Things Women Love in Bed | Answers Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist

[@elizabethwakefield8894]

Unfortunately most men don't ask, and assume what works for one woman, works for every woman. Also a lot of women are to blame, as they don't/won't speak up, and say/show what works best for them. Truly, communication is the most important thing in every aspect of your relationship

[@rontang8092]

Women want us to sniff out what they want.

[@formwiz7096]

Problem is, a lot of women won't say. As is often the case, women expect men to be mind readers.

[@iangough7659]

Slow hand with an easy touch....a 70’s song letting us men know

[@elizabethwakefield8894]

@@formwiz7096, that goes both ways......a lot of men don't communicate their wants and needs either. I guess we all need to learn how to be more open and honest about what we want 😊

[@sandeepva9234]

@@elizabethwakefield8894 hi

[@akashkumardigal656]

Truth is women love to be loved & cared.

[@axelblaze7144]

Yea after that the things come around are being taught in this video

[@theblackfact2734]

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[@valakdemon7488]

lol, not true😂

[@axelblaze7144]

@@valakdemon7488 😂😂

[@knownneverb4]

You missed the most important point. Women like to feel they are attractive. So if the man does not make her feel attractive, (may be by saying she is beautiful, loving, caring, etc.), everything else is futile.

[@caborabassa696]

Nonsense!

[@Luigi13]

In my understanding the first stimulus is in the mind. The mind creates scenarios of what we fantasies or think we like. All the other descriptions are just right, slow, sensual, verbal, and loving.

[@paulranger5250]

Ladies! communicate to the man what you like. There's no way he will know if you don't tell him!

[@danrowley6934]

There are tons of young boys (vs men) who's first idea about sex is thru watching porn. Whatever the actor & actress "like' these kids think they're the pros we'll do things their way. I've talked to girls, thru this thing, & their number one bitch...there is no lead-up to foreplay because there is no foreplay. After play they've no clue what you mean. It's the old...SLAM BAM THANK-YOU MAM & out the door for their next notch. Surprised they don't hog tie the girl through him over their shoulder into the cave.

[@drbell26]

I think you mean "people with vaginas"? She offers good advice, Hard to get past her terminology.

[@paulranger5250]

@@drbell26 👍👍😁😁

[@kasihsayang8497]

100% true

[@danrowley6934]

Been driving me nuts for over 50 yrs. Then they get pissed because we don't like guessing games nor beating around the bush. Being straight with us....naw.

[@sudha1201]

You explained in a nutshell. Now everyone can understand the expectations of our body and mind. Superb mam.

[@ultimate6243]

Feminist -- Women need men like fish needs bicycle Men -- Ok. Then die alone

[@mandadinarayana4909]

@@ultimate6243 😂😂😂😂😂

[@theblackfact2734]

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[@babajaiy8246]

For a video that is trying to speak and communicate a message too as many people as possible - You gave an excellent talk that could not in my opinion be any better. As a man who always wants to find ways to make my Lover happy, I love this talk and appreciate it very much. Thank you. If you had your practice in my city, I would immediately book an appointment with you, not because I am experiencing problems with my Lover but I have the sense you could help to heighten and take our lovemaking to another level. You seem very naturally insightful and understanding in this area of human life activities.

[@PramodKumar-zm9wf]

Thanks a lot mem,I haven't ever seen or heard on this topic as analytical, step by step,bit by bit, every point

[@amoghn4176]

It was a very good way of letting things know and i really appreciate it. 😊 Thank you

[@hoomanAdnan]

Beautifully described ❤️

[@theblackfact2734]

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[@jappajalimpa]

Very candid talk & useful information for men. Thank you Dr. Martha for not hesitating a bit in sharing your own experiences besides the professional tips, love it ❤.

[@jarichards99utube]

Excellent informative video.. Thanks 😊😊

[@phoenix_mantra]

To the person reading this never lose hope there's always something to be grateful for :)

[@phoenix_mantra]

@Arun shiva samy what happened??

[@keeseong2980]

Did she say she had many many partners over the years? Wow, she really walk the talk.

[@bhanupukkalla7937]

No she said many many many many partners

[@easyedub]

Yeah, she said that - it got an eyebrow raise out of me as well! LOL - Always interesting what pops up in your YT feed, (here from watching premature gray hair videos?)

[@catrashoo]

@@bhanupukkalla7937 She had all sizes and colors 🤔

[@charlieirvin5423]

@@bhanupukkalla7937 Like a Smooth Operator she is

[@denzy5773]

Hoes don't lie

[@writikamanocha7622]

Thankyou for describing it so well.

[@abdulmazed9163]

Very good. Thanks

[@sandeepva9234]

True

[@sbsb4995]

The best advice on the internet.

[@derekwilliams1660]

That was very informative. Me,I like to mix it up every once in a while because doing the same thing over and over gets boring.

[@etcetera3282]

The most sensible sexual advice I ever heard.

[@nirajprince149]

$ Use this video as a Conversation starter. $ That was really nice of her ❤️

[@fauziramli8155]

The best is when your partner enjoy what you enjoy doing ( slow and fast) on her and ultimately both climax at the same time. Fireworks 💥

[@radar0412]

Finally, a helpful video. You Lady's should bookmark this Video, have your Man watch it, and then have an open book quiz afterwards. Guy's really want our Lady's to have a positive attitude towards Sex and will do whatever they can to make the experience fun.

[@dorothy3496]

T MI just see MI MI by

[@MrLADVG]

Also educate women about men, things women to do

[@ronaldinojikri5682]

Men ... who?

[@ashura865]

Yes exactly

[@ashura865]

For male so it should be done what really men needs for sex

[@misterbig9025]

soft slow sensuous and consistent, yes ma'am

[@hardenbergia]

Married 30 years. My wife seems to be almost the opposite. Fast, frantic and furious.

[@lionking-vg2xl]

Like the movie, fast and furious😂😂😂

[@Babarflower]

😝😝😝

[@p.maneeshvikram6821]

😂😂😂😂

[@PawbaVlogs]

🤣🤣🤣👍👌👌👌

[@emailsender7139]

luckey man u!

[@andrewjschutz]

I approve. Even though this is from a woman’s standpoint, these points are almost 100% legit in my experience. I’m always trying to stay on top of my game so I’ll say these things she brought up serves as a great reminder. Every woman is different, so when she says take it with a grain of salt, that only means try everything at least once, and most importantly- LISTEN. Hear her breath, her means, the way her body moves, and afterwards, dig into what she truly enjoyed during each session. You should be better after each experience. And I’m telling you- there’s very little things in this world that feels better than having the skill or ability to make your women experience ecstasy by your hand alone. This is next level shit, guys.

[@stephengunasekara3057]

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[@brhodes0]

Are you high?

[@Tom6567my]

Yeh its a good skill to develop. As long as men know that good sex doesnt mean a stronger relationship or improve a womans commitment in a relationship.

[@dwightdodd3734]

perfectly stated,Andy !!!!!!

[@kpehe100]

They are just different types of them. You meet one your finger is better than your cock, another the finger is an enemy yet the cock does not give her pleasure. You may have to give 30 minutes of foreplay while you're ready but waiting for her. By the time she is getting there you are already getting weak. Let us agree that nature decided it that way, men should enjoy it while women control the men

[@bustersmith7535]

Story telling durning foreplay works!

[@leena21joyce23]

Very true about woman body. 🤝

[@johnthonig8832]

@Harish Cacar My wife loves it I do too

[@jerryprogress8879]

Hello beautiful Joyce how are you doing

[@pulzomoarieskap2602]

I like that touch here touch there here there and everywhere makes it more exciting and building it up. love you doc!

[@ayushi0510]

So informative! Thanks 💜

[@jefolson6989]

Do who doesn't already know thus in theory. Be advised: a woman wants it the way you ARENT doing it. When she's mad, She will say " he is too rough" or " he's too slow " " he's always gentle but I want savage " YOU CANT WIN! If she tells you what she wants, great. If she expects you to intuitively know, let her be frustrated. And when she knows what you really want, she will withhold it, only doling it out on rare occasions. Don't use sex as a weapon.

[@ibberman]

My woman has been very consistent the last 40 years, once a month during a TV commercial, with the sound turned down. Oh and an occasional birthday.

[@jefolson6989]

@@ibberman she turns down the sound for you? THAT'S true love!

[@CheechNoChong-mb6wp]

God’s cruel joke is to create men and women who desire and need each other. Two sexes that really don’t like each other.

[@Kakashi19-69]

Headphones: Check Doors locked: Check Time check: 2am Lets goooo

[@KP-lw3fh]

thanks Dr Martha for discussing our needs. 😌

[@srinivasrao1767]

Thank u for sharing......Learnt something in depth..

[@tenywapaulmichael525]

Thanks so much for being lively.

[@lesson36]

You just answered my question why I have been told by many partners that I am honestly their best sexual experience . I do all of the above 😍 The consistency works with every lady.

[@orangecity2673]

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[@clementmpushe5957]

Women tell everyone they date the same thing.lol !!!

[@steventan2550]

@@clementmpushe5957 Agree. But if she can't wait to go to bed with you again and again, that is the ultimate proof.

[@manofculture-69]

@lesson36 are you Johnny sins' student?

[@michaelmoore2802]

Very good video.....thanks 👍

[@Gamingstas]

"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." ~CHRIS ROCK

[@theblackfact2734]

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[@Gamingstas]

@Gulshana Jahan Mazumdar Huh...... Jealous This is true definition of being men, men can love his children, women, animals but he doesn't get love unconditionally....

[@ananyaverma9599]

@@Gamingstas Honestly that's not true. It's prolly only the animals who's get the love unconditionally. No human being every gets it without conditions applied. For women it's their beauty. No one ever loves an ugly woman. No matter how capable or nice she might be. That's the condition to get the love. It's never unconditional. Even for children. It's the expectations for the children. Expectations of doing what their parents want them to. Or of putting their parents' dream above their own. There's a price for everything

[@Gamingstas]

@@ananyaverma9599 What if your mother doesn't work and father is unemployed, he doesn't get the love and affection without any effort, if he works and earns more, than who is going to criticise him that he is unemployed moreover if it's a dowry, domestic vio case, fake or true.......Women can't understand it.... You can ask a true man and your father or any other will hide this from you....

[@aquafishcspeia2921]

@@Gamingstas The point isn't men get loved unconditionally, it's that no one gets loved unconditionally, not just men. Everyone has duties, not just men. Did your mother cook and clean and take care of you when you were a kid? And that's assuming she didn't also have a job outside the house. Even when you were a kid, wasn't it your job to study and behave in school, besides having chores and showing a reasonable level of obedience to your elders? Pets also have duties, they're expected to behave and not dirty up the house. Anyone who continuously act contrary to expectations will encounter problems, not just men.

[@kenselin]

SUPER advice. Thx. :D Ken, Toronto, CANADA

[@peterlim5217]

She lost me when she said “ a lot of people with penises🙄. We are called “MEN”.

[@stuartrogers621]

Of course! More than two sexes didn’t you know lol! Mustn’t upset the new world merchants ;0)

[@CheechNoChong-mb6wp]

I agree. I was wondering about that. I guess she has to be fair to the new genders that are being invented. God help us!!

[@alohaohana901]

How insensitive. I happen to be a trans-bender with a prosthetic pee pee.

[@CheechNoChong-mb6wp]

Sorry strange people. God/Nature whatever greater force you believe in, that entity created two genders. That’s it two. Everything else is a contrivance by politicians to gather votes by giving “them” a public forum. Everyone can live their lives privately at home with consenting adults. I object to those who want to force it down your throats by their constant plea for pity on the public forum.

[@99jeepxjguy97]

@@CheechNoChong-mb6wp Thank you! Exactly right. I would have no problem with them if they were not constantly pushing it at me.

[@h.k.dayarathna3564]

Thank you very much for your valuable video ,Martha .

[@StainlessladySparkle]

I learnt a lot

[@sanjeebchatterjee5778]

Nice informative mam

[@PramodKumar-zm9wf]

Thanks a lot mam 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@twithly-pum8433]

Thanks.. that was very informative

[@Paulohlsson7]

Hi Twithly, how are you doing?

[@yogeshnamdev8479]

Very nice...

[@irumwahid9857]

Very true, I need all these in my bed and my husband is very well educated.

[@raheelsharif6316]

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[@raheelsharif6316]

Dr raheel here from islmabad

[@learn_networking1]

Really Irum.....wowwwww....Tell me something regarding that..

[@redwow]

2 + 2 = 4, 4 +4 = 8, now are you sufficiently aroused?

[@achag9273]

Great. Very good information

[@jeremiahbuck2450]

"People with vaginas" , I gotta use that 🤣

[@udayakumarkk2578]

Insightful and awakening.

[@rolanddey6025]

Very practical & well explained. This video would useful to younger generation of both sexes. Thank u Dr. Lee.

[@ErosCoachingCom]

Really nice to hear this :) Please reshare. So close to 1M!

[@babajaiy8246]

Why younger generation in regards to women? Curious(not argumentative). Were you thinking in terms of young women who perhaps are not experienced with their sexuality and a way to help them 'move' into that sphere?

[@garyhenry2068]

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[@starlinecheyranmomin7967]

Thank you madam for your valuable information video ❤️💖💋💖💖

[@timtravasos2742]

Good info. Men approach foreplay like they do with their own bodies.

[@Kimmy-pw8tm]

This Doctor hits the nail on the head. Men just work too fast, too selfish to spend the time on the woman to make sure that she is wet and aroused.

[@flaviusvespasian]

You have gone out with low quality men. Either you are bad at picking men, or you are low quality woman yourself

[@Loveafricalovetheworld]

Hard Truth

[@liv-qi9gl]

@@flaviusvespasian So it’s always the womans fault huh?

[@flaviusvespasian]

@@liv-qi9gl I didn't say that. Nice try though.

[@liv-qi9gl]

@@flaviusvespasian You literally said either the woman is bad at picking men or she is a low quality woman herself, nice try though

[@oliverjackson9008]

Nice presentation, I appreciate it!

[@mafirearmsafety]

Nibbling her ear and whispering how beautiful she is while repeatedly driving the point home has always got a positive moaning response in my experience.

[@sanivkumar2145]

Very nice info

[@ick-625]

Problem of lack of communication goes both ways.. we push to discard stereotype on women but continue to hold those of men (or people with penises of you like) as if they are all the same and that they do not feel nervous to share what they like or what their fantasies are.. nowadays even more cause you don't know if even sharing something can be termed as harassment down the line of relationship didn't work out.

[@glorynkechiedwards8788]

Wow strong points Thank for sharing

[@tiffsaver]

I really, really liked your entire presentation. So easy and simple to understand that even a dumb guy like me can understand it. Kudos!!!

[@ErosCoachingCom]

Really nice to hear this :) Please reshare. So close to 1M!

[@StainlessladySparkle]

Wow I love your content 😍❤️💯

[@abdulmazed9163]

Very good. Thanks

[@Jack777760]

Well presented - thank you.

[@samvijayan1994]

Lovely information....

[@albertdulaman6147]

It is great to follow your tips Dr. It's really applicable to what I have experienced but sometimes the partners of the game may not fond of it. But at least it's not in a hurry manner. consistency is there. Longer game is more better.

[@rodericko9534]

Awesome.. thank u

[@lkvpawar8880]

I'm feeling lucky as man to understand woman and her feelings, body and all about her.

[@aminqasimnayani4220]

Good Luck And Best Wishes Forevver!

[@nagendrasareen2645]

Nice talk.MEN is soft and slow while foreplaying in the early stages.Playing with her body makes him harder and harder and fast. With excitement he becomes rough and starts vigorous actions like biting,bruising,pressing hard .How to control this and remain soft,slow and consistent??Any suggestions by friends.

[@iestrrguthrie4620]

Enjoyable love hearing what I.Had2 say. Thank.s

[@sanskrutiupare2587]

its actually correct word by word....thanks for the video...

[@theblackfact2734]

👍👍👍

[@maheshpadaya1212]

Hloo

[@quizudita]

@Harish Cacar NO, one shouldn't be doing IT during Menstruation Leave her Alone Let her Rest for 3-4 days...

[@TheH7hunk]

What about what men want

[@robnation2475]

You hit on some very nice points! Seems to jive really well with most if not all of my research in the field.

[@karimpazi8769]

As a woman I say this is so true

[@manofculture-69]

Would you be happy if your bf did this to you, like in a slow way instead of going straight to sex?

[@tusharparekh8060]

Very nice explanation 👌

[@2011littlejohn1]

I seem to do everything right - at least for my last partner. At one time she told me ''we're good at this.''

[@IvanIvanov-vy7pt]

HaHaHa And then she left you???

[@petruspegram2459]

Very good

[@surajc7929]

Thanks doc for the information. I'm sure to master this in the next few trials 😅

[@abdulmazed9163]

Very good. Thanks

[@riepethodawman1886]

It's very good advice for male...

[@debaratibanerjee8138]

You have explained it so well! Like a friend… god bless you… 🙏

[@sandeepva9234]

True

[@karlacrim2480]

Very , very nice !!! I am a woman who is with a woman and different things is what she wants so Thanks Alot !!!!!!

[@nadeemirfan8272]

💖💖💖 Nice to hear from you.

[@williamfisher2427]

This therapist is so right I was 30 before I learned this. I wish I would have known that when I was younger. The trouble most women do not inform their partners what they like. I had to learn this myself by trying different methods and I didn’t really satisfy partners when I was younger.

[@sajjadakhtar6486]

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[@AnjaliShukla.a]

Now I understood my likes

[@theblackfact2734]

👍👍👍

[@maheshpadaya1212]

Hloo

[@judithbalchin6777]

You are right good content

[@adammoran163]

One thing my wife doesn't love in bed is......ME!

[@garylake9317]

Same here

[@gilbertjean-louis4826]

Thanks a lot doctor.

[@anwarmamun2020]

How strange.. After centuries of doing it, men and women don't know about each other enough !🙄

[@simplemarryman5305]

Thank you doctor

[@zeescuba2778]

Ms Martha,...Thank you for your tips and instruction. Wow!!! I truly would like to know more about your practice. What's your ethnicity? I've spent a number of year in the far east & it's super to see your success. Care to share?

[@ErosCoachingCom]

Singaporean. i am contributing this video for SheThePeople TV. Obviously this channel does not belong to me.

[@mikeburgan7675]

Thank you

[@judvu1926]

I operate on the principle that a woman don't know what she wants until you give it to her ! 😊😄😂😁😊😉 And always let her know she is the sweetest in the world . Remember to leave her wanting more , they will come back for more .

[@redpilled4872]

😀😂😂✌🤘

[@SipNaranjit]

I like this, it's an interesting piece....variety....variety....variety....

[@elizabethwakefield8894]

We actually usually know exactly what we want, unfortunately a lot of women are uncomfortable asking/telling men what we want, or men just don't listen, especially in the heat of the moment

[@redpilled4872]

@@elizabethwakefield8894 No. women don't tell directly what they really want and expect us men to know and understand them.

[@elizabethwakefield8894]

@@redpilled4872, I agree with you 💯. We all need to learn to communicate our wants and needs more

[@jamalhussain4600]

madam i love you . your spking english is very clear and understood

[@gailcrowe727]

What I like in bed is my nice warm electric blanket, comfy mattress, soft sheets and warm duvet!😔 ,

[@johnthonig8832]

U go girl 😊

[@tumpy1]

Lovely and nicely explaining video.

[@michaelh7527]

I find women love to be dominated. In my experience, if you lead everything. They go wild 😜

[@clydebermingham121]

Only when & if they know & trust & feel secure, maybe …. Or , If ‘dominate’ does not equal violate

[@Janadu]

Wow, glad I met my husband before you. (Pssst: They're probably faking it because they know you think it's all about you)

[@learn_networking1]

You aren't picturizing for a porn.... Lol. 😂

[@mmaranta785]

Not American women….

[@aperson2020]

Thanks for the candid input. Very helpful. A couple of points. Consistent and non linear are a bit of opposites. The instruction feels like the man alone is responsible and sex is what a man does to a woman. In the brave new world of equality sex is supposed to be a mutual two way street. So how about a list of 5 things that men like in bed.

[@ffarmchicken]

I agree. My ex wife kinda left everything up to me. It was like I was doing work, haha. Now my girlfriend, she knows what she wants and she’s there participating. Big difference.

[@rickrick5041]

Easy. It’s the opposite of what woman want

[@raymondlim2190]

😇one man's sperm is another woman's taste. Everyone has their own style n performance as long as both party enjoy it n orgasm is not jus for one party,,,, it needs to b both during sex intercourse 😇🙏🏽😉😉

[@rickrick5041]

@@raymondlim2190 hell with their wishes lol

[@hermanhaller2237]

It will

[@welfordnewton5965]

Understand, thank you!

[@akesha4138]

Be pleasing to women, check. Tune in to what they like, check. Keep it varied, check. Have fun, make it fun, check. Keep it clean and inviting, check. Make it so they would want to do it again, check. When women are happy the world is wonderful.

[@johnlacroix1639]

TY,,,,,,WOW incredible very interesting super kool ,1st class great info.,, AAAAAAAAAAA+++++++++++ again great video I liked it a lot ,keep up the great work.

[@valakdemon7488]

Next video on: "Things Men Love in Bed"

[@VM-ee5hc]

There is only one thing 😂

[@shubhamntpc543]

bas ziddi na ho aur har cheez ko patriarchy na banaye..

[@theblackfact2734]

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[@nicholasherrera2641]

Martha, thank you.

[@smaranikapattanayak]

The 5th point is the most important one. 😄

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[@maheshpadaya1212]

Hloo

[@YakfzJKA]

Ab 5 number pe wapas dekhna hoga

[@akshaysingh3035]

@smaranika are you from Odisha?