SHOCKING UPDATE! BRETT GET'S EXP0SED BY MARIA| KOREAN STORY UPDATE| JOIE CHAVIS ADDRESSES BACKLASH

[@jimmiepasson2002]

There’s some messy messy stuff happening in this world, my life is peaceful and boring by these standards.

[@lurker616]

Mine too. And I LOVE it that way!

[@alishainc]

Tiktok is giving what Jerry Springer and Jenny Jones gave in the 90's. Wild.

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

😂😂😂

[@thews9181]

I used to love Jenny Jones 🤭🤭🤭 Especially the back then y'all didn't want me now I'm hot y'all all on me episodes

[@daniellenelson1772]

Facts lol

[@pranganoodle7440]

My crazy era...😂

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

😂😂

[@bricbrac28]

I have zero social media an the way you keep me informed of tiktok drama...girl im locked innnn!!😅😅😅😅

[@Heat_Rush]

Same!

[@LizettesB3autyChannel]

Yes!!!! “Women are confusing DESIRE with DESPERATION!!!” That’s what gets them caught up 😫 I feel like they don’t know the difference though….🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Angele21]

I love your videos, they really get me through my long 12 hour shift. Truck driver here and I don’t have a desire at the moment to have kids. Everytime I go to the store and look at the prices of clothes and diapers it deters me each time.

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Look at the price of daycare each week too. It ranges from 250 to 300

[@Angele21]

@@sixteen.candles.4644 omg 😱

[@shamanlee111]

I think that girl was stuck on pills, and that man was her dealer just like Wendy Willams and Kevin. She was willing to take the risk because she was strung out too. Thats why her test was positive. She was doing it as well.

[@bricbrac28]

Exactly. She just made zero sense, and then going to lie and say oh when he asked me did I want to get percs, I said yes sarcastically through a text!! like girl shut up 😑

[@annahjaya700]

Omg I never thought of this 🤯

[@chelseagriffin3148]

@shamanlee111 i said this in the last video & old girl left me a long ass comment. But I've dealt with addicts my whole life personally & work wise. Both of these ppl gave very much that.

[@shamanlee111]

​@@chelseagriffin3148 Thats why she was so triggered! She thought she was gonna expose him, and exposed herself. These aren't not women they are toxic little girls

[@TheBlackDorothyZbornak]

"You can no longer play the naïve card" PREACH! At this point you WANT to be living this life

[@ebunnies]

couldn’t even find the original tiktok last night, he must have took it down FAST 😭

[@jënesis18]

LITERALLY

[@Jaejoongwife08]

Dude talking about a robot doing everything for him with no complaints but the question is sir will you be able to afford one? Because it going to cost way more than your child support 😂

[@NgwanaMopulana]

Yani, you’re miss-remembering, the drugs were in his bags but she said she checked his begs along with hers. He was the one who got to the begs first coz apparently they took different flights. He ran and he was brought back by security. She said she got the gut feeling to leave but she stayed 😂. But that also doesn’t make sense coz why would he leave and not take he’s bags if was wanted to make a run for it. She said her work requirement is not being affiliated with someone who has a CR but he was allowed on base without background check makes no sense. Also why would you take someone along when you don’t even know where you’re going to sleep.

[@giavee2921]

I can’t believe she shared all that publicly…like baby sharing all this to the world is insane.

[@anon0268]

25:31 I’m not sure how it works where you’re from, but where I’m from, the dentist prescribes my pain medication and then I have to go to the pharmacy to pick it up. It’s like that with my regular dentist, and it was also like that when I had my wisdom teeth removed.

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

Same. They write the prescription and send it to your pharmacy. But where I live in MS they no longer do narcotic pain prescriptions.

[@liveonvenus]

I’m no doctor but taking adderall, percs, and alcohol is wild and deadly.

[@fern9560]

Thank you so much for the advice on self-confidence and how to seek it!! lost my close friend group recently because i stopped trying to please them after they hurt and ignored me, when i was used to letting them walk all over me for over 4 years. they didn't like the fact that i am trying to be the woman i dream to be. got blocked as soon as i stood up for myself and didn't accept the bare minimum, when they were used to me giving them all my time, energy and money. Im so grateful I have your videos to learn at 23, and not continue hating myself and allowing people to use me simply because im too young to know better

[@Barrymediagroup]

Yes he is toxic, you play dirty games you win dirty prizes.

[@daniellenelson1772]

This was a good one. New auntie here and I am having a ball, and celibate!

[@brownsugaewing]

Shout out to Yanie for always keeping it a buck 💯

[@allMinabe]

I just back home from work now i can listen 😩

[@chelseagriffin3148]

Me too lmao

[@crystalclearclarity1522]

I learned the whole “desperate desire” mindset when the narcissist entered my life at 45 years old. I had it “all” except a man. I wanted one. Didn’t realize I was operating in desperate desire. What a lesson I learned. Never knew what a narcissist was was until later in life. I will never make any decisions based on that again. I was given what I asked for with a twist. I got a demon.

[@Heat_Rush]

Then there was no twist, you were given what you desired. My sister has only dated men who married her. She divorced her 1st husband because he wouldn't stop cheating. I told her, I want a man, "she said stop saying that, say you want a GOOD man."

[@brittkneekristin]

Hey. I do appreciate your perspective. It's so needed. I'm a therapist. I would love for you to talk about the trauma responses black people have growing up around those things. I appreciate how you went to the "extreme" of not doing anything because of the things you saw. I know you mentioned a trauma bond. But some people have a trauma response which is a bit different. There's the other extreme of people getting into situations as a trauma response. It's an explanation not an excuse. Both are dependent of people's support system, sense of self, hope resilience etc. I hope I'm explaining that right lol.

[@jaydajohnson1706]

When she did part one she ended it by saying she got married while in Korea, he faked a marriage or something like that. However, she played like she had clues in the part one, but then turned around and said no red flags … come on.. his sister told you straight up

[@giavee2921]

I had to cut her storytelling short after she said she heard him on otp having sex with someone else… Umm to deal with him in the States …and then Korea…who paid for his flight? He couldn’t get there w/o her ….so is she still with him after all this?

[@shellbeeforreal3915]

I did not want to be a statistic I lost mine “later” as well. I’ve been with my man since highschool and still was very adamant about not becoming a baby mom. People would also say I’m being extreme but I’m not. Even now at almost 30 I still am very hesitant about just having a baby. I look around and most mothers I know are single mothers and I know several. Only 2 of the 15+ that I know are with the father.

[@Tyansofficial84]

Don't do it unless you're ready to give up every fiber of your being with or without him. Trust me Men are Toys R Us kids jungle animalistic & they naturally want more attention when the kids arrive vs helping or providing the space to have time for yourselves. The few that make it & to the softer side once kids are older say it's a brutal fight.

[@BeautiDon]

Don't have one unless you and it will be set for life. Not worth the stress or risk. My mom was married and still ended up a single mother because of my dad. Marriage guarantee nothing trust yourself more than anyone.

[@chiobabe2180]

Don’t do it unless YOU want a baby … Just because you’re married to a man means nothing if he’s not doing 50% of the work involved in raising a child. Having a man won’t save you.

[@Golden.Delight]

35:47 don’t ever be no ride or die. They always let you die 🥴😑🙃

[@joycepierre1656]

Yup

[@Vasilia4]

*Aderall is a stimulant drug for ADHD. It's a lifelong medication. It is a mix of amphetamines so some people misuse it for weightloss*

[@MsMookalate]

It’s also for narcolepsy and anxiety

[@Vasilia4]

​@@MsMookalateNo. Not only is it not used for anxiety, amphetamines are contraindicated for people with anxiety because it makes anxiety worse. Anxiety is also one of the side effects of aderall

[@SavingMyPockets]

Also her saying you leave the dentist with pain meds. That’s not every state. In Oklahoma you have to go to CVS or Walgreens to get a controlled substance to take at home. My children have ADHD and I have had percs for my crohns. Both require a id. It take 10-15 mins for them to run your name and Id through the system. I go thru this once a month for both my kids and I’m watched very close because both my daughter get adderall. So that I had to stop and look at the comments like somebody else gotta know.

[@mrs.camilliajones3560]

​@@SavingMyPockets Same, my son has ADHD and every three months to doctor has to send in scripts. They don't even put refills on them because they're considered a controlled substance. And I've never left the dentist office with pain meds they've given me a script to take to the pharmacy.

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

@@MsMookalatemost people don’t even take medication for anxiety

[@AmyTraphouse]

I knew that Brett dude was leaving out crucial details. He's just as unstable as she is blurring the lines..why would he even procreate with someone that crazy

[@naturallybeautiful9109]

One of my cuz who is a baby mama try to set me up with one of her werid baby daddy friends. I started asking questions and her response is you and your standards… Clearly my standards are working baby. Happily single no attachments to no one

[@__gemoftheeast]

Joie is better off staying quiet & just dancing. You can legit hear she is not that bright. I hate calling ppl slow but she's just pretty w/ a head full of air.

[@FeedMeJuice]

You’re def 100% correct about the girl in Korea lol She def thought it was Bonnie and Clyde and he played her. First red flag is him moving to Korea with no damn job. Why would you move a bum to a new country, what did she think he’d be doing while she was busy working.

[@LeeLee_Diamond]

Do u know what's gonna happen to her?

[@FeedMeJuice]

@@LeeLee_Diamond supposedly she got a little slap on the wrist and she’ll be fine according to Yanie.

[@Shanoxxa]

Nurse Hadley is 32 years old so he clearly likes older women so my question is why is he using the “older woman used me” narrative when that’s what he likes.

[@mrs.camilliajones3560]

That girl was taking percs recreational. I've known and seen addiction up close (not saying she's an addict) but her story doesn't add up. An average person that isn't dabbling or struggling isn't just taking prescription meds especially ones in the military! My bro is in the military & was having horrible hip pain and eventually had surgery. He couldn't take pain meds like percs for an extended period of time because he was still active. A lot of things in her story raised red flags to me. Like he wouldn't have had much to hang over her head if she wasn't doing things to be ashamed of herself, she came off like a throw the rock & hide your hand type of chic. Also doctors rarely give narcotic pain meds for migraines because they can often give you what's referred to as a rebound headcahe. So it kind of defeats the purpose.

[@JB-bl6qo]

Oh my gosh, this is so crazy. I’ve seen that nurse before she’s on KZbin. She has like a lot of KZbin short videos

[@leolad.4701]

Your breakdown of the lady in Korea is so true. Pickmisha all the way. I remember the very first part of the story and could not understand why she even took him to Korea. Ride or Die is real crazy when dealing with our government, but in another country!

[@Name-jw3bk]

“I am PROUD of my life.”❤Yanie preached this segment. I see you and I felt that statement from my inner child to my divine womanhood

[@Nbayoungguh]

It's crazy ppl get on this here internet and just be lyin, thank u yannie for holding these ppl especially women accountable, bcuz sometimes we can create our own mess 💯

[@Angbwillinspireu]

I don't care if Brett married her, if that child isn't his and she was "smooth opperating" with another guy, then she was wrong-PERIODT.💯

[@naturaleyeam]

Life in prison girl gave me drug addiction vibes. I think her and her bf were using together.

[@Ms209630]

Yeeeah. Its giving ride or die vibes. Knew he was a drug addiction. Had a DV situation before leaving. How you not know he didn't have his paperwork( and she knew he used that). He gave her the meds to hold, and she got caught up.

[@LizettesB3autyChannel]

YESS!!! I have this SAME problem with my friends that are black women 😫😫😫😫 It’s like they want to continue the struggle and I just don’t understand it….😫😫😫😫 It’s like other races LEARN from the MISTAKES of their previous generations!

[@princess199799]

Is true black women are addicted to struggle and trauma. It's sick. Like it's more holy or something. IT'S NOT!

[@LeeLee_Diamond]

what do u mean by struggle lol genuine question?

[@ed-0364]

@@LeeLee_Diamondstruggle love, etc. I’d assume you heard it before. 😊

[@LizettesB3autyChannel]

@@LeeLee_Diamond the struggle that many of the women in their family go through (having multiple children by different men & not having any support from those men, being a homemaker but not being appreciated or supported, not being financially stable enough to support those children, not having a stable home environment, etc.) those struggles that we ALL see

[@therealsbh]

​@@LizettesB3autyChannelyes I'm tired of seeing people I love live through this.

[@amcmee_]

Omg the Yanni the scare of getting pregnant! I seen my cousins getting pregnant in high school and opted not to date AT ALL! I had one date my whole time in high school. But I've realized later I don't want kids period.

[@mimit893]

The lessons I have learned from your videos!!!!!

[@Nanou-qr3om]

The nurse: she is a nurse specilazed in hospice care (end of life care). She have to be careful....they doesn't play with nurses licenses in certain States.

[@leolad.4701]

We need a diagram to understand what the heck is going on with this story. It’s too much!

[@tsolola2]

Wow I have never been this early lol hey yanie

[@Rella28]

23:02 what??! She flagged your videos. That’s mad

[@JAM....1212]

I love your videos! Hillarious!!!😂😂😂 TY TY...For follow up/update on the woman allegedly set up by her boyfriend with &rugs abroad.

[@outcasts4life437]

Thanks for the video Yanie I enjoyed your content 🩷

[@mrs.camilliajones3560]

When there's a situation as messy as this I would NEVER Trust an at home DNA test. I've seen peole with little to no money in the hood do low down things when it comes to DNA. So when there's money at hand I definitely wouldn't trust anything! We'd both be going through a lawyer to test.

[@MsMookalate]

25:50 they don’t always hand me the medicine they send it electronically to my pharmacy or hand me the prescription (before they was electronically sending it) Also is can transfer the medicine to another pharmacy. I’m in New York. Control substances laws are strict but there is work around depending on the areas

[@Angele21]

That story about the woman who works for the government hits way too close to home because I’m almost sure I saw this girl in passing. I was in the military and I had an assignment at the state department lol. Yes there are a lot of unhinged guys in the DC Maryland and VA area but you don’t date them you run from them lol. Also be careful with dating if you live in that area I personally moved because of the increase of stds and dv cases. Please do background checks and yall stay safe.

[@SanDiegoSchmoyalty]

Yanie. We knew the girl was lying once she started talking about everytime he gave her something to drink she would feel weird … but kept drinking the drink. Like risa teesa 😩😩 like girl??!! Ever heard the saying: “fool me once shame on you, fool me twice ….” She started to give conspiracy and guilty conscious when she started telling that part of the story. So many ppl be on the internet lying it’s crazy. Discernment is really a true gift. Can’t blame ppl for not realizing sometimes. Because some liars are soooo professional and crafty with their lies.

[@markiyavariste3300]

I got my wisdom teeth taken out I had to go on post to receive my prescription I didn’t have medication when I left

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

When I said the doctor gives you medication this typically happens before the operation so you’re not in pain. Depending on the procedure, you can pick up your prescription before you have the operation or after it depends on the office. I have had both experiences of being able to pick up my prescription before or after.

[@myopinionnotyours.6053]

Love the consistency yanie

[@ccv_ca_cm]

Both kinda lying both kinda truthing. A draw. Sad for this baby though.

[@FeedMeJuice]

This is why when you said you’re not going to always take the girls side I side eyed because I NEVER trust men first. 😂 I knew he was full of shit.

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

is the baby his or not?

[@FeedMeJuice]

@@RealTalkWithYanie 😭😭😭 we will never know

[@wsh415]

What didn’t make sense to me as an attorney for the federal government was allllll of the assistance her government employer gave her! Normally they cut their losses in these situations so evertime she said my job helped me with this or with that it was a red flag for me bc unless you are a political appointee I’ve never seen a gov employer step in this much!!!

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

Taxpayers are not paying for her personal issues.

[@cbenoit78]

I work for the federal government and we have unions. They provide A LOT of assistance. I have a coworker that hasn't been at work for damn near a year and is still employed. Also, Yanie government workers pay taxes too. We don't get a pass on that. And many of us are military veterans and have served the country in that capacity as well. That being said, I hope that the young lady has learned all the lessons needed to be learned, appreciates the grace she was given, and does better going forward.

[@wsh415]

@@cbenoit78they don’t step in to this extent overseas especially when the issue is related to drugs. She was a new employee most likely still going through a probationary period and different government jobs have different appointment authorities and different employment protections! This specific situation is stilll very odd!

[@cbenoit78]

@wsh415 I think we can deduce that she was probably working for the department of defense. Whatever the case, I LOVE to see it. I'm so glad that she was given as much help as she was. That she didn't spend her life in prison and that at least it appears her job was saved. That is what I served this country for, and why my two children (one son, one daughter) serve this country in uniform. We serve so that everyone else can sit on the internet and judge each other's mistakes as harshly as they do.

[@wsh415]

@@cbenoit78so here’s the thing…I’m not judging her, ppl like you seem to see logic, reasoning and analysis as judgmental… it’s not! All I am saying is that it’s odd and was a red flag in her story TO ME as an attorney for the federal government! I don’t know why that seems to bother you so much but your reaction is also ODD to me😂 you keep bringing up your service to this country…. Thank you but it is also wholly irrelevant to the subject at hand and does not make her story any less odd!!!

[@parkerlion156]

🌸so many gems.

[@FeedMeJuice]

Even if the baby isn’t his I think he knows exactly what he signed up for. 😂😂😂

[@erind2261]

Don't matter. He signed the birth certificate - he da pappy in the state's eyes

[@Downtown_Duchess]

Growing up I was nervous of being a baby mama too but on the opposite side, of having a brother that had 3 baby mommas before I graduated high school. A good chunk of my childhood consisted of babysitting my brothers kids as well as younger cousins. Cut to now...I'm married, been with my husband for 13 years and my family is confused as to why we don't have kids or a desire to become parents any time soon. 'The world may never know...' lol

[@SeyvenRoses]

Formal education in the sense of obtaining a high school diploma, Associates degree, Bachelor’s degree , or Master’s degree does not equate to self actualization. Your parents, family members, and environment aids in the development of the person not the education. Formal education teaches you how to be contextual intelligent in a classroom setting. Moreover, competence yields confidence. Explaining the why when directing women will further yield positive results. I don’t believe the women who are making the same mistakes as those who came before them are competent. Some maybe developmental delayed.

[@Lana45787]

thank you Yanie.

[@babyg7796]

Personally I still call bs. Regardless if they started spending more time together afterward, they had initial agreement to just be a donor anything you decided to do after that was a gamble. I wanna know if the baby is actually his until I make a decision

[@julieaime2658]

Thank you so much for this.

[@brittanyhs3347]

Oh girl I'm in Southern VA we do not play that. You have to have a valid id even for dang Robitussin and for Claritin D also if your name comes up too many times you will not be allowed to get medicine. The only problem I've personally ran into once I forgot my wallet with my id in it.... Walmart straight up refused to give me my Ativan until I presented proper id. Like they play no games here.😂

[@Tiredttttttt]

Listening at work 😂

[@JB-bl6qo]

lol a very feminine headboard great video and awesome commentary

[@Golden.Delight]

23:04 omg 😂😂😂 the retaliation for u realizing the dots not really connecting is wild fraud behavior.

[@jenwhite565]

42:06 YES it's desperation. 01:06:10 I was literally just talking about this ❤ the fatherhood taught me how to be independent. Actually, my dad encouraged hyperindependence (which I'm not teaching my own daughter) because if you can't rely on your community. Find a new one 😅

[@allMinabe]

11:35 update

[@tierras6085]

Oh wow. She is his girlfriend. I like her stories because she is a hospice nurse. I didn't she was messy

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

😩 not a hospice nurse

[@Itsmargaretta]

The way it jumped from ovulation to pregnancy was giving “huh 🤔 shocked” when I heard it yesterday 😂😂

[@tgssgt]

I'm eternally grateful at how low-key my life is. The Korea story is...that woman is delusional if she thinks we didn't see through her story

[@PoeticJustic3]

Lmao the man talking about the robot.... Really sir 😂😂😂😂

[@Mani_Talks247]

Not dudes already sexualizing animontronics 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@retha90]

I learned from my cousin who was a year younger than me. She was 15 in 8th grade (failed twice) with 2 kids!! Yes, you read that right. She had 2 kids before she got to high school. Sadly, this wasn’t abnormal in my ratchet hometown.

[@Rella28]

And why did continue a relationship with someone who allegedly framed you with drugs in a foreign country. In all of this it doesn’t make sense. I’m sorry I’m snitching on you at the airport and parting ways

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

It's not unacceptable to take an at home paternity test if you are told you are the father. Now if the test has been tampered with then maybe it's illegal, IDK. But Imma about to twist my hair and get messy.

[@NikkiVibes]

That PDMP is so real!

[@mikayla28682]

This is why I’m weary of men with kids. They just be lying and for what? And the women that believe them… anyways, I’m still not convinced it’s his kid though, bc to do two tests, might’ve been shocked by the first one.

[@lilibby1844]

Waittttt that first story is crazyyyyy 😭😭😭 ain’t no way this crazy ass lady lied and put on a show and it’s not even his daughter 😭😭😭

[@BreeMooreProductions]

Loooooooove your content Yanie! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@markiyavariste3300]

I thought she wasn’t being totally honest the Korea story

[@AjaJabray]

I thought it was him that left the airport then came back.. Her story was still everywhere smh.

[@AshleyT716]

I really hate when they say "she won't let me see my kid" If you wanted to see your kid so bad, fight for your kid. Go to court.

[@jaydajohnson1706]

Did you see Kayla Nicole interview with Angel Reese ?

[@jayelise6946]

She did a video on it the other day I think it was in combination with other topics!

[@justforfunposts]

i thought she said she left and they was about to make her come back or said she couldnt leave lol.

[@Nbayoungguh]

42:20 U better READ!!💯

[@t.j.m7131]

Brett wanted a UK Brexit energy 😂. R=ship done... fatherhood done 😂. Yanie I too don't regret waiting, I also had a cousin in a dreamy relationship before her baby was born, he was cheating on her by day and best father to sleep over at night for 3 years. I never wanted that so I preserved my womb

[@19GENESE13]

Brett.... that was foolish AF. No one could have forced me to be a parent.

[@hellothere8347]

That first story so messy 😩

[@amiyahlittle114]

What I also come to realize is alot of women care a lil too much and be so delusional to the point where they in situations that’s not very safe. (Ex. Hurting their own feelings,acting put of emotions w/o control) with Slim thug. I don’t get why he get excited cause its all fun and games till AI start replacing jobs.

[@tierras6085]

Umm, they can make robots for women, too. Why doesn't he think it can't work both ways. However, a robot can't bring true companionship.

[@kaylasworld_]

15:55 i watched the maria video like once then i stumbled across this video i was relistening to it and i was like “something is off idk why” BOOM you say maria got a side and i was like “that’s prolly why i feel off” bc men are LIARS

[@chica212]

Jerry Springer 😅😂

[@miabarnett2452]

48:00 👏🏾🔥🎇

[@DeeHenny]

He clearly said they had a 1 night stand then she hit him up later to ask to get him pregnant. I hate when ppl hear what they wanna hear. Not you yani but the girl in the 2nd video

[@chelseagriffin3148]

Naw not brett lying about his BM being a awhole sperm donor & yeah yani is the baby his or not? 😂😂

[@queenmisanthrope]

So Cam’ron & Mase are going 50/50? If they are cool, but if not, I don’t see what’s wrong with Kayla Nicole not wanting to go for that

[@Rella28]

37:20 this is male cousins behaviour he can’t be trusted.hes the type of man to lace your joint with something other than 🌴

[@MoonBunny69]

38:53 atp... don't trust nobody.