She Said His Affair Caused His Impotence On TV In 1972

In the early 1970s when this film was made, understanding of erectile dysfunction (ED), often referred to as impotence at that time, was still evolving. The prevailing view linked ED more to psychological factors than physiological ones.
Psychologists believed that anxiety, stress, guilt, depression and/or relationship issues like sexual affairs were the primary causes of ED. Freudian theories about sexual development and anxieties were influential and psychoanalytic perspectives guided treatment. The problem was treated as a mental or emotional disorder rather than a physical condition. Therapists would work with individuals or couples to explore underlying emotional issues or relationship dynamics that might be contributing to the problem. Many wives accused their husbands of affairs and therapists accepted that as a cause whether or not it was true.
Because of this emphasis on psychological factors therapy was the primary mode of treatment for many men with ED. Psychotherapy, particularly psychoanalysis, was a common treatment approach. Some therapists used behavioral techniques, aiming to reduce performance anxiety and improve sexual function by focusing on exercises and other methods that emphasized touch and emotional connection over sexual performance.
While the understanding of the physiological aspects of ED was limited, some medical interventions were available. Vascular surgery and hormone treatments were explored but were generally less effective and less commonly used. Vacuum erection devices started to be introduced in the 1970s, providing a non-invasive way to assist in achieving an erection.
Impotence was frequently stigmatized, and men who experienced it felt shame and embarrassment. This made seeking treatment difficult and it also contributed to a lack of research and understanding about the condition.
It wasn't until later decades that the medical community began to recognize the complex interplay of psychological and physiological factors contributing to ED. The development of medications like Viagra in the late 1990s marked a significant shift in the understanding and treatment of erectile dysfunction, emphasizing the physiological factors and allowing for a broader array of treatment options. In 1972, these options were more limited, and the psychological community's approach to treatment was primarily focused on therapy and counseling.
This film was sponsored by Ortho Pharmaceuticals, a division of Johnson & Johnson, a company involved in the production of contraceptives. They did not primarily specialize in sexual impotence or erectile dysfunction treatments, but in the early 1970s they developed a diagnostic tool called the "erection hardness scale" or "erection quality scale." The scale was designed to help clinicians understand and assess the quality and hardness of a man's erection. By providing a standardized way to measure erection quality, the scale helped clinicians diagnose erectile dysfunction and determine the effectiveness of treatments.
The erection hardness scale was a simple tool consisting of a series of levels that described the quality of an erection, from completely soft to fully hard and rigid. While Ortho Pharmaceuticals was not directly involved in the treatment of erectile dysfunction, their development of this diagnostic tool contributed to the understanding and diagnosis of the condition.

[@karenh2890]

Can't imagine discussing this while being filmed. I give them credit for seeking help. They were probably born in the late 1920s. Not likely they were raised to speak openly about sex.

[@sr-kt9ml]

They look a bit younger than that I think

[@karenh2890]

@sr-kt9ml Well, this was 1972, and I think they said they were married 22 years (not sure about that, but their kids were grown). My parents were born in 1930, and I suspect this couple was a bit older.

[@terrytube5247]

They're actors. It's a promotional film.

[@kingbakaar3208]

She lit up that cigarette like “ ok let’s get in to this”😂

[@Joshpower57]

Yea because shes a nightmare, she wouldn't even look at him

[@DreamseedVR]

She's upset, either one of em could be a nightmare.

[@antonyjh1234]

That body language, if you don't get an erection I'm going to be so much more pissed off than I am now.

[@CatRiley]

Oh hellllll ya!

[@jenniferswieboda5696]

😂

[@Cheezburgercatz]

I don’t even think he had an affair I think she just traumatized the s*** out of him with sexual pressure when he couldn’t perform. It made me abstain from sex for a while when I was obligated to perform to “prove” my love and loyalty.

[@theastuteangler]

Same bro

[@karenh2890]

I understand. We're not machines.

[@Heyiya-if]

Yep, pressure is the surest way to a turnoff and 'getting a headache'. Getting in the mood starts way before the bedroom, by actually treating each other like human beings. Amazing how so many people don't get that. :-/

[@Vinnie101a]

"Perform"? It sounds like a flippin' seal at Marine World. 🦭

[@theastuteangler]

@@Vinnie101a oh you didnt know? We're just animals with bank accounts to these women.

[@lisas7046]

Why is she giving me, Dana Carvey as THE CHURCH LADY???😂

[@anthonyc1883]

Hmmmm....isn't that special!

[@lisas7046]

@@anthonyc1883 Good one!! 🤣🤣

[@TemplePriestess]

💀😂💀

[@juliepetersen7974]

Maybe she’s the template Carvey used!!🤣🤣🤣

[@God-Was-Bored]

RE: the affair: "The gentleman doth protest too much, methinks" ~Shakespeare/Hamlet The really do seem to sincerely want to work this out though. It seems to me the failure to complete the act once snowballed into a huge problem. I hope they worked it out. Super interesting footage David. Thanks for posting.

[@Teh-Penguin]

He might be protesting too much, but also they might've been talking about it so many times that it irritates him to deny it for the 1000th time. Difficult to tell just from a short video.

[@CorbCorbin]

This is a big waste of time, as far as getting to what’s actually happening, in the relationship, and just what is common with couples, after that long. I’ve never met anyone, who was having affairs, or an affair, and was trying to have sex with their spouse, on the same nights, that they’d just had sex with the other person. A person being unfaithful, most likely, would avoid it. It’s also her only reasoning for the affair. So many obvious questions, that weren’t asked. How about asking her if he still tries to bring her to climax, even after some of these moments, have happened? Then if the answer is, that he doesn’t, ask why not, and then ask if either of them, still, ever or Last gave or received oral sex. The guy seems in a mind numbing job, and maybe he has realized he could be having sex with other women. Maybe more attractive, and/or younger women, but he goes home to try and have sex with his wife instead, and it’s just not happening. I wouldn’t be surprised, if they’ve never given oral sex to one another, or anyone else. The person asking questions, didn’t seem like a therapist, or was he asking questions like one. I don’t know what could be learned from this video.

[@God-Was-Bored]

@@Teh-Penguin @CorbCorbin Good points. Thanks for sharing your opinions. Another possibility is that he may have gotten turned on at the party but then come home to his wife for satisfaction. Either way they both seem truly sincere about working out their issues and are brave and humble to agree to be filmed for others to learn from their problem. It's too bad we don't get to know how it turned out for them.

[@Leesaloves]

Her proof of his infidelity is she can't think of any other reason for their problems?

[@GizzelleBrookes-vs5ec]

@@Teh-Penguin Or on the other hand it could be the fact that he has to lie on television again. I'm not down on the man I'm just bringing another point of view. Affairs were handled differently back then. People don't hold it over people's heads forever like they did back then. Some people actually lost their jobs Over affairs back at that time. I'm also not minimalizing affairs because they're definitely wrong.

[@EriPages]

Sleep Deprivation also causes Impotence.

[@armyantlocsta]

Oh ok I’ll remember that because I suffer from it

[@emmabennett7699]

so does cigarettes

[@KittyGrizGriz]

So does too much alcohol, aka whiskey Richard

[@MB-ln4yx]

This video is good. It helps clear the air for future couples and people that are married. It shows real issues and a solution to that problem.

[@dfjulesful]

The way he put his problem as "not being able to cut the mustard".

[@Andrea-Andera]

I really enjoy and get a lot out of these counseling session videos. They are endlessly fascinating. I know you do so much for your community here but I was wondering if I could suggest a playlist of your counseling session videos? Thank you for your valuable contribution to history David.

[@tartgreenapple]

National Library of Medicine has a lot of the same videos: www.youtube.com/@NLMNIH

[@lindainglima1961]

This is why men and even women must be careful about affairs. The toxic secrecy will come out in bizarre ways. ED arrives from guilt, too. Take heed.

[@fallon7616]

Pornography is ruining marriages 😢

[@lindainglima1961]

@@fallon7616 indeed ☕️, a billion dollar business

[@TopherGrant]

​@@fallon7616lol how?

[@fallon7616]

@@TopherGrant If you have to have this explained to. I doubt that you have any values and are not married 🤔 Only losers and morally bankrupt people support human trafficking and fake sex online. Real man doesn't need porn

[@Sashazur]

@@TopherGrantPorn can wreck marriages easily. Men can get a porn habit or addiction, they simply lose interest in regular sex because they are whacking off so much, also of course it gives them unreal expectations about appearance which no normal person can live up to: regular men don’t have huge muscles and donkey sized d*cks, regular women aren’t 18 year old models and hairless with giant b**bs, and it gives them unreal expectations about how sex works - porn typically is rough with super submissive women doing degrading things and no foreplay.

[@foreverzeta6578]

He was stressed

[@michelleelle4622]

Her going on about it is probably most of the problem. Best thing she could have done is not say anything about it

[@azaz911c]

My impression is that the husband had a lot of pressure from his work and identified himself closely with his work. This is common and can impact men in many ways, especially as they enter midlife and no longer have the enthusiasm or hope they may have once had for the work, while shouldering mounting responsibility.

[@foreverzeta6578]

The last thing he wants to do it talk about the problem that he came from

[@julieking4304]

i dont want to sleep with a damn ash tray

[@drewpall2598]

There more to marriage then sex if a couple is having problems in the bedroom, then they should focus their attention on other aspect of the relationship that they both enjoy doing together.

[@KittyGrizGriz]

Great advice 👏👏

[@drewpall2598]

@@KittyGrizGriz Thanks! 😊

[@DreamseedVR]

He's lucky to have anybody wanting his bone.

[@lisar3944]

lord, YES. He's such a condescending oaf.

[@felipecourtois7883]

Omg this is pure GOLD 👑👑🏅🏅🏅

[@jasonfoley6502]

I can't believe she said that on TV.

[@jasonfoley6502]

@@russellm7530 his impotence

[@geographicoddity9444]

It definitely wasn’t aired during prime time. 😂

[@mmm5225]

Hell hath no fury...

[@peterscherling1141]

I think the same thing would happen to me lol poor bastard

[@drewpall2598]

The host here is the same host who counsel Linda and Bob Martin in a previous film clip of yours about a frigid wife. I found this equally interesting as the previous film clip. It seems that this couple has lost their romantic side of their relationship. I hope they were able to rekindle their relationship.😊

[@manano06]

Hope this lady bought a whole bunch of batteries. And cigarettes. Part 2?

[@moisesperez4605]

Listening to this now in 2023, I would say that it is both medically, and mentally, it’s embarrassing to say that with this man went through, at one point in my life, it happened to me as well, two things were probably happening here with this gentleman, an inflamed prostate, also in the pelvic area, inflammation as well, that it doesn’t give enough blood flow to that general area, that’s what was happening to me, they gave me some medication it all went away. Once the inflammation in the pelvic area was diminished, I was good as new, and I would say even better than before, again it’s the luxury of living in 2023 where you can talk this openly with people, and maybe you can help somebody else. Just don’t let any doctor tell you that it’s only mentally, it happened to me. I had to get a second opinion and now I’m more frisky than ever.

[@Vinnie101a]

@moisesblahblahblah: Long may you remain frisky! 😂

[@andromedadelux]

There is a solution to this problem. And its 100 times easier and better than current medicine and psychology can provide.

[@dbentleyto95]

Whoa, she was pissed and had real problems about his being at the office. My parents bicker like this. Mostly spitting accusations to each other with no understanding. Hell, neither one had any compassion to the other.

[@line_inthe_sand2569]

Tough case. Hope they made it. They got very little advice here. Sad. Odd decision to go public with something like that. I'm surprised this even aired at all. Weird way to get 5 min of fame. Wife had killer legs.

[@KittyGrizGriz]

She’s one of the dancers on Nancy Sinatra’s “These Boots are made for Walkin’” music vid… /s

[@Joshpower57]

What a nightmare woman. Shes not supportive and makes everything about herself. This is why, i get tired of the idea that women have been beaten and held down by men historically. This lady 100% is doing this to get back at him for not being attracted to her and she has zero connectivity. Both my grandmas were like this. She decided to accuse him of cheating with zero evidence and has ignored his opinion all together. He doesn't even want to try because she probably blows up on him after.

[@danusdragonfly6640]

You "get tired of the idea that women have been beaten and held down by men historically"? You get tired of facts?

[@StrangeScaryNewEngland]

Bingo!

[@MS2221]

Which came first, the chicken or the egg.

[@Joshpower57]

​​@@MS2221 they discussed all of it. He feels they have nothing to discuss because the kids are out of the house, he doesn't want to discuss his work(reasonable, I hate talking about work 24/7), he feels after the first failure and then multiple failures that he doesn't want the embarrassment anymore. That's all completely reasonable points. Her opinion, he's cheating on her, he doesn't love her and he is hiding something because he won't discuss work where she believes he's banging his secretary. One actually discussed the issues, the other is disconnected from reality and doesn't care about the others viewpoints.

[@MS2221]

In that case then, I hope they got a divorce 😄

[@SouthernBelleWW]

People were so honest back then.

[@karenh2890]

No, they really weren't more honest. This was one couple revealing personal details of their life. Most couples wouldn't have spoken a word about their personal lives.

[@terrytube5247]

Read the description. They're actors.

[@David_Polak]

​@terrytube5247 Actors isn't mentioned in the description.

[@chesterproudfoot594]

Really good, this one. Courageous of them to do this publicly. She has no evidence of an affair but assumes that must be the root cause, which reminds me of a funny country song "It's Hard To Kiss The Lips At Night That Chew Your Ass Out All Day Long". The husband expressed feeling fatigue when it was time to go home. That suggests to me that maybe she's badgering him too much, questioning his masculinity, etc.? She is sure staring daggers at him several times. The last couple of years of my marriage were pretty tense and I couldn't have found the desire even with a dozen pills, but now in my 60s I have a girlfriend who I get along with great and we have more sex than I've ever had in my life. Nobody likes living with a harpy. If the mental/emotional stimulation isn't there for whatever reason, it won't work.

[@deenasmusicbox]

I’ve never read a more truer statement than your “country song” reference. Heavily resonates even when roles are reversed as my ex-husband was constantly berating me and just picking on my every effort. We divorced and he married a much more subservient woman.

[@chesterproudfoot594]

@@deenasmusicbox It absolutely goes both ways. Glad you made it out of that situation.

[@KahlessTheUnforgettable]

I never knew the “Church Lady” from SNL was married before! 💒

[@goodguy4342]

Umm, If i was with her i think i would very well have the same problem.

[@jenniferswieboda5696]

He looks like a popular character actor from TV and movies

[@matthewfarmer2520]

It can happen when you get older i guess in your 50s you can loose that "Loving Feeling" you need to spice it up. The romance is not there anymore. Go to psychology to work it out. Thanks for sharing David film maker 🎥🎞️🙂

[@Joshpower57]

It doesn't help that shes a nightmare

[@teenee4]

She pulls out a cigarette 🚬 she's pissed.

[@hdtwal1den]

Geez. I don't think I could get it up either with a wife that spoke and acted like that.

[@Nupagade246]

Loved this video So Much. I think we all can relate in some way

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

Thank you for your comment. If your resources allow, I would sure appreciate your using the THANKS button under any of my videos including the one you have commented on. It is something new that KZbin is beta testing and would mean a great deal for my continuing efforts. David Hoffman filmmaker

[@ultimategamer765]

Bruh this girl is crazy

[@fraseredk7433]

Give each other a massage

[@josephmull2158]

I feel bad for her

[@benjaminjackson8663]

Great video David! My wife and I were cracking up at this couple. I hope they figured it out and the Mr finally was able to "cut the mustard!" 😅

[@SaccoBelmonte]

They both look like they didn't take care of themselves to be honest.

[@Kriszee4]

Shut off the news!

[@jaeboogie2786]

Poor kids

[@mistyblue526]

I guess Viagra wasn't a thing back then.

[@Joshpower57]

Not till the 90s, and that angers women too tho

[@CorbCorbin]

Reading the information in the description, makes this even more confusing. 😆 Kidding aside, I really don’t know what they’re hoping to learn with such questioning. Whst the information, in the description, does do, is show how in the dark they were, concerning ED, and sexual relationships, in general, if this was an actual therapist or psychiatrist, questioning them for that long. He doesn’t even ask her if her husband’s problem, is the only reason, she believes her husband is having an affair. If she really believes he’s having an affair, then she’s putting off that energy all the time. He doesn’t even ask if he’s ever had an affair, or if she’s thought he had, earlier in their 23 years of marriage. I mean, how many people who are cheating, come home to immediately try to them have ex with their spouse/partner, the same night? I’m sure there are people who do, but the vast majority, are going to avoid sexual contact with someone they’re cheating on. Her “…it’s the only reason I could think of…” logic, seemed like she read it in Cosmo, or some other magazine, as pop psychology was big, on television, and all media.

[@KittyGrizGriz]

Reminds me of the term ‘frigid’ used way back in the day but this scenario here, it’s on the other foot…as they say. 🧐

[@Caritasaveritas]

“Just plain dull” … his attentions are elsewhere - not towards his wife.

[@TopherGrant]

That doesn't mean other women. We just get bored and lose interest altogether.

[@Vinnie101a]

She had the allure and charm of a cobra.

[@TopherGrant]

@@Vinnie101a do you just not like strong women? Do you prefer the submissive woman that doesn't think for herself or expect much from her partner? 🤔

[@KittyGrizGriz]

@@Vinnie101a Do you not like women?

[@Vinnie101a]

@@KittyGrizGriz : I don't think much of that particular woman in the interview. As for the rest, I do very much like women in general. PS - I'm liking what I see of KittyGrizGriz so far. 😁

[@tamarrajames3590]

I had forgotten how open and Frank discussions about sex and related matters were in the 70s. It was not uncommon to come across programs of this type, but this one is unusual in its focus on erectile dis function. Thank you David, I can’t see this type of film being broadcast today.🖤🇨🇦

[@fifthbusiness1678]

Yes, but on TV? I was shocked by the fact this was televised 50 years ago! A frank and honest - and deeply personal - discussion between a couple and interviewer about their sex life?

[@lanacampbell-moore6686]

Thanks Mr Hoffman❤

[@lcolletti9901]

A. She smokes b. She is androgynous 3. He isn’t turned on by her anymore

[@janlundberg5924]

It's so interesting. There really is nothing feminine about her. And look at that hair! She gives 42 yr olds a bad name!

[@SsHartman]

He's giving me hobbit vibes. At least she's trying with her short skirt, which was fashionable for its time. Very brave to talk about this on TV. Good for them.

[@Joshpower57]

​​@@SsHartmanshe accused him of cheating with zero evidence, shes a nightmare

[@CarrieV9]

@@SsHartmanHobbit vibes! Best comment ever.

[@TopherGrant]

​@janlundberg5924 you're looking at her through 2023 eyes. In 1970s , she was an attractive woman.

[@chaddydad1]

He was probably buying hustler,pent house,playboy magazines at a drug store somewhere...Pornography will make this happen every time...

[@Bigboss192x]

Not the kind they had back then. You see, pornography caused a large spike in young men after 2000, with the advent of high speed. This man is the normal age range, at least in mid 40s

[@Vern_Levine]

That's true in the age of online porn with the constant rush of dopamine. But with magazines it wasn't like that. This could easily have been an emotional/physical cause of the problem. Erectile dysfunction is not a new phenomenon after all.

[@mistyblue526]

When I was in my early twenties I was in love with a nice young man who had a serious addiction to porn magazines and masterbation. He could not perform at all because of that. It really lowered my self esteem, and I thought it was me. It ended our relationship. It also ended his next relationship. He ended up giving up porn, got well, and then got married.

[@ian_ford]

Back then "peep" shows were popular in certain cities. X-rated theaters. If guys wanted to overstimulate sexually, they had avenues. They just had to work to attain it. It's just far too prevalent today and requires no effort. Dopamine overload.

[@ian_ford]

​@@mistyblue526I'm sorry you experienced that sensation where you wondered if it was your fault. It most definitelywas not. This happened to me once years ago. Not to be graphic but in my 20s and early 30s I could maintain erection for hours. My former GF would always jokingly quip, _"Geez, doesn't that thing ever go down?"_ I also enjoyed adult porn on the side, but by my mid 30s I began having ED issues. After consulting my doctor and trying sildenefil, I read an article about possible side-effects of adult porn and the brain, sexual function. So, I went cold turkey for 30 days....issues went away naturally and I haven't had ED issues since. My only regret is that I started watching adult porn to begin with, but we live and learn.

[@sircharlessinderhorn3452]

I wound up in a very similar situation after forty years of marriage. I feel people must realize that relationships can and often do run their course and separation is a viable remedy depending on the situation of the children. Society has instilled a “live happily ever after” narrative that isn’t at all the way humans operate and it has essentially sabotaged us as a society.

[@TemplePriestess]

Dude has way too much on his plate and is stressed the eff out with his new job and the responsibility that comes with it. It all piles up and he can’t perform. Especially is he is not taking care of his health: working out, eating healthy. Sounds like he drinks and smokes too! Add that to the stressful job and there you go… no hanky panky for wifey.

[@almaburns6562]

Working out was not in vogue back then.

[@TemplePriestess]

@@almaburns6562 they might not have been gym rats back then but physical activity like walking, hiking, and recreational sports were definitely a thing to stay healthy.

[@rduhaney]

Likely Low T along with general stress. Cialis or Viagra may have helped if invented back then. 🤷🏾‍♂️ They do have to work on their overall relationship like the therapist says.

[@Alpha_Omega_1541]

Pleas tell me there’s a part 2?

[@frogger1952]

If anyone here is familiar with Seinfeld, the guy is a DEAD RINGER for the actor who played the manager of the bra company that hired George for about 1 day.

[@govinda102000]

When I was young, a girl I dated, not bad looking, but a non-stop talker even in bed about any thing.I was impotent only with her. What a turn off. I gave up after the 2nd time.

[@cyndik9921]

Thanks!

[@ChrisHansonCanada]

1:14 He said "prostrate" instead of "prostate". 😜 I could imagine that being a droll comedy skit with two skilled comedy performers.

[@johnnyslash9033]

Can't imagine being married to the "Church Lady" 😂

[@cyndik9921]

Love the doc's style! I will check The Library of Medicine for the rest of the video. The other video you posted posted with a couple I was able to find and view on the Library site. I reckon I understand why you didn't show the rest of it. Not that every person doesn't know about master-bation, but it was cool it was a topic in 72., interesting how the same doc uses therapy.

[@cyndik9921]

Lol... double typed posted. Sadly I don't proofread before hitting sned 🤣👍

[@ana00100]

Nice one❤..

[@GizzelleBrookes-vs5ec]

I think it's really sad that people are commenting and blaming it all on the woman. This is a hard situation for both parties no pun intended. As far as their looks, either one of them looking old.. It has a lot to do with those haircuts and clothing. People are way more into their looks today, and there's plenty of solutions to making yourself look younger than was available back then. They both are dressed with that day's style. Which of course is hideous, but not their fault. Coming on to television to share your sexual issues with the world isn't It's the easiest thing to do and it Could be easy to get offended. Also we don't know how they are treating each other outside of this show. How far out of his regular routine he has become. How shut off he has become towards her.. Which would be understandable as far as him dealing with this situation back at that time before people were more open. Then of course, it would be understandable as to why she would be thinking That he has gotten a younger woman. Going by some of the comments here, If this is the way you would talk about your wife, Pretending and acting like she has no reason to think that there's another woman... All women would think that, At least in the beginning. If the shoe is on the other foot, you can most definitely be assured That the man would think his wife was whoring around. There is more going on here than people are paying attention to. As I said before, he has shutting down on her as she has mentioned she has shown interest in his day and work and he completely cuts that conversation off twi e just as he did about the subject of another woman. He won't even validate her feelings on this. We have no idea what is going on at home and Im sure it's worse in private where nobody can critique their communication techniques.

[@dmacrolens]

Do you always play with yourself in public?

[@GizzelleBrookes-vs5ec]

@dmacrolens Do you always show your lack of brain power in public?

[@deemari577]

The title was deceiving...

[@curiousme113]

The counselor looks mischievous and over interested at the same time

[@scott9050]

He looks like the actor that was Vic Morrow's friend in the Twilight Zone movie (bar scene).

[@ivettepalacin8599]

Husband is a jerk, full of himself and his job. Hope he got what he deserved. Hope she moved on, realized she was glad to be rid of him.

[@matthewghardy]

Dat cigarette

[@divinecooperation4555]

😳🥺 who the h3ll would be turned on by a bitter snake such as this??? my God!!!!😖😰

[@andromedadelux]

I could solve their issue in less than 30 minutes. After which, they'd become inseparable.

[@Vinnie101a]

I'd have the same problem if I was coming home to that one.

[@ConstantGardener-q9q]

I want to know what happened next

[@redleo380]

What a world

[@Ma-oh6xo]

She looks at him in such a way, that I can understand why he can't. [Edit] The way he talks to her makes me understand why shy looks at him that way.

[@josephhertzberg2734]

Maybe he simply wasn't attracted to her

[@CatRiley]

The wife looks like one of The Kids in the Hall who’s dressed up as a woman.

[@lisar3944]

I am soooooo glad to be single :D

[@terrytube5247]

David, judging by the comments, you should clarify something. This is an industry film and these people are actors.

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

That is completely incorrect. All the information about this film and others like it that were recorded at that time indicate that these were real people and the doctors were real as well. There is no evidence of them being actors and if they were, they would have to be among the most famous to pull that off. David Hoffman filmmaker

[@user-cs3hi8zp7p]

Geez...imagine if dude really didn't have an affair & the wife is just so far into his head! She might be just putting WAY too much pressure on him, but maybe she has good reasons🤔....who knows!

[@paulgibby6932]

pre-Viagra

[@xxxxxx-tq4mw]

I thought she was a guy, seriously.

[@JWF99]

Archie & Edith Bunker!✌😂✌

[@its4yourowngood_yvfw]

She gives me anxiety.

[@fifthbusiness1678]

This guy vehemently denied having an affair, David, and wasn’t challenged, so I don’t quite understand the title of this particular video. A fictitious affair didn’t appear to be the problem here, but rather a number of other factors. Nonetheless, quite a frank and interesting discussion.

[@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker]

Of course you are correct having seen the film, but the purpose of the title is to draw viewers who then can decide if they want to view the clip. The purpose of the title is not to describe the details of the clip as that would take too many words. David Hoffman filmmaker

[@allenhaywood9608]

i imagine with a wife you should figure your workday doesn't end until she goes to sleep, gotta save some gas in the tank to hit that finish line

[@josephmull2158]

Its booze ladies and gentlemen

[@hermaggiesty]

Poor guy

[@rustynails68]

I would have jumped out of a window.

[@josephmull2158]

Umm.. the guy did some bad shit.

[@mynameisntruby2405]

I have a theory about him. What's yours?

[@gretaferebee3179]

Might have been caused by the same reason he sought out someone to have an affair with. Might just not have been attracted to his wife anymore?

[@rbfclaboratoryandstudio]

Hire a private eye and find out the truth. Problem solved.

[@SportsFiend33]

The husband is hilarious

[@dmacrolens]

If only they had smoked more cigarettes more quickly!!

[@naturalPaths]

Viewing this from a 2023 perspective, my immediate thought viewing the thumbnail was that the wife was an open transgender. I thought that was going to be a central part of the video. 🤷‍♀️

[@mynameisntruby2405]

They have children..........................

[@naturalPaths]

@@mynameisntruby2405 ‘Immediate thought viewing thumbnail’ means first view of static picture, not yet having watched video.

[@mynameisntruby2405]

@@naturalPaths Okie doke.

[@chaddydad1]

Sad.This was just a start.

[@SMaamri78]

Everyone bashing on her looks but I find her attractive, except for the cigarette.

[@adrianamancuso4917]

I want to know what happens hehe

[@krowraven7]

stop drinking

[@accordionSWE]

Good advice.

[@erikavaleries]

Oh snap

[@rickjensen2833]

Try oysters and amphetamines. The polyester doesn't help either. He he

[@lynnemurphy114]

😆this is better than any real life ive seen I hope Margaret, got another love..23 years grand looking lady ...its his loss 🤩 X

[@fredthejunkman]

I think she's a dog.

[@TopherGrant]

This is why marriage is the worst option. Humans weren't meant to be monogamous

[@fredthejunkman]

@@TopherGrant That's just your opinion. I was very happy being married. I didn't cheat on my wife.

[@Vinnie101a]

A very cold fish indeed.

[@TopherGrant]

@@fredthejunkman but did it last? No. That's my point. Not about cheating. But boredom