She Was Scared To Sleep With Him, So She Pushed Him Off A Cliff | Jordan Graham

[@chastitynayeri83]

Omg I love you!! My mom loves watching you too. She was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and has moved in with me and was not into or heard of watching KZbin. But she does love watching you. Thank you so very much for all your hard work ti bring us these videos

[@Pixiecrust]

❤ much love and well wishes to you and your mum

[@MsFraisedesbois]

❤❤❤

[@sumerayounis2995]

May God make.it easy for your mum **prayers x

[@caitlyntaggart8950]

that is truly amazing!! prayers for you and your family ❤

[@stephanielewis1006]

Xoxo ❤

[@maryannfascetti6421]

Thank you Zara. I believe if she was so afraid sex . She should never have gotten married. Let him move on to someone that actually wanted to be with in all aspects. She could have joined a convent and saved a good mans life in the process.

[@LasBlackUnicrn]

This case and Cody’s loss has always been so confusing, completely senseless, and sad as hell. I understand how damaging high demand religions and purity culture can be but like, did Jordan even like Cody at all?! Desperate to be a wife and mom but terrified to consumate the Marriage to the point of murder? How did she think those kids were going to get here? I wish she would’ve been honest and just asked to go slow. With the way he was willing to do anything for her, I’m sure he would’ve obliged. Seems she just wanted a wedding an nothing else. Cody deserved better. May he RIP 💕🙏🏾

[@caseyminett7394]

Alot of strict religious families don't let their kids have sex education. It's possible she didn't really understand how babies were made... Just a thought

[@LasBlackUnicrn]

@@caseyminett7394 I was one of those people who werent taught about that stuff by my parents due to religion and cultural reasons. I learned through school and friends. She obviously knew about s3x to some degree.

[@lifewithaliciaready2866]

I 100% believe the blindfold theory. Her confession doesn't even make sense. If he had grabbed her and she pushed him off he would have been facing her so he would have fallen backwards and not face down. However if she's guiding him from behind she could easily walk him right up to the cliff edge and push him off with out him ever realize what's happening until it's too late.

[@SouthernMimi2]

Yes I feel this theory definitely has substance to it. I thought that as well, he would have been facing up if she had pushed him backwards. Also why would he have willingly gone over the barrier? The blindfold makes sense. He loved her so much and probably whole heartedly trusted her.

[@jiselamartel4580]

I 100% agree!

[@Jennyxx-ie5jw]

Yep especially the blindfold part people do that when they're trying to suprise their partners and make them unaware especially im the bedroom

[@Richhpotato]

“I don’t want the stigma of a divorce” The stigma of being a murderer: 👁️👁️ 🫦

[@Jennyxx-ie5jw]

100% but in some cultures and religions divorce is a big deal and brings heavy shame to families! Image is more important for some individuals regardless of how bad the marriage is going🤦🏾‍♀️

[@faridaaminy9734]

Yeah, cause that's so much better🙄🙄

[@Morticia1313]

I would have thought the sex aspect of the whole thing would have crossed her mind if she was that scared about it. I mean it's weird that it just dawned on her on the wedding night? I think it was premeditated on her part because that's a dangerous place to go walking at night. I love the way these "religious people" are embarrassed to get divorced but killing someone is A-Ok! Nuts! That's such a sad story.

[@perfectlyimperfect_8528]

Omg this case is WILD!!! I’ve done a lot of research on this one, & it just baffles me. I feel as if the only reason she went through w the wedding is bc she has always dreamt of having her “fairytale wedding”. However, she didn’t want to do all the things that wives do. And if s*x was really that terrifying of an activity for her, I feel as if having a conversation w her HUSBAND and/or getting some therapy/counseling would’ve gone a long way. Certainly it would’ve been a better option then pushing him of a cliff!! Idk, people are so complicated & almost impossible to understand, but this case i particularly and the reason(s) it happened are in a whole different level of complexity & confusion for me

[@SouthernMimi2]

I agree. Even churches have counseling if your that religious.

[@zombie.xo333]

This is a wild example of how purity culture can dangerously cause people to dissociate from their own sexuality and even fear it

[@angelang222]

This case has always stuck with me too and I wish Cody had found someone who deserved him. Jordan is just awful - terrible human being

[@dianeshannon7988]

Just awful really??? Not condoning her wicked plan too young naive repressed to even think about marriage she should have cooled it down or separated.

[@angelang222]

@@dianeshannon7988 she clearly never even cared for Cody. She was happy and laughing on the way to go discover his body: yes she is awful in my opinion

[@spacemanspliff7983]

​@@dianeshannon7988 Way to stick up for a murderer 😂

[@awesomesauce2000]

Just found your channel and I'm already obsessed. Soon you'll have millions of subs, I'm positive. 😊❤

[@chyanne721]

Keep up the good work ❤ love your videos!

[@chriscruz4281]

Zara.... You go girl! Appreciate your spirit!!!!

[@dumbysoup9011]

It is also said that Cody has a deep fear of heights, he would never go to that part of the cliff. He was also was blindfolded for most of the trip because it was planned by Jordan, she told him she had a surprise before leading him to the cliff and pushing him off. I think he thought they both were going to fix their relationship and she was going to promise him something sexual before being pushed off. I don’t know why she couldn’t tell him she was scared of sex and they could go to therapy and talk about it and see what to do from there, he shouldn’t have to die because she didn’t want to talk about her feelings on the topic

[@LianeBrooklynFlgirl]

I love Tuesdays with Zara!

[@shantiltaylor105]

I truly enjoy your content!!!🫶🏾 Keep up the amazing work sis! 👏🏾 May your channel continue to grow, and your voice reach the ears of millions of viewers! Your subscriber count should be ten times higher than it currently is. I’m happy to be apart of your audience, and witness the growth of your craft! 💯 Thanks for bringing forth these stories, in an empathetic manner, for viewers like me! 🤍

[@karencheatwood5235]

Once again, great job telling the story.

[@jamie6704]

This case has always blown my mind.

[@Prettyface127]

This is one of my biggest fears especially with my children. I refuse to take them to the Grand Canyon because I’m so afraid they would slip and fall. There were so many red flags within that short marriage. So sad he didn’t even see them.

[@TJ-bn2cn]

As a parent I’m sure that they would be safer with you? Or are you frightened of what you would do?

[@TJ-bn2cn]

Try actually safely allow your children to explore. I feel sorry for children who aren’t allowed to live life and enjoy it.

[@Prettyface127]

You must not have children then.

[@justdej]

"I wish someone asked me what I wanted." Uuuum I'm pretty it was your chance when he ASKED you if you would marry him. 🙄 I'd rather be known as the person who got a divorce vs being known as the person who murdered my husband after a week of being married because I didn't want people to know I wanted a divorce.

[@Karen-rq7sx]

I'm a new fan and I've been obsessed with your video and your way of telling stories is oddly calming and very respectful. I want to suggest covering the case of Erika Murr/the blackstone house of horrors

[@Gocha-p4t]

I was thinking about this exact case yesterday 😊 thanks Zara! ❤

[@rotten55]

Woah, as someone who lived in Montana I have never heard of this case until now.

[@SouthernMimi2]

Wonderful job on the video as usual ❤. I believe the blindfold theory imo.

[@allyselby8335]

would you be able to cover the case of antonio moniz? it’s a wild one 😵‍💫 to say the least

[@Shesthebadmamajama]

Hiking at night isn’t normal if you value your life! Yikes 😬

[@jetson10100]

What about the song referring to "climbing, falling"? She planned this.

[@FrancesRC]

No it’s not normal to hike at 9pm here in America. I love hiking! But don’t go in the dark. Aside from a person being able to hurt you, there’s also animals

[@SZ-lk3pi]

The way I been watching the same KZbinrs for like the past 10 years but ur an exception

[@allyselby8335]

i recently discovered ur content, i love itttt! u deserve so many subs i can’t wait to see u grow😊

[@christinamurphy8645]

Wwwwwwwoooooohhhhhooooooo!! I love it when your notifications pop up! Dang work got in the way of my watching sooner! 😂 But such is adulting…… Have a great day!!! Happy Holidays!! PS Will you be taking a holiday break? Ok bye!

[@mizz2ts86]

Hey Zara boo❤️‼️ This case angers me every time I hear it! She should have just walked away!

[@sumerayounis2995]

love your videos Zara! lots of love from England 🇬🇧

[@BirdieRaeLee1786]

American here, yes we hike at night and even camp in national parks!!

[@rachelrae860]

So I wanted to give my opinion on this case. First of all Jordan should have never married him. If she thought relations freaked her out she should have had the marriage annulled. What she did was disgusting, and heinous.this is my opinion. She was so religious that she murdered her husband. Make that make sense. She deserved life in prison

[@KitKatB83]

This is a "Stick With Me" case! My brother in law lives near. I want to go look over the edge. Eeeeek. I can't help it. It's fascinating.

[@rachelrae860]

Hi Zara I'm glad I'm able to watch now. As always I love and adore you ❤. You know how I feel about you but I'll always comment. I enjoy watching and listening to you. The way you deliver these cases it's done phenomenally. Your personality is everything ❤️🌹🥰🌻🦋🌺🤗😍. Guys please click the like button because Zara is incredibly amazing at her craft and you won't be disappointed 😊

[@deedragongirl]

Hello Zara, I knew of this case from True Crime Daily, can you please do the wild case of Travis the Chimp Zara?

[@witchcraftandlizardry]

I from LA but I went to Calispell when I was a teenager cause my sister was living there. I had no idea this case happened there! I just have so many questions of why she felt this was her only option and especially as a religious woman. This one always sticks in my mind too!! So much! It’s such a small town like I remember walking right up to the plane the air port was so teeny and I loved glacier national park.

[@MelissaModsMetal]

Idk that special wedding song makes me think she had this planned for a long time.

[@dariameredith1137]

Hiking at night ain’t normal ANYWHERE. 🤦‍♀️ That poor guy!

[@Manictaco]

She was really sick in the head and I wonder what made her marry him! What was she trying do? What was her goal? He seemed so sweet and Inlove but she was just doing for status it seems. Hate that he had to loose his life over someone who didn’t care at all

[@steffithintherye4918]

You said Kallispell correctly the third time. When you said i hope i said that right. 😊 the I doesnt make the ee sound. This story always sticks with me too. And it infuriates me. This entire situation could have been different with a little open and honest communication. Love your videos 😊

[@christylamacchia9818]

ZARA……..MORE PHOTOS IN YOUR VIDEOS TO REMIND US WHAT THE PEOPLE LOOK LIKE. EVEN IF ITS THE SAME ONES OVER AND OVER. . OTHER THEN THAT LOBE LOVE YOU AND YOUR GORGEOUS.

[@lisalazaro2137]

She didn’t want to be treated like a child but that’s exactly how she acted. She avoided everything rather than dealt with it. Poor poor Cody. Despite all the time at church, Jordan is pure evil. May she have the life she deserves.

[@Pixiecrust]

Zara, can you please do the case on Austin myers and justin back? Austin is my family member.

[@stephanielewis1006]

I loved that light pink lipstick on you, goes so good with your skin tone, kind of flirty. You should've left it 😮

[@tinaparks1770]

I have to say that you have gorgeous hair & eyes. Do you use a certain shampoo & conditioner that you would recommend? Thank you in advance...

[@ZaraV]

Hi, thank you so much! I wouldn't say my hair is that great it maybe looks great on camera haha but I'm currently using the purple Virtue shampoo and conditioner ☺️

[@MissSallyB1]

I was waiting for the plot twist that Jordan had been ab/used as a child, which would have been *some* sort of explanation for her not wanting to have sex, but...nope, she's just twisted in the head.

[@sagebryant786]

I don't think they fought. I don't believe she ever told Cody how she felt. I think she told him she had a surprise for him maybe he thought it was going to be some romantic thing not necessarily an intimate thing and she got him over the safety wall and pushed him. She could have easily ended the relationship at anytime even before the marriage and even before he proposed but she didn't. I don't think she loved him but for whatever reason her religion, her family, self pressure she married Cody because she believed she was supposed to. She realized there was no way to walk away innocent. She would be the bad guy no matter what. I know there are people who because of certain religious upbringing they have serious issues with sex whether it's fear of it, feeling dirty anytime they do it, some even go mentally someplace else to be able to do it. I also know there are people that just aren't intimate they just don't have any desire for it. Those things are fine and understandable but you still have to communicate how you feel to the person you are with, if you want a non-sexual marriage it's possible but you have to find someone that also wants that. There were just too many times she could have walked away even an annulment could have been done which is not divorce but she just kept going. If you have to ask if you are doing the right thing clearly you don't want to do it but something is pushing you to. I feel for Cody's family and friends my heart breaks for his mother and I believe there's more to Jordan's decision to even marry him than we know and ultimately it was a choice made in cowardice.

[@ivanal.c6424]

Okay from someone who lives in the area... That's just what you do here. I literally live and work in Yellowstone, and you're surrounded by nature, you take advantage of it. Growing up in MT people have these beautifully dangerous places as their literal backyard. Also nobody pays after hrs even tourists. There's barely enough people to work the booths during the day unfortunately...

[@Al3in7]

The fact that it was love marriage not even arranged she did everything by her will like why marry if u aren't ready for a family 🥲

[@amberrodriguez851]

See but the one question I have is…. “What do you call it!” 😂 I’m kidding! You’re adorable!

[@Jennyxx-ie5jw]

100% but in some cultures and religions divorce is a big deal and brings heavy shame to families! Image is more important for some individuals regardless of how bad the marriage is going🤦🏾‍♀️

[@JanaPienaar-ni7rf]

My sister is so afraid of getting married. She broke off her engagement as she does not want to have any sex she says she is afraid it's going to hurt or she wont be the same

[@Jennyxx-ie5jw]

I have made mistakes when i was younger but Jesus Christ showed me the way and i have vowed to never make these mistakes ever again 🙏🏾 for some reason i also am very scared to do it even though i have done it many times before and I am waiting till marriage

[@fatamy8597]

it’s really not that serious lmao

[@stormyanngraves]

I heard of this case before and I thought at first maybe she was hurt as a kid and maybe that’s why she was scared of sex with her husband but it just seems she didn’t actually wanna be with him so off the cliff he goes. So messed up.

[@terridemaio7334]

Hey zara Im in today with my true crime this is wild

[@JesusismyRock773]

I hope she serves the full sentence and doesn't get parole. Cody doesn't get parole, so she shouldn't either.

[@andrea4505]

Case suggestion of Kim Wall a Swedish journalist and a crazy Danish man with his own submarine.

[@Angie2343]

22:45 Cody talked to his wife like a child... Wow! Sounds like he was abusive and controlling.

[@dianamariecentro4664]

Jordan is so damn selfish.

[@claireculp576]

Makes me wonder if she suffered some sort of sexual trauma in her past. Maybe she didn't remember but was triggered by advances by her husband.

[@mrsmerily]

nope, i dont come super religious family but somehow not knowingly my mom made me really afraid of it. It took lot of time to come understand that... and i am not religious at all.

[@perfectlyimperfect_8528]

I personally believe Jordan planned the entire thing. The idea of having sex w Cody was just too much for her…. But the idea of being a widow, especially when they were married less then 2 wks was better then getting a divorce or annulment for Jordan So yeah she planned on killing her husband & play the grieving widow. Although she couldn’t even pretend to care enough about Cody to fake being sad about his death. She’s pure evil in my opinion

[@brandybruner9274]

I think that every single person that contributed and encouraged that wedding should feel guilty. They saw that girl did not want to marry him. If she did not want to have sex with him, then him trying to have sex with her likely felt like coercion. Jordan had an ideal of marriage, but did not want the man or the marriage. She devised a plan to get herself out. It was a dumb, selfish, murderous plan.

[@lauriedaniele5967]

Why not just get a divorce or an annulment annulment is like you were never married. Be honest you’re not happy.❤ it doesn’t matter she should’ve just divorced him if she was that afraid of sex, and everything else. Prayers for his family and friends.

[@TheRealTakiyahDenise]

I was raised in a Christian household and was taught to wait until marriage. I was never scared of sex or taught to be scared of it. Every household is different, but once you get married your bodies are officially each others. Once the time is right, you go for it. It was their honeymoon and she still wasn’t with it? When that’s usually expected on a honeymoon! I just think she wasn’t feeling him to begin with. Probably tried to give it a chance because she wanted to be married so badly. Instead she should have went with her gut and said no to even dating and he would still be alive and with someone who ACTUALLY cared about him. Smh it’s a sad tragedy and she is EXTREMELY selfish for taking away that first moment from him! 😭

[@Jennyxx-ie5jw]

I have made mistakes when i was younger but Jesus Christ showed me the way and i have vowed to never make these mistakes ever again 🙏🏾 for some reason i also am very scared to do it even though i have done it many times before and I am waiting till marriage

[@halfofmyheart3167]

The things people will do to escape their feelings & avoid uncomfortable situations is absolutely insane. I’m Christian, but not nearly as strict as they seemed to be. I can understand being scared to have sex, but did she think God would reward her for killing her husband?! Crazy.

[@anniecarver3672]

365 days a week ??

[@so.many.obstacles]

Jordan needs life in prison.

[@perfectlyimperfect_8528]

The idea of marriage sounded great to Jordan but the reality of what marriage entails was just too much for her I think

[@danutza1980]

He was blindfolded. She planned everything.

[@TJ-bn2cn]

God help anyone who comes across Jordan!!

[@giapaul7973]

I think that Jordan is a coward. She loved the idea of marriage which is why she went through with it even though she didn’t love Cody. She didn’t have it in her to reject Cody’s proposal since she loved the idea of marriage no matter who it was with. Jordan couldn’t even bring herself to tell Cody about her feelings towards sex. Jordan should have told Cody about her discomfort with sex and should have talked about it with him before marriage. It seems she didn’t communicate well with Cody. If Jordan didn’t love Cody then she should have talked about it with Cody earlier and shouldn’t have said yes to his proposal. If Jordan had communicated her feelings with Cody then none of this would have happened. They could have worked something out or they would have split and found someone else that truly made them happy. It seems that the relationship was very one sided with Cody being the only one making an effort while Jordan wasn’t doing anything. Even the love was one sided with Cody being in love with her while Jordan didn’t feel the same way.

[@tinaparks1770]

The word you're looking for is = embedded

[@bonnieralph5151]

I think she was raised in religion and due to that she had to do what she thought was the right thing by getting married and waiting to have sex but I think she might have struggled with the feelings of men not being what she was attracted to. Yes I think she prefers women and her grandmother was the only one who knew it. I dont think this young person set out to 'hurt' anyone but being brought up so strict in her beliefs after she got married she finally just told her husband thinking he would love her anyway and just be patient until she could handle sex but he wasn't and asked for a divorce so she snapped and killed him. And I think he had EVERY right not to want to 'wait', he had already waited until they were married and NOW she is finally telling him the truth, I would expect him to run as fast as he could away from this liar! Thats just what I think anyway.

[@oscarloveswag6071]

Poor Kody he didn’t deserve this . Jordan had very big religious issues regarding sex .

[@terridemaio7334]

You Look Great

[@nijinka11]

365 days a week? 😅

[@lieslwright70]

She definitely planned the murder. The surprise, the blindfold, getting him to step over the barrier. Planned. She’s a psychopath. I mean that she has no empathy and when she suddenly decided she didn’t want to marry him, she thought pushing him off a cliff was the simplest option for her. Awful human.

[@jackie_cortes]

How freaking sad omg. Why even commit to someone then or why not divorce? She was religiously delusional and nuts.

[@LadyLash22]

Ah yet another marriage where ppl just got married bc they were in love with the IDEA of being married and not each other gone wrong. Please never do this. That custom song is WILD tho given what happened.

[@debbiepatrick399]

Gi Zara

[@jill9405]

Why didn't she just not get married? Now she's in prison, he should still be alive.

[@Eva-tx1ls]

So murder is better then divorce?! Unbelievable. Thank you for your videos.

[@crystalaltman4958]

What in the world kind of religion does she have? Because I’m pretty sure Christianity (I’m a Christian) says murder is a sin, but having sex with your husband is actually a great thing.

[@melaninandaura9713]

Yeah you sped through this one really fast. Lol

[@kaylas8910]

Genophobia. Fear of having sex.

[@Lonerstoner86]

Chile what’s ur secretes cause then eyes is giving evil !!!!!

[@stephanielewis1006]

Conservative religious people have to have someone else with them on a date or if isn't proper

[@april6461]

Hola Zara besitos 😘 hee hee

[@savannahsally8192]

Just a note on brining friend’s on dates or never being alone, it could have been for chaperones. For those of us who have decided not to have you know what before marriage it helps when people are around. Just a perspective to share I’m not defending anything done.

[@xoxoindie]

Jordan is an exil exil person.

[@anarchblack9460]

Ok but ur own intake in ur personal life in every video is a big no for me

[@howardjohnson5802]

On the honeymoon cody should have just took it.

[@molliemayallan]

What???

[@dumbysoup9011]

wtf is wrong with you

[@Al3in7]

Zara is one of the best storyteller🥹❤️😍👏

[@pretty_sagittarius]

I personally think she did nothing wrong she was overwhelmed especially when you your a virgin everyone must have expected her to lose it on her honeymoon. Not everyone is mentally ready.

[@mrsmerily]

I was just looking a comment like this. Saying murder is okey... because this and that... she could have divorced and live happily as virgin forever.

[@rachelrae860]

Wow you think she did nothing wrong?? She freaking murdered her husband because she didn't wanna have an intimate relationship with him. Are you for real? She could have that marriage annulled but she thought murder was okay?? Yeah she's some kind of Christian. You must be a fruit loop for thinking that!!!

[@Anything.1678]

It’s really disrespectful to the victims and victims families when you talk about what happened to them/ to thier loved ones while putting makeup and having zero empathy towards them as if it’s a story from a book . These are real humans with feelings and people who loved them . Have some respect! Your make up skills aren’t even worth it

[@savgillespie]

She’s very sympathetic. You must be new here.

[@angelang222]

If you don’t like it don’t watch-

[@xocaz11]

shut up lol she’s always emphatic & respectful. you’re obviously new here.

[@DVelez-wz3fe]

Wow! Do you feel better now after that rant? Zara is very kind and empathetic. I’ve been watching her a long time, and I don’t even notice her putting on makeup anymore. There are plenty of other channels, why come on here to leave such a nasty comment?

[@dianeshannon7988]

It's called multitasking ladies do it all the time

[@chriscruz4281]

Zara.... You go girl! Appreciate your spirit!!!!