She’s Using Me 😔 Feeling Some Type of Way, She Has No Voice!

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Desmond Cassell

Desmond Cassell

Күн бұрын

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@AmirDavis-thagod
@AmirDavis-thagod 4 ай бұрын
Man this was a lot to watch. I hope y’all don’t go back down that road. Keep it positive and mature. Remember your kids are watching and listening.
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
Agree.
@vanessadelacruz2040
@vanessadelacruz2040 4 ай бұрын
I wonder about that, like what do the kids think? Seeing their parents all happy living together but not together? I hope they figure out their next plan cuz that's gotta confuse the kids.
@blair1588
@blair1588 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for your transparency and sharing small parts of your life May God bless you and your family ♥️☮️🙏🏽
@melissaclement9318
@melissaclement9318 4 ай бұрын
One I like how you try to comfort her when she felt sad, Two you can apologize at the same time when she say how she was hurt instead of saying you did it too just an observation Baby steps at a time 🎉🎉 get the life of the Cassells back 🎉🎉
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
@@melissaclement9318 Great response. One day at a time. Thank you for commenting
@SweetNina
@SweetNina 4 ай бұрын
I agree!!!
@PatienceRobles
@PatienceRobles 4 ай бұрын
You don't owe no one an explanation. I'm proud of both yall and both of yalls growth! #stayblessed
@ITSKARENBABY
@ITSKARENBABY 4 ай бұрын
I believe she will give it a shot again with you, There is too many ppl in her ear by me saying that it's people on the internet that are writing comments - Dez this Dez that, don't go back because it will happen again blah blah. This is ya'll life , do what your heart wants not what the internet is telling you to do. Wish y'all the Best❤
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
@AceMafia-hf1pm
@AceMafia-hf1pm 4 ай бұрын
Kiara wants to be back with Dez. Dez said time and time again, she won't treat him the same again, in a relationship. Why push for a reconciliation, when both parties are in agreement. Kiara doesn't want to date again, which means she wants Dez back. If he goes back, it will be back guilt not love. Kiara needs to speak with a therapist, instead of putting her feelings in a plate of food. She's always feeding her face with food and anger.
@AceMafia-hf1pm
@AceMafia-hf1pm 4 ай бұрын
If Dez had his own place, he wouldn't be in her face 24/7. I wish Kiara would see that.
@cwilliams7284
@cwilliams7284 4 ай бұрын
Kobe has the SWEETEST voice ever. 💙
@TaurusVibezz20
@TaurusVibezz20 4 ай бұрын
You both have an understanding. Both parents are caring for the household. You’re helping one another and it’s a win/win for everyone including the kids. Those who are mature adults truly understand and those who don’t grow up.
@AllThingsNaturalHair
@AllThingsNaturalHair 4 ай бұрын
Well said, I couldn't have said it better. I totally agree with your comment.
@erinwalls5924
@erinwalls5924 4 ай бұрын
Yall are doing what needs to be done, what’s best for yall!! I love the growth and how yall are PUTTING YOUR KIDS FIRST!! Very inspiring keep up the fantastic work ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! We all love all children very much
@rodrzlex3760
@rodrzlex3760 4 ай бұрын
Thats what a man does.You do whats right for your kids..Kiara is a awsome woman (mom 1st)and if God makes it happen as to ya getting back AMEN IM TEAM Family..and i want ya to be back ..God is working🤗🙏
@Beautifulbutterfly25
@Beautifulbutterfly25 3 ай бұрын
It’s difficult to explain to people who are broken and haven’t healed their own childhood wounds. Both of you are healing and both have valid reasons. This is so healthy that you both are allowing all the children to see you putting issues aside for them.
@clopez917
@clopez917 4 ай бұрын
Desmond please don't take the comments to heart unless they are positive! You two are the only ones who have all the information you need to work through your lives. Some people have not been in your position to be commenting about you and yours so read the harsh comments or don't and keep it moving it's not worth the stress. Strengthen your mental and you'll move on. I'm praying for you n the family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽💯💪🏽
@elizabethwhite4237
@elizabethwhite4237 4 ай бұрын
United we stand divided we fall u both r doing a great job making things work for your family keep up the good work ❤
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Big up! Great comment. Thank you 🙏🏾
@jadedone4237
@jadedone4237 4 ай бұрын
I love the fact all these babies wanna be outside. We had little kids playing on the street yesterday, and I absolutely loved hearing it. Kids were just being kids...like they're supposed to be.
@bridgettewilliford8438
@bridgettewilliford8438 4 ай бұрын
Believe it or not I have been through the same thing and things can work out. The key is communication. We are still together 40 years and still going strong
@sdw8116
@sdw8116 4 ай бұрын
You don't have to explain yourself, but you are doing good for yourself and your family
@Ladiebug427
@Ladiebug427 4 ай бұрын
Keep doing what you’re doing Des! Keep growing to become a better man and father! Life will fall into place. Allow Keira to feel allow her to be Keira. She says she’s changed but that video her old self came through and you saw how she broke down. She hasn’t let go of the hurt, betrayal she felt with you until now. Keep supporting her and being there for her. She needs to be wanted and given time to heal. Your fucking awesome! You’ve changed so much for the better!
@michellejones8234
@michellejones8234 4 ай бұрын
You're doing a great job with co-parenting with Kiara I appreciate the relationship that you guys have, and I must say that I'm rooting for y'all to get back together❤😊
@Margie717
@Margie717 3 ай бұрын
*NO ONE IS PERFECT , some people think they are experts when it comes to others' personal lives. Des, pay no mind, stay consistent, and stay true to yourself. We only need to be straight with God. Everyone else can kick rocks.
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 3 ай бұрын
Facts and more facts!!!! Thank you for being a part of our community.
@justbeingme3548
@justbeingme3548 4 ай бұрын
I feel like you’re doing what’s right for your family .
@MarjorieGreen-l2n
@MarjorieGreen-l2n 3 ай бұрын
Hey des !!! One time at a time & go on dates with her in just show her cause she still wants you . Its just the hurt she can't get over. Bring back the life of cassell back. Just pray about it 😊
@bonniechase
@bonniechase 4 ай бұрын
I love seeing your family doing things with the kids. I can see the love between you and Kiara. I know as a woman, we think and feel differently from men. I know when a man and woman go thru a rough patch. Women need to know that when you listen you really hear them, the hurt and pain is more difficult to get over because as women we're very vulnerable. Men also feel pain. They don't always need the same type of validation for their feelings however they do want you to understand their feelings as men. If it's meant to be, you'll find your way back to One another as a couple. The important thing is you remain good , respectful and kind, after all you're going to be at events with your kids for the rest of their lives. God bless your family. I love that you're both good people.🥰
@cherylsampson5472
@cherylsampson5472 4 ай бұрын
Your changes will speak for themselves. 😊
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 Thank you
@venuscancel6656
@venuscancel6656 4 ай бұрын
I love how real and transparent Dez is and how he is trying to see this man cry on camera just says a lot, we are all human ..... praying 🙏 for the best for them
@marianoble5477
@marianoble5477 4 ай бұрын
Dez, I’m hate that you can’t truly express yourself, without feeling you will lose your family again. Much love to you and keke❤🙏🏽
@cherylslife
@cherylslife 4 ай бұрын
And she loves you , she is very afraid i know the feeling. Keep loving on each other! Keep making them baby happy all of them! Thank you for sharing your life with us....❤❤❤❤
@maryjobah761
@maryjobah761 4 ай бұрын
You both are awesome parents. ❤
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@cherylslife
@cherylslife 4 ай бұрын
Ignore them demons about the using thing! It's your reasonable service as a great dad! People with a low mindset are crazy. keep doing what you're doing. She deserves it! Happy mom, happy kids!!
@elizabethmason4702
@elizabethmason4702 4 ай бұрын
Ugh how happy should you be with where you and your children are. Proud of yall. How beautiful ❤
@donnab2863
@donnab2863 4 ай бұрын
I pretty much have to make my children’s dad see his kids just so I can have a break. Dez, you are doing good and continue to improve. Forget everything and everyone who doesn’t see it
@cokeytate6022
@cokeytate6022 4 ай бұрын
@donnab my Son Dad walked out his life nothing we did I allowed him to see his Son whenever with no problems🤡Dez a very Great Dad💙I wish my Son Dad was in his life and there for him🤬Dez I couldn't do nothing but say "I Know That's Right"💯
@cokeytate6022
@cokeytate6022 4 ай бұрын
I love how you take time out to take your kid's to the park to get out the house and have fun🤍🤎💙
@natashajoseph-deleon6572
@natashajoseph-deleon6572 4 ай бұрын
I see growth in both you and Kiara. Only God knows what the future holds. Continue to heal and grow. The children are definitely responding positively to having both parents in the home. Stay positive and continue to keep communication on a higher level. 🙏🏽😊💕🇨🇦🇯🇲🇹🇹
@kimhenderson5616
@kimhenderson5616 4 ай бұрын
I really enjoy watching both 9of you two channel Kiara have a beautiful loving and supportive family after everything you all been through and for giving family . I remember it was rough for you all so happy everyone have came together for the kids i ❤️ it.
@Phillygurl31
@Phillygurl31 4 ай бұрын
It came to me that you should do photography do weddings baby showers gender reveals anniversary and date night photos on the beach and make money doing so. You have a talent you did it for the army why not do it for yourself it’s very lucrative 😊
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Funny because I was just emailed about some possible opportunities
@Lifewithnieemah
@Lifewithnieemah 4 ай бұрын
Hey, Desmond, sending love and positivity to your family. I watched the video and I have a different point of view about it. I see that there was mistakes made and I see that you both regret a lot of things but I also see love and growth in the both of you. I can tell that everyone is much happier with you there. You guys are doing great. I prayed for you guys to get in this space. Never mind what the negative people say or their opinions . Do what feels right to you both and let God handle the rest.These conversations between the both of you needed to be had and thank you for sharing that with us. I support both of you and your blended family. Whatever you guys choose down the road to be together or not is entirely up to you guys. ❤
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Hi and thank you for this comment. This is definitely a journey and I’m grateful for the opportunity
@Reynax4
@Reynax4 4 ай бұрын
I swear some people read the room at a 3rd grade level smh... That's ridiculous, you're not being used... You're just doing your job as a Father! You're both doing a great job! #teamwork
@bonniechase
@bonniechase 4 ай бұрын
Dez, please don't let the negative comments put you in a bad mood. This is your life and clearly your family is important to you. Let's be honest you could be with another woman, paying bills and moving forward. I'm looking at growth from you and Kiara. The example you guys are for your children with the living situation is great. I also see love between you. I know from life's experiences, if I don't value and love a person. I will not shed a tear, you can't make me cry unless I genuinely care about you. So like I said it's clear that you were both hurt after everything you went through. Please always remember to be kind, respectful and loving to one another. You're a provider and a great father. Romantically involved or not, you will always be a family unit. People seem to forget you and Kiara will always be family. You have children.🥰
@marilynthorn2530
@marilynthorn2530 4 ай бұрын
Dezz don't worry about what's out there you both are sharing about your relationship. The marriage and the divorce side. It's called growth.
@cynthialyman1319
@cynthialyman1319 4 ай бұрын
Thanks dez for saying that abot zaykia and coreys mom they have not said or did anything to anyone and i respect that
@barbaragamble2612
@barbaragamble2612 4 ай бұрын
Des you continue to show her your growth and she is continuing her growth, who knows where it might go in the future. I been watching yall since Texas and she was hurt deeply from what transpired so she got her guard up still!! I do believe both of you truly love one another and I know yall love your children and it will all work out. You continue to show your growth and she growing and figuring out who she is and what she wants and don’t want out of life and a relationship. That doesn’t mean yall can’t and want make it work out one day. She has to know that she completely trust you again and feel safe with you and I think she will see that you are trying and growing! It’s definitely possible so don’t give up if it don’t work when you want it to work just continue moving forward!😌
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Much love. This was a great response the video! ❤️🙏🏾
@jessicazuniga6164
@jessicazuniga6164 4 ай бұрын
You’re doing great! Keep it up!! Proud of y’all!!
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🙏🏾
@snugglybear7379
@snugglybear7379 4 ай бұрын
You and your X keep working out she does give you a chance back in her life stay together work out things between one other communication number and life one person not feeling it ask them what's going on talk out that's guys no what's both needs and life make better between one other she good woman you get know like her she one of kind😊
@deniseanderson6404
@deniseanderson6404 3 ай бұрын
Hi Desmond, I can see a big change in you from your other channels. My oldest Son will be 43 years old in September. I have some experience with males I'm Mother to three adult males only. Our house was NO stinky girls allowed a house lol long long time ago. I think you're being genuine your heart is more open Y'all got this♥🙌👐👐 🙏
@deborahlong9281
@deborahlong9281 4 ай бұрын
I love where you guys are at today with each other. It’s so beautiful to see. Just keep being a gentleman to her and dating her. Continue keeping the communication strong and open with her. I think she will eventually come around. You guys probably will end up together again. ❤
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
We shall see. I’m just grateful for everything that has happened for me and for us.
@cynthialyman1319
@cynthialyman1319 4 ай бұрын
I like how Dez respects all his childrens mothers he has love for them all that's what you call good parenting too from all of them good man dez
@FamSquad9315
@FamSquad9315 4 ай бұрын
💯 Correct that nobody is perfect!! I think alot of people in the world forget that and that they're shit stinks too!
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Oh they definitely forget l. I have no problem reminding them
@xoxoxAlex
@xoxoxAlex 3 ай бұрын
Great vlog Des as always.
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@linanegron2772
@linanegron2772 3 ай бұрын
I believe she wants to go back but you have to give her time to heal just be patient and don’t cross her boundaries and keep doing what you doing and also keep on healing yourself too and always remember what is for you will be for you I wish ya the best I see ya really love each other and you are not being used and never apologize for what u want to do and at the end that’s your family and business period❤❤❤❤
@ameerasaays6941
@ameerasaays6941 3 ай бұрын
Marriage is about using one another for the common fact that we in marriage tog ....it's all in helping doing
@MinahM12
@MinahM12 4 ай бұрын
You're a good father!
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 I still have a ways to go but I’m definitely feeling positive about it
@donnab2863
@donnab2863 4 ай бұрын
Hey Dez. Happy Friday. I always tell you that you are doing a great job. I say it because I have 3 kids and none of my children’s fathers act the way you do towards your kids. I know you aren’t perfect but hell you stand up for your children and your actions match your words. Keep doing what’s best for you and your family
@bridgettewilliford8438
@bridgettewilliford8438 4 ай бұрын
Keep your head up and keep journey it’s all worth it ❤
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Amen. I also believe that. I believe that we will lol be good no matter what as long as we love each other
@zimkithaaplom4130
@zimkithaaplom4130 4 ай бұрын
I have been waiting for that ,love that for you guys
@Phillygurl31
@Phillygurl31 4 ай бұрын
Please make sure the kiddos have water bottles with them to keep them hydrated 😊
@jenisblessed2200
@jenisblessed2200 3 ай бұрын
Do you think if she didn’t leave when she did, that you would have changed and sent her the way you see her now?
@rebeccaj5355
@rebeccaj5355 3 ай бұрын
I hope you do get back together I feel like you have both grown and it could work!! How long coby staying with you xx
@margaretherrera9444
@margaretherrera9444 4 ай бұрын
Dez just dont pay attention too the people just love your family. Fight for your love kiara. Im rooting for you.
@bridgettewilliford8438
@bridgettewilliford8438 4 ай бұрын
You have to understand that people are so cruel 😢
@sharonrivera1151
@sharonrivera1151 4 ай бұрын
I have mad love for you and kiara and your children . You do not have to explain to anyone on the structure of your family, all I see is love and that is all that matter❤️
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@Desert_Dreamin024
@Desert_Dreamin024 4 ай бұрын
Try the English cucumbers, they’re a game changer. I don’t even buy regular any more!! HT do be on point though, always!!
@Desert_Dreamin024
@Desert_Dreamin024 4 ай бұрын
Also gotta watch the sugars in those premade drinks!! Naked has good nutrients but crazy for some of them to have almost 50 grams of sugar!! 😮😅
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Bet. I’ll definitely give the English ones a try. Thank you for watching and commenting
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
I think you should take Kiara out of town, get seperate rooms if you can't handle being in the same room whether it's because of tension or temptation just take a trip away from it all and enjoy yourselves.
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
@27:00 I don't think he did worse. I think the moving completely out of state made it impossible to truly work on their marriage. I can see why she wanted to leave, I can't understand why she never returned. I also think people ignored the toll it took on him being active duty and deployed multiple times during the separation.
@KeDaDon91
@KeDaDon91 4 ай бұрын
Which is why the he army offers help which many soldiers don’t take because of they think they are normal when they return.
@EmilyJones-g4l
@EmilyJones-g4l 4 ай бұрын
Here’s my thing. Why do women leave men then play the victim like they didn’t do anything wrong & it’s just the man’s fault. The way she treated Corey was not ok. Making him clean and make his own lunch as punishment but you never see her kids having any responsibilities. She deals with severe depression and victim mentality which prevents her growth. She tried getting you kicked out of the army. She definitely was not perfect. Youare doing great going above and beyond for your family but what is she doing for YOU? Saying you should do most of the cooking. Which I know u enjoy but she should also contribute. Also to the cleaning. Dont pour into people who don’t pour into you. It will take both of you.
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
@angeemh7
@angeemh7 3 ай бұрын
Hey Desmond, I follow both you and Kiara. You both had stuff on your channel about each other that wasn't cool. I still have mad respect for both of you. I understand what Kiara went through, and my heart goes out to her, "I have been in her shoes"!!! I also know that it takes two to make it or break it. I am in no way, going to downplay Kiara's feelings....they are real!!! I am also not going to downplay your feelings, feeling you lost your children! There aren't many men that show an interest in their childrens' lives. I have mad respect for you because of that!! I do believe a lot of what happened to you as a child played into how you handle things in all of your relationships. I don’t personally know you or Kiara, but I do believe with the proper counseling, you both could be great together❤❤❤!! You both just need to understand, accept, and agree that you both went through something traumatic, in your own ways! To Kiara, in her heart she feels you did more, by how you were treating, and speaking to her, or not speaking to her at all....being silent. In your heart you feel she did more by taking your kids, not just out of the house, but a great distance away from you. You are both correct in how you feel!!! I can still see you do have love for Kiara, and I do see that Kiara has love for you too, but she is apprehensive. She was quite a bit younger than you when you both met, got married and started a family of your own, on top of becoming a stepmom and other drama that came along the way. On a side note, I don't believe Kiara ever treated Cory different than Jericho or Kalia.... she loved them kids as if she birthed them all herself....and now Kobie too!!! I know you know that, I just felt like making "others" reading the comments aware. You should only care about what you and Kiara feel, as well as your children....that is it...PERIOD!!! No one else's opinion should matter. Now, I am not saying for you not to reflect on some of the comments. Because those who have grown to love and care for you, Kiara, and the children, only speak from the heart!!! We care for you all, individually as well as a family!!! Give each moment to God. If you BOTH really want this to work, it will. It is going to be work, any relationship is. It should be with God being FIRST in your lives, then the spouse, then your children. Speaking to God (having a conversation with God is prayer), who is your Heavenly Father, on a daily basis will guide you through life. Beware, where there is good, there is also evil. So, always take everything to the Lord, trust in him alone!!! Both you and Kiara just need to communicate with God and each other. I would love to see the "Cassell Family" back together, but I will not coerce/pressure either of you into a relationship. Sorry this was long, but It was my heartfelt words spoken here. Take care, your friend, Angee I am Kiara's friend too...lol❤❤!!!
@micah24678
@micah24678 4 ай бұрын
What GOD has joined together let no man put asunder saith the LORD, AMEN.
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
This is the word!
@512gummybear
@512gummybear 4 ай бұрын
Des you and the family have come a long way. Both you and Kiara have grown. There are things in life that bring us there and for both of you it was your marriage that fell apart but look at where you both are now. What i see that you guys show us is that you guys are doing great and things are working for both if you and them babies. I have watched you since the day everything fell apart and i have seen raw,real,and change.I know it takes time and thats whats best. One day at a time. I personally think you are doing great! Family is everything. We will walk through fire for them and you are doing that. God bless you and the family.❤
@PlainJane82
@PlainJane82 4 ай бұрын
I don’t see anything wrong with the arrangement y’all have. You’re under one roof raising your kids together and contributing financially. Kiara deserves a break every mom does. Nothing wrong with replacing things you see need replaced in her house, that’s what a good man/father does.
@mariaduenas8579
@mariaduenas8579 4 ай бұрын
You two are very blessed.
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
@@mariaduenas8579 thank you 🙏🏾 I agree. I’m grateful for it all
@racgillett4120
@racgillett4120 4 ай бұрын
Do what you been doing and don't explain what you are doing. I think it is a good thing to for two married couple to befriend ech other again. Growth is what I see on each part
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Facts. I feel that way too. We just have to be on the same page
@SweetNina
@SweetNina 4 ай бұрын
Dez as always I am riding with you both always! I of course would love to see yall back as one but I also want you both to make sure yall are happy so that them children can be happy! God first, and if its meant to be then it will be. You both been through alot. I just pray for happiness for everyone!!! Been riding since Alaska!!!❤❤
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sticking by us through all this time. I never thought that we would be I this place but I’m happy that I got the opportunity
@SweetNina
@SweetNina 4 ай бұрын
@@iamdesmondcassell listen everyone goes through ups and downs! Im currently going through a storm myself! Like i say on yall vids all the time. God first, pray separately, pray together, keep honoring each others boundaries. I didnt think that you two would get back to this stage either but you are and thats so wonderful! Keep respecting each other and being there for each other. Most importantly keeping those children happy!
@cristal9322
@cristal9322 4 ай бұрын
You and kaira keep yalls heads up and do what's best for your family! We all go though things only difference is alot of peoples personal life's dont play out on the internet. I have committed on your videos before rooting for you and her. Me and my husband have been through some things and we have made it 20 years married this past april and if we listened to people when we were going through we would not be together. We have been through the good bad and ugly. We didnt even love each other when we got together we grew to love and fall in love, with one another, and to me thats the best part about us. I said all this to say that no marriage or relationship is perfect. Yall fight for what yall want, and if it's meant to be, it will be. Our opinions dont matter at the end of the day cause its not us living yalls life. Hang in there and hold firm on what you want and believe. Im cheering you both on from the side lines.
@mishou6927
@mishou6927 4 ай бұрын
Desmond I’m seeing you in a different light now, I’m really Proud of you. I see you keep up the good work, leave the past in the past.
@b.rose.a.7338
@b.rose.a.7338 4 ай бұрын
Greetings 👋... Very very well said Dez.. It's not easy when they comment stupid crap and untruths to not defend yourself.. I get it been there done that.. Now I pick my battles.. It's way better for me.. GOD knows you better than you know yourself HE MADE YOU.. He saw you when you were being formed in your Mother's womb.. TRUST HIM.. HE wants the best for you Kiara and your beautiful family.. I continue to pray for GOD'S WILL to be done... Carry on!!! 🙏🌹🙏
@mariaduenas8579
@mariaduenas8579 4 ай бұрын
Please don't worry about what people are saying. These people are just jealous & wish their ex's would be like you. You two be you.
@tamaraanderson4398
@tamaraanderson4398 4 ай бұрын
The opposite of evil is good lol keep up the good work God bless you both
@maliahhope7944
@maliahhope7944 4 ай бұрын
U remember when u dream see kiara getting married it u on her just keep praying
@lebronsdaughter246
@lebronsdaughter246 4 ай бұрын
I like this Des I’m 🙏🏽 for you just keep it real the kids are happy ❤️
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 💯
@melissaclement9318
@melissaclement9318 4 ай бұрын
K, don't play with her food lol Crying but still eating sorry that make me laught
@Cookingwithdez
@Cookingwithdez 4 ай бұрын
😂 A girl gotta eat.
@proudmom6549
@proudmom6549 4 ай бұрын
Desmond, let the negative Nancie’s be negative Nancie’s. Do what’s best for the both of you and your kids. Your feelings are very much valid as well and you didn’t look like a fool in Kiara’s video. You said you’ve spoken things that you’ve wanted and now you have it. Speak that positive relationship with Kiara too. Hoping we see a vlog where you both have decided to give things another chance and if you have to, turn the comments off!
@cherylslife
@cherylslife 4 ай бұрын
The kids are happy
@angiie321
@angiie321 4 ай бұрын
Been watching you two since Alaska. You both have done hurtful things to one another. Years have passed and you both have improved personally. Maybe when you get your own place you and Kiara can maybe try to date one another ( I know going backwards) but that might where you guys may see if you have the feelings to make it right this time around. Being in the same household doesn’t give her that space to see if you are a changed man .
@nikkirogers8541
@nikkirogers8541 4 ай бұрын
Doing a great job
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@snugglybear7379
@snugglybear7379 4 ай бұрын
You are taking care of your kids some people don't see that way and some no what is the have a man in there live take care there kids the should lift up say good job keep doing what you want do and life .
@shareeodom6343
@shareeodom6343 4 ай бұрын
Would you and Kiara get a bigger house together? It would help the both of you guys out and it would help her since she’s been wanting to get out of that place for a while now.
@MiscellaneousMichelle
@MiscellaneousMichelle 4 ай бұрын
@racheltomlin2953
@racheltomlin2953 4 ай бұрын
Dezz, make a cookbook. I would love to buy it. Let me give you a idea . Through your family, find all the men and get a favorite dish that they can cook and put them in your cookbook. I only ask for 20%, lol😂
@EmmaV2718
@EmmaV2718 4 ай бұрын
I think for man is different to express the feelings like some people were saying that she is crying and you are laughing, work on saying “I” did this not pointing fingers at “you” did this
@AmirDavis-thagod
@AmirDavis-thagod 4 ай бұрын
He wasn’t laughing when she was crying. What video are you all watching? He comforted her, held her hand and hugged her. I don’t get it
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
I like Kiara. I think she's a beautiful person and I hope they get back together but she really didn't have a point. She can't be mad bc he moved on while they were separated bc she refused to reconcile multiple times. She also dated others. She basically said she was mad because he appeared happy in his relationship, and she wasn't happy in her relationships. The baby happened two years after she left him. I've said this before: Legally, she abandoned the marriage and marital bed and refused to return. It's her subs that keep dragging her down with their bitter man hating victim mentalities. They literally trash him in her comment sections. It's difficult to engage on her channel bc her subs are so negative.
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
@@EmmaV2718 You know it’s different. Nothing is equal for men and women. The system is flawed and it’s hurting families.
@ameerasaays6941
@ameerasaays6941 3 ай бұрын
Yoh this comment I made back then to you .....other men will be involved in their lives. Joh
@literallytiara5722
@literallytiara5722 4 ай бұрын
🥰
@tiffanyhoward9889
@tiffanyhoward9889 4 ай бұрын
He is so handsome Desmond
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@barbarawood8887
@barbarawood8887 4 ай бұрын
Hey the f!!! With what people say you guys do you . ❤❤
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
💯
@nellymatos9224
@nellymatos9224 4 ай бұрын
She don’t want to date nobody. she wants to travel and find herself but give it time but you guys have a great communication who knows about tomorrow trust in God !!
@maliahhope7944
@maliahhope7944 4 ай бұрын
Dez u on kiara will be together again it just take time date all over again ❤
@shayb.3450
@shayb.3450 4 ай бұрын
Most of us aren't ass wholes Dez. I like watching your channel.
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
lol 😆 Yeah you aren’t but some people are. They get on my nerves 🙄
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 4 ай бұрын
Agree
@elizabethmason4702
@elizabethmason4702 4 ай бұрын
I'm the same way...im a feeder lmfao
@usomexmartin220
@usomexmartin220 4 ай бұрын
Bro their not staring at you recording. Their staring on you're "Fine Self"! 😁😂😂
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
lol I’m definitely looking rough right now. It’s time for a haircut for real.
@SweetNina
@SweetNina 4 ай бұрын
2:06 its VA they not use to it yet unfortunately. They use to places like TX and CA people recording in public lol
@deborahmills7362
@deborahmills7362 4 ай бұрын
Sharing way too much info..this is not the place. Shalom🙏
@LovelyKee89
@LovelyKee89 4 ай бұрын
🖤🖤
@APurposeDrivenWife
@APurposeDrivenWife 4 ай бұрын
What are your thoughts on the current election?
@iamdesmondcassell
@iamdesmondcassell 4 ай бұрын
😬 It’s cringe asf! It’s so embarrassing. America isn’t looking strong and powerful
@APurposeDrivenWife
@APurposeDrivenWife 4 ай бұрын
@@iamdesmondcassell America looks awful because of Biden... Thank God he steeped down! #Trump2024
@Cookingwithdez
@Cookingwithdez 4 ай бұрын
Trash 🗑️
@yolly943
@yolly943 4 ай бұрын
Not everything is for KZbin somethings in lfe should be kept Private .
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