Should A Christian Woman Wear A Bikini On Holiday/Beach? “I Need Godly Man To Help Me Pray Better”

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[@IncorruptibleSeedpodWithE]

Theres one thing Christains need to focus on, to seek first the kingdom of God and everything else will fall in place.

[@carlin_agyei]

Christianity was forced on us by Europeans

[@Zwxxcggj]

Exactly

[@fondusportfolio]

If I'm at a place where people of both genders are present and are only dressed in their underwear...as a born again Christian, I will not feel appropriate only wearing my underwear just because they are. When Jesus really comes in an changes your heart, you see things for what they are. As a man that works out regularly, I no longer even feel comfortable being shirtless anywhere in public anymore haha...which is a far cry from how I used to be. Plus I really just find the idea of preserving my best parts for my (future) wife very beautiful. God bless!

[@jenniferudeh9357]

That's cool to know. I do feel the same, I try to be modest with my wear when around the swimming pool.

[@deenex]

To me if you feel guilty about it then don’t do it. If you are convicted about it then it’s clearly wrong.

[@ovandograham7793]

There’s a verse I can’t recall wear Paul says if you feel convicted and do it it’s since in none named sins

[@oliviawilliams9115]

I feel like while everyone at the beach may be doing it we are called to be set apart. I also think this is a personal conviction. That can be guided by the Holy Spirit and scripture.

[@Seven-hk2bv]

With all love and respect and coming from a fellow believer in Jesus Christ. Your modesty should not change depending on where you are or who you are with. The statements made in the podcast were reckless and irresponsible, please please please do not mislead people, in our faith we have to be all in for christ, wearing a bikini is not christ like, the end. If you are going somewhere hot, where airy clothing, the Lord will not allow you to burn😭 I promise you if you surrender truly to God, and that includes your clothing and bodies, he will not allow anything bad to happen. You do not have to wear a bikini, just because everyone on the beach is wearing a bikini that does not mean that as a woman of God you should also, we were called to be set apart, so why would you blend in and where a bikini also? the reason everyone on the beach is wearing a bikini is because they do not have that revelation of Jesus Christ, and they are not treating their bodies as a temple of the living God. There is nothing okay about being half naked in a foreign country, or in your country or on holiday with your leaders or at tesco back at home - it does not matter where you are this is exposure and the enemy thrives off that lustful exposure. Not posting yourself in a bikini protects the people on your page from lust caused by you which is great but what about the men on the beach? you are not protecting them and you are causing them to stumble caused by you. Please try your best to be careful with topics like this, the bible is our guide for life so don’t add your own personal thoughts, speak the word or use the word to answer scenarios, but yeah the cover up is a great idea. i love you all with the love of Christ, please soften your hearts and hear this. God bless you richly❤️. ”you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.“ ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6‬:‭20‬

[@zainabibraheem]

I love how you started it! But this is so true I feel like nowadays people purposely avoid modesty -it’s crazy- you shouldn’t wear a bikini wherever you are it’s literally underwear- so find a modest swimsuit-it’s not hard

[@saywhatondat]

100% agree, we have to be set apart

[@t.yaw51]

To add on to that, Arabs wear long clothing in the desert, are able to keep cool in extreme heat and the women there can still keep a modest appearance. Of all people, they can be modest. Why can't we as Christians be modest?

[@zainabibraheem]

@@t.yaw51 right!

[@shanaimilano6855]

Talk to dem!

[@stephenfreeman27]

Wearing a bikini does not matter where you are or who you are with. As a Christian woman you need to be sacred as Christ wants you to be sacred and consecrated for him. Proper Christian women are rare to find today, close to impossible and this is because we cannot tell the difference between them and the worldly women. Proverbs 31:10-31.

[@kiyalamatanga]

Interesting conversation on the bikini dilemma! Loved all the perspectives throughout the conversation. I would just add that if you are worried about wearing a bikini for modesty, the truth is that a bikini is not a modest swimwear attire, it evidently wasn’t made for modesty nor is it a necessity to enjoy the beach and swim. Arguably wearing a coverup to coverup that you’re wearing a bikini probably means you should just wear a full body swimsuit if your concern is a conviction towards modesty. However, the option to wear it or not is down to preference and your personal conviction. 🙏🏾❤️

[@simplypray]

Love this convo guys, well done, modesty is extremely important as a Christian man or woman, young or old. May the Holy Spirit continue to help us all in Jesus Name.

[@carlin_agyei]

The Christian title was forced on black people by Europeans

[@LouiseMbiri]

What’s the girls insta or church?

[@DustinAviation]

13:55 everyones "MMMMM" in unison over and over😂 love the message yall

[@QueenBaBari]

rightttt😂😂😂

[@oliviaosaro3283]

Hey first of I want to start with love❤, great podcast! But as a fellow Christian I just want to kindly correct you. Wearing a bikini alone is wrong tbh. It does not matter where you are or who you are with. It’s like picking and choosing. And when the lady said when she was with her leaders she wore a swimsuit, that’s the exact moment you had to realise that somewhere you got conviction because you’re exposing your body. Because why would you adapt for your leaders but not for God, are your leaders above God? And saying that beging at the beach everyone wears a bikini and that’s just what people do. That is true but are we called to be like the rest. Are we meant to look like the world? And I’m not condemning you because this was me 2 weeks ago. But as I wore the swimsuit (cut out model) I got conviction. There’s other alternatives like indeed cover ups, tankinis, burkinis or modest swimsuits etc. Stay blessed.

[@_kizzy.x_]

did you not hear the cover up part and the part where they said do not post it ?

[@oliviaosaro3283]

@@_kizzy.x_ you don’t get my point. May the Lord give you understanding.

[@_kizzy.x_]

@@oliviaosaro3283 pray that prayer for yourself as well

[@steph03_]

Great convo ❤️

[@itsjustrob5839]

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[@lydzzz]

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[@leahlevinmartins]

really agree to wear the same thing in front of leaders and with friends great conversation bless you

[@hebrewrld]

Such a beautiful podcast. Shalom family. Love what you’re doing may the Lord provide and continuously grow this channel through His will so it can profit many of the brethren. Peace be with you.

[@ROEW3]

I think the simple solution is going to a women only beach if a woman of God wants to soak up the rays and have a restrictive free swim. A private beach if wanting to enjoy the same luxury with loved ones. But a public beach with what the panel agreed as basically underwear is nonsensical. It’s as simple as looking up the origin of the bikini to understand this answer to this question, the meaning, the outrage, the statement it made during the period of time it was introduced. Personally I don’t think it’s even up for debate, similarly I have no issue or problem with women wearing a bikini this is just my take on the intention/conviction of a woman truly after Gods heart.

[@dalynewgate]

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[@Holinessm]

This was so insightful and has broadend my knowledge, thank you so much!

[@francistady1236]

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[@yvonned360]

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[@dorcasyeboah9290]

I was raised in Europe and have worn bikinis all my life without thinking anything about it, however, as I grew I realised that ladies would purposely make their bikinis even smaller and more revealing.. I also went to Ghana months ago and realised that you can wear leggings or shorts and a top whatever clothes covers you up best..which actually makes you feel less sexualized..

[@simba8665]

People can also growl up practising things that are not of God without knowing. I think if you have to question if you should be doing something as a Christian, that’s a red flag. Some of these material things and practices were inspired by spirits that are not the Holy Spirit. We love our sin, that why we choose to ignore certain stuff as humans.

[@deborahishimwe6268]

Loved this ! May God bless you all 🙏🏾

[@Furaha_has.faith.]

Yess❤️‍🔥

[@zariachanel]

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[@jordanmeko]

Love this!!

[@AgbebiTimi]

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[@FunmiOdedoyin]

Well done. Great to have Christian conversations for young people on here.

[@BigReg007]

1 Timothy 2:9 NLT And I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes.

[@JE-wx9pw]

Yes ,all we need to do is let the word of God speak for itself. No need for our opinion when God's word says it all

[@MaryMary-fc3nh]

Theses are good answers guys love it

[@AyanfeoluwaAnjoorin]

THERE IS PRIDE IN MODESTY👏

[@amarniepalmer6488]

Loved this

[@speakingfacts8685]

I agree with the man. She felt conviction and that should speak for it self. We should not conform to the worlds standards.

[@simba8665]

Exactly. The fact that she’s even asking 😂😂😂. And these women are basing their replies off their “feelings.” The Holy Spirit in you is saying something if you have to question something.

[@kevingyimah3054]

The episode is too 🔥🔥🔥

[@Furaha_has.faith.]

Wow! I love this. Modest is soo underrated , GOD bless yall for speaking on it. Hallelujah 😍❤️‍🔥

[@simonesherron7921]

PAUSE. Great message but I think there were some MAJOR points that should've been pointed out! What is modesty? One. Because if I am being honest modesty is thru God however, 1 Peter 3:3-4 always sat with me when it came to the modesty conversation “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” I always felt in my conviction that makeup was NOT modest especially elaborate adornments (lashes, flashy, and expensive clothes). Secondly, comfortablity my testimony is much different I always wore clothes out of what feels good vs what "looks" good so I was not aware of this "lust" or "appeal" factor so to say women wear tight clothes to attract a mans the 🗑️🙅🏾‍♀️ that's not the case for all women especially women not tied to the world now as Christians we have to be spirtually bound but physically aware so that walk is different in every man/woman! Thirdly MEN's MODESTY the standard applies to them as well what does male modesty look like the girl in the blue really touched on it starting from WITHIN. Fourthly men know what they know Christian or Agnostics know when they see a 💎💍 a man could see a woman in rags and see riches a woman can see a man in riches and see rags your spirt always✨shines✨ I attract men of all walks everywhere I go because its the spirit of a woman that attracts a man God didn't say when a Christian man finds a wife he finds a good thing he said a MAN!!! Lastly, please this is my first time listening in and I say this with love James 1:19 "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak," I say this with kindness and love please slowww down 😩 I can't appreciate your message sometimes your thoughts are going faster than your words your words should be a reflection of your mind not the other way around Much Love from 🇺🇸 God Bless

[@ovandograham7793]

With all you said. You’re about the tight clothes. It’s immodest and at the bare minimum it’s selfish because you’re revealing your form for others to see and they could stumble and if you say that is their problem, you’re right but you’re also sinning because you are not loving your neighbour and you don’t care about another person just yourself and you’re own glory

[@simonesherron7921]

@@ovandograham7793 i actually appreciate that perspective...the full verse is “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. “This is the first and great commandment. “And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself." Because although it is valid its still not accurate because most people who are wearing tight clothes probably don't love themselves or learning WHAT that love looks like for themselves. And there are many scriptures that talk about man having "self control" & "not to lust" & "it is better for man to remove the part of them that is causing them to sin than to continue to sin" how can an attire cause someone to sin when there is MORE scripture that places the responsibility on the SINNER than on modesty!!! Modesty is mentioned probably twice accountability & self control is mentioned countless times we have to measure our salvation by the heart, faith, and love of a man not on meaningless things like "modesty"

[@ovandograham7793]

@@simonesherron7921 I don’t think anything is meaningless if it’s mentioned in the Bible. They spoke about sexual immortality tirelessly, revealing your form to everybody is sexually immoral but how do you have sex? By revealing your form to entice for partner. A bikini shows your entire butt. At the bare minimum all the way up to your hips . Self control is mentioned more than modesty you’re right. Let me explain, the lust you provoked through your immodest clothing is 100% the man’s responsibility to prevent, he has to take his thoughts captive and deal with his lust. However you as a sister should 100% be mindful of your self at all times, before putting on that piece of clothing you should think could this cause someone to stumble today? You’re probably thinking why tho because you’re called to deny yourself everyday and pick up your cross, what Jesus wants is a selfless, servant who cares about neighbours. As the topic is bikini the answer is 100% yes, if you do it anyways you are moving selfishly. Now with your as you love thy myself, please don’t use this as a loophole, the obvious perspective from the biblical writers is that humans look after themselves and will do what’s best for them, it doesn’t matter if you actually loath urself, because the point they are trying to make with this verse is you need to elevate everybody’s needs above your own. So again if you know it’s going to cause someone to fall you should absolutely not wear it. Yes it’s their responsibility to not lust but it’s yours to love your neighbour. You must decrease and Christ must increase. The men obviously need to work on their hearts too. I hope this makes sense. The spirit behind bikinis is sexual, they really invented bra and pants attire and made it appropriate to just wear out because you’re on the beach. Discernment my sister

[@ovandograham7793]

@@simonesherron7921 they or you deleted my comment. I made a lot of good points in there too 😂

[@simonesherron7921]

@@ovandograham7793 never deleted or removed anything

[@daprimedabg4539]

It's crazy its normal to wear a bikini in the beach but if your girl went out like that on the street it would be way to revealing

[@TitusLennon]

Their whole position makes no sense at all. So you can wear a bikini depending on who you’re around? That makes zero sense.

[@TitusLennon]

@@MsDarling-H It's still a nonsensical opinion.

[@simba8665]

@@MsDarling-H if something is of God you will know with no doubt, otherwise stay away from it. Basing things off your own feelings or other people’s opinions is probably not a good start. You don’t even know what spirit inspired these type of cloth to be made or certain practices/ traditions to come about. If it’s not the Holy Spirit, it’s the enemy.

[@MrRodge19]

He who causes others to sin has sinned too. Nakedness causes lust. Christians should be selective on which places to be at and what things to get involved in. How do you evangelize to someone who saw you almost naked

[@georgesmasebi6159]

What i know also is that following the Lord is not easy at all coz we gonna have to make sacrifices and if the sacrifices we are making are not going against our feelings ( body desire ) then we are not really ready to follow the Lord . This is not right at all, coming on a podcast and saying it's normal for a follower of our Lord to wear a bikini on the beach .

[@MayishaDenise]

my thoughts exactly. the main point of modesty is respecting and honoring the body which was gifted to you by Christ,recognizing it as a temple of the holy spirit followed by protecting yourself and helping others not sin by lusting over you. the girl with the black jacket comments were the worst,especially when she mentioned wearing it because people don’t know you and wearing but not posting!

[@georgesmasebi6159]

@@MayishaDenise 💯🎯🔥

[@IamMichelleWatson]

Love these convos - well done guys.

[@tinotendaashantimarufu]

Love waits, Lust rushes !

[@Owieosarugue]

My question is who put that rule that you need to wear underwear to the beach cause is somehow, someone invented that and now is normalize. They even gave it another name called “Bikini” bro is underwear, wearing your panties outside

[@akuasafoa]

loved this conversation

[@eseegube]

This was a good watch. I won't lie, though. i do feel that there should have been a balance in certain little things like the cooking and the cleaning. Humans in general are visual, some more than others for sure. But these things apply to human beings. As we prepare to be "wives", we are really improving ourselves. So also should men prepare. If she's hungry, he'll also need to know how to feed his wife.

[@Ashantismith_]

Even a one piece and shorts you can do! You don’t have to wear a bikini

[@dejoyceokonji3547]

I don't agree to Christian women putting on bikinis , even plus the cover up. Cover up properly.

[@BeneziaHarunaFeiliyah-qf9zo]

Why didn't you include your guests socials in your description

[@nikigracevlogs]

Her motive for wanting a husband is not right at all!! God can help her with everything she needs help with, not the husband. God wants her to ask him directly, not go find someone else to show her them things. Literally, “seek FIRST the kingdom of God and all these things will be added onto you.”

[@caramel5133]

Any places the girls would recommend to buy modest clothes? I really love the black shirt for example 😊😊😊

[@Furaha_has.faith.]

SHEIN have some modest clothing. You just have to look up “modest clothing”

[@Justcallmallgoat]

There needs to be a "MHHHMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM" count in this vid.

[@folakemisolanke565]

I was here thinking “there is something about the girl with the bun” then she mentioned the book Good Morning Holy Spirit! Just confirmed it for me ❤

[@leahlevinmartins]

really love what the guy is saying re the bikinis love his views

[@sylvesterakpaka2851]

As a man who wants to know God, is following women who wear revealing clothes or bikinis right? I sometimes feel guilty when I see their posts on instagram.

[@adrianna9691]

If you feel convicted by it then you should unfollow them. Especially if their pictures cause you to lust after them see Matthew 5:28

[@lisamonro23]

Also try wearing a one piece

[@StorytellinJordan]

I have been attracted to modest girls my whole life. I regularly unfollow and mute girls on IG who show off too much. Sadly even Christians at times show off too much, I’m impressed with the perspective of the podcast panel

[@nikigracevlogs]

Because of the western culture, a bikini is the norm for us. I personally wouldn’t say it’s “bad”, but God will convict you! If you’re feeling some type of way about wearing it, then you shouldn’t. I’ve never been a bikini girl because even though everyone around me wore it, I still saw it as bra and knickers 😂 ..I’ll either do a full swimsuit with shorts or a tankini which are both as equally cute and “breathable” 😂😂

[@ovandograham7793]

It is bad bro

[@nikigracevlogs]

@@ovandograham7793it’s not bad if someone isn’t convicted 🤷🏾‍♀️ …culture plays a large part, so we don’t always see things as black & white. This is why we have the Holy Spirit. He will guide us 🙏🏾

[@ovandograham7793]

@@nikigracevlogs firstly culture don’t matter because God said be holy meaning be set apart. Secondly conviction don’t matter because it’s not about them it’s about others. Love your neighbour, if you don’t care that what you are wearing may cause a brother to fall then that says you got a selfish heart. That’s the issue here, you should care about others.

[@nikigracevlogs]

@@ovandograham7793 you’re not getting it. If culture plays a part, then they may not realise what they’re doing is tempting to men or it’s not modest. Like I said before, it’s a norm, so they don’t see it as “unholy”. How is that their fault!?!! Conviction in this case is EVERYTHING. You don’tb have to agree. Feel free to go round bashing every girl for wearing bikinis if it makes you feel better 😅 …although it’s not necessary! Once someone builds a relationship with Christ, if it’s God’s will, it’ll be revealed!

[@ovandograham7793]

@@nikigracevlogs okay so by that logic you can ape and its fine because the person isn’t conviction. Anyways I’m not going to argue with you. I hope you’ll see some sense one day

[@carlin_agyei]

Keep playing with god with titles like this. The Bible clearly says women should cover up and that law should be obeyed!

[@zainabibraheem]

If muslim women can do it how much more us?! It doesn’t mean dress like a nun but have sense…

[@abigailgybjomd9566]

Just curious but what verse is that?

[@andiyanganto-unwana2851]

Who is Nashada’s spiritual mum? 🥹