Should we break up? My boyfriend got fat and I lost attraction.

[@nonsikelelomoyo]

Darwin looks great🔥🔥 have missed your videos,school and work have been crazy but I think I'll catch up on all your posts soooon!!

[@FantaandDarwin]

Hey!! We missed your thoughtful comments! We started sending you positive vibes when we saw it’s been a while. Wishing you the very best in all your school, work and everything else 🤗 🙏🏾 💪🏾 You got this!

[@SupremeCorine]

Didn't she realize he was unhealthy when they met? They are unevenly yoked.

[@FantaandDarwin]

We agree! Values should be aligned 🎯

[@khalidogilbee1540]

I like how you did this 👍🏾

[@FantaandDarwin]

Appreciate you!! 🥹

[@ez-g3090]

What if it was the other way around?

[@FantaandDarwin]

We think it goes both ways. Communication, being supportive and understanding is always key because life has ups and downs. Be real (and gentle) with yourself and your partner and practice self-love bc it helps us love others even better 🎯

[@theleoperspective7884]

I'm not sure of your ages but as a 45yr old man, I remember when looks was like a 9 for me...as I got older it may be like a 6 on importance level but personality and compatibility has to be a 9...Looks can change at any given moment and if it's an importance level of a 9 that will cause a huge issue... accidents happen all the time that can change the outer appearance...However, the attraction that's beyond the skin is most important...Communication and respect for one another...I think only being 2yrs in she shouldn't waste anymore time. Apparently, this guy is not going to change because he has shown this through his actions...Based off the things she has done to try to help he has pretty much disregarded which is a form of disrespect...Sometimes we have to cut our loses early and at times be a bit selfish if we are seeing others not regarding our thoughts and feelings...Especially, when they are a direct impact on our lives...

[@FantaandDarwin]

Very well said! You made great points. 🎯 What stood out to me was “attraction beyond the skin is most important”. So true and what’s underneath will also reflect in actions