SHE'S WITH THE BAND Episode 49: Connie Sgarbossa (SEEYOUSPACECOWBOY)

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@scattaredlight 6 ай бұрын

I'm thankful that Tori dived headfirst into the topic of transgender issues because hearing Connie speak about her perspective makes me feel less alone. I believe discussing this is super important for heavy music. It saddens me to realize there are not many transgender people in heavy music; I truly love metal with all my heart. Everything in my life has changed, but metal has stayed with me. Hell, since transitioning, I've doubled down on it! 😂 Now that I’m not emotionally dull, metal feels insanely good to me. I have almost an identical opinion on the issue. When Connie mentioned the internal struggles some transgender women face, I felt understood by a peer like never before. It feels eerily odd to be in such a welcoming environment yet still feel somehow out of place. Thank you so much for this episode and for being awesome! 🖤

@clarenegracey 3 ай бұрын

How did sterilising yourself make you less emotionally dull?

@natalieivey23 3 ай бұрын

i feel very similar, Connie is such a huge inspiration for me and im so happy for u!!♥️

@edge4266 Ай бұрын

@@clarenegraceyTransitioning doesn’t lead to becoming sterile 100% of the time, it’s a side effect. To answer your other question, as a trans person, starting to transition saved my life, before i was a numb, depressed, alcoholic, and i was a considerably overweight. I had stopped showering and brushing my teeth because i hated seeing my own body and looking in the mirror. Once i started my transition it was almost like someone took a blindfold off of me, all of my emotions became incredibly vibrant and strong. I reconnected with old friends, i started a band, found the motivation to go to therapy, repaired my relationship with alcohol, and found love for myself. Starting estrogen saved my life. Gender Dysphoria is not a mental issue, it’s a physical one. It stems from a hormonal imbalance in the brain and body caused at birth and the way to treat it is with hormones. I hope i could shed some light!

@parkerkelly9400 6 ай бұрын

Im also a trans woman in metal and nobody has inspired me the way connie has. Shes amazing

@SokolRock 6 ай бұрын

You're a man cosplaying a woman, don't fool yourself. You can love women's clothes, makeup, manners - there's nothing wrong with that, but you'll never be a woman. This is an unchangeable biological fact, I'm sorry, but life is not an RPG where you can "create your own character".

@TheMetalTempestYT 6 ай бұрын

amen.

@SHVDXWLXRD 6 ай бұрын

@@SokolRockbro get a hobby

@nolankennedy93 2 ай бұрын

@@parkerkelly9400 you aren't a women

@nolankennedy93 Ай бұрын

@@parkerkelly9400 you aren't a women

@TheMetalTempestYT 6 ай бұрын

As someone who is a trans woman and has always been afraid to have a public platform/be upfront about this or even present the way I would like to, Connie is a massive inspiration. Genuinely love this interview and this is fantastic.

@joyjoyz778 6 ай бұрын

I met Connie a few times and she's a sweetheart! Love to see the band is getting more recognition too. They are awesome ❤

@TingTingalingy 3 ай бұрын

@SHVDXWLXRD 2 ай бұрын

@@TingTingalingy she* transphobia isn't tolerated in this scene

@TingTingalingy 2 ай бұрын

@@SHVDXWLXRD oh, well, you aren't going to do anything about it. He is a man.

@TingTingalingy 2 ай бұрын

@@SHVDXWLXRD you are the same cancer that used straight edge as a reason to attack people smoking cigarettes, real scary pumpkin

@TingTingalingy 2 ай бұрын

@@SHVDXWLXRD he, your buzzwords don't exist and your "scene" are a bunch of fails.

@ATLKovi Күн бұрын

as someone who does not completely understand the transgender walk of life, i very much appreciate this interview. i clicked to watch for the music analysis behind sysc's albums, and i learned about another side of reality that is unapologetically present. very glad i chose to watch this video, and i thank connie and tori for delving into this nuance that has been questioning the scene. much love to EVERYONE and god bless!

@ATLKovi Күн бұрын

on another note, i notice the tattoo on connie's hand. i am very religious and am wondering the context of it (how it is cut off at the fingers, etc.)? i am building my own sleeve with many religious contexts to christianity, and i am wondering if it might change the way that i build the ink up my arm.

@mariosmovies 7 ай бұрын

This is genuinely probably the best interview with Connie I’ve seen. Fantastic job, Tori!

@ToriKravitz 7 ай бұрын

@zeroethsort1071 6 ай бұрын

@@ToriKravitz Awesome interview, and damn, My Ticket Home is sick!

@Icythot-m6i 4 ай бұрын

because shes faded af lol she sippin but she mention prior she was faded

@dllngr_ 6 ай бұрын

She is the reason I got into screamo. I already dabbled with William Bonney and Old Gray and skramz type stuff, but hearing Absolutely Absolute Absolution by spacecowboy forever changed my taste in music. It had led me to finding songs that make me feel emotions like no other (such as Disquiet by Naedr) and led to me listening to foreign music. Screamo is a universal language I swear. It's everywhere. Incredible bands across the globe.

@Youtubecansuckmycock 8 күн бұрын

I went to highschool with this dude. This is weird lol i went to check in on him and this is what i see. WOAH. He was singing back then but what happened lol.

@MissXX94 6 ай бұрын

Connie has great taste in music. All the bands she mentions are great. I was the same way in hs, listening to most of those bands .. loveee fbtmof, chiodos, blessthefall etc and panic /tokyo police club, Interpol, etc.. now I can see why I love this new record so much based on the inspirations. The first time I heard sysc I remember thinking wow I haven’t been this excited about music since I first got into fear before the march of flames, Underoath, chiodos, alesana, drop dead, gorgeous, a few of my fave bands. I saw them open for Fall of Troy and have been a fan since.

@1waste237 2 ай бұрын

whos that fbtmof

@Obitvary 7 ай бұрын

This was a great episode, seriously one of the best.

@percyhutchins5421 3 ай бұрын

Hearing the name chiodos spoken from Connie's lips warms my heart.

@TheCrazyN00b1 7 ай бұрын

great interview! the trans discussion is very important and helpful!!

@liviahhhh_ 7 ай бұрын

Can’t wait to see sysc at sound and fury this year!

@quinn304 6 ай бұрын

love connie, love the interview

@calebolota 6 ай бұрын

a cowboy gecs remix like that one step closer reanimation would be so sick

@ZDRAK676 7 ай бұрын

SYSC and Dying Wish on tour would be my dream come true omg

@diegobandz666 6 ай бұрын

they did already like a lil over a year ago it was dope, foreign hands and counterparts were also on the tour

@MissXX94 6 ай бұрын

@@diegobandz666 I went to that show lol it was so good

@1waste237 2 ай бұрын

my mom brought me to nashville and then louisville the end is one venue and you can watch the first one its up

@greysorcerer9106 2 ай бұрын

Connie is amazing. ❤

@pizzalandmine 7 ай бұрын

she's so cool

@nolankennedy93 2 ай бұрын

@@pizzalandmine hes*

@marcogutierrez2688 6 ай бұрын

Thank you

@dllngr_ 6 ай бұрын

GLOCCA MORRA MENTION. ME AND HIM ON HARDLORE. CONNIE IS THE GOAT

@xafbxmoto269 22 сағат бұрын

This guys pretty good live.

@1waste237 2 ай бұрын

here after a wouldbe bandmate disappeared on me smh idk what im complaining here for it's frustrating though i want to meet more ppl to work with in musical releases we did make stuff though feels weird to get abandoned

@TheOctomasprime 5 күн бұрын

They should go on tour with lil Wayne and Chris brown

@Veeto 7 ай бұрын

connie the fucking legend

@fogofdaleks 5 ай бұрын

Hell yeah Emery mentioned

@deadlydoodlestx 7 ай бұрын

4:13 lol I had the same reaction as Connie

@ToriKravitz 7 ай бұрын

In my defense, it wasn’t out yet when we filmed this. I’ve been spinning it nonstop since it came out 😅

@trigunchica14 3 ай бұрын

❤

@userkeepinglock 7 ай бұрын

BRING BACK FLOWERS TAPED TO PENS !!!!!!

@Magdalena8008s 6 ай бұрын

She talked about it on Hardlore. I don't think it's happening.

@userkeepinglock 6 ай бұрын

@@Magdalena8008swell one can hope lol being a screamo fan means being a fan of bands that were a thing for like 2 years and then disappeared sometimes forever sometimes they do a repress…fave genre 4ever

@1waste237 2 ай бұрын

@@userkeepinglocklord snow roght