“She Put a Tracker on My Car": Taylor Reveals Dark Truth of Parental Alienation

In this eye-opening episode, Taylor shares her deeply personal story of growing up as an alienated child. From early experiences of competition between her parents to the long-lasting psychological impacts on her life, Taylor provides a candid look into life under a manipulative parent’s thumb.
Her journey is a testament to the strength of the human spirit: from survival family courts as a child-being forced to choose between her parents-alienation tactics, forced liposuction treatment, medical abuse, physical abuse from her step-dad, leaving home early, and her eventual reconnection with her father… Taylor’s story offers valuable insights into the severe effects of parental alienation.
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[@samcarrs]

I love how you both are overcoming your abuse and not continuing it generationally. I have been through all this too as a child and now as an adult and father. The government is horrible and also to blame for condoning this sadistic behavior. As a child 11 years old, I was the scapegoat and sent off to boys homes by my mother. My dad was the bad guy and my mom and step dad would show me the 38 revolver they had waiting for him. My brother was put on add meds and sister did whatever she wanted, mostly gone. I am an alienated father now because I was unaware of narcissism until 7 years ago.My x was acting so crazy and i thought it was postpartum depression but I was wrong unfortunately. My X lied in a restraining order and took everything but the fight in me. After my divorce I moved to Washington state where my kids and x moved to. My X and mother work against me together to alienate, which i have to admit tears my heart out. I am down in the pit these past years, and am fighting for my children with all my heart. I wish I never had to deal with these narcissists again and I understand why parents give up and go away, especially considering the corrupt feminist court systems. I have been in court too many times it is very draining in all ways. My x wife’s dad is retired Cop Sargent which should have been red flags. Luckily my kids love me. We must keep exposing the narcissist and staying in the good fight! And not to leave the children trapped with these horrible people, but to educate them on abuse so they don’t become abusers, and be the loving parent they deserve. God bless the abused!

[@bryanharrell4059]

@@samcarrs Thank you for sharing your story, too. And please keep on. It's so important that the ones who've been through it and understand be heard by those who have no idea how the family court system incentivizes, enables, and rewards Parental Alienation. PA and how the winner take all family court system is designed to use one parents behavior to extract as much money and any generational wealth away from children and already troubled families to enrich attorneys and pad state coffers has to be interjected into political discussions this election season. Let's encourage each other to attend and/or call into any public political forums where candidates are to ask them where they stand on a judicial mandate for 50/50 equal custody when a child has 2 capable and willing parents. Ask candidates where they stand on Robert Garza's "Time Taken Time Back" bill. @Madi can't do all the heavy lifting. We have to also help her and others by engaging with, sharing and platforming this content. It's crucial because we are now experiencing a generational epidemic.

[@Dobermanmomma]

My mother made a bunch of lies about my father in the 90s before the courts were privy to such a thing. I vaguely remember him trying to fight for his father's rights without much money and without the internet in the 90s. As a result, I lost my father in one day when I was 14 years old. What blows my mind is I lost my father the same way it would have been if he abruptly died, but NOBODY EVER understood I went through such a great, devastating loss. I lost him due to my mom's lies and vengeance during a critical stage of my development at 14 yet I was old enough to have an established bond with him! My Dad was the good parent, my mom was a monster. My father and I were very close. He loved me, but my mom hated me and still does to this day. I still wonder what life would be like if I had my Dad around. I know he would have helped me get into college at 18 which my mom didn't. I was on my own the weekend after high school graduation to abruptly "figure it out" similar to how she abruptly abandoned my Dad. She really is a monster and my Dad is innocent. Damn y'all hit something in me. I haven't thought about this in a long time.

[@ParentalAlienationAwareness]

I'm so sorry to hear about the consequences you've endured. 😢 I'm so worried for our three kids who got ripped of their dad (me) six years ago. I'm in Sweden, so this is a global problem for kids and former spouses. Hugs from Stockholm, Sweden 🤗❤🇸🇪

[@carloswindows6030]

It is a global epidemic. The courts Bank on it with child support and alimony. The states who don't punish those who commit parental alienation are complicit.

[@UnifiedPAIN]

My amazing young friend. Your strength is so important and your story hit my gut. I feel powerless after years fighting a foreign battle. Before this I'd never been in trouble now I've been locked as a terrorist on a foreign cell, beaten and ankle tagged. Given time when I must stay "home" or go to a foreign prison, no one helps, this is no acciden, but i know your dad done everything in his power. You think Nothing would be big enough to break you but the courts use time and money, you loose everything get close but they get you and make men pay, its so sad,. Yet ee have hope with kind and courageous men like you (and these ladies are needed). We will help children suffering today and that will become your support. I believe in you and thank you for taking your time to write and be heard. Good man

[@ma3alimezo82]

My ex wife is trying to erase me from my 8 year old sons life. I am fighting all her insane lies and exaggerations. This child thinks his mother is a saint. He has no idea what she is doing in the court's. False allegations to keep us apart as much as possible. I'm fighting hard to stay there.woth him. The school are onto her though. They have an idea she is a monster of a person.

[@ma3alimezo82]

I am sorry for what you went through. I am. I apologize for talking about my issue first and not giving due regard to your story first. I am in pain also and must remember others are in pain too.

[@michaelmorales3844]

I have two teenagers that have been alienated from me by their mother. It has been the most awful thing to experience in my life. There have been parents that have literally committed suicide because of parental alienation and it is an insidious and very evil thing to do to children and loving parents. I think what you are doing here is VERY timely and effective. I've only become aware of your channel the last couple of days and I am extremely impressed. Keep killing it girl! You are really helping parents and children with what you are doing here. Peace and blessing to you. You have my support, thoughts and my prayers. God bless you.

[@johnrubio330]

So sorry!

[@ParentalAlienationAwareness]

I've said this before, but your stories from the alienated kids perspective is SO important as the society doesn't believe/listen to alienated parents. "Society" just CAN'T understand that a child can cut out a parent without THAT parent must have made something terrible, when it's the apparently "good" parent who's the perpetrator. 😢

[@micmic5247]

Thank you both! You are giants.

[@dr.marnihillfoderaro1064]

Madi…I totally related to your analogy with the train periodically going off the track. This is such a painful journey. I’m in my 60’s and have done my best to create a positive life for myself despite the familial and marital abuse and alienation I’ve experienced, but there are definitely times I have to address the raw pain of it all. Writing really does help, but the trauma has and does take its toll. I can’t even imagine the emotional pain our 29-year-old daughter has gone through. I pray she learns about Parental Alienation and will contact me so she can heal. It’s been over a decade without being in each other’s lives. It may take what you addressed in a previous video… a “catalyst event” where she learns about the significant lies she’s been told, to wake her up to the real truth. Taylor Jones…you are so articulate and strong. You say that it’s up to the targeted parent to reach out. I wish I could. The Alienator has used our daughter to engage in silver bullet law fare to punish me for escaping and I cannot risk my freedom. I think about her every day and wish I could connect with her. The sadness, and inability to protect her from this abuse, is the worst feeling. She’s also been isolated and kept from her brother for many years.

[@dr.marnihillfoderaro1064]

So glad you both connected and are sharing your stories. Your voices matter and do resonate with so many of us adult child survivors, who later ended up being targeted parents. The courts contribute to the alienation and should never put kids on the stand. My younger brothers and I unfortunately experienced this. Alienators are so abusive and until we awaken to their tactics, we can’t stop the intergenerational alienation. Stay strong and keep healing! Much love to you both. 💕🙏🏼😃📚

[@sonianeves2464]

Hope your feeling better. Thank you so much for what you do ❤️

[@HatBilly2008]

The Doctors who write out the prescriptions, the psychologist that agrees with the PA, they should be held accountable in enabling the abuse. Background checks for the medical treatment. Does the autistic kid have a single parent? Where there are PPO’s against the targeted parent . Is the targeted parent saying the kid doesn’t need the medicine. Has a forensic psychologist skilled in parental alienation signed off that the kid needs the medicine. Yeah, our medical system needs to be updated. My son has autism and is now on medication . And I believe my x wife is PA to him. Same as your story today. Thank you great channel.

[@Mjciampi22]

The damage one person can cause.

[@gs-rz9zs]

Exactly, FAMILIES have known for Centuries...usually moms are the source of most Parent or family disruptions. Because system is terrible & family rights are wrongly not allowed to address, speak. Family Rights should always be big part. Supreme Court MUFFED that. More.

[@bryanharrell4059]

Keep telling your story Taylor! This is THE most important voice in the PA conversation as parents (mostly fathers) have lost their voice and no longer considered important in a child's life. @Madi is doing the most important work of our lifetime. Support, engage and platform this channel and children of PA voices as much as possible. This HAS to be the conversation during this political season.

[@justliftit7866]

As an alienated father, I echo your comment. "Deadbeat dad" is what we are labeled as, but no one is willing to look into the absolute hell the system puts a father through. It is far too easy for a mother to use the system, cry like she is abused, create an atmosphere of fear in the kids, and alienate a father. I know the system does the same to mothers too, but I can only speak to my experience. No one would listen to me.

[@gs-rz9zs]

❤ EXACTLY...Maddi & Taylor are helping Many Kids & Families...

[@jankennethlunde6653]

Fantastic!! ❤❤❤ I’m dad for 3 kids. Zero contact for daughter in 9 years, son in 8 years. Same mom 😓

[@justinbruere]

@@jankennethlunde6653 how long has it been and what was the reason you are not allowed to see your kids?

[@jkw__]

Thank you both so much for sharing and exposing this very real crisis. Please don't ever take down your videos. They're so so important and can and will help so many people. ❤ 🙏

[@samcarrs]

Amen

[@gs-rz9zs]

❤

[@jeffgolden253]

To Taylor: Your dad doesn't have to adopt you to get your stepfather's name off your birth certificate. In fact, I don't think adoption would do it. I don't know what state you're in, but ... Check with Vital Statistics first, but I think you can just apply to the court to have your birth certificate "corrected," and ask them to order a DNA paternity test to prove that your dad is your dad. Here in New Jersey, we have used a court-ordered DNA test to get Vital Statistics to put a dad's name on a birth certificate when the (non-married) mother didn't want it there.

[@moldogs3421]

Thank you! Bless you both! Keep shining that light!!!!!!!!!

[@gs-rz9zs]

❤

[@vickipurcell6738]

Thank you so much for this. My life fragments are starting to make sense and be more cohesive since ive atarted on my healing journey. I suffered SA physical and emotional abuse at thr hands of my adopted family. At the age of 58, i have finally walked away from their control. Not only that, but my narc mother then made me get married at 17 because i had cuased thrm disgrace by getting pregnant. That marriahe should never have happened. The birth triggered all my issues and i had a breakdown. In the 80s, MH was a stigma so no treatment was avalibale. As a reult, my husband cast me out and alienated my children. I havent seen them or my grandkids in 40 years. I wake up someday and just wonder what is my purpose asbi feel so alone and broken.

[@bryanharrell4059]

@@vickipurcell6738 Heartbreaking. I am so sorry. Your voice and story is so important. Thank you for sharing..

[@EMILY4DAYS]

Parental alienation made me feel unlovable long-term. It's caused a lot of lifelong issues, and this type of abuse changes the way our brains develop.

[@gs-rz9zs]

@@EMILY4DAYS Agree, that Abuse- Alienation is Emotional, Mental, & Family Abuses. That's why it's Criminal & absurd that Politicians & lawyers & state services deny or ignore it. But I think Kids & Adults can be healed from much of it by right conditions & Love. Because Families can heal much of it. Glad you are open about it

[@HatBilly2008]

Thanks!

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

You bet!

[@forumicebreaker]

Great perspectives from you both, as always!

[@justinbruere]

I feel for each of you who have been alienated. I am/was a targeted parent. My ex did tell my oldest that I didn't want her when she was born... 😢 so sad. My story is a very complex story but I can say this: I fought for my kids. I fought for years through covid. Forensic psychologist got involved. In the end... 4 years of battles, four years of lies, four years of false child protective services reports (CPS told my ex not to call again because of her false charges and if she did they would press charges: she worked around them). In the end I had custody flipped from every other weekend to where I got primary physical custody an legal custody of my four kids. My oldest was Pathologically PA'd. From 14 years old. Horrible thing my ex did to her... 😢

[@bryanharrell4059]

@@justinbruereI can't imagine the cost of this. It's heartbreaking the amount funds (now and future (that were sucked away from your child's (and your) financial well being to enrich the players involved. It's a decent outcome (50/50 would be ideal if she'd stop the alienation. Can I ask you to comment any thing you did that actually was paid attention to that the court actually listened to and agreed with? This seems like a rate scenario and other than spending copious amounts of money it would be helpful for parents to know what actually worked. Thank you for sharing and please continue to share everywhere.

[@justinbruere]

@@bryanharrell4059 I have a list. I have been asked to write a book 🤣🤣 I laugh because I can't cry or get upset anymore. It takes away from me raising my three other children. 1) forensic psychologist that understands PA 2) a lawyer who understands PA 3) get a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL). Preferably one who understands PA but this may take education as a GAL is assigned not picked. 4) keep good records of everything. Keep your record keeping and documentation (process) from your kids. You don't want their curiosity getting the best of them. 5) record phone calls with your ex and the phone calls that tour kids have with your ex. Only do this of you know there is a single party law in your state. My state yes. And recording your kids on your phone is allowed. It's your phone and they are minors. 6) prepare for the sexual charges (silver bullets) or abuse or dangerous man. Prepare by keeping yourself composed, sober, and shielded. When I was married I would give baths to all my kids. It was "my job".. so I would take off my shirt and me and the kids would splash and have fun. My youngest told her mother dad had his shirt off when I was getting a bath. She called cps... I didn't see my kids for 2 months. They grouped all of them. All 4. So: don't do the things you used to do that was you being close to your kids until everything is settled out. (This one wasn't PA specific but it feeds the NARC) 7) if you can do it. And the forensic psychologist asked the court for it so it had to be done: get psychological evaluation of your daughter and the alienator. You probably will have to get one done yourself but when mine was done it helped me understand more. Long test. 3 hrs. Really can tell if someone lies, is a liar, fits, has a personality disorder. NARC... I mean it dives deep. My daughter and my psychological profile were so close it was hard to tell the difference. And this strikes hard because she (daughter) was not behaving like herself. She was behaving like her mother. Her mother's psychological evaluation came back with a personality disorder. Delusional Personality- Persecutory Type (there are multiple types) . Never would have known she had this going on. High points. Everyone else is out to get her. They persecute her and those that she cares about. And because of that she will persecute the targeted parent so badly that she uses her kids to do it. But it is because her reality is different than others. You cannot tell it in most cases because she will not say what is different. So as my daughter got the onslaught of her mother's childhood trauma she was also brought into her mother's Delusional personality. With all the paranoia. Look the kid mother still thinks to this day that I am tracking her movements or spying on her at home. Her narcissistic personality believes that I still want to know about her and her wearabouts. 8) always let the kids know you hope they have a good time at the other parents house. And when they come back ask them what was fun about their time. Then if you get some type of feedback that you can tell is brainwashing the kids you can ask them an open ended question. Like. Mom said you used to be scary when you lived with us. You ask "do you believe I am scary?" Keep track of EVERYTHING they say without them knowing your keeping track of it. This is key. You have to become a master of data collection behind the kids back. You want to be successful at keeping them from being alienated? You need to do this. I had people pull things from my ex FB page that when my lawyer put it in front of her on the stand she lost her mind. And the judge was not happy with what was presented. The data part is key. Records convos instances. Keep records. This was influential for me as I went from a JV court who was biased against me because of my gender and out of safety kept my alienated child from seeing me with the other kids. To 50/50 where my alienated child was on the same schedule (and she was mad. And took it out on me; she was a parrot of her mother) to where the collusion and deceitful behavior awarded me primary physical and full legal custody of all four. And force my alienated child to spend most of her time with me for the last 2 years before she turned 18. My alienated child was then kidnapped for the last 2 weeks before she turned 18 by her mother. I filed and had her appear in front of a judge to explain herself. She brought my alienated daughter. (Sick woman I tell you). Judge threw it out but my ex was on notice. You try and alienated our kids from me; unfortunately for her she learned I won't let that happen again.

[@justinbruere]

@@bryanharrell4059 and you mentioned cost... emotionally my oldest is so confused. Lost herself. I believe she realized what happened to her. After rejecting me for so long and enmeshed with her mother, she moved in with her mother at 18. It took her 9 months and she moved out and is living with her friend at her friend's parents house. The word is my daughter told some of her friends and others that her mother abused her. Not her dad, her mother..... I believe in my heart my daughter who is a gifted child was smart enough and gained some self awareness when she turned 18 that she did some research. And found that yes her mother was abusive. She took her father from her. And now she doesn't have the strength to talk to me. I send her emails telling her I love her, her siblings miss her. Went like this. And this is important. Always find a way to tell your kid you are there for them and you still love them. Snail mail. Email. Voicemail. Carrier pigeon. Friend pigeon. Just tell them. Face to face is best and when I didnsee her and she rejected me I still told her. "Just checking in with you. Wanting to let you know if you need to talk or need something, let me know and I can see what I can do. X, B and especially C misses you. I miss you. I love you A. I am proud of you; you have a job, you're making plans with your life. You are growing into someone you want to be. I am here for you. I have always been here for you. I'll check in with you again soon. I love you A"

[@KC-jr6zs]

41:00, After the age of 14 if you leave and don't want to return to an abusive parent than the police can't force a child back to the same home. Also, you can be an affidavit to say what happened to you. I noticed most people don't seem to know this.

[@PiscesSun24]

They have a fear of abandonment and need control and they’re evil cruel selfish people. Grandmother sold her beach house to keep me from my kids. Then my ex is in rehab I get my kids back. The grandmother and father went at me until my children hardly care about me and I barely see them. My little girl was put on Ritalin. Now it makes sense. And yes they took my kids to all kinds of doctors to find anything take out her tonsils she’s dyslexic she’s math incompetent I’m not kidding. I need a miracle it seems

[@jeffgolden253]

Taylor: Get your own health insurance. If you are on your mother's insurance, she gets the EOBs for every time you go to a doctor, and she knows what doctors you are going to and what you are being treated for.

[@bryanharrell4059]

@@jeffgolden253 Can 9 ask what EOBs are? So.3 type of benefits, I guess. And why it's important. I feel like this could be a good point.

[@jeffgolden253]

@@bryanharrell4059 EOB = "Explanation of Benefits". Its the report the health insurer sends to the policyholder every month reporting what they paid, to who, and for what.

[@KeepingUpWithTheJonesFL]

Hey! It's Taylor! I am married and have been on my husband's insurance for almost 12 years! I have cut off every part and access to my mother. I even changed my name :)

[@jeffgolden253]

I want to thank Madi and Taylor for this video, and for "talking about it" 50:40 My theory is that the reason why more people victimized by parental alienation are talking about it now is the backlash from the glut of divorces beginning in about 1970 as a result of the "women's rights" movement. It wasn't until the 2000s that people began to get smart enough to just not get married. There was always parental alienation. Its just that there wasn't enough for it to be "discovered" until the early 1980s. The former victims we hear talking now are the kids that were born from those marriages in the 70s and 80s that ended in divorce in the 90s and 2000s.

[@KC-jr6zs]

Also, during the 70's, couples going to marriage therapy were told the wife didn't have to work on anything. My mother in law was crying over green beans. My father in law didn't hit her or mentally abuse her. He never even talked trash about her. They divorced year's ago. She's still talking about green beans and the day he found a deal for a family of four. But some how it's a negative. Reality, she shows all the signs of NPD.

[@MonicaGriego22]

Moms just want things their way because they didn't get it as a child. So they thought they would get it from their children.

[@MonicaGriego22]

The attachment to your mother will never change or leave your body. This is for everyone in the world. No time or distance will stop it.

[@gs-rz9zs]

Many Many Kids are just as bonded or More to their Dad- & that is Healthier & normal, to 1 Parent bonding.

[@KC-jr6zs]

​@@gs-rz9zsExactly. Sometimes jealousy for being the ethical but more liked parent. They can't even be loving enough to do the right thing for the child. Why not try to be happy for the child? Instead, creating issues. It's sad.

[@gs-rz9zs]

False. Perhaps half the prebirth bonding to the mom is physical, but Kids are 50-50 genetics, FOREVER, & when Parent Dad is close or regular relationship w Parent Mom, nature is double bonding WHICH IS MUCH BETTER & Stronger for the Kids. Dad & Mom bonded Kids have better social actions & easy to see.... It is a Feminist or momma Lie that the bond to the mom is more important. Dad raised kids from birth are as well equipped.

[@gs-rz9zs]

@@KC-jr6zs Right...Jealousies...& Ethics are handled by Good or Wise Families & Parents. Those are normal & happen in kids, & Wise Parents or Families can teach better. Yes, ethical & balanced relationships are not taught in many 1 Parent, 2 Generation, or sometimes small families, state services, schools, Medias. There is no substitute for Wise or Ethical Families & Parents.

[@MonicaGriego22]

@@gs-rz9zs not false. Because the mother carried that child in her womb for nine months. That child ate everything she ate,and drank everything she drank,and felt all of the emotions that she felt,and all the pains she felt. If she laughed,the baby laughed too. There was so much attachment. Something the father can never do. But if the father took care of the baby after she or he was sent home from the hospital,then the father-child attachment begun. In my situation,my ex husband didn't bathe our daughters when they were babies. He claimed that he didn't know how to. But the truth is that he refused to put down his gaming controller 🎮 and be a real Father to our children. Now that they are grown, he wants to parent them however he chooses without being charged with child sexual abuse and abandonment so far, CPS won't charge him for nothing no matter what Esmeralda has admitted.

[@chuckp6667]

I just can't stop being disturbed by this "I still love them" . Listening to a whole story about these people torturing and abusing children and often absolutely destroying the child's other parent. I sit here completely destroyed medically, financially and emotionally. I am constantly struggling with the never ending thoughts about the child who I raised, played with, taught, laughed and worked so hard for and after all that suffering for both of us, to hear an adult talk about still loving that pure evil is just heart breaking. I'm not saying hate or attack but why would someone who would do that to so many and be completely unapologetically, even the opposite, continuing to be abusive deserve anything even close to love?. They should be punished, jailed for their heinous crimes, held accountable not loved. I honestly think it is extremely unhealthy and a by-product of years of torturing manipulation. I know I didn't convey my thoughts well in writing and I'm having a bad day but what I think I'm trying to say is I don't get it. I'm any other case if a person was still talking about loving their abuser that would be consider to be in healthy but I don't know, I hardly understand anything anymore. This is absolutely not meant as an attack, I'm just confused.

[@KeepingUpWithTheJonesFL]

@chuckp6667 Hey! I am Taylor Jones! I would like to explain a little more. I love a version of my mom that doesn't exist. My mother is a narcissist and encapable of love. I have this image of what my mother should be like and act, but I know reality is she will never be who I need. I forgive her in a sense that she also has childhood trauma from her parents that trickled down to me, but I'll never forget what she did to me, and I'll never stop talking about it. Hope this helps!

[@chuckp6667]

@@KeepingUpWithTheJonesFL I think I understand that and I hope you didn't take my comment as an attack or judgement. Like I said I'm in a bad place and it just made me think of what would be said if comments of love were made about other kinds of abuse I'm not going to list. I am angry and if it seemed like I was directing it at you I'm sorry. I was talking to my kiddo for a while and it has stopped again, like I've heard happens. I was more thinking along the lines of you mentioning Munchausen by proxy but Stockholm syndrome instead. My father was almost certainly a narcissist so I understand the idea of trying to love a version of a parent that never existed. Sorry if I offended.

[@chuckp6667]

@@KeepingUpWithTheJonesFL I'm pretty angry also and I know it's not good. So many years of trying so hard only to fail my kiddo and for her to think who knows what about me. I'm angry that my health issues mean I will never be able to reconcile and I'm very scared of what that might do to her if she starts to realize what she lost and all she has left is a borderline mother to rely on.

[@moldogs3421]

I too was disturbed hearing her say she'll always love her abuser. But think about it...she never knew her father at all. Never knew the love of a real father. She still can only imagine what her abuser robbed her of. She can never conceive of the anguish alienated parents endure unless her spouse alienates her children from her. That she expresses love for her abuser is a tribute to her good heart. If you still have breath in your body you still have the ability to give the unconditional love your child so desperately needs.

[@chuckp6667]

@@moldogs3421 I think you are probably right, like Taylor replied it's the idea of a good mother she loves. I still try, in anyway I can, to show my daughter the unconditional love I've always had and always will have for her it's just that I have a problem ruminating and constantly thinking about her future and how she will handle it because she is really nice and caring outside of the manipulation. She worries about me and I don't know how to console her, seeing me in the ICU and my injuries has not been good for her and it shows. I'm just really worried and I hope she finds the wisdom I have seen from Madison too get away so I think when I hear things like loving the abuser I overreact. Hopefully my explanation to Taylor made it clear that I wasn't trying to say anything bad just knee jerk reacting to the idea. I'm sorry about my poor communication skills and being so angry doesn't help. I was able to keep it together for a long time but it just overtook me after a while. Seeing how despicable she could be to me was one thing but watching her take away her own child's time with someone she knows is so sick that they don't have much chance of even seeing their child as an adult just absolutely disgusts me. I sent my daughter one of these videos in the hope that when she is an adult she will find her way more quickly and not have to spend so much time trying to figure it all out. She has already been hurt so much by seeing a parent kept alive by machines... I'm sorry, I'm rambling I'm just so angry thinking about what has been taken from my daughter and overwhelmed by the thoughts of it all having a continuing negative impact on her for the rest of her life and I won't be there to help or to tell her it's ok. Sorry

[@concious.co-parent16]

The future can't thank you enough.

[@gs-rz9zs]

❤

[@concious.co-parent16]

@@gs-rz9zs best wishes warmest regards to you and yours 💙🪂🤝

[@TerenceKearns]

when one parent uses the force of the state to prevent the other parent from seeing a child, then that child is effectively their PROPERTY. Because property (that in which you hold ownership) is a claim to the use of the state's force to enforce exclusivity. People need to grok this concept so they can act as a community to end this. Remember, slavery can only happen if people can treat other people like property. There's not a whole hell of a lot of difference when it comes to possessive behavior that disregards the needs and wellbeing of the child. At the very least, it is THEFT that is going on. One parent is stealing the other parent from the child - stealing them out of their life - stealing memories that go unmade.

[@anti-narc]

You have to keep your videos up your like so many kids only Chance - I’m sure it’s so many out afraid to follow You publicly but probably Look you up regularly

[@AvocadoRoyalty]

Father’s that alienate children from their mothers do similar things & children have a right to grow up with both parents involved & one parent robbing a child of that right is criminal. Also when stepparents get involved & start alienating the children from their biological parents this is criminal behavior too because a child should never have to be placed in a position where they hear the stepparents criticizing the absent parent.

[@gs-rz9zs]

❤EXACTLY. Because the BAD laws & System DONT KNOW FAMILIES, they just collect a salary. & Families have to show how to mend & ease the kids, because 1 Parent (90% moms...) can not do it. Bad System is making money on breaking or controling families or kids...

[@bryanharrell4059]

@@AvocadoRoyalty Good point and completely agree. We need to work towards a judicial mandate of automatic 50/50 physical custody when there are 2 willing and capable parents. We need to take away any incentives for parents to do this to children.

[@KC-jr6zs]

Often one parent has NPD or BPD. This gets in the way of a parent being an adult and working together with the other parent. I noticed they create malicious problems instead and drag and mislead family and the courts just to get their way. That's more important than working together with their ex on behalf of the child. That's going to have to get worked out as well. I imagine 50:50 would end up a problem because of this placated parent.

[@gs-rz9zs]

@@KC-jr6zs Good point, but most times of Abuse-Alienation, clearly the Bad laws or Incompetent fcourt..., have caused/ enabled Abuse- Alienation to occur- not 1 Parent. Once Bad Parent Time opinion or No just consequences for Offenses starts, Bad Fcourts & lawyers FAIL to correct cause $$$$$ or Control. That's how 9 of 10 Fcourt cases FAILS & Abuses Kids & Families. It's NOT the Parents & individual behavior is usually not the Problem. Bad laws & lawyer behavior the real Crime.

[@KC-jr6zs]

45:00, Taylor, looking for a down fall on your marriage. Talk about a negative influence, if you really were to consider what she has to say. I eloped. I didn't want to make what should be positive wonderful day into a day of drama and trying to dilute a spiritual bond. Making you choose between her and your dad. She doesn't have to be there if she's just going to make it about her. People need to stop placating that. I've seen people leave their marriages based on a childish mother in law or father in law. And family can be idiots too and help. Good for you Taylor. I appreciate you saying something about this. Thank you.✨🍀🙏💗

[@sarabxyz]

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[@shonehi546tim9]

The courts forcing children to make a choice is stupid. This is exactly what the alienator wants because they can't lose either way. If the child chooses them, it reinforces the Alienation. If the child chooses the other parent, the child is a traitor and they can become the victim and gaslight.

[@lupitat6698]

Like love is transactional.. so sorry 😢

[@forumicebreaker]

Yes. I don't know Taylor's mom but she sounds just like my ex-ing me wife. "Like love is transactional" Yes. These people exist out there. And sadly, it isn't a "like it is" thing, with these people it is exactly a transactional thing. Always.

[@plainbobnat]

My son’s father would say to him that I wanted to abort him and I only wanted a daughter. All lies.

[@concious.co-parent16]

I wonder if EMDR would help child survivors.

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

It’s helped me a ton!!

[@concious.co-parent16]

@@TheAnti-AlienationProject you deserve the best!

[@alegoricha]

I am an alienated parent and it has helped me

[@concious.co-parent16]

@@alegoricha best wishes warmest regards to you and yours. Thank you for sharing. I start next week.

[@rv3022]

There are also narcisists fathers.