She looks great! No kids, body builder. Wants a provider. Make at least $100K. She’s not doing 50/50

She looks great! No kids, body builder. Wants a provider. Make at least $100K. She’s not doing 50/50

[@carlcwms]

I was dumped partially due to my salary. Within a month after, I accepted two job offers I was waiting on-a $30k jump for the day job and an additional $20k working two nights a week. I got a newer ride and a condo. She tried to circle around. I declined. Now, my salary is 5x it was when she left and I’m living debt-free.

[@ronp-eb9bh]

Keep flying high ✈️ brother. Congrats.

[@Nature-ep5cu]

Here is your cookie and bottle 🍼 🍪. Let us know if u also brush your teeth daily so you get a cookie for that too.🧐🤭

[@cocolokoflacco]

​@Nature-ep5cu u definitely hurt🤣 same thing prolly happened to u now ya triggered

[@japhethodudu6445]

WELLDONE FOR NOT GOING BACK TO HER

[@PSYCHDEGREE63]

They always do that try to circle back around, especially when you level up two or three times, now they want you, Hell naw, you just stay over there ma'am 👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽

[@saranwright7113]

She’s has a nice toned physique. If she was obese y’all would still be complaining.

[@ShangHungxxx]

Lookin like a man is worse than being fat

[@uknowamsaying]

Masculine arms and shoulders is not a "nice toned physique" on a woman. Just like a beard is not a nice metrosexual feature in a woman. You women learn absolutely FA about what men want and like.

[@Fitman2024Wash]

Who's complaining

[@RR-iv3bd]

We don't want bodybuilders. If you think she's so hot, you marry her!!

[@carlosturner1608]

Who's complaining? We don't care. Good luck with her 100k only journey.

[@shermanscott2818]

I don't in believe in 50/50 unless split property estate,retirement and alimony 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Exactly! 😅🤣

[@Flash413]

Even then they don’t believe in 50/50. That’s all they can get.

[@sakpase88]

She straight and got no kids, know the chat going to say things but ppl will be sliding in them dm's

[@Matthew7.7]

She’s beautiful yes. But the body built is a over kill

[@ne9835]

Yup!!

[@OBLIVIOUSKARI]

Yeah man if this is not worth 100k, then people are just trying to complain. Last i heard, in shape, traditional, and no kids was what guys were saying a 100k+ man wants.

[@Flash413]

Every woman have men in her DM. That ain’t no flex

[@professionalpookie]

​@@OBLIVIOUSKARIshe's not traditional

[@nmmboy]

I’m not splitting the bills and lessening my financial burdens. I rather pay all these dang bills by myself and continue to wait for someone to allow me to not contribute. Idk how this sounds right in y’all heads 😂😂💀

[@Flash413]

She won’t pay 50% of the bills, yet she’ll pay 100% of her bills if she cannot find a man who is willing to pay 300% of his bills (100% his own, 100% of her bills, the rest for the family) And this makes sense to them 🙄🙄

[@shamrockshow8490]

Only broke men see a problem with it because you can’t afford to be a provider/head of household! But, y’all will never just admit it. Instead y’all try to use shaming tactics to get women (black women) to go 50/50. And, it works on a lot of black women. But, not the black women y’all want and find attractive 😂

[@nmmboy]

@@Flash413 Lol right? This is absurd. Her entitled self will be waiting forever for this situation 😂

[@brandonleemoss]

Like I said she's looking for a sponsorship,😮 she's literally a bodybuilder😂

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

They seen it on TV

[@zeezydoesit7416]

She’s around High Value Men all the time but none of them took her off the market in her 20’s😂😂😂

[@AmuMabasa]

That is totally on her... Women got higher standards than Harvard and MIT, that time Harvard is open to taking C students...So she thought the galaxy is the limit... So 99% of the men in her DM's didn't make the cut, some have crazy reasons to not wanna date a man. 6 to 7 figures, has his own business, reads, well raised, a cousin to the Rockerfellers and plays for the Los Angeles Laker Rams... Yes Laker Rams 😂😂... But because he is quiet or has big ears... Totally a turn off...Ohh and he can't cheat, despite the 4000 Women chasing him.

[@freethinkingMILF]

Maybe she wasn't looking for marriage her 20's. It's always, the man didn't pick, when women also have the power to pick. Making 100k doesn't automatically make you a good dude.

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Exactly! They all got what they wanted and tossed her back into the market.

[@patrickcalvary8384]

​@@freethinkingMILFWomen don't have the "power" to pick lol. If so she wouldn't be on here looking for a man. She'd pick him in her everyday life. Men hold the keys to relationships and marriage not women. Ya'll hold the keys to child birth and sex and you hold the keys to this L.

[@patrickcalvary8384]

​@@freethinkingMILF you're wrong, if women could pick then she wouldn't be on here looking for a man. She would pick one in her everyday life. Men hold the keys to relationships and marriage. Ya'll hold the keys to sex and child birth and you hold the keys to this L.

[@QueenDivineLove]

I'm convinced in this day in age ppl do not want love. I rarely hear anyone on the show seeking a partner that is compatible or share similar interest. It's literally the most important thing. If you like the person you with yall shouldnt have to spend a lot of money. Me and bae vacation 4-6 weeks out of the year and we make modest income. Honestly I enjoy him daily and he does not have to always spend money on me. Also he doesnt expect me to have a pound of makeup on or the flyest shit. Men complain but rarely want to be with a modest woman. Whew chile im just here for entertainment because these single ppl funny af 😂😂 and it never fails that we see or hear why they single.

[@Rosemary46840]

Vacationing 4-6 weeks out the year does NOT sound like a modest income or not spending allot of money that sounds Rich and would cost an arm leg n ear

[@DVX755]

Yeah its kinda sick.....love is not even on their lists.....

[@Coolsnacker]

@@Rosemary46840 What is your concept of a vacation? My wife and I have a lot of disposable income but we enjoy simple vacations like road trips.

[@miaq392]

You’re so right with men not liking modest women. They claim they do online, but in reality they don’t. Just like how they so call hate single moms but will still lay down with one and potentially get her pregnant lol these men😂🤦🏾‍♀️ They contradict themselves everyday. It’s all entertainment to me as well.

[@davnoble8472]

Because most people are not truly looking for love fr fr 😂just a partner to not be lonely and an easier life

[@Kurohabaki98]

Im really glad Kendra asked the question that involved her having to choose between the man that met the 100k requirement but didn't want monogamy and the man who didnt have the money but wanted the commitment. Answered my question as to why shes still single. Kind of a catch-22 scenario for her.

[@mewtwomotherfuka]

She didnt really answer the question. She said she would go with the guy making slightly less that can still afford a family. Basically she still choosing the best income guy. Never said she would be ok with the guy that requires a 2 income household.

[@candacewilliams3285]

I think that's so cute. The blue rose Kendra has for a necklace. That's different and cute. Shay knows what she wants. She's a nice young lady. Good luck to her.

[@buffalo.blackk]

Women have horrible taste in clothing in 2024. She looks like an idiot. When women used to dress for men they were classy and modest and did not wear random ratchet shit. They also didn’t wear the weaves and wigs and raptor claws and cumbrella fake eyelashes. Get you a traditional woman who dresses for men. Not a feminist who dresses for women and invariably ends up looking terrible, trashy, ratchet, promiscuous.

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

Yes, Kendra’s outfit looked great.

[@candacewilliams3285]

🙂👍

[@Flash413]

She ain’t doing 50/50. She’s doing 100/0. She’s paying all her bills by herself 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@bigsweet03]

💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@kevinlee9929]

Exactly. I don't think some people realize how ridiculous it sounds. Lol

[@ukan.536]

Something hurt your feelings??

[@Flash413]

@@ukan.536something clearly triggered you 😂

[@MrsRease2011]

@@Flash413😂

[@davep2867]

Security guards out here wilding

[@LadyLoveMsSunshine]

😂😂😂

[@mda0214]

Just say you don't got it

[@edwardjohnson759]

😂

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

😅🤣😅😅

[@Mortis33-o4b]

Natural hair, in shape and cooperative such a breath of fresh air for our community

[@JagnarLothbrok]

In shape? For what? Mr. Olympia? That girl is swole. That should never be a descriptive word for a lady. Lol. And it caused her to get big hideous plastic balloons in her pecks? Lol gtfoh. Where the prime Halle Berrys?????

[@Mortis33-o4b]

She is classy and well spoken hope she finds an amazing husband

[@richard2461956]

A sustainable house needs two incomes, thats why my girl has two jobs drizzle drizzle.

[@USNavyVet_STG]

😂🎉 You Go King! 👑

[@ChristopherJones-lt3le]

💀

[@serious7179]

Just silly😂😂😂

[@myronbourne6937]

💅💅

[@brandonleemoss]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@sakpase88]

Shout out to all my Zoe's 🇭🇹

[@joshuaguerrier7392]

🫡

[@TheMuscleMan2244]

I’m actually going to defend her on this one. Why are men getting mad that she wants a traditional man that pays the bills. Gentlemen, if you want a traditional woman you need to be a traditional man and that COSTS MONEY. Those women are going to want you to provide. She clearly is very attractive and wants to be in nurturing role, has no children, and wants to follow the man. What’s the problem fellas??

[@ellisallstar9501]

Only thing that would be a problem is her being on social media, 2 piece bikini, skin tight dresses, half naked, 90% naked if in competitions to promote her being a trainer.

[@Ripside2]

Because its not really traditional. If she was traditional she would be married by now.

[@candorsspot2775]

That is NOT traditional. Traditional is about roles. The main role is that a man is to 'rule over' his wife. That is the foundation of a traditional marriage. That man is to provide, but she is to work if need be. Absolutely at no point in the history of humanity did women not contribute economic work or income to the household. Her primary duty was to the home, and a man should be working HARD, but traditional is NOT a woman getting jacked in the gym while he pays for her 'supplements'. We men are too easily conned. Before you respond to anything a woman says you should assume it's deceptive and actually think about what the truth actually is. It's almost never what they say.

[@TheMuscleMan2244]

@@candorsspot2775 so because she works out, she’s not traditional?? So men want a woman with a banging body to be be a housewife, but when one comes along, you say she not traditional? Also, she LITERALLY said she wants to be a homemaker. WTF do some of y’all want then?

[@TheMuscleMan2244]

@@Ripside2HUH? She’s 29 with no kids. Was she suppose to be married at 19 to be considered traditional??

[@sakpase88]

Ppl always asking for money they not making

[@mda0214]

Man should want to be the provider

[@saje1988]

That doesn't mean $100,000​@@mda0214

[@plaedians8856]

You should be supporting your fellow Haitian. Ain't that your culture? Females deal with children and home while the man makes money? Tf? 50/50 is new age sh*t.

[@plaedians8856]

You're supposed to be supporting your fellow Haitian. Ain't that your culture? Females deal with the home and kids while the man makes money. It's not new.

[@professionalpookie]

​@@mda0214 provide for over used kewchie that other men got to play in for far less. Makes sense.....

[@FancyCapitalist]

She wants a man to be as traditional as her father, but I GUARANTEE you that she isn't as traditional as her mother

[@illoneson.5218]

and I guarantee she wasn't raised in a 100k household .

[@fistandpen2505]

she says she's willing to do her part and actually says she's traditional, so I think she got the right mindset. A modern woman will never fix her mouth to say she traditional, can't even lie on it. This lady seem cool, no red flags that I hear

[@shigreene13]

@@illoneson.5218so what did you think traditional meant? Y’all are literally ittyits 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shigreene13]

@@fistandpen2505these men try to outdo each other with stup!d comments, they don’t actually comprehend what’s being said, nor do they care 😂😂😂

[@shigreene13]

she literally led with how she’s traditional based on her haitian heritage. Tell us you’re a hoodlum with no cultural experience without telling us 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone]

A female bodybuilder has the same effect as a male ballet dancer.

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

😂😂😂😂

[@mrs.w8193]

For YOU! Because you can’t achieve that level of muscularity. You sound like a low key hater with gynecomastia aka Man boobs

[@GreyMann2]

That's one hell of a comparison!😅

[@blessing5173]

Facts 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@pixelgodsquad4942]

Yooooooooooooooooo😂😂😂

[@frostnova2144]

Now our Mr. 6 figures, in shape, industrious Alpha man has to ask himself "Do I want a fully grown dependent" 😂

[@MoorestylesWealthy]

They don’t want a young one either it’s millions of us young ones that’s not married the guilt trip ain’t working

[@randolphdukes5383]

Lol

[@Rosemary46840]

​@@MoorestylesWealthy exactly 💯 so

[@beyou-tvision]

She wants to birth dependent children who need to be taken care of financially, physically, and emotionally. What percentage of that is an alpha man willing to contribute? Furthermore, an alpha wanting a 50/50 arrangement is a beta.

[@trenditclips8897]

If he wants a traditional woman who wants to nurture kids and a home.

[@Nzazaaa]

As a traditional wife, I want to let the fellas know she is not traditional. Once your money runs out, so will her love.

[@Janniyahodge]

Good point 💯

[@USNavyVet_STG]

Men, don't throw shade then slide into her DMs. 😂 Stop it!

[@myronbourne6937]

Why not?

[@MoorestylesWealthy]

Right

[@ieo92]

Exactly lol

[@Iwantallmymoney2024]

There goes a fit woman and the XY's still in the comments complaining. 😂😂😂😂.

[@njpme]

I'm a dude wondering wth these dude want. Her body is sturdy asf.

[@myronbourne6937]

Bare minimum

[@augustbaby8254]

@@njpmeThey typically look amazing in covered fitted clothing but when those come off it’s a little mannish.

[@serious7179]

​@@myronbourne6937you are wack and bitter on every video

[@Rosemary46840]

Fr she is literally fit feminine and friendly like they say

[@brownmamba6538]

The women who require 100k are the ones least likely to get it.

[@Rosemary46840]

That's not true

[@radonspace2098]

@@Rosemary46840 it's true. Women should stop assuming they know what men want.

[@giftedimagesllc]

@@Rosemary46840it’s more true more times than not.

[@harryfisher2201]

So she want him to Carry the financial load I guess she Carrying💪🏾 everything else.

[@smoketaylor2885]

@@harryfisher2201😂😂😂

[@hardlessons9732]

By best friend is married. Her husband and herself is more like 65/35. Both work, take care of the kids and they are living life… There was a small hiccup where she didn’t work for 6 months but husband held it down. Ladies, you need to grow up

[@Simeon1212]

I totally agree & am on par with u. I’m a female with my own career & I do well for myself , bt I don’t understand why u can’t be educated & have something for yourself before marriage not only for your growth & development but your back up plan if something happens what u going do ?!?!? , he burdens all the financial responsibility , that is not a risk I’m willing to take especially with kids no .

[@elizabethclarke4981]

Personally I prefer to have my own job and not depend on anyone financially 100% because for one I like NY own money in my pocket and two things can happen and the man might die or get hurt, now what? Just some to think about

[@Mrs.704]

Women don’t want to help men pay bills. If he can’t pay bills he doesn’t deserve kids. Ya’ll messing up the game and not realizing men are doing the bare minimum because women are so desperate to help him be a man.

[@darrenthebuilder]

Nothing to do with growing up. A lot of men including myself prefer our women to raise our kids, which means they won’t be working so she is right in wanting someone who can provide 100% of the financial load

[@satob7690]

👏🏾👏🏾​@@darrenthebuilder

[@lorenathorpe8909]

It's so refreshing to finally see a level headed traditional person on this show.

[@julistar90]

Men don’t care about your career. Here is your traditional woman. 😅

[@myronbourne6937]

30 years old and unmarried isn't traditional

[@Kemet977]

Men don't care about your career, but want you to go 50/50 on bills? Sounds like they care a lot.

[@loveandlight_]

​@myronbourne6937 Some women will never settle just to say they're married. Some of yall marry just to look good on paper smh

[@Coolsnacker]

@@loveandlight_ And some women who men don't want will say that they are single because they refuse to settle. That happens quite a bit. Especially the women who blew off the man who they should have married, and now they see those years are moving pretty fast.

[@jailamink6489]

Men don’t care,but the first thing y’all ask is “ what do you do” stop the cap,yall shol aint gonna get a no one with no money,so y’all absolutely care

[@coreyflagge5850]

Let me say that I do not disagree with women that want 100% provider men. They should, especially if they qualify for that type of man. Only problem is that most women do not qualify, because they either have kids, are very masculine, or do not have wife skills. Also, for some reason women have been told that men making 60K cannot be 100% providers. 60K is more than enough to pay all the bills. Women are more concerned with LIFESTYLE, and that's the problem. Just think of all the money you save by cooking meals instead of going out alone. Why can't your 40K go toward the lifestyle you want to project to others? I wish women would just wake up to logical sense... my 60k pays all the bills... your 40k pays for lifestyle... but then again that women have been tricked into thinking that doing that is too much as well

[@RemIsNice]

Very true. It's a lifestyle issue. She is working 3 jobs and still doesn't make 100k. You would think she would see the value of a 70k+ man to take that burden off of her back.

[@ashleyisrael2701]

60k is enough to provide ONLY the necessities…what if the car break down, hospital bills, dentist bills… you gone b broke asl n even go in debt if you only making 60k…especially if you have kids

[@coreyflagge5850]

@@ashleyisrael2701 I don't know what you're trying to say, but in my scenario. The woman would only need to make 40K a year to supplement for lifestyle. Together they would easily be able to afford these EMERGENCIES, why do women go to extremes to prove a point? If you have to do that then you've already lost the argument. But to my point, y'all have tricked to believe that you should provide nothing to the family. That's why people who think like this deserve to be alone and pay ALL the bills by themselves.

[@coreyflagge5850]

@@Poised_Penelope your right and your wrong... I live in Georgia so 60K does go a lot further than say in California. However, that's not what my comment was about. In my scenario it's a combined 100k.

[@Coolsnacker]

@@ashleyisrael2701 If you have hospital bills and no insurance you are going to be broke even making 200k.

[@danieltucker632]

Women : traditional = I don’t pay bills

[@foxylady6901]

That's what a traditional woman was.

[@robinsnaturcrazedcreations5639]

That's how the dynamic works. My grandparents had that dynamic and married 65+ years my uncles my cousins are in that dynamic in their marriages they all keep God first and believe in the Devine Order . The woman has the option to work but it wasn't a requirement in any of their marriages and they are all still married. And the men all happily lead their household and the women play their role happily. If there are 2 people in the marriage who desire the same thing it's not as big of a deal as what people are making it

[@danieltucker632]

@@robinsnaturcrazedcreations5639 I think what’s being missed from my comment is that seems to be the only aspect of traditional ..folk are looking to sign up for

[@danieltucker632]

@@robinsnaturcrazedcreations5639 are you married ? Do you work ?

[@illoneson.5218]

​@@danieltucker632it is. that's the only part these chicks are interested in .

[@kingtchala6832]

I like her, she is beautiful to me!! Her requirements are not outrageous, she’s a natural beauty. My only kickback is her rationale for a 100k man and not going 50/50. That’s means you’ll continue to suffer and pay 100% of everything? That logically doesn’t make any sense. Additionally, ladies say they want to be provided for, in exchange they’ll do the cooking, cleaning etc. Single, adult men are already doing this and in some cases doing it better than women. Some of the best chefs and caterers are men, men can clean - with many having deep cleaning business. I’m not saying men don’t need women (we 100% do), but we need them less for the things they think we do.

[@Topself24]

I would date a guy who makes $50k. As long as he likes his job and fiscally responsible.

[@LadyVeee7878]

What city are y’all living in?

[@maevamakendi2598]

And?

[@Topself24]

I live in the DMV. It’s not expensive depending on lifestyle.

[@13ikea]

@@Topself24ummm.. DC is very expensive.

[@cutthechicken194]

50k can barely keep someone's head above water in California, MD or Spotsylvania VA.

[@fredm.2699]

⁠I’m not broke and I’m telling you….hearing the money requirement throws me off..why? Because when I graduated college, I made 0. Then I got a job and make some money, and now I make over 100k. What this means is that she wouldn’t give me a chance as I was coming up and making less than 100k but now my money is right…if I lose my job 3 years into our relationship, she will run for the hills…she wants the security that comes with a man

[@miaq392]

What’s wrong with a woman wanting security from her man?🤔Not saying the woman leaving is ok, but why is that such a problem for yall to provide?

[@fredm.2699]

@@miaq392 I’ll answer this question in the simplest way: women of late, past 5-10 years, have been demanding things…do you know what happens when you demand things that men generally have provided for 100K years without issue? Men start to wonder, what exactly are you guys adding or even bringing to the table? So then something that was never a debate becomes a debate: men are trading financial resources and risking self harm in exchange for a comfort buddy and a womb. As i said this was never an issue for men, yet somehow women demands are being made for an exchange that doesnt seem to make sense…and add that to the increasing divorce rate where women leave with half the assets and full custody is awarded to women. Again, the issue here is the making of demands in an area where men giving security and protection was never an issue. Here is the cold truth: women have tried to replace men with money, and that’s all that men hear all the time. So to then hear women still make demands of men’s resources, it doesnt make sense. I took my time to type all this out for you. If you respond with some bs like “nah that’s a lie” or “this isn’t true of all women” I’ll just leave you on read…yea its not true of all women…but those entitled women have poisoned the dating pool…it means men have to work harder to find the good women, and thr women have to work hard to show that theyre good…why? Because exchanging money and resources for “someone to talk” and this someone can take away half your resources, isn’t a fair deal in a world where women are bashing men. Nothing is ever true of EVERYONE! But when there is enough poor representation, even the good ones gotta work harder to dispel the bad rep caused by the bad ones. What i ask of you is to read this, digest it, and engage in some fruitful convo…not some bs questions or some shyt.

[@fredm.2699]

@@miaq392i typed out an elaborate response that seems didn’t push through. I’ll rephrase it and shorten it. The world has changed over the past 10-15 years. A certain movement has led women to bash men and to devalue their own womanhood. To a man, his wife has a certain role. It doesnt mean she isn’t the things that her role traditionally call for. To a woman, her husband has a certain role. It doesn’t mean he cant also do the things that the wife normally does. Well, the change that has happened is that, the roles that have largely been around for 100K years, have been devalued. Someone told women that a man is only a penis and that women can get their own money so they don’t need a man. This devalues men. Remember, over the past 20 years, women could always get the money meaning what has actually changed is their understanding of a man’s role in a relationship/marriage. The movement lef women to think all a man brings is money and dicc and therefore he is replaceable since you can get money and you def can get dicc anytime you want. This is how we end up with broken homes. Reality sets in sooner than later: you can go after money in your career but ultimately women need men, and men need women. What that movement taught women goes against another observation that has been around for 100K years: men generally prefer younger women and women use their youthful beauty to secure a good man. Whats then happening is that, the women who drank the cool aid are approaching their 30s and realizing they do need men (just like men meed women). However, this movement and its bashing of men has put men on alert. Does a girl like me for me coz she thinks I’ll be a great mate, father and husband? Or does she like me because i finally make over $90k in a low cost area ($185K in a high cost area), and if that’s the case, will she leave me in 15 years and take half of the wealth? Another truth that has been around for 100k years is that women love men with resources. However, its only recently (relatively speaking) that your marriage has a 70% chance of failure and a really good chance you’ll lose half the assets AND be paying child support or alimony. Men are getting a raw deal in marriage in those situations. So a man has to be really wise in picking bcoz a good number of these women are ruining it for the good women. Men have to work harder to discern wherher youre here for the money and experience, or youre here to build a family and be a cornerstone. I’ve taken time to type this out. Don’t respond with a dumb question like “oh so what youre saying is…” or send some response that doesnt take into account what i just typed. I’ll ignore it. It should be obvious that this is a generalization. It doesnt apply to all women or all men. I think majority of women are good. The problem is that men have to work harder finding these women because the bad ones tend to be everywhere.

[@jodezod]

@@miaq392 and what’s wrong with fortifying that security by you two becoming a team and attacking together?

[@moshoodabiola2896]

@@miaq392You turned a blind eye to the point he’s making just to portray your own view , he’s saying he doesn’t want a woman that wants him just because he’s successful and no man wants that , why is that difficult for you to grasp?

[@lightskindaimyo7830]

I’m a Powerlifter and I can understand why she probably hasn’t found someone at the gym. If you’re a strength athlete or bodybuilder the gym is like a second job and you don’t want to get tied up in dating where you work

[@mrs.w8193]

Exactly. But yet we still get hit on at the gym. I am married and occasionally get hit on. It’s annoying. I’m married and not ingested plus I’m just there to work out and get out.

[@Sass-wm9ng]

Feminine, fit, friendly, and natural, and yall still complaining in the comments. And she is young with no children

[@AkwaabaBroohm]

I’m married, my husband works, I work too (part-time) , we put our monies together, we both care for the kids, I mostly do the home cleaning and cooking but it’s always a joy when I do it. Together we almost make $350k, 80% from my husband’s income 😂. Not a day have I thought, let me stay home so he will pay for everything 😅. I love to cook for the family, I love that he is also hands on, every “cent” counts, in this day and age 😊

[@etuitivemillionaire]

I don't believe in 50/50. Let me translate: "If you ever stop working or fall on hard times I'm out!!!"

[@kevinlee9929]

Right. Life better not happen to the guy. Or "I'm gone" Lol

[@etuitivemillionaire]

As of march 2021 the percentage of married women who work and contribute is 69.8 percent.

[@ceasetheday87]

@@etuitivemillionaire o.O 👀 O.o Look at you coming through with the statistics.

[@etuitivemillionaire]

@@ceasetheday87 average WM make 52k plus average WW make 48k that's how they get a six figure lifestyle by cooperating with each other.

[@mda0214]

Why would any real man want to go 50/50?

[@EmpressChan77]

Shay seems like a decent girl, she looks great! And she's right a lot of Haitian men are definitely providers, my man is naturally like that, I just think hearing a woman say "you better provide" can be a turn off because we usually don't say that to men when dating in reality.

[@sakpase88]

True, no one like the demanding part or someone feeling they are entitled to your money

[@Matthew7.7]

You’re not built like a man. So don’t mind providing for a fit woman

[@bigace1556]

I live in Miami and I see otherwise. Stop the cap most have 2 incomes in the states. Haiti might be a different story

[@EmpressChan77]

@@bigace1556 idk what I said that was "cap" elaborate?

[@trenditclips8897]

He's saying off-the-boat Haitians or one's back home are providers but not the ones who mingle with American culture. Americanized ones have their woman working.

[@TheNaptyme]

From a physical standpoint she is perfect. She is absolutely beautiful.

[@mda0214]

A lot of people complaining. Why would any man want to go 50/50? That shit don't even sound right

[@mewtwomotherfuka]

Because since 2020 everything has doubled in price while everything thats being sold is getting smaller. If you wanna blame it on covid or biden its up to you. Facts still remain in 2019 you could rent a house for 1100 dollars. Now the same place is 1800.

[@cocolokoflacco]

women fought to be equal right??? now u get what u asked for

[@tvlover1492]

⁠@@cocolokoflaccothat was White American women who were tired of dealing with their misogynistic White American husbands. The feminist moment had NOTHING to do with Black American, Caribbean, or African women. Black women never had a choice on if they wanted to work or not. They were forced to work due to men being absent from the home.

[@cocolokoflacco]

@tvlover1492 bw made the choice to join whitewomen with the feminist movement so that's on black women

[@IOSALive]

Kendra G, This is fantastic! I subscribed because I love it!

[@KendraGMedia]

Yay! Thank you!

[@MikeyDavis]

Toned women 👍🏾 Brolic women 👎🏾

[@Matthew7.7]

Manly

[@LadyLoveMsSunshine]

Not brolic 😂😂😂

[@ceasetheday87]

*brolic,* adjective (bro•lic): having a muscular build similar to a Dragon Ball Z character

[@augustbaby8254]

@@ceasetheday87😂😂😂

[@LadyLoveMsSunshine]

@@ceasetheday87 hahaha

[@StarksTheKing]

I think she's good candidate. She won't be for everyone but, she'll be okay. Her dialogue was clear and concise. she almost buckled on the 100K requirement like most of them do when pressured by KG but, she explained her position.

[@str8visionatl]

Ive never heard a man say, i want a bodybuilding woman

[@IzzysDiaries97]

Always gonna fight to find a problem loll

[@ms.helpmeet4753]

Fit. ......... .......

[@Aceboogie83]

The best handjob I ever got was from a bodybuilder chick 🔥🔥😂

[@njpme]

Never heard it, but she look good. I have no complaints with some strong arm and thick thighs

[@chancexthexchief]

she’s in the gym & consistent - how is that a problem?

[@LeesaLilHop]

I met my man when he was living at home making 40k/year. He has 6x his income since and is allowing me to stay home once we have kids if I want to. Ladies, pick the MAN, not the salary. My father made 6 figures but my stepmom STILL had to work after having their son because he was just not the provider type.

[@RemIsNice]

I think she looks great and presented well. As someone else mentioned, there are a ton of men that don't make 100K that can provide. You just won't be living a luxury lifestyle.

[@joeyoung6287]

So I bust my butt going to school and working hard and as a result, I’m doing well for myself financially. Some of these women, they bust their butts, going to school and working hard only to look for a man so they don’t have to work anymore.

[@emailwells9557]

If they taking care of the home and kids it is a lot of work. When a woman turns a house into a home it definitely requires work. A loving home also produce better humans…. This is what our society is missing

[@joeyoung6287]

@@emailwells9557 I won’t argue this point with you. I think that most men don’t mind providing for their wives. For their families. But these chicks want a man to start providing for them during the dating period! Many of them profess to not want kids or don’t even know how to cook. So what exactly would they be doing at home folding and unfolding clothes

[@yungreem88]

Working 3 jobs and not making $100k but requesting $100k that's... I still hope she finds what she's looking for

[@k.alvarado6237]

Unpopular Opinion : 100k isn’t a lot of money.

[@comedyexposure3295]

Most americans make half of that so the us census says it is a lot of money

[@PSYCHDEGREE63]

What people fail to understand about 100k It looks good on paper, your take home them numbers looks way different, net and gross pay hits different The government will get theirs off the top, regardless of your deductions 100k is just a number they throw out, but their dream husband is going to bring home a lot less, them being a stay at home mom, the bills have to be slim slim, low low debt between the two

[@motivation-wz7qi]

The Caribbean hustler. If she was traditional, she would be settled by now. This is a pick me who has been studying red pill content.

[@stormship1647]

Really …I think she’s nice

[@AlvaroVelasquez-r4x]

It seems like her sugar daddy moved on 😂

[@rlmiller2010]

Only an older man would fall for this. You can't be a modern woman and expect men to be traditional; just being young and pretty doesn't always cut it; you also have to bring something that is tangible to the relationship. You can't keep bring the same talking points.

[@MoorestylesWealthy]

You must be broke

[@fredm.2699]

@@MoorestylesWealthyI’m not broke and I’m telling you….hearing the money requirement throws me off..why? Because when I graduated college, I made 0. Then I got a job and make some money, and now I make over 100k. What this means is that she wouldn’t give me a chance as I was coming up and making less than 100k but now my money is right…if I lose my job 3 years into our relationship, she will run for the hills…she wants the security that comes with a man

[@MoorestylesWealthy]

@@fredm.2699 well sounds like you need therapy from past trauma. All women want security, financially, physically, spiritually. Nothing is new. You sound butt hurt somebody must of not gave you a chance now your trying to play mind games in all women like you have to prove yourself nonsense. Go seek help

[@prettykitty5416]

@@fredm.2699NO woman prefers or wants a poor guy. A mans main purpose on earth is to provide security. Of course women will be looking for an escape plan if you fall on hard times. Would you hold her down if she gained 250 lbs, didn’t want to give up the 🐱, and wasn’t able to have kids? NO. You’d be looking to upgrade.

[@fredm.2699]

@@prettykitty5416 what point did you just make coz no, not all women will want to leave when times get tough. That’s why some get picked and others aren’t picked/married. Yes, no one PREFERS a poor man. But some people evaluate potential and ability to grow with that person, that’s who we want. If i know that a woman wouldnt accept me when i was 27 and making $85k but now wants me when I’m 30 and making $100K, i wont want that woman. Remember, we are talking $75-$150K salaries here meaning none of these people are poor. But that doesnt stop these woman from making it seem like a man not earning $100K is poor.

[@spencersmith9131]

I make over 100k and that's after taxes but when a woman starts talking about money requirement its the biggest turn off for me. The reason it's a turn off for me is because I had to work my ass off to get where I'm at. I spent years in the military and then went on to get my MBA and then i didn't start making over a 100k until i was in my late 30's so for you ladys that just want a man for his money just say it.

[@J_Abdi]

We have a similar background. You at 100%? 👀

[@darkhunk2]

Last time she was intimate was an hour ago with me 😂

[@PSYCHDEGREE63]

😮😮😮😮 well damn

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Beauty lady with no kids. Handled the questions superbly. She chose the financial aspect of traditional and trashed the rest of them. Sounds about modern. I hope she knows she won't be able to fully control the dynamic of the relationship with this "high producing" man. That's likely why she's around those but they don't take her seriously. I know she attracts these men but she's not be able to keep any of them for a reason. This isn't strictly her but working and building with a man doesn't mean you start from scratch. Maybe you work to set yourself up to a point where he's able to go from 50/50 to 100/0 in 3-5 years. It's unfortunate but every relationship will take some work. These ladies want their vision of their desired life from a man immediately. Just saying. Wishing her the best!

[@JamesWilliams-jx8fc]

They always mention 100k but never mention they want to be loved. U know that L word that keep hearts beating

[@lilredddd4507]

It’s not about love anymore, it’s about money

[@hrf1954]

All of these broke men wasting time in the comments complaining and insulting this woman instead of going out and making more money. Sad

[@cocolokoflacco]

the men who make more money still don't want yall lol

[@hrf1954]

@@cocolokoflacco Look at you, filled with jealousy and poverty. Sad

[@adjamaica]

I guarantee you..all the pookies that hit, ain't making over 40k😂

[@David-ep7uv]

May I ask a question out of pure ignorance….so the man “They” desire…making over 100K…this is person is at least mid 30s or older….now…typically…those men already have kids…or don’t want them….so…what exactly would she be doing as far as….”taking care of the household”?? No kids there, she doesn’t have any special cooking skills…so I’m just curious what they mean by “Taking care of the house”??? People who make that kind of money….we work 80hr weeks…so we don’t have time to “mess up” our home…..

[@coreyflagge5850]

so true, I work 60 hrs a week minimum, what you doing, in the meantime?

[@beyou-tvision]

Birthing and taking care of you, your home, and your children physically and emotionally.

[@pickmeisha]

My husband works like 80+ a week and we are child free. When he’s home he is definitely making a mess. Aside from my workouts, I spend my time DAILY cleaning, cooking, and managing our home. He doesn’t know there’s a leak in the basement or the outdoor lanterns are out or the refrigerator is not making ice or there’s a wasp nest over the garage, but I do… Im his calendar, reminder alarm and backup driver, whatever he needs. This is just an example of what a woman should be doing.

[@coreyflagge5850]

@@beyou-tvision he literally said no kids, but you put that in anyways...😒🙄

[@fredm.2699]

They want the relationship where they’re trophy wives, can talk to their friends all day, have girl dates during the day, run a side business on the side…and here is the hammer: since this type of arrangement isn’t quite common amongst her friends and family, after 15-20 years, she’ll take half of everything.

[@howards1017]

Women these days better learn, if you're with a man who's self sufficient you're on his time not the other way around. Providing and protecting just to get a cute chick and a home cook meal is not only a rip off but manipulation at it's core.

[@foxylady6901]

Well then stay single

[@cocolokoflacco]

​@@foxylady6901nah we have movements like passport bros....we always adapt, yall can stay single tho

[@Ajack1710]

I don't know what makes people think they're entitled to someone else's resources. Lady why couldn't you find another bodybuilder in the gym?

[@JustBree716]

I think she's great but ladies it's not a flex to say your around hvm regularly. Im around fancy cars but i can't afford one. Lol. But i really do wish her well. Again she's got some good things going for her.

[@coreyflagge5850]

everything she has got, is running out soon, she chose to be an athlete, their careers are short, and very competitive. She's about to be 30. When is she going to learn to be a wife? She wants a ready made man, while she learns on the job? Who is taking that deal?

[@bruceleeroy8302]

Exactly. Don’t brag about working at the Bentley dealership when you have a bus pass and trying to get a loan for a Chevy

[@winojones47]

There’s a historical context to why men have been labeled as providers, but today’s financial landscape is markedly different. Society has progressed, with women assuming leadership roles. For instance, the Vice President of the United States is a woman, as was the former President of Liberia, President Sirleaf, among others. But wanting to be seen as an equal, but wanting to be dependent on someone is absurd.

[@yomomma8237]

After watching this…. I don’t think most of men know what they actually want….

[@bandkaih]

Most just spew red pill talking points while cosplaying as something they're not in real life. Pathetic really

[@_astraeus_9045]

How dare men not want a masculine bodybuilder woman who’s femininity and cooperation is dependent on his money . She’s like 99% of the women that come on here just says it in a pleasant way. Nobody worth his salt is wanting this except desperate men

[@jailamink6489]

They don’t,and a lot of them just want to come try to make women feel away about themselves because they lives aren’t all that,just a bunch of trolls,old fat bald men with no life.

[@illoneson.5218]

and we know women don't know what traditional is they just want a luxury lifestyle

[@cocolokoflacco]

when did men say they like muscular women???

[@13ikea]

Y’all say y’all want a traditional woman but when they come on here y’all bash them.

[@Tamiko.L.K]

Thisssssss part 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Lance-pn3wk]

I personally don't want a traditional woman

[@justlurkin]

Nah, it's really women say they want a traditional man and men are telling them they need to be a traditional woman to deserve that. Men typically don't really trip over wanting the 1950s traditional ideal from their partner as much as women do. That ideal doesn't even make sense in this era socially and economically. Me personally, I can do either but what I will not do is give a modern woman a traditional lifestyle. She must take her traditional risks and responsibilities and have a traditional resume the same way I would have to.

[@myronbourne6937]

She's not traditional.

[@bigace1556]

No man now and days wants a traditional woman only older men and barely them. Nah bae get a job and pay bills with me. 90% of yall not traditional, not virgins, can’t cook or clean. Let’s be realistic and have multiple baby daddies. Stop with the nonsense you spewing

[@Bebedollie]

Her body is beautiful ❤

[@IK_4]

All these issues of a limited number of men making 100k+ wouldn't be as much of an issue if black women would stop limiting themselves to black men. It literally makes no sense for black women to do that.

[@Coolsnacker]

🤣😅😅🤣😆😆😅🤣😂😂

[@TamunoOpuboCooksCookeyGam]

I really want all black women to be open to all races. They do, get their delusions laughed out, then come back.

[@theengineered1949]

To be fair she said no 50/50. But she didn’t say that she wouldn’t contribute

[@poeticwisdom3]

She seems fit, pretty and freindly. Great interview.

[@poeticwisdom3]

@@dee27206 I say something positive, and who is hating, women like you. Go touch grass.

[@Coolsnacker]

@@dee27206 Who is y'all? And why do you assure that all men believe the same thing? Perhaps he didn't include feminine because most men don't see bodybuilding women as that. That said, she doesn't seem to be juicing as much as the previous IFBB woman who was on. Her face has not gotten hard yet.

[@TAHJ1987]

We been having alotta bodybuilders in here lately...interesting...I see alot of women getting into it...well I guess fit, feminine, and friendly...blessings to this one

[@dentreveal3820]

Nice teeth, beautiful smile. She is a unicorn b/c she does not have any kids compare to 99% of babymamas that come on this show.

[@marsournexthome]

I agree with Kendra. I think if any woman on this show that would qualify for all the things ALL these women ask for, it would be her... With that said, I REALLY dont think you women realize what's going on in the world right now. Do many black people watch the economy? Did you see that the Dow dropped 400 points last week in a day? You know why? Fears of inflation going further up. And with fears of a widening war in the Middle East with Iran attacking Isreal, it will further impact the economy. In this economy, you better have as many people in the household making as much as you can, cause it is already rough and about to get rougher... This fantasy that modern women want to live in just DOES NOT EXIST right now. Sprinkle sprinkle that...

[@c3servicesofatl]

They also think that just because their mother was a stay at home mom 30 years ago that they can be one too, not even taking into consideration that her mother was NOT a bodybuilder AND the cost to live now compared to back then is not even close by comparison.

[@BrandonBooks]

Also are these women willing to downgrade lifestyle if only the man is working? No trips, small house/apartment, no luxuries…

[@darylsmith7495]

A 35-year-old doctor, that wakes up at 4 o’clock every morning to go, jogging and walk the dog more than likely he is married, already preparing for his first child. She will probably have to catch him at 42 after his demented wife divorces him. Keep your fingers crossed. Focus her attention on medical students that are 25 or 26 years old.

[@alleng526]

Come on Haitian Zoes!! I like her but I think she may need another fitness buff (I think she’d look amazing with someone on her wave length). A regular guy might be intimidated if he tries to establish order she’ll put him in a WWE sharpshooter or Rock Bottom. 😂 All jokes aside she has great energy

[@BA-vv1gy]

I like that she doesn’t want a man with children. If more young women made this their standard they’d avoid some of the shenanigans with baby mamas etc. raise the standards!!

[@BA-vv1gy]

However, you can look for a provider and also be a provider yourself! Work hard women! Stop looking for a man to support your entire life. It’s obviously not very common to get that AND an honest, faithful, committed man so make sure you find purpose in life so you’re never dependent on another person for the lifestyle you desire.

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Comments wildn, this is a catch if Ive ever seen one. Pick up a weight yall. She would definitely be getting a dm if she was in my area. 9/10

[@_astraeus_9045]

Most men don’t like women built like this lol. But most men don’t like fat women either , men are allowed to have preferences, which is why men prefer other women over her😂

[@TinaB111]

She is well spoken, well put together and has no children but has a polarizing look body wise. She may eliminate some men with the qualities she requires...

[@augustbaby8254]

She looks and sounds like a boy and perhaps this may be the reason why she’s polarizing to you.

[@MrRevil3]

She's definitely top tier for this show. Her issue is gonna be the submission and dating history. I wish her luck, she's got the best chance yet.

[@LOSTGPS]

If she doesn't want to do 50:50 that's her decision but the real question is can she get a man that's 100:0. She is already 29 so she should've been found that guy in her early to mid twenties.

[@trenditclips8897]

True or she may just stay single and decide not to have kids like other women these days. But at least she still holds traditional values. Hopefully, someone marries her before she decides having kids ain't for her.

[@pickmeisha]

The thing is you can’t lead with all this. The man who will take care of you has to simply WANT you, no conversation should be had. Telling him what HE needs to do will have him move on…and she is already on the struggle bus shaped like a slim refrigerator.

[@trenditclips8897]

@pickmeisha No disrespect, but most of us think she looks good. Maybe too muscular for some, but still fit.

[@handheldlover4004]

Naw speak for yourself homie! That broad is a straight swap donkey, and for sure is not traditional; sleeping around but not requiring that person or those people to reach her 100k demand. Hence not wanting to state when she was last intimate. And I'm a native Floridian born and raised in Tampa Florida, where she isn't even considered a 4 on a scale from 1-10. You're just a simp.

[@pickmeisha]

@@trenditclips8897 its cool…what Im ultimately saying is she’s asking for a lot given the lack of curves, softness and the face card. Fit is great, but she’d already have ‘him’ by now if going on looks alone.

[@UpdatedView]

From a married man, feel free to indefinitely hold out for a relationship setup that 90% of women currently aspire to obtain. The 90-95% of women that “deserve” this setup will need to seek out a gentleman that earns at least $300k. When you calculate maxing out both retirements, kids’ college funds and bridge accounts to outpace inflation, these expenses alone add up to $90k pre-tax. Social security will become obsolete. I think this dynamic can certainly work for most people if you plan to not invest and rely solely on social security. If not, your spouses’ income should be utilized for retirement accounts at the least. The $300k unmarried man is probably 0.50% of “all” men. Just a thought 🤔

[@acunatdoc1]

She is not going to be a traditional wife…

[@ne9835]

How do you know that?

[@hotindecember1951]

Did you take your blood pressure pills today?

[@loveyourfitnessevolution9166]

@@hotindecember1951😅

[@hardlessons9732]

Nothing about her screams traditional.

[@zeezydoesit7416]

@@ne9835because she’s not mentioning anything that she would suggest that she’s as a traditional wife.

[@dizzik6751]

This lovely young lady hasn’t displayed any red flags, yet these losers in the comment are still bitter lol. Y’all pathetic fr

[@etuitivemillionaire]

That's always seemed so ridiculous to me, that people want to be around someone because they're pretty. It's like picking your breakfeast cereals based on color instead of taste. John Green, Paper Towns

[@jodezod]

😂

[@bks7889]

very nice girl , the one statement that didn't sit right is "im not interested in potential" think that is an unfair statement to say all things considered

[@anthonysmith3094]

It’s interesting you have male and female bodybuilders and they are not attracted that much to each other and always be with someone who is in shape but not necessarily a bodybuilder like themselves. I like my woman with very soft skin and very very feminine and in good shape but not like a bodybuilder.

[@mrs.w8193]

Who told you that? We are attracted to muscular people, however the public is overweight to obese and have Dad bods, we are in the minority. . It’s much harder to find a man or woman who is as athletic as we are. It is what it is

[@trenditclips8897]

She's proper and knows what she wants.

[@maia3420]

She’s cute, but the profession is something to think about. Personal trainers, both female and male are notoriously extremely promiscuous. There’s always exceptions but if your woman is a flight attendant, bartender or nurse, don’t be surprised. If your man is a DJ, bouncer, truck driver, or also a bartender, again don’t be surprised. These professions give you an unnaturally high amount of exposure to the right (or wrong) people for that to easily happen. She could be an angel, but a 6 figure man is likely not going to be happy if she’s a personal trainer. He will 100% deal with her but not wife up.

[@IWantMyVisionBack]

She said online trainer

[@Iwantallmymoney2024]

Yall always have a problem. 😂😂😂. She is the 3 F and still. So what profession should a woman have to date a high value man??? 😂😂😂😂

[@LOSTGPS]

@@IWantMyVisionBack last time I checked most people meet online nowadays..

[@maia3420]

@@IWantMyVisionBack Online trainer is the same thing. And for the record most of them will still take clients irl because they meet them when they train at the gym themselves.

[@troybrown9241]

Who gon tell her that hard bodied bodybuilding women are not cute?

[@dondattaford5593]

Mam don't settle your 100 percent by yourself stay that way

[@Blissedx]

Why is she still single? Should def be open to dating non-black men. Great body soft spoken natural and employed. She’s a catch ❤

[@JustBree716]

Good catch. She may have to be flexible on the money part. But very good presentation

[@brandonleemoss]

She's Young when she gets in her 30s she's going to have to reconsider😂 I have a friend who is a bodybuilder and I know exactly what she's trying to do she's literally looking for a sponsorship! It's actually really expensive to be a bodybuilder, and to be perfectly Frank the guy is going to need probably a lot more than just a 100K to feasibly date her and take care of his bills and take care of all of her bills as well. It's a very expensive profession😮 The supplements The food The chiropractor bills The medical bills Her car His car Her expenses Is expensive Yeah..🥵

[@coreyflagge5850]

Why is the standard for men so low?... No kids, presents well... that's bare minimum... I guess even geniuses can't be perfect. Her entitlement is a huge turn off.

[@Gree1060]

When modern women say traditional they mean they don't want to pay for anything. None of the other stuff

[@MikeyDavis]

Kendra look like Taraji here.

[@IzzysDiaries97]

I see it a lil bit lol they could be distant cousins

[@ShawntrellM]

My mother is a Stay home wife, & my daddy is the provider. I work, but my husband pays the most expensive bills . What works for others may not work for you. She doesn't wanna work as a wife.She wiĺ be married in no time.

[@candorsspot2775]

Simple. A wife is to work if the husband believes it to be necessary. But that has nothing to do with 50/50. The husband should be doing the heavy lifting when it comes to income.

[@Mrs.704]

A lot of women have no choice but to work and help out with the bills. The men these woman attract don’t make enough to cover all the bills.

[@melvinbarnes6652]

She did a good job of articulating the reason she wants a $100K man and she is right, too have a traditional family requires about $100K. Of course, she shot herself in the foot by waiting until 29 to start looking for a husband. She could have been building with a man all this time, instead she wants one already made and baby girl, those men have options. The good news is she is cute, banging body, great smile, classy and no kids. I think she has a shot but she has to be serious and careful not to waste her time with men who are searching for wives.

[@bigace1556]

No you don’t I was making 45k when I had my family and never struggled I make 100k now and have plenty of investments and disposable income. Point is if money is managed correctly you can raise a family off of 44-60k easily

[@melvinbarnes6652]

@@bigace1556 in Jacksonville Florida, $50k is barely enough for one person to live comfortable. And by comfortable I mean an apartment in a safe neighborhood along with a car payment and the capability to contribute to investments. Add in a couple of kids and a housewife, and you will need around $100k to live comfortably in 2024, especially if you are at the beginning stages.

[@c3servicesofatl]

Banging body? Stop it. Call it what it is. She’s built like the man she wants and $100k men don’t usually wife bodybuilders who claim they want a traditional man yet they come online showing off their body in an untraditional manner. Not even being subtle about it. Screaming for attention with that dress. What $100k man is trying to wife that, seriously?

[@Mrs.704]

@@bigace1556this is true. My husband made around 50k and was able to buy us a brand new house, new car and send our daughter to private school. After all of that we still have enough money saved away. The 6 figure couples I know of are in deep debt and have no emergency savings.

[@jodezod]

@@bigace1556 they are not focused on managing money, more so a certain lifestyle lol

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

I wanted the Kendra cam as soon as it came on

[@missvalisha]

This is not directed at this young lady, but she said something that triggered a thought. She mentioned wanting someone who maintains a healthy lifestyle and I just want to say we as a society have to be mindful of what we call healthy. Just because someone works out doesn’t mean they are healthy…some people work out to extremes, because of body dysmorphia and put strains on their organs and bodies that would not be considered healthy.

[@njpme]

Look at you going for the extreme. She's talking someone that moves their body. You don't have to be a body builder, just not a couch potato

[@LadyVeee7878]

And with all that being said a obese person is STILL not healthy lol

[@chefdh]

I think shes being reasonable. Shes pretty...no kids fit seems friendly...and feminie

[@irvinkaleb]

I wonder how many bodies she has to claim she has traditional values...

[@bruceleeroy8302]

Yeah, the way she dodged that sex question… If I were in her DMs, I’d want to know about her past relationships

[@mr_credentials]

@@bruceleeroy8302 This new generation of women in their 30s are going to learn the hard way that their body count is the reason they will never get a ring.

[@irvinkaleb]

@bruceleeroy8302 I agree. I usually take it as a bad sign if they don't want to say.. with them knowing it matters to men now. Especially with good reason

[@foxylady6901]

Ladies are quiet and discreet. Talking about seggsual experiences online is not lady-like nor is it feminine. Yall really want women to be men and its terrible.

[@jenniejones7213]

Stop sugar coating sht just say you want to be a stay at home wife

[@IK_4]

And mom.

[@Lance-pn3wk]

She is around those 100k men yet she isnt with one

[@jeffreyjohnson4400]

Allegedly, she is amongst them, they see her AND they are all choosing to pass on the 'opportunity'. She is fit, though.

[@valeska8630]

I honestly don’t know any decent man who honestly would let their wife pay majority of the bills idk why women emphasize that so much

[@candorsspot2775]

Exactly. It's a tip off to the type of men they deal with. It's a huge red flag.