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@carolmutua526610 ай бұрын
I'm so happy to hear that there are other people who told God that the next person I date has to be my spouse and it worked for them cause i'm in that season right now. I told God the same after my last heartbreak and i'm allowing Him to work on all my flaws and weaknesses so I can be ready for a Godly marriage. Been single for 4 years and still patiently waiting.
@mruthgathoni989911 ай бұрын
"With every obedience there is more revelation of the purpose"
@thedarkroomkenya202111 ай бұрын
What a mature, calm and introspective group. Keep up the good work.
@gilbert.mogere11 ай бұрын
I pray God to help me develop like them. They are extremely important and valuable to us
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind sentiments darkroom.
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
@@gilbert.mogere Amen to that!
@carolynemuthoni458011 ай бұрын
Self esteem is an issue for her. There is also trauma that needs to be dealt with. Sometimes people go so that God can work on you before the right person comes.
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@sashaachieng825411 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 this is for Rhemani ... what a cute bond he has with mommy Soila
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Hahahah. Momma's boy.
@isitgodly305911 ай бұрын
I am dating now and I remember my partner telling me...God made Him understand that Purpose comes like the rising of the sun...
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Uuuuff. That's deep!
@eunicemwangi406511 ай бұрын
Deep
@LizzAbade11 ай бұрын
Might consider having a discussion on this last topic. All of you had a lot to say on it but time may have been limited. Kadzo's husband's take on purpose was very profound Thank you for such an insightful installment And Rhemani.. my oh my! Such cuteness. You are highly blessed Soila and Curtis
@muriukialex10 ай бұрын
I'm glad I found this channel. I think Voddie Baucham does a great work explaining what love is, esp. In Marriage
@gracegift799411 ай бұрын
With every obedience, there's a new Revelation 👏❤
@gracemumbi621911 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥! Wow, you did it again! As always Rhemani was the icing on the cake! Looking forward to the next one... I'm reminded of the 4 C's - Commitment, Conviction, Compatibility & Chemistry when "choosing" a life partner. If they pass that threshold, it's easier to work on anything else.
@mercymumtelvin98611 ай бұрын
Loving the wholesome conversations💞💞keep them coming 🙏🏾
@dorahmalemba322811 ай бұрын
Soila you have really spoken to me today. I will not be very specific about what exactly it is that you have helped me through but THANK YOU.
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Dorah. Blessings to you.
@isitgodly305911 ай бұрын
I love love love this conversation...This is one of the best born again couple we are remaining with...Wengine they have a form of godliness but denying it's power .
@gilbert.mogere11 ай бұрын
I second you
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Glory to God. continue to pray for us. It's by grace. 🙂
@NKATHAMEMEnm10 ай бұрын
I just discovered the page and am loving it and having a lot of fun looking forward for more great conversations
@Maweu11 ай бұрын
Here for the consistently wholesome content.. Feedback, keep this going in addition to the great content you're still churning out.. It has a personal touch..
@EngBMashanga11 ай бұрын
With every obedience, there is a new revelation... Embracing some really wise prospects of life from you guys.. Great job, keep them coming..
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thank you Mashanga. Glad you are enjoying the content.
@MyLittleSteps_11 ай бұрын
Yes yes yes! ..... My type of group🎉🎉❤..a dose of good vibes and deep convos👏
@mercyngure275911 ай бұрын
Kindly be dropping this kama doze😂prescribed by the doctor ,,I love it,,,,God bless you and keep you🙌
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Hahahah. Noted. 😂
@shphmn0711 ай бұрын
Yeah, I agree with Soila, it's best to let the men make the first move. The Bible even says, "He who FINDS a wife, FINDS a good thing." The man has to do the finding (and by proxy, the choosing)
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
You can say that again!
@annunziatakinya11 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed these sitdowns!❤🔥
@sistersgossip_mushene9 ай бұрын
I already love the kid. You've taught him love, he is sooo adorable
@annnguyo9609 ай бұрын
This is really amazing guys love your talks and the flow that comes out soo naturally
@indiatsiwilliams79311 ай бұрын
My first time here and am loving it😊
@njerumillicent865710 ай бұрын
I am really in love with these types of session if you can give us more of these with the three of you it so learning i just love the interaction
@mruthgathoni989911 ай бұрын
"Isn't sacrifice Love ? " "A diminished view of Love." " Purpose is a baton to be passed on from generation to generation. " 🔥 The conversations are very eye opening. Thank you guys.
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thanl you for watching Ruth.
@mruthgathoni989911 ай бұрын
Thank you guys for sharing these nuggets of wisdom.
@withnjoki230011 ай бұрын
Wow, I love this❤
@RayzShi11 ай бұрын
This is a great one😊❤❤🎉
@genevieveedwards630310 ай бұрын
I love this kind of talks Very mature
@Arty-hands11 ай бұрын
PLEASE DO MORE OF THIS❤
@At1eno11 ай бұрын
You guys have a lot in similar ❤😂, how you talk and reason together is just amazing💯 ooh, and the in between humor😂❤. This channel is unique 🎉
@taniagaithuma249311 ай бұрын
Good content for some of us that are in the long term journey plans....it's the kid for me God bless you more.
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thank you Tania. Blessings to you too.
@taniagaithuma249311 ай бұрын
@@SoilaandCurtis Asante jus pray we find the right guy y'all look happy irregadless of small challenges I am still young hoping I'm on the right path kindly talk about Christian dating and how to avoid some things Mike toxicity at 20's.
@ivanmusebe516510 ай бұрын
Eddy Waruimbo never knew you a fluent revelational speaker. You have explained love and purpose ver well.
@ivykirera28711 ай бұрын
Love is what will drive you in your purpose. Christ having seen the end endured to the end goal. When you get the end goal of the process of marriage, love will keep you going but not love in the sense of attraction (beauty is fleeting charm is deceptive) love in the sense of long suffering, no envy, no jealousy etc. About purpose before marriage, you will know during the dating stage or that stage before you date (The sampling state that the hurds were talking about.) Ed is right about the identity aspect when you know who you are and wherever you are heading, will inform the purpose that speaks to the relationship will get into otherwise you could end up as part of the statistics of people who split later
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
You can say that again! Well spoken Ivy. Thank you.
@blossom916811 ай бұрын
First time commenting and you guys are awesome❤
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thanks Blossom. Hoping to see more of your comments soon.
@lilywhite802911 ай бұрын
The lady in the green sweater Meen! Her eyes are something weee
@sylavialamunu47699 ай бұрын
I am hearing the things my ears have been waiting for.
@tolbert_ke11 ай бұрын
Hahaaa quality survey got me.
@maureenkoech942711 ай бұрын
Here for the commercial breaks courtesy of Rhemani😊
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Hahaha. He never disappoints.
@monicawanjikumwaura668911 ай бұрын
Hahaha the few ads I would never want to skip
@njokikangasha184010 ай бұрын
This is awesome ❤❤pls bring more .
@winycynthia109411 ай бұрын
I am glad subscribed to your channel today I have learnt a lot and written so much. when it comes to intimacy (how far is too far): 1 the Law of God 2. Don't get close to the fire and expect not to be burned Intimacy is not just about sex, it's also about deep conversations, doing something you both like, like hobbies. Asking in a relationship is very important 1. Ask if holding hands is okay 2. Ask if a kiss on the cheek or forehead is okay a relationship without boundaries is an open field that leads to a battlefield. Boundaries are very important in every relationship.
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Glad you have learned a lot Cynthia. Welcome aboard and feel free to binge.
@elizabethtaabu26211 ай бұрын
Great conversations people
@tabulousdivine795111 ай бұрын
Amazing amazing sharing. Profound and powerful
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Glad you are enjoying the content Tabulous.
@sandrakaranja183810 ай бұрын
Great content..give us more since I'm learning a lot.
@nenkokuailekiyieyio359 ай бұрын
Awesome content. I love. ❤
@monicamwangi312211 ай бұрын
Keep up the whole team doing great work ...
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thank you Monica.
@flourishingflo11 ай бұрын
I have really enjoyed and learnt watching this ❤️
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching Flo.
@Vivian_Otieno11 ай бұрын
Oh Rhemani, isnt he the sweetest and the cutest❤such a sweet boy.
@basemathchepkirui999711 ай бұрын
This👌💯💯
@christinemurugi463410 ай бұрын
Its the end for me "love covers a multitude of sin❤"
@shery5536 ай бұрын
more of these couple trio pliz🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@salaneisoittara134310 ай бұрын
❤❤Amaizing
@joanmugure286411 ай бұрын
Learnt alot awesome couples do more of this😊
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thank you Joan. More coming soon.
@Ashusheme9 ай бұрын
Amazing conversation 👌
@MissyLaurianna11 ай бұрын
Wow the talk is really nice and helpful 🤗
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it Missy.
@rahabkimani258311 ай бұрын
Waiting
@victoriamuriuki631611 ай бұрын
This conversation was epic
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Shukran. ☺
@africanqueenmo10 ай бұрын
Well to be honest I believe women should not sit and wait for their destiny or life partner to be decided by a man . Im more liberal minded and so a woman can show interest in a man first. Thats called flirting or identifying your preference. However once the message has been communicated the lady needs to let the man know she prefers him to take the lead if hes interested in moving forward and ready. This gives women more choice and control over her life. She has a right to also show her interest because she has a heart and a mind too. Some men are very shy and have a hard time approaching a woman even if hes ready or interested. There is no formula. Mutual respect wins the day unless the man is conservative of course. Hey loved the discussion keep it up! 🎉
@simplywairimu455210 ай бұрын
We come from the same school of thought. As a woman you ought to put yourself out and there is actually nothing wrong with showing interest.
@Relaxwithpeter25411 ай бұрын
dated for two weeks, and moved in together, the vibe was vibing😍😍
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
How are you guys doing now?
@PaulineKitoto11 ай бұрын
Rhemani!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@damam294111 ай бұрын
I need more of this
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
More on the way.
@Serah34338 ай бұрын
Kadzo from mother's by grace podcast,,yeeey😂🥰😍🥰
@melanieakinyi899211 ай бұрын
Marriage is about purpose in the context of God's initial intention for the institution...and that is to bring forth a Godly generation/offspring through the institution... marriage is a gift from God to us... incase we need to understand it's purpose we need to understand why it was given to us in the first place..love as the fruit of the Holy Spirit is a tool used to reflect the presence of the Holy Spirit in a relationship..hence the reason why we have to choose daily to Love our partners through the help of the Holy Spirit .
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Yeeeeeesssss!!!
@bryanmwendwa473010 ай бұрын
Super work
@hellenirungu305911 ай бұрын
This is informative
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it.
@paullemayian492810 ай бұрын
Onto the question of purpose vs love, the actual purpose of marriage is Love and submission as prescribed in the Bible. Husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, Wives should submit to the husband. That is simply to embed Godly order in marriage. While as individual there is a purpose God has ordained for and in us, knowing your partner's purpose shouldn't be the basis for the marriage as Love is the basis for marriage and it is unconditional. Knowing your partner's purpose is a PLUS in a relationship as it will help align your conversations, vision, focus and future plans as you put down plan and work to achieve the God given purpose. But Love is the greatest of them All.
@JoyceWaititu-fr4gi11 ай бұрын
I would like to comment on the question whether a girl should ask a man out Honestly I think its a masculine thing and there needs to be balance in the relationship because once you as the lady start giving masculine energy the man will give feminine energy in return and you find yourself always doing those manly thongs in the relationship so let the men do it sis
@mosangwane777711 ай бұрын
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@beverlyrose764610 ай бұрын
Aahh Remani😂😂😂❤
@vickyakinyi77311 ай бұрын
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@jenifferjonah339111 ай бұрын
I'm in my early 23 and i really love watching this couple 🙏🙏🙏🙏 big up
@jomokenyattauniversityjour999211 ай бұрын
Hey Curtis, what does it mean to discern a marriage/relationship and purpose in a relationship.help me understand this please
@Moratage_phyllis11 ай бұрын
This is amazing...kindly nipitie pia plz
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
hahaha.
@PoliticalRaven11 ай бұрын
Ati of course I want to go 😂 😂
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Bosires_fam11 ай бұрын
Premier gang kama kawaida
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Pewa flowers. 😂
@isitgodly305911 ай бұрын
You make Godly marriage look so deep
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
It is. 🙂
@LizzAbade11 ай бұрын
Because it is deep...lol😅
@camillamish209611 ай бұрын
Another one please
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Coming right up. Stay tuned. 😊
@BKibetKiprop11 ай бұрын
Such Content is Lit ... do more
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Thanks Kibet. more coming up.
@TevinMalowa-hc7oj10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Ellena1311 ай бұрын
Ethan and Curtis kinda look alike and Soila and makena look like sisters
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Hahaha. Siblings from another mother.
@Jenesm11 ай бұрын
Have come to love you!
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Much love back at you too Jenes.
@user-ym2zp3lz5t10 ай бұрын
WUEEEEE I HAVE TO HAVE MUM......i see dad in that statement
@mercylinenyairabu328910 ай бұрын
My mind as a nurse when l hear compatibility 😂 genotype
@nimehifadhiwa....186711 ай бұрын
Dating is collecting data.
@mildredochieng630310 ай бұрын
Aki Rhemani
@njerumillicent865710 ай бұрын
Alafu how can one be able to contact you???
@marthaayebare237811 ай бұрын
So you guys dated for 4 years and there was no sex,???
@SoilaandCurtis11 ай бұрын
Yes. Temptations were plenty but we had a good system of accountability to keep us from indulging.
@marthaayebare237811 ай бұрын
I have just watched your abstainance story, it's amazing
@EngBMashanga11 ай бұрын
Amen... So it is very possible..
@salaneisoittara134310 ай бұрын
NO
@MissJackie25411 ай бұрын
@njerumillicent865710 ай бұрын
I am really in love with these types of session if you can give us more of these with the three of you it so learning i just love the interaction