Understanding Emotional Manipulation: BK Shivani's Eye-Opening Talk

[@JM11423]

Recipe for Peace 1) watch bk Shivani ji's videos every morning and before sleep consistently. 2) Absorb the messages 3) Take every situation as practical sessions for what you have learnt 4) Note and Acknowledge the positive transformations in you. Congratulations you are on the path to peace😍 Based on my experience😍 I watched her videos from 2018 religiously then stopped & started practicing. Now i am unaffected by others behaviors. Even if i get affected i shift as soon as possible.

[@sreevidyavenugopal5352]

U said it❤

[@Rosepham301]

Congratulations.And I am really happy to hear that. It's the same experience for me as well.

[@Rosepham301]

That's the recipe for happiness, for being powerful... And actually it's a way to find our own self, to get back to our nature of peace, love, happiness, power, bliss, knowledge and wisdom.

[@cinthaa1]

You are SUCH an inspiration ❤😊 🙏🏽

[@alpsalangad2898]

Your Words are So Precious 💞 💕 Thank you so much ❤

[@JoanneLim-w2t]

I came across your video last month and I am hooked. You have answered all my questions in my life. I’m taking notes and reading it every night before I sleep. You are God send to me. I wished I had seen it sooner but I guess there’s a right time for everything. To everyone who reads this my blessings to you all. Words cannot express how much and how grateful I am to you. Om Shanti.

[@rudranijana8205]

Same here I also do the same thing dear...❤

[@kidsstoriesbypoonam3417]

Peaceful listening

[@amiyamitra3251]

Gyanjyoti Debi Saraswati Didi Shivani 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@chidanandakrishnegowda4028]

Very happy to know about your thoughts. 🤝

[@ramprasaddas948]

Very lovely discussion

[@JoanneLim-w2t]

Thanks for your reply. I have seen some improvement on my daughter. This is what I am sending to her everyday. I’m sorry for the pain that I have caused you in the past . I’m sorry for all the critical and the judgmental thoughts I had about you. I forgive you for what you did to me. Past is past and it’s over. My past karmic account is over, never ever to come again. From now onwards my thoughts for you are love, respect and blessings. I understand you, I accept you, I bless you and I heal you. You are a pure and a powerful soul. You are peaceful, lovefull and a confident soul. You are changing to be your best. This is what I summarised after listening to her so many videos. I’m changing also and I’m at peace. Sister Shivani you are Godsend to us. Om shanti.

[@deepalideshmukh456]

Such great thanks

[@ShammaNayak]

When a mother has damaged her kid beyond repair ...their is n should be no forgiveness hence if u r not mature enough to be a good mother then don't be at an age ....my mother destroyed me even though I was gud in everything n she made me doubt myself every single day ....my talents were curbed n they spend 40 lakhs on some1 who was aggressive n manipulative n still support the bad one over the good one ...some women should never be mothers

[@shilpar4848]

​@@ShammaNayakEven I have had the same experience.

[@pushpamuljiratna9589]

thx for sharing your experience

[@thembekalupuzi]

​@@ShammaNayak❤

[@leenachandak8801]

Actually this video has answer for all the emotional problems one faces. Truly love to hear you didi. It feels i should have come across this 20 years back. I would have lived all the more happy and peaceful life. Love you Shivani didi 🙏🏻

[@ClassesMANI]

I had been through this. Someone manipulated me like hell. I cried all day and all night. Finally took step , got touch with you on one random reels. The world is changing!

[@positiveMindset665]

Sorry that you had to go through it. One thing I’m trying to learn these days is the reason we allowed for ourselves to be manipulated and work on myself, so that I have the knowledge and cannot be manipulated by anyone easily, or know when someone is trying to manipulate me. Take care.

[@charissastella8920]

How did you come out of the manipulation? But their toxicity affects you? Though I'm far away from them in very irritated by the thought of the.

[@Amitsinghgouria_2002]

@classesMANI same thing did to me by a girl for 3 years...

[@lankankeys8310]

Sometimes we seek profundity in complexity. Her message is so simple and straight to the point, which leaves no room to decipher words, but understand her wisdom. Blessings upon her and all the people her energy affects, each day.

[@asmasheikh5001]

Allah aap ki hifazat farmaye. Ameen keep up with the great work

[@sanjayarora856]

She is a blessing to human kind. Pure bliss. ❤

[@ranupushpargha3977]

I love you....

[@kimberleyshott8970]

❤️❤️❤️🫂

[@ananyachakraborty4665]

According to me, She is a guide for positive culture not for abusive culture. SO do consciously whatever feels good to you. Forgive and Forget practice is great when the abuser takes accountability for their abuses not for the repeatance of their abuses. This affirms them that whatever they do will be considerable! Therefore they gets the confirmation and validation for their victim card playing to their next target and thus it goes on. SO choose wisely where to give your positive aura and where to not because there are energy vampires who will suck all out of u and will still blame you to be a dracula... 😊❤

[@Itsgirlmia]

Yes this is true

[@sowmyasola]

So true I too thought the same.peoplw will simply use it as advantage.

[@SKiTzME]

Agree to this

[@NiNa-jr7fp]

I understand you have been through some difficult relationship and experienced pain. Shivani sister is God sent in my life too. In some video, she explained like, if someone abuses your goodness, in outer world you have to take steps to stop it. Not keep taking abuse because I am spiritual. But within you, we respect them as pure soul and bless them with no negativity for them.. lov to all

[@padmajasalkar2358]

Sister Shivani....the universe sent me this video of yours in the middle of a crisis in my life, to keep my unnecessary needs and desires aside and to have peace back in my life. I have truly blessed to receive so much awareness and knowledge from you 🙏 ❤

[@ravzp]

Use the “POWER to CHOOSE your right way” : The right way is - that will increase my inner strength - that will increase my flexibility - that will allow me to be the master of my mind not dependent on other - that will radiate good vibrations in me and keep me healthy - that will keep me happy always Now choose your right way. If you do not teach yourself the right way over time, you will loose the power the time when things go wrong, when the positive energy is needed must; you lost your power; when you change yourself to the response of ‘the obviously’ negative energies from outside. 🙏🙏

[@jessicahou8340]

I can’t change people! They themselves when they want can change them

[@saundryakaushal]

Seems like all my questions are answered today.. baba always shows me what I need to see when in confusion without even expecting. Om Shanti

[@saradakv]

Giving away the power... you control my mind.. lines that took me years to even know that I was doing this which made me labeled moody. Thanks for making it loud and clear!

[@surindercheema5663]

Blessed to have sister in my generation.Waheguru Satnam 🙏

[@pritidharadasgupta5648]

I am.going thru this job crisis for the past 6 months... Terribly worried to sustain myself... God give me strength to rebound!

[@mythreeshagowda6535]

Forgive and forget them. Next time greet them with a smile with out any expectation.

[@jessye5418]

Very much practical and factual remedies to be broad minded and peaceful in society..... I really like many of your videos. There's a lot of suffering behind to give a courageous remedy to problems.

[@lizbethbautista4781]

Bk Shavani you are getting me through this wave in my life they ask me how can I be so positive and I say because of you!!

[@positiveMindset665]

This is amazing to hear 😊 Good on you.

[@vipulaahuja8042]

So true!!! Thanks, sister Shivani.May God always be with you🙏❤️

[@inspirationalwomandebasree1080]

I dont miss any of your videos didi. Every morning after meditation I listen to your speech and takes strength. I am inculcating slowly the teaching of yours. Om shaanti

[@SenthilKumar-cr3ql]

You are my God. You are giving positive vibrations to me. I am starting to see the positive side in everything. The world is changing good for me. Thank you.

[@Lisa_M_V]

God is within you. The ‘I am’ is God

[@Ansh_8-5l]

Good morning mera baba,Om Shanti mera baba ❤😊

[@mamtabhattacharyya73]

It is a tough proposition. Duty and compliance can be misconstrued as weaknesses. The time when I spoke up or made them aware then sometimes the behaviour changed. So it got me thinking if I had done this earlier I would have enforced changed behaviour long before.

[@avon1413]

Thank you Shivani . This very very important talk, gave me relief from the everyday emotional turmoil I am going through that is being sent to me by my family members who are so pessimistic and stressed out . One of them has everything life has to offer, husband, security , a passport but yet unhappy because she hates the place she is living in . She wants to leave behind her marriage and leave the place that has so far given her security and spoil my peace of mind here where I am currently living. And I am so tensed that she will succeed in this plan and ruin my peace as her nature is very fierce and at times hurtful. And I needed your talk to calm me down and give me options to deal with my situation. Will appreciate if you could do more videos like these 🙏🙏🙏

[@rajashreesharma4067]

Such a precious wisdom didi.if all of us were to follow it,world will be heaven.God bless you.

[@indunrn]

For the past 10 years I conquered some of my weaknesses by following BK Shivaniji and my life is so peaceful now. Yes I agree she is god and I thank her for coming into my life. Om Shanti🙏

[@vdubey-co2eo]

Hi Shivani I have heard your thoughts /videos many times however this one has changed my problem which I was facing since last two year, I tried all m best however one person who was very very imp to me has manipulated and left me like tea bag , I was not able to digest it and was in pain long time but your this Video has given me a light on road and I think I can improve my emotional level and would live normal life . Thanks a lot 😊

[@sidduhiremath2866]

Sister you are right,we can't change people instead of that we should take control of our mind,if we are an emotional person then people will make us weak emotionally, mentally unstable better we should create positive thoughts which make our mind strong and emotionally stable.thank you sister.

[@EvoFox-s1f]

Om shanti sister Shivani always have a ambition to bring like you❤❤❤❤😊😊😊

[@AliceWarnock]

A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him..

[@AliceWarnock]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@Bharti_pal]

It’ll pass. Focus on yourself, stay busy. Love yourself and your existence. Think yourself as a pure soul , start chanting , walking on grass, take solace in spirituality. Cry as much as you can in front your loved ones. Return to your childhood and your life till now. You’ll heal ❤

[@geetbhasin5765]

@@AliceWarnockvisit brahmakumaris nearest centre near you and visit

[@aditiprasad8961]

Dhanyawaad mata jii for bringing BK Shivani in our life.

[@29197404]

they will never change. I tried from last so many years your techniques . after 11 years now I am tired. relation will be ending

[@praveennov]

Gautama transformed Angulimaala through his sheer presence. Atleast according to the Buddhist folklore.

[@ulrikehohn6707]

Fantastic reminder ! Thank you so much 🙏

[@sreeparnabiswas2033]

Om shanti didi!

[@vinodsury]

Every time I listened to Sister Shivan, I feel blessed by God's knowledge. Thanks. Om Shanti 🙏

[@KM-lo1rp]

I wish I came across this video about 2 years back, I could have saved myself from the horrific situation I got myself into all due to being an extremely emotional person. I was in a toxic relationship wherein my partners was gaslighting and guilt-tripping me for two whole years. This experience really made me think at 40 years old, am capable to taking healthy decisions? made question my self worth, and lost my confidence. I had to get therapy and go away for for a few months to fully understand what I was going through and rationally address each obstacle. My journey is still on, somewhere I have lost hope and trust in the simple act of being loved unconditionally. I am still rebuilding my emotional and physical strength and its a hard, tough, teary filled journey.... This video helps a lot. Thank you mam for you words of wisdom...

[@rajasekharvenkataswamy3163]

A great insigt of life to change ourselves to have all the lost things back again.

[@wordsrevealed2784]

Thank you ma'am. What a wonderful phrase " Take charge"

[@StarLightPlanets]

Your Own Mind You Have Power Over, Once You Conquer Your Own Mind , Then One Can Conquer The World.

[@indirakb6163]

Absolutely inspiring message ❤️

[@igobothwaysallidoismakewav5039]

"Keep me happy, always" 🙌🏻

[@RadheyRadhey108]

Shivani Didi a blessing to all the Sanatanis !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️☮️💟💞💕🍀🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸love ❤and light 💡 ❤❤❤❤

[@chandneeramsaroop7101]

Really words of wisdom

[@annapurnasuresh3668]

I have watched almost all videos in English. You are really next to God. He sent you as a guru. Please if anyone translates all your videos in all regional languages it will be a great help in better understanding. Hope it comes soon. Jai Ho didi

[@annapurnasuresh3668]

I'm in Karnataka

[@annapurnasuresh3668]

🙏

[@rashi2044]

Thank you ma'am I needed this so much.

[@neeturaj3317]

Om Shanti sister you are my Real Angel 💓

[@AnilGupta-mn2iz]

It's Global implications of your religiously spiritual discourses which affect one-in-all & all-in-one,alike.❤🎉THX.

[@CS-pk1nr]

Thank you I really enjoyed this lecture. Thank you for you're time .

[@Manraji]

Sister, you encourage me to be a better person with all your wisdom! 🙏 Your guidance is much appreciated!

[@shaguftasheikh5337]

Thank you Sister Shivani jee. Always the best advice to keep yourself free from negativity to keep and stay healthy and wealthy to help others with positivity. Bless you are a LIGHT FOR ALL ROUND THE WORLD. ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@sarat6071]

You are really going deep In to our mind to help.

[@PsychCounselingClinic]

It is appreciated to have this lecture. Please relate it to real stories especially ur personal experiences. I f we face the whole day.

[@Sap25122]

Focus on the solution, radiate power to my family

[@tomicafrance9515]

I love her so much

[@eeman_ali]

Really needed to hear this today! Thankuuu

[@Sap25122]

Giving away power to another, say, you control my mind

[@sharadakshetry5768]

ॐॐॐॐ ओम शान्ति good morning मेरा परंमपिता प्रमात्मा शिव बाबा मे बाबा का बाबा मेरा मिठे मिठे प्यारे प्यारे बाबा शुक्रिया मेरा शिव बाबा नमस्ते नमस्ते 🙏🙏❤️❤️💐💐

[@Tales_with_her]

The angel who really changed my life❤

[@peacockLife]

it is really a breach of trust .. i think those relations will never last too long. have to be careful that in changing ourself we don't change for the worse

[@bkharshn]

Beautiful!

[@kayvanshah994]

Words of wisdom. Can save one from emotional manipulation...

[@MrFelipefelop]

Put this on double speed,you got this,thank you for your point of view 😢

[@hemavathislreddy1725]

Om shanti ❤

[@vijayalakshminagammaubadam5990]

Thank you behan ji I understand that what I should react with the situation in a day I received Thank you baba❤❤❤

[@monikasingh5799]

Heart feel the pain mind forgets

[@TakJhalMishtiMB]

Om Shanti

[@drfouziayasmeen066]

Very beautiful talk

[@SanskritiKumari-hk2ou]

Summary of this video - If people around you whether it's a family member, friends, or whoever they are if they are going through some problem or struggling with stress, anxiety, tension etc and they share their problems with us then we don't have to feel sad instead we have have to stay calm, confindent, stable and with this state of mind we have to provide positive vibrations. So that people who are suffering from the problem will get out of it. That's all for today's session. Thank You Om Shanti 😊

[@neeturaj3317]

Good morning sister om Shanti.

[@Candyhello77]

Use it or lose it Principle. Be kind.Give up the external control. Use yr power, change yr thoughts.. beliefs. Power of the mind is our own

[@kimberleyshott8970]

Thank you THANK YOU for this Gift ❤❤❤

[@MargieNaidoo-s3f]

Absolutely true. What we do quite often is what you've said. So much to learn from this. Thank you❤

[@Janvi1Chand]

God bless u always

[@Fawkes021]

Shree ShantaDurga Vijayate 🕉 🙏🏻

[@aditisheoranc]

Absolutely amazing lessons ..thanks Sister Shivani for these precious nuggets

[@CoudyCanvas]

Yes at times we all go through this! But if once a person manipulated you he will always try that! This is a big red flag! True friends donot hurt. Who could hurt will try multiple times the same things.

[@JyotiShivShakti]

💯Accept how it is. And don't rely on anyone. No you have. Yes you can get.

[@devikakhatri6098]

Ok I get this. But what about when this person is your husband? How long do I need to wait for him to decide he wants to change? Or never change? I am quite capable of managing my emotional state. But why have someone in your life who perhaps will never change or change to benefit himself and then change back to old habits.

[@mitalipatil5931]

You can pray when the person is very near dear to you! Also you should not throw any negativity for that person if we really want that person to change and be patient.

[@silvanastrazzella7533]

Patients is a virtue. I will not give up he is my partner. I understand him I radiate love peace blessings happiness

[@silvanastrazzella7533]

Patients is a virtue. I will not give up he is my partner. I understand him I radiate love peace blessings happiness Soul on a journey. 🙏❤️

[@kumarankit7163]

Exactly... We can not wait for eternity for our partners to change for good. It is a devastating feeling. I can relate to this feeling of helplessness. However, the only choice we have at this moment is to keep our peace of mind no matter what.

[@061renukak.k.c5]

Same problem is here with mee

[@penny6921]

Om Shanti Sis.🙏

[@anamei9923]

Thank you.🙏🏽💖

[@geethpriyasaravanan8460]

Thank you🙏

[@ViraCoutinho]

Thank you so much 🙏

[@maycornelius3101]

100 per cent correct mind is very powerful

[@geddadavijayalakshmi489]

Excellent motivational guidance 🙏

[@doolariesingh2502]

Thank u 🙏🌺

[@shellyedwards2875]

Love you for this ❤

[@rahelkassa9717]

I needed to hear you today. Thank you.

[@parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056]

Great thoughts......

[@jagdeepdalal7103]

❤❤❤❤just love

[@My2centsonhere]

Very beautifully explained ❤thank you!

[@wamanbhide4410]

Due to Artificial intelligence, the situation described here can raise in our life. So, human has to be careful against side effects of AI. and has to keep ourselves strong by minds.

[@Bcbg21]

The problem with being like this, even though it makes sense to be like this is that you become everyone’s agony aunt and everyone comes to you with their problems but then forget about you afterwards. There is no one to fill your cup while you are filling everyone else’s. It becomes very draining and you go into depression. I have suffered this.

[@balwantbarwal1169]

Good morning baba ❤❤❤

[@ushareddy3237]

Thank you BK Shivani

[@subhashshukla5222]

SUPPORTS FROM OUR INNERSELF HELPS THE ONE IN TROUBULENT SCENE BUT NEVER BY OUTER ACTS . SOUL STREMGTHENED BASED SUPPORTS TO ASSIST AND TAKE OUT OF THE TURMOIL CRITICAL STATE AND SCENE . UTMOST USEFUL AND IMMENSE UTILITY IN LIFE IN DAY TODAYS HAPPENINGS AND SCENES OF LIVONG ONE DEARS AND NEARS . KINDEST REGARDS SIS . OM SHANTI.

[@aditiprasad8961]

God bless you maam, thank you🙏

[@JoanneLim-w2t]

Thanks and you too.

[@Sajjadkhan-n2k]

vey nice, good skills of delivering of speeches!!!