Should Christians Kiss Before Marriage? | Kissing Before Marriage Boundaries

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[@bakundaemmanuel8566]

I don't know who needs to hear this but...There will alway be someone out there who is willing to wait for you. Don't lose your line🙏🏾

[@TM-se5jf]

LOSE not LOOSE😐

[@issyzh]

@Tracey Mair K, way to spoil the mood 😂😐

[@nimusiimapatience2099]

Amen !!! Thank u

[@nibbi6992]

thank you

[@nimusiimapatience2099]

Wow! So inspiring to here such good words from a man, may God bless u more wth in this lost generation.

[@cedricadaniels7983]

The entire time I listened to this, all I kept saying to myself was "I'm cool with it, but will I ever meet a man who is patient enough to wait and is truly seeking after God in this manner?" Then I heard a voice say "Are you patient enough to wait for that man and are you truly seeking after God in this manner right now or are you waiting until you get into a relationship to do so?" Can we say convicted!

[@myfit1912]

Cedrica Daniels hi I am a new KZbinr , come and learn more about god learn the truth .

[@slimchica1]

Cedrica Daniels Wow so true 😮

[@itsbrianothoo]

@@slimchica1 waaaaa,on that conviction i am a witness.soo real,God knows us so well.hahaaa indeed he is our Dad.

[@abrahamdebrahnarh4911]

Cedrica Daniels You will meet a godly man like that if you really look up to God. He wants the best for you

[@cedricadaniels7983]

@@abrahamdebrahnarh4911 Thank you! I absolutely agree. Who I attract starts with who I am and if who I am is not in alignment with God then honestly, I can't expect Him to be pleased or the situation to be blessed. It's so easy to point the finger at what seems to be external factors, but it's so important to be able to recognize when issues are internal.

[@childrenofgodstudios]

I'm 24 and never had a first kiss, waiting for my wedding day🙏🏼

[@notpunishmentbutdevelopmen8260]

AMEN GOD BLESS U SIS

[@chelsieromero4874]

You're better than me

[@nakiarobby3996]

Amen😘

[@djanedadebastien4153]

Same girl 😭

[@ArtnFunk]

💜 Beautiful... please don't change. Praying God sends you the right man and that you'll have a happy and successful marriage....✍️

[@alexandriaedwards1937]

I'm so proud of you for doing this video, a lot of people ask this question and I personally tell them that I am a virgin and plan to be one until I am married and I haven't kissed anyone in almost 8 years and I'll be turning 30 and November it's only by the grace of God that I've been able to do this, thank you Jesus!

[@mushabenelson6450]

wow its a grace of God..keep those boundaries till marriage. God will bless you more Alexandria

[@alexandriaedwards1937]

@@mushabenelson6450 Thank you

[@msjordanndasilva]

Proud of u Alexandria!!!! That is so honourable in the sight of the Lord!! And He will surely bless u in His perfect timing with His best for u. Continue to pursue God and walk according to His Word. I too, am a virgin (turning 26 in mid December) and I haven't kissed in 5.5 years, and I plan to have my next kiss on my wedding day! I know that God will eventually bless me with a guy who wants this too, so I ain't worrying. Unbelievers think this is crazy, but that's not my concern, cuz I'm not changing my stance. Just like how they're bold in talking about sex, we too can be bold in talking about purity! Can I get a halleluyerrrr saints?!! Hahaaa. Those who are bold for Christ stand up! 😁😎

[@Sibumagazine]

It can only be God, He deserve all the praise

[@alexandriaedwards1937]

@@Sibumagazine Yes thank you Jesus!

[@enny_vicky]

I can't believe this!!! I literally just had this conversation with my bf 2 minutes ago!!! Thank you Holy Spirit!!! and Thank you Karolyne for yielding to the move of the Holy Spirit!!!

[@user-xi8yh8qi9j]

@VIII Maus wtf are you doing here?

[@jamesellis9872]

I think it’s a matter of personal conviction. I see no problem with dating couples kissing. But if you can’t kiss without it leading to something further such as sex, then you shouldn’t kiss. Saying it’s wrong for ALL Christian couples to kiss is wrong. Each person needs to know their individual boundaries of sin/temptation, and for some that boundary is smaller than for others.

[@Brirose17]

Thank you!!

[@condonadia8556]

Boundaries! Your biggest weakness can be your eyes or even touching the hand of your lover! Convictions are personal, never live someone conviction except when it s clear in the bible saying that kissing is a sin in a direct way! Know your boundaries!

[@condonadia8556]

@@Walkingwithchristmiz Thank you so much for your inputs! But allow me to tell you that yes i know God, yes i love God and yes i learn everyday to know him better! And hey; i know how convictions can destroy or save you. But here is my point, the true Christlike is someone who follow the bible instructions without putting emotions, culture,..... God gives us the Holly Spirit through him he guide us in everything ( he guides us with God instructions not CHURCH or culture instructions)! That s why you need to sit down and know why you are following some rules, your boundaries,..... it will help you protect your identity (Christianity). Thanks

[@gracedomain]

She never said it's wrong for all.

[@yekaterina4804]

Amen. Couldn’t have said it better.

[@beckyesther8669]

Kissing is not a sin but it can lead to sexual sin hence not beneficial. And a couple can still be healthy without kissing.

[@MelB868]

Kissing takes 2 seconds it leads to nothing because it means they are leaving a kiss means bye.

[@myfit1912]

Becky Esther hi I am a new Christina KZbinr , come and be part of our group come and learn more about god .

[@beckyesther8669]

@@myfit1912 thanks for the invitation. A link?

[@lonnie008]

@@beckyesther8669 If you ask me... I think y'all Christians need to get laid more.... Then maybe you can stop being so angry at the world and let people live their life.

[@beckyesther8669]

@@lonnie008 I don't think we are angry at the world. And normalising a behaviour does not make it acceptable. Are you a Christian?

[@emeraldmoses63]

Sometimes its feels lonely but with God all things are possible

[@shari9707]

True true continue to believe with deep faith for the best Amen.These days are not easy like when my parents got married;

[@abrahamdebrahnarh4911]

Emerald Moses Yeah, very lonely but God strengthens and provides comfort

[@nomfundonodliwa2273]

Same sentiments but nothing beats waiting on him

[@brittanyb5942]

Yes 🙏🏾

[@candyfacey2562]

I share your sentiments

[@tendaimtizva6404]

I can't change my past but I can change my future.i will teach this to my child ,grandchildren and great grandchildren for as long the Lord allows me to live.

[@SanctifiedSista117]

This is so good! I really want my next kiss to be my husband at the altar and I pray God will send him next year and that he will have the same standards! 😭 👐🏾 Waiting is so hard, but I know it will be worth it!

[@1Tara]

@@lifenuggets6051 you nosey as hell but so am I 💀

[@eugeniyah8078]

Tbh, I think that the topic of kissing before marriage really depends on the couple and the type of boundaries that The Most High wants the couple to have. Although I see the logic behind getting married if you can’t control the temptation to have sex because it’ll be experienced within the right context. But at the same time, a person who can’t control their flesh before marriage won’t be able to control their flesh once they get married, because lust is a heart issue, not a status issue. Saying “I do” won’t change that unless that person experiences a true change of heart and mind by the grace and healing of The Most High. Otherwise, the person can be very detrimental and toxic to the spouse.

[@naomia5475]

Yahuah Is My Everything this is so true 🙌🏾

[@mushabenelson6450]

TRUE

[@evernechatman1590]

yes because that's where Adultery comes in if you can't control your flesh, marriage doesn't cure lust

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

Yahuah Is My Everything I agree with the “ lustful heart “ and struggling with lustful desires within a relationship and or marriage.

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

Everne Chatman Omg yes !!!!

[@cellylozwe4853]

"You may NOW kiss the bride." "Now" Sooooo uhmmmmmmm

[@myfit1912]

Celly Lozwe hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@nothingdarling4788]

Celly Lozwe You don’t need a ceremony to be married. That “you may now kiss the bride” is just tradition.

[@shari9707]

Hilarious 😆 lol

[@TLIMSdisciple]

give a good peck kiss I'm guessing and figure the rest out on the honeymoon.😉

[@theglobalpremierfutbolshow8621]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TLIMSdisciple]

Been single for awhile and want to get married. So did a pray and fast for my love life this week and here today in my recommendations...lol

[@hawk6143]

I'm 20, never been in a relationship , I don't even desire to be in one but I've always wanted to know this and it was recommended 😂😂 yay answer found, now I can advice people 😂😂😂

[@keynss8748]

Me too, I'm 20 and I'm always been asking myself "how does it work ?" 😂

[@hawk6143]

@@keynss8748 🙌😂

[@nmirriaml6247]

Me too 😂 Though I'm 26

[@hawk6143]

@@nmirriaml6247 ahh, a woman of decent culture😂

[@rosalindpeters1807]

😂😂same

[@FSSPodcast]

I am a 32-year old virgin, by the grace of God. I have also struggled with lust on/off for the past 20 years (since I was about 12). I have won more battles recently over this and I believe God is leading me to hopefully breakthrough and overcome it for the long haul. Not planning on having sex until marriage of course. Given my struggles with sexual immorality despite my virginity however, I would be prudent to set clear boundaries when I start a dating relationship again. I think friendship is a good platform to start forming a potential romance and eventual marriage from. Unless both parties are on board, each person can genuinely get to know one another authentically without striving to impress. I think not leading one another on or pressuring each other will end up giving the couple clarity about their potential in a romantic relationship and eventually marriage. While I don't think I would necessarily turn away from kissing, I wouldn't take it lightly and I am sure before that will have had conversations on important boundaries with the God-fearing woman in question to make sure neither of us do anything we'd regret. Great video, keep up the good work. It's good to hear that other men and women out there are fighting the same battles and in many cases persevering by God's grace and mercy. Cheers, to God be the glory.

[@brittanyb5942]

🙏🏾

[@brandiknutson2338]

Haha that’s sad😿

[@leahk.chanda4946]

God bless you

[@vvlogs2656]

God bless u, keep it up 👏 👏

[@hughesheisinghuntsman]

Thank you brother for truly loving God.

[@cyberguru09]

Well said sis. we really shouldn't be testing to see how close we can get to sin ...without sinning.

[@patriciarichardson5570]

We must also remain vigilant to guard our ear and eye gates which can be sources of temptation. In practical terms I can't watch sexually explicit movies or listen to provocative music.

[@zachaazakah]

Patricia Richardson same

[@myfit1912]

Patricia Richardson hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@mikep3455]

Yes that I agree with.👍Dating a woman for year and half before you actually get married and you never kiss the woman? Nah that's foolishness! No sex yes. No sugar? That's nonsense...

[@jenna8987]

I agree. But I also feel like there are no movies or any music God would approve of...99% of it is sinful. I'm staying away from it all...Being a Christian is a little difficult.

[@sunshinesarah4746]

Jenna Lee Prado: Check out some worship music. Like Bethel, Travis Green, Upperroom, Elevation Worship, Lecrae and many more. I typically enjoy the PG Christmas movies, game shows. A lot more. replacing what you use to watch and listen to to more wholesome things is a good way. Don’t just take away but replace.

[@irenemuchina3734]

You really don't understand how much you have saved me, please continue living your purpose because you are a blessing to my life and am learning alot from you .Especially at my age, THANKS SO MUCH, GOD BLESS

[@emmanuelnwabuodafi6415]

She never said "do not kiss" She only admonished that do not awaken love before its time, what that means is kissing can start a fire you can't quench, so if you know you struggle with sexual stuffs it's better you just shut it out,, because as humans we're adventurous in nature so you could kiss, tomorrow you want to go a Lil further and so on Then we should always know that as Christians the relationship isn't just about us but about God and how he intends to use us to show the world a portrait of he's intentions, so we should focus on being models and examples in conducts and all and not on attraction.... The whole thing comes down to, discipline/boundary, self control, and the love of God by the believers/couples.... The devil always looks for loopholes that he could use to come in so the believers should be wise as doves and gentle as serpents The whole point of abstaining from kissing at all is because of the destinations it could lead to, if the couples can handle it then there's nothing wrong with it just that it should have boundaries.... God bless and help us...

[@rogerstanley5920]

I’m sorry bro I can’t agree to this simply because even Jesus himself was tempted and almost gave it Mathew4:1-11.. now this is a man in a Godly spiritual body but was tempted in his flesh . What makes you think any of us can have the type of self control to never be tempted? If you are with some one then naturally you are attracted to them physically and mentally right ? So I’d be crazy to think I can constantly place my self in situations like kissing or even holding a certain type of way with out feeling any other desires then love...yes maybe a couple of times we may be tempted n control but what happened when lust kicks in? Proverbs 23:7 tell us as a man thinketh then so is he .. so at any point n time there is any other thought while kissing then you’ve already sinned it doesn’t matter if you did not finish with sex .. proverbs 4:14-17 says 14 Do not set foot on the path of the wicked or walk in the way of evildoers.15 Avoid it, do not travel on it; turn from it and go on your way.16 For they cannot rest until they do evil they are robbed of sleep till they make someone stumble.17 They eat the bread of wickedness and drink the wine of violence. Solomon is clearly saying do not even set foot on that path and avoid it turn away from it because Satan will do what we. He has to to get you to slip .. our flesh always wants to make things look good to us and then to scripture but truth is God knows .. so even if or when we lie to ourselves he still knows.. so no she never said do not kiss but I don’t think she has to the bible says use your spiritual discernment the Bible doesn’t specifically say not to eat bullets or dog poop but discernment would tell us not to ... I hope this finds you with peace brother this wasn’t meant to argue but just make another view point God bless

[@emmanuelnwabuodafi6415]

@@rogerstanley5920 hey Bro ❤, I get your point completely and for the records I'm also not encouraging people to go unruly... I'm just exploring a scenario and I was just trying to believe people can handle somethings and others can't, the whole subject of how far is too far in a Christian relationship is very broad... But I think the most effective strategy is to WALK BY THE SPIRIT and you won't gratify the desires of the flesh... Just really be in love with God when you're about to cross a boundary you'd have the witness in your Spirit... Personally I don't even know much about kisses but in my opinion I don't think kisses always have to be sexual, you can kiss someone as a sign of affection... I wasn't saying believers should go and make their relationship about kissing, I only trying to say maybe once in a while you can kiss your partner goodnight it doesn't even have to be on the lips... Kissing isn't the problem here it's all the things it can lead to... Personally I don't believe in impossibilities but that's me so I was only saying its possible people can still kiss and still not lose it....

[@emmanuelnwabuodafi6415]

@@rogerstanley5920 exactly matter how sugar coated the internet will try to make wrong things we as believers have our own standards... Bro Stanley, remember when I quoted her about the scripture of "do not awaken love before its time" like you said if you can't handle it then don't even go down that part at all, my point is that I like to believe that it can be handled knowing that kissing or a kiss isn't the problem here but what it can lead to... You were talking as if I said BELIEVERS SHOULD GO AND MAKE THEIR RELATIONSHIP about kissing, no not at all.... I'm of the opinion that believers that are in relationships should even have some of the tightest boundaries like not even being alone 95% of times like behind closed doors... I'm of the opinion that believers should focus on BUILDING FRIENDSHIP rather than physical relationships, I'm of the opinion that believers should focus their relationship on pleasing God with their relationships this will involve sacrifices like purity...I was only saying that the kissing there isn't a curse word and that the reason we are advised to get rid of it totally is to not start a fire you can't control but I like to believe that controlling it is possible, and there are different kinds of kisses believers should definitely steer clear from French kisses... I don't know if you understand me...

[@hyenaman007]

Thank you sister, I can relate to you cause I’ve lived a sensual lifestyle and had same sex attraction stemming from a life of porn. Was also sexually active but Jesus delivered/ freed me ! Hallelujah! Glory to God the Father for His Word, His Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit! These are questions we have today and I’m thankful for how you blessed me with this vid in Jesus name !

[@yekaterina4804]

I respect and rejoice for what your saying. Same sex attraction isn’t a sin though...

[@jordonrenaud1178]

@@yekaterina4804 pretty sure it is

[@yekaterina4804]

@@jordonrenaud1178 then you should probably do some research

[@danielmoges6653]

@@yekaterina4804 you need to read the bible before you try to “correct” someone right

[@yekaterina4804]

@@danielmoges6653 same to you. i didn’t correct anyone. i added to the conversation. please do some research before trying to argue about something you aren’t educated on.

[@brittanyholman6545]

Great topic of discussion. Some may call it legalism but it's more about upholding God's standard of holiness and righteousness. It's important to know what gets us going and without the leading of the Holy Spirit, it's easy to backslide into sin even after we've been delivered from the spirit of lust. #boundaries

[@karolyneroberts]

Yes!! You explained it so well.

[@myfit1912]

Brittany Holman hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@quinoasongs2507]

@@karolyneroberts thanks. More questions to consider. I before had only 2. One, can you stop there easily? Two, if you break up, will it make it more painful or harder to move on? I've heard even Christians fall for the "good practice" rationale. And as for the "having my first kiss in front of a whole bunch of people and I don't even know how" well, you can always pull a Ben and Jessa

[@shari9707]

True saying!some may say it's there choice and body,!but one day they may say I wished someone had warned/ or told me.people continue to do what they want becas they haven't they enjoy what they're doing!

[@k.5425]

@@quinoasongs2507 ben and jessa ?

[@cadeturner8097]

So it’s okay, but you have to be careful because it can lead to sin

[@taylorwilliams1974]

A light peck on the mouth versus “French kissing” with tongues and all are NOT the same type of kiss. A kiss on the cheek, hand, forehead is still a kiss. I agree with not putting oneself in a tempting situation. Also if you’re struggling with lust it will be more difficult and perhaps not even holding hands is for you. But, if you’re able to be respectful and honor one another’s boundaries, exercise self-control, and bathe your relationship in prayer fully open to Holy Spirit current flow, a light “peck “ on the lips is just a gesture of caring and is okay in my opinion.💋 Use wisdom above all and have the initial agreement to wait for marriage for the more intense type of kissing. Only your spouse should get to explore the full dynamics of a kiss. 😇

[@tiseytise]

A friend of mine from school had told me that in his current relationship, him and his then girlfriend did not kiss before they got married; because he wanted to follow God and I was shocked at first! Now I understand where he is coming from. I am guessing that I lusted kissing in the relationship that I just got out of and we did other stuff too! I also understand why Christian couples fall into marriage shortly after they date because they don’t want to wait too long until they kiss and have sex.

[@hermannjeanclaudeakpatou803]

Winifred Weaver I’m agree with you but this causes problems sometimes because people don’t want to know them better before to get into it ! It’s dangerous to rush in a marriage because we can’t wait to have sex ... beware !!!!

[@namugerwashamim1159]

Dear Winnie though you are right somehow..but their is a big mistry behind why christian may keep them selves away to many proposing guys and marry one quickly......its mostly because before he comes you know him ...you can separate him from a million....

[@mushabenelson6450]

This is so much helpful, its I needed to hear now, God be glorified even in our relationships/marriages. Thank you Karolyne you are a blessing to our generation.

[@myfit1912]

Mushabe nelson hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@missbynx3]

Wow my boyfriend and I agreed to be a couple and then he did not want me to kiss him and it was literally because of the temptation and enticement it stirred up. And I’m glad I watched this Bc we will be able to adjust accordingly.

[@paulinakaulinge957]

That's awesome

[@chelsieromero4874]

Girl you definitely got yourself a keeper who is grounded in the Holy Spirit😄😉👰🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏👑💍

[@yekaterina4804]

I’m sure he’s a great guy! Congratulations! 🎉

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I clicked by curiosity but man, I thank Jesus for what I have learned.! Thank you ma’am.!

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This was right on time, God is amazing & strategic🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@chesronfaria154]

This came in my recommendations just when i needed it the most. God used you to reach so many people. God bless you.

[@FernideN]

THIS was so on time for me especially in this season thank you for yielding to the Holy Spirit!

[@naturallygigi3294]

Thank you so much for this video! So glad it showed up in my feds. I can tell the Lord is really wanting to mold me in every way. Definitely desire to glorify God in my relationship so when the person he has for me comes into my life, I'll be ready and will have these boundaries in place for the glory of God! #holinessaboveall 🙏🏽❤

[@jfizzle1014]

I think everyone has lust or urges. We are human and not Jesus. We are born into sin. But we can practice self control.

[@xolanimdunge1410]

As he is, so are we 1 John 4v17

[@ivarenetulloch9101]

Amen

[@seanthemessenger2809]

Boy oh boy, I always seen your videos on my timeline but never watched any. Some moments ago this video showed up and I decided that I’m going to hear how you unpack this topic and I haven’t regretted clicking on it. This is definitely the type of videos I need to spiritually grow- straight to the point, not holding back unpleasant truths and backed up with scripture. Awesome vid!

[@Tchineey]

Exactly. I don't regret watching for the first time today... and I look forward to more of these truthful reminders (cz sometimes it's not that we don't know but it's easier to reconstruct some truth in a way that makes us feel better).

[@OVP422-_]

Me too it's awesome

[@alubezetony8545]

What an inspiring video... So powerful, indeed the goal of every Christian relationship should be to glorify God

[@bettyekhator5265]

Thank you so much for sharing this, because it was what I needed to be reminded of. So much is being excepted in Christian community now. It really helped! Keep on teaching the truth. I appreciate it. 🙋‍♀️👍🏽☝🏽🙌🏼💖💯

[@karolyneroberts]

Aww I'm so glad you found this helpful!

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Betty Ekhator hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@Asyaril_]

Iam not even christian, but found it so meaningful in my life. Thx for opening my mind from my very worst past-life. God blessss🥺🙏

[@GlowingUpWithGod1]

Thank you for this Women of God, I've been blessed by this. I was just telling myself how I am waiting until marriage to kiss, and what would my response ve to others when I tell them how the guy I'm courting with currently haven't kissed. I love how you added, how are ways we can glorify God together ! 🙌 love it !

[@messengerofchristjesus4236]

Amen! Praise the Lord for leading me to this video! Very truthful and full of Godly wisdom! God bless you!

[@costatipanyeka6199]

This is completely perfect wisdom, and how i so wish that all sisters in our Churches can sound the same. Im subscribing... 💕

[@FeliciaJ805]

What a great lesson!! Thank you for sharing your struggles and your experiences. Marriage is for God’s glory.

[@serinabrown1681]

Thank You So Much Karolyne 💝 Thank you for talking about a woman’s position in Christ before marriage ❤️ Praise God that you didn’t forget how life was prior to getting married 🙌🏾

[@chevychelios4672]

No. Ephesians 4:27 and give no opportunity to the devil.

[@millieempowers]

I love your approach on this. You re not condemning or overly churchy, just straight wisdom.

[@nsaaneemary1442]

Your teaching is amazing and timely Karolyne.. God bless you! Just what I needed to hear right now

[@wiser0185]

I am sooo glad u did this video👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 cause alot of ppl don't understand this or play they don't want to.

[@masterstepz9800]

Your vid was recommended to me and ot came just in time. I was struggling with lust for a bit, but your vid calmed me down and helped me see what is important.

[@asukarei5013]

Yeah me too I'm 19 and never have been in a relationship but it seems like adolescence is kicking hard for me and my curiosity is killing me. Glad I stumble upon this 😭 cause all my friends are doing it and thye've been encouraging me to do it especially when playing games. It's really hard to control when you start to feel weird and someone is taking advantage of the situation you get the urge to do it but luckily I manage to stop it on time. My first kiss and my V card safe.

[@26nadz]

I am DONE I am not kissing or touching no man until we get to the alter because a girl is EXHAUSTED Lord I’m waiting on you! 😩

[@martinagorh1937]

Hi Karolyne, your video blesses me soo much... I am not in a relationship yet but you've just confirmed my conviction and more importantly you did it with some scriptures. I think I am more empowered to do the righteous thing and to convince friends the Godly way... Keep this stuff up Mrs... The Lord Jesus assist this glorious effort to share scripture's perspective on some of these things we blindly practice in our relationships... Thank you... God bless you...

[@lislourenco8630]

Great message! Thank you. I should have heard this last week..😊. But I know that there’s still hope for me. God help me to be strong and wait on you.

[@mirthacarpio8514]

Sis just read me up and down.... talk about convicted 😭😭 thank you!

[@choicegospelnetwork]

GLORY to God for you my beloved sister in the lord! Any thumbs down to this video is from a lukewarm or a backslider or Reprobate.. This is SOLID WORD!!

[@esthersunday5705]

We comment reader association 👍 click like

[@brahmabkitty03]

This is why I told my daughters, "Kissing gets you pregnant." People don't realize that it leads to it.

[@LittleGaladriel]

Yeah... people ignore the 1st steep thinking that they are able to keep all in their control

[@rheasenou6494]

😂😂😂 you are right

[@nancyjoseph9395]

😄😄

[@evavava1481]

😂😂😂

[@evavava1481]

😅😃 true but fun

[@TheFitChemist]

Amen to all of this! Well said

[@faithkumwenda6436]

I've always had this strong desire that it may not be right in a way but I couldn't back it up.. Thank you so much

[@juanpaolosandrino3800]

Thanks for this! We're in a courting relationship and this vid reminds me a lot as a man. I need this. Thank you.

[@nkerukaiferika7307]

LOVED the 5 tips🙌🏾👍🏾

[@melisshalindsey4032]

Very godly advice. I wish I had insightful directives like this when I was coming up and even in the church. As it is said, “hindsight is 20/20.” I wish I’d known then what I know now. Just wanting to honor God with my life.

[@ImeUdo-ObongMesoEx]

Hmm Karoline..I am watching from Lagos, Nigeria..you definitely need a certain ammount of grace, power and ANOINTING to preach this on the pulpit in today's generation....

[@oteikwufrancis1108]

Thank you Mrs. Karolyne. This is a very critical issue and many people are confused about what's right or wrong as it concerns kissing. Thank you for addressing this.

[@veecharlez6395]

Thanks Karolyne may the Lord continue to bless you and your family

[@karolyneroberts]

Thank you!!

[@shanea2392]

Wow!! I was literally just discussing this with a friend a couple days ago.

[@karolyneroberts]

Wow!

[@lechetimmie2593]

This is the first time that I have come across any of your videos. I am not in a relationship at this moment, but this video really has great advice and will be very helpful for when that time comes around. Thank you so much.

[@karubuarmelgael9632]

Thank you sister. It was highly helpful. I had that question (Kissing) and I was not finding scriptures to base on my position as a Christian. Be blessed. Thank you again.

[@altoviseogilvie5122]

Karolyne I love all of your videos, but this one is going in my Karolyne Roberts folder ❤❤❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@myfit1912]

Altovise Ogilvie hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@kaylyamba7070]

You've helped me a lot I wish you could tell my fellow teens in my country

[@hanpraisestudios6236]

Wow. This is the first video of you I watched. You're beautiful sis! May you continue to share God's Word and God bless you more!

[@latashathomaa2712]

Thank you soo much for this thank you for being transparent. This subject isn’t talked about as it should because it is a struggle or have been for so many Christians ❤️

[@BAYBEET23]

Great nuggets of wisdom 🔥

[@DoofanHiikyaa]

This is the best answer to this question I’ve ever heard. Thank you.

[@myfit1912]

Marriage dipped in blood MDIB hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@RhondaR4]

This makes perfect sense. I got it now!🙌🏽Praise The Lord! Thank you beautiful!💞

[@victoriayates8765]

This is soooo good! Praise the Lord!

[@LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv]

Great message! Yeah it could lead to the wrong place.

[@MpumiKMbonane]

Karolyne, this was soooooo good ma

[@PastorZministries]

Amen!! It is true that we should not allow our temptations take hold of our actions. We need to know our boundaries. The problem is finding someone else that desires after the Lord in a similar way as you. This is why it is important to be equally yoked! 2 Corinthians 6:14.

[@herbertawudzi]

Wow!!!! This is Powerful!!! Thank You so much for this light

[@stansilousnkawisi605]

Thank you for the teaching....... God bless you

[@fultch6717]

This is goals...it was really helpful

[@nakaibaledamalie7409]

Thank you so much Karolyne for this message. God is using you to reach out to us. You have answered one of my questions. May God bless you abundantly

[@sebastianalonso1289]

Amen! Glory to God!!!!! I have been thinking about this for a while now and God has answered with this video. Thank you and God Bless.

[@alainyapi8273]

If a man truly fears GOD , even if you try to kiss him he’ll just push you to stop it . My brother and his wife before they got married she would try to kiss him but he would always push her away lol but today they are married oh GOD we are tired of seeing them kissing

[@nimusiimapatience2099]

Wow!! I had a dream when I was wth a man I normally dream about to become my husband bcse one time we were going for introduction at my parents' home and another day we were at th church I was in a white half gown wedding wth him and so many dreams of getting married to him SO I HAD A DREAM WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ON TH BENCH IN THIS DREAM I WAS TRYING TO KISS HIM BUT HE TRIED TOO TO DEFEND IT , I WAS FEELING HIM I HAD TOO MUCH FEELINGS BUT HE REFUSED ME TO DO IT and then we continued having a conversation but I felt shame in th dream when he tried to defend it not to happen and even Wanted to inform him tht I dream him to become my husband but I did not tell him, then th dream stoped from there and this guy is a pastor. So my friends wht do u think about this ? Dont u think this man might be the the one God wnts me to be mine????

[@alainyapi8273]

KiddRogers see ? My brother and his wife stopped kissing too when they were not even engaged . It’s important to go beyond the carnal process

[@gma904]

Beautiful.

[@zellesev1240]

wow this comment section and feed is rly convincing HAHA just had a conversation about it with a friend who is strongly no no about it and all that, while we were watching an online show... I didn't see it coming nor ever really thought about it. I guess I was left shocked and scared with how pushy he seemed haha it seems kinda deep in a Christian perspective hmmm

[@ivarenetulloch9101]

Sml 😊

[@rhakheltv4989]

I was so amaze ...because i was thinking about this...Thank You holy spirit

[@kessacooper1663]

Great message Karolyne, hope you and your family are keeping well 🙏🏾

[@THEHOLYGHOSTCLUB]

Wow! Your bible verses are a great tool here! I so much appreciate this video.

[@ednelson4759]

I just love watching ur video's as you mean good to Christians growth.

[@priscillaxsafi]

Thank you for your transparency from that part 6:50

[@DB_Prime223]

You be Preaching rn 🔥🔥

[@officialsayojohn]

May God continue to increase your wisdom and knowledge of the Word of God. I've always been blessed by the way you speak on the topics. You give Bible-based explanations . God bless you greatly and continue to uphold you in Jesus name.

[@francispascal8356]

Woow..am amazed that we kind of share the same past truma...but by His grace we're free... Thanks for being a blessing Are you married?

[@m.a.williamson85]

Well said! God bless!!!

[@angelchampagnechildofGod20]

Thank you for letting God use you. I really needed to hear this and I thank God that he showed me this 💕

[@victoriousinspiration3651]

I thank God for you. I love that the verse from the Songs of Solomon was the first one you spoke about...that is the first verse that the Holy Spirit reminds me of in situations where I get to speak about love.....n not just that, but everything you've said is on point.

[@destinynitunga1583]

You are sooo blessed for telling the truth. I especially love the PART that we have the responsibility to BE AN EXAMPLE. The world is watching HOW WE LIVE OUR LIVES. Christians want to blend so much now . THAT IS WHY THEY EVEN RAISE UP THE QUESTION. NOW a Pastor even put it that way , IN DATING OR COURTSHIP YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED AND YOU CAN EVEN BREAK UP IF YOU are not meant for each other. SO UNTIL MARRIED YOU ARE BROTHER AND SISTERS IN CHRIST , KISSING IS INTIMATE it is not a hand shake. SO WILL YOU KISS YOUR BROTHER OR SISTER IN CHRIST that you are not married to???? CONSIDER YOUR TESTIMONY ... IN LOVE I AM CALLING OUT ALL CHRISTIANS-- NON MARRIED--- THAT WILL SLEEP IN HOTELS IN THE SAME ROOM EVEN IF ON SEPARATE BEDS... DON'T OPEN DOORS TO ANYTHING. CONSIDER YOUR TESTIMONY EVEN IF YOU ARE SUPER STRONG (YOUR SPIRIT IS SOOOO STRONG) IN LOVE GOD BLESS.... CAN WE UPHOLD STANDARDS INSTEAD OF DRAWING LINES CLOSER TO SIN.

[@navycorpsman2007]

That's good stuff you wrote !

[@behindcloseddoorsministries]

Love it.. love it..love it!!💚💟💚I totally agree with this message, God bless you!☺

[@myfit1912]

Eva Kelley hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@behindcloseddoorsministries]

@@myfit1912 hi there thank you I will be praying for you also.🙂

[@gracepirationmotivations8233]

Thank you for this video and your own struggles with your past. I love this

[@dellareserolle492]

Karolyne Roberts well said & right on time. May God continue to use you, be blessed and be encouraged woman of God!😊💐👏💃🏾

[@Explorewithkim]

pls I need a Christian eating site

[@myfit1912]

Dellarese Rolle hi I am a new Christian KZbinr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

[@dellareserolle492]

@@myfit1912 okay thank you!

[@fabriziammanuli1672]

Good stuff. God bless

[@ruthanne6002]

Why is this in my recommendations? What is KZbin tryna tell me😭

[@fashionista12rw]

Ruth Anne oKAy soo my name’s Ruth, my nickname usta be Ruth Anne, & this is my reaction...sooo

[@ayobamiomowunmipatrice-arc4613]

Lol, IKR

[@WatchingMyFigures]

Ruth Anne facts lol

[@nicolemulure]

Ikr😂

[@ruthanne6002]

YA GIRL UNCONVENTIONAL 😭😭😭

[@fergfergable]

YESSSS HONEY!!!!!! this was on point. thank you for reminding me of the truth. I thought I was a freak because I wanted to wait until marriage to do anything physical but side hugs.

[@conradbainez190]

Miss K.Roberts i dont know whether you are a pastor but any office you are in,i honour God for you n this message coz it has helped me thanx