THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE I GOT MARRIED !

[@DignaK]

One thing is for sure. Don’t talk about your spouse to family and friends. You will forgive him but they wont.

[@manweller1]

Amen

[@bezawitkahsay4573]

True

[@TrollinOn22s]

It depends cuz I think my in-laws like me and would over look the petty arguments

[@SylvieSij]

True! Still finding it hard to forgive my brother in law but him & my sister r cool.

[@desireehooper3254]

So true.

[@judithestime7343]

I would also add the following: 1. Don’t neglect the friends you had before marriage. 2. Don’t neglect the hobbies you had before getting married.

[@adebayoogunmola3530]

I say diss & forget ur hobbies if he/she can not cope liking it...Píck something dat the both of you can catch fun doíng

[@ricardoallen786]

I dont think most women have that problem, usually its the guy that drops all his friends to appease the woman. Alot of marriage minded guys would even let their woman pick and choose which friends she wants around.

[@gigilamoore2656]

@@ricardoallen786 No. Plenty of women act like they can't even breathe by themselves once they get a man.

[@gigilamoore2656]

@@adebayoogunmola3530 There are times when a couple need some time to themselves. It's o.k. to not do everything together.

[@honeywest39j95]

Gigi La Moore yes they do; it’s really annoying when women do that.

[@deannajohnson4546]

I’ve been married for going on 8 years. I wish I knew before marriage, that you don’t have to lose your identity. This was a great video for newly married couples or engaged couples.

[@angelicamendes6939]

I’m 21 and my husband is 24 we got married 02-20-20 . Thank you for this beautiful video!

[@hephzibahmakhetha4371]

Congratulations and may it be a blessed union 😄!

[@lezaanuithaler]

Young married couple. I love that. God bless your union❤

[@olivianhyirababah5315]

Congratulations

[@adetutuojelabi7374]

Angel Love wow! You guys married so young. All the best! GOD bless your union.🙏🏾

[@angelicamendes6939]

adetutu ojelabi thank you very much! Blessings to you and your family 💗

[@vanzrox1]

1) Your spouse is your family, not enemy 2) People like to be loved in different ways 3) You can grow together. You dont have to have it all together 4) Sex is more important than you think. Sex is not just a fling!! 5) Submission does not make you weak. Submission is a beautiful thing!

[@josephmandiya_]

We don't pray for marriage crises but christians often experience it so I did a video on marriage that's the solution To Marriage Crisis kzbin.info/www/bejne/aprQdGyQlN2ImrM

[@clausthomas3028]

Well said keep up the good talk

[@valw7422]

It's crazy how tv and films normalize sexless marriages & husbands sleeping on the couch because of a petty argument. Definitely something else Satan did to bring chaos into the order of things set forth by God.

[@palesatalks6629]

The last one I dont agree with nop .

[@chibyk2008]

Love Harmony submission don’t only mean sex. It mostly means showing more respect in a Godly way .

[@latonyabonner6454]

An old married woman just learned something. Keep teaching!

[@ChatsWithFlo]

LaTonya Bonner me too 😊

[@karolyneroberts]

Aww that's awesome!! THANK YOU!

[@josephmandiya_]

We don't pray for marriage crises but christians often experience it so I did a video on marriage that's the solution To Marriage Crisis kzbin.info/www/bejne/aprQdGyQlN2ImrM

[@AbleTasharMusic]

Thank you darling

[@ladennayoung2939]

Awesome. It's good that you were willing to learn and listen.

[@kaysplace4264]

I've been married twice and what I wish someone would have told me before I got married was that honest and open communication with your spouse about how you are feeling about issues or situations is the best solutions because silence on the matter leads to resentment and that leads to arguments.

[@winsomelucas2792]

I totally agree with you on that Kay

[@kaysplace4264]

@BWills953 , I agree it can be tiring.

[@kylanotkayla9229]

Things that I wish I knew before marriage: 1) agreeing on how to handle in laws and backing eachother up. 2) respecting our spaces and boundaries about how we will go about it.

[@spokenwordpoetries]

This is good!

[@naongashawa8347]

Dying to self is a big one...thank you for sharing...wish I knew these things too...learning and growing...

[@karolyneroberts]

It's a process! ;) I'm learning and growing everyday too!

[@patriciavonjohnson]

As an international flight attendant, I’d have to pass out travel forms. Generally these customs forms are one per person, or if married, then one per family for travels to islands, Mexico, Europe etc., popular honeymoon destinations. The newly married couples gave me years of laughter, because the majority of them did not know that they were now a family. I’d have to be the one to share the news that they were now legally a family!😆So I know the need to tell young couples they are a family; yes, even before children. It’s another wonderful element of that covenant! Good and Pertinent teaching. Blessings.

[@MacCurtisHolisticHealthTalk]

Hey Patricia, it happens w/ older couples. I had to always talk & speak about our family & the family unit, cause my now ex-wife only thought about her needs. The self preservation thing didn't stop, I was always ready for a team member or family unit. She would say she was for family but her actions told otherwise. I'm retired military, so we are very familiar w/ customs forms traveling outside of USA so much!!

[@candyserrano3889]

Yes Patricia!!!! I was an agent for the airline and some people would travel, get married, come back and then travel again. Thing is, last names tend to change. You get the just of the story but man is it so cute for them to get all red and say, oh right.. right.. and they bring their marriage certificate to the airport hehe so cute

[@joedhoffer7995]

You speak clear and confident. I'm sure that everybody in the world will understand you perfectly.

[@dianakyanjo]

I agree with you - a very pleasant and clear speaker

[@delphinastone6136]

Thanks Karolyne. Yet to get married, not even dating. Currently, 27 yrs old. Sometimes, its tempting to be anxious but I trust God. Thanks for teaching about these things. I believe God is bringing me to my husband in ways only He can. I'm grateful he's preparing him for me and me for him. It is too important to view your spouse as family...seen it with my parents and have had it re-echoed here by you .God bless you Karolyne....keep on being a light to many. Looking forward to sharing my testimony soon.

[@tonyajones1546]

I loved this discussion! I made all of those mistakes in my first marriage. As an older and wiser woman I embraced and own up to my errors and with God's help I will not go down that path again.

[@lynette4412]

In Jesus name. Amen.

[@missari05]

It’s beautiful to hear someone not posting blame but admitting their wiser because of their mistakes and embracing them! So refreshing to hear. Bless your soul. We need more women like you ♥️

[@nickileon5064]

Thank you for this video!❤️ I’ve been dating my fiancé for 5 years and we got engaged last year. We are getting married this June and I’m so excited to live with him & grow together 💗💗💗💗

[@Thesingingnews_anchor]

I’m not married and neither have I had an experience with a relationship that lasted ( wasn’t what God wanted for me) . I’m learning that God wants what’s best for me. Thank you for your videos . As a college student and young woman I’m focusing on healing and learning. I want to have a better relationship with God. I just wanted you to know that I don’t take these videos lightly. It’s a breath of fresh air and thank you for sharing and being real and transparent. I love you 💕

[@equanimousshey9232]

Ashiana Mone' Sending you love and light💛🌟✨🌟✨ , God will send one that is ready to serve Him with the woman you are seeking to become...one that fits all the puzzles left by the past and will make you thankful for the lessons learned from those experiences..Wish you the very best sis

[@gospelmusic7823]

Thanks a lot for sharing. It was worth watching. Please keep them coming. Well done girl! GOD bless you.

[@ruthelachi6279]

Before we need to know about handling finances....it’s a major issue that still causes married couples to have disputes. Thank you for sharing God bless you.

[@sharonphillips5282]

I wish I knew: the importance of self care, to relinquish control, receive gifts graciously even if I don’t like it, not share arguments with family

[@theoracle888]

These were great points! I would also add that because two people who were likely raised differently; have different life experiences/perspectives, etc., grace and compromise will be essential to the relationship. Sometimes we fail to realize not everyone grew up the same way or were even taught some of the basic things so we tend to criticize instead of seeking to accept/respect differences.

[@traquilasmith2275]

I desire to be married one day. I think God want me to hear this message he knows and preparing me for marriage one day. This help me i am learning and growing. Thank you God and karolyne i needed this great knowledge for marriage. God bless everyone.🙏👏☺

[@wshelby83]

Traquila Smith I hope for that too!!

[@MacCurtisHolisticHealthTalk]

Great to desire it, Don't do like I did, too anxious & did it B4 God's will for me, didn't last. I thought I was ready & really wanted it.

[@biloy6327]

First time here. Great video. I wish I knew these things 5 years ago. Not knowing almost cost me my marriage recently. It got so bad that we both agreed on divorce a week ago, but by some miracle, we got past it due to family intervention who shared these very points you were making. Then it all made sense why we were having problems. Especially understanding that "people express love in different ways" transformed our marriage overnight. We both have a lot of work ahead to get things ignited again, but we are both excited and happier than ever. Only thing I would add is don't keep your marital problems bottled up inside, it will blow up one day and it ain't gonna be pretty. Instead, educate yourself about marriage, and/or seek a professional/trusted person's advise. I wish I did, or we both wouldn't have been so miserable for the past 5 years.

[@MacCurtisHolisticHealthTalk]

Some of these things come w/ maturity................I found you have to really go beyond your circle. Also, pray & ask God!! "Call to me & I will answer & tell you Great & unsearchable things you do not know" Jeremiah 33:3

[@Missjonessd100]

The worst thing ever is submitting to a man that does not know how to lead with a Christ like relationship with his wife.

[@abundance4730]

Totally agree

[@bykay4u856]

Why not pray for him to discover Christ ?

[@obedobinna3523]

Submission has never been a choice, as long you are the wife you must submit that's what the Bible teaches. Submission is a difficult thing. Submission is a risk, you don't know the man too well no matter how long you have been going out. When you marry you will discover many other things you never knew. Submission is by faith and it a risk yet the Bible said submit. Submission is a risk you need the holy Spirit to do it. A woman has her own part to make sure that the authority you are submit to has been verified thoroughly by God. You must submit to your husband at all times.

[@adebayoogunmola3530]

True, but u need 2# Submit and subtle begin to orientate him. Note :Not Change him, cuz u can never, u can only deceive urself dat u can change some1. U can only influence that change,and n@turally he becomes who u want

[@obedobinna3523]

@@adebayoogunmola3530 you are right. There is a huge difference between personality and mindset. Personality is inherent. You hardly change people's personality.

[@teoemmymusic8416]

I'm getting in married in June and this is SO helpful!!

[@jenniferaguh8121]

I'm still unmarried but this totally left an imprint on my heart. I used to think everything had to be perfect before getting married (on both sides), now I know better. God bless you 🤗

[@nancyyiaile3793]

If your not married stay single my dear

[@jenniferaguh8121]

@@nancyyiaile3793 why do feel I should stay single?

[@nancyyiaile3793]

Marriage life is so hard my sister

[@jenniferaguh8121]

@@nancyyiaile3793 Your reply stirred me up to pray and think. I realise that marriage is hardwork, so is a regular job but you still have to work. "He who shall not work should not eat"...laziness is not a virtue as a Christian. Marriage involves contributions, companionship and commitment from both sides; it is enjoyable to those who can put in the needed effort. The Holy Spirit is our helper and all my cares are on Jesus so I have nothing to fear or worry about. I choose to approach marriage more holistically as a blessing but thank you for your view.

[@candacedawn357]

I'm a single, 42 year old, never married woman, and some of the things you mentioned I already knew so I'm feeling good about that! (: 👍

[@Vajeakwa]

Thank u for this video! Truly, I’m single and the Lord called me to take a hiatus from dating to fully love and trust Him (& myself). During this time, I’m learning what a Godly and healthy relationship looks like & this as helped a lot💕💕

[@lisarichardson3514]

Im 57 and all this is so what I have learned also. We all need to hear this again though! This is so good love hearing you teach and minister!💓

[@MichelleCN_]

Thank you for sharing, worth listening since I am on the road to getting married. God Bless!!

[@karolyneroberts]

Awesome! So glad you could find this helpful.

[@BenevolantBusinessBeauty]

This is rich! Thank you! #SingleSisterInWaiting ❤️

[@lezaanuithaler]

That is great. Fill your mind with positive advice

[@BenevolantBusinessBeauty]

Amen 💕

[@thegoodinfluencer15]

1. Your spouse is not your enemy but your family. That helped me! I’m single now but I know if I didn’t hear that when my future husband God’s will makes me mad I could see myself running to my family and making him my enemy. Thank you for this. God bless is good. God bless you!

[@thendomapume6994]

This definitely is good for me since I recently just got married. Sometimes I forget that my wife is my family and not my enemy.

[@TheCurls48]

You are the epidemy of Black Girls Rock! Thank you for your wisdom and leadership! Dr. Revia

[@mulugetaadane6564]

Thank you so much. I like your teaching. It's so important and Biblical. Rev, Dr. Mulugeta from Ethiopia.

[@joyv4727]

The 5 Love Languages are so clutch in every relationship. Great tips from you Karolyne! Please share where to get that shirt!

[@mrs.latoyamelvin652]

I know you can order one on wish dot com

[@desireex5613]

"As the husband gets under the mission of Christ" love it then and only then shall you submit to him great video love.

[@josephmandiya_]

We don't pray for marriage crises but christians often experience it so I did a video on marriage that's the solution To Marriage Crisis kzbin.info/www/bejne/aprQdGyQlN2ImrM

[@reaobakanels1192]

Yes...I Agree!

[@kenboat7337]

That's why it's good to go to counseling before you get gerther.

[@josephmandiya_]

We don't pray for marriage crises but christians often experience it so I did a video on marriage that's the solution To Marriage Crisis kzbin.info/www/bejne/aprQdGyQlN2ImrM

[@kizzyrock]

Facts!

[@kairakamryn]

Pre-marital counseling is what I have in mind

[@joyresideshere]

I went through pre-martial counseling but issues still met us. However the counseling is a helping tool through it all.

[@joyresideshere]

Fìfì Fẹ́mi I agree ☝️

[@mishmish6299]

I’m single and working on myself, so I currently have no prospects for marriage, but I watched this video to see how healthy marriages function and to learn what to expect. Thank you for putting this information out there. It’s so enlightening and encouraging, especially for those of us who did not have healthy dynamics modeled to us in the home 🙏🏻

[@Memkoh]

I’m so happy I came across this video. Every single thing you touched on is spot on! Thank you for sharing your lessons with us. It’s beautiful that you got married young and grew with your husband. Wishing you both a life of togetherness.

[@lovelyphoenix4363]

Great video, everything you said was so true. I would also like to add that hanging around other married couples helps you to understand that the issues, if any in your marriage are more common than you think. Be around all types of married ppl; the seasoned couple, the new couple, the engaged couple, etc😄

[@peperojas2961]

I have no more tears left to cry anymore I feel like what I'm asking

[@joyresideshere]

I’m going through the team work part now. I tell my husband often I’m on your team. I’m not your enemy.

[@candacedawn357]

I hope he's in agreement!

[@jamesb465]

Really appreciate this video... it's nice hear from a woman's perspective. Everything you said was facts.

[@rashadimahimi6658]

I watched this video twice.. its amazing to known these things before my marriage. Im going to marry next week and i was searching good videos about marriage. Because i was little bit fear about marriage and ur video make me strength in God. Truly im thanking God about u dr. You're an amazing women

[@randi2618]

These are great tips! As a newlywed, I greatly appreciate this advice! Thank you!

[@loisevora2717]

Hello, if I had this information before I married twice I would have made better choices. My first husband was a cheater and had many other problems that I will not go into. I was deceived by my second husband. He was a church going man, so I thought we were evenly yoke. I was so wrong. He knew nothing about the word of God. Do not be deceived by a man because he is in church that doesn't mean anything to many of them. I have to admit I was not ready for the troubles and problems that came with these marriages. I have asked God to forgive me for being deceived and foolish. Now I have been married twice which is very painful for me as a woman of God. Women please be careful!

[@williamaustiniii4190]

You can have that happy and fulfilling marriage though. You are wiser from the two marriages and have grown from it. Make sure you take the time to heal and mend from the previous soul ties. I believe you can become a happily married woman, if you so choose.

[@loisevora2717]

@@williamaustiniii4190 Thank you, I receive.

[@Brain2600]

As a man myself, and reading your story, I'm really sorry to read that you had to go through that. I hope you find happiness and peace from within. You deserve someone better. God, will make beauty out of those ashes, and you will overcome. I pray for you.

[@loisevora2717]

@@Brain2600 Thank you

[@DA-jp3uq]

I agree with what they have said. I know as women we have the tendency to feel worse than usual for wrong decisions we've made but you did the right thing in asking God to forgive you first and now it's important to show Him you mean it by focusing on Him and only Him so you see that He is all you need! It can be difficult but remember that the distractions we face, the pressure placed on us as women are all created by man (as in people not just men lol) so when we completely dedicate every inch of our earthly/physical and spiritual being to God, He gives us that peace and fulfilment that honestly no man could ever do! And if it is in God's will for you to marry then the husband God has ordained for you will not hinder the peace, discernment and strength that you will have gained in Christ. If that makes sense. I pray for your healing and continuous growth in God's word ❤️

[@annewamuti3952]

My struggle is communication.....and always expected more than I got

[@susanfaye4935]

Thank you so much for that info. Was married 7 yrs . I am Christian he is Muslim. Was raised to be open minded. So accepted him for who he was. Did not know about boundaries or how important they are. Now divorced. Read books and praying for a Christian man I can pray with. Your info. Helped me to understand even more.

[@ChatsWithFlo]

I 💗 your graphic tee. The main thing I wish I knew before marriage is how to communicate. I had a problem with expressing how I feel. So my partner would think everything was ok and it wasn’t. I have been married for 28 years and I have finally learned how important it is to express yourself. Thank you for the video and the great tips. 🙏🏾💗

[@wshelby83]

Chats With Flo wow!! That’s a blessing to have 28 years together but I know it’s filled with ups and downs

[@joyfati6364]

Chats With Flo this is what am going through... Wen I try to talk he thinks maybe am now against what iam telling him which increases his anger ,he abuses me and keeps quite on me for some good time

[@reggiep6471]

I think communication is important in all relationships and the closer your relationship the more important communication becomes. We all need to learn to communicate better, and the people to whom we are married to we must be able/ should be able to communicate with them the best.

[@blessedchild1981]

I love this video! This is so important to talk about submission......

[@benedictiongarcon8468]

you are so spot on, other people don't see the good quality of your husband/wife. We used to hate on our elder brother's wife because we could not see the good side of her only he could see.

[@royalqueenofcanada9632]

My boyfriend and I listened to you and we are blessed. Thanks for the words.

[@thatruth8900]

This is my first time watching your channel.Thank you for this positive piece on marriage there are so many negative things out there about it, this is such a refreshing change it can be such a beautiful thing when both people are committed and in love

[@Ohole]

I love the couch and the throw over it!! Perfectiooon!

[@justmo6896]

Congratulations the Roberts family🎇🎉 great to know...though I ain't married yet trusting in God for marriage🙏love the tee👌💕Kenya repping.

[@karolyneroberts]

Thank you love!!

[@MariaRodriguez-cr9oz]

To spend time away doing Godly fun activities you come back and share each other’s new information to grow together and it makes each other a more interesting person to love”

[@atiglahfredrick836]

Waoooo I have learnt a lot in this video. God bless you for Sharing

[@karolyneroberts]

Awesome!! I'm so happy to hear :)

[@nickadali5802]

Thank you Karolyne Robert for these pure pieces of advice

[@TheBoss-vy1xl]

I did try the team work and it was fruitful, but the parents of my husband started coming into our marriage and this brought hate and eventually he served me with divorce papers. I did cry but it was also a relief from the hell they gave me. I praise God as this was an eye opener that GOD wanted me to see he actually was not a geniune person

[@kf10381x]

Thank you so much for this message. It’s right on point. I, unfortunately, think it’s too late for my marriage. I always believed that if two people want things to work, and do what they’re suppose to do when they’re suppose to do it, there is always hope. I have been trying to get my wife to stop being stubborn and rebellious for the entire 3 years of our marriage. I’ve given up trying as I believe it is a waste of time trying to change someone who doesn’t seem to want to change, even if it is for the better. I had so many hopes and dreams for us but sadly they’ve been dashed. Two days ago I left her at her sister’s house and I’m moving back east near my family. It’s like she brings the worst out of me instead of the other way around. I’ve prayed but her stubbornness and what seems like a Jezebel spirit remains. I’ve taken Proverbs 20:19 literally and moved out into the wilderness just to be away from her contentiousness and anger. I only wanted the best for us but if we had both watched your video 3 years ago, we maybe could have had a better start. I believe there is hope in anything, but only if everyone is truly repentant and back up their words with actions to match. Who knows. Maybe one day she will see the light and do what’s right by God and me. Thanks you again.

[@katlegomosojane676]

Have you tried counselling?

[@wairuatapu6783]

Hi Karolyne, I am single right now and Jesus is educating me so I can get my marriage happenimg from the right foot. Your video is very helpful to me and when she comes to me, we can establish strong principles to make our marriage strong. The advice to resonate with me are; we are family, work out our issues etc with each other and through prayer (I especially like this advice) and the team analogy, we are a team doing the Mission Jesus gave us. Thank you.

[@childofTheMostHigh4217]

Wow this is me too! All 5 tips are things I learned (or am still dealing with) the hard way. Been married 5 yrs now. Thanks so much for sharing!♥️

[@wshelby83]

Johanna Lopez-gaccione keep going girl!!!

[@RhondaR4]

WOW, you are always right on time! Confirmation! Praise The Lord! Thank Jesus! Thank you Karolyne! God bless you!🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️💞🌷

[@sheena8995]

I'm single and not married. Thank you for this video!

[@TheBritfashionista]

I think marriage is a beautiful thing. My parents have been married for 41 years and to see their relationship is absolutely amazing. I do want to get married one day....I guess.My thing is losing myself and what I love to do. I like having my own space and having my bed to myself.I like the quality of time I spend with God no matter what day or time. If I want to up and leave I can whenerver I want. I guess my question is why are people so eager to get married or in a rush? Honestly ,I am selfish right now. I do consider other people's feelings.But I do me and I like spending time to with me. Marriage is no joke and it's not something for the weak.

[@sheilamohammed8306]

I suggest pre marital counseling. Go test to see if you are compatible in different areas. The problem is most people will be dishonest and overlook things they know they do not like just to get married. Affection is something covered on that premarital questionnaire. You need to know yourself and your boundaries. Knowing your love language is also covered on the questionnaire which should be taking place in your dating phase.

[@AJ-sr5uu]

I know this is an older vid but I just happened to find it. My wedding is in 4 months & I couldn’t be more excited. I definitely needed to hear this.

[@relladiege9413]

Thank you ma'am. I hope to follow this criteria . Thanks for educating me through your channel.

[@kingmarcus7215]

Awesome! I'm single and I'm glad that you shared this wisdom. Thank you!

[@youngforeign8197]

Am I the only one who got goosebumps??🙆🏾‍♂️😭✨

[@msedmocsu]

I thank God my pastor prepared us for marriage. All we have to do now is wait on God and continue to grow.

[@nyankenmuokding7378]

My fiance forwarded your video to me and it has change a lot and strengthen my future life plans. Thank you so much Karolyne Roberts.

[@mercieemerc]

Simple and straight to such key points. Thank you

[@jozzzzyj]

First time on her Chanel. I'm not even religion but she realy is right. Temptation is Everywhere. I loved the content of the whole vidéo 😍

[@naomimitchell8488]

Glad I stumbled upon your channel, I was blessed. I too didn’t understand love languages either in my marriage. Now that I am divorced and more mature, I’ve started to understand the importance of recognizing love languages.

[@frankschattner7640]

right on. Been married 40 years. You're absolutely right!

[@frassite]

Hi Karolyne! Just happen to run into this video on youtube, so I'm a newbie on your channel, but this video was pure positive energy I pray you continue doing a great work. Your spouse is your family, not your enemy wow!!!! this is so true married for 5 years this year and I can tell you how true this is always have to communicate with your spouse.....

[@littletrainer475]

True i am not with my ex husband anymore but one thing i did wrong was the first one i always talked to my mom about him and he did the same. Good video. Thank you Lord. I will send this to my daughter

[@MakedaRucker-rf8ws]

Thank you for all these great tips. I prayed to God last week for conformation on my future marriage. After praying a few days later ,out of nowhere my son said” Mom, Daddy is your family “ instantly knew God was speaking through my son. There’s tips were great. Look forward to watching more of your videos. Can you share a video on choosing the right date for marriage? Thanks for sharing these gems and allowing God to use you!

[@Joyinthemorn]

I'm not a Christian but this was on point! You seem very positive. New subscriber

[@lucyngoma2352]

Wisdom right there. God bless you for being a blessing to many of us

[@ClaraM101]

Girl I love that couch great decorative pillows and throw

[@Fashion_With_Tamyia]

I enjoyed this video...it was real and authentic!

[@ladennayoung2939]

These are really good points and advice. Thanks for sharing. Have a blessed day. I know the Lord sent this my way for a reason.

[@nakitovelonick6140]

Thanks Lord for this good message to us who not married and also the married family

[@angelicamariezamorallona624]

Thank you so much your video. I learned alot. We are supposed to have our wedding day but due to covid 19 we decided to paused it for a while and continue it on decemeber 2020.

[@daphnebryant7282]

Love ur style that tee shirt is so nice....I’m old enough to be ur mother but still feel like I can learn something from ur videos ( marriage and love can happen at any age) I’m praying for u love u again. Be blesses💜💓💜

[@MacCurtisHolisticHealthTalk]

Great, great!! I really Luv the last one about the Team, everyone has an integral part to play, no one is above or beneath another. Submit, submit women, especially when you have a God fearing Man, & you say you trust him. We'll come on submit!! Its great that you made it thru those challenges Pastor, I feel maturity also plays a role, the more you know & resources available to you as in Jeremiah 33:3, I was sharing w/ one of your followers.

[@cloelee4707]

The part where we are going together I want to say thank you for that. I recently got engaged and I have no idea what am I doing thank you for explaining it to me

[@tonylaw8149]

Yes, this is a great post. I like the statement about your spouse is your family and not your enemy. Also, not tainting family members with your household disagreements.

[@akaiya08]

I wish more experienced couples would discuss the different SEASONS of marriage. It won’t always feel fresh, new, exciting like spring! The dull, boring, routine ‘winters’ doesn’t mean you fell out of love. It is normal! Don’t move on feelings!

[@tashlaw9293]

Definitely learned this in 2020 and I use the word family everyday so my husband and son get the picture we treat our family well and take care of one another

[@Hjclost4154]

Thanks sooo much for this teaching and especially for what you shared about the enemy's role in causing persons to withhold sex in the marriage.

[@sherribass8902]

These are diamonds! Thanks so much!

[@amiaknight8663]

Thank you so much for these words of wisdom.

[@moffatm]

This is yet again another helpful video Karolyne, have followed you for a long time now and have always loved your stuff. God bless you lots!

[@realitybytestv8148]

Such good information for what people need to know prior to taking that leap. Good stuff

[@ishtaneel8305]

I get ur 1st point. But I was in a toxic narcissistic marriage & dint share my probs with friends n family. I shd hav seemed helped. Its gud to know when to share.

[@davidmua7650]

Good content. I would advocate that marriage has no manual. What you need to do is to have fear of God in it and pray for it. It's so beautiful to marry and seek God's guidance. Have been married for 10 months and I regret nothing. Let everyone understand his or her line of duty despite career responsibilities and work out your marriage together

[@ChavaSaraa]

Great video Karolyn! My husband and I got got married 2-14-20, I wish I knew how things can really change and get complicated!

[@1jgonga]

Great points! The two become one flesh marriage wise, however, souls/spiritual life/ spiritual journey is independent for everyone. Each one will present before God alone. Remember when Jesus was asked about the woman who got married to like 5 brothers (Mathew 22:23-30).

[@Intencionalmente_17]

Giiiiiiirrrrllllllll Aleluyah!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for letting God speak through you. May God continue to bless you and all things you touch!!!!

[@mandyschwarz4821]

Haha