profess to be true, there are plenty of people who know how to practice self-control. You told yourself an entire story about this woman and debased her upon your projected inability for you and/or some others to maintain self-control. Whether she was last intimate 4 years ago or 4 days ago is not known and cannot be assumed. Some of you are so used to people spilling every detail about their private lives to the public that you think it's odd and make assumptions when they don't. A healthy relationship requires many factors, one being collaboration to join together for a common purpose. That's what a partnership is. You taking umbrage to the word does not change its meaning, so I will be keeping the word in my lexicon. Feminism at its core means women should not be discriminated against based on gender. I gave two reasons why she could be single, both of which are still in my initial comment. I know men who want wives for companionship to do life with and who don't necessarily have to have children. They value women and don't simply reduce them as objects to have children. The men who paid money to have Kendra tell this woman they are interested in her clearly don't have a problem with her age.

[@candorsspot2775]

@@alancer7063 This is a textbook answer from a feminist. Speaking in terms of what is possible, instead of what is probable. It in no way escapes me that she could very well be a virgin. But assuming such a thing would be silly. And yes, there are men who have no problem with women who can't have kids. Men with lots of kids who need help, and the type of free spirit men who have no problem getting involved with a woman with either no intention of getting married or who will get married and not feeling obligated to even try and honor those vows. You don't understand the consequences of the world you perpetuate when you espouse feminism. Feminism/Communism is the exact reason why a lot of men feel no obligation to marry a woman or simply don't like what a lot of women have to offer. She said she wanted to be married. A married woman has a husband, not a 'partner'. Now we see plenty of women who want someone to be with for life, but because they were lied to, will find themselves simply skipping from man to man until all sexual interest is gone. That's the lie of feminism. That there is no obligation or roles to life. That following your feelings, doesn't have negative consequences. At 35, she may still have a shot, but she doesn't sound like someone who has shed the yoke of feminism. I wish her the best.

[@wham7125]

She's sleeping around but didn't think to find somebody serious until 35? Yeah... no.

[@concretejungle6938]

​@wham7125 To break it down plain & simple.

[@user-lj1ed6nd3r]

Watching a show doesn’t make you bored in your marriage 😂😂. Stahhhp

[@melizzamelizza]

She's a unicorn. I pray to the gawds no dusties shall approach onto her space.

[@VicMansaMusa]

Who do you think she was dating this whole time? She is 35

[@faithandgrace1638]

This is why I can’t take the commenters seriously. Damnd if you do, damn if you don’t.

[@deeluv6984]

Wow what a Beautiful looking woman no lip stick, no wig and no long eyelashes. Luv it!

[@freddycooks]

"Meet me at the alter in whateva the hell you got on!" 😂

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Boy, I have never seen guests get so many proposals. I guess Skinny Girls won but she definitely had her stuff together in spite of listing only 2 weaknesses which weren't even weaknesses lol. Punctuality is not a relationship weakness and neither is not wanting to be disappointed/being independent. If you actually need help and don't ask then that's different but that's not what she said.

[@msgameconsciouscarter1475]

I swear I don’t know what men want, this women has no kids, fit, sound intelligent… and you all still trying to find something wrong with her. Most pretty women with their stuff together are single, 😊 hope she finds her husband , looks like she has it going on

[@candorsspot2775]

Why are women with all their stuff together and attractive single? 🤔

[@a.b5625]

Most pretty women with their stuff together (assuming that includes, mentality and character) most certainly are not single!!..that's a full on myth in the real world away from social media

[@cyes1156]

"Has no kids, fit, sound intelligent"........Why hasn't she been snatched up yet in her 20's ......Why did she wait this long???......Men of value snatch up quality women off of the dating market in her 20's......35yrs old she definitely putting quality guys in Friendzones and dating Pookies instead

[@demetriusjames9535]

Because this is chameleon behavior! 🙄 You're not explicitly detailing how a woman raised with self-proclaimed "traditional family values" is single at that age?!? We know run through when we see it...

[@myronbourne6937]

She won't. She'll either find an old sugar daddy or settle for a desperate clueless simp who will worship her until she cleans him out

[@beaniemac]

Good looking woman. I haven't watched it just yet

[@akinze3244]

Women should realize that flaunting their body on social media may deter respectful men from wanting to marry them, as it can give off a vibe of just wanting to have fun rather than seeking a serious relationship. When I saw her Instagram pictures, I immediately passed by, wondering why you are still single. But she is beautiful, though 😊

[@IK_4]

She's a beautiful woman who looks her age. Maybe older 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@confettiRedPill]

Stop it. She looks great!

[@IK_4]

@@confettiRedPill I literally said she was beautiful...and she is. She also looks her age or older. No insult there. Kendra thinks she's doing a good thing by telling people they look good for their age, but it's not a favor. If they look good, it doesn't have to have anything to do with their age. I'm 45, soon to be 46 and to me she looks closer to my age.

[@spglazestewart]

She looks Kendra age to me

[@IK_4]

@@spglazestewart Exactly and Kendra is my age. One year younger.

[@rahkeenclark2254]

​@@spglazestewartKendra got on a pound of makeup too

[@tangelapaul2926]

This is a good interview 😊

[@Flash413]

*“You’re too pretty to be single. That’s how I know you’re not a good person.”*

[@chronometa]

She seemed pretty normal. I don't know why dudes sound so bitter in the comments.

[@DV-lr8ec]

Kendra you should calm down, maybe that person was right. How is a 35 yo woman considered perfect for marriage?? What was this person doing the last 14 years?? Most reasonable men will question that!

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

How is a 40 yo man making 50k a year perfect for marriage but yet yall are always pushing them on us…yall are sick!

[@myronbourne6937]

​@@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHISbeing married is women's goal, not ours

[@IK_4]

I'm sure that there are plenty of questionable things about you as well, Sir. Lol I don't understand why men get on here acting as though they are top pick and perfect. It makes yall look crazy and dedelusional.

[@a.b5625]

@@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS dumb statement..by that logic every married man across the globe earns above 50k??? 🫠

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

@@myronbourne6937it’s yours too bc yall are running overseas for it. Broke and all.

[@willardth]

She's beautiful

[@bks7889]

so .. lets see how frequent the phrase "acts of service" is used now

[@TyWerks]

She presented very well...listen some women and men dont find there person. When dudes say why isnt she married thats honestly a moot argument

[@IK_4]

It's Moot. But I agree, these men don't seem to understand the concept of a woman being single AND HAPPY. It does something to their ego.

[@myronbourne6937]

Not really. It's a valid concern

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

@@myronbourne6937no it’s not. The average BM is washed up making 50k a year but swear he needs a 21 yo housewife who also has to go 50/50 and birth his kids!

[@cyes1156]

Men don't reach our financial climb until age 35 and up so it makes sense why a man is single until at least 35yrs old to become the provider he needs to be for a family...........For a women to be single at 35yrs old is an absolute joke because men DO NOT pick women based on their provisions skills......We pick women based on her level of attractiveness, femininity and ability to follow a man!! So if a woman is past the age of 27yrs old and still on the dating market that's a red flag.....All she literally has to be is attractive, feminine and cooperative.....How hard is that😂

[@TyWerks]

@@myronbourne6937 Bro it's not it really is not . I know some women who are in their 20s wild asf and some women 30 one marriage but just go home and work. Y'all need to live in the real world some women are just as turned off from dating as men are. You truly think every woman in their 30s was out here wildin?

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

Bam is beautiful! Go to England, or Australia honey! I have family in Australia. That is a wonderful place to live. Good luck!

[@bruceleeroy8302]

14:33 Yeah, Kendra needs to stop with them baseless, middle school insults. I don't care for the comment about her _not being a wife_ or whatever but that response is so petty. It's like the time when that man who was a doctor didn't want to do the Kendra cam, and Kendra was like _oh well you must be short then!_ I checked dude's IG and he's like 6'8" so she be looking silly making stupid assumptions like that.

[@myronbourne6937]

They absolutely hate the double standards that don't benefit them with a passion

[@bruceleeroy8302]

@@myronbourne6937 Imagine a woman saying "he's too short" and the male host replying _oh you bitches must have no tread on your tires since you want tall, 6-6-6 men_ 🤣

[@demetriusjames9535]

And that apology came only because so many married WOMEN had something to say!

[@bruceleeroy8302]

@@demetriusjames9535 yeah, she literally shitted on her own audience, that’s the only reason she apologized 🤣

[@beaniemac]

I agree. That response was petty, but Kendra probably took it personal cuz she's ten years older and just recently found love.

[@vincentmartin1863]

BAM the only thing I say is attack with ur love go listen to this song bc you or gorgeous from head to toe wish all love peace an blessing in finding a real man ❤ 😊

[@Thatbul]

People have to understand that times are changing. Getting married at a young age isn’t what most people are doing, even in cultures where it was normal to marry at a young age. I can understand why. I see many times where young people get married than they realize that they aren’t equally yoked and now the women is stuck being labeled as a single mom.

[@cyes1156]

What are women doing instead.....Hooking up, Situationships, Wanting men 6ft or taller, hot girl summer, soft girl era, strong independent I don't need no man, increasing body counts and putting Marriageable men in Friendzones.......Yes times have changed to COMPLETE degeneracy........"Back in the day" type of relationships worked for a reason..... Women want to do it differently sooooo bad and now the dating market is a mess

[@WOMENMUSTKNOWTHIS]

@@cyes1156good for women. The incel bandits mad. 50k a year and WASHED UP. Nobody want yall go overseas!

[@demetriusjames9535]

That's rare for a couple raised by traditional family values whose father will vet the boy and such.

[@PabCavalier]

I think about Betty Broderick’s situation and how she supposedly did it right to have her husband end up leaving her for a younger less cultured and everything else woman. Yikes!

[@msmime35]

i'm married and most times i'm happy with my husband. I watch the show because it's entertaining and as a reminder that ain't nothing out there 😂😂😂😂i'm holding on to mine❤❤❤❤

[@tier2206]

I can’t compete with her dog. I don’t have that level of obedience.

[@Fabrizio7171]

Lmaooo

[@omgimover4075]

Girl you ain’t never lied! I’m a sucka for a man with dimples too lol

[@viewsthatfade]

100% a problem. Kevin wins again, 35 and single with a dog. A decent brother making 50k ain't good enough because apparently every woman that calls in is traveling the world.

[@calbrown4639]

Passports be blank AsF with that 1 stamp from Mexico!!!

[@ukan.536]

How can Kevin be winning when he's dead? This is the Kendra G. show.

[@calikeisha365]

I find it interesting that you posted that comment but on the flipside there are men asking for women under a certain weight. When the average American woman wears a size 14. So should the guy who wants a slim woman take a woman wearing a size 14?

[@leilou19]

The issue is even kev said 50k wasn't enough.

[@cocolokoflacco]

​@ukan.536 I'm glad all the ppl who hated him are just bitter idiots lol. so according to your logic mlk is not winning because he's dead🙄smh

[@charlesedward5216]

Kendra your "only two options" is illogical. Many married people watch for entertainment. At least you had enough integrity to apologize.

[@kellykell8439]

A lot of the black men in the comments are really liking her and I can see why. She shouldn't have any trouble finding the right guy to date or marry.

[@jonthomson9262]

Then why is she Single at 35???? 🚩 🚩

[@VicMansaMusa]

Yap, something is off. If we all like her, why is she single at 35?

[@ricorogers9319]

She is beautiful

[@myronbourne6937]

She's 100% the problem, reasonable women don't stay single for years and aren't unmarried at 35. Kendra getting triggered by this proves it to be true 😂

[@demetriusjames9535]

Especially, the "traditional" women...

[@Flash413]

Yep. Like a great man said - “You’re too pretty to be single. That’s how I know you’re not a good person.”

[@a.b5625]

👏🏿

[@KendraGMedia]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 you must be one of the small p that got upset with what I said! 😂😂😂😂 Dear Men, grow up! You would never have a real chance with this woman so why does it bother you that other men like her? Really ask yourself that question. If you want a younger woman that is fine but you seen other men were interested so why are you triggered????

[@MrEOM41]

Not true some people find they mate a lil later

[@YTguySmithy-lk6go]

Bam! Wham! Thank you, ma'am!

[@sakpase88]

So married ppl can't watch the show 😂 😂 😭

[@AB-vb4sv]

Beautiful and 35 and never married? I bet she expects these men she wants to approach her lmao. They don’t have to. Ohh boy.

[@randolphdukes5383]

These guys calling in seem a bit thirsty they don't even know her

[@cocolokoflacco]

and Kendra/(women who think like her) swear all those men want her for relationships and marriage😂 not a thought goes in their head that they just want to sleep with her. oh is because she's pretty🙄 women be really weird

[@keelerhastings7109]

She's beautiful, no tattoos, no eight inch fingernails , no long phony Wig, she speaks English, not Ebonics , not over weight, I would put in an application 😊

[@wham7125]

Tattoos and wig right there on display.

[@keelerhastings7109]

@@wham7125 Gotcha but two out of six aint bad ?

[@wham7125]

@@keelerhastings7109 Way better than most headcases that I've seen on this show, but that's an extremely low bar to clear.

[@keelerhastings7109]

@@wham7125 We're grading ourselves , LOL

[@DIYGUY_TY]

Man, watching these shows makes me realize there is absolute NO hope for the average black man when it comes to dating a black woman. You have to pick an instant family and make 100k a year or 80k and no kids. The average salary in the U.S. is less than 55k a year. No love for the average working man doing the jobs that need to be done. I make 65k, and I'm comfortable af but my salary negates me from a lot of black women on this show.

[@sweetneverbitter6109]

Not true

[@a-mc]

She's a YES....❤😊

[@krisfirstofhername.8444]

She wants to be aligned with someone and is in no rush. I get it. Keep being discerning, Chica.

[@Macbammer]

Thanks sis! I guess I didn't communicate well. I mean no rush in trying to force a relationship because of a biological clock. Still discerning but not trying to force for a man into being the father of my child.

[@rooseveltwilliams1073]

​@@Macbammeryou communicated very well sis. Continue to be disconcerning. Life isn't a race...take your time.

[@wham7125]

Yeah, maybe keep waiting and discerning until she's 42...

[@rooseveltwilliams1073]

Not the end of the world. My 93 yr old uncle married his 85 yr old bride (as he still calls her) when he was 86 yrs old and she was 78. They're going to Hawaii in July for their 8th wedding anniversary. My uncle had been a widower since his late 30s. He moved from NYC and bought another home with his new wife in Florida. Still enjoying their lives and nowhere near ready to quit on life or love. Until GOD calls for us, every day HE wakes us up, there is another opportunity to love, live, and enjoy the gifts and blessings of others. ✌🏾

[@wham7125]

@@rooseveltwilliams1073 Great argument! She should wait until she's 78!

[@kingmark4233]

Men recognize quality women and Bam is it!!!❤

[@demetriusjames9535]

Traditional? 🥴 Y'all and this word salad...

[@marquitahatcher3561]

Are you married?

[@demetriusjames9535]

@@marquitahatcher3561 Yes, if you must know...

[@raheemjones3237]

@@marquitahatcher3561 She's not traditional

[@clarencedolan699]

Baby mamas and divorcees claim traditional, even though the only tradition they believe in is a man providing.

[@cyes1156]

Is "modern" a better word or description? Ughhh

[@RochellB46]

I’m confused she said she hates America and is moving somewhere in Africa but doesn’t want an African man 😂

[@Macbammer]

I definitely didn't say I hate America. I was over it and I love African men, Nigerians are typically my preference

[@1wmnofpraze]

When people are used to dysfunction of course she may be considered the issue. She just may be a good woman. Virgos are usually good people and loyal, I may be a little biased. They are helpful people and can be critical due to being a perfectionist. They don’t typically jump into things right away. They like to be sure so that’s probably why she is not married yet. I don’t know her however give her the benefit of the doubt. She is looking for the long term not just a fling. She was clear she was looking for her husband.

[@Iamabot2119]

You’re an idiot… I’m a Leo sun rising does that make me smarter? 😂😂

[@quixxx3]

The girl is very pretty but I do understand the comment of waiting to be 35 and talking about becoming a wife it is like a born-again situation where you don't want to build a family too late case in point my sister wait until she was 36 and is paying dearly for her choices instead of buckling down at a younger age it is tough on the body to be a parent at an older age

[@And1one757]

Yeah i know a couple where the women was 34 when they start trying for kids... she had so many miscarriages from 34 to 37 before finally getting one child out it... who was born prematurely and spent 2mo. In the hospital b4 going home

[@pretinha718]

Look at all the bitter and miserable dudes in the comments. Life isn't linear, some good ppl make it to ripe old age and don't marry anyone. That's like saying at age 40 you should be a millionaire. So judgemental and super critical. If you don't get no play in real life then say that lol.

[@And1one757]

Whatever you think about the man thats fine... but i see why see why women dont discern very well 🤔 you only want to see one-side of the coin... whatever you perceive as positive... makes it harder to get the full picture that way... no matter how critical it may seem

[@LucieVital]

I definitely do NOT want a man with a bad temper either. I experienced that and it only escalates. I wish her well in her search. 😊