Should a woman do this? Will you blame the man? || Gender roles || The Winlos

In this video by The Winlos, parents are taught to be careful with whom they entrust their kids to, and they are also shown the importance of being helpful to one another regardless of gender roles.
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[@DarrylVick]

Both parents are to blame, but I particularly blame the father because if he would have at least helped the wife with the son or had been patient and waited on them then the wife wouldn't have had to seek a ride. However, the mother should NEVER have put her children in the car with a total stranger like that. Never just trust ANYBODY with your children. Too many tragedies happen because of that. Fathers, help your wife with your children. It takes nothing away from your manhood to do that. Parents, never put your children in the vehicle of a complete stranger. You never know what could happen. Very sad ending, but very important lesson. Thank you Winlos.

[@olaadene]

Thank you!

[@tessyegbor8607]

This is really what happens in some families, some husbands can never help with house chores.

[@olaadene]

True, and it shouldn't be like that.

[@mrsa76]

Honestly they see themselves as gods., forgetting that if they wear out their wives through stress, she will end up looking like a 50 year old at 35

[@olaadene]

​@@mrsa76True 👏💯

[@GinaOnaghise]

And it’s so sad my sister .. Some men just feel it’s the woman’s job to do everything and die on it sef ..

[@olaadene]

@@GinaOnaghise Some men sha 😩

[@jumokealadese6507]

Powerful teaching, there was no support from the husband, and there was, no communication ,she t trusted a stranger, to take her kids to school, trust nobody only God

[@olaadene]

Thank you 🙏❤

[@GinaOnaghise]

Most of the blame is on the man! You couldn’t assist your wife yet you couldn’t wait ??? Why would he leave his family like that ?? Mothers can get frustrated sometimes but still she shouldn’t have taken that risk at all it would have been better they didn’t go to school at all.. Still sha the man shoulders 80% of the blame , it’s irresponsible to leave your family like that.

[@olaadene]

I absolutely agree! 💯❤

[@olaadene]

👏👏👏

[@SalamaEden]

I totally agreed with you

[@olaadene]

@@SalamaEden ❤

[@kelechiukandu1915]

I am super grateful for the husband God gave me o. In fact, he has made me very lazy with the way he always helps me especially with our children.

[@olaadene]

Awwwn. That's how it should be, two becoming one to assist each other.

[@lelo940]

Me too, my husband is the best all over the world.

[@olaadene]

@@lelo940 love it for you!

[@ogwuchemercy6761]

Me too ooo my sister. My husband always help me to cook and wash clothes and doesn't see anything bad about it. I once lived with an Aunty when I was growing up and the professor husband always help around the house and I kept telling God that I want this kind of husband and God did it for me when the time came

[@olaadene]

@@ogwuchemercy6761 That's really nice. Love it for you!

[@massukugoodness5162]

The wife should not let the husband treat her like that

[@olaadene]

Okay... 🤔

[@lindarusere323]

The wife was frustrated with the kids, and to make matters worse, the husband was making it escalate with his threats of leaving them. The husband is very wrong he should at least help than to potion blame on the wife. [Some husbands are like that they dont see the good the wife does only sees negative side.]I also blame the wife. Even if you are overwhelmed. Your kids and their welfare are the most important thing. You dont give your kids to a random stranger expecting them to show you kindnes from nowhere 😅😅😅😅

[@olaadene]

@@lindarusere323 This is such a balanced comment. Thank you!

[@jocelynemmukendi1307]

Father and mother to blame ...dear parents learn to exercise patience,never allow your children to drive in strangers cars

[@olaadene]

Thanks for watching.

[@harbiesdiary7396]

Oh my God... something patience on the part of the man would have avoided!

[@olaadene]

Hmmn.

[@Savvy-g6s]

Woww!

[@olaadene]

😄😄

[@sarahorimolade4101]

I blame the mother,in terms of handling the children to a stranger.im in a very tight profession that can lead to termination of appointment if one comes late,but I dont care cos my children are my blessings.The father also has a lot too, most important thing is that the good Lord will continue to protect our children from evil men/evil days.Amen

[@olaadene]

Amen 🙏❤

[@matnat3844]

Even by the time of going to church...husbands change pliz

[@olaadene]

They are quick to say "if you don't com out now, you will meet me in church." 😂

[@afarwuahfrancis4553]

Oh! Man but you can assist Ah

[@olaadene]

Some men are something else.

[@loveand-compassion3645]

Hmm, Lord help we parents

[@olaadene]

Amen! 🙏❤

[@ericmoramagige3407]

The wife is disorganized , and careless, however confused you can be but it doesn't allow you to be stupid, how do you give children to a stranger, but the husband is not patient too, Sequence of events..... they knew their schedule, however they woke up late, which means they slept late.... which leads to chaos in the morning.

[@olaadene]

While I think I understand the point you are trying to pass across, to tag the woman disorganised is a bit unfair. Regardless of whether they know their schedule or not her appointment could have been impromptu. Then think about the stress of having to probably wake up early, probably cook, and maybe pack food for everyone in the family before dressing the kids up, with an husband who doesn't assist one bit? Come on!

[@SalamaEden]

An irresponsible husband Man must take care of his wife and his familly If he is not around something like that ought to happen and he don't have to blame the wife, because he is the head the cover of the familly He left his wife and children and then he come and blame her Who should have taken his children to school 🙄 Man take your respinsibility

[@olaadene]

@@SalamaEden It's a such a saddening scenario...

[@obehigentle1289]

God please help we mothers

[@olaadene]

@@obehigentle1289 Amen. Amen! 🙏❤

[@user-nl4yv3et9s]

So what about blame when children are lost or harmed. Its everyones responsibility to take care of the welfare of children. Grief is grief..loss is loss....regret is regret....it doesnt have an owner by blame.

[@olaadene]

Everyone has a role to play.

[@user-nl4yv3et9s]

Thanks for the like

[@jshavilah]

Hmmmn

[@olaadene]

🤗

[@shieh1944]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@olaadene]

🌚

[@Twinsforlife-2005]

The father and the mother are at fault,the mother should have not give the children to strangers and the father should have patience.The fault is mostly the woman.

[@olaadene]

Hmmn...

[@sadraolaedo4733]

Your mindset is disgusting

[@Dorindameghan]

Really??

[@olaadene]

@@Dorindameghan 😩

[@hannanjeri1366]

Good lesson there. But the lady should change her tone because it is always predictable. May be a calm character would have worked better. Some women are very composed and do not shout all the time.

[@olaadene]

Okay... but you also know that the stress of having to probably wake up early, probably cook, and maybe pack food for everyone in the family before dressing the kids up could have frustrated her?

[@JuvineMara]

You are just a misogynist

[@ginikanwasoludo1764]

Calm where. Have you dealt with children before? Even the calmest woman go shout tire. Please appreciate what mother's do

[@olaadene]

@@ginikanwasoludo1764 🙌

[@Dorindameghan]

Really?? How can I be calm when am frustrated

[@Prettypersuasiann]

Sorry this was funny but not funny at the same time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@olaadene]

I can relate... 🤗

[@Prettypersuasiann]

@@olaadene yay 😂 I am not alone